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  • @aprilarlidge2807
    @aprilarlidge28077 жыл бұрын

    Peter is a great husband. He holds her hand and let's her talk and get it out. You can see how much he loves her and how much she loves him. Both of you and your relationship​ are a model for everyone! Stay strong!

  • @dvferyance

    @dvferyance

    5 жыл бұрын

    He really is not everyone is like that he would keep at it and not just say this is too hard I give up.

  • @catherinespark

    @catherinespark

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@dvferyance Punctuation makes all the difference! I read the first bit as "He really is not. Everyone is like that..." And then realised you were saying "He really is. Not everyone is like that..."!

  • @ibelf2465

    @ibelf2465

    5 жыл бұрын

    April Arlidge I’m fairly new here so I am binge watching. I have noticed what an attentive husband he is! They are perfect for each other ❤️

  • @vickyduran8194

    @vickyduran8194

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mary and Peter I like your videos

  • @TheGeekMonster
    @TheGeekMonster5 жыл бұрын

    Peter is so strong for her, just holding her hand, letting her talk, letting her cry. He is her rock, just like his name means. Bless them both

  • @sundaydawn3377
    @sundaydawn33777 жыл бұрын

    Before my daughters kidney surgery we found out my daughters kidney disease was caused by my blood disorder during pregnancy, I sobbed and sobbed and felt the need to apologize for some reason. She was 16 and my daughters perspective was the same as you brave mary. She looked at me with a surprized smile and said "mom, I wouldn't go back and change this life even if I could. This is my body and with out it I wouldn't have the perspective that I have. I'd probably only care about starbucks and fashion like the other girls my age. The lord will give them a chance to get to the place I am someday and I'm grateful he gave me that opportunity already." Perspective from the Lord...priceless. Humbled by your child...priceless. You're an inspiration dear.

  • @macbump

    @macbump

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sunday Dawn AWWWWWW. the ones with the hardest row to hoe are the strongest in many ways... 💜

  • @peachxtaehyung

    @peachxtaehyung

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry!! But yes she has the same feelings. I was born with Spina bifida and my mom always feels bad to give it to me and stuff but this is pretty much exactly what I told her. I wouldn't change my life for anything and it has given me the ability to care about those other than myself especially those in marginalized communities and stuff because I know at least a bit how those who are discriminated against feel

  • @jessicaeverly1320
    @jessicaeverly13207 жыл бұрын

    I had a Lung Transplant March 24th 2016 due to CF and I had lots of complications during and after it, but I'm alive and I'm Thankful everyday for that 💜

  • @Pingaheimer

    @Pingaheimer

    7 жыл бұрын

    awesome, you're beautiful.

  • @elizabethemami5673

    @elizabethemami5673

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jessica Everly how are you doing now?

  • @vanessalee7391

    @vanessalee7391

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bless you.

  • @shellydavis855

    @shellydavis855

    5 жыл бұрын

    How you doing now?

  • @curtisbemis6640

    @curtisbemis6640

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's a blessing I hope I can say one day 🙏🙏 🙏

  • @Swimchick1420
    @Swimchick14207 жыл бұрын

    This is so sad... Peter you are such an attentive and kind husband. Mary is so lucky to have you to support her.

  • @mrssmurf55
    @mrssmurf557 жыл бұрын

    mary I haven't been in a church in 35 yrs but tomorrow I am going to pray for you to plead for the best outcome for you !

  • @butterflyqueen9260

    @butterflyqueen9260

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ann marie White amen

  • @IdaDog1000
    @IdaDog10007 жыл бұрын

    When my younger sister passed she was a donor. I feel like she is still alive in several different bodies. God will guide you thru this. I will pray for you.

  • @Raven4546

    @Raven4546

    6 жыл бұрын

    IdaDog1000 sorry for your loss

  • @nictracks7252
    @nictracks72527 жыл бұрын

    I just wanted to say thank you for being so raw! I am in the hospital with my daughter who had 32 seizures today. We are so devastated and I needed to hear your words of strength and perseverance tonight. sending light and love!

  • @peachxtaehyung

    @peachxtaehyung

    5 жыл бұрын

    NicTracks may i ask whats happened since then? i hope shes ok

  • @klwiedenhoeft
    @klwiedenhoeft7 жыл бұрын

    Oliver is a dog and dogs can sense distress. When Oliver came over (at around 6:00) to comfort *Peter*, it was so sweet that it broke my heart. Peter's distress listening to this shows how much he loves Mary. Stay strong, you two.

  • @kokopuppy57342
    @kokopuppy573427 жыл бұрын

    Yesterday KZread recommended the "my sisters lung transplant story" video. In the middle of the video I felt the overwhelming urge to pause it and pray. And as soon as I began to pray an indescribable wave of peace washed over me. I felt a warm glow rest in my chest. I'm not sure what that means for you but let it be an encouragement that a thousand miles away with no way for me to know what was happening, God was calling for prayers over your life.

  • @kristivella7969
    @kristivella79697 жыл бұрын

    This video broke my heart. I loved how Oliver came to you because he knew you needed him.

  • @ginabell694

    @ginabell694

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love that he was there for both of them💜

  • @oliviahernandez6
    @oliviahernandez67 жыл бұрын

    I think you also need to have a conversation with your sister. If nothing else, she can give you a hug. Sending prayers your way.💗👏

  • @jessicarodman3569
    @jessicarodman35697 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear what you said mary, I cried all day today learning that I need to have my colon removed and when you said "I fully trust Christ AND I cry and that's ok" it was EXACTLY what I needed to hear! praying for you!

  • @keric3673

    @keric3673

    7 жыл бұрын

    The Mom Life praying for peace for you ❤️

  • @christinasmith4269

    @christinasmith4269

    7 жыл бұрын

    The Mom Life, prayers and strength to you!

