A relationship where one person constantly adapts to the other is not good for either one. It breeds resentment and feelings of inadequacy. Breakups are hard even if all involved parties are in agreement and even harder if they’re not, both for the one who wants to split and the one being left. Hang in there. You seem to be such a stellar freakin’ human being. You’re enough on your own but deserving of love. It will come your way again. ❤
@clairepickin592810 ай бұрын
Nailed it! Equal partnership is key 😊
@evil_death_roll10 ай бұрын
That is a wonderful statement! Reciprocation, not submission! Hope you're working through the breakup alright and letting yourself feel all the emotions that come with it 🐊 Much love
@chaoticoldbore10 ай бұрын
Well said.
@Hexenkind110 ай бұрын
Word. I myself am single for a long time and it is actually not a bad thing. Sure some things you miss sometimes, but other things are also positive. And it is not like I do not want a partner, I just also do not really NEED one. If I meet someone, then it was meant to be, if not and if I stay single, fine too. I really think there are more things in this life that give it deep meaning. Relationships are just one thing out of many others. So relax and let it happen. Or not. That is at least my take on all of that.
@schuhschrank94710 ай бұрын
You are so right. And that is the basis of a good relaltionship in my opinion, too. I wouldn't accept a boyfriend who thinks he is the leader. Not even for a week.
@Lou-xq9br10 ай бұрын
❤ 👏 well said
@adreannwingren66039 ай бұрын
Yes! Submission has no place in a healthy relationship. Partnership/ mutual support, and good communication is key. I know “compromise” can be important, but I heard something recently I like better “collaboration and compromise” reminding me that working together through stuff (actively & consciously putting myself on the same team) is just as important. Vs compromise can get very one-against-the-other mind set sometimes. And very important (for me personally at least) in good relationship, someone you can have fun just being around. My hubby and I actually don’t have a whole lot in common, but we’re both really goofy/silly sometimes and that makes living together fun lol. Don’t stress about it or feel discouraged, there’s no rush, and you’re amazing Walterooski. Just take your time till you stumble across someone who you think is also amazing. And fyi, since you always tell us, I’m saying it to you so you can hear it yourself; YOU are important & YOU are worthy of love! You are worthy of feeling valued, considered, respected and loved. Don’t ever let anyone (or yourself) tell you otherwise! Much love and big hugs from a sister in Southern CA ❤
@Peacetrain6610 ай бұрын
Exactly right Walter!!
@kylecrighton55010 ай бұрын
Absolutely spot on dude
@rebeccarose740510 ай бұрын
It’s so hard to find that balance, but I am living proof that it can be done-even if there was a lot of frog kissing and false starts to get me here. ❤️
@Nillaman9 ай бұрын
That’s not all having a submissive spouse is about. My wife and I are definitely partners and definitely help out each other in the kitchen or doing laundry or other chores. Plus she helps with my business whenever she can. But she is very much the submissive partner. I definitely lead the relationship but we also are partners in every sense of the word. We also love each other with all are hearts. We will be celebrating our 16 year wedding anniversary in December.
@ulmi529 ай бұрын
German lady watching, 52 years old, 4 adult children. You are absolutely right. You need to be on the same level, no submission. Respect, fairness, honesty. And if there are problems - talk about it. All the best for you.😊
@YoRHaCorb9 ай бұрын
Just wanted to say, I saw a video from almost a year ago about you quitting vaping and I just wanna say how much happier and healthier you look. Been vaping pretty intensely for 6+ years, I’m super scrawny and most of the time my vuse replaces my meals, I’m super irritable, and it’s an enormous financial drain to buy a pod every day. I really want and need to quit and your video is my first step. Wish me luck buddy o7
@tmercier198710 ай бұрын
Glad to see you back, Walter. Can't wait to watch you listen to more KGLW!
@aliciawooz841710 ай бұрын
That is some healthy masculinity right there. Keep listening to your inner wisdom! ❤
@spellcaster789310 ай бұрын
💜🖤 relationship goals.
@mickerzmouse9 ай бұрын
Yes! And when you find your partner you'll never regret it, trust me. You've got healthy relationship goals and ideas. Don't let anyone change that
@a.mcdaniel45169 ай бұрын
Your wonderful! It'll happen. No worries!😊
@saltydroog8549 ай бұрын
What you described is not in conflict with a "Submissive woman". Submissive woman does not mean she doesn't bring anything to the table, nor that she is not your partner. The idea is that humans are better off being raised by full time mothers. And this only works when the man takes care of the providing, while the woman takes care of the nurturing. This is not about someone being in charge, or someone being superior. It's about having a stable and comfortable home, which is a full time job. That IS being greater than the sum of your own parts. This is not pejorative.
@davidignjatovic308110 ай бұрын
Women want masculine men, and "lead" means youve got money and call the shots.
