(Fe)Male Gazing | Drew Afualo ft. Brittany Broski | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 5

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Battle of the Gazes as Drew brings on Brittany Broski to clear up our view on male vs. female gaze.
Drew: linktr.ee/drewafualo
Brittany Broski: / brittany_broski
ABOUT THE COMMENT SECTION
It’s going DOWN in the comments in this new weekly show from defender of women on the internet, Drew Afualo! Join Drew and a new weekly guest as they explore the dreaded COMMENT SECTION of their tagged videos on TikTok. Through a candid discussion and lots of laughs, Drew keeps it real and gives in-depth advice on the issues that you care about most.
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  • @randomaccessmemories8912
    @randomaccessmemories89122 жыл бұрын

    Im so glad they found each other after being separated at birth. Touching.

  • @sarahjune8127

    @sarahjune8127

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just cackled

  • @dogs9858

    @dogs9858

    2 жыл бұрын

    This made me LOL

  • @soggycookie345

    @soggycookie345

    2 жыл бұрын

    LMFAO

  • @valerievelez7699

    @valerievelez7699

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @wednesday8161

    @wednesday8161

    2 жыл бұрын

    LMAOO 😭😭

  • @carolineuhh7644
    @carolineuhh76442 жыл бұрын

    Can we also talk about how men want a girl who likes the same things they like but once they find one who is truly into cars/sports/fitness they’re so quick to tear them down acting like women can’t realistically understand those topics like men do. They want a man to the core lmao

  • @user-np8yf8fj2w

    @user-np8yf8fj2w

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg ikr, I saw a TikTok abt a girl talking abt stocks and the comments were filled with men saying stuff like “I’d be heartbroken if my girl knew this much abt stocks” insinuating that the only way a woman can know anything abt the stock market is through a past ex, but then they put women down for “being dumb” and apparently not knowing anything abt such topics, it’s so stupid.

  • @Letnaturelive

    @Letnaturelive

    2 жыл бұрын

    THIS!!!!! Suddenly it’s not cool to be interested in football or some other guy had to show you ect. Like hello i am a human with interests ?!

  • @soggycookie345

    @soggycookie345

    2 жыл бұрын

    PREACHHHHH

  • @carolineuhh7644

    @carolineuhh7644

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Letnaturelive sUdDEnlY I KnOw mOre thAN You bECaUsE IM mAn gO Do mAkeUp!!!

  • @carolineuhh7644

    @carolineuhh7644

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-np8yf8fj2w like do they expects girls to be born knowing everything about stocks?? Lmao it’s hilarious how unaware they are of their stupidity

  • @freudianslipp
    @freudianslipp Жыл бұрын

    “hurr durr does feminism mean i can hit women??” as if they aren’t already hitting us.

  • @pinkkfloydd

    @pinkkfloydd

    Жыл бұрын

    The domestic violence abuse split is about 65-35. And lesbian couples have the highest rates of domestic violence.

  • @jujumama

    @jujumama

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pinkkfloydd guess that makes it ok then!! 🖕

  • @biancadesousa

    @biancadesousa

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pinkkfloydd thats from one study and its very inaccurate and no actual professional would take it serious

  • @Upforthreenights

    @Upforthreenights

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pinkkfloydd thank you sir

  • @Upforthreenights

    @Upforthreenights

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jujumama he's not saying it makes it ok, he's saying men aren't the only ones to blame

  • @danielleswartz1457
    @danielleswartz14572 жыл бұрын

    This makes me feel like I'm sitting on the floor in my room while my older sisters are chatting on the bed, I am so comfy and safe :)

  • @bernadetterogers4006

    @bernadetterogers4006

    2 жыл бұрын

    aww dis cute

  • @Carissaa

    @Carissaa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Pretty sure I'm older than both of them, but SAME

  • @thearlgrey

    @thearlgrey

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh sameeeeee!

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know I’m a month late, but I had to reply to you. Your comment was so sweet! I feel the same way, but I feel more like they’re my peers, they’re my friends. But I’m a little bit older than that, so that makes sense! Keeping your sweet Self!

  • @mariya_tortilla

    @mariya_tortilla

    Жыл бұрын

    Reminds me of hanging out/being babysat by my older cousins on her bed while she talked to her friends. She always involved me and i really appreciated that

  • @grumpyunicorn3069
    @grumpyunicorn30692 жыл бұрын

    Fun fact… Cleopatra would soak the sails of her ships in Jasmine perfume/essential oil so that when she went on diplomatic missions you could smell her coming before you even saw her ships…. Talk about making an entrance and making a power play! I like to think our perfume obsessed preteen selves are tapping into that kind of energy as we try to find ourselves lol

  • @julianamaia939

    @julianamaia939

    Жыл бұрын

    Or, again, it could be so she would be desirable to men. She used a scent to feel attractive. The male gaze.

  • @a.j.1819

    @a.j.1819

    Жыл бұрын

    @@julianamaia939 Not really. If she did it to be desirable, she did it to profit off of the male gaze. She was a smart woman and used mens attraction to her to secure political power.

  • @julianamaia939

    @julianamaia939

    Жыл бұрын

    @@a.j.1819 how exactly is displaying your attractiveness/womanly characteristics to secure your political power not misoginistic? She wasnt respected because she was a “smart woman”, she was respected bc she was beautiful. That IS the male gaze.

  • @yupyup1435

    @yupyup1435

    Жыл бұрын

    @@julianamaia939 well she had really fin large army. And the world doesn't revolve around men, if I finna feel like looking good that's for ME and not for you.

  • @val0_____________279

    @val0_____________279

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yupyup1435 slay.

  • @autumn4161
    @autumn41612 жыл бұрын

    I saw a tiktok where a man asked a woman “why are woman qualified to speak on masculinity” and she replied with… “The same way you are the most qualified to speak about whiteness. That you as a black man understand whiteness far more than I ever will. and that’s not to say it’s your labor or your work but you actually can teach us way more, because you have had to deal with it every single minute. When your the oppressed group, you know everything about the oppressor. You know things that they don't even know about themselves.”

  • @sailoraries8086

    @sailoraries8086

    2 жыл бұрын

    that's from the Man Enough podcast by Justin Baldoni

  • @milacvetkovic8835

    @milacvetkovic8835

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sailoraries8086 do you know which episode or maybe a timestamp? would love to watch that conversation

  • @milacvetkovic8835

    @milacvetkovic8835

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sailoraries8086 thank you!!

  • @imbobimbob

    @imbobimbob

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whoever said that is 100% correct and it's so unfortunate other oppressed groups can't just support each other.

  • @ko-lq7vu

    @ko-lq7vu

    2 жыл бұрын

    damn

  • @ceciliomendoza5138
    @ceciliomendoza51382 жыл бұрын

    I'm a gay stripper. And the story's I hear from straight men locker rooms has 100% surpassed anything I've seen or done😳

  • @Fronko_

    @Fronko_

    2 жыл бұрын

    SPILL? 😳

  • @imbobimbob

    @imbobimbob

    2 жыл бұрын

    Could you tell us a bit more about that?