  • @sneepsnorp1404

    @sneepsnorp1404

    7 жыл бұрын

    Good luck! I hope that after this procedure you can have a year of healing. Don't forget to find strength in yourself as well. I'm 17 and very chronically ill, so I 100 percent understand what it feels like to just make the cards that you have been given work. I hope that things get better for you

  • @jessicarodman3569

    @jessicarodman3569

    7 жыл бұрын

    thank you all so much! ❤

  • @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname

    @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname

    7 жыл бұрын

    The Mom Life stay strong keep your head up u can do it 💖💕🌹

  • @SYRSALLY
    @SYRSALLY7 жыл бұрын

    My heart is breaking for you Mary and for you too Peter. But thank you Mary for mentioning the ones who been there and how hard that is on us. I lost my son the 12th of this month six years ago and we were trying to get him accepted on a transplant list but hospitals kept refusing him because he was overweight. The day after he died he was accepted on a transplant list. Someone is walking around with his beautiful blue eyes because they were donated and I wish I could look into them just one more time. If I hadn't had the Lord in my life I don't think I could have made it through. I will continue to pray for you both and continue watching everyday like I have for the past year or so. Just continue to try to have "Faith and not Fear." Love you sweet kids..... and as always Good Night and God Bless. ❤🙏🏼👍🏻😴

  • @rebeccamoon5766

    @rebeccamoon5766

    7 жыл бұрын

    Pamela Newman I'm so sorry. What a wonderful, giving decision he made, to be a donor for someone else. You must be very proud. Hugs

  • @jessicarodman3569

    @jessicarodman3569

    7 жыл бұрын

    Pamela Newman sending prayers of peace your way....I can't imagine.

  • @natalieh5843

    @natalieh5843

    7 жыл бұрын

    Pamela Newman I'm so sorry for your loss. You are so strong!

  • @buffyoopin913

    @buffyoopin913

    7 жыл бұрын

    Pamela Newman praying for you!

  • @pjmcgovern2277

    @pjmcgovern2277

    7 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss, please take care best you can

  • @deborahmccray9841
    @deborahmccray98417 жыл бұрын

    Mary you are absolutely right, we are all headed toward the grave. We all age and we all age differently. You are truly an inspiration to me and many others I am sure..

  • @hollymolly1624
    @hollymolly16247 жыл бұрын

    Olliv came to you when you were upset. Dogs are the best ❤

  • @ProfessorSassypants

    @ProfessorSassypants

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dogs are the best, ofcourse, Ollie is a service dog, so that’s what some of his training taught him but yeah, definitely - dogs are the best 🙌🏻🙌🏻☺️

  • @spotonmetaldetecting5024
    @spotonmetaldetecting50247 жыл бұрын

    I always say, "From the second we are born, our body dies a little everyday but From the second we except Jesus as our Lord and Savior, our spirit starts living forever. When our flesh ends in this sojourning life here on earth, we as a spiritual being keep living as we belong to Christ Jesus!" I just wanted to share that. ❤ I just love you guys! I cried with you, smiled with you and I praise and trust God for you and your situation. I'm so proud of you and blessed to know you and walk with you on your journey. I will hold you in prayer as we are family in Christ. ☝

  • @katie0698

    @katie0698

    7 жыл бұрын

    SpotOnYourLie Amen!

  • @sheilatrimble4693

    @sheilatrimble4693

    7 жыл бұрын

    SpotOnYourLie I love what you said. Thank you.

  • @MsGetemboi

    @MsGetemboi

    7 жыл бұрын

    Powerful 💛

  • @Tixylixx

    @Tixylixx

    7 жыл бұрын

    I think their faith is really sweet, but I don't think that it is what is important...I think (only MHO though! ) what is important is kindness...kindness and care & consideration of others. Our souls will survive death, I truly believe they have survived many deaths before and will survive many more. Religion isn't neccessary...Im sure if there is a God he/she/it would say...'love each other, not me...I don't need it, but y'all do...The meaning of life is to care for each other with love. that simple. But Mary & Peter are lovely souls regardless. A real love story.

  • @Jerseygirl777

    @Jerseygirl777

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tixylixx This comment isn't important or necessary.

  • @112musician
    @112musician7 жыл бұрын

    It was an honor to be invited to join with you in experiencing the odyssey of emotions you're going through here. I am praying for you, and with you.

  • @thedaletribe
    @thedaletribe7 жыл бұрын

    Such gold is coming out of you. So amazed to watch you walking so well through such hard things. Man, God is really using this in my life. Your mantra "do what you think you can't do" also goes through my mind a lot. I am reminded of the verse where it says "I set before you life and death. Choose life." You are choosing life everyday! So proud of you guys and so inspired!! Thank you for shining light into darkness. Big hugs!!!!

  • @l.bfaith7773

    @l.bfaith7773

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very nice this says it all

  • @rosezehrer4473

    @rosezehrer4473

    3 жыл бұрын

    The Dale Tribe and to Peter and Mary With Cystic Fibrosis witch I have also everything can change in a days time it’s like CF vs. body fight all the time if we have diabetes too it is. CFRD vs. Body bigger challenge then people with nothing besides pills but if we want to other people in our shoes they would fail. Mary write this quote down “ life is like a box of chocolates you never know what your going to get but I am glad I have my life with all of you. Huge hugs

  • @bgmaple47232
    @bgmaple472327 жыл бұрын

    "Do what you think you can't do" helped me so much over the last two days. My parents are elderly and I've needed to do more to take care of them. I have physical limitations that made it very difficult to do, but "do what you think you can't do" became my mantra for those two days. I love you two special people. God bless you both.

