Fatherhood Unfiltered I With Abel, Phil, Njugush and Newson.
Since Mumbus can't join us today, we're back with another Fatherhood Roundtable. On set we have our awesome dads - Njugush, Phill, Newson, and our one and only Daddy Abel - to share their unique experiences, healing Childhood Wounds to Build Better Dads..
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Mi na Phil mzae was the same mpaka saa hii I still doubt kama kuna vitu naeza fanya manze but luckily am getting my confidence up lately. Always learn from such convos as a young dad. Love this video Judy. Thumbs up😊
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thaaankyou!!
Lakin hii friendship tunaomba ikue ya forever 🤜🏿🤛🏿
@ABlessing479
12 күн бұрын
Amen Amen Amen.
@johnpaulbenedict
11 күн бұрын
@@ABlessing479 kuna mtu mmoja anafaa kua hapo lakini hayuko na imeniuma sana kwa roho. na sijui nifanye nini
@ABlessing479
11 күн бұрын
@johnpaulbenedict Sure, but very soon, the Lord will come through for him .
@mrwakili254
11 күн бұрын
@@johnpaulbenedict kama n butita he couldn't relate hii conversation but tunamtaftia bibi shosho yake alisema by force by faya😂😂
Umenotice ukidouble tap comment unalike try it uone😊😊
Njugush makes even the sad parts sound hilarious 😂😂😂
Petition to make this team a show 👏❤️💯 I have enjoyed the whole show😍
The love Philip has for the son❤
Kimani always in his character 😅😅😅,,,great great conversation 😍😍
Phil, I totally uderstand you, i can relate, when you say 'am not good enough'
Healthy fathers is a win
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
A huge win.
Ahaaa,Njugush …my dad was a drunkard and he later died,,,fast forward to words that always get into my nerves when my granny tells me that your father was a drunkard and he left you with nothing…I hate to say those words are soo deep such that I work myself out and to say that I am now in U.K. pushing my nursing career and afraid of dating and getting kids… Such a lovely conversation
@ritaroggs
10 күн бұрын
Yur story is my story. Drunkard absent dad. Lost him n here I am.in Usa dng nursing too.
@MissMungai7
10 күн бұрын
@@ritaroggswe will change the stories in our own families
@ritaroggs
10 күн бұрын
@@MissMungai7 ameeeen ameeen...in JMN!!! Cheers
@annesam3671
5 күн бұрын
More grace, may God bless the work of your hands guys
The questions Judy get to ask are so deep, real and mature 📌💯.... I'm questioning myself the same and figure out deep things that I couldn't think of😊 I love this❤❤❤
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thaaankyou!
Wangari here, raising a nine year old boy , ive loved the conversation, and the realness. I'm here to the end of the conversation, ive loved what Abel has said about as a woman i can't be everything for my son, and i am grateful to God for teaching me this early on in my mothering journey. It's true, take up the role of making a date with a son and engaging them .
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Would you like to share your motherhood journey ?
@wangarikariuki3192
8 күн бұрын
@@bimkurugenzi yes I'd love to Judy.
Yaaani I just leave this conversation..... I'm just 18 and I'm already learning how to approach life... Vitu hadi wazae wangu hawajawai nishow manzee you guys just inspire me .. ..
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou!!
I can relate to Tim's story,mzae alikuja Kenya to study as a pastor hapo machakos kwa kina Abel...the struggle ya kuwa in a foreign country 🇿🇲 kwa masomo and having wasee kuwashikilia maze will forever be in my heart.Wakenya walishikilia familia yetu in so many ways.For that reason me ni mkurugenzi and Kenyan at heart daima❤️
A bunch of very wise, funny and mature men in their own ways. Really enjoyed this episode ❤ Well done fahers and thank Judy for hosting them
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou for watching.
Aki kimani... *nalima mbwa* ha haaa
Mimi nikona father wounds from here to timbuktu but I appreciate he was present
@daisyjoan2084
12 күн бұрын
me too mahn. me too and it's sad to see my siblings go through it. but he's present and that's something
This is why I love this team ,and i can tell rising boys as single mum ,not easy but we try our best. Keep it up bi.mkuru team and philitv as large ❣
Please allow Them Back more often ❤❤
An awesome convo that should not be halted. I celebrate you'all for taking the most important job in the world seriously.👏👏👏. I'm a single mum to a 8 yr old boy and I'm afraid that most of us are smothering our sons and I would love to have one of you as a mentor to my son.
@dorothygacheri4724
12 күн бұрын
In the same shoes
@patriciahngendo1399
10 күн бұрын
Me too I'm in the same shoes..my son is 9 yrs old I really need a father figure in his life ...I'm afraid of failing as a parent ...I can't keep up with him
I have really enjoyed this conversation. I am currently a mum of two boys expecting my third boy next month and let me tell you my husband has really taught my boys to be young men. Those rough games making them walk to the kinyozi by themselves and come back home with the proper change. Doing manual work with them my 8 year old and 6 year old have been toughened by their dad. If I did not have him they would surely be soap soap boys
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Wow! This is inspiring ! Thumbs up to your hubby!