@Brian_.10 ай бұрын
Switch teams buddy! Females are crazy!😂
@cartersipes597110 ай бұрын
❤️💜💙
@jacobdobson577310 ай бұрын
That is your role as a human/man.. be a leader. The proof is in your own video. And you're right there is not absolutely 0 chance.. but it is drastically slimmer from most of humanity that is guided by their genetic make up and natural instincts. Just have to find someone else who isn't.. I'm not being rude, but how has your theory worked for you so far? Woman are powered by estrogen hormones
@evil_death_roll
10 ай бұрын
I call BS
@NiloQuest
10 ай бұрын
Estrogen doesn’t make you crazy, stop lying to people lmao. Men have estrogen. Too little or too much can make you irritable, anxious, depressed, and exaggerated psm symptoms but that’s not crazy. It is not literally crazy sauce. And here “Men with high testosterone can experience a variety of troubling symptoms and possible health consequences. Excess testosterone can lead to more aggressive and irritable behavior, more acne and oily skin, even worse sleep apnea (if you already have it), and an increase in muscle mass.” Not even my words. Here have some more “While high testosterone levels in a man can sometimes result in increased muscle mass, it also brings with it a whole host of other side effects; acne, mood swings, stunted growth, and weight gain to name just a few.” You guys get mood swings to. Testosterone is LITERALLY not the opposite. Here have some more. “If you thought testosterone was only important in men, you'd be mistaken. Testosterone is produced in the ovaries and adrenal gland. It's one of several androgens (male sex hormones) in females. These hormones are thought to have important effects on ovarian function bone strength sexual behavior, including normal libido (although evidence is not conclusive). The proper balance between testosterone (along with other androgens) and estrogen is important for the ovaries to work normally. While the specifics are uncertain, it's possible that androgens also play an important role in normal brain function (including mood, sex drive and cognitive function).” Where did you get all of this?
@david31162
10 ай бұрын
Nah. That's just your experience from your point of view. Not seen it in my relationship, my father, grandfather, brother.... lifelong relationships rock solid with strong women. All the ones I have known with 'strong leading' males ended unhappily.
@NiloQuest
10 ай бұрын
@@david31162 No. That’s literal science dude. The last paragraph was reviewed by Harvard Medical. I’d listen to professional who STUDIED biology and give facts over you and your grand parents lol! You just called estrogen crazy sauce when men have it too. That tells me everything I need to know, you’re not talking facts you’re talking about how you and your experience with women made you feel, and other men in your life, which is fine but don’t act like its not just something you learned from uneducated men.
@NiloQuest
10 ай бұрын
@@david31162 “Nah thats just your experience” these are LITERALLY NOT MY EXPERIENCES THEY ARE MEDICAL FACTS THAT HAVE BEEN PROVEN. ☠️☠️☠️ i can’t believe you called women crazy and then turned around and went “Facts? Nah.”
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A relationship where one person constantly adapts to the other is not good for either one. It breeds resentment and feelings of inadequacy. Breakups are hard even if all involved parties are in agreement and even harder if they’re not, both for the one who wants to split and the one being left. Hang in there. You seem to be such a stellar freakin’ human being. You’re enough on your own but deserving of love. It will come your way again. ❤
Nailed it! Equal partnership is key 😊
That is a wonderful statement! Reciprocation, not submission! Hope you're working through the breakup alright and letting yourself feel all the emotions that come with it 🐊 Much love
Well said.
Word. I myself am single for a long time and it is actually not a bad thing. Sure some things you miss sometimes, but other things are also positive. And it is not like I do not want a partner, I just also do not really NEED one. If I meet someone, then it was meant to be, if not and if I stay single, fine too. I really think there are more things in this life that give it deep meaning. Relationships are just one thing out of many others. So relax and let it happen. Or not. That is at least my take on all of that.
You are so right. And that is the basis of a good relaltionship in my opinion, too. I wouldn't accept a boyfriend who thinks he is the leader. Not even for a week.
❤ 👏 well said
Yes! Submission has no place in a healthy relationship. Partnership/ mutual support, and good communication is key. I know “compromise” can be important, but I heard something recently I like better “collaboration and compromise” reminding me that working together through stuff (actively & consciously putting myself on the same team) is just as important. Vs compromise can get very one-against-the-other mind set sometimes. And very important (for me personally at least) in good relationship, someone you can have fun just being around. My hubby and I actually don’t have a whole lot in common, but we’re both really goofy/silly sometimes and that makes living together fun lol. Don’t stress about it or feel discouraged, there’s no rush, and you’re amazing Walterooski. Just take your time till you stumble across someone who you think is also amazing. And fyi, since you always tell us, I’m saying it to you so you can hear it yourself; YOU are important & YOU are worthy of love! You are worthy of feeling valued, considered, respected and loved. Don’t ever let anyone (or yourself) tell you otherwise! Much love and big hugs from a sister in Southern CA ❤
Exactly right Walter!!