  • @mark-nt5pg
    @mark-nt5pg7 жыл бұрын

    We are all here for you, Mary.

  • @catloverKD
    @catloverKD7 жыл бұрын

    I didn't want to say it, but watching Mary decline I kept wondering when this conversation was coming. The only thing I can think to say is that if/when transplant comes, it does NOT mean you failed. Sending hugs and prayers a million your way.

  • @emilygignac5980
    @emilygignac59807 жыл бұрын

    Mary and Peter - what holy names for such holy people. I'm praying for you!

  • @eej1983able

    @eej1983able

    6 жыл бұрын

    Emily Gignac i recently thought of that. Mary and Peter Christ's disciples

  • @lisamarie3309
    @lisamarie33097 жыл бұрын

    I know a man now in his 50s who has CF. Twenty years ago he was literally on his death bed and now he's thriving. That unknown though really must be hard. But you have to have hope.

  • @lisamarie3309

    @lisamarie3309

    7 жыл бұрын

    You're going to be ok. I know I'll include you in my prayers each night.

  • @macyadams9566

    @macyadams9566

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dream Action Success Thank you for this comment. 💜 I have a cousin with CF and it's good to see these kinds of comments. Hearing stories like these gives me hope for Mary and my cousin. 💜

  • @bgilly65

    @bgilly65

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lisa Marie no

  • @KaylaCorrine17

    @KaylaCorrine17

    3 жыл бұрын

    And just look at Mary today -2 years on Trikafta and she’s just thriving! :)

  • @apriltatum5543
    @apriltatum55437 жыл бұрын

    I have no idea how I have gotten so emotionally attached to the two of you through videos but I have. You are in my prayers every night between my children and my sisters kids. I have an order so I don't forget anyone. Your love of God and family and each other is so inspiring to me and everyone who has ever seen your videos. I wish you strength throughout your journey and Gods healing. My youngest walked in and asked why I was crying, I had a hard time explaining but she had no problem understanding ❤❤❤. Prayers going up from Houston.

  • @cardma7356

    @cardma7356

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Ditto. Mary and Peter, your love of God and each other is just so inspiring. And you are in my prayers, also. Thanks for sharing and your wonderful example.

  • @djlawlz4041

    @djlawlz4041

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hi, my name is Kat. My friends name is Kaylene. We're teenage girls who daily vlog our lives with chronic illness, vocational school, and being DJ's. I have fibromyalgia, and many other disorders/diseases and Kaylene has Basal Cell Carcinoma Nevus Syndrome. She's basically made up of tumors growing often and everywhere, and many other complicated health issues. I was wondering if you'd check out our channel? We're trying to build a community on our channel.

  • @kleia8372

    @kleia8372

    7 жыл бұрын

    God has a purpose for every single one of you, and loves you all very, very much, sweet people. God bless you all.

  • @shaneluke346

    @shaneluke346

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Chronically Vlogging I think Mary is SO BRAVE BLESS her

  • @kristisanchez

    @kristisanchez

    6 жыл бұрын

    April Tatum cd

  • @julieg4102
    @julieg41027 жыл бұрын

    My heart hurts for you both. I'm sorry. I mentioned last year that I work at the DMV in Wisconsin and I can't express enough to people to "Please educate yourself on Organ Donation" Please say "YES" on your Drivers License and sign the back of your DL to be an Organ Donor. Mary is just 1 person of thousands of people in need. Prayers to you both.

  • @Lilee177

    @Lilee177

    7 жыл бұрын

    My parents and family are well aware I want to donate my organs, and I am on the donor list and it's on my drivers license. My life has alwyas been about making others happy, and I can't think of anything more rewarding than letting even just one person, if not multiple, live longer when I die.

  • @chaosvixenxoxo

    @chaosvixenxoxo

    7 жыл бұрын

    sign the back of your license? Is that necessary? I'm an organ donor (in California), I have the red dot but I've never heard if signing the back of my license

  • @katymccoy5581

    @katymccoy5581

    7 жыл бұрын

    chaosvixenxoxo I'm in Texas and a donor and I've never heard of that either. mine has my signature on the front though

  • @saram.2938

    @saram.2938

    7 жыл бұрын

    yes I believe there should be more in-depth talks with people getting there license about being an organ donor and how it can save someone's life. or even make pamphlets with info about it for people to consider it.

  • @saram.2938

    @saram.2938

    7 жыл бұрын

    When I first got my license at 16 they asked me if I wanted to be a donor but they don't talk about the benefits of it nor have I ran across info on it. It's just not talked about or publicized enough at least where I'm from

  • @Cabparastschenko
    @Cabparastschenko7 жыл бұрын

    The two of you are such pillars of strength and examples of faithful servants of God!!

  • @mcescher1957
    @mcescher19577 жыл бұрын

    Listen to Casting Crowns "Praise You in This Storm"....this has always strengthened me...

  • @embrayagrace6612
    @embrayagrace66127 жыл бұрын

    I want to give you a whole wide world hug

  • @sallyrod4675
    @sallyrod46757 жыл бұрын

    I have stage IV breast cancer with metastasis to the bone and it's hard every day but what keeps me going is my faith in God and with him everything is possible. Mary, I wish you a happy future through the good and the bad. You have an awesome support system and so many people praying for you. Thank you for showing your emotions and feelings with us. We could all use a little hope. Let's all remember that "There is no diagnosis greater than God".

  • @LeniefromtheNetherlands

    @LeniefromtheNetherlands

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sally Rod praying for you❤️

  • @jaccrazy21

    @jaccrazy21

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sally Rod Praying for you 💕

  • @jeanlee1911

    @jeanlee1911

    7 жыл бұрын

    I will pray for you Sally!. God has a plan and he loves his children. Blessings and healing for you and your family.

