My ex threatened to accuse me of molesting our daughter. Fortunately, I was able to record a conversation where I said, "But none of that is true" and she replied, "yeah, but it will ruin you." I immediately send a copy to my divorce lawyer. If you think there is even a possibility of a false accusation, record every interaction you can. Digital memory is cheap.

@AllTotalCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Spot on great work

@BWater-yq3jx

3 жыл бұрын

Nice one. I always wonder in these instances if there were previous indications that she was the kind of person to do that... and if so, how early did they manifest?

@johnnycage2746

3 жыл бұрын

@@mtpta4947 for a free paycheque so they can get they guts filled by sum1 else

@WexMajor82

2 жыл бұрын

@@mtpta4947 "an individual would use their own child as a weapon of their attack on the individual who they had that child WITH", also known as a "woman".

@semperfi-1918

2 жыл бұрын

Back in 2002/3 i had an abussive wife who ruined my first 4 years of my military career and reputation from being the perfect marine to a turd. And followed me through the rest of my military career.

I've been falsely accused at my work by a woman in HR. Long story short, she teamed up with all her friends at work and I became the "black sheep" in the office. Lesson = never talk to woman at work.

@Migantos9989

4 жыл бұрын

I feel you bro, this woman at my work got upset I wasn't interested in her and got her little group to go against me; luckily, being extroverted and friendly, I still have many friends at work who see me at my worth and agree she's low value and immature.

@e.h.1843

4 жыл бұрын

@@Migantos9989 lol man it sounds exactly like what's happened to me last year. I told this girl politely that I wasn't interested and she proceeded to tell everybody at work that I was gay, unbelievable

@drinkyourtea

4 жыл бұрын

I had a similar kind of situation and it really messes with you.

@18despues

4 жыл бұрын

I've had really good looking girls give me the eye at work but always I think the same thing. Not worth it.

@Grasshopper80s4ever

4 жыл бұрын

I used to know a guy that worked with a girl that accused one of his male co-workers off trying to finger her in the tool room. No proof no evidence and he was fired simply because one of the girl's friends at work sided in with her and said that she witnessed him grabbing her before at work

"Oh but that's just nonsense. It never happens!" Said every feminist and no man ever.

@vaibhavnigam8313

4 жыл бұрын

Add the male feminists

@TheOmnipresent12

4 жыл бұрын

@@vaibhavnigam8313 Very much what I was going to say vai'. Some might say the 'media cucks' as well.

@Lilypad1803

3 жыл бұрын

That's not true, I'm a feminist and it does happen. And it is so tragic when it happens.

@jaijeet7459

Жыл бұрын

@@vaibhavnigam8313 there are no male feminists, just pathetic simps who think supporting feminism could get them laid lol

@Andrux0821

7 ай бұрын

They bring up the fact that 7% of all cases are false. They are the same people that bring up that nearly every woman gets raped/sexually assaulted in their lives. And that is true and our hearts go out to the real victims, but what this means is that 7% of a huge number is still a big number. Statistically it is still likely to happen! And that’s what those feminists downplay so heavily. Just go to r/askfeminists (they claim to be the fair feminists yet are nothing but hypocrites) or pretty much any feminist subreddit.

I’m gay and been accused twice in my life at the work place of sexual harassment by women. The first I was out at the job, and this new employee wanted my shift, so an easy way. Obviously it didn’t go anywhere. Second time was horrible. I wasn’t out at the new job. One poor employee evaluation of a 65 year old 300+lb female employee. I guess the HR department had an idea about me, so instead of just firing me like most do for an accusation, I went through an EEOC investigation for 15 months. I was found innocent of the insanely wild accusation and kept my job. Neither of the women were let go or disciplined. That’s privilege for you.

@armandohenriquez2103

4 жыл бұрын

Sadly there is a vast amount of false accusations by women.. narcissistic sociopath women is very common in today's society

@Grasshopper80s4ever

4 жыл бұрын

I used to work at a grocery store and there was a guy there that was gay and this girl was trying hard to get him to go out with her and no matter how many times he told her that he was gay she would just laugh at him and keep trying to get him to go out with her. One day she got tired of trying and she went to the corporate HR department...." that was run by women" and told them that the gay guy put his hands down the front of her sweatpants . Because of the bill passed by the Obama Administration ,she was able to press charges against him with no proof of evidence. He lost his job and got into a bunch of legal trouble

@diegojimenez6087

4 жыл бұрын

Grasshopper80s4ever .oldford This is why whenever you are placed in such a situation, on the first instance of being hit on, you email HR the details of the situation. You state it was an unwanted sexual advancement on you. You also bcc your home email address what you send to HR, as HR depts and IT depts have been known to purge email trails. It’s really about who complains first. Even being gay won’t protect you completely. When I get even a hint of such a situation towards me, I wouldn’t hesitate, because like your friend, they won’t when they feel rejected.

@lamalien2276

4 жыл бұрын

@@diegojimenez6087 Sadly, I'm sure that won't be enough in some cases. Remember society LOVES to champion women because everyone, man and woman alike, wants to be seen as the hero that valiantly fights the evil bad guys (you) and saves the day. People aren't going to change until we fight tooth an claw and accept the tomato throwing and social ostracism that results. Time to grow some balls guys!

@Sirbikingviking

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry that things are so bad in our society that a gay man has to come to this channel about dating women to find validation. Keep your head up.

Guys can't stress this enought, USE A BODYCAM AND/OR A MICROPHONE. It can save your life and your reputation

@vladkostin7557

4 жыл бұрын

I only have sex strapped with a GoPro nowadays...

@xXJM01Xx

4 жыл бұрын

Problem is they aren't legal in some states and if you do record people in those states any of the recording that you have to try and use as evidence can be dismissed. The courts in those states basically try and make it impossible for a man to defend themselves.

@StN736

4 жыл бұрын

an app that records all your phone calls is free ;)

@algum.cara1

4 жыл бұрын

I offer another good option: stay single, keep your conversations with women public (or screenshot if that's the case) and go to prostitutes when you want to get your rocks off. If prostitution isnt legal where you live, you could buy a fleshlight aswell

@leandrotech6742

4 жыл бұрын

The first time she is being abusive you guys need to record and break up. That way if she falsely acuse you for revenge you have proof that she is the abuser

I was falsely accused of various forms of abuse by my first girlfriend two years ago. She turned everyone against me took me to court. The trauma caused me to drop out of uni. Now I'm a tradie instead. I'm glad it happened though because I learnt a lot from it. As they say the toughest situations make the best lessons

@mohamedelkayal2068

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry to here that. I always feel infuriated by such injustice for anyone. Hope you're doing better now, I know it doesn't change what happened but here's hoping.

@jbond5834

4 жыл бұрын

hi, dude. hope u can leave it behind and move forward. Many other things are waiting for u to do.

@paulcooper5748

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah some of them are just pure evil but i beleive they will reap what they sow sorry to hear you went through that brother.