  • @loveoflife3081

    @loveoflife3081

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol no !!!!😆

  • @nunpho

    @nunpho

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm curious 🤔

  • @lio8194

    @lio8194

    2 жыл бұрын

    Please give us more reasons to despise cis straight men

  • @miguelber1997
    @miguelber19972 жыл бұрын

    Interesting point about Timothee, two of his most famous acting jobs have been written and directed by a woman. Little Women and Lady Bird were written and directed by Greta Gerwig. So I would say that a lot of his characters have been done through the female gaze and people confuse that with his actual personality (which we the audience don’t really know)

  • @Thisisholly

    @Thisisholly

    Жыл бұрын

    Also his biggest movie call me by your name was directed by a gay male, so that probably contributes as well

  • @RachelIlacqua14

    @RachelIlacqua14

    Жыл бұрын

    This was an interesting comment, good point.

  • @rue-bee9916
    @rue-bee99162 жыл бұрын

    As a teenage girl watching this podcast has really made me realize how I think about /am effected by the actions of men around me. I didn’t know how much I change myself every day for men, Who value me less then bit coin and only talk about themselves… I feel like I am finding myself.

  • @kir-is-here

    @kir-is-here

    2 жыл бұрын

    from one internet stranger to another, i’m so proud of you for doing that self-reflection!! hope you have a good week and that you love continuing to find yourself♥️

  • @rue-bee9916

    @rue-bee9916

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kir-is-here from one internet stranger to another. Thank you, and I hope you have a great week

  • @XTheBeautyGuruX

    @XTheBeautyGuruX

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes bestie, welcome to the journey! It's gonna be a wild ride, and there's gonna be a lot to unlearn, but damn you're gonna be free.

  • @rue-bee9916

    @rue-bee9916

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@XTheBeautyGuruX :) damn I want to be free so bad. And I’ll work for it

  • @astro_funky13

    @astro_funky13

    2 жыл бұрын

    go off queen

  • @OOICIDE
    @OOICIDE2 жыл бұрын

    girl you gotta turn your mics volume up in the final cut of these. it’s so quiet then an ad comes and it’s screaming at me 😂🖤

  • @pluckyfox

    @pluckyfox

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree, my TV volume is at 100 and Drew is kind of hard to hear.

  • @gabrielerainee

    @gabrielerainee

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yess I listen in the shower and can't hear 😩 lol

  • @ryangray8075

    @ryangray8075

    2 жыл бұрын

    deadass omg

  • @pilarrrita

    @pilarrrita

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmaoooo I was looking for this comment. Had to throw my headphones in questioning if I gotta go see the ENT 😅

  • @hotsexyangel

    @hotsexyangel

    2 жыл бұрын

    YESSS I was hoping someone else would say something omg

  • @simoneblue12
    @simoneblue122 жыл бұрын

    8:04 Drew: “Selena Gomez..” Brittany: “Naturally.” UNDERRATED JOKE

  • @k8bug_

    @k8bug_

    7 ай бұрын

    so glad y’all noticed this too haha

  • @sarahnason5994
    @sarahnason59942 жыл бұрын

    Re: dress code, I remember feeling so confused in junior high because the dress code said no short shorts, but that’s all the teen girls’ stores sold. I literally didn’t know what to do. Now I realize this was one of my first experiences with the constantly opposing expectations of women that make it impossible for us to exist!

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    So very true.

  • @TheReMorseCode

    @TheReMorseCode

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not to be on my radfem moment but... Men uphold a patriarchal standard that sexualizes young women and then shame women for abiding by that standard BECAUSE shame and humiliation is part of control. The same men who shame women and girls when they dress provocatively secretly love it when women drsss that way. The average person's concept of their own sexuality is SO unhealthy and full of this shame and contradiction, whether inflicted on others or inflicted on themselves.

  • @mina-op8ql

    @mina-op8ql

    10 ай бұрын

    @@TheReMorseCode i know this is a year later, but pls continue being on ur radfem moment because i literally never thought abt this. i distinctly remember wondering why i couldnt wear shorts at like 8 yrs old even though thats literally majority of the pants section at the store for girls

  • @thekalamari
    @thekalamari2 жыл бұрын

    “it’s like men want that emotional support, and they want to cosplay a relationship, but when it actually comes down to committing and accountability, like, are you someone in my life that i can rely on? immediately no. and then they make YOU feel CRAZY!” girl, ain’t that the damn truth, wow. I LOVED THIS POD 🙌🏼💗

  • @MarcianMarshmallows

    @MarcianMarshmallows

    2 жыл бұрын

    That part scratched my brain in ways I couldn’t even imagine were possible. I love them so much

  • @emmanemz5824

    @emmanemz5824

    2 жыл бұрын

    this is so damn true. I've had quite a few guys want every benefit in a relationship but they don't even have to be loyal to me cause they don't want to commit and be responsible. and then paint me as the crazy one cause I want to see it going somewhere

  • @seds94

    @seds94

    2 жыл бұрын

    For sure. Men dont take accountability like women do. Women also communicate better and more direct and are always the first to apologize. And men are so emotional too like they cant control it. If only men were more like women the world would be a better place for sure

  • @sayeeed1303

    @sayeeed1303

    2 жыл бұрын

    Men are monogamous out of necessity, not choice. No men want to be sexually exclusive. If every men had the choice to attract multiple women, they would never settle

  • @sayeeed1303

    @sayeeed1303

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@emmanemz5824 it has nothing to do with responsibility. You just don't have anything to offer except your body. If you want a men to commit to you, you have to make him desire to want to commit. This is where most women fail.

  • @Amanda-js9cw
    @Amanda-js9cw2 жыл бұрын

    “Women are art.” Absolutely. Period. 1000000%. Hands down. Big purr.

  • @cez_is_typing

    @cez_is_typing

    2 жыл бұрын

    As someone who is attracted to both men and women I find men attractive sure But women are like SO aesthetically pleasing to look at Literally Greek goddesses, all of em

  • @seds94

    @seds94

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cez_is_typing i agree 100% women are so beautiful to look at but thats about it

  • @cez_is_typing

    @cez_is_typing

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@seds94 that is not what I said lmao, women are beautiful inside and out, men usually have like, 2 hobbies and don't wash themselves correctly lmao

  • @seds94

    @seds94

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cez_is_typing how you gonna be beautiful on the inside and not look up to men. Idk if that's possible but i agree with the 2 hobbies thing. Better to master one thing in my opinion

  • @omegaaura3082

    @omegaaura3082

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@seds94 What? There’s plenty of ways to be a good and beautiful person without looking up to men?