  • @ChicagoScientologyAudit

    @ChicagoScientologyAudit

    7 жыл бұрын

    Getting outside myself by praying for, calling, being of service to, another suffering person is the best medicine for my chronic illness. You are a wonderful example of this Sally. I'm praying for you.

  • @drina4706

    @drina4706

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sally Rod May God heal you with his mighty hands. He can cure you. Please Lord please listen to our prayers and heal Sally and heal Mary. And let the world see the power you have!!!

  • @missdonutaltaccount1380
    @missdonutaltaccount13807 ай бұрын

    The love in Peter's eyes for Mary is so strong, like when that song started, she looked at him & started sobbing, & straight away he got up out of his chair & held her hand, & he looked her deep in the eyes, thats true love! ❤

  • @cassie5101
    @cassie51017 жыл бұрын

    I love how much Peter loves you. I love seeing how you look into each others eyes. Y'all are what true love is and should be!!

  • @StefanieRoyMusic
    @StefanieRoyMusic7 жыл бұрын

    I cried so hard with you guys. Watching your journey has helped me remain positive in life despite severe mental illness. I am not a religious person, but your faith brings me extreme comfort. You guys help me to choose joy. Thank you so much.

  • @MrsBear-sv6wo

    @MrsBear-sv6wo

    7 жыл бұрын

    stefanie roy ditto here. im in the same boat. when i watch the frey life i dont even have any mental illness anymore. they make me so happy.

  • @bobbybaldeagle702

    @bobbybaldeagle702

    7 жыл бұрын

    God don't want religious people!!!! God only want those who are willing to have a personal one on one relationship with HIM...

  • @marsharotramel6348
    @marsharotramel63487 жыл бұрын

    Life Lessons from the Freys...tears and joy...you are such a beautiful blessing.

  • @Gargan26
    @Gargan267 жыл бұрын

    I have CF and my FEV1 has been slowly declining; I cried with you today watching this video. I wish the best for you.

  • @KaylaCorrine17

    @KaylaCorrine17

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!!!

  • @fables4564
    @fables45646 жыл бұрын

    Your husband is so supportive! I hope that one day I can find a man whose similar.

  • @annettesh75
    @annettesh757 жыл бұрын

    I too have chronic illness. I understand your fear of the unknown. Blessings to you and many many prayers being sent.

  • @jordanowens4171
    @jordanowens41717 жыл бұрын

    I literally got on KZread today to distract myself from the news I received from my doctor today. or rather the lack of news/answers. I was really struggling and questioning God and wondering how this all fit. He needed me to watch this video today. He needed me to hear your encouragement. So, today Im not choosing fear, Im choosing joy. Whatever happens, happens. Prayers to Mary

  • @missdonutaltaccount1380

    @missdonutaltaccount1380

    7 ай бұрын

    This channel is the best place to go when you get sad news because you learn you're not alone, there are other people with illnesses too, & it makes you think "Oh, I'm worrying about my chest infection, when Mary's here & she has CF, & spleen & liver issues"

  • @Taylor.Wiseman
    @Taylor.Wiseman7 жыл бұрын

    "Let your joy be greater than your grief" 💕 You both are in my prayers.

  • @haleybrooks1405
    @haleybrooks14057 жыл бұрын

    Praying for you guys💕 Phil 4:13 I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me . In 2012 I had a bone marrow transplant and Phil4:13 was put on my heart and I hope and pray everything works out amazing. God has this!!

  • @travismarshallfan8843
    @travismarshallfan88437 жыл бұрын

    I'm balling my eyes out. My FIL is currently in intensive care with bleeding on his brain, and to needed to hear exactly what you had to say. God will always be greater than anything we face. I (obviously) don't know you two personally, but I've been around on your channel since Scotland and you are my brother & sister in Christ. I love you guys and will continue to pray fervently for favor in your lives.

  • @nadinem8720

    @nadinem8720

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ashlyn Marshall -Sending prayers to you! 🙏🏻

  • @jaccrazy21

    @jaccrazy21

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ashlyn Marshall Praying 🙏💕

  • @ThisBubblyJESUSFreak

    @ThisBubblyJESUSFreak

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry. I'm praying that God would heal him and comfort you and your family. Jesus is Emmanuel-- God with us. He is able and with you, friend.

  • @LovelyLoonyLeontine

    @LovelyLoonyLeontine

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ashlyn Marshall my uncle had this, it's incredibly tough. I'm sending you all good thoughts. If you need to talk, I'm here ❤️

  • @megangunther86
    @megangunther867 жыл бұрын

    Its not about the measurement of time from birth to death, its how you live it and if you have made a positive difference in others lives. CF while a not so great thing has helped you touch so many people. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you.

  • @mkcelleri
    @mkcelleri7 жыл бұрын

    Mary, I every day thank God for having found your vlog. I'm not sick. I'm just lonely and getting old and it's quite difficult. You help every single day of my life. Big big hug.

  • @lisamarie3309
    @lisamarie33097 жыл бұрын

    Ollie is so sweet he knew it was a sad moment and he wanted to comfort you. What a great dog!

  • @makennaabfalter1895
    @makennaabfalter18957 жыл бұрын

    Your strength keeps me strong. I had a friend die from CF 3 years ago, when she was 12. Just after her death, I was diagnosed with vasculitis, a chronic disease that can affect every organ. Currently, I have kidney death and eye damage. Treatments and chemo are hard, but watching you helps. So thank you, and I'll pray for you and good labs results!

  • @miezi

    @miezi

    7 жыл бұрын

    Have you ever heard from the "german new medicine"? Your case reminds me of some examples...

  • @KaterinaPetrovaPierc

    @KaterinaPetrovaPierc

    7 жыл бұрын

    Makenna Abfalter I have Vasculitis as well, and got total kidney failure in both of my kidneys because of it.