@JF-xm6tu

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the responces guys. I am a lot more cautious now and aware of different types of women. I'm also no longer a nice guy because that's what landed me there in the first place.

@chrism.1749

4 жыл бұрын

Average John What trade do you work in? They all seem like a great living 👍🏼

I was 11 months in jail for false accusation until the court found me NOT guilty. No one apologized, i lost everything and the woman got away with it. Nothing happened to her at all. She lied and they took me out of the game, it can happen to YOU TOO!

@supercool1238

2 жыл бұрын

Any time any place anywhere a Western woman can have you locked up in a Slave camp for life no proof needed

@conan501

Жыл бұрын

Damn, sorry dude. I hope things have gotten better.

@DirkShotojima

Жыл бұрын

It happens all the time. I've seen it. Society protects these lying females!

@nosajsamaniego4512

10 ай бұрын

Did you counter-sue???

I was looking at 91 to life, I won my case, she got to walk free...lost my home, my kids, had to move. We live a modern day Salem Witch Trials era where were Guilty until proven Innocent! But the media would never be there to celebrate that victory! Stay woke Gents ~

@victornyamu2547

4 жыл бұрын

Bro how did you beat it? Bodycam, microphone or something?

@lostincredulity5369

3 жыл бұрын

Ha! That’s what I call it too a modern day Salem Witch Hunt.

@supercool1238

2 жыл бұрын

Be careful catch and release is the best way to avoid this

A former employee of my father was accused by his wife at the time of molesting his own children (very similar to the example you're presenting). She then asked for a divorce, and tried to take half of what he had (not much). Well. He hung himself. Successfully. She did not take half of what he had, she took all he had, his life included. I would say I hope she's feeling guilty for it, but I don't think she does. She doesn't care, never has.

@technoloverish

4 жыл бұрын

Well, how do you know that he didn't do it?

@forevermorenon-beer-drinki4395

4 жыл бұрын

H fan How do you know he did?

@nonexistenceisbliss9528

4 жыл бұрын

@@forevermorenon-beer-drinki4395 Exactly!

@nonexistenceisbliss9528

4 жыл бұрын

@@forevermorenon-beer-drinki4395 Let me buy you a beer Beer-Drinking-Joe! 🙂 🍺

@forevermorenon-beer-drinki4395

4 жыл бұрын

@@nonexistenceisbliss9528 What this world really needs is a good way to serve warm beer on cold nights!

Take this advice absolutely seriously. Also, avoid partners who claim previous sexual abuse. Regardless of whether it's true, it's devastating baggage.

@odysseuselysium3368

4 жыл бұрын

True indeed.

@anonemoose102

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, the first girl I was with I had intimacy for 1 night, the next day she told me she was sexually assaulted in high school and told me it wouldn't work. Guess I dodged a bullet

@AllTotalCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Spot on

@stephen9381

4 жыл бұрын

Alex Wang oof

@elizabethb3436

2 жыл бұрын

Hum I dont understand that but what ever yes its baggage and some cant get over it. But others like my self where child sexual abuse happened it happened I didnt have control of the adult in my life any more than a man can control being raped and yes men do get raped my abuser went to prison by the way there was digital proof he was a pedophile. To avoid a person that was sexually abused just because of abuse hum glad I didn't meet you. I have my husband been married 25 years.

A girl set her boyfriend on me just because I stared at her for a few seconds more. She wasnt even that good looking. The poor boyfriend acted weird around me, he didnt even have the courage to confront me. There were other women who spread rumours that I was crazy just because I refused to talk to them and preferred to be alone. There are many women out there who are downright cold hearted. They wont care about you even if you commit suicide.

@uchihamadara644

4 жыл бұрын

that is so true

@gknogo7108

3 жыл бұрын

I went through this she has been ruining my life for years, she analyzed me with a group of other people for it. Basically in my community I’m considered bipolar, schizophrenic because of it and I’m tired, I committed suicide but got hospitalized. She needs to rationalize rejection by me being dumb. I lashed out at the wrong people making me look even worse I didn’t know who was doing this to me. All she does is post on Reddit about me and how she never had a chance because Of how loaded with issues I was but guys I promise she knew I was in relationships and still forced it.

@prashanth8969

2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly!! That too in India its even worse. These people are evil, less than animals. I lost all hopes on humanity and god. Humanity and god never exist, especially after the false accusation incidents of sarvjeet singh, zomato worker and recent driver in UP. there are lots of cases of men being victims and not being reported

@prashanthb6521

2 жыл бұрын

@@gknogo7108 I understand what you went thru. They are very manipulative. Hey, If you are facing problems regarding your health as mentioned above, I urge you to go over to reddit pages of Intermittent fasting and Keo diet. There are plenty of cases where people have "cured" or improved their quality of life after changing their feeding habits. Right now I am reading a bunch of research papers regarding this topic so I thought I will put in a word so that you and others reading this will get help w.r.t to mental health. All the best.

@BrianMolstad

2 ай бұрын

These women know that they risk NOTHING even if they accuse you of burying their children alive. They love drama. Their friends will praise them as bold, strong and independent.

My ex wife lied about me being abusive to all my friends as she was stealing tens of thousands of dollars from me. Monk mode for 10 years.

@Hagser

4 жыл бұрын

Leo Everett Madrid Jr. Depressing.

@nonexistenceisbliss9528

4 жыл бұрын

Monk Mode 4 LIFE !

@nonexistenceisbliss9528

2 жыл бұрын

@Victor Tronin ???

@kitma520

Ай бұрын

Jesus Christ is the only way to everlasting life. He loves you, and He is with you no matter what. He will never abandon nor forsake you.

As long as there are no consequences for women that make false accusations they will continue.

My mother accused my father of abuse. A lie. My ex-girlfriend accused me of violence. A lie. Both of those women were themselves abusive, volatile narcissists. And judging from other comments here, I think we can see a broad behavioral pattern. Too bad that pattern tends to be downplayed in public discourse.

@minimimimaxiboy1

4 жыл бұрын

My mother and my crush (never was in a relationship with her) were both abusive as well. So now I just don't trust women, even though my mother's starting to realize all of her mistakes and is trying to be closer to me.

@parrotshootist3004

4 жыл бұрын

@@minimimimaxiboy1 Has yet to be open and honest, though huh?

@hindusanta123

4 жыл бұрын

You do know there are other personality disorders than narcissism right?

@parrotshootist3004

4 жыл бұрын

@@hindusanta123 Hall mark of someone who hasn't done their due dilligence. The question then becomes why.

@TopFlightSecurity415

4 жыл бұрын

its always sad when your own mother exhibits these bad behaviors smh i guess women are going to be woman at eh end of the day family or not

Why weren't you around giving advice 19 years ago so concisely and in such a common sense manner? I was falsely accused of r@pe by my ex at the beginning of a divorce she instigated. Exonerated by the court but it cost $400K. Her toxic behavior persists and it cost another $200k. Alexander is right she's, my ex is one of these low quality women. "Progress always comes too late" quote Cinema Paradiso

@lordecircojeca2039

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, 600k? That's harsh. I hope you're in a better situation now bro.

