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FENTANYL KILLS: Jack McCarthy's Story

A father, James McCarthy, shares his story of losing his 19-year-old son to fentanyl and how he is turning his pain into purpose with Fentanyl Fathers. To use this presentation at high schools or other educational applications, contact Texas Pictures through our website at www.texas-pictures.com.
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  • @NoseyFloridaGirl
    @NoseyFloridaGirl3 ай бұрын

    You’ve turned Jacks memory into a MISSION. Bravo Dad . You will change lives . Save lives.

  • @AKA-Nana
    @AKA-Nana3 ай бұрын

    The fact that this country cannot get a hold on this drug is beyond me. To me, fentanyl is as dangerous as an automatic weapon that can take out multiple people. How many have to die? I get the addiction, I get it, but none of these stories begin or end with, my loved one knew they were taking fentanyl. The people that are knowingly putting fentanyl in other meds (Xanax, Percocet, Norco) are murderers.

  • @sarahwales6276

    @sarahwales6276

    3 ай бұрын

    The Government doesn't want to fix this, it is not a problem for them it is a solution. When the wealthiest people in the world are telling you their goal is depopulation, believe them.

  • @caroljordt8045

    @caroljordt8045

    3 ай бұрын

    So sorry for your loss 😢

  • @kalpajha3002

    @kalpajha3002

    3 ай бұрын

    You're right but sadly addicts do struggle a lot and they are always searching for another high as the ones they usually take do nothing for them. Whats scary is that, this drug Fentanyl is so so much stronger and in many places this drug is cheap and so easy to get hold off. People are still ignorant about this drug and the effects. I really hope people start waking up and seeking help before they sadly wont be able to wake up. The dealers who sell this stuff and a lot of other stuff are, i cant call them murders but, they are definitely aiding the addict. All they care about is money money and more money. To know that this particular drug is laced in so many other drugs is scary beyond belief.

  • @RLFinTX

    @RLFinTX

    3 ай бұрын

    It’s coming through the open borders.

  • @JIMKATSANIDIS

    @JIMKATSANIDIS

    3 ай бұрын

    @@sarahwales6276 The US has collaborated with other countries, particularly China and Mexico, to disrupt the production and distribution networks. Efforts have been made to improve information sharing, enhance law enforcement cooperation, and promote regulatory measures to control precursor chemicals, but all these failed.👋

  • @ReneePerrin25
    @ReneePerrin253 ай бұрын

    This is not your fault, dad. Bringing up your child in a sober home is amazing. This . Was. Not. Your. Fault.

  • @katie0303

    @katie0303

    3 ай бұрын

    He appears to have been a great father. No one is perfect, but you can tell he loved his son dearly.

  • @jordanark9784

    @jordanark9784

    3 ай бұрын

    It was his fault entirely. No accountability whatsoever.

  • @vincentperagine

    @vincentperagine

    3 ай бұрын

    @@jordanark9784 Seriously? You have no idea what you are talking about.

  • @lynndinovo3500

    @lynndinovo3500

    3 ай бұрын

    YOU are an awesome father. Please continue to talk to others especially our youth about these murderers who sell fentynal laced drugs. Jack is an awesome spirit and he is guiding you to do this great service for others. God bless you and give you grace to find just a bit of peace. 🤍🕊

  • @jordanark9784

    @jordanark9784

    3 ай бұрын

    @@vincentperagine Should've been paying attention to their children. Whatever the child does is a reflection of the parenting. Or, in this case, lack thereof. The truth hurts.

  • @debikarolewicz7875
    @debikarolewicz78753 ай бұрын

    I lost my son Brian Todd 5 months ago to Fentanyl poisoning. Your story inspires me to try and find a purpose, because I haven't been able to do anything but grieve. RIP Jack. Hugs and prayers 🙏

  • @user-sk2px6ox7m

    @user-sk2px6ox7m

    3 ай бұрын

    Very very sorry for your loss

  • @lovemy3babes17

    @lovemy3babes17

    3 ай бұрын

    Sending prayers 🙏🏿 your way. So sorry for your loss. ❤

  • @MimiCoco-gt7zo

    @MimiCoco-gt7zo

    3 ай бұрын

    My condolences to you

  • @AussieAmy

    @AussieAmy

    3 ай бұрын

    Condolences to you 🙏🏽💜 Maybe you were meant to see this to find your purpose- your reason to get out of bed. Sending love and positive vibes your way. You can do this!

  • @DaisyJane0318

    @DaisyJane0318

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family. 😢

  • @justbrowsing1278
    @justbrowsing12783 ай бұрын

    Jack sounds like the type of kid who would be extremely proud of his dad for sharing his story. You raised a good one! Sorry for your loss. Also, it’s okay to not be okay sometimes ❤️

  • @roselee1974

    @roselee1974

    2 ай бұрын

    AMEN! , and agree

  • @SaWilliam
    @SaWilliam3 ай бұрын

    I see a lot of mothers speak out but it’s special when a father is speaking. Bless you sir!

  • @HP-rp5nn
    @HP-rp5nn3 ай бұрын

    I believe that he saw his son in the dream.. God knew what he needed to go on. God bless you and your family.

  • @Craig-wi5bv

    @Craig-wi5bv

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣 yeah righto...

  • @marsianer4842

    @marsianer4842

    2 ай бұрын

    needed to go on? next time ask God not to take a child. problem solved.

  • @greenie75

    @greenie75

    Ай бұрын

    @@marsianer4842 God didn't take his child - sin did. We live in a fallen world.

  • @lemaa4820

    @lemaa4820

    20 күн бұрын

    Most definitely bc when a dream is vivid like that and so real then that's a visitation. That's why it stands out so much bc it's not a regular dream. I've had a dream like that & it's definitely different. One you'll never forget.