  • @ronjakh
    @ronjakh7 жыл бұрын

    Peter is so present and supportive and completely there for you in every way, Mary. I am so sorry that you're having such a rough time, but you are so lucky to have him there with you going through this. I am sending you all my best thoughts X

  • @lifeaccordingtoKenz
    @lifeaccordingtoKenz7 жыл бұрын

    I am back in the states now after a wonderful but difficult month abroad. When I was in London, I and several sweet, supportive friends had the opportunity to go to the Hillsong church there where they sang a song called "In Control." It brought me to tears there and has brought me to tears everyday since! You are loved by a Creator who so intricately created you so as to show His glory. It's an honor to "know" you both. Prayers and all the love in the world. ❤

  • @crystalduncan6849
    @crystalduncan68497 жыл бұрын

    I've never seen anything so beautifully honest. thank you for sharing your life.

  • @XK_tyX
    @XK_tyX7 жыл бұрын

    How are you so beautiful and strong, even through tears. Mary, I've said it before, and I will say it again. You are the epitome of strength. The love you share with Peter, and God, is outstanding. Keep on hoping.

  • @XK_tyX

    @XK_tyX

    7 жыл бұрын

    Toooooootally off topic. Your brows are always on fleek. Do you do them yourself? 😂

  • @XK_tyX

    @XK_tyX

    7 жыл бұрын

    do what you think you cant do shirts anyone???

  • @XK_tyX

    @XK_tyX

    7 жыл бұрын

    Peter saying "Peterrrrrrrr" 😂😂 No panty haul??? 😂😂😂

  • @XK_tyX

    @XK_tyX

    7 жыл бұрын

    Oh no. No panty success. :(

  • @katie0698
    @katie06987 жыл бұрын

    I love you Mary! I had a transplant last May after waiting for a year. Even though I was waiting, I didn't feel like I needed one. My doctor kept telling me I truly did though. Even when I got the call, I told my mom that it wasn't time yet. It was very hard, very traumatic but God is faithful. He would have been good if I wouldn't be here today. The process is hard, but God is bigger than the process.

  • @lynnrose7562
    @lynnrose75624 жыл бұрын

    One thing you are not Mary Frey, is a baby. I am watching this in May of 2020. If only I could go back to this day in 2017 and tell you that your quality of life would change, I would do so in a minute. God bless you Mary! Peter, you are just a wonderful man. :)

  • @theresamichelle7144
    @theresamichelle71447 жыл бұрын

    My heart goes out to you Mary, I am praying for you and your family. Remember the Lord will never give you more than you can handle. Keep the fight going .

  • @doggie15rat
    @doggie15rat7 жыл бұрын

    I'm at a loss for words aside from that my love is with you and that my prayers are with you.

  • @Daynamyte
    @Daynamyte7 жыл бұрын

    Oh new kind of grief! I never thought I would come to feel close to someone on KZread. Watching you daily for such a long time, ridiculously my husband and I have grown to love you (Mary, Peter, & Ollie). It hurts to hear the new twist in your journey. Yet the reason your vlog caught my interest was Mary's smile. Ollie is adorable and Peter is so solid and steady, there, and kind. His smile adds to yours. He lends balance. My heart hurts for you but my spirit is enlarged. Keep your courage and thank you for letting us in.

  • @scribbleseverywhere1805
    @scribbleseverywhere18057 жыл бұрын

    Peter, when I saw you cry I broke down as well. Mary, I'm so sorry to see you going through this. :(

  • @UKZoe
    @UKZoe7 жыл бұрын

    Mary, I only recently discovered your videos, and so am only just watching this video 6 months later. You are giving me such encouragement. My son is 22 and has a different condition, but a chronic one with an uncertain future, and as a Christian I hear so much about "God healing" and when it doesn't happen there is this broken hearted thing that happens, and it is so good to hear someone who has accepted the truth of their health position and yet still maintains a true trust in God. Thank you for encouraging me today.

  • @RichBoden
    @RichBoden7 жыл бұрын

    Think of it as a safety net they want to put in place "just in case" whilst they keep trying - it may not be necessary yet but good to start the ball rolling given how long these things take. I've been in discussions about moving to a wheelchair in the last 6 months and similar fear of the unknown and it feeling finite - but a friend who did the same change 10 years back said it was really a lifeline for her so I have very mixed emotions, but she said it gave her freedom and, in time, opened her life up a lot. I guess there could be parallels with your situation.

  • @RichBoden

    @RichBoden

    7 жыл бұрын

    PS: I very much admire and respect the immediacy, openness and rawness of this video and that you were willing to share it - it will help others even just being able to watch it - even for people who don't have CF. I don't share your faith but I again, very much respect it and admire your tenacity and strength as a couple in living (what appears from the 30 mins of your life a day I share) a very happy, positive and giving life.

  • @djlawlz4041

    @djlawlz4041

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hi, my name is Kat. My friends name is Kaylene. We're teenage girls who daily vlog our lives with chronic illness, vocational school, and being DJ's. I have fibromyalgia, and many other disorders/diseases and Kaylene has Basal Cell Carcinoma Nevus Syndrome. She's basically made up of tumors growing often and everywhere, and many other complicated health issues. I was wondering if you'd check out our channel? We're trying to build a community on our channel.

  • @Kendi-mm7hk
    @Kendi-mm7hk7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your raw take on this, Freys. I had a really rough month with CF, and like Mary, I am usually a pretty positive and upbeat person, but this last hospital stay shook me to my core. I felt like things were going from bad to worse and no one could fix it. It hurt me to even think about God because of how upset I was. Your faith in even the hardest things is so inspiring, and thank you for reminding me that it is okay to cry! Love you guys!!