@user-bd3tn8zt5m

4 жыл бұрын

if you won you could get your money back? i am from spain i guess the justice system is different

@ttrainor70

4 жыл бұрын

been there, done that. should have the t-shirt this summer. only cost me 17k

@foxyfox737

4 жыл бұрын

God reading your comment felt like lightning striking me!! All my compassion and prayers to you sir.

@milekrizman

4 жыл бұрын

Cinema Paradiso, italian 80's movie?

A bunch of guys showed up where I worked because some chick accused me. She was with them. Asked her a few questions and they could tell she was lying. She thought I would be afraid of them but it ended up being the other way around. On another occasion, a friend of mine sit in jail for more than a year before he went to court. The jury took 5 minutes to find him innocent.

The easiest way to protect yourself....be poor

@ildart8738

4 жыл бұрын

Speed and aggression, gentlemen, speed and aggression. It (mostly) wins the day. And being poor is not the right answer by a long stretch!

@kaassaus4230

4 жыл бұрын

They can still run you into dept.

@theeyepatch1219

4 жыл бұрын

M broke asfk 18 yr ol no 1 bother me its sheer bliss m working on my arch entrance exams...and teaching myself piano tn nobody cares...m aslo really tall skinny n ugly helps

@ollicron7397

Жыл бұрын

🤣 this made me laugh so hard, here have a like.

@eyesofnight

Жыл бұрын

@@ildart8738 appear poor

Ex-HR Manager here. Do not compliment women in the workplace. Make no comment whatsoever about her appearance. If she has shaved her head, is wearing a G string, bra and nothing else.. or a clown suit.. make no comment whatsoever. Keep your interactions 100% business-related. Do not mentor young women, gentlemen. Ever. Do not have meetings alone with female colleagues, unless you absolutely have to. And if you absolutely can't avoid it, meet in the open office area or a meeting room with glass walls (and open door). Do not venture any opinion whatsoever on politics, feminism or any other PC topic. Go to work. Do your job. Put in the required hours then get the hell out. Work is not a social circle. Those days are gone.

I never date, period. Because of rejection and abuse, I'm scared, and these fake accusations are also a real threat.

@TheOmnipresent12

4 жыл бұрын

@Millinial Picasso You have to wonder if to some degree this is taken into consideration by men who... join the other team... ie. become gay.

@infinitydesu

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheOmnipresent12 That's stupid. There's no need to change your sexuality. Just pay hookers.

@ildart8738

4 жыл бұрын

I used to be the same way as you minimimimaxiboy, but if you watch Jordan Peterson"s videos, I think it will blow your mind, like it did mine a almost a year ago.

@minimimimaxiboy1

4 жыл бұрын

@@ildart8738 I've watched him, does nothing for me. I don't think any of this does, it's all a haze you walk through daily.

False allegations happen more than we know 💔 men’s lives can be ruined by just the word “rapist” or “ pedophile” .. the false accusers need to be held accountable for their actions.

The legal consequences for accusations should be same as for the actual crime.

@ambergrello1741

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

The devil is known as the accuser

@damianos17xyz99

4 жыл бұрын

Forrest Dump yes! This is a point I think! devil works through women very, very often

I was once accused of sexual assault during my freshmen year, and it had me devastated because of how much I knew it could ruin my life. Luckily, one of my dorm hall mates (and good friends to this day) was able to give my whereabouts around the time, and there was a camera in the building where the girl claimed she was sexually assaulted by me. *Two things I learned from that experience: 1) always have some form of proof in a situation like this, and 2) never give any woman the benefit of the doubt because she will use it against you. This girl knew I really liked her, so she made me the fall guy for a false accusation.*

@bellaapple4669

4 жыл бұрын

And let me guess? No punishment was given to the false accuser

@ajtaylor8750

4 жыл бұрын

@@bellaapple4669 Of course not. They allowed her to continue attending the school, and I was told to just let it go.

@toongrowner1

4 жыл бұрын

@@ajtaylor8750 Why did she do it though? Like what reason do woman have n the first place to make such horrible accusations? It just makes no sense

@ajtaylor8750

4 жыл бұрын

@@toongrowner1 Her reasoning still burns in my brain to this day. She made these accusations because she didn't think it would get blown out of proportion 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

@chrism.1749

4 жыл бұрын

AJ Taylor This takes yelling “fire” at a movie theatre to a whole other level. The punishment false accusations should be 10 fold of the crime previously mentioned.

There was a girl I went out with for a couple weeks. We fooled around in my car once. She broke up with me later, then told everyone I forced myself on her. Not much you can do about it except stay true to your character

@TheOmnipresent12

4 жыл бұрын

Ah yes... the old (narcissistic) 'feather in the cap' syndrome... 'this is how irresistible I am to them... oh it's so awful being so beautiful I just can't fend off these beasts my beauty is just too much for them'... Makes me laugh especially when you see so many wales making such complaints only to find that a court has ruled her accusations blatantly false.

@deliverus6856

2 жыл бұрын

Why do women do this? What do they have to gain?

@JD-hq4kx

2 жыл бұрын

@@deliverus6856 remember my brother women tend to think emotionally rather than rational like men

@TheNegative1

Жыл бұрын

@@deliverus6856 victim privilege and attention

This is exactly why men should make their best to keep calm in any aggravating situation. If you want to break a contact with someone, set it up in a way so it perceived as mutual.

@adama5929

4 жыл бұрын

I still believe in body-cams and having your home wired without telling anyone. Even if it can't be used in court(in certain jurisdictions) you can still show she's a liar and destroy her life.

@dr.winstonsmith

4 жыл бұрын

Adam Those are really good suggestions. Make her feel that she’s “winning” in the breakup so she’ll leave you alone afterwards.

the fact that women shrug this off shows how they dont care about us...we gotta protect ourselves gentlemen

Do what Johnny Depp did... bait her and record her threats (Update: Okay so I was wrong, she recorded it... still, record her 😂)

Guys, im not even 20 yet and watching these comments where i see innocent men getting destroyed cuz a girl had a bad day or her demands were not getting fullfiled, scares me to the spine, and even before starting dating, im considering just not to indulge with any women, even for plain talking and stuff.

@lionape440

2 жыл бұрын

Ngl be careful demands walk this earth

@francismcfadden3305

Жыл бұрын

Just be careful man, there are good women out there, but be careful. If you're in a 3rd party consent state (has nothing to do with sexual consent) then record audio of interactions with the women you get involved with. Also look out for red flags. If she seems crazy, she probably is.

False accusations are too common these days. Yes there are creeps out there, but also take in mind that many women over exaggerate and over dramatize or flat out lie about stuff that happened.

