I love how honest she was. She didn’t play it up for the camera. Love you Abby!

@freedom4063

Жыл бұрын

Can I ask what's wrong with people to use condom. I mean the man. It's safer no pregnancy. Im just asking Thankyou

@bidenstillsucks2249

Жыл бұрын

​@@freedom4063 what you call a mistake I call a miracle, I was told I couldn't have children.

@Amber-kc1gt

Жыл бұрын

@@freedom4063 A lot of people just genuinely don't enjoy using condoms, both men and women. It's effective, but it's a different experience. To each their own.

@countrymom2023

Жыл бұрын

@SaMatt2009 I absolutely agree with you

@freedom4063

Жыл бұрын

@@Amber-kc1gt okay. Because birth control pill ain't safe and effective . some woman got preggo still. Ok thanks for your answer. I just thought condoms are better option

Matt is SO supportive and every feeling you have Abby, is completely valid! Congratulations!!

@kmruiz79

Жыл бұрын

You are so strong ❤

@MariaCenturia777

Жыл бұрын

Because he was born to be father! It makes me so happy that men like this exist 💖

Never seen a couple this good, modest and respectful. Both of them are so damn good

Me and my husband found out we were pregnant with my second at 4 months pp! Complete shock! We struggled with infertility with our first, I never thought I could get pregnant so easy the second time. I now have a 3yr old and a 2yr old. They are the best of friends! I will admit in the beginning...it was extremely hard to adjust to having a 1yr old and a newborn. It does get better though. And when you see your babies playing together and being inseparable you will realize how great it is to have them so close together! You guys got this ❤

@leliavoinea7253

Жыл бұрын

It sounds like you had a rough journey with infertility struggle and then taking care of two little kids. It takes a brave woman to fight such battles. Honestly I don't think I could do something like this ever! Glad you are happy!

@shananeufeld2093

Жыл бұрын

Aww!! We have two girls who are 14 months apart, ages 16 months and 2.5 and it’s so sweet. So so busy but so sweet seeing them start to play together! I love hearing people talk about having a similar gap and them being best friends.

@raethoroughman9685

Жыл бұрын

@@leliavoinea7253 thank you so much for your kind words! ☺ it was a very rough journey at first. But now I couldn't imagine not having my little boys around! It was definitely worth it having them so.close together ❤

@unapologeticallyromel7096

Жыл бұрын

Amazing story God bless

@rachellight4691

Жыл бұрын

Exactly what happened with us! I loved how they were so close to each other!

My mum never referred to me and my brothers as "accidents". We were always "surprises" ❤

@donutpower214-ev7cb

Жыл бұрын

That's so kind of her!

@amy9145

Жыл бұрын

Yes, God gave her a child and chose her among the thousands of people who are in pain to get one. You should say thank God. If I were that kid and grew up to see this reaction from the person who should be the happiest. I will feel that I was not born loved for the rest of my life. what a hurt .

@georgiamathews9901

Жыл бұрын

There's a great Australian drama series about a girl who didn't know she was pregnant. It's called bump. And in it the baby's nickname is 'sorpresa' which is spanish for surprise. I think it's so sweet.

@MrClawson99

Жыл бұрын

My parents said that i was a good accident😂

@sammyjane870

11 ай бұрын

facs 😂

We love you guys!! ❤ excited for this baby 🎉 you’re the best parents!

@saichiranjeevi3868

Жыл бұрын

You guys are stars I love how supportive yall are! You guys are amazing friends 😍

@Flutetastic.

Жыл бұрын

Love you guys, your time will come soon x

@amityhart1429

Жыл бұрын

you two are some of the most humble and empathetic people I've seen on here, and the support you show to anyone that may need it is amazing to see. God bless with your continued efforts to have your special little baby.

@jennifergillis297

Жыл бұрын

Hi

@allaroundshelby8227

Жыл бұрын

You guys are great friends 😊

Unplanned doesn't mean unwanted.

@dianenotch2471

24 күн бұрын

Absolutely ❤❤❤❤

Not a lot of people put up the real reactions to such things unless they are really happy about it in that moment. But it was so different and refreshing to see you guys, especially Abby go through the whole series of real emotions. Each thing she mentioned was a thing to be actually worried about. And hatts off to Matt! He really handled the whole thing well. Like a real support system. I didn't find this to be fabricated or acted out at any point. Congratulations you guys! It's a big deal to be handling all of this and then being honest about it on social media platforms. Much love ♥️

@ShockResistor

8 ай бұрын

It's ok to be honest if you aren't thrilled but not ok to post it for the world to see, and not to mention for that child to see some day. Not cool.

