Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

@peterwilliams6361

Жыл бұрын

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

@DavidVelasquez9

Жыл бұрын

@@peterwilliams6361 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

@peterwilliams6361

Жыл бұрын

@@DavidVelasquez9 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

@DavidVelasquez9

Жыл бұрын

@@peterwilliams6361 her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

@DavidVelasquez9

Жыл бұрын

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

😄 this was so hilarious. I love the Ladies' responses. And the questions too. Love the set, the outfits, everything!

The secret to good marriage, is to have God as your source 🙏🏾

Yasss!!! Thanks so much for having me! I learnt so much from you amazing ladies ❤

@NeloOkeke

Жыл бұрын

yassss

@MiracleUchenna299

Жыл бұрын

Sotyyyy!!! You are such an INTELLIGENT WOMAN!!!

@SotySpecial

Жыл бұрын

@@MiracleUchenna299 thank you!! 😊

@VICTORY_CHINAZA

Жыл бұрын

Lol 😂 Sotee and divorce 5&6 😂😂

@SotySpecial

Жыл бұрын

@@VICTORY_CHINAZA ah ah!! 😂

Try and make your husband your very best friend and you will get the very best out of your marriage. Make forgiveness unconditional before you say I do . Lastly never anticipate perfection in your partner. Remember, temptation is part of the Lord’s Prayer

Tchaiiiiii you said she married very young at 20 21, see me here thinking what about me that married at 18, I will celebrate 19 years anniversary this year😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I married as a baby then😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I love the show. Loved the answers. You all look 🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍😍.

@anonnona6433

Жыл бұрын

Ofcourse. You were a baby 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 How did your parents take it?

@ShalouCuisine

Жыл бұрын

@@anonnona6433 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Well my dad was ok with it but my mum was not really fine with it but ended up accepting it. Today she is the proudest mum ever😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂she forgot she wasn’t for it at first ooo😂😂😂😂😂😂

PRECIOUS KAY- kzread.info SOTEE - www.youtube.com/@SotySpecial EWOMA ISAAC - www.youtube.com/@Ewomaisaac

My husband can’t have a female bestie , because what do besties discuss that husband and wives don’t have to discuss🙂🙂

@followGreatness

Жыл бұрын

The lady is not his beastie. They lady is there to steal the man but realizes the society would kill her ....especially if she is oyinbo.

@IjeomaGloriaAnopueme

Жыл бұрын

I wonder oh

I commend these women for being mature enough to respect their men and the African culture. This should be put out there more than ever. We need more women like this that get together to talk sense. Instead of posting naked pictures on Instagram for likes.

I agree fully with sotee. Luckily I'm still single and my single status is a tool to learn and pick carefully who to settle down with. Because once you enter OTILO. Even if you eventually divorce you will still see Shege. Because it's not easy.

@mayowaoyedokun9828

Жыл бұрын

Otilo, lol

You ladies are not just smart but also gorgeous. Relationships are different and unique. Everyone is different, characteristics and individuals personality varies. Relationships in marriage is not one shoe fits all. Everyone adjust to what works for them. What works in your relationship may not work for another. In general terms, as life evolves, with children, finances and etc in most cases you also evolve. The episode was absolute delight. You might want to moderate and allow your guest time to conclude their thoughts without interruption and the rowdiness that ensues. When everyone is talking at the same time. Really interesting episode. It was a lot of fun. I regularly watches your channel from southern California USA.

This was totally beautiful to watch❤... but personally I feel the ladies were not honest about having urges to cheat, we wake up everyday to make the decision to be with our partners brahhhh THE URGE IS THERE! We choose not to purse it.... period

@brittanydeweaver6123

Жыл бұрын

It’s also respectful to never say the opposite with this question

@obn1459

Жыл бұрын

If they said what u want them to say, their marriage will hit the rock. B4 u talk check the consequences...

@giftykeziem6784

Жыл бұрын

@@obn1459 Right 💯🤜🏼

@Lizziebrace

Жыл бұрын

@@obn1459 so why stare up the conversation in the 1st place or ask the question. In my circle we are honest with ourselves and partners and nobody’s marriage is hitting nothing!... you can’t be forming woke when ure not, I respect people opinions and all but blatantly lying unprovoked is a no no bro. It’s not giving period!