@yeranishunor

Ай бұрын

I was sexually assaulted and I'm not lying

Yep, false accusations are sheer horror. With mine it was a terrifying introduction to madness that you could not understand, could not reason with, and it was with no warning, blindsided like being hit in the face by your most trusted companion, your friend, your lover, and after 5 years together with no problems. After 8 months of torture, I left for my own sanity. That was 10 years ago. Much better now !!! You can't have a conversation with madness. Added comment.. When I left it was with some guilt, as the woman I loved was still in there..somewhere, but she had become possessed by an irrational psychotic demon. She could not see this and refused help. I had to protect myself and left. I also fear that she would put someone else through a similar experience. I often wonder if she ever realised what a monster she became.

@kitma520

Ай бұрын

Jesus Christ is the only way to everlasting life. He loves you, and He is with you no matter what. He will never abandon nor forsake you. Ps. She was always a demon from the beginning; the strange women that The Lord warns us to keep away from. He saved you, give Him glory.

Solution 2: In home security cameras. Tell her you have them recording around the house to protect you two against intruders. Legally she has been told about them and will probably not ask exactly how many there are and what the field of view is of each one - nor remember even if she did. If she claims something serious against you, you have hard audio and video evidence that is allowed in court plus a overall history of her behavior vs yours.

@brettcameratraveler

4 жыл бұрын

@@DrNauseous You're not following. You tell her ON camera about them. Theres your legal record and consent.

@adama5929

4 жыл бұрын

@@brettcameratraveler In your own home, I have to wonder if others have any right to privacy. In _their_ home and unbeknownst to them, I can see the issue. Either way, I would wire up the house and NOT tell her. If she makes a claim, you have proof. Even if it's inadmisable in court, you can 'poison the well' of public opinion and show the world who she really is. Which, yes, might lead to court 🙄

@technoloverish

4 жыл бұрын

@@adama5929 You can still go to jail for that. It's illegal to record in situations where there is an expectation of privacy. The only exception is when you have their consent.

@Blox117

3 жыл бұрын

just make sure you have hard drive space then. and that it doesnt automatically write over the oldest data lmao

This child molestation accusation was made against me by my ex-wife, and it eventually turned out that it was the husband of her best friend. My daughter was best friends with her daughter. Yes, lies from a loose woman. After all the years, this is still disgusting. He got sentenced to a very long stint in prison. After he was sentenced, I let her know, and she was hostile that I told her the truth.

@Blox117

3 жыл бұрын

i hope your daughter is well

@phillosophy5103

3 жыл бұрын

Figures homeboy wouldn't respond.

ive been accused 3 times by the same woman, it never mattered what i said, if i denied anything, if i even had wittnesses , the police always arrested me, and charged me, police are here to serve women, and only women, if a woman is angry , all she needs to do is call the police and the man is removed. if shes cheating, shell call the police and get the man removed, its just and endless cycle, its double standard and not fair.

I broke up with a girl I'd been seeing because she was very, very boring. I didn't tell her that, I just said I didn't want to see anyone to try and protect her feelings. She told her parents and our mutual friends that I broke up with her because she wasn't ready to have sex. It had absolutely nothing to do with that. Her parents whom had liked me a lot until then immediately hated me, our mutual friends who weren't too sure just sort of stopped talking to me. A minor example compared to what others have gone through, and it was still frustrating.

@Blox117

3 жыл бұрын

thats a valid reason to break up with someone though. but what did you mean by boring?

@elizabethb3436

2 жыл бұрын

You didnt tell her so she assumed. It would have been better to tell her.

@monkey-bananas2890

Жыл бұрын

@@elizabethb3436 he literally just said that he told he wasn't interested in dating anyone

My brother was accused by 4 girls and is currently sitting in prison. 3 of the girls decided to abandon their case out of guilt, but that did not help him. The time of the "crime" was 7 years before the accusation. He has 30 years in prison due to this with no parole. His life has been utterly ruined to the point where even if the girl comes out and says she was lying, and he gets let out on actually being innocent, he will probably never recover. I live in fear the same may happen to me. To us men, our life is over, all the effort, blood, sweat, and tears we put into our life can be ripped away from us. For women it's just tuesday. As i say it: The only thing separating men on the inside and men on the outside is just a couple words said by a woman.

@raphzrapheal5381

2 ай бұрын

similar situation bro, life just sucks for us men

@kitma520

Ай бұрын

Jesus Christ is the only way to everlasting life. He loves you, and He is with you no matter what. He will never abandon nor forsake you.

I was in a girl's friend zone for 4 years. One day her BF dumped her. She called me over, answered the door naked, took my hand and placed it between her legs and said, "make me feel wanted". 3 days later BF took her back and she said I took advantage of her and she never wanted to see me again. Luckily no legal action.

@vxbrxnt

2 жыл бұрын

walk away from a girl like that

In India, laws are completely on women's side! A woman claimed that the guy sexually harassed her, got him arrested, who initially couldn't get a conditional bail, lost his job, was behind bars (regularly in and out) for 4 years! When the case got solved, EVERYTHING was proven to be a lie! It still took time for him to be out of making rounds of police station gettin clearances! The guy filed defamation case, the feminists group came to HER rescue and accused PATRIARCHY! No big company is willing to even give him an interview All the newspapers who published him guilty are not even printing a small section of apology in corners of their newspaper! The woman is now wealthy btw and I think she has just moved to Canada!! PARADISE.

@TopFlightSecurity415

4 жыл бұрын

thats terrible

@skywire6219

4 жыл бұрын

😱

I don’t even wanna go into the false accusations I have had in my life, first one happened when I was 15 where she said I raped her under a bridge, when she went and told people they laughed at her and were like this guy, you want us to believe he raped you we know him, this guy is a goodie goodie too shoes and this was nearly my entire year group that was saying this. Long story short she laughed along with them and was like yeah I wasn’t serious and it ended there. When she said it I just looked at her like huhhh, I’m 28 now and seeing all these me too movement I immediately think back to that experience, funny thing is the bridge is the most crowded area where I lived, her accusation was so laughable, she was told that it was stupid what she was saying. I was well known as a church goer, never ever in trouble within my peer group so it didn’t smeer me, but in today’s day and age this wouldn’t matter. They don’t even rationally think like this like my year group did. All in all this is why I’m celibate now and just decide to forego women. The risk don’t make it worth it.

I'm dealing with an individual who I'm suing right now, and it's been 7 years of false accusations of Domestic Violence twice, it's a long story, but it's a nightmare. Neighbors don't speak to me. She said I killed my cats, etc. It's outlandish!

It never ceases to amaze me how women can get away with this and claim they are oppressed.

Unfortunately, there seem to be more low quality than good quality women these days.

A Co Worker (low quality women) started telling my other co workers that i was gay. All i did was reject her when she asked me out... SMH ohh yea when my co workers told me what she was saying i told em all what really happened. She quit that job a short while later.

@beyonder875

3 жыл бұрын

What actually happened?

@madsdarre356

3 жыл бұрын

@@beyonder875 its in his comment lol

You can also be falsely accused of assault, which is easier to “prove,” and you will suffer for the false accusation.