@user-ju9pd3pi5h

5 ай бұрын

@@ShockResistor i think thats a matter of personal opinion. I think it's perfectly fine to have this reaction, share it for other people and I think it's perfectly fine for the child to see/know that at an older age. I'm from a teen pregnancy and always always knew that when I was announced it wasn't easy on my mom, my firstborn will probably learn someday from his father who had been abusing me emotionally at the time that, though I was ecstatic and absolutely in love with him immediately, he was not and was very cruel about the pregnancy. It's just the reality of some pregnancies, and being transparent about feelings instead of lying to your kids really pays off and goes a long way and doesn't set up false expectations for them.

I think it’s really special that you shared your real reaction: not an edited processed one : it’s fully normal and ok to feel mixed feelings : be worried and unsure but also excited

@heidi9731

Жыл бұрын

I AGREE! This happened to me with my 4th and 5th children (I've come to believe that my birth control quit working for me) and I scoured you tube looking for raw footage of some one like this in the same shoes. These were my exact feelings and I cried heavy tears for weeks after. Not because I didn't love children or want them but because I was so overwhelmed with going through pregnancy again and having a newborn. It's no small deal.❤

@MattandAbby

Жыл бұрын

We're hoping that this video can provide hope to other scared parents out there. It took a couple weeks for us to process everything, but now we couldn't be more excited to have two kids so close in age. They're going to be the best of friends

@beccac6812

Жыл бұрын

@@MattandAbby I love that !!!

@countrymom2023

Жыл бұрын

@@MattandAbby absolutely agree with you and congratulations

@trustingthelord

Жыл бұрын

@@MattandAbby Mine are all close in age and I wouldn’t want it any other way.

I freaking love how calm and comforting Matt was, that's how all people should treat their loved ones.

@valen_0918

Жыл бұрын

Que gran esposo tienes 🥰

Matt being so so supportive when Abby was so vulnerable made me weep a little. Lots of love to you all!

When she asked “Matt are you happy?”just my eyes instantly water…🥺❤

Abby: *says emotionally... "Matt, are you happy? Matt: *says reassuringly... "Yes! Of course!" Y'all are so cute!! 🥹😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

I love the raw feelings Abby was showing and how incredibly sweet Matt is with her. His “We Love Babies “ just melted my heart.

@isabelamogosanu7777

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that's why he didn't wanna wear a condom because it didn't feel good enough! I mean hey you love babies when you aren't the one who has to grow them!

@gaylemarie94

Жыл бұрын

@@isabelamogosanu7777 what is with the negativity…

@isabelamogosanu7777

Жыл бұрын

@@gaylemarie94 i speak the truth

@thedargonslayer6059

Жыл бұрын

It’s unsafe for her to be pregnant again so soon after hear birth. She recently had a hernia surgery, and her doctor told her not to get pregnant for a while because she needed to recover. She is putting a huge amount of strain on her body. This isn’t cute, this is concerning. She needed time to heal, and her husband should’ve taken the necessary steps to ensure that she didn’t get pregnant again.

@stayathomemarine

Жыл бұрын

Or Abby could have said no? It's not like she was raped. Women need to be held accountable as well.

the fact that she records it completely proves, regardless of her emotions in the moment, that she was still deeply happy about this second baby! congratulations guys, it may not be what you expected but it’ll still be amazing!

@MizzRos1

Жыл бұрын

Or it's for views and the check lol

@Mahi-nw5vh

Жыл бұрын

Fact that she records it shows how depraved influencers are

@Vacasup2740

11 ай бұрын

@@MizzRos1 agree! who records such intimate moments. Like nothing is precious any more with all these influencers putting out everything on the internet.

Aww, Matt's reaction reminds me of my hubby when we found out I was pregnant 11 years after our 2nd kid. Huge shock for me, I cried as we were not trying to get pregnant. But he told me, "It's ok, it'll be ok. I'll take of you." ❤ His excitement did make it much easier. Our suprise baby is 2.5 now and we can't imagine life without him.

This video perfectly demonstrates a super healthy and one-of-a-kind relationship - this is such hard stuff and in the face of uncertainty, fear, and intense shock, you loved, supported, and comforted each other!! You guys are creating a lovely family for your kids to grow up in and that's all that matters!! Love you, Howard fam!