  • @breem2999
    @breem29992 жыл бұрын

    I just realized that instead of dressing for the male gaze in middle school, I dressed to hide from it. Baggy pants and shirts because I thought I was fat and ugly and didn't want to draw any attention to myself. Then later in HS and college as I gained confidence, I dressed more to satisfy the male gaze and took pride in it. I don't think I really started dressing for myself until almost 30.

  • @123leenaaa

    @123leenaaa

    2 жыл бұрын

    yup. Also being so hung up on sizes most of my clothes didn’t fit well. Yikes what a journey we’ve come

  • @Plaine9

    @Plaine9

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@123leenaaa honestly same

  • @Musiyca

    @Musiyca

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same. Growing up I was dressing to hide. Especially after being objectified at family gatherings once my breasts started to grow. I literally just wanted to feel safe at home. I hated my hourglass/spoon shapes, because I knew I would be drooled at by nasty older men. As an adult I love my shapes and I play with clothes, but still keeping it mostly safe and baggy and flowy to have air going easly through the fabric.

  • @HelloBombshell21

    @HelloBombshell21

    9 ай бұрын

    Me too, my 90lbs self thought I was fat, and knew if I dressed feminine I’d be a HUGE target. I then embraced it. Even at also 30, I look 16 and predatory men are obsessive.

  • @silverrandl6504

    @silverrandl6504

    7 ай бұрын

    I was thinking the exact same thing while watching that bit. I remember trying to bind my chest as much as possible to avoid harassment at 14 and 15 yrs old.

  • @julieherrmann6801
    @julieherrmann68012 жыл бұрын

    as a plus sized girlie still trying to kill the male gaze in my brain, this was SO incredibly healing ❤️‍🩹 love you guys

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree. I was a size 10 to 12 most of my adult life, and I’ve recently started actually eating and enjoying my life, and now I’m an 18 and I’m trying to get comfortable with myself! This podcast is so healing. Love you, thicc sister!

  • @taylor.yrn2359

    @taylor.yrn2359

    Жыл бұрын

    @@noodlepoodlegirlsize 18????😳

  • @scswenson
    @scswenson2 жыл бұрын

    your energies together is magic PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF FANFIC DO A PODCAST TOGETHER. I would give so much money pls

  • @bgingerich

    @bgingerich

    2 жыл бұрын

    I would HAPPILY sacrifice my Netflix subscription for tickets to that show 😍😍😍

  • @tlmjjs1339

    @tlmjjs1339

    2 жыл бұрын

    YESSSSSSS i came here to comment this!!!

  • @batbabysitter3533

    @batbabysitter3533

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did u know that all the podcast shows brittany have been to, all the comment section ask her to be a permanent host. The girl is just popping.

  • @kyokostorm

    @kyokostorm

    2 жыл бұрын

    OH MY GOOOOOOD!!! A podcast with the 2 of them would be perfect!

  • @rachelmichele7697

    @rachelmichele7697

    2 жыл бұрын

    Brittany already has a podcast with her roomie Sarah schauer! Dreaming of an episode where they talk about misogyny online and drew is a guest🥰

  • @emmalwooten
    @emmalwooten2 жыл бұрын

    watching drew laugh the same way i laugh at brittany's jokes is incredible

  • @teahopotae5991
    @teahopotae59912 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love how effortless this convo flowed. The authenticity of Drew and Brittany's relationship really showed. Chemistry was top notch and super engaging.

  • @vic8626
    @vic86262 жыл бұрын

    I was literally crying watching this, I haven't laughed that hard in a minute. Probably because there isn't enough female podcasts. Women are so fucking funny man

  • @emilylouraine341
    @emilylouraine3412 жыл бұрын

    I saw a TikTok that said, "Are you attracted to men, or are you attracted to the way men's attention makes you feel?" and that's what pushed me over the line from bisexual to a lesbian, which I think a LOT of girls need to ask themselves today.

  • @nataliekramer5187

    @nataliekramer5187

    2 жыл бұрын

    DAMN. DAMN. I gotta go reflect now as a bi woman

  • @user-np8yf8fj2w

    @user-np8yf8fj2w

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m so painfully straight 😞

  • @daniellew.7928

    @daniellew.7928

    2 жыл бұрын

    I really wish there was a non straight bone in my body.

  • @emmanemz5824

    @emmanemz5824

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@daniellew.7928 I'm bi and I really understand what you mean because I hate men so so much. But if you think about it, it's so isolating. When I came out I felt so unaccepted and alone. I would be so much more comfortable holding my man's hand in public or taking him home to my parents than i would with a woman. Still so many judgmental and hateful people in the world and it's a terrible feeling. Girls are so much nicer (most of the time) and better emotionally and they're so beautiful and funny and thoughtful but it's so hard to be open

  • @emilylouraine341

    @emilylouraine341

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@emmanemz5824 very much how i'm feeling. I love that I'm not straight, but it has NOT been as easy as the straights think it is lmao

  • @Amy_Elizabeth
    @Amy_Elizabeth2 жыл бұрын

    I need Chris klemens on this podcast asap WITH Brittany! The trio I dream of.

  • @tanikohata

    @tanikohata

    2 жыл бұрын

    YESSSS

  • @kimberlyjimenez9636

    @kimberlyjimenez9636

    2 жыл бұрын

    YES

  • @joshpyman9678

    @joshpyman9678

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love Chris but he would DESTROY the mellow, funny vibe here 😂 Chris is chaos

  • @ThePoptartPlays

    @ThePoptartPlays

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think they filmed one with him!

  • @kalpic11

    @kalpic11

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sooo true cause he's the other person that just clicked with Brittany.

  • @PikaPeaks
    @PikaPeaks2 жыл бұрын

    “They want all the perks of a relationship without the actual accountability of a relationship.” That in itself explains my ex I just broke up with. I have never been so triggered by words lol

  • @choosehappy9224
    @choosehappy9224 Жыл бұрын

    It's funny how Drew gets so much hate when you can see she's clearly a sweetheart. Be a good person and she'll be good back, it's not that hard.

  • @canonrazi
    @canonrazi2 жыл бұрын

    the whole pick me girl thing has always driven me crazy, because in my mind it all stemmed from the fact that women were always made fun of for liking the things they liked (whether it was stereotypical "girly things" or more "boy things"). no matter what women like, they get made fun of for it. and constantly trying to "prove" themselves. exhausting. now women are coming up and being proud of what they like and do, and the boys cant cope. any girl reading this, do what you like, be kind, and embrace your power. you're way cooler than the bigots in the back!