  • @lemaa4820

    @lemaa4820

    20 күн бұрын

    ​@@marsianer4842Yeah your ignorant so being on this channel is the right place for you. Learn about fentanyl at least bc you didn't learn anything else. #Ignorantandjustliving

  • @lesliekenion7540
    @lesliekenion75403 ай бұрын

    Mr McCarthy is one of the Best Storyteller's I ever heard on this platform. He's intoxicating. Wishing you Recovery in your Heartbreak 💔

  • @louern123
    @louern1233 ай бұрын

    my daughter went through depression and psychosis after her father died, and she screamed at me a few times blaming me for not getting her a therapist for her anxiety in grade nine. i didn’t even understand what anxiety was. we aren’t psychologists, we are just parents. 💔. sending so much love for you, to get through this. 🙏🏻

  • @RLFinTX

    @RLFinTX

    3 ай бұрын

    Were you unable to get her an appt with a psychologist?

  • @chargennaro976

    @chargennaro976

    3 ай бұрын

    I hope you were able to get her a psychologist appointment now it's better late than never for the mental health is so important

  • @DaisyJane0318

    @DaisyJane0318

    3 ай бұрын

    I've been struggling with severe anxiety, depression, PTSD, and ADHD for about 21 years now. It's horrible. I don't feel right at all if I don't take my meds. I wish they can come up with a cure at least for the anxiety cause it's the worst. RIP Jack. I'm so sorry you lost your life. My condolences to you dad and the rest of your family. God speed. 😢❤

  • @RLFinTX

    @RLFinTX

    3 ай бұрын

    @@DaisyJane0318 I’m right there with you! When I sit down to take my meds, I feel so humiliated that I need all of these medications in order to stay alive. The worst part is when you start suspecting that your dosage needs to be increased. It makes me so nervous thinking about what I will I do once I reach the highest dosage. I’m so sorry that you suffer from these awful mental health issues as well. I’d give anything for a cure. Big hugs to you!! 😊💕

  • @barbedwire_lace2160

    @barbedwire_lace2160

    3 ай бұрын

    It's true there is no manual for parenting. I wasn't loved or wanted. So when I had my daughter, I was really lacking in skills. Sometimes love isn't enough. She is a strong, lovely woman. Fortunately, we never had to deal with substance issues. She has chosen to remain childless at 50.

  • @garyh5541
    @garyh55413 ай бұрын

    Dear Jack! RIP! I got out of bed late today and had to drink warm coffee! Even though it was my fault! I was so mad! I turned on my Room Screen and saw your picture and knew what it meant. Another fine young man no longer with us and with his family! Jack you will not be forgotten! Prayers for all who love you. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @HaveFaith_11
    @HaveFaith_113 ай бұрын

    The doctor was my drug dealer… I had a lower back fusion in 2014 & he gave me a ton of percs. He upped the milligrams way too soon. I didn’t even know how addictive pills are, the doctor just told me “Take as needed.” I’ve been 4 years clean & I NEVER want to go back to the empty numb shell of a human being. The withdrawals are HORRIBLE! After a while you have to take opioids to be able to feel ‘normal’ & get through the day.

  • @alexwyler4570

    @alexwyler4570

    2 ай бұрын

    Doctors until 2018 would get a 5% yearly bonus for pushing the Sackler's family opiates.

  • @JasonBrown-dd7dj

    @JasonBrown-dd7dj

    2 ай бұрын

    Your stories sounds like mine

  • @HaveFaith_11

    @HaveFaith_11

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JasonBrown-dd7dj how are you doing? Seems like a lot of people have the same story. The sackler family & big pharma has ruined a lot of lives !

  • @claudehaggart2413

    @claudehaggart2413

    2 ай бұрын

    Sounds like mine too,… Suboxone saved my life… I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to quit all that shit… it really works… though it will take a little time to stop that also but at least you’re out of that whole dirty scene

  • @CaroleLeamer735
    @CaroleLeamer7353 ай бұрын

    THIS DRUG IS DEVASTATING HUMANITY😢 MY HEART BREAKS FOR THESE FAMILIES. I LOST MY YOUNGEST NEPHEW WHEN HE WAS 26😢HE DIED FROM COCAINE MIXED WITH FENTENYL AND CARFENTENYL. IT BURST THE BLOOD VESSELS IN HIS LUNGS 😢 THAT WAS IN 2017 BEFORE IT WAS WIDLEY KNOW😢GOD BLESS YOU FOR SHARING THESE STORIES ❤

  • @matthewleonard386

    @matthewleonard386

    3 ай бұрын

    Geez. That's horrible. They're finding that fentanyl shit in all kinds of things these days. Even some samples of illegal weed have been positive for it. Scary stuff.

  • @mattneil1449

    @mattneil1449

    3 ай бұрын

    YOUR CAPS BUTTON IS STUCK ON

  • @kalpajha3002

    @kalpajha3002

    3 ай бұрын

    Im really sorry for the loss of your nephew. It's heartbreaking how many teens or young adults are losing their life to this awful awful drug. I hope you and your family will heal in time. Best wishes

  • @tsungigudza8803

    @tsungigudza8803

    3 ай бұрын

    @@mattneil1449 and that’s all you got from her story 🙄🙄🙄wow !

  • @daniellakarenina8634

    @daniellakarenina8634

    3 ай бұрын

    Just DON'T DO DRUGS! PROBLEM SOLVED😊

  • @corinadaschievici9002
    @corinadaschievici90023 ай бұрын

    Nothing is more devastating than losing a child. Really sad.😥😥😥Such a good looking kid he was!