@meganmckissick2281

Жыл бұрын

This demonstrates 2 people deliberately having another baby to make more money by exploiting their children! One is not enough "likes" & "subscribes" so producing another kid may help their social media ratings!? DISGUSTING ACTING & MOTIVES!

I am a single mom here! I am doing it all alone. I am 24 years old. I have 2 under 2 I felt the same way you did when you found out! yes it is hard and scary. However I love it so much! I can’t wait to see them grow up together. My girls are 18 months apart. Just know you guys are amazing parents and I can’t wait to see your journey with two Little’s! You got this!! I love how supportive you are of each other!! You guys are seriously one of my favorite KZread families to watch and I love your content!! If you need a nanny/birth doula I’d love to help you guys!! Love you Matt&Abby❤️❤️❤️

@karinafifita24

Жыл бұрын

@Shakambhari Sinha thank you so much! Yes it sure has been. My family isn’t all that supportive. They help but only when I ask or they see I need it. But at the end of the day I love being a mom.

@kristenkaz3080

Жыл бұрын

Hang in there!! You got this momma!!!!

@karinafifita24

Жыл бұрын

@@kristenkaz3080 thank you!!❤️

@Kotik-zp5tx

Жыл бұрын

Your such an inspiration! You got this mama 😊

@karinafifita24

Жыл бұрын

@@Kotik-zp5tx thank you ❤️🙏🏾

Matt saying “it sucks that there isn’t like, an IUD for men” actually melted me. Protect this man at all costs!!! 💕

@happilydivorced3235

9 ай бұрын

He really understands 😍

@littlelilacbunny

8 ай бұрын

??? There are condoms though ??

@HaHa-lx9yo

7 ай бұрын

Vasectomy??

@eliitorelli

7 ай бұрын

@@HaHa-lx9yo iud isn't permanent, vasectomy is???

@coltondavidson-yf2vu

6 ай бұрын

@@eliitorelli not permanent, can be reversed. sometimes not even effective.

The way Matt was still so tierd and he still was being supportive and comforting you. You two are made for eachother and it shows. I hope you two have an amazing journey together!

Griffin is the cutest!! He is gonna be an amazing big brother❤️

@monicatezak3549

Жыл бұрын

Girl he don’t even know he’s gonna be a big brother 😂

@elizabethpicklesimer2720

Жыл бұрын

@@monicatezak3549 When they are older . Jeez

@Divine1767

Жыл бұрын

@@monicatezak3549 When he is older 😊

@Divine1767

Жыл бұрын

@@Asian_Import He is still 13 months older

@elizabethpicklesimer2720

Жыл бұрын

@@Asian_Import A big brother is any time being older . Even just a year apart...

I love how Matt is so supportive. Love you guys❤

@deannayork9128

Жыл бұрын

Ikr!!!!!

@SOFIJA53

Жыл бұрын

Well obviously he is gonna be supportive!

@annaogden805

Жыл бұрын

@@SOFIJA53 well you don’t know that especially with how tired he was and such a shocking moment.

@mpdaugherty8549

Жыл бұрын

Matt and Abby are Real Raw and Natural. I seriously enjoy it. Their content is everything..

Your genuine reaction is so beautiful. It's not always rainbows and butterflies. Raising awareness about the real parts of life let others relate and not feel alone. Thank you for sharing this very vulnerable moment.

I’m so glad you’re posting this. Not all shock has to be good or exciting. You’re an incredible mom, and I love how patient and calming Matt is with you. You both balance each other so well. Can’t wait to see how this brings you two closer together ❤

@JedaMelis-cn6jl

Ай бұрын

what do you mean not every shock has to be good? so having a child is a bad shock?

Like my mom says about me "You were a surprise"😄 For me that's the perfect way to put it to your future little one!! We laughed, I understood and never felt unwanted 💜 Congratulations Matt and Abby!

I love how real this is. A "accident" baby is not any less wanted or loved then a planned baby. Same thing happened to me. My baby was 6 months old when I fell pregnant again. SURPRISE it's twins. Mia is now 3 and my twin boys Keith and Ethan are now 18 months

@leliavoinea7253

Жыл бұрын

OMG! 😱 Having 3 small kids to raise sounds very hard. I have huge respect and admiration for strong ladies like yourself. And I complain sometimes how tiered I am from my job. I should be greatful for the free time I have after my job it's done because I don't have children and I am single! 😂

@antonellapuchi9086

Жыл бұрын

Power mom!💪🏼

@citomerk6335

6 ай бұрын

Every time I hear of a sexually active couple, I was wondering if it’s the guy that initiates it. So is it your husband that often brought up the topic of doing it every time you guys did it?