Feeling the bright colour and your hair looking nice nelo. The hair looks very natural. I like what nelo said. Always speak up. And you can say no sometimes. Its ok to say no as well to me you cant both always be in mood 100% of time day in day out. Thats impossible. All human beings feelings are different on different days hmmm i think she wasnt truthful on that bit. Never give up your dreams for spouse cos it will just end up in resentment

Nice video. A quick correction though, Sitz baths are highly recommend post partum for women who had episiotomy repairs. Helps to reduce the discomfort in the area as well as reduce risks of the wound getting infected. What we doctors kick against strongly is sitting in HOT water. The temperature of the water for Sitz bath should be lukewarm. Water is boiled and allowed to cool down. So I think that's the mistake a lot make. Sitting in hot water will damage the stitches and could also further cause injury.

@deep8310

Жыл бұрын

Nice one there. Water for bathing not the one for prepping chicken.

Precious Kay I like the fact you involve someone as needed.Sometimes you cannot solve issues by yourself…it’s about knowing the right person to involve without letting the whole world hear about your issues.

The one lady spoke very intelligently on that particular question… having many exes before getting married is not beneficial in any way. It actually raises the likelihood of infidelity in marriage and the likelihood of divorce. I don’t care how long it takes for me to become a financial giant, I’d always go for a significantly younger woman with little to no experience in the ways of men.

@mikemikeey6861

Жыл бұрын

Yeah.. The lady called Precious. Married at age 21. She is really a high value woman and a virtuous woman indeed.

Sometimes or even most times our biological clock don't allow us enough time to find Mr right. We end up accepting someone as to start baby making. Plus families and societal pressure 'u are not getting any younger or oh; Ur biological clock is ticking ' Thanks ladies I enjoyed this episode Una too much xx

We all know they weren't entirely honest about the cheating aspect. One amongst them might have already dealt with such issues but won't want to expose it. But either ways I'm grateful by willingness to be open about other things 🤷

I really enjoyed this episode. Very powerful and I fully agree with Sotee you cheat I'm out nd I tell my Hubby a lot and he just laughs and I truly mean it. Once a cheater always a cheater... Thank you so much ladies you were all amazing

Hell NO! That’s the answer, my husband can’t have a female as a bestie that’s wrong to me plss .. I really enjoyed this episode 😊

@followGreatness

Жыл бұрын

Yea. A man who brings curses to himself especially if he has a wife. Wives please ...No see finish to a real husband. Women out here are not smiling.

As a single lady, I'm Learning so much from 4 awesome women❤️

What I absolutely live about Nelo is her down right,unapologetic realness...she says what she says with her FULL CHEST, if you want to judge, judge her,she no send nobarryyyyy!!This type of freedom to be who you want to be and not feel the need to apologise is what we all need to be..most especially women...if you love being taken care of,it's not a crime,it's not laziness (many ladies have their own independent income anyways).They just love having a man loving and spending on them.

@godschild4615

Жыл бұрын

@Angela Njoku. But they shouldn't get so used to it because nothing last for ever otherwise, they'll soon come crying on social media like Mr. Ibu's wife when their husband is down and can no longer provide for them and everyone will call them lazy

@wilsonemmanuel1352

Жыл бұрын

Many men perceive that as disrespect. If u talk that way, you won’t even know when you’re wrong. You’ll end up saying sorry when u realize you’re wrong. If you continue it might lead to problems

Wow so amazing thanks Nelo for having me you’re super amazing

@NeloOkeke

Жыл бұрын

anytime 😘

@mikemikeey6861

Жыл бұрын

U re awesome and a blessing. Please continue to grow in wisdom and love for ur family.

@PreciousKay

Жыл бұрын

@@mikemikeey6861 thanks 🙏

Very great advice from the lawyer to open your eye before marriage because it’s difficult to change a person in marriage.

Yayy! Loudly woman is back. Amazing conversation with the ladies. This session is educating and entertaining as well. Keep it up nelo.