  • @laurie-lionessnotaewe5902
    @laurie-lionessnotaewe59023 ай бұрын

    I lost my 19 yr old nephew in 2018 to a tragic car accident. That pain never gets easier or goes away. I’ve just learned to live with it. I’m so sorry for anyone who’s lost a child, senselessly or otherwise. I can’t begin to imagine your pain. May God be with you all, whether you believe in Him or not.

  • @jodiepetersen5041
    @jodiepetersen5041Ай бұрын

    Your story about your son Jack was beautiful...My daughter Dani also died from fentanyl poisoning in 2017 at the age of 31.Leaving behind her beautiful 8 year old daughter..The pain of grieving never goes away.

  • @IndigoRoses7
    @IndigoRoses73 ай бұрын

    This is a wonderful father. You can feel the love for his son in everything he says. You can sense the deep, wonderful friendship they had. Jack deserved his life, I'm so very sorry for his and Jack's family's loss. May Jack's menory continue to live on, his dad is saving lives by speaking out.

  • @ginalanier4836
    @ginalanier48363 ай бұрын

    Your Son is incredibly proud of you and is waiting patiently for you to be happy again. ☘️ I thank you immensely for the many lives that you have already saved by sharing your precious Son’s story.

  • @acelialeedy7923
    @acelialeedy79233 ай бұрын

    Im a recovering heroin addict and have been clean for 6 years....i appreciate what you said about addicts.....i just want you to know that the dream you had definitely meant something....Jack, your son, knew that you needed that dream to be able to move forward in your life. It was his way of giving one last thing before he went to be with Jesus. He wanted you to know that it was a mistake, that he loves you, and that he is okay and in Gods hands. The dealer in your casd will get whats coming to him. I hope one day you can stop hating that man and maybe begin praying for him. He is obviously lacking in many ways and may not have been as lucky as Jack to have a loving, strong and proud father like you growing up. That is not a justification; just a way for you to forgive. You are doing wonderful things in your sons honor and are going to save many lives in your mission.

  • @anotherdayinthislife

    @anotherdayinthislife

    3 ай бұрын

    Congratulations on maintaining sobriety! It’s not easy, I’ve never been addicted to opioids but I hear and see the struggle in the streets and in my best friends home, they’re all on fetty and I can’t even handle going over there anymore even with all this Narcan in my car. Thank you so much for sticking with it and freeing yourself from those shackles, you not only saved yourself but my gosh you’ve likely saved some random citizen from being traumatized by the sounds and sight of an overdose with death rattle and all…I’ll never unhear that sound. Stay blessed 🙏🫶🏼👏🏻

  • @GentlRebel
    @GentlRebel3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your son Jack with us. I am a bereaved mother who lost my son, and I felt your pain physically in my chest while you were speaking. I am so very sorry. ❤

  • @inipin510
    @inipin5103 ай бұрын

    That dream of your son must have been the most beautiful and the most gruesome thing at the same time…I cannot imagine the moment when you woke up and realized that it was just a dream. I want to reach out and hug you. I wish you and your family all the best. There are never enough words. ❤️

  • @AussieAmy
    @AussieAmy3 ай бұрын

    You can just see the pain in this guys eyes and his voice. Thank-you for sharing your sweet son’s story. This can happen to anyone no matter their socioeconomic status. Condolences to you and your family. 💜🙏🏽 P.S- that was your son visiting you not a “dream”.. He wanted to apologise to you. Hopefully he will visit you again. I’m sure he will visit his sister & Mum too. 💜

  • @salindalopez8550

    @salindalopez8550

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes, that was not a "dream". He came to visit his Dad and apologize.

  • @helenmcqueen607
    @helenmcqueen6073 ай бұрын

    It is so brave of these families to tell their stories ,a few years ago this wouls all have been hidden and no one would be aware 😢😢

  • @pihalcott7066
    @pihalcott70663 ай бұрын

    This is one of the most devastating Texas Documentary. They are all devastating. Tore me apart.

  • @TexasPictures

    @TexasPictures

    3 ай бұрын

    I suppose that's a kind of good news, bad news thing for us. I mean, the stories should be kinda devastating. If they're not, we failed. We do also have stories of survival that have happier endings. Here's links to playlists for other series we're working on. From Addiction to Recovery kzread.info/head/PLdCPA32W_p39Z8hi7xSIX3Fkqmhd7mRzj Trafficking in America kzread.info/head/PLdCPA32W_p38cSrYYZkYUbetem8Kbtzpp American Peace Officer kzread.info/head/PLdCPA32W_p39sXSZ20d3KraG42gWNu0rB Impaired Driving Awareness kzread.info/head/PLdCPA32W_p39ZsRl6ezU_QhWTlBOs3YVg We're also in the early stages of developing a series about domestic violence, and another about mental health.

  • @user-sk2px6ox7m

    @user-sk2px6ox7m

    3 ай бұрын

    Same here this one was very devastating 😢

  • @patriciasams7105

    @patriciasams7105

    3 ай бұрын

    Agree 💔🙏💙💙

  • @donnarice6209
    @donnarice6209Ай бұрын

    From the mother of a son ( who went through his own similar issues) in County Fermanagh, Ireland, to the father of beautiful Jack - I'm so horrified & deeply touched by your familys loss. Your description of your son really moved me because you know him so well and all the various wonderful aspects of him - all the shades of Jack. I listen to you and I think 'how could this father have parented better?' And the answer is you couldn't. And thats what scares us. If we could all manage to know and enjoy all the shades of our children half as much as you clearly did. I have learned the importance of liking those we love, in fact that is so important. So many children don't feel liked, though they may know intellectually that they are loved. Jack seemed to be surrounded by people who loved & thoroughly enjoyed the talented & lovely human being that he was. Your pride & love for Jack is clear. Thankyou for telling us about your beautiful son. I'm so sorry for the trauma you & your family has gone through. You're doing a great job 👏 on Jack's behalf. He would be very proud. Sending you, your family & Jack much respect & love ❤ I

  • @KMac-nw8jn

    @KMac-nw8jn

    23 күн бұрын

  • @3mexhuas

    @3mexhuas

    2 күн бұрын

    Donna, I agree with everything you said. Very well said.