Its not only basic compassion to side with her, its also the fact that even some of your own friends or associates maybe even jealous of you and your relationship behind close doors. So they want to believe any negative thing about you and want to see fall in the worse way possible. If someone who knows you for years and knows you're integrity would at least question this accusations to get the truth, but if they are willing to believe these accusations easily without questioning anything then that person never had you in their best interest to begin with.

This is brilliant! Bloody well said Alexander! I'm gonna have to call you Alexander the Great because of this! Loved how you pointed out the importance of fear in this video! For those who are foolishly naive to keep emphasising fearlessness just in general, they need to remember that fear is what keeps them alive in the first place! This also applies to gender interactions! Just look at the case of Amber recently. We've all Heard about that one haven't we? Just one of millions of examples. There are many things we should fear and with bloody good reason as it is a mechanism for CAUTION! Fearlessness looks good on paper but the reality is vastly different! It's always good to have a healthy dose of fear, just not too much of it! It will keep you out of trouble! Again, I'd sooner be fearful than a fool!

@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74

4 жыл бұрын

Courage is not the absence of fear. It is the overcoming of it. ~%~Aloha~%~

@informationyes

2 жыл бұрын

@@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 Hes not recomending overcoming it though lol

Says a lot about where we are in Humanity these days.

I have just been convicted for sexual touching on a dance floor here in jersey channel islands. Going to compile a list all the guys that this has happened here in jersey, they picked on the wrong guy.

@mathisnotforthefaintofheart

Жыл бұрын

I never go to places where there are a lot of women all "close together". When I was in college (and that has been quite a while ago, not in the US), anytime when there was a college dance party, we boys were briefed how to behave. Nothing was said to women. After the third briefing, I decided not to go to any of these parties anymore. Women can touch you whatever and you can be implicated for anything? No thanks. I find life without them so much easier.

You can 100% be found guilty without evidence. Not requiring physical evidence in a sexual assault or abuse prosecution was a cornerstone goal of feminism, which they achieved decades ago. Whether a woman will prove to be low quality in this sense often cannot be learned before she makes the accusation.

@technoloverish

4 жыл бұрын

Well actually, there does need to be proof that those involved engaged in sexual activity, so some physical evidence is required.

@technoloverish

4 жыл бұрын

@@Chris-gs7cq There also needs to be evidence that the people in question engaged in sex. Also, statistically, most accused rapists don't end up going to jail for it, and most victims don't report it. Men are far more likely to be false accused of possessing illegal drugs and such.

@Stanley_Baby

Жыл бұрын

@@technoloverish “Brian Banks DNA was not found on accuser Wanetta Gibson or her clothing” I’m not sure what country and what justice system you’re talking about but this man wrongfully served 5 years in jail with no dna evidence from him on the victim because he didn’t have sex with her

Girlfriend punched me multiple times, then called the cops and accused me of assaulting her. Thank God her history of impulse control was well known - her shrink backed me up - she knew both of us, and knew who the aggressor, and the liar, were. I was very lucky, but emotionally destroyed for a time.

Normally I have something to contribute to the discussion but this time I just want to say I wish I could give you a hug. Thank you! Also I agree, better to be celibate and improving your own value than it is to settle.

I own my own business so HR isn’t an issue. I also will not hire women. Sorry just how I have to run things.

@anhero2377

3 жыл бұрын

Don't hire blacks either.

@calebkent5858

3 жыл бұрын

@@anhero2377 why?

@BloodBoiling

3 жыл бұрын

@@calebkent5858is because of false racist accusations?

You have to get to know someone to find out they are low quality. To get to know them, you'll be alone with them at some point. You cannot remove this risk.

Every single male in the world needs to hear this guy because he speaks the truth.

I did not realize it then, but I married a narcissist. We cohabitated for multiple years. There were signs other people saw, but I didn’t. As soon as the ink was dry on the marriage certificate, outright lying became normal including not using contraceptive despite agreements otherwise. This quickly lead to a high conflict custody/visitation dispute divorce with my Ex- during tender years doctrine time (women always got custody). After separation, she changed again and never lost an opportunity to harm me. She used her considerable charm and tears to persuade the court counselor and a court appointed psychologist and indirectly the judge that I sexually molested our toddler daughter. She initially got everything she wanted and I got almost nothing. She then started using me as an almost daily baby sitter which I documented for several months. This lead to a series of session with the court counselor and the court appointed psychologist. Both admitted to being duped by her and totally flipped sides. Seeing the writing on the wall, she then kidnapped our toddler daughter and disappeared to the east coast for nine months. I was given total custody. I still don’t know where she was. She eventually returned to California, thinking everything will return to life before. The court bent over backwards trying to make joint custody and visitation work, with more sessions with the court counselor and many more with the court appointed psychologist, and four extensive visits by Probation department investigators. The Ex- made six or seven false accusations against me to CPS, once by the FBI for being the Unibomber, and two or three times by the local police, for supposed physical and sexual abuse of our toddler daughter. I always cooperated with investigators and always came out clean. The Ex-‘s baseless accusations only stopped when the judge threatened her with jail time for contempt. Knowing what I know now, I would probably still let the investigators in, but would insist on video recording everything for everybody’s safety. Back then, cell phones and recording cameras did not exist. That was only a tiny part of the whole story I think during the CPS first visit, I was explaining the custody conflict history while the daughter was happily singing to herself a few feet away while swinging on the swing hanging from the living room ceiling. I asked her to put her swimming suit (bikini style) on which she happily did; not a scratch anywhere. I was assaulted annually for about a decade by the Ex-, usually during her visitations. She was of equal size, weight, and strength. She often used weapons (pogo stick, baseball bat.) I reported every incident to the police and to the courts. The police took confirming photos of sizable bruises multiple times. Despite the evidence, the DA and the court repeatedly did nothing. When our daughter was in the third grade, I asked her where she would like to live if something were to happen to me. Her two choices did not include Mom. I figured the best unbiased witness to her choices and reasoning would be the court counselor. During their meeting, the counselor apparent asked the daughter about her relations to her mother. The daughter apparently told about a fist fight she had with her mother on the school grounds several months earlier. At the next court hearing, the judge on his own initiative issued a permanent restraining order. Several months later, the Ex- came by, wanting to borrow some money. She had stopped payment on a prior check, so I refused to loan her any more money and went back to my welding work. She kicked me in the genitals. I landed on the ground in a fetal position and was wiped out for nearly two weeks. The DA finally took action and issued an arrest warrant. The police made no effort to execute the warrant and dropped the warrant in less than a year. The Ex- was never inconvenienced for any of her antics at any point. The daughter has wanted nothing to do with her mother for decades now, but gets along fine with all her other maternal relatives (and me.) I subsequently helped about two hundred people deal with false child abuse accusations with a local volunteer organization. Many were false accusations occurring during a divorce. About half were CPS cases. Several times, green CPS workers jump to totally erroneous conclusions from ignorance. For example, mentally retarded children tend to be people pleasers. They will often guess at an answer when they don’t understand a question. When asked the same question again, they will often quickly switch their answer when they sense that the inquisitor does not like the first answer. This quickly leads to gross absurdities. About half the time, the parent or grandparent could not recall or retell the facts in a cogent way, or were grossly inconsistent week to week. I often wanted CPS to keep the kids forever despite how bad foster care frequently is. I don’t think I was able to convince one father facing a judge for child abuse that research shows that a stern talking to generally works better than a beating. His rational was that he got his ass whipped as a child and he turned out OK. Most attorneys want to do their arguing or grandstanding in court. My experience is that it is far more effective to win with the family court counselors by organizing and writing up a relatively balanced summary of the family’s history and dynamics, and make a list of about 30 descriptive adjective for each involved party, maybe dividing into positive, neutral and negative. Sometimes, one can come up with a couple of summary phrases to describe a person. For my Ex, that could be: “she had to spend the money fast before it was all gone,” and “she could sell refrigerators to Eskimos.” The California Attorney General former printed the excellent California Child Abuse Prevention Handbook which did a pretty decent job of explaining all the relevant law and procedures. It is probably available in all California law libraries and maybe elsewhere. Maybe similar in other states.