  • @aabracadavra

    @aabracadavra

    2 жыл бұрын

    I partly agree with your analysis. But I think this phenomenon is far more convoluted. First off, what is femininity? How much of it is nature and how much is social conditioning. Characteristics such as "pretty, soft, fragile" are often times associated with femininity, and yet when you actually consider the intrinsically and biologically female characteristics such as the ability to create and birth humans, menstruation, the physiology of the female brain and its functions, nothing about it really is exclusively fragile, soft, pretty. Childbearing is not defined by frailty. It’s transformative, aggressive and spiritual. Having to go trough the symptoms of having your uterus lining breaking down, bleeding and being in pain every month does not require softness, it requires strength and resilience. Raising a human also requires cognitive complexity, mental strength, discipline and a deep sensitivity to subtle cues, the ability to understand human experience and psychology, and heightened emotional intelligence. Nature works by refining itself to reach efficiency, and such rigorous and complex tasks given to females also require granting women the ability to fulfill them. Otherwise we wouldn’t’ve survived. So those beforementioned required characteristics must be present in women. This is not to say that women show their worth by being mothers, but to try and find femininity through objective and scientific means, as opposed to ideological. Because as it stands, the narrative we hear doesn’t seem to fit reality. Prettiness is not intrinsically feminine either, nor is it required exclusively of women, since physical attraction benefits both men and women. It is, however, mostly expected of women. I would argue that the definition of femininity currently propagated is a mockery, to put it briefly. Looking at how men react to free and independent women, I’d say it’s imperative for them that femininity is curated and presented as a set of behavioral traits which keep women “non-threatening”. So, I find it necessary that we examine who’s norms are we following when we decide to go against the pick-me phenomenon, in order to limit the risk of placing ourselves in another trap.

  • @canonrazi

    @canonrazi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aabracadavra I loved this. I don’t often comment on videos but I felt a nagging feeling and wanted to share my frustration. I wasn’t as nuanced as you in sharing those feelings but I can say that your comment here was truly relatable! All the things running around in my head that I couldn’t properly articulate, you did so clearly. I hope my comment didn’t rub anyone the wrong way, I just didn’t have the words, or maybe a bit too clumsy with my words.

  • @aabracadavra

    @aabracadavra

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@canonrazi You were perfectly clear in your argumentation, and also correct since women truly are vilified and belittled no matter what they do. Your frustration is justified as well. I just find it hypocritical of them to criticize so called "feminine" behavior when it's pretty clear to me that this behavior was to some extent forced on women, by men, so they could feel comfortable in their equally fabricated portrayal of masculinity. I also saw it as an opportunity to raise awareness and potentially help other women escape those traps. I know it helped me. Since I was both a pick me and a "feminine" girl in my life. I'm currently in the process of becoming myself, and redefining femininity. I also know how hard it is to find yourself in media or the system as a woman, since it's heavily patriarchal and oppressive. Seeing that you found my commentary relatable makes my day. It's the least I can do.

  • @maliciousqueefer3427

    @maliciousqueefer3427

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aabracadavra There's too much words that I'm not reading but you both slayed 😍😍

  • @ghosty8193

    @ghosty8193

    2 жыл бұрын

    The thing with 'pick me girls' is more about putting other women down to appease men. Like wearing makeup is fine. Not wearing makeup is also fine. It's when girls who don't wear makeup say 'oh well I don't wear makeup because I'm all natural and don't want to deceive men with makeup.' Another example: girls who play sports vs girlier girls. Both are fine but if the other puts down the other for what they prefer to appease men, then it's 'pick me' behaviour.

  • @Krazykara610
    @Krazykara6102 жыл бұрын

    This so SO good! Brittany’s ability to just vibe with anyone is unmatched!

  • @emilyanne6872

    @emilyanne6872

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was literally just thinking this. Every podcast I’ve seen her on it’s like she’s best friends with the host. I love it!!

  • @bbymoon

    @bbymoon

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was just thinking this. One of the best things about her. Brittany is just amazing and vibes with anyyoonnee!!!

  • @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa333

    @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa333

    Жыл бұрын

    Is there a word for that?

  • @Vitearys

    @Vitearys

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa333 I think chemistry?

  • @emmabowers4394
    @emmabowers43942 жыл бұрын

    I love being able to relate to now grown women about the Wattpad stage in my life. Girl the things I learned on that app, the absolute smut I wrote at 13-15. Cultural reset for my life honestly

  • @sayeeed1303

    @sayeeed1303

    2 жыл бұрын

    Men watch porn, women read porn (wattpad)

  • @kamjohnson6877

    @kamjohnson6877

    Жыл бұрын

    The stuff I wrote and read at 13-15 was wild lmao but honestly wattpad had a great community

  • @Abhishekxsahu

    @Abhishekxsahu

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sayeeed1303 the way u just gave male vs female gaze example 😭

  • @samwalker6571
    @samwalker65712 жыл бұрын

    High key want a part two to this with a gay or bi man talking about the male gaze in the gay community. It gets into the whole masc for masc culture and is extremely toxic. This was such a good ep I want more hahaha

  • @BozeDoesGodsWork

    @BozeDoesGodsWork

    Жыл бұрын

    THIS! I most definitely want a video about it

  • @norg6090
    @norg60902 жыл бұрын

    the way brittany talks about sarah’s perspective is so heartwarming, really making me tear up how understanding and amazed she is about it :,)

  • @soggycookie345

    @soggycookie345

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you know what Sarah she’s talking about

  • @norg6090

    @norg6090

    2 жыл бұрын

    Soggy Cookie sarah schauer (her roommate) :)

  • @soggycookie345

    @soggycookie345

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@norg6090 okay ty

  • @Grimrose_04

    @Grimrose_04

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@norg6090 and cousin 😍 /j lol

  • @laurencollins829
    @laurencollins8292 жыл бұрын

    "if they weren't circumcised, they are now" I LITERALLY HAD TO PAUSE AND LAUGH PLEASEJUAOFOUANDF

  • @fricketyfracktraintrack

    @fricketyfracktraintrack

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 💀

  • @KitNeticVT
    @KitNeticVT2 жыл бұрын

    You're BOTH two of the best personalities on the internet.

  • @MusicLife-pb2es

    @MusicLife-pb2es

    Жыл бұрын

    If they were the only two personalities on the internet sadly there are way more intelligent people than these two people 😂

  • @maryjaneshoes4life
    @maryjaneshoes4life2 жыл бұрын

    i wish this ep was 8 hours long, omfg i could listen to y’all talk forever

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too! I would love to have a couple episodes that were several hours long. We literally can’t get enough of a good thing.

  • @Notnotdani
    @Notnotdani2 жыл бұрын

    This episode did not disappoint!!! Couldn’t stop laughing 😂

  • @mickeysandoval9244

    @mickeysandoval9244

    2 жыл бұрын

    for real I was where have you been all my life.

  • @Notnotdani

    @Notnotdani

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mickeysandoval9244 right!! Imagine a whole series with them! A dream 🙌🏻

  • @megan7506
    @megan75062 жыл бұрын

    Got catcalled by a guy in his car on my walk today. I immediately wished I could have called to Drew like the Batman call.

  • @hannahbarbarian6786

    @hannahbarbarian6786

    2 жыл бұрын

    Be your own Drew girlie but carry mace bc guys are crazy

  • @RealElongatedMuskrat

    @RealElongatedMuskrat

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hannahbarbarian6786 ya wanna hear something crazy? Mace and any kind of self defense weapons that you imagine the gals, gays and theys could benefit from are illegal in the UK. Its considered carrying a weapon. TRULY.