I have 4 children. I found out about our 3rd when my daughter was 6 months old. I remember taking the test in the bathroom by myself and said “oh f….” It’s going to be ok, and it’s ok to feel caught off guard or not ready, you will be ready when the time comes and it is so special having siblings close together.

@judyjohnson9610

8 ай бұрын

I think your initial reaction is fairly typical. It happened to me as well. Just after we had decided that our family was complete with two daughters. The second daughter was a preemie. She got up and walked just days before her little brother.

What a fabulous husband! His wife is struggling, they have a 5-month-old already, and he smiles and says, "That's great!" and just comforts and encourages his wife. This couple can face anything together. ❤

We know you guys are excited about this baby, but I appreciate that you normalized that feeling fear, uncertainty, and anxiety in that moment is also a valid response to this news. Jumping up and down for joy is not the only okay response to have. Other emotions are just as valid (and are NOT an indication of not loving your child or being a bad parent) and I appreciate you sharing that with us for those out there who maybe felt ashamed that joy wasn't their immediate response...sometimes there's just a lot to process and it takes a while to feel the joy.

@jenniferhernandez1842

Ай бұрын

❤

I know this was probably extremely hard to post because of fear of judgement that you didn’t want 2 babies so close together. But I’m sure SO many people can relate to this, thank you for posting and being so vulnerable about your journey, and all the emotions it entails❣️

I really appreciate you sharing this raw moment! It honestly shows how relatable you guys are and I love that. I have 2 under 17 months and I will say it is difficult at first because you literally have 2 babies. But it is 10000% worth it. Now they’re 2 and 8 months and they’re starting to laugh together and I can just tell they’re going to be future besties 🥹 Every day gets easier!! God has a plan and I am so excited for you guys

I'm so grateful to see this authentic video. I experienced this same thing 3 years ago. My littles are 15 months apart, unplanned and it was really freaking hard. I'm sorry. But I'm glad to see that it seems like you're both being supportive and kind. I felt so much guilt that my son's infancy was overshadowed by my pregnancy. Make sure you have counseling or another method of safely processing for all of you! I'm grateful you have each other!! Many prayers for your sweet family 💗

My brother and I are 16 months apart and we’ve always had a good relationship! Griffin is so lucky to have a sibling so close in age to him!

At 2:52 when Matt says “oh honey” it looks like he’s gonna cry ❤❤ 😭 this is adorable congratulations 🎉

I love Matt's reaction. He's so optimistic and calms you, when you need it. I would like to have such a guy, if I were a woman. Wishes you everything good during your pregnancy, girl. God bless you and your baby :)

I love how Matt and Abby show the real raw parts of a good marriage.

I really have appreciated that you shared this. I desperately wanted babies SO badly, and this was still my immediate reaction. It’s terrifying to be pregnant sometimes and your brain just needs a hot minute to play catch up and accept what is and get excited.

This video is so well made and genuine. I personally think it’s so lovely to see the duality between this pregnancy and the last, there’s no one right way to be pregnant. It’s so refreshing and realistic, you are some of the best creators on the internet for sharing their true stories

This is the video that made me fall in love with Matt and Abby. I literally stumbled across it, with no context, yet could so relate to that gut wrenching moment when you discover, unexpectedly, that you’re pregnant again…… Bless this couple. Harriet (Tasmania) xx

@shannongettings7255

4 ай бұрын

Me too!! I ran across it just watching KZread and fell in love with them!! I immediately went to their KZread channel and started following them!! Definitely meant for one another!! God bless yall!! P/S God doesn't make mistakes and this is His plan for y'all!! Love y'all big!! Congratulations!!

I love how you said "im not ready" that is so raw and real. Moms get backlash for saying that. But we are human!!

You’ll just be so absorbed in the baby phase you’ll be in the zone, then eventually they’ll get a little older and being so close in age will make it easier because they’ll be best buds who just play together!! You guys got this ❤️

My son was 6 months old when I found out I was pregnant again. I was terrified. It took me a while to come to terms with the fact that I was having another baby. You guys will do a wonderful job. ❤❤❤

Girl, do not feel bad about your reaction. I would've lost it 🤣 you got this!! 💕

This is so sweet. I love how calm and comforting he is while you're having a complete meltdown.