  • @kellywarren8228
    @kellywarren82283 ай бұрын

    It took my nephew, Luke Thomas Caraccio. He is loved and missed. God help us all. ❤

  • @MrPlatani

    @MrPlatani

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry for your nephew.

  • @andreawhite3672
    @andreawhite36723 ай бұрын

    Jack came to visit his dad. Jack is ok. I lost my 13 yr old son on 5-10-22 to suicide, bullying was involved. I found him that morning. Elijah has came to see me In my dreams only a few times. But I know he’s perfect. I know he’s in Heaven. There’s life after death. But I’m still very shattered. Sending my love to Jack and his family.

  • @LMadeleine

    @LMadeleine

    2 ай бұрын

    Oh, im so sorry! You are so so strong. Sending you all my love and strenght! ❤

  • @3mexhuas

    @3mexhuas

    2 күн бұрын

    Andrea, I am so very sorry for your loss. I too believe he is in Heaven. Someday you will be together again. I wonder if you have ever watched the videos of people who have had near death experiences or nurses who work in hospice. Watching them helped me when I lost my parents. They made me a firm believer in the afterlife.

  • @angelharte764
    @angelharte7643 ай бұрын

    I never thought people would intentionally be murdering kids. But that's the reality of this world. So sad

  • @user-ej2oi6kw4d

    @user-ej2oi6kw4d

    3 ай бұрын

    Sadly true 😢

  • @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz

    @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz

    Ай бұрын

    It’s not murder. Kids/adults chose to take pills/drugs that aren’t theirs. There’s consequences to our actions, good or bad. I am a recovering opiate addict. 9 years clean. My Dr was my drug dealer. But it was a choice. Not a disease or murder.

  • @vivianespinoza1549

    @vivianespinoza1549

    29 күн бұрын

    @@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz Wrong. This is murder they did not choose to take fentanyl. And ultimately that’s the drug killing ppl.

  • @pdig2963
    @pdig29633 ай бұрын

    Losing your child in any manner is heartbreaking , We as parents should not be burying our children before us , I lost my daughter on September 29th, 2023, to drugs also, 😢 My heart goes out to you and your family 🙏💔

  • @3mexhuas

    @3mexhuas

    2 күн бұрын

    I am so sorry you lost your daughter. That is so sad.

  • @robinlanier6886
    @robinlanier68863 ай бұрын

    Hun, that was not a dream, it was a visit with a message. I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Jack!! Hugs to the family. 💔🕊

  • @MissWV007
    @MissWV0073 ай бұрын

    This one had me bawling! I agree with Jack’s dad Fentanyl is killing everyone and we have got to step up and do something NOW!!! Rest peacefully Jack ❤

  • @Star_07835
    @Star_078353 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful memories and stories about Jack, l loved hearing them. l am so sorry for yours and your families loss.

  • @billymclaurin5762
    @billymclaurin57623 ай бұрын

    RIP man this is so sad

  • @matthewleonard386

    @matthewleonard386

    3 ай бұрын

    Right? I tried a small handful of drugs around that age and have to conclude I just got lucky.

  • @tamimoncrief2264
    @tamimoncrief22643 ай бұрын

    Im so sorry for the loss of your son Jack. Its heartbreaking. Your story makes a diferrence. This fentanyl epidemic needs to stop. God bless your family

  • @vendulazelenkova6803
    @vendulazelenkova680328 күн бұрын

    He is so brutally honest and real,poor dad❤Made me cry

  • @jrockin9221
    @jrockin92213 ай бұрын

    This happened to our long time neighbors son … he just got his teaching degree , hadn’t even started teaching yet. We also learned very in N. Michigan . His grandfather married my husband and I and was pastor at our church . His mom came over to our house in hysterics wanting our help because she found him in his upstairs bedroom on the bed with his Carhartt snowsuit still on (he came home from work the evening before wearing it) his arm pulled out of snowsuit sleeve with a syringe still in his arm . Parents didn’t know he was doing drugs … it was poisoned with fentanyl .😢 It can happen to any family!! Your son sounds like an amazing kiddo❤! Lifting you all up in prayer 🙌🏼

  • @Kimbersade
    @Kimbersade3 ай бұрын

    I don’t know if you will see my message. Hear the pain in your voice. Your son was a empath. It was much more than empathy for others. The description of him the helping Carly. He was special. An empath can feel what others around them feel. The anxiety truly describes this. If you see this can look it up I hope it brings you peace. We all think our kids are special, your son was really a special soul. I’m so sorry for your loss. Know he’s with you and your dream was real. Bless you sweet dad. 😢❤

  • @jenniferwagner9206
    @jenniferwagner92063 ай бұрын

    I have been watching a lot of the stories in the last weeks . Today I felt so sad for Jacks father . My children are 20 and 24 and since I heard so much about the fentanyl problem , I have started to talk to my family at dinner about the loss of the parents and all the things I have learned . Thank you at Texas pictures for bringing awareness to the world.

  • @porcupine783
    @porcupine7833 ай бұрын

    Best interview so far. Someone honest and easy to listen to.