  • @mariac1984

    @mariac1984

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@RealElongatedMuskrat what do you have to protect yourself? just your fists?

  • @aquariussolaris2492

    @aquariussolaris2492

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bark at them

  • @RealElongatedMuskrat

    @RealElongatedMuskrat

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mariac1984 pretty much! The UK Gov be like: oh you're worried about SA and trying to protect yourself? Cry about it 😘✨

  • @clairebradley4906
    @clairebradley49062 жыл бұрын

    8:18 can I just say. I HATED when I was reading a fanfic and all of a sudden there a pregnancy scare or real pregnancy. Immediately killed the vibe. I would immediately stop reading. The rest of the plot tho sounds aware winning💀

  • @carlyfasoldt
    @carlyfasoldt2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been rejected by men my whole life too. The minute I start dating a woman, all the men I ever talked to or had crushes on suddenly contacted me and practically begged me to be with them. 🙃 I didn’t lmao.

  • @Musiyca

    @Musiyca

    2 жыл бұрын

    I find it ironic that the most attractive women are usually the taken ones. I mean it that once you're in a relationship and you build that emotional intimacy and trust and safety, suddenly all the guys can see your glow and get attracted like a magnet.

  • @pinkkfloydd

    @pinkkfloydd

    Жыл бұрын

    Press X to doubt.

  • @harrypike731

    @harrypike731

    Жыл бұрын

    You got rejected by the men that *you* wanted, you mean? There's nothing wrong w rejection tbf. We aren't gonna be attractive to everyone, and that's ok. If that's you in your profile pic, you seem like a very regular-looking person (as are most people) so I doubt there were ZERO men interested in you. They just probably weren't on your radar. I have some girl friends like this lol. They constantly bemoan being single and no guys being into them etc, meanwhile they have all these different guys in their messages and who they go for brunch with and stuff who clearly wanna date her but she'll just ignore it 😂😂

  • @cherrycokee

    @cherrycokee

    2 ай бұрын

    @@harrypike731bro what

  • @harrypike731

    @harrypike731

    2 ай бұрын

    @@cherrycokee my comment was in clear English. Sorry your reading comprehension skills are lacking

  • @whatsupwashingtonitsmeohio8301
    @whatsupwashingtonitsmeohio83012 жыл бұрын

    I realized I relate to them so much because they lived a “normal” teenage and early 20s life. I feel like I’m listening to my friends talk.

  • @monikabun
    @monikabun2 жыл бұрын

    i know this episode was nearly an hour...but it wasn't long enough. i need more of this duo in my life.

  • @ladosis5596
    @ladosis5596 Жыл бұрын

    Last time someone asked me why I was single (in a genuine way, he's a friend) I just said "I got so tired of men and I'm not into women". I hadn't articulated it before, but that's the god honest truth.

  • @sammidebussy
    @sammidebussy Жыл бұрын

    The ironic part is straight men don't really like women at all, but we're not ready for that conversation

  • @monty822

    @monty822

    4 ай бұрын

    They really don’t though

  • @Notnotdani
    @Notnotdani2 жыл бұрын

    Let’s fucking go!!!! My dream collaboration right here!!!! Ahhh I’m so pumped!!!

  • @laurenknabel
    @laurenknabel2 жыл бұрын

    no but drew’s whole look today was stunning

  • @MissSeedy

    @MissSeedy

    2 жыл бұрын

    My lizzie Maguire 90s/00s fantasy 😍

  • @Person1865

    @Person1865

    2 жыл бұрын

    It reminds me of what was popular when I was when in middle school but attractive.

  • @sofiastukalsky8549
    @sofiastukalsky8549 Жыл бұрын

    It’s unbelievable how every single podcast episode I listen to that has invited Britney, even if I haven’t listened to any of their episodes before, I love it just with her being there. She has chemistry with literally everyone. Can’t get enough. The Coke socks? LIVING

  • @mayahernandez3007
    @mayahernandez30072 жыл бұрын

    They are both so freaking well spoken!! This whole conversation is a masterpiece

  • @cestaimee

    @cestaimee

    9 ай бұрын

    Read this comment as Brittany said: “do it be jiggling from the back?” 😂

  • @kelleyc3983
    @kelleyc39832 жыл бұрын

    Y’all describing seventh graders smellin like an onion farm had me cackling omfg

  • @jamiehumphries2527
    @jamiehumphries25272 жыл бұрын

    I'm obsessed with the ongoing Broski podcast tour era. Always a huge serotonin boost 🙏

  • @thevermontbudgeter9835
    @thevermontbudgeter9835 Жыл бұрын

    i just love drew so much. as someone who has a very loud and distinct laugh, i was heavily harassed and bullied. i love listening to drew cackle, it makes me happy that she’s authentic & i wish i had her when i was younger

  • @emilymaexo_
    @emilymaexo_2 жыл бұрын

    He let out a ✨breathe✨ 😂😂 (the way I cackled this ENTIRE episode. Loved it.)

  • @halfbr00taldiamonds
    @halfbr00taldiamonds2 жыл бұрын

    The way y’all say “we’re twins”, look nothing alike but then look at each other and laugh the same way at the same time. I’m done. 😂🤣😂

  • @stefani92
    @stefani922 жыл бұрын

    “Do it jiggle” made me loseeeeee it 😂 These two together are perfect!

  • @MommaBara
    @MommaBara8 ай бұрын

    My two comfort women. I need more of y’all just chatting. It’s such a blessing.

  • @selene7032
    @selene70322 жыл бұрын

    I ENJOYED EVERY SINGLE SECOND 😭 these women are blessings!!

  • @harmonyquinn2557
    @harmonyquinn25572 жыл бұрын

    What I find hilarious ab the red-pilled, goofy looking, incel male gaze: they’ll go on and on ab our standards being so high, but they’re really only talking ab _very attractive_ women. The irony bc they’re not trying to date the average woman.

  • @lilscenechick1995

    @lilscenechick1995

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Hayley Bagels Girl are you okay? You're all over this comment section defending misogyny, objectification and hypermasculintiy.

  • @wutangclandamn

    @wutangclandamn

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lilscenechick1995 girl she not ok, we lost one, just gotta chop it up to the game

  • @sayeeed1303

    @sayeeed1303

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wutangclandamn she is being realistic. Most women who complain about misogynistic men, fucbois or masculine men always end up sleeping with them.

  • @jt-eh3pz

    @jt-eh3pz

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Hayley Bagels is that like ur kink or something… being objectified?