This! This was exactly how I felt! So I'm here to tell you, my girls are the best of little friends! They're 15 months apart. When #2 wasn't even a month old, we moved 800 miles from home. Y'all got this! And this life with two babes so close is what you will know. You won't know life having kiddos further apart. This is your normal and that's okay! It's all hard - whether they're closer together or far apart. You have a great support system in each other and family. Y'all got this!!

Matt is an amazing man. Period. He should write a book about what it means to be a loving, supportive husband and every man on earth should read it! ❤️

@TT.3123

Жыл бұрын

I know I’d buy that book for my husband lol

@isabelamogosanu7777

Жыл бұрын

He didn't do the minimum of wearing a condom because it didn't" feel good enough " and now his wife is going through another physically & emotionally rough pregnancy because he couldn't wrap his willy 🙄

This is the first YT video I ever saw of the two of you. TBH, I'd never heard of either of you before seeing this. It was so sweet and so touching, I just fell in love with your content. Thank you for sharing your journey with the world.

my sister was 5 months old when my parents were pregnant with me! we are 14 months at 1 day apart and it is the best relationship that i could have ever wanted! it might seem hard but they will have an amazing relationship ❤

I can totally feel Abby’s rawness and Matt could not be sweeter and more supportive

My mom got pregnant with me when my brother was 8 months and she had to get help by a doctor and were told that they couldn't not pregnant without help so it was REALLY a shock for them. Now my mom and I are besties and closer than her and my brother. So I am just here to say that things happen and they are meant to be no matter how cliche that sounds. We are here for you and you will manage the two muffins I can tell you that. ❤

I love, love, love how vulnerable this is. Like raw…real…so honest!! Thank you for sharing!!! ❤

abby looks INCREDIBLE in that pink color!!!! she’s gorgeous as always. even now, she looks STUNNING at almost 9 months pregnant. LOVE YOU BOTH.💗

I absolutely love how open and honest you are. Your reactions are SO raw and you choosing to share them normalizes the entire process. Every baby has a different story and a unique beginning. Thank you for sharing ALL parts of the story with us! You both are amazing parents and that will only continue! We love you! 🙏

Aw man, extended version with commentary. I cry every single time I watch these clips. Tears of sadness, tears of joy, tears of understanding. Its an emotional ride and it's totally acceptable. You guys have a road ahead of you. It will be bumpy, it will be easy, it will be hard, it will be fun. No matter which road you are on at the time, make the most of it. You will do great

Abby this was my same reaction when I found out about my second I was literally in tears. Now looking back holding my 5th baby in my arms I wouldn’t change it for the world. You both are amazing parents.

I have no kids as of yet, but watching her have these emotions made me shed a tear. I don’t believe this was acting, this was genuine. Their love is so genuine for each other and pray that I remains that way!

I’m only crying with you. Thank you for sharing and being so raw. I’m sure it felt awful to be more scared than excited. But it’s reality. Sometimes good things feel more scary than good until you’ve processed it. You’re amazing. So excited to see where this takes you!! 💞

I love how vulnerable you were..and Honest. I can feel the shock through the internet lol. Matt is extremely sweet and comforting. And there needs to be more Matt's in the world. Congratulations. You got this

This is so heartwarming and her honesty is just beautiful x

He is such a sweetie I hope he never changes . I don’t normally watch family KZread channels but they just seem so genuine and loving.

This was so raw pure and beautiful. Every mom has felt this 💗 i love it so much. Thank you for this.

I can't tell you how much I appreciate the raw honesty. Even though it's something that you wanted eventually and didn't make it less difficult in the moment because it wasn't in the timing that you had planned. I appreciate that you guys are so real in general. You don't put on the show for social media. You are exactly you and that helps so many people feel less alone. 💜

I love this because it's reality! We had two of ours 13 months apart and yes, in many ways it is hard, but it has been such a blessing and joy in so many other ways! They are such close siblings, I wouldn't have it any other way. The initial shock can be hard, but that's another good reason for it taking 9 months! You get time to process it and come to realize it will be ok! It's so neat that you are able to share that with people who may panic initially and not realize their feelings will change for the better in time. ❤️ Best wishes to you and congratulations!