Oh Nelo i just love your bluntness. I love these ladies too wow. I downloaded this video cuz of the caption and only watched it today after like 3 months. I immediately hit the subscribe button You ladies are interesting, amazing, infact eh the package was worth unveiling. I really think more ladies need to hear this. So I make it my duty to share this video link.thumbs up

@NeloOkeke

Жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you so much 😊

Aww, see me smiling so sheepishly... This was so an interactive session and i had the most fun. Thank you once again for having me Nelo

@NeloOkeke

Жыл бұрын

😘😘😘

@StephysSpace

Жыл бұрын

Weldon Ewoma ❤

@jessicawest224

Жыл бұрын

Well done Ewoma ❤

@rozyspace

Жыл бұрын

Well done girl ❤

@Mumof3els

Жыл бұрын

Proud of you girl… you got da vibes ❤

This is such a good video! Kept me glued till the end ❤

@NeloOkeke

Жыл бұрын

Thank you love. Glad you enjoyed it!

Sotonye your response on the marriage advice is everything lol I was saying yes yes yes 🙌🏽 . Lol that’s how I think. Please do your research before getting married because once you come to me with your (extreme) problems my only advice for you will be divorce. Happiness over title!! Loved watching 💙💙💙

Nelo this was a lovely get together/conversation with the women. I love the conversation with the ladies but I have to give it to the lady Soty. You are enlightened and can hold your own. I can speak with someone like her and not get bored. Please do not let anybody change you. You are a breathe of fresh air.

@SotySpecial

Жыл бұрын

Aww, thank you!! ❤️

@kosisookafor2850

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

This was quite fun to watch. Being married for 19years, I know that there are better solutions on some issues than was proffered here. But I love the decency of these women and interesting approaches to marriage issues. Love you ladies.

Those loudly woman cards Nelo was holding was everything for me. Made it so professional. Well done ladies.

Nelo this was great. My husband is 4 yrs older than me and is biggg on respect and I give him he gives me optimum respect too

I’m so glad I can hear these conversations, I can’t even begin to describe how much I have learnt and I enjoyed every bit of this video.

It's always good to fight for a partner you can't live without. Don't wait to regret. But if it's toxic and the boiling point is unhealthy, just get that needed fresh air and move on for sanity sake.

My twin and I were born through C-section and I see the scar on my mom's stomach each time.. I am Proud of her. 🥰🥰

Good programme. My take on marriage, sex, cheating, besties, soulmates etc is marriage is an institution on its own. It is for procreation and posterity so it needs utmost committment and hardwork. Whether you think you are connected or wished you married an exlover or you think you will cheat to be happy ot whatever, these same peoples in marriage will still give you and make you experience the same stress once married. Marriage is not for a feeble fantasical mind. Marriage is for the strong willed and fighters. Marriage must stress, shake and maybe close to make you go crazy but the goal in the end is for procreation, posterity and wealth. Marriage is a business so mind and guide your business jealousy. So before you embark on it make sure you are seriously and competently close to ready!

Is me sipping champagne while watching this topic shaa, everything you guys said is on point but I would like to add something, for a woman to cheat it's either she never loved the man from on set or that she isn't getting the emotional support she needs from the man, there are men that are hard to get through and women are wired differently when it comes to emotions, but for some women they just want the man's money probably, and for some they don't even understand what relationship and commitment really means (some women are super empty up head sorry to say so)

I wonder if that lady that her husband made her choose him over modeling feels any resentment towards him

@NeloOkeke

Жыл бұрын

I have a video with her alone that went up yesterday. Will answer your question.

@PreciousKay

Жыл бұрын

None at all 😂

@Olive-rl5iw

Жыл бұрын

It doesn’t look like she does. She made an excuse for his action. Bless her heart.

@mikemikeey6861

Жыл бұрын

Not at all.. It's called sacrifice and for the greater good. She's indeed a virtuous woman.

This program is absolutely amazing. To my dear lawyer. Marriage is a union of two imperfect people and it is the first human organization on earth and an institution of continuous learning. Like any other institution, some marriages start out very well but break down in a short time, which is why some start out difficult but become good examples. The main keys to a successful marriage are selflessness, learning, forgiveness, changing yourself not your partner, the spirit of contentment, and building trust. While divorce isn't strictly forbidden, it shouldn't sit on a bench and wait as a surrogate to work out marital grievances.

This is so educative especially to me as a growing lady, already preparing myself ahead. It’s very important as a single lady to learn from those that have gone ahead already to avoid unnecessary drama.

@Mariamsadventure

Жыл бұрын

Very true. Also, it’s good to observe and listen to some of your inner instincts. Watch the red flags and do not ignore them. No matter how subtle, if it exist, it will be there.