  • @ripabigfatoneforme

    @ripabigfatoneforme

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Hayley Bagels that is genuinely embarrassing please never admit that to anyone

  • @esmieadele8865
    @esmieadele88652 жыл бұрын

    This was SOO healing for me… I needed this laughter at male gaze, I’m recovering from SA and needed y’all’s company! Giggled so much✨

  • @angel127_

    @angel127_

    2 жыл бұрын

    hope ur doing ok🤞❤️ sending love to u

  • @esmieadele8865

    @esmieadele8865

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@angel127_ awe appreciate that a lot, thank you!✨💞

  • @georgiakuchinsky

    @georgiakuchinsky

    2 жыл бұрын

    blessings bestie, you deserve all the healing and laughter 🥰

  • @RealElongatedMuskrat

    @RealElongatedMuskrat

    2 жыл бұрын

    me too friend, I've just started therapy after chickening out for years because I didn't wanna relive it but I'm reliving it every day by not dealing with the fall out so hey. Hit me wit it. Sending you love and healing energy ❤️

  • @esmieadele8865

    @esmieadele8865

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@georgiakuchinsky thank youuu I needed this today!🥰

  • @AriaIndy
    @AriaIndy2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this podcast. I think of myself as pansexual but feel more attracted to masc women. I also work in s*x work industry and profit off of the male gaze. It’s made me realize so many things about men and sometimes it’s mentally draining to be what they want and not educate them. Maybe someday I’ll be comfortable enough to be out publicly about my job and share everything I’ve seen and learned on social media/a podcast.

  • @ChristinaSimpson

    @ChristinaSimpson

    Жыл бұрын

    Please do!!!

  • @sophiagull4603
    @sophiagull46032 жыл бұрын

    Love watching this and knowing Brittany finally met Harry 😂👏🏻

  • @anaijaime5222

    @anaijaime5222

    Жыл бұрын

    when she said that i was like "oop. who's gonna tell her ??"

  • @sailormf
    @sailormf2 жыл бұрын

    When you both smiled at the camera as the twins you are 💀 😆

  • @restlessmelody
    @restlessmelody2 жыл бұрын

    this felt like watching two women instantly become best friends it was so fun you both are always entertaining wish you two could be podcast partners as well

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think Brittany should be a guest Andrea show routinely, like once a month or something! I love Brittany with Sarah, but Brittany with Drew was so, so good too!

  • @DogVill-inc
    @DogVill-inc Жыл бұрын

    Megan fox looking like a vogue model while fixing a bike, me looking like the underminner coverd in greese and lumpy uniform changing my dads oil💀💀💀

  • @DogVill-inc

    @DogVill-inc

    Жыл бұрын

    I am “one of the boys” not in the pick me sense but in the sense I am so burley/wide and unbothered I am often mistaken for the other guys working around me

  • @smithmcsmith9218
    @smithmcsmith92189 ай бұрын

    the Ariana comment didn't age well lmaoooo

  • @sammysosa111

    @sammysosa111

    3 ай бұрын

    Lmao no fr

  • @princessleia9735

    @princessleia9735

    2 ай бұрын

    Scrolled for this comment

  • @BubsGirl291
    @BubsGirl2912 жыл бұрын

    This podcast was eye-opening for me when it comes to coming to terms with the types of people that I am *truly* attracted to. All my life I have said that I like really tall and muscular guys, but never really felt attracted to any of the ones that I have encountered. But now, I am in college, and I have started to really like this guy who is more feminine and comfortable in his masculinity. He cares about his fashion sense, cares about keeping his living space clean and well-kept, and always goes out of his way to make me feel comfortable, and hell, his hair is longer than mine. At first, I was apprehensive to admit that I liked him, because he is not "my type." But that's the thing. He *is* my type--my actual type--and I was just saying that I liked tall muscular men because society told me to.

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Super insightful and a bit of a love story!

  • @portiagreenwood5225
    @portiagreenwood52252 жыл бұрын

    I love this episode. These two are gold together. The audio was really low though. I could barely hear it in my car at full volume.

  • @helendrew3640

    @helendrew3640

    2 жыл бұрын

    I had the same thing. Great episode though.

  • @meheenruby

    @meheenruby

    2 жыл бұрын

    was looking for this comment lol it's so hard to hear

  • @molsondutch93

    @molsondutch93

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same, no matter how high I turned it up it's SO QUIET

  • @Sha_NaLeaaaa

    @Sha_NaLeaaaa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dude I was looking for this comment!

  • @kaylaw5184
    @kaylaw51842 жыл бұрын

    Britney is the ultimate podcast guest. Any podcast I see her on I watch! And y’all vibe so well together too!

  • @hellobubble
    @hellobubble2 жыл бұрын

    My friend started calling her brothers friends his boyfriends and at first he fought it. The moment he started joking back about them going on dates and stuff, it's like their whole personality changed. It was totally insane to see how them dropping having to defend their masculinity changed their entire being.

  • @christopherbrown5409

    @christopherbrown5409

    Жыл бұрын

    what's wrong with defending one's masculinity or straightness?

  • @bluester7177

    @bluester7177

    Жыл бұрын

    @@christopherbrown5409 it means it's insecure, if you're confident in your masculinity or sexuality you wouldn't feel the need to defend it, specially in this case where its such a silly thing you would be reacting too. If you have a problem with someone saying you have boyfriends and that affects your sexuality or masculinity, maybe you should reflex why it bothers you.

  • @christopherbrown5409

    @christopherbrown5409

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bluester7177 who are you, someone who's privileged enough to not be affected by it, to call it silly, though? Why are you fine with people's boundaries being disrespected? You wouldn't want others disrespecting yours, now would you, hypocrite? Also, no one who knows you don't have boyfriends jokes like that unless they're explicitly being disrespectful. And how does one "reflex" anything?

  • @noxid23

    @noxid23

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@christopherbrown5409chill my guy. You're sounding fragile

  • @TubbsCustard

    @TubbsCustard

    8 ай бұрын

    @@christopherbrown5409the whole point is that you should reflect on why the implication of being gay is disrespectful. Why is that? Why is that a bad thing to you?

  • @MD-dh5yu
    @MD-dh5yu2 жыл бұрын

    LOVE THIS but the audio is very hard to hear, volume is max and still very low

  • @mikaylaraee

    @mikaylaraee

    2 жыл бұрын

    I experienced the same thing. Love these girls but was def a little hard to hear 🥲

  • @Isflyaj

    @Isflyaj

    2 жыл бұрын

    girl same my car volume was on max and almost crashed when the ads screamed at me

  • @SatanicKhaos

    @SatanicKhaos

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was wondering if I was the only one.