  • @bipolarmomandnowwhat
    @bipolarmomandnowwhat3 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story we see so many mothers discussing their trauma, fathers need to be represented, too. Thanks again

  • @SkippySkippy-oy4eo
    @SkippySkippy-oy4eoАй бұрын

    When a dream is so real…it was! He needed to see you. 🙏🏻❤

  • @therosarylady
    @therosarylady3 ай бұрын

    Oh God, I wept through this entire video. I have watched them all, but Jack's story ripped my guts out. I'm so sorry, you're doing all parents A SERVICE. Sending all my love and respect ❤️

  • @kimpierce1483
    @kimpierce14833 ай бұрын

    You can see how deep the love he had for his son. You keep going to highschools your story will save lives.

  • @christinescott6344
    @christinescott63443 ай бұрын

    Dad. Don’t question your friendship with beautiful Jack. Unfortunately/tragically, there are times where we have no ability to guide our cherished loved ones, not knowing what is going on. Pure LOVE is what Jack experiences in your presence. With all the people left in the wake of this preventable, real pandemic, you are making a difference with talking about this ever growing epidemic. 😔 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @nancyforoughi5517
    @nancyforoughi55173 ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Such a handsome young man

  • @rebeccab.463
    @rebeccab.4633 ай бұрын

    Beautiful to hear a father's story. Thank You James for bringing your precious son Jack into our hearts. I can't imagine the pain & sorrow. Your courage to speak of this devastation will resonate as a wakeup call & healing balm to so many others. Blessings to you & your family.

  • @evanmerrell5310
    @evanmerrell53103 ай бұрын

    I’m so blessed for your story about your son my heart breaks for you I lost my 23 year old son on September 10 2021 to fentanyl mixed with herion and a divan and alcohol god bless you for sharing your sons life

  • @appliedknowledgeispower2024
    @appliedknowledgeispower20243 ай бұрын

    😢😢😢😭😭😭so so sorry for your loss ❤

  • @melanieredfield9736
    @melanieredfield97363 ай бұрын

    You are an amazing dad to share Jack with the world and to put yourself and your story out for the purpose of sparing others such pain. I'm sure your encounter with Jack was real and meant to help you in your journey through grief. It doesn't get better...but WE get better at channeling our pain into purpose. Your work will save lives & honor Jack's memory. So sorry for your loss.

  • @couponingwithkenstue7285
    @couponingwithkenstue72853 ай бұрын

    He lived a short life but it was a GOOD LIFE. Experiences and memories to last a life time. Job well done Parents.

  • @shellysbrewing
    @shellysbrewing3 ай бұрын

    I broke down because as a girl from Arizona, and a love for blues and hearing that deep steel guitar, he had it. Don't worry, he's still playing with all the greats, and you are such a loving father. I'm so sorry he was taken from you. I hope you and your family are able to find healing.

  • @hortenciac878
    @hortenciac8783 ай бұрын

    So sorry for your loss. May God comfort you in this most difficult of times.

  • @angelawilson3313
    @angelawilson33133 ай бұрын

    I realize nothing I have to say will help but know that what you shared and how articulately you shared has touched my heart. I shared this with my son and my granddaughter who are 18 and 20. I pray your message has a profound impact to stop this evil. God bless and comfort you and your wife. And your daughter. 🙏🏻💗

  • @Marymaryblackman
    @Marymaryblackman3 ай бұрын

    I’m getting a real sense of this great young man, you have set it out for us wonderfully. I’m so so sorry for what happened to him and to your family.

  • @Rose-zn5ql
    @Rose-zn5ql2 ай бұрын

    Thank you James for sharing you and your beautiful son ‘s story. What a brilliant young man Jack was. I’ve had one of those vivid message dreams from my father after his death. It was bright, blindingly colourful and serene all at the same time, he didn’t speak to me but smiled broadly and I was reassured that he was pain free and in a wonderful place. A blessing to be sure. Keep spreading the message Fentanyl Fathers. Love all the way from Australia. Rest In Peace Jack 🎸

  • @lydiakinnaman3679
    @lydiakinnaman36793 ай бұрын

    Thank for giving awareness to this killer young, adults, professionals, races, male, female. Sorry for your loss.

  • @shirleymcgrath2821
    @shirleymcgrath28213 ай бұрын

    Dear Jack's Dad, your son came to you in that dream. My Dad came to me, as well,, after a difficult illness....I was supposed to be in and out procedure and woke up 7 days later in the hospital. I must have suffered PTSD when I was finally discharge. My Dad came to me , it was real and vivid. My family are Irish Catholic as well. My thoughts are with you and Kathy and Samantha. Keep that dream and you keep him close. I never had another visit 20 years later

  • @cherokeeheartct8633
    @cherokeeheartct86333 ай бұрын

    They are dying,younger and younger.Lost my Beautiful Mom "my best friend",to COPD.Lost my middle Brother in 2016,drug overdose, lost my baby Brother Aug 5,2022, to drug overdose. LOST My Dad Aug 17,2023.Im so glad n thankful that my Mom wasnt here when I lost my Brothers,if she had been,she would have given up soon.But I saw my Dad loose his 2 sons,n Ive never seen my Dad cry,but he broke down like a baby.Its crazy to loose my Baby Brother Aug 5 2022,n loose my Dad 1 yr and a couple of weeks later.I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @carmenl163

    @carmenl163

    24 күн бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine how it is to lose that many people you love. I wish you all the best.

  • @cherokeeheartct8633

    @cherokeeheartct8633

    24 күн бұрын

    @carmenl163 Thank you.Its been a tough devistating,heartbreaking road,and I still feel like I'm grieving,probably will the rest if my life.I have no family left.