Broke up with my girlfriend and one night she broke into my house by busting through the front door glass. I was a single parent with two little girls. I called the police and ran out the back door with my girls. When police came i was in my car with locked doors. I was so close to going to jail i almost crapped my pants. Why i didnt go ? Because she refused to press charges. ( i realized the situation i was in and told her i was sorry for breaking up with her over the police’s shoulder. ) quick thinking on my part saved me and my daughters.

@jbond5834

4 жыл бұрын

u need a camera in ur home

@93RG

4 жыл бұрын

Bloody hell....

@alexfowler9785

4 жыл бұрын

But wouldn't it be seen as you were the frightened one protecting your children, hiding in the car, and she broke into your 🏠? Did she at least get arrested for trespassing?

@adwe9912

4 жыл бұрын

Alex Fowler .... you would think that to be the view of the police. However let me state that after 2 marriages and 5 kids. The only thing that has kept me out of prison ( even though i did nothing wrong) is that i have a high IQ and also have enormous self discipline and even with these qualities i lost many battles with ; women in my life (wife , sister, mother, daughters). Another example was when i was in the USAF my wife took off with my kids across the country. I played along realizing how i was screwed. This behavior convinced her i wasnt a flight risk and allowed me to take my children to McDonald’s playground as a sort of visitation while i was home on leave. Well i went straight across the country back to base and gained custody as she wasnt able to represent herself in court locally. Long fight but a year later i won custody. Im actually going to publish my memoirs one day but it will be after i get financially independent so as to avoid the PC Gestapo.

@TopFlightSecurity415

4 жыл бұрын

why were they going to arrest you? she was the breaking into your home

I've been falsely accused of many accusations of things I never said or done . Thanks for making this video ! You're right high quality women wouldn't go out there way to destroy someone's reputation .

@Mike-xt2lh

4 жыл бұрын

@Mark Zaney Who said anything about tattoos and piercings ?

@Mike-xt2lh

4 жыл бұрын

@Mark Zaney Good point !

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

my son spent 3 months in jail after a false allegation by his ex, even though she had a long history of psych issues/hospitalisation and a ling criminal record (including jail), she got the house and the kids, he gained a criminal record and is now unemployable, he lost his reputation and access to his kids, he is now a meth addict in psychosis, living in a tent.

Thanks for info, I think this information is especially vital for those who are shy and inexperienced regarding dating and social situations. The stigma attached to false accusations never goes away, and the fear of such removes the incentive for men to actually engage in relationships (from talking with friends), and even acting as a good person as it can be misconstrued as ulterior motives, e.g. helping a lost child or intervene in a fight.

The hardest thing about being falsely accused by a loved one is the heartbreak and disbelief! You still love them and the hurt is unbearable. You don't know why and an unbreakable bond has been assaulted. The hurt is deeper than the abyss!

I have been falsely accused before. One of the ways they tried to get me to admit it was to apologize so they can use it against me and they also threatened to tell their Mexican “boyfriend” what happened. From the next months I got insane PTSD I’m paranoid about many things and to be honest I’ve never been the same but I’m getting better. False accusations can land you in in deep waters what also saved me from showing them evidence. Always save yourselves in that situation never apologize and if you end up in that situation fight tooth and nail.

My sister falsely accused a 15 yr old boy of raping her in a cemetery when I was a kid. She was raised well and did not come from a troubled childhood...

An accusation needs no qualifier...It does not suggest guilt or innocence...."False accusation" makes out that all accusations are true..I really need to get out more, clearly.

@Kenzofeis

4 жыл бұрын

It is about the content of the accusation, true or false. Should make you ponder terms like "criminal court" and so on and so forth.

@jugulator0

4 жыл бұрын

Don't even get me started on "Very Unique"....Lol at least you dont have to live with me ;)

I'll take the single and celebate.

What's really messed up, I was taught this in sex ed class in high school. To watch how I approach women, talk to them, and interact with them. That any wrong action could lead to being falsely accused. It made me paranoid and scared to approach women. And it still affects me to this day. Not being able to flirt and date in high school or in my 20's leaves me socially awkward with women in my 40's. Not sure what's worse - being faslely accused, or being single and hopeless for 20+ years.

@hebercluff1665

2 жыл бұрын

Seems like a sex ed class actually did something right

@freakctc

2 жыл бұрын

@@hebercluff1665 really? that's doing something right? if that's the desired result, then that is some efficient population control. cutting it in 1/2 each generation till there's no more.

I have been falsely accused of sexism at work. The woman who did it wanted everything her own way and didn't like to be questioned or to have to justify why she was telling people to do stuff - so to shut down the discussion, she threw a false accusation at me. Luckily I went straight to HR and they saw straight through it. The woman eventually admitted it was a malicious false accusation - but it was scary, and I ended up leaving the company soon after.

6:44 Be diligent with who you choose to associate with and only choose a high value partner. Superb advice. And I would add: never be around children except in the presence of at least one other high-quality adult, to avoid false accusations of inappropriate behavior.

@fredmckinney8933

Жыл бұрын

Even though my in-laws all trust me with their kids and grandkids, I have made that a policy for myself with ALL children, including our great-nieces and great-nephews, due to a ministry I plan to launch soon, as I don't want any possibility of false accusation to negatively affect the reputation of this project that God has laid upon my heart to do.

"keep toxic people(woman) out of your life" yeah, but what to do if i get the false accusation because i rejected/Ghostet her outright? I guess we can only minimize the risk, the same as you might be in a trafic accident the moment you leave the house.

@general_alexus2533

4 жыл бұрын

@YT censors facts Thanks for the story, that was my point. And to people thinking that anybody could make up this story: (playing devils advocate here) Even if you make up said story: the fact that it sounds believable in current year points to a big problem we are having.

I dont have time to write about how this has shown up in my life, the life of my stepson and the lives of my friends. Its not if but when.

