But, what if a relationship is based on similarity and not polarity? Also, me personally, it’s kind of misleading to describe a lot of things as “feminine” or “masculine”.

I consider myself a masculine character. I have ambition, sometimes even too much, I have drive purpose and I'm very conscientious, very organized and planned. Yet for some reason I find dominatrix type of women attractive who bosses me around.

@humbertovasguez.

2 ай бұрын

You may be in a phase where you like the challenge a warm woman brings. Challenges you to grow and prosper in your goals as apposed to a cool woman helping you relax.

@barrettoliver2009

2 ай бұрын

Thats because they're hot . Don't overthink it . And remember , a dominant woman wants to dominate a good man . She wants to boss around a winner , have her champ worship her . No hot dom ladies want losers , they want hot people . Now most prefer a muscley masc sub , but some prefer fem subs too .

Hey, I’m greatly enjoying your videos lately BECAUSE they relate to my life. Why do we care about other people or things? If they can relate to us and we to them, right? So, that’s why. I watched your 4 signs of not being ready for a girlfriend and I realized I still needed to work on myself - have stable finances first, have my own life first, and not be or try not to be the avoidant type I usually am (based on what I remember you talked about). Also, I’m enjoying this video. I was usually more on the feminine side most of my life, and throughout my 20s, and I feel only from my early 30s (I’m 32 now) I’m starting to be masculine and “growing into myself”. It comes from being frustrated with not being who I want and not having what I want, people walking all over me, wanting to do something with my life, wanting to take charge, learning to stand up for myself, learning to speak directly and speak with a clear tone, things like that. As a guy, you have to be assertive, stand your ground, go after what you want and be OK not getting it AND trying again, as we all know by now. Anyway, I have limited dating/intimate/physical experiences, because I either wasn’t interested in dating/relationships in my 20s and in HS and college, and largely didn’t like the girls who were into me (so pushed them away). I now realize that - no wonder - why I also attracted more masculine girls earlier in my life. Anyway, I want to be able to express my sexual intentions directly while I look into a girl’s eyes, so that’s something that.. it gets easier the more social I get and start talking with anyone and everyone (which I usually don’t do since I’m reserved and more introverted). I used to play video games too, but with me, it’s usually more about just playing guitar in my room or watching movies/shows, reading books.. so lately I started going out more and trying to find events and concerts to go to. Let me stop right here with this novel. Apologies for length. Just wanted to let you know I’m happily subscribing. (I won’t use any emoji here like I normally do because… ‘tis MASCULINE, hah!).

@humbertovasguez.

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for leaving this comment Zuhairreza, I strongly agree and relate to everything you have said. There is a lot of pain that come with suppressing yourself and I can't help but feel I have done it my whole life as well. Personally I have found true happiness with leaning into my own authenticity and it seems you're doing the same. Keep it up brother.

Great video man. I couldn't help to relate the fact you stated about femenine girls making it more complicated. Last year I had a terrible date where a girl would be really distant towards me, even though she was into me the first time we met. I gave up easily and didn't chase her, but sometimes I think she wanted me to be more masculine idk. What's the limit to chase or insist when the act like that? How to even know if they lost interest? I admit it, I also attracted masculine girls in my past and I want to change that. Have a good one!

@humbertovasguez.

2 ай бұрын

You were probably best in brushing it off and understanding there is an abundance of women. I still have yet to understand the "chase" game. Playing hard to get is honestly not something I am all too interested in, I'd much rather have a girl that is in complete aww over me and goes for what she wants. The scenario was weird because men can come across as intimidating so I didn't think too much of it.

@cebaristus

2 ай бұрын

@@humbertovasguez. true af man. I´m afraid the more you play the more you learn. And I learned the bad way, because I texted her a few days after that and she ghosted me, so I guess she really wasn´t that into me. That hurt.

@5kitz

2 ай бұрын

@@cebaristus Nah man that's not a bad way to learn. Even texting her a few days later was a mistake. There is millions and millions of other women that are potentially better. When he talks about abundance its very true, even if you don't actually have those options, act like it. Being hung up over a short term "thing" is never worth your time. Don't regret what happened just know how to act for next time and be thankful that you learned.

“Throughout the ages”? How old is this guy? 🤔

@bassguitarislife3419

2 ай бұрын

He gets a 👍 though. Good talk.

@Menaceblue3

2 ай бұрын

He was born ages ago

I really don't care.I don't think playing video games or cooking cleaning have anything to do with masculine or feminine energy. What i care about is having similar interests.i am not interested in makeups,romantic movies,gossiping about daily stuff.I dont enjoy gossiping about sports either. But i like music and adventure movies,i love someone with creative ideas for business. So if a girl is interested in those fields and good at cooking then she is good match for me

@prashanthb6521

2 ай бұрын

You partner based on values and principles because they are permanent. Not based on interests and passion because they are like seasons, they ebb and flow with time.

@Blackpill149

2 ай бұрын

@@prashanthb6521 Well values would b not a 304 that sells body online and not tattoos,piercings addict, doesn't eat garbage and goes to gym with me 3 times a week or goes for travelling different places with me,wise and of course no-1 breaks the bed with me more often. And what principles are you talking about?

@JuniperGal-ek2pu

Ай бұрын

@@prashanthb6521 values and principles are also capable of changing. It’s okay to want to find a person that shares similar hobbies, interests as you. How else are you two gonna have fun together? 😂