  • @michelledillon6812
    @michelledillon68123 ай бұрын

    You are an amazing and loving father! Jack was blessed to have you in his life and the legacy you are creating in his name will live on for many many years! Thank you for sharing your story! I pray you find peace and comfort knowing the difference you are making🙏🏻

  • @annreeves77
    @annreeves773 ай бұрын

    I've watched a lot of these stories and none have touched me quite like this one. You can feel how much this Dad loves his son. As a mother of three boys that are just breaking into adulthood, this is my biggest fear. God bless your family ❤

  • @CM-wf2uo
    @CM-wf2uo3 ай бұрын

    Jack seemed like a smart, talented, kind, and handsome young man. The world lost a good soul. I hope his story can help some other young person to stay away from this poison.

  • @glcmranger421
    @glcmranger4213 ай бұрын

    He said, “Everybody has tried drugs…” NO! That’s simply not reality! People need to stop with this statement. What is wrong with telling our children that drugs are not for experimenting?! Why do some parents think it’s harmless to do drugs, but “just don’t do the counterfeit drugs.” Kids, get to know your drug dealer on a personal level, so that way you will be safe to use only his drugs. I grew up with peers who did drugs and those who never did drugs. I had no problem telling my peers “No,” when they asked if I wanted some of whatever they were doing. We are out here among the population, but how could that be if “Everybody” experiments with drugs at one time or another? I still hold out hope that these videos are saving lives, because the public is realizing how stupid we are to think it’s okay to experiment with drugs of any kind.

  • @tanyaperales6681

    @tanyaperales6681

    3 ай бұрын

    Oh whatever you know what he meant! Just you haven’t! Wrong page to be on!

  • @glcmranger421

    @glcmranger421

    3 ай бұрын

    @@tanyaperales6681 You seriously believe I’m the only person who hasn’t? You might be on drugs right now, with that thinking. Thank you, for proving my point. Be careful where and who sells you drugs, please. Better yet, don’t do drugs.

  • @J0SHUAKANE

    @J0SHUAKANE

    3 ай бұрын

    @@glcmranger421 sounds like you need drugs🙄😒

  • @angieb2930

    @angieb2930

    3 ай бұрын

    We can’t control our children when they are away from us..some kids struggle and make bad decisions and the worst can happen , like it has in this poor family’s case but…I agree, there are people that say no.. that have fear of the consequences both physically and mentally, know that it will not be tolerated by their parents and there will be repercussions ,heaven forbid, like turning off the wifi, no access to the car or spending money etc etc …I too had friends that did drugs but most of them didn’t. Normalizing drugs for whatever reason is wrong and it’s that relaxed attitude that plays a part in making it easier for some to take that step. Just my opinion , and I respect everyone else’s.

  • @terripebsworth9623

    @terripebsworth9623

    3 ай бұрын

    I never touched drugs or alcohol. My first drink was a courtesy glass of champagne, a toast at a wedding when I was in college - didn't want to be rude. I still seldom drink. I had a VERY difficult childhood, opening my first business and bank account at age 11 (a newspaper stand in 1970). I needed the money to survive, to eat and buy my required school books. The one thing I knew for sure was that I would need my UNIMPAIRED witts about me every single day in order to succeed and (as planned) thrive. I dared not touch ANY drugs. And that's a VERY slippery slope. Dependency must be hell and must create depression and anxiety in itself. I never got depressed or sick for that matter. I didn't have time for that or wallowing in useless self pity.

  • @nickinurse6433
    @nickinurse64332 ай бұрын

    I am so grateful to these brave parents for sharing their stories. I had no idea, even as a nurse who gives out fentanyl therapeutically that this was happening. I am now teaching my grandchildren about this danger. I do believe these warnings have saved lives

  • @desertgirl3374
    @desertgirl33743 ай бұрын

    No one in the world should ever have to feel the pain that this family feels because some heartless individuals in LE and otherwise treated this precious young man like he didn’t matter. He did matter. Every single one of these family members had such a valuable perspective for us to hear and I’m so glad they felt compelled to share with us. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and I’m sending all my love. 🙏🏼

  • @marytague6268
    @marytague62683 ай бұрын

    What an amazing dad/father/husband! So sorry for your loss as, I, too lost my daughter at 22 from suicide but, our pain is the same. Closure is not a word in my vocabulary. I have learned to “go through” not “over”. Love to you & yours.🙏❤️

  • @yvetterivera846

    @yvetterivera846

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @elishamiyahira4301
    @elishamiyahira43013 ай бұрын

    Every beautiful thing your son was while he was here. I saw it all in you sir. You spoke well. Your grief and healing will come the more you talk and share I think.

  • @minwade5436
    @minwade54363 ай бұрын

    Condolences for losing yr much loved son; Jack. The pain is ever present & gnawing when yr awake. You are doing good things with a sense of purpose which honours Jack & educates others. Not everyone is a picture of “an addict”. One pill can kill so glad you used the analogy of “Russian roulette” which most young people can understand. There’s a special place in hell for those perpetrators & pushers of these illegal pills. Nothing can ever replace Jack but he will always be part of you & proud of yr willingness to help others. God bless. Best wishes from Adelaide; South Australia🦘🐨🇦🇺💐

  • @cindyburton
    @cindyburton2 ай бұрын

    I hope anc pray that the Fentanyl Fathers will get around every state and speak to every high school kid in America. We need you so much. Our children need to hear and feel your loss, because telling them isn't the same. Thank you. You are giving a great gift to parents.

  • @kidstuff44555
    @kidstuff445553 ай бұрын

    Losing your child is a grief that never leaves you, the pain stays sharp for the rest of your life

  • @tolkienista3783
    @tolkienista37833 ай бұрын

    I'm writing this from the UK and I'm truly sorry for the loss of your amazing son. I honestly don't know anything about fentanyl but I've learnt a lot about it from your honest testament and the devastating consequences it's having on young lives. This has been a hard watch, but a must watch.