Abel Mutua ,good job am 34yrs old and to date I have never heard my Dad shout at my mum ever
woooow..mom Mumbus thanks for this conversation.. it's so educative,fun and just the best ❤❤❤ kudos ✌️ to more of these
I am a single mom.. listening to @abel mutua ama what he is today I know my son can be who I know he can
Judy i love how you ask these questions because very composed, intelligent and i pra y to God I get an intentional Father to my kids like my dad was to us.....This circle really really inspires me
I will always be back to say Phil thank you for being a dad to your son and always acknowledging him..that melts my heart..Bless you! Judy i wll never get tired of listening to these men..they are awesome!
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thaaankyou!!
i neverb get enough of njugush
@annfavoured6155
8 күн бұрын
Same to me
I love the way this guys are intentional in their parenting. God bless you guys
You are lucky guys at the end of it all you have something to show for your hard work. Some of us are still struggling no matter the effort they have put. Thank your God.
Very thoughtful conversation, i like how all of you have decided to be present and be different to your families. Judy be blessed for allowing this men to speak out its brings out the a generation that will challenge genz.
Taking notes. Very insightful conversation.
Many lessons learnt here 💪🏿💪🏿thanks for this continuation❤❤❤
Congratulations Bi mkuruu and Mkuruu for the Eldoret Jyuuce party that was historic,to many more wins🥂🥂🥂
@bimkurugenzi
12 күн бұрын
Thaaaankyou!
@dennoh_phennal5754
12 күн бұрын
@@bimkurugenzi ❣❣
@trizahkerema229
12 күн бұрын
@@bimkurugenzi😂 1:29:40
@alicewangui537
11 күн бұрын
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@FREDRICKKIMANI-pj5by
11 күн бұрын
@@bimkurugenzi when is the next show 😂
As a parenting enthusiast who advocates for intentional parenting, I love this conversation. All parents now should pass here and of-course I can pinpoint 1,2 things of what my own parents were/did.
Very educative conversation 👌
Proud of all for fathers for choosing to be present fathers .intentional fathers . Learning from your childhood and being intentional to be different.
Learning in every episode,😊 much love mama Mumbus❤😊
Very inspiring ,,,nice one Judy.
I have laugh lines on my face cause I have been smiling all through the show. This is such a beautiful convo. Thanks Judy☺
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou for watching.
This is beautiful I've learnt so much.
amazing, congratulations fathers. you are doing great. God bless you
I love this
Best of the best
Wueeee 😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉that was an amaizing conversation Judy, can't wait for more ❤❤
❤❤ I love your content. Keep the inspiration going.
Super dads and great conversation inspiration to many.
HEA , THANKS ALOT THIS IS VERY HEALTHY CONVERSATION❤❤❤❤❤ BEING A SINGLE MOTHER AND RISING 2BOYS I HAVE LEARNED ALOT FROM THIS........❤❤❤❤❤
This is impactful 💪
Thank you for sharing this...very profound
Awesome lessons to be learnt.
I looove love love these people..nice conversation
Such an interesting conversation! I love the intentionality that comes from your stories of fatherhood and parenting. Bless up to this powerful team!
Its beautiful to know that this generation is filled with intentional fathers actively breaking parental traumas
They are very inspiring stories😊
Big up to all present dads .i have been raised by a single mum,in form 2 I was kinda adapted by another family(not legal adaption) where the dad is very present it feels nice also the brother to mum plays the role of been a father to me but I can say I still feel the gap cause yes they are there but not fully like the way your own dad would have been there💯but i appreciate the fact that they try there best to be a present dad in my life
Good job judy this is much needed
This was time well spent!
Nice Convo..so let me talk about something unique Single dad's...well I was raised up by a very present ..loving and strict dad..together with 2 boys and dads driver so I was the only girl ...he was so intentional about Education he partitioned part of sitting room and made a library reading newspapers and books daily was Mandatory..( he was an educational officer) when the hse help wasn't around he would cook ugali..and taught us how to cook mboga ...going to sunday school was mandatory...sadly when I was doing my KCPE in 2010 he died but he used to tell me to promise him that I will go to Alliance that was his desire and few weeks before he died he came to my school..took me out for a lunch date..bought me new glasses and made me promise him that I will go to Alliance.I worked so hard to go be called to his dream school.by God's grace I was called to Alliance but sadly I couldn't go so I gave my letter to a neighbour ..but still went thru highchool now doing my masters in Europe...
@danielmwaura3547
11 күн бұрын
Iko love
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Wow! May his soul rest in peace. He is so proud of you from up there.