I love that you guys are sharing this moment with us. It makes me relieved to see the real reactions and makes it easier about my own reaction to something similar.

Such a real and raw moment that so many people experience but may feel alone in it, thank you for sharing and helping others. Congratulations!

I love how Matt was so supportive the whole time. Congratulations on your second baby!

My sister and I are 13 months apart and the bond of having a sibling so close in age unbreakable! It will be so great to watch your babies grow up together 💜

Amazing hearing you say “we’re at Disney land struggling to enjoy ourselves with just one”. Purely because that’s just so honest and so real for many of us. Lord it is hard!!! I fell pregnant with my second when my first was 9months old and the pregnancy with a toddler was the hardest part. Baby boy is now 6 weeks old and it’s magical. I found going from 1 to 2 children way easier than the transition of becoming a first time mum. It’s weirdly easier with two. It almost helps everything not being perfect way easier. You’re gonna smash it xx

Can I just say it is SO refreshing to see such a real ans raw video. Thank you for being open and honest 💕 can't wait to see what's in store for your family!

Girl, I’m six months PP and I just had to take two pregnancy tests to ease my mind in knowing that I wasn’t pregnant. And it definitely was scary for the wait on the tests. You’ve got this!

That pregnant test video of Abby’s second pregnancy was how I discovered you guys. The way Matt was so instantly supportive, even though still half asleep, and the way Abby shared her emotions made me want to see what more you guys had to offer. I love the dynamic you have between you, and how well you reflect over things. I am in kind of an opposite situation from you. We tried about a year to get pregnant with our first child. It’s was not an easy pregnancy, so we decided to wait a few years to try for number 2. It took us over 5 years for number 2 to come to us, so we have 10 years between our children 😊 I wish you all the best with what’s ahead of you. ❤

This was my reaction whenever I found out I was pregnant again so soon. My son had just turned 4 months old & I was 4 months postpartum from a C-section. I was TERRIFIED! But excited. This was an honest and raw reaction! Nothing bad about it at all. You both are amazing parents. And amazing people. Don’t ever feel like you have to apologize for what you felt in the moment.❤

This is such an important video! I’m so thankful y’all were willing to share this *very common* reaction. It’s okay to be scared out of your mind and also know that you wouldn’t change it, concurrently. I was terrified when I found out about each of my pregnancies because of life during those times, and I felt like I had to put on a face and pretend to just be thrilled and blessed. I was, but I was also scared, and nervous and anxious, and no one told me that was ok. People will know that thanks to your video!!

Guys I'm so happy for you. I understand your concern, but as Matt said, you guys love babies. And this is just a huge gift from our God. I feel so emotional looking at your reaction 😪 Little Gryffin is going to be an awesome big brother 🥰 looots of love from Italy💞

You guys are going to be great!! My two oldest are close in age as well and they’re the BEST of friends. Literally can’t separate them apart!! You’re not alone and don’t let anyone make you feel bad ❤

I felt every emotion Abby went through as she saw that positive. I was the exact same when I found out I was expecting my second. You got this 💪🏻

You guys are so blessed! Just remember when things get hard we all love you! Also Matt is just so supportive ❤ I love you guys and your videos!! Y’all are so wholesome and everything I hope to be when I get older!! You guys have come a long way with entertainment and I have been watching along the way!!! I love you guys!!!

I love the rawness of this. Thanks for showing how even when a baby is wanted (planned or unplanned) there can still be an array of emotions that are far from just happiness. It seems you understand that having a baby SHOULD NOT be taken lightly and it is a HUGE deal to bring one into the world (let alone multiple) You guys will rock this next journey and I appreciate you two sharing this moment with us. 💕💕

You guys are truly the sweetest and this just shows above and beyond that! You guys got this and will continue being the best parents! I’m praying for you guys!

I love how reassuring that Matt was, "it's okay!" Melts my heart. My first and second babies were 14 months apart and my second and third babies were 12 months apart. So that makes 1 to 3, 27 months apart. They are awesome together and so close to each other! I think that you are going to love it!