  • @ItalianAngel21175
    @ItalianAngel211753 ай бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss McCarthy Family. 💔😢 For every life saved just hearing Jack's story, makes Jack's death not in vain. May you find peace. My brother committed suicide and I took that in the worst way imaginable, but one year later to the day my brother came to me in a dream. To validate he used the last place we were together, The Gallery an underground mall in Philadelphia. He told me he didn't mean to do it he was just very angry at that moment and that he was sorry, and that he was really okay. I didn't want him to go but he had to go. From that point on I was okay knowing he was okay! I believe Jack wanted you to know he was okay so you could be okay! 🙏💖🌹

  • @hadassahvered2851
    @hadassahvered28513 ай бұрын

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son! May his memory always be a blessing to you and your family. My 45 year old daughter and I live together. She gets severe anxiety at times. I did not know what that is but it helps her when I lay down close to her and put my hand on her back or stroke her head. And sleep with her. She has had several traumatic experiences in her life. She takes prescription opioids and handles responsibility. A highly intelligent and creative beautiful woman. I am so grateful for her in my life. And Jesus.

  • @nikola2812

    @nikola2812

    3 ай бұрын

    Awww, you're such a sweet Mother!! I'm so lucky that I also have a Mum that's just as caring as you and understands severe anxiety/depression. Just know that you're appreciated and loved so much for being there for her. 💗

  • @hadassahvered2851

    @hadassahvered2851

    3 ай бұрын

    @@nikola2812 Thank you for your words. This is not something I have ever spoken of before until this public place. I do so only for the purpose of it may help another understand anxiety/ depression. Most of us ache to be able to help someone close to us with anxiety. Often they turn to drugs. But touch and holding someone without talking is a powerful healing tool. I am glad you have a kind and understanding mom. My daughter is very appreciative.

  • @carmenl163

    @carmenl163

    24 күн бұрын

    I literally cried while reading your comment. I've always longed for one of my parents to comfort me. It has been my biggest wish. As a child, I would dream about it. Or I would hold my dolls and pretend I was my mom and they were me. Please hold and strike your daughter whenever you can. It's a life saver.

  • @Mskaytee
    @Mskaytee3 ай бұрын

    Sending love and prayers to the McCarthy family as well as the Fentanyl Fathers! Thank you for bringing awareness to this poisoning and sharing the stories of your loved ones. ❤ Fly High Jack 🎸🕊️

  • @RLFinTX
    @RLFinTX3 ай бұрын

    Why are these kids getting the medications that they clearly need from their doctors? I’m not understanding this each time I listen to a similar story. I have several autoimmune diseases with one being neuropathy which is extremely painful and I take the medication from my doctor. If he was in the hospital for it, why not continue it. Gabapentin or Lyrica are given for it. It’s not even a scheduled drug. So many logical questions.

  • @MyOwnPersonalFantasy

    @MyOwnPersonalFantasy

    3 ай бұрын

    The old "what do you call someone who graduates with a c average?...Doctor" joke probably rings a little true. A LOT of bad and negligent medical professionals exist in America, sadly. Its BAD. For every one person that gets a good doctor and the help they need, I don't even want to know how many patients don't get that, probably a very large number.

  • @Iambrandilee
    @Iambrandilee3 ай бұрын

    You sir are a beautiful human being that has turned tragedy into something that can potentially help millions of people by telling his story. Jack would be so proud of you!

  • @dorisandujar8277
    @dorisandujar8277Ай бұрын

    I've been binge watching so many of these videos about lives that have been affected by fentanyl. This is the first Dad I've heard and how you speak of your son is so heartwarming. I just can't get over the loss of so many young people to this epidemic. I lost 2 sons to AIDS and I don't know if I would feel any differently had I lost mine to this Fentanyl poisoning. Losing my boys at 23 and 25 two years apart was devastating as a Mother. But I had known since they were in grade school that their lives would be cut short. Losing a child is hard, period but losing a child to this drug poisoning is murder. So much more should be done to prevent this from continuing on. Thank you Dad for sharing a part of your son's life, he must have been an amazing child to have had the pleasure in calling your son.

  • @lizdumbrell6799
    @lizdumbrell67993 ай бұрын

    I'm watching from the UK...My teenage grandsons will be watching this at the weekend......Sincere condolensces, we can see you adored each other...I'm so sorry xx

  • @pointerlover3492
    @pointerlover34923 ай бұрын

    Thank you for telling Jack’s story. He was so much more before that fateful day. I really believe your dream was Jack coming to you and telling you he was okay. God bless you and your family 💙

  • @pam164
    @pam1643 ай бұрын

    His son visited him in his dream, something he will treasure all his life. Poor family.

  • @whendis.roberts9903
    @whendis.roberts990324 күн бұрын

    Music is not always all about what others want to hear. If you believe in what your playing and it uplifts you and gives you joy.....Thats great.Its also about what speaks to your Soul when listening and Playing Music. It matters what touches your Soul. A three Chord Song is not all that everyone wants to hear always.To me a three chord song gets boring to play. I like the challenge of multiple vomplex chords and Rhythms. Its great. Its also about what you want to play. Whats in your Soul is what im trying to say. Im sorry for your loss. My Daughter passed away 22 months ago from a Fentanyl overdose. She was only 31 years old and has three yound kids...my Grandchildren. Its Devastating. Absolutely devastating She is my Best friend. She will always be my Best Friend. Im totally Devastated. God Bless you.