Had a female co worker chasing me, making Annonimous callstmy wife, he'll o earth, all because I did not give her light if the day, even telling me about her erotica dreams with me... This is a very dangerous time for males.. Please take extra extra care....she was a total bpd case, medicated and ended up being fired for "performance issues", it took me massive amount of effort to recover the trust of people close to me...

False accusations are mostly directed at unattractive men. Attractive high value men can get away with a lot more.

@EvolianTiger

4 жыл бұрын

False. Have you ever heard of Kobre Bryant?

@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74

4 жыл бұрын

@Norwegian Blue I have to agree with the OP. It is only sexual harassment if the woman is not interested in the man. Love the name. Is it a Monty Python reference? ~%~Aloha~%~

@BrayoFitnessTrainer

4 жыл бұрын

In a sense maybe. But for the most part It don’t matter. If things are not going her way and she feels VINDICTIVE enough, it doesn’t matter who you are.

Silver bullet used against me, and when it didn’t pan out she simply ramped up the accusations!! Going to court for damages, where I now have to prove she was not the victim and I was not the aggressor 😢

Reputation is out of your control. Your character is in your control

false accusations should be criminal and carry the maximum possible sentence of the accused thing with no chance of release of parole

Guy I know was dragged out of his house in the middle of the night. His girlfriend called on him. Doesn't really matter if he is guilty or not, he is spending the night in jail because of the words of some woman.

@mdm5216

3 жыл бұрын

@I. S At that point the officer has to protect his ass. If the allegations are true and she gets hurt than he is on the hook.

@mdm5216

3 жыл бұрын

@I. S There is this woman at work who is interested in me. I get chills just thinking about it. Won't be the first woman I passed up a date with.

@mdm5216

3 жыл бұрын

@I. S I was talking to this woman at work. We were talking about security. Nothing sexual or anything like that. Another woman overheard the conversation. Didn't like what I had to say and reported me. It went right to the top. I had to sit in two meetings. The woman I was speaking to spoke up in my defense. It quickly got swept under the rug.

@mdm5216

3 жыл бұрын

@I. S I'm in a union so, as long as you don't steal, they can't do much. Overall my interaction with the women is minimal. Meaning I don't have a female boss and actual people I work with is 99% male.

I’ve gotten to the point where I’ve stopped believing all of these accusers.

When you have no trust, you have nothing, you really are sleeping with the enemy.

A woman who will take responsibility for her own actions, hmm, good hunting for that unicorn.

@xMCxVSxARBITERx

4 жыл бұрын

"Who can find a virtuous woman?" - The Bible

@skoneal007

4 жыл бұрын

@@xMCxVSxARBITERx Oh you mean that document that was written over a three hundred year period by average joe's whom where "inspired" by god, but who never even met or talked to Jesus. Then each subdivision of the church picked and chose which chapters they liked or didn't like and finally decided that no one else could ever be inspired by god again and write a new chapter. Well, until that "radical" Joseph Smith got inspired and decided to add his own chapter and then start a new subdivision religion.

@mtpta4947

4 жыл бұрын

@@skoneal007 Wth are you even talking about it's a 1500-1600 yr period for starters

@skoneal007

4 жыл бұрын

@@mtpta4947 I'm talking about how long it took to compose the document (300 years) not when it was considered finished (~400 AD) unless you want to add Joseph Smith in there, then it was finished in the 1830's.

@mtpta4947

4 жыл бұрын

@@skoneal007 If your talking about the book of Mormon then idc if you're talking about the Bible you couldn't be more wrong

this happened to a good friend of mine. The police didn't want to listen to a single word of what he had to say. But when they looked into it they found out the same woman had made false accusations with dozens of other men in the past. My friend was so distraught and angry.

Thank you, AG. Fantastic video. This topic is quite relevant to the servile fearfulness many find themselves living under this age’s yoke. It is so very important to acknowledge that the dangers are present and real. This is not a simple matter. It cannot be denied that working on yourself to increase your own high value can serve to afford you an abundance of choice in who you invite into your life because you can do so free of the scarcity that may well lead you to make allowances for low quality individuals. It can also not be denied that no matter what you do, there is no escaping a certain level of risk. I’m afraid that you will have to risk in order to arrive at a place where you surround yourself with only quality individuals. Adopting and adhering to a personal set of standards and carefully curating those around you to include only those whose standards match your own can, at best, minimize that risk. In order to discern quality, you must observe, and there is risk in observing. Within the context of a pairing scenario as well as a co-working scenario especially, you expose yourself to the manipulation via threat that a false accusation can bring crashing down on you. An accusation requires no empirical evidence, has no statute of limitations, and is its own punishment which carries an automatic life-sentence because unlike in a court of law, you will not be acquitted of an accusation, especially not one where you have already been convicted in the court of public opinion. This agency of manipulation that is commonly employed against Men is every bit as toxic as the manipulations some men employ against Women they pressure, maneuver into situations of risky behavior, and apply their own insecurities to in an effort to control (emotionally, physically and/or financially). It happens, to be sure, and Alex is completely justified in not minimizing the disdain and anger we feel toward men who move through life in this cowardly manner. They do us all a disservice and we must take steps to provide the proper guidance or corrective consequences when signs of these behaviors seep through. In the same way that we must police ourselves as Men, we must expect the same of Women. Men have always endured a certain amount of manipulation on a daily basis and we accept these because they are harmless. However, as the risks have become greater due to legislation as well as the demonization of masculinity through social norms, the risk has already become greater than the potential reward for many, and is quickly approaching that for many others. Adopting an attitude of no-contact as a response to MeToo is met by manipulative accusations of fragile masculinity and shaming language like “man-up,” but why should there be upset that Men seek to minimize risk by minimizing contact ? Simple, it removes the agency of manipulation from the toolbox of those women who would be loathe to not have it as, at the very least, a back up plan. Deciding to go your own way is met with the same shaming language and manipulative accusations, but why ? Well, the dating pool is already a tragicomedy, accepting that Men can just walk away from the whole thing will remove as many otherwise quality Men from the pool as it will those that will not be missed and very likely prevent some younger men from ever stepping into those agencies of servitude - it makes manipulation more difficult for those women who seek to take advantage. We must expect Women to police themselves to a certain extent here because otherwise the good will be lumped in with the toxically feminist crowd in the same way Men are roped into the toxically masculine crowd by simply being male. The best you can do is cultivate your own value and actively curate those who you invite into your life on a personal level. On a business level, protect yourself as best you can while you discern those that can and cannot be relied upon. There is risk no matter what course you choose - Life is risk. Looking forward to your next.

2.5 years for false accusation, from a woman that look like amgel and act like this in public...it was impossible to know her early, i remember only smile in her face and love and compassion,.. I dont belive any woman in the world amymore

I heard a story a couple years ago of a girl that was at a party and right in front of a phone camera if she let three guys have their way with her in front of everybody but then the next day she claimed that she was forced into it. She try to take it to court but luckily one of the girls felt a little guilty and showed the video to the court. Those three guys could have ended up in prison !