@morrynqueenel7539
5 күн бұрын
Woiye
This is one of my best forum.. i wish it can be regular because for us raising kids we get more tips. kudos
I'm a single mum to a 8year old boy. Luckily I have a brother that teaches him the man stuff. I have learned to keep quiet when they are in it because sometimes I want to intervene ... So grateful!! Because it so easy to baby a child (a boy child) as a mother
Wow great men n wonderful conversations bring them more often we are learning a lot
Thanks Judy for bringing to them again and may God bless them for sacrificing their time to come...aki pls warudi tena na tena we're learning a lot from them
Educative, informative and Inspiring. I like the fact that Abel has recognized we have a lot of feminine men in the streets that needs help
Hey Judy, This is really an eye opening and educative discussion.. I have definitely learnt a lot from it.. For the mums raising boys I would definitely suggest my sister, she's a mum of a 20 year old and based on our upbringing; amazing job!
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Please reach me at judynyawiram@gmail.com
This was amazing to watch. You guys are all amazing ❤
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou!
Good job. That was Deep
I love this.. amazing conversation ❤
This is so good judy I'm a mother of one and I'm learning alot through this.... I never saw my dad he died when I was two years and I understand the pain of living without a father. God bless you abundantly
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou! God bless you too.
Wow... Big up to everyone. Amazing show Judy.
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou.
I love this...newson my school mate...you motivate alot guys
You guys motivates me a lot as a man
Aaaaaw Paulo, the dad we all need. God bless him
My God help the fathers-to-be become as intention as this great men on the set❤
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Amen.
Judy t,these was a powerful session thanks alot , lessons are many.
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou for watching.
Eeeish Mama Mumbus you look amazing, so beautiful ❤️💃💃loving the conversation
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thankyou!
Woow! these guys make an hour feel like a minute! 🙌🏾😂 Njugush naye spare our ribs 😂😅🤣 Gang gang 💪🏾
Such a great Convo
Well done Bi Mkurugenzi and the high value men!👍🏿These are the types of conversations that should dominate the content we are consuming in our society. These guys are a huge beacon of light! Keep up the good work guys!
@bimkurugenzi
8 күн бұрын
Thaankyou!
I wish all parents could listen to this
It’s great to see fathers in art parent differently and have their own personal experiences that can positively influence the child’s future if they choose art. Art has been seen as a useless career for a long time which is contrary to the truth. Kudos to these dads
High risk high return..Newson God gave you the real gentlemen.Most of us out here we wish to have sometimes with those guys you have.
I really love u wakurugenzi. Abel I love ur stories sana.
Kimani niue Sasa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am saving this for future ❤❤
Amaizing talk ❤❤❤
Abel mutua just the first sentence of this show How you said you knew you would be a present father. Thats amazing
Amazing conversation 👌
Great conversation with your squad
Great conversation as always.❤❤❤ Now we need butita and singlehood😂😂😂😂
I can listen to this gentleman for hours, so much that when Judy says its time to wrap up, I feel sort of sad. I love the conversations, so enlightening and engaging, and made me appreciate my child's father even more. And like Abel says, weee, raising boys aint easy! We need to hear them.
I've learnt a lot from this episode.. Also kids raised by single parents and how that affected their current life
I pray for a healthy environment, caring and loving dad for my kids 🙏🏽
Hi Judy. Am Mary a sister to a 14yr old bro and it would be an honor to be in your show to discuss about how we've been trying to raise him to be a man with no father figure
@MuneneArnolds
12 күн бұрын
Where the uncles
@TheGeneralEntertainment
12 күн бұрын
The father figure are available where's his uncle's
@daisyjoan2084
12 күн бұрын
I don't think uncles always count... because it depends with age. We are only 3 kids and I'm older than my brother with a difference of 13 years, so when I was 28 he was turning 15 and for him to be a 'father figure' to my child doesn't really make sense, it is a lot to expect from him. So uncles may be there but age is a factor
@daisyjoan2084
12 күн бұрын
@@MuneneArnolds for instance the dad ran away and completely neglected his responsibility, how do you start going to his brothers? where's the rapport, where's the link
@MuneneArnolds
12 күн бұрын
@@daisyjoan2084 in your family hakuna men kabisa? U are lying. Walete niwapee mawaidha ya wanaume
Wueh moms of boys tunaumia wueh.. We need more intentional men in society. You guys are doing great and may God bless you guys more and more. Barikiweni sana. Y’all are truly appreciated….
Very helpful talk
Hi guys, I have really enjoyed our conversation. You have made me see the importance of a farmer I am a father who is working in Qatar my son was born while I was in Qatar he’s two years nowI have never seen him and I desire to see him and even bond with him I’ve not been able to go home because of some few finances issues
Njugush😂😂😂
@ndegwa_1
11 күн бұрын
He's a menace 😂😂😂😂
This is good you guys mnanichapa tbt growing up in the 90's and early 2000s napenda you convos never missing out
Maad respect to you guys, learnt alot , and also laughed 😂😂
One wholesome conversation Judy🙂