  • @SarahSmith-mu1wc
    @SarahSmith-mu1wc3 ай бұрын

    Omg when he talks about the dream...😭😭😭 I can relate. I lost my best friend to suicide in January of 2020. I've only dreamt of her once, and as soon as my eyes opened, all I wanted to do was fall back asleep so I could tell her all of the things one more time. 💔 My heart breaks for these families that have lost their children to this epidemic. Their strength and resilience are so admirable. I cannot imagine the agony of losing a child, and I pray that someday the joy of memories made will replace the sadness they feel right now. 💙🙏💙

  • @Courtney8240
    @Courtney82403 ай бұрын

    What you have done sir is very honorable. I lost the love of my life. 9yr anniversary is coming up but it feels like yesterday. Grief has its steps but I feel is different for all of us. I’m a pediatric icu nurse, I’ve seen innocent lives be taken. I always wonder why our pure hearted, beautiful souls are taken young. All while the ones that don’t care about others live to be old. Thank you for sharing and starting what you and your friends have. 🙏🏼💗

  • @LexisHauls
    @LexisHaulsАй бұрын

    This one hit me. I just want to hug all these parents. I feel so bad and the kids are all young teenagers or young adults 😞 I pray that you get the peace you need🙏

  • @KellyBroadway-qm8kz
    @KellyBroadway-qm8kz3 ай бұрын

    This is a beautiful tribute to Jack. I've shared this with others that have children, and I hope they take the time to watch it. Every word was heartfelt, and the pain in your voice was evident. I realize you never get over a loss like this, but you're channeling your pain into purpose that will help others.

  • @Elaine-yw1ir
    @Elaine-yw1ir3 ай бұрын

    Sir, I completely feel what you're going thru, may your handsome son RIP, he was/is a beautiful human being, one Xanax, exactly what my nephew took, he died immediately 😢 💔, I'm so sorry you had to go thru such, Jack's story will be a Mission, don't ever forget all the great times!!! ❤❤❤

  • @heatherbarrett9315
    @heatherbarrett93153 ай бұрын

    Ahhhh😢 what a brilliant testament to a wonderful soul. He was definitely an empath and a true earth Angel. Sorry for the loss of such a beautiful young man. ❤

  • @taniakidd9678
    @taniakidd96783 ай бұрын

    You touched me through your video about your dear son. You are honoring Jack in a beautiful way by describing your experience as a learning opportunity for the rest of us. I wish you peace and love and wonderful memories of Jack. He was so lucky to have you. ❤

  • @joannsolano1094
    @joannsolano10943 ай бұрын

    My condolences to you, family and friends. Thank you for sharing. I lost my grandson 4/17/2023 of fentanyl/meth overdose a couple of weeks before his 31st birthday. Pain is very difficult, I feel your pain.

  • @debbieworthington6151
    @debbieworthington61513 ай бұрын

    ❤🎉 Keep his memories alive! Talk about him, Often.. My son also passed during a 2001 graduation party, I don't have a

  • @ChocolateEClaire16_
    @ChocolateEClaire16_3 ай бұрын

    Oh dad 😢 you did all you could. You’re a wonderful dad. I’m so sorry. This is so awful.

  • @annleerinehart7348
    @annleerinehart734825 күн бұрын

    I’ve had these conversations with my daughter and I fear I can’t control what happens. This is one of my greatest fears and I can’t imagine what the loved ones go through in these situations. It’s terrifying..

  • @marisabryant6099
    @marisabryant60993 ай бұрын

    Jack must be so proud of the work you’re doing. Thank you for sharing his story. I will share it with my preteen and young teen children. You are making a tremendous difference! I’m deeply sorry for your loss.

  • @user-cz5ei2ef5o
    @user-cz5ei2ef5o2 ай бұрын

    I'm watching your story from Australia & I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Jack x I'm here on you tube seeing more & more stories of fentiny deaths in young adults. Unknowingly mostly. It's heartbreaking. ! Good on you for speaking to youths at schools etc . We are lucky here, so far..... that drug is probably around but definitely not an epidemic, like USA. I'm sorry again for your loss, & wish you all the best. Sandy from Aussie. ❤

  • @geraldiana
    @geraldianaАй бұрын

    Im so so sorry. Its so scary, you had such a close relationship and you obviously are a very good father, theres nothing else you could of done. What a gigantic loss for you. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @karliann1
    @karliann13 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. I have to believe these videos and those sharing these difficult life altering circumstances are saving at least one person every time. I am so sorry for the loss of Jack.

  • @marycreaney173
    @marycreaney1733 ай бұрын

    On my goodness how courageous are you to share your son Jack's story. I am so very sorry that you son died so very tragically and I think Jack would be tremendously proud of your courage and strength. I hope by sharing your experience with young people they will keep your strong message in their hearts regarding buying pills on the internet. Please keep carrying the message of hope with all of these dads, you will eventually see a sea change and lives will be saved. Kindest thoughts and prayers. Mary, Belfast, Ireland

  • @SaphiraAnderson-he4cg
    @SaphiraAnderson-he4cg3 ай бұрын

    I watch these all the time and I dont know the pain the families feel fisthand but I had my son ovedose but he was bought back but watching this it had me crying thank you for helping the word get out....

  • @berbilo
    @berbilo2 ай бұрын

    wow, how he poured his heart and soul out, it's beautiful. This is all so difficult but the only reasonable explanation to this hell, to this world, is that everything happens for a reason of love.

  • @martyliming6171
    @martyliming61713 ай бұрын

    I’m so sorry💔 I wish there were words to help but there aren’t. Bless all of you

  • @MelanieVandamme-rh4pr
    @MelanieVandamme-rh4pr3 ай бұрын

    Wow Jamie!!! Thoughts and prayers to you, Cathy and your daughter. You will change lives every day. xoxo

  • @amandanoel26
    @amandanoel262 ай бұрын

    It seriously breaks my heart how many videos there are on this. Thankfully I survived my fentanyl overdose and haven’t touched it since. 3 years off of it 😢❤ I just pray my kids won’t turn out like me