This is why I'm cordial with females while never letting them in. 2022 has never been a better time to be a bachelor and virgin. I'll keep these important things in mind, Alexander Grace, thanks!

I was mostly wrongly accused of being abusive in my relationship in high school. I say mostly because I will readily admit I was not the best boyfriend this being 10th grade and all. But she said it all because she was hurt when I broke up with her. Luckily, absolutely noone actually believed her, knowing that she was the kind to lie about that. But things could have gone a lot differently.

There is a one way to protect ourselfes guys: get a small voice recorder and record every second from your meeting with a woman!

I know women who only have few female friends and don't hang out with them often, because of these moralless character ruining snakes. I realized long ago that I prefer somewhat nonsocial women. First I didn't know why, but later I realized that it's because I can talk about women without them feeling obliged to defend their gender every time. Now I see that the false accusation risk also becomes less threatening.

Been there, at a job I had 25 years ago. Several years before I took that job, they were the target of a hostile takeover. One thing this meant was that they lost control over whom they hired. As such, I was not welcome from the start. After only one week, I got falsely accused of sexual harassment, and said liar easily got everyone else to believe her, including my boss, who was working on the other campus, all because they were attached to my predecessor and were angry that he got transferred against their will. Another thing that they weren't happy with was the fact that I had more education than they did. I had recently completed a master's degree less than a month before landing that job, wow the rest of them had associates, maybe bachelor's degrees at most. Not only did I get fired due to all the LIES that were spread about me, but in the want ad for my job after I was gone, they drastically lowered the education requirements. These days, I am very hesitant to take any job where I will have women in college or high school as co-workers, as I'm afraid that one of them will look for an excuse to take something I said or did as sexual harassment, or worse.

In the 21st century, it's not your girl... it's only your turn. Therefore, is there really any such thing as a high quality woman? In what society?

@uchihamadara644

4 жыл бұрын

no

@ProtoIndoEuropean88

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, in the countryside you can find good quality women there

Going through this right now. Stayed with her for years because she threatened to file a false police report if I ever left her. I couldn’t take her abuse anymore and ended it. She wasn’t bluffing. She filed a restraining order and instigated a smear campaign against me. She has filed multiple police reports falsely accusing me of violating the RO. There is no end to it.

So true. Surround yourself with as many high quality people; friends, family, partners. Not just to reduce your chances of false accusations, but if it ever comes down to her word against yours, your friends will have your back and it will be her word against ours.

False accusations are something that every person, man & woman, will face at some point in their life no matter how careful they have been. Depending on the nature of the accusation it can be anything from a minor annoyance to a life-shattering tragedy, but the upshot is that 1) you very quickly learn who your real friends are & 2) you realize how utterly worthless reputations are: nothing so fragile is worth building or protecting. Personally, I'm grateful towards everyone who has ever slandered me. They are nasty people who wished nothing but ill on me, but they were also my unwitting benefactors. I wish they could understand how thoroughly they failed in their attempt to harm me.

This is so scary. Idk what to do I'm being falsely accused of something so bad. For revenge and positioning. I can't say more but I'm so scared right now. I have an attorney. It's he said she said but the people who investigate this stuff just believe her. This is ruining my life, I'm not even mostly concerned with the criminal part, it's my wife has even moved out because of these lies, I don't know or think she believes it but whu she leave? I'm so depressed I'm loosing my family off of a lie. I need help. God

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I hope everything works out.

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How did it go?

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How did it go?

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@@kalleskaviar25 full investigation found the accuser was lying. Then I took a lie detector test and passed. And other things happened vindicated me totally. So great. But family still in shambles from evil people who say anything for thier own attention and to get what they wanted. Now I don't trust people I thought I could. But as far as the accusations everything thrown away and the truth won

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@@monkeymindbananas9550 Good to hear! I got lucky and had enough evidence on my side as well but it really shakes your world. Being very fearful and not staying healthy and isolating myself is/was the biggest problem for me afterwards.

I worked 8 years to fix one mistake i did when i was young.. it will always haunt me no matter what because even when people joke about it.. or talk about it not even directly to me it all comes back to my head... like they are about to break you, even though you know they can't because you'we changed so much..

When I was working for Budweiser , one if the receivers was a girl at target. She and I would talk STRICTLY about coffee. Then one day I joked about her name tag because she was wearing one that wasnt her and called her by THAT name. She laughed and admitted that she forgot her tag. (Pretty sure you could get in trouble for that) Anyways long story short she then tells all the other vendors that I was making her uncomfortable when I talked to her and that she was going to tell HR about my behavior. Like wtf?? The most we ever spoke was about coffee. I also heard from another vendor that she actually got some guy fired because of the same thing. I actually work for Verizon now but I can tell all the women gossip ALOT there and it would be VERY unwise to talk to them about other things rather than work. Thankfully the guys I work with always put these women in there place.

Wish I'd heard this years ago! Did hard time over false reports years back.. That was my red 💊

This video was pure gold. I'm going to have to make a response video on this topic soon!

You nailed it bro. In Spain by law in domestic violence all its need is her word.... That's it... And the men gets in jail for a night.... If it repeats its not just a night and she gets all help from government.... Gets house.... Kids... And even money from state.... Too much motivation to use a lie for her advantage and win in a separation process, while the truth is: thousands of men don't survive this emotional abuse and opt for suicide. I survived al this and thanks to this I live the free live of my life.... Thanks for your videos... They are eye opening

Sir, it ain't paranoia if everyone IS out to get me. A coworker 26 years ago had 13 different District attorneys work me over for 3 years in court! The truth was of absolutely no interest to any of the 13 or the judge, just their reputations for being tough on crime! Fortunately I had the money and endurance to tough it out and get the sentence down to a one hundred dollar fine on an unrelated crime i was never even accused of. Since then, I have played it super safe by never dating any women, and never holding a job and living in poverty. This finished my trust in women for the rest of this lifetime, and probably the next few lifetimes as well!

dude, I almost typed a page about disagreement about how I wished you also said "women please do the same and move on if you see toxicity." but i watched the beginning again and i think you adequately said that with the utmost respect to those situations. In hindsight, I 100% agree with you and experienced this moment of leaving people and a job in my life on multiple occasions because of false accusations. I want to emphasize that right now I feel like a low quality man. Maybe, in part, that was my fault for allowing that danger of toxicity to be present. I put myself down, but correctly so. there were decisions i made that made me feel less deserving. maybe something like fear of success drove me to be lower quality then i appreciated of myself. Then I settled for low quality. Or, I believed that there were only ever low quality women that ever existed in reality. Or, maybe in my mind, I only believed I wasn't capable of being with anyone but a low quality women maybe. I know there are areas I can improve to feel and to believe I am worthy of high quality. I am currently single and have been for over 2 years because I am currently learning to improve myself mentally. I want to build myself into a man who I believe is high quality before dating again. your videos are helping me recognize my own flaws and situations that were put before me and I mean to say, thank you.

Respect,Alex.