Absolutely spot on dude
It’s so hard to find that balance, but I am living proof that it can be done-even if there was a lot of frog kissing and false starts to get me here. ❤️
That’s not all having a submissive spouse is about. My wife and I are definitely partners and definitely help out each other in the kitchen or doing laundry or other chores. Plus she helps with my business whenever she can. But she is very much the submissive partner. I definitely lead the relationship but we also are partners in every sense of the word. We also love each other with all are hearts. We will be celebrating our 16 year wedding anniversary in December.
German lady watching, 52 years old, 4 adult children. You are absolutely right. You need to be on the same level, no submission. Respect, fairness, honesty. And if there are problems - talk about it. All the best for you.😊
Just wanted to say, I saw a video from almost a year ago about you quitting vaping and I just wanna say how much happier and healthier you look. Been vaping pretty intensely for 6+ years, I’m super scrawny and most of the time my vuse replaces my meals, I’m super irritable, and it’s an enormous financial drain to buy a pod every day. I really want and need to quit and your video is my first step. Wish me luck buddy o7
Glad to see you back, Walter. Can't wait to watch you listen to more KGLW!
That is some healthy masculinity right there. Keep listening to your inner wisdom! ❤
💜🖤 relationship goals.
Yes! And when you find your partner you'll never regret it, trust me. You've got healthy relationship goals and ideas. Don't let anyone change that
Your wonderful! It'll happen. No worries!😊
What you described is not in conflict with a "Submissive woman". Submissive woman does not mean she doesn't bring anything to the table, nor that she is not your partner. The idea is that humans are better off being raised by full time mothers. And this only works when the man takes care of the providing, while the woman takes care of the nurturing. This is not about someone being in charge, or someone being superior. It's about having a stable and comfortable home, which is a full time job. That IS being greater than the sum of your own parts. This is not pejorative.
Women want masculine men, and "lead" means youve got money and call the shots.
Switch teams buddy! Females are crazy!😂
❤️💜💙
That is your role as a human/man.. be a leader. The proof is in your own video. And you're right there is not absolutely 0 chance.. but it is drastically slimmer from most of humanity that is guided by their genetic make up and natural instincts. Just have to find someone else who isn't.. I'm not being rude, but how has your theory worked for you so far? Woman are powered by estrogen hormones
@evil_death_roll
10 ай бұрын
I call BS
@NiloQuest
10 ай бұрын
Estrogen doesn’t make you crazy, stop lying to people lmao. Men have estrogen. Too little or too much can make you irritable, anxious, depressed, and exaggerated psm symptoms but that’s not crazy. It is not literally crazy sauce. And here “Men with high testosterone can experience a variety of troubling symptoms and possible health consequences. Excess testosterone can lead to more aggressive and irritable behavior, more acne and oily skin, even worse sleep apnea (if you already have it), and an increase in muscle mass.” Not even my words. Here have some more “While high testosterone levels in a man can sometimes result in increased muscle mass, it also brings with it a whole host of other side effects; acne, mood swings, stunted growth, and weight gain to name just a few.” You guys get mood swings to. Testosterone is LITERALLY not the opposite. Here have some more. “If you thought testosterone was only important in men, you'd be mistaken. Testosterone is produced in the ovaries and adrenal gland. It's one of several androgens (male sex hormones) in females. These hormones are thought to have important effects on ovarian function bone strength sexual behavior, including normal libido (although evidence is not conclusive). The proper balance between testosterone (along with other androgens) and estrogen is important for the ovaries to work normally. While the specifics are uncertain, it's possible that androgens also play an important role in normal brain function (including mood, sex drive and cognitive function).” Where did you get all of this?
@david31162
10 ай бұрын
Nah. That's just your experience from your point of view. Not seen it in my relationship, my father, grandfather, brother.... lifelong relationships rock solid with strong women. All the ones I have known with 'strong leading' males ended unhappily.
@NiloQuest
10 ай бұрын
@@david31162 No. That’s literal science dude. The last paragraph was reviewed by Harvard Medical. I’d listen to professional who STUDIED biology and give facts over you and your grand parents lol! You just called estrogen crazy sauce when men have it too. That tells me everything I need to know, you’re not talking facts you’re talking about how you and your experience with women made you feel, and other men in your life, which is fine but don’t act like its not just something you learned from uneducated men.
@NiloQuest
10 ай бұрын
@@david31162 “Nah thats just your experience” these are LITERALLY NOT MY EXPERIENCES THEY ARE MEDICAL FACTS THAT HAVE BEEN PROVEN. ☠️☠️☠️ i can’t believe you called women crazy and then turned around and went “Facts? Nah.”