  • @meaganmike8063

    @meaganmike8063

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is that her natural voice too? Its very raspy and hard to hear sometimes too where as Brittany was so loud haha

  • @maddiesonalynnn
    @maddiesonalynnn2 жыл бұрын

    Literally crying at the transformers part omg y’all are incredible together

  • @jakeknight9885
    @jakeknight98852 жыл бұрын

    Am I the only one that noticed Drew's laugh sounds different than on TikTok?! It sounds so cute and whispery in this. Lowkey love both laughs though 😂

  • @oof8421

    @oof8421

    2 жыл бұрын

    She said she was sick at the beginning so I think that’s why :)

  • @vaibh4vi
    @vaibh4vi2 жыл бұрын

    y’all’s chemistry is so good u better bring brittany back

  • @TheBee123
    @TheBee1232 жыл бұрын

    Please have Hila from H3 on this podcast but only Hila no Ethan. I feel like Hila has a lot of good things to say and stories to tell especially from her experience growing up and from being in the fashion industry

  • @RealElongatedMuskrat

    @RealElongatedMuskrat

    2 жыл бұрын

    ooo that would be so good! I don't know if that would happen any time soon with Bruce just being born, though. Hopefully some day!

  • @sylvia9290

    @sylvia9290

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @mellowmead

    @mellowmead

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yessssss leave Ethan out of it fr love him tho

  • @TheBee123

    @TheBee123

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mellowmead yes! Hila doesn’t get to talk nearly enough! (Ethan is the main but i just need more Hila content)

  • @jobrown1040

    @jobrown1040

    2 жыл бұрын

    omg yes I love Hila!!!

  • @caraline6636
    @caraline66362 жыл бұрын

    They should also touch on men’s weird unanimous attraction Ryan Reynolds

  • @anaccaivy3005

    @anaccaivy3005

    2 жыл бұрын

    This! And Mark Wahlberg

  • @ryangray8075

    @ryangray8075

    2 жыл бұрын

    OMFG FR

  • @caraline6636

    @caraline6636

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Hayley Bagels look who got defensive for no reason. he’s a middle aged average looking man. And I’m 💅 so I disagree but regardless it’s not about me liking him it’s about even straight men saying they think he’s hot when he’s taken and almost fifty. I just find it strange that even straight men apparently like an average looking man I think they’re just trying to be one of The Boys or are in the closet. I never said men had to be straight it’s that straight men apparently like this dude because everyone else does.

  • @ryangray8075

    @ryangray8075

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Hayley Bagels why are we arguing over this

  • @caraline6636

    @caraline6636

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ryangray8075 exactly

  • @marleewardd9097
    @marleewardd9097 Жыл бұрын

    most relatable thing, i NEED another episode with these two together!!

  • @ashtynfletcher4030
    @ashtynfletcher40304 ай бұрын

    when i was a kid i was living in Texas and saw a bunch of trucks with “fat girls can’t jump” stickers on them and when i asked my mom what it meant she said “they’re making fun of women because they’re sad about themselves; never pay boys like that any mind” and i will never forget that for as long as i live

  • @ppapas6457
    @ppapas64572 жыл бұрын

    I got dress coded in highschool for wearing my school soccer team sweatpants and my school tennis team sports tank top. On "spirit day". When the cheer team got to wear their uniform, tank top and sport skirt. But because I have big tits and hips, I was inappropriate. IN MY SCHOOL SPORTS UNIFORM. Explain that plz.

  • @XTheBeautyGuruX

    @XTheBeautyGuruX

    2 жыл бұрын

    Misogyny ✨

  • @ppapas6457

    @ppapas6457

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@XTheBeautyGuruX I mean no one had a problem with the cheerleaders

  • @XTheBeautyGuruX

    @XTheBeautyGuruX

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ppapas6457 you're saying you were developed, and that's why they dress coded you. But you were a minor. That makes them kinda sketchy pedo no?

  • @maiadraconica6488

    @maiadraconica6488

    2 жыл бұрын

    cause the adult men who run the school think youre attractive and they wanna shame you for it

  • @Shelbynrose

    @Shelbynrose

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ppapas6457 that’s the misogyny

  • @frydfish4934
    @frydfish49342 жыл бұрын

    Just for the men who are thinking it: yes, they're only talking about certain men. It's OK to feel defensive but don't get wacky. And yes, the majority of history being terrible for women does mean sexisim to them does have more power, not that you don't have your own problems

  • @paramorenthusiast

    @paramorenthusiast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very well put.

  • @seds94

    @seds94

    2 жыл бұрын

    Repeal the 19th asap. Yesterday

  • @nunpho

    @nunpho

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank yoooouuuuuuu!! So many guys respond in that way and it's frustrating.

  • @tinalyzhen

    @tinalyzhen

    2 жыл бұрын

    it's only the shitty men who get all defensive about it, but the actual decent guys can tell that women aren't meaning ALL men and they'll sympathize and move on. but these shitty guys ong... anal about anything slightly negative towards masculinity lmao

  • @floopinz4283

    @floopinz4283

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks. Ik a lot if comments are attacking all men tho and its kinda annoying

  • @mousescribner8641
    @mousescribner86419 ай бұрын

    i genuinely feel like i could be actual besties with both of them and i love it

  • @mousescribner8641

    @mousescribner8641

    9 ай бұрын

    like fr if youre 18+ and similar to these two or seriously relate to them pls i need friends LMAO

  • @charliejess2516
    @charliejess25162 жыл бұрын

    I pulled a neck muscle from cackling when Drew said “she’s making slime” my god

  • @whatsupwashingtonitsmeohio8301
    @whatsupwashingtonitsmeohio83012 жыл бұрын

    I relate to these two so deeply. Tumblr, fanfictions, MySpace coding, escaping corporate America. I’m so glad I finally found the other girlies from Wattpad 🧡

  • @Peepee4brain
    @Peepee4brain2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like Pete Davidson/Chalamet type female-gaze people are also soooo like…. Stuck in the beauty standard of white and skinny. Like it completely excludes men of color, fat men, disabled men like even the female gaze in popular media is problematic

  • @T_Cup

    @T_Cup

    2 жыл бұрын

    Probably because it's still intrinsically tied into patriarchy, which upholds white as the conventional beauty standard. When cinema started moving away from the typical popular white jock ideal and toward the fragile geek turned knight/superhero ideal, it really just transferred a lot of the same standards onto a different body/personality type while leading girls and women to the same conclusion about men = white is right.

  • @Musiyca

    @Musiyca

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@T_Cup I was about to say that the halyu wave, which is the korean culture boom we're having, portrays it slightly different. But then I remembered the korean beauty standards where most singers and actors till this day bleach their skin in a way just to be as close to white as possible... They've been brainwashed by hollywood as well, althought some stars are starting to rock their natural skin tone with more confidence.