Hmmmm this video is deep, so much to learn … thank you mummies & wives ❤

This is very conversational I'm just smiling watching this I love every bit of the conversation Very interactive, value packed video✨

Why is the masculine lawyer lady taking the extremes? (very unlearned) ... the panelist closest to the moderator is good to go - femininity to the max! Great job ladies

We're here. Loudly woman is back yeeeaaahh💃💃💃💥

Loudly woman is back💃 Feedback taken well, audio is so crisp it can be a podcast. Well done Nelo👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Amazing conversations ladies 🙌 Sex is all about the mood and how your partner understands how to put you in the mood u will definitely want it.But it’s so hard havin sex every time in marriage,gets boring atimes,some pple it takes a lot to put them in the mood. As for cheating I feel like it’s so stressful cheating especially for women. We too busy and occupied thinkin of how to care for our home,except you with a partner that is not worth it or not giving you something u feel u missing.

Yessssssss Loudly woman is back 🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️ Let me drop my comment and continue watching...

Nelo!!! This was so refreshing to watch, especially in this day and age. I really enjoyed this, watching from the 🇬🇧. Please, put out more 😀

The honesty is top notch, Enlightening! Well done, Nelo! 👍🏽

🤣🤣I enjoyed the whole conversation Sotyyy did not come to play and the rest were all Soo involved Nelo the host was Soo good tooo with the questions .

So much knowledge here was too interesting to watch . I watched to the End. This is an honest conversation I enjoyed it.

LOUDLY WOMAN TO THE WORLD🌎💥 I've learnt so much and I've laughed so much too😂. This series is so educative and hilarious at the same time. Thanks to you all for your honest answers to the questions and sharing your experiences with us. Thumbs up👍 We singles, let's shine our eyes before we enter marriage biko. Make the choice

Change is change. Evolution is also change. Only God changes a person. It is important to know the person you want to marry. The truth nothing else.

I really enjoy it, Thanks to you beautiful ladies...Please we keep more of this

Lovely show! Please talk one after the other for future episodes

Diverse panel...No 2 people are the same. Absolutely loved this. However, I think they should allow one person to talk at a time. It was a bit confusing and noisy when everyone was talking at the same time. Loved this tho

Best episode so far. I do not want it to end. The lady with a low cut look so calm and mature. Loudly woman to the world 💞

Hmmm… Very interesting topics and conversation flow. I love the genuine responses from the ladies. The questions touched on real life issues and not social media make believe responses. Love eeeet ❤️

Definitely enjoyed this thoroughly 👌 Please let's have a part 2

Marriage is actually a limitation... No matter how you want to look at it.

@followGreatness

Жыл бұрын

So why do people now want to be limited?

@IjeomaGloriaAnopueme

Жыл бұрын

@@followGreatness maybe they didn't know they'll be limited😂

@jumokea2274

Жыл бұрын

​@@followGreatness it's a sacrifice not every woman is willing to make. It's enjoyable for some and limitation for those who want more out of life.

@ichooseviolence2532

Жыл бұрын

Then why do women like pressuring men to marry them?

@jumokea2274

Жыл бұрын

@@ichooseviolence2532 Age factor associated with finding a spouse to earn respect in the society. It is infact women who shame women the most for not getting married on time

I absolutely enjoyed this episode! I love all the women but sotonye just gained a fan❤

If these ladies had an option to be completely anonymous, would their answers to these questions be the same? They all appear to be sounding "Husbandly correct"

Here for Sotee’s energy 💯

The video was good but try to turn take more.sometimes all of you are talking at the same time and it becomes noisy.apart from that,great content

My question was answered and it was so helpful 💃🏾❤️Thank you so much

Nelo you are doing well. Love every bit of it

Well done darling Nelo!!! This was impactful, informative and fun. Kudos to all the ladies👏👏👏

Enjoyed this so much!!! So much wisdom! Thank you ❤

Very valid points ladies👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Well done Nelo

Soty's advice harsh oh🤣🤣🤣🤣. I liked the different perspectives. It was so interesting

Very insightful information for a single woman. Thank you!

Nice views expressed by these wonderful women. Nigerians are really great people

Great show...but sometimes it's hard to listen because sometimes there is talking over each other

I enjoyed the episode, lf Women can control themselves so Men tool can control themselves too.

I love working from home and the last 2 years have been the best years of my career in terms of work life balance

I really enjoyed this!!! ❤❤❤

I would love to marry a woman like Precious, she has really matured in marriage.