  • @FlyBallML10e
    @FlyBallML10e7 жыл бұрын

    The way the Peter looks at Mary is just incredible, true love. Thinking of both of you.

  • @tszariza
    @tszariza7 жыл бұрын

    I've been watching the Frey Life for a long time, it's like being part of the family. I always say 'As always, we will see you tomorrow' along with the video. I'm not a religious person, but love the positive outlook you both have. My mother past away in ICU waiting for a liver transplant. It was difficult process but as you said Mary, we're all getting closer and closer to the grave. She had 60 years of life, whereas kids with terminal illnesses pass away every day without being able to experience much of life, so I am thankful to have had the time I did with her. I hope everything goes well with your transplant journey, I'm thinking of you all. Lots of love to you, Peter and Ollie Boy, xxx.

  • @rebeccamoon5766
    @rebeccamoon57667 жыл бұрын

    Your mom and dad must be so, so proud of you. If my daughter grows up to have one-tenth of your strength and character, it would be the greatest joy I can imagine. Thank you both for sharing this; it mustn't have been easy to pick up a camera so soon after that conversation. Thank you for ministering to us every day. It's an honour to come along on your journey. ❤💛💚💙💜

  • @donnapenn9284
    @donnapenn92847 жыл бұрын

    The exercise and yoga you are doing may not improve your numbers but is good for your body and will help you with whatever challenges are coming.

  • @ecologist_to_be

    @ecologist_to_be

    7 жыл бұрын

    Donna Penn When on transplant list you are made to do exercise and gain weight and all sorts as this makes a transplant more likely to be successful. Very difficult

  • @MsTinkerbelle87

    @MsTinkerbelle87

    7 жыл бұрын

    Donna Penn and it does great on the mind too!!!

  • @DeerheartStudioArts
    @DeerheartStudioArts7 жыл бұрын

    I am holding your hand too. I have a friend who got his transplant in "the 11th hour" and is doing well 5 years on. I am so glad that God gives you comfort. loving you guys.❤️

  • @riahluxx8311
    @riahluxx83117 жыл бұрын

    You two, as a marriage. Are a prime example as to what God wants in a faith based marriage. It's not about the joy and all the fun you have in a relationship. It is the trials and struggles, the obstacles that arise in your life. It's the worst days, the tears, the moments when the devil is beating you down. It's those moments that God has prepared you for to rise from these situations as a Godly couple. To grow and learn that without God you are nothing. To strive for that relationship with him. That your relationship not only together but with Christ grows as well. By putting your lives out here for the world to see, you are showing us how powerful the Lord is. What he is capable of. How with him in our lives we can conquer anything this world throws at us. You two have a an unselfish love that does not waiver, just as he has loved us. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for doing Gods work. Thank you for living your life.

  • @allisonledford2321
    @allisonledford23217 жыл бұрын

    As everyone else I cried a lot. I had an amputation nearly a year ago and I fully trusted God in that moment. And I cry too, but I still trust.

  • @djlawlz4041
    @djlawlz40415 жыл бұрын

    Psalm 138: 3 - In the day when I cried, thou answeredst me, and strengthenedst me with strength in my soul.

  • @dxshnn1
    @dxshnn17 жыл бұрын

    I've never commented on a video before, but HALLELUJAH, GOD IS USING YOU AND PETER IN WAYS YOU DON'T EVEN REALIZE!!! I'm a nurse and have been watching your vlog for few months now. in that time I have gotten a foster baby who was 8 months old at the time. You have helped me so much! I can only imagine the crown's you are going to receive when you get to Heaven! Thanks for your witness to the world! thanks for lifting my spirits daily! And by the way, Brayla, my foster baby loved the original music. she would run to TV and dance and look for Ollie. So I have to go back to old vlogs to let her listen to her favorite music!!! Love y'all so so much!!!!

  • @MsRespect247
    @MsRespect2477 жыл бұрын

    Oh mary ! I'm sorry to hear the information but I so proud of you for trying to still fine hope, encouragement, and faith in the Lord to stay as uplifted as you can. I'm praying for you and hoping you have the best treatment come to you!! I love that song!!

  • @MsRespect247

    @MsRespect247

    7 жыл бұрын

    chronic health can make you fight strong then ever! and let joy come great than grief, is so true to remember!

  • @TraciHilbers

    @TraciHilbers

    7 жыл бұрын

    MsRespect247 Yes it is hard to have a chronic disease,i have MS...i take one day at a time and my kids keep me going...i just try and stay positive

  • @MsRespect247

    @MsRespect247

    7 жыл бұрын

    traci hilbers those kids can help you so much to look forward at something other than chronic health! as I don't have kids, I have a six toed cat that helps me get through the days I'm fighting. I have Ehlers-Danlos syndrome with tethered cord, scoliosis, and chairi malformation. my eds comes with chronic daily dislocations and subluxations. and chronic pain is my 24/7. Mary is such a strong gal! when I watch her videos, some of her encouragement and fighting skills rub off on me. everyone with chronic health is a survivor if not a warrior! stay strong and hope your day was good if not ok and there's days that just don't go as planned. sending gentle hugs and support prayers your way

  • @TraciHilbers

    @TraciHilbers

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sooo much for those kind words...i hope you have a good day,i will keep u in my thoughts and prayers

  • @gloopyglorpy
    @gloopyglorpy7 жыл бұрын

    Personally I lost faith in god so long ago but you guys have brought it back to me. Mary I am praying so hard for you. I see so so much good in you and that cannot go to waste. You're a fighter. I hope you get better very very soon no matter what you have to do.