  • @peacelife81

    @peacelife81

    Жыл бұрын

    True but I think in terms of weight it is different for men who are fat. They are still seen as more desirable then fat women. For example dad bods Homer Simpson and marge. Like I know many fat men who have a skinny girlfriend and everyone roots for them. Versus when it’s a fat women with a skinny man ppl feel bad for the guy and tell him to get out of the relationship. Also aging is different men can age and women shouldn’t. Ppl are calling Selena Gomez old looking

  • @peacelife81

    @peacelife81

    Жыл бұрын

    True but I think in terms of weight it is different for men who are fat. They are still seen as more desirable then fat women. For example dad bods Homer Simpson and marge. Like I know many fat men who have a skinny girlfriend and everyone roots for them. Versus when it’s a fat women with a skinny man ppl feel bad for the guy and tell him to get out of the relationship. Also aging is different men can age and women shouldn’t. Ppl are calling Selena Gomez old looking

  • @T_Cup

    @T_Cup

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Musiyca The halyu trend might be a trickle-down affect of the male gaze, which exotifies Asian beauty. This is rooted in racism and classism because there's this old, lingering belief that Asians (typically women) live to serve their western "superiors" (typically men), particularly in maintaining their beauty. And when you look at the way Kpop artists interact with their fans, this idea is prevalent = the live-to-serve attitude and the heavy focus on maintaining looks, weight and overall appearance, even among the male artists, is thriving.

  • @kiddkenaii
    @kiddkenaii9 ай бұрын

    Y’all should collab more 😂 you feed off each other so well, the sense of humor is immaculate

  • @jml2988
    @jml2988 Жыл бұрын

    Literally was having a conversation with my brother and I don't remember what we were talking about, but my nephew, who is 6, was like wait, so why aren't we allowed to hit girls?! My brother and I both were like, well you're not supposed to hit boys either. He thought for a second and was like oh okay! So you're telling me my 6 year old nephew can get it, but a fully grown man can't? Gtfoh

  • @christopherbrown5409

    @christopherbrown5409

    Жыл бұрын

    Why can't grown women get that they're not supposed to hit men who don't hit them?

  • @veea.2370

    @veea.2370

    Жыл бұрын

    @@christopherbrown5409 we’re not defending women who hit me here so….if the patriarchy goes down so does a lot of abuse and fear

  • @muchomango11
    @muchomango112 жыл бұрын

    Bro you h a v e to have Brittany back on, the energy in the room was EVERYTHING

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! Let’s make it a regular thing! I loved it, and I’ve only read enthusiastically adoring comments.

  • @RyanBartlitt
    @RyanBartlitt2 жыл бұрын

    As a former Olive Garden server, nothing was more aggravating, time wasting, and just straight up obnoxious than when I had to shred an entire block of cheese over your CUP of soup and then for the salad, and then for your entrees. They might as well just give me carpal tunnel with the $3 tip they’ll leave. Literally the main reason I quit that god forsaken noodle shack

  • @TheKiri1998

    @TheKiri1998

    2 жыл бұрын

    I always get so confused when I read about the server grating cheese over your food lol. It's not a thing in europe, usually they bring out already grated parmesan in a little dish to your table so you can serve yourself all through the meal. But glad you got out of there lol, sounds awful especially for a tip like that 😬

  • @RyanBartlitt

    @RyanBartlitt

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheKiri1998 it is specific to one chain of restaurants lol. And Olive Garden just sells mediocre American-Italian food. But yeah it’s obviously not a great company to work for and their customer-base was just not great people

  • @aureliahansen

    @aureliahansen

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@RyanBartlitt you literally couldn’t have worded this better 😵‍💫 I’m a server at OG

  • @caitling1392

    @caitling1392

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wish they would just have Parmesan on the table like every other place so I don’t have to sit through the awkward “say when “ cheese thing lol

  • @ovii746
    @ovii7462 жыл бұрын

    I love the podcast Drew!! BUT PLEASE FIX THE AUDIO ITS SO LOW 😫!! I’m blasting it in order to hear well but then the ads come on and I have to scramble to turn it down lol

  • @AshleyGarcia-ck2ki
    @AshleyGarcia-ck2ki2 жыл бұрын

    “I thought you meant little women LA” LMAOOOOOOO I LOVE YALL

  • @ioannaatsikatsou6610
    @ioannaatsikatsou66102 жыл бұрын

    I can't fucking believe it, THIS is the best collab ever!!!! Your energies just combine so well and there's such amazing proximity, I felt like I was there too having a chat with you!... Love you both!

  • @tackrobinson831
    @tackrobinson8312 жыл бұрын

    What I love about this show is that it tackles serious and long-standing topics like this, but does it in a way that's funny, open, and not pretentious 😩 like it's a way for everyone to relate to it and enjoy the conversation without impostor syndrome

  • @kileyhall7805
    @kileyhall7805 Жыл бұрын

    every time i convince myself i’m crazy and overthinking the toxic situationship i was in i need to come back to this video bc DAMN y’all set me straight in 5 seconds flat

  • @rosebechdel158
    @rosebechdel158 Жыл бұрын

    I am so mad because nothing will ever be as good as this. Can you two please do more things together? I want to hear more about men’s thought process and dating.

  • @hannahdennington9697
    @hannahdennington96972 жыл бұрын

    They really are twin flames. They spark joy in my soul the same exact way, like soooo fucking funny and smart

  • @SK-hn9ic
    @SK-hn9ic2 жыл бұрын

    now i need drew on violating community guidelines PAAALLEEEAAASEEEE!!!!!

  • @whosthegreaat
    @whosthegreaat2 жыл бұрын

    Drew saying ratatouille is her favorite disney movie made me love her even more

  • @TheBookNerd11
    @TheBookNerd112 жыл бұрын

    I’ve loved every episode. But this one? This one is the best so far. You two vibe off each other so easily. I would watch all the episodes with both of you.

  • @willowgarko5369
    @willowgarko53692 жыл бұрын

    The way you guys bounce ideas off each other is SO entertaining

  • @cleokaiba9597
    @cleokaiba95972 жыл бұрын

    This whole episode was so good! It's interesting to hear people actually talk about the male and female gaze. ♥

  • @alizeriojas4747
    @alizeriojas47472 жыл бұрын

    i had this saved to my watch later waiting for the perfect moment & atmosphere to watch it. A deep cleaned cozy room & ice cream seemed like it was time. Yall did not disappoint omg i need more of you two together!!

  • @noodlepoodlegirl

    @noodlepoodlegirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    That sounds amazing, and like you enjoyed it!

  • @Chipsnsalsayumyum
    @Chipsnsalsayumyum2 жыл бұрын

    This was absolutely everything, y’all are so funny and compliment each other so well. Thanks for making my morning!!

  • @sofiav7791
    @sofiav77912 жыл бұрын

    I rarely laugh out loud at videos but this had me SCREAMING. The way my two favourite internet women perfectly encompassed the confusing feminine experience was so satisfying. This was art dude

  • @meghanmccrary9317
    @meghanmccrary93172 жыл бұрын

    I’m so happy that young girls are going to see this and VALUE THEMSELVES 👏🏻

  • @katierodenkirch5278
    @katierodenkirch52782 жыл бұрын

    It’s 10:30 pm on a Sunday, I just got back from a work outing, and I’m getting stoned and listening to y’all. Thanks for the good vibes ❤️❤️

  • @emilymay5076
    @emilymay50762 жыл бұрын

    This podcast made me feel so sane and had me dying. I need more of you both, this was incredible

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