That sad thing is that I know this is how most couples in this situation feel, yet the have to act super thrilled and couldn’t be happier, so glad you wanted to show the truth. Thank you! ♥️

Every time I see the part when Abby expresses feeling guilt over having ridden the rides and drinking a beer, my heart tears in two. I love watching Momma Doctor Jones here on KZread and she gives reactions to episodes of 'I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant'. Something she says in every one of those is that "you do the best you can with the information that you have". There's understandably going to be some guilt there, but you should be allowed to forgive yourself because if you had known about the pregnancy you wouldn't have done certain things

@Joraelfa

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There is also, as far as I know, a sort of protection (to an extent of course) in the first few weeks of conception since the embryo isn't yet "connected" to you through the placenta. So of course it is in your body and grows by what you have in your body but you aren't directly feeding it like later on pregnancy. Also the rides: if that would have been an issue she probably would have miscarried early on but again, hiiiighly unlikely to cause any damage. The developing embryo is VERY protected in there.

@raquelmarcalsantos

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So nice to find another Mama Doctor Jones fan here! ♥️ I immediately thought of her when I saw the video and Abby’s worries too because it is such a considerate and truthful thing to say in so many situations. I hope Abby sees your comment and that it comforts her 😊

I'm so happy for you guys. My husband and I are dreaming for our child. We've been trying for so long and never had a positive. Thank you for showing raw emotions in this! Everyone reacts differently and this makes me even more excited for our story!

Im so happy that you guys are in a better place about the pregnancy now, i can totally empathize with how you reacted initially, its completely understandable and so fair enough. You guys are great parents already and will only get even better with two, and like you said, this is how your family was meant to grow ❤️ you'll definitely be stoked about it as they grow up 👌🏼 love you guys heaps!

These reactions were so honest and raw and completely relatable, thank you so much for sharing these moments with us. Can't wait to meet your next little bundle! Congratulations and all the best.

Our 4th daughter was also an unexpected blessing. There were tears with us also...

I watched this with tears in my eyes, the love that you have for one another is one I pray I find one day. I can’t wait to see your beautiful family grow ❤

You both are so precious!🥰 What a REAL moment, thanks for sharing.

So excited for you guys!!!! I know it’s scary at first but couldn’t have happened to two better people! You guys will do GREAT with 2 little ones so close in age.❤ Love how supportive Matt is. Congratulations!!

Girl, you gonna be a great mom, regardless of how young they both gonna be. Griffin is the literal reason I started watching you guys. Mom power!

My brother was born 2 days before my first birthday and we were always extremely close growing up. He was my absolute best friend. Having your babies be so close in age will be amazing, I promise!

@lly5054

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Was it hard for your mom’s body? How was her recovery?

You are both such sweet, supportive humans and I love yall! Matt is so sweet here! ❤

I found out I was pregnant, 5 months postpartum with my first daughter. I have 3 beautiful girls now and I wouldn't have it any other way. I also cried alot, and watching this video just reminded me how scared I was. Congratulations, and nothing beats God's timing. 💓

The definition of love has changed in todays world and am not saying its bad but for the kind of old school love that am into seeing Matt and Abby just makes me feel that there still the OLD SCHOOL LOVE out there you guys are so supportive of each other and such wonderful people i hope u guys get everything u ever wish for love you guys !!

Y’all are the best… over here a 35 year old homeschool mom to 4; 2 boys and 2 girls, and cannot have any more babies. It still devastates me. (We want to adopt but that is complicated too). Congratulations and praying many blessings and protection over this child and your family.

My mom found out she was pregnant with my sister about 3 months after I was born. I was born at 27 weeks so it was a crazy time. Now I can’t imagine my life without my sister. She was born like 11 months and 2 weeks after me so we are like two weeks apart. Oct 18th and Oct 30th. It was probably hard for my mom but it gets better I promise! ❤️❤️

ABBY IS SUCH A STRONG POWERFUL WOMAN! THIS JUST GOES TO SHOW HOW SUPPORTIVE OF A HUSBAND MATT IS! U guys r truly the best & sweetest ❤❤❤❤

Incredibly hard to open up so much for the world but many families will appreciate this. All the best to you guys, you’ll make the best parents

me and my sister are one year apart and I think it is a good thing cause I had someone to talk to because we were experiencing the same things almost at the same time. everything happens for a reason. I'm praying for you both you'll do great.

I've never seen a video of you before but you both show such a strong support for each other. Matt just saying it will be ok and we always wanted more than 1 kid was really nice to hear. Just hearing how scared you were that you potentially hurt your baby from a drink and a ride also showed me that you are a wonderful parent. Because it went from this wasn't the plan to what the baby needed and are they ok. You immediately started thinking of your baby's health. No matter what happens it will work out in the end ❤