  • @wurmtms1
    @wurmtms17 жыл бұрын

    I am nearing the end of the previous vlogs, and came to this one tonight. Mary, you are loved, you are prayed for, and I am so thankful to have found you two. I have type 1 diabetes. It is a source of fear and and guilt that my family has to deal with me on my bad days. Seeing Peter's love for Mary and how much it hurts Peter when Mary hurts, reminds me of how my own husband loves me and all does for me. Thank you for opening up your lives to us, and making this whole viewing audience part of your family. Many prayers and much love for y'all.

  • @jenniferwillis8632
    @jenniferwillis86327 жыл бұрын

    Mary, I cried with you, please know you are very much loved, I'm a cancer survivor, and watching you and Peter each day has got me through many a rough day, you are very special and so cry all you need, every one of your Subscribers are right there with you.

  • @indigosky9578
    @indigosky95787 жыл бұрын

    You are such brave, beautiful people. I'm so thankful you have Jesus on board for your journey. Bless you both. ((HUGS))

  • @toryannasJMW
    @toryannasJMW7 жыл бұрын

    I have pulmonary hypertension and totally understand how it feels to see yourself getting worse and your numbers get worse. It is terrifying. In an odd way I sort of look forward to a double lung and heart transplant, granted that's a ways away for me. I know I will have a 50/50 shot of making it through when it happens but a chance to live a 'normal' life and be able to breathe would be amazing. Have faith and hope.

  • @abbytymn216

    @abbytymn216

    7 жыл бұрын

    toryannasJMW I'll be praying for you!!! Keep your eyes on God and He will carry you through!!!

  • @djlawlz4041

    @djlawlz4041

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hi, my name is Kat. My friends name is Kaylene. We're teenage girls who daily vlog our lives with chronic illness, vocational school, and being DJ's. I have fibromyalgia, and many other disorders/diseases and Kaylene has Basal Cell Carcinoma Nevus Syndrome. She's basically made up of tumors growing often and everywhere, and many other complicated health issues. I was wondering if you'd check out our channel? We're trying to build a community on our channel.

  • @elizabethemami5673

    @elizabethemami5673

    7 жыл бұрын

    toryannasJMW Join the Facebook group "Transplant Survivors" thousands on people in your position before and after

  • @cynthiabromback8854
    @cynthiabromback88547 жыл бұрын

    I've been watching and listening intently and suddenly realize I need a tissue..Mary you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

  • @tashapurvis6692
    @tashapurvis66927 жыл бұрын

    Mary and Peter, Your faith is so encouraging to me! Prayers for you and your journey!

  • @Karenm1969
    @Karenm19697 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong sweet Frey family....positive thoughts heading your way !!!

  • @Raenelly7
    @Raenelly77 жыл бұрын

    We all love you Mary and we all want you to have the best quality of life possible. You mentioned your conversation with your friend, what if, the fact that when you aren't coughing your body feels good, this is the best time for a transplant. Your body feels good when you aren't coughing because you take great care of yourself and it's strong. You are strong. Having a transplant while strong will make it that much "easier" on your body during surgery and recovery. I am in MA and my friend whose father is a respiratory specialist and has CF patients had an organ transplant. She took great care of herself in spite of being so sick. Her recovery went amazing. I know everybody is different but we need to keep thinking of positives. You will get through this and you have so many who know you personally and those of us who don't who love you and are praying hard for you❤ I know this can't be easy, I remember how it was for my friend when it finally came down to transplant for her. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you. We will get through this together. We will be your spoons❤

  • @lisaemason
    @lisaemason7 жыл бұрын

    I just watched this. It brought back all the emotions of when I sat in a conference room with a doctor who told me I had stage 3 cancer. I prayed for you all through this video that God will keep His presence known to you through all of this time.

  • @Melmaegwen
    @Melmaegwen6 жыл бұрын

    I admire and love so much the bond you two have and the devotion you have for each other, always together and honest. You both are a great inspiration!

  • @carolinecardwell2163
    @carolinecardwell21637 жыл бұрын

    "Teach us to number days, that we gain a heart of wisdom" Psalm 90:12

  • @Judymontel
    @Judymontel7 жыл бұрын

    thanks for shining your light on all of our lives, dears.

  • @bubblybernice4863
    @bubblybernice48637 жыл бұрын

    I'm a born-again Christian as well. And you have such amazing faith as I do. I will be praying for God's will in your life. May God Bless the both of you.

  • @ChicagoScientologyAudit
    @ChicagoScientologyAudit7 жыл бұрын

    U2 ' s song, 40, is one of my favorite encouragement songs "i waited patiently for the Lord..." Happens to be my favorite Psalm, too. Thank God transplantation is an option, that families rise above their grief & make a selfless decision for a stranger they may never meet.

  • @rachelfiddler4886
    @rachelfiddler48867 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting this, thank you for sharing your faith in Christ, and thank you for not turning the camera off at the most difficult times. Your videos have made a huge impact on me. Thank you

  • @xladysybilx
    @xladysybilx7 жыл бұрын

    I'm watching this video in bed struggling to get out due to my depression but you being so positive when things are tough gives me the strength to get up and live my day. Thank you and well done, you are so strong an amazing! ❤️

  • @nieuwworld2799
    @nieuwworld27997 жыл бұрын

    I sat here in tears listening to your testimony of Christ and your challenge in life. I needed to hear this today. Thank you so much for putting yourself out their and letting the light of Christ shine through you. You are a blessing to all. My God be with you always

  • @laurie8617
    @laurie86177 жыл бұрын

    Your love for one another is awe inspiring. Pure, genuine love. I'm crying along with you. Stay brave Mary & Peter. So many prayers are coming your way 💕

  • @jeanlynam8115
    @jeanlynam81157 жыл бұрын

    I always wondered if you were on an inactivated lung transplant list, now this explains it. Whenever there is a "worst case scenario" talk it is stressful and scary. Even when you believe in God's will, you can still feel what you feel. It's okay to feel what you feel, because that is how humans feel. I believe that God's will is better than anything that we could ever imagine or wish for. Keep up your faith.