@mikemikeey6861

Жыл бұрын

Yeah.. Me too, she's really what I consider a high value woman. She knows her worth and with no body count, willing to sacrifice, submissive, and knows exactly what she wants and how to get what she want. A true definition of an african beauty in all aspect and a virtuous woman. To be honest I do settle for less cos they don't mk them like that anymore and it's almost delusional wanting a woman like that. Her husband must be thankful to God everyday.

I enjoyed every bit of this conversation and I can't relate with C sections ,cos I had my four kids vaginally and I agree with the ladies

I really enjoyed the conversation 🤣🤣 have been meaning to say this:Sotee is very intellectual...really loved the differences too like you said..balanced it all👌💯

I’m literally proud of you, our beautiful African Queens. ❤❤

I really enjoyed this video Sotee was so passionate, loved it!!!

@SotySpecial

Жыл бұрын

💕💕

Nelo I really enjoyed this but at the same time frustrated on how the ladies were speaking at the same time making me not to grab or hear each of them

@NeloOkeke

Жыл бұрын

pls just move on from this this 2023. tired of hearing this shit tbh. this was a conversation and sometimes people talk at the same time for few seconds. it doest happen the whole time and will definitely NEVER stop happening as long as people are having conversations. it happens to EVERYONE. infact Opera was known for this even Ellen. IT IS VERY NORMAL. Let's stop with all this unnecessary looking for what to criticise this 2023 abeg..

Nelly. Of truth I hate being a home mum and I always feel marriage limited me alots further more I'm still grateful for my good health and life.

When I was a child I behaved like a child but now that I’m adult I throw away childish things. Change is inevitable

It was a nice conversation, though you chose happily married ladies and professional ladies they know what to say on social media and if given the chance to speak in private they could say otherwise Next time just try to give each other turns to talk so that we all here what you would be saying Thanx so much l learnt a lot

I am a strong advocate for divorce, I love this ladies opinion on marriage,

Thank you for the show, it's highly educating and I am learning quite a lot. But you just have to watch your communication. What do you mean by "they are just dogs". Please let's be guided. If you have an experience don't pour it out on all men.

Sotonye spoke the minds of 80percent of the women ✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️

@mikemikeey6861

Жыл бұрын

And Precious spoke the minds of 99% men if not 100%😂

I am really enjoying this convo! Love the way your content is evolving Nelo Keep it up!

I love how Mrs. Sotee speaks. You guys are wonderful

The analogy of Masculine women and feminine men is funny because it implies being feminine means being lazy. What rather exists is a hyper independent woman and a laidback man. Being a woman is a LOT of responsibility and a true feminine man would be a huge relief to many working class women. A laidback man on the other hand is quite useless

@Advic77

Жыл бұрын

@Rachel_Oyebode Hmm .. l'm slightly confused with your definition, what's the difference between a feminine man and a laidback man. Because in one sentence femininity is equated to being laidback but in another you said feminine men would be a huge relief. Could you shed more light on your definition?

@racheloye

Жыл бұрын

@@Advic77 Everyone expects women to sacrifice themselves for men and family members all the time, yet these same people try to equate being feminine with being laid back when we all know the opposite is expected of actual women. Being feminine can be synonymous with being caring and nurturing but not with being laidback or lazy.

I love the conversation, it makes me laugh and know what women thinks about marriage majorly.

I can't imagine suffering this women destiny with a yeye man. God abeg

@mayowaoyedokun9828

Жыл бұрын

It's a curse, i can't wish it for NY enemy. With the man that values and treats his woman right, all the responsibilities comes easy to handle for the woman

I really learnt a lot from everyone of you, thanks for this, Sotonye got my laughing seriously saying she can not help, her husband is a divorce lawyer 😂😂😂

😂😂😂 please o Is everyday for me o 😂 😂 don’t say nobody can do it everyday biko 😂 some women don’t joke with it

I like these ladies objectivity and honesty. The frequency of sex part is really true. Men are perceived to want sex often more than the women but it's sometimes the other way round. Not that it's a bad thing though especially for someone like me who would rather a lady want me than I want her.

Nelo’s final advice works for me too. Since I started speaking up a lot has changed.

I’m a single lady but I learned a lot That will help me in my marriage I really appreciate ❤

Setting camera to have this convo with my ladies 🎉🎉