  • @2xduranfan
    @2xduranfan7 жыл бұрын

    Big hugs Mary. I had a feeling, with a hard as this last spell has been, that this was coming. As someone with chronic health problems, I live by the phrase, "Hope for the best but plan for the worst." I'm better prepared for the bad that way, I guess. I'm in a position where I'm hitting one of those health battles now. I allow myself to be vulnerable and cry on occasion, but then I push forward. It's all I can do. Providing you're transplant eligible, just imagine what it can be. The things you'll be able to do! I watched a 5yr old family friend go through the difficulty of a heart transplant. He waited a long time, but seeing him pink for the first time in his life, was such an amazing sight. They had a hard time keeping him down, even at a day out. Keep positive. At times it's a challenge, but we're up for it!We are only human.

  • @ChristiBovee
    @ChristiBovee7 жыл бұрын

    Mary and Peter, we are praying for you and believing for your total healing and for peace and wisdom. We have grown to love you and so appreciate your candor and willingness to share your journey via these videos. Blessings.

  • @carolinehonse35
    @carolinehonse356 жыл бұрын

    One of your older videos popped up today and as an avid subscriber for years I didn't think it would knock my socks off the way it did. It was so meaningful to listen to you discussing the possibility of a lung transplant and how it would impact your life and how your faith made the brokenness bearable and also filled with joy as much as it might be filled with grief. I also didn't know how very much I needed to hear the lyrics of "Set My Heart." What an amazing lifegiving song it is.

  • @christywright5439
    @christywright54397 жыл бұрын

    'When you walk through fire, you will not be burned; neither shall the flame be kindled against you'. Isaiah 43v2

  • @dottieburton5501
    @dottieburton55017 жыл бұрын

    not how long you live but how you live what life God has given each of us and you and Peter have shown nothing but love for each other and also for others you are both a teacher of love for one another and how to look for the joy in anything that is right or wrong in your life you have taught me plenty and i am older way older so thank you and YOU both are a blessing from God

  • @radiantstar
    @radiantstar7 жыл бұрын

    I'll be praying for wherever this journey brings you!

  • @kimberlyb.6988
    @kimberlyb.69887 жыл бұрын

    Mary, you are, without a doubt, the bravest person I know (through KZread, of course). Please keep it in your heart the love and prayers of the people who care about you.

  • @julielandeck2244
    @julielandeck22447 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness this was an intensely raw emotional video. Girl you have no idea how hard it was to hold the tears back for you while watching. I know you have so many praying for you and supporting the both of you in this journey. The Lord will see fit to what your path shall be. He only knows what is to come, he is good and will do what was intended for you and peter. It's very clear it was intentional he put the two of you together. Soft hugs for mary. Things will be ok either way Mary Our Lord always has you in his hands and he will carry you and give you strength. Love to you all and ollie of course.

  • @michaelaboshears6042
    @michaelaboshears60427 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this with the world. It takes courage to put something this personal out for the world to see and I wanted to say you guys are amazing!

  • @Kez_abi
    @Kez_abi7 жыл бұрын

    I will never forget what you just said Mary "do what you think you can't do". Love you guys lots xxx

  • @ambertwebb
    @ambertwebb7 жыл бұрын

    Praying for you, Mary. Thank you for being so candid. I loved what you said and I'm so thankful to have found your channel when my daughter was first diagnosed. You are a huge blessing to this Mama. ❤

  • @keric3673
    @keric36737 жыл бұрын

    Not finished the video yet but right as Ollie came up to you, my dog looked at my phone and gave me his 'is everything okay, mama' look. Dogs are amazing. I know it's not transplant, but I went through a time when I did everything possible for my spine and I remember having that 'this is where we're at' conversation about spine surgery. I cried so much. I wasn't in a good place with God at the time. I was angry at God at the time. I'm curious what your church services are like? Is it just Peter preaching for a bit and that's it? I'm Catholic so I'm used to the same ritual each week. I'm at a point now where I am trying every day to chose joy with God. Trying. Not always succeeding. You're both such a testimony to God's love and sovereignty and trusting in Him. A priest once told me 'it's okay to yell and cry to God, He already knows you want to and He understands why because He's with you on this journey and through the fog' (I was telling the priest how I felt like I was in a fog and God was on the outside of it and I couldn't reach Him). This is getting super long and I'm sorry about that, just wanted to give you as much encouragement as I can through typing. I'm praying you both through this journey.

  • @christettec3045

    @christettec3045

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ollie is amazing, isn't he? what a gift he is.

  • @strawberrykisses4113

    @strawberrykisses4113

    7 жыл бұрын

    Christette C Peter & Ollie are both Gifts! 🙂

  • @123dietdrpepper

    @123dietdrpepper

    7 жыл бұрын

    If u ever want to chat please write me as I am here for u and anyone else who needs support. I have had 9 spine surgeries due to birth defects then a medical tragedy.....my spinal cord was injured while placing a spinal stimulator.

  • @tracywankum5082

    @tracywankum5082

    7 жыл бұрын

    123dietdrpepper i need to talk i have many medical issues i mean alot Facebook is tracy wankum look me up

  • @enigmaticdolphin2155

    @enigmaticdolphin2155

    7 жыл бұрын

    I have a mass in my spine after a spinal bleed in 2011. I am not eligible for surgery due to the risk of further bleeding. It is tough because I'm the only known case quite like this. The closest diagnosis is Spinal Epidural Hematoma, but mine is more of a hemorrhage than a hematoma.