Never saw such an honest and brilliant analysis of failure... I being a UPSC aspirant for the last 5-6 years, completely relate to what that aspirant is going through and what sir has explained.... I am pursuing psychology now, and I was able to move on just because I am understanding myself and my temperament.... It was never meant for me, yes I genuinely want to serve my nation and its citizen, but I realised that I can do that by being a teacher because ultimately I want a peaceful career and life.... self introspection and personality traits are important to understand before jumping into any goal, UPSC teaches us a lot and I am always grateful to this journey!

@Anonymity369

19 күн бұрын

Please tell what personality traits are required, psychology pov?

@KrishnaMakkar-oq5fc

19 күн бұрын

Hello ayushi this side Krishna am currently pursuing bba from guru Gobind Singh indraprastha University Am confused btw so many questions and queries related to my carrier and upsc so Can i talk to u regarding this I think You has a ability and life experience to help me

@ayushigupta51

19 күн бұрын

@@Anonymity369 Hello, please ask yourself, What UPSC is meant for? To serve our nation and citizens right? Keeping beside all the perks and benefits, do you really want to serve our nation honestly? Will you be able to tackle the challenges of transfers and just a 5 years of tenure to a district when you dedicatedly put your efforts in one department and suddenly you are asked for transfer.. Can you say NO to corruptions involved by the layers of government officials? Will you be able to handle the pressure of 24 hour duties? The most important thing is what do you want in the long term? How do you see yourself growing? Aisa toh nahi ki sirf social media par dekha aur logon ko aur shuru ho gaye UPSC ke prep me? So, pls do introspection why do you want to become a civil servant? And get a genuine answer, if you can convince yourself, give your 100% effort, and have a plan B, C.... because this has many factors as sir said in the video... Moreover, in the process, try to learn more, enhance your skills so that even if you couldn't clear (God forbid) you can do better in other domains.. I was weak in CSAT, so i failed in prelims despite the practices, I don't know what used to happen in exam hall, but then I realised I can do better in other fields, may be UPSC is not meant for me... But I love this journey as it made me stronger and sharper... All the best if you are preparing!!

@Anonymity369

19 күн бұрын

@@ayushigupta51 thankyou so much!

@ayushigupta51

19 күн бұрын

@@KrishnaMakkar-oq5fc hello, I have answered below to one query, you can go through that, I hope it helps you...

I cleared prelims.three times in 2020, 2022 and 2023. Missed mains by few marks. This was my last attempt and I again failed in Prelims in last attempt. In my previous attempts, I have scored even 20 marks more than cutoff. This exam is highly luck based.

@mayukhdas2177

17 күн бұрын

You r daying you have cleared 2024 and again u r saying u failed this time couldn't understand

@chakithaponnala9869

16 күн бұрын

@@mayukhdas2177 they said they failed thisntume but passed 20,22, and 23 and scored 20 more than cutoff.

@nothing5879

16 күн бұрын

How you failed if you score 20 marks more than cutoff 😢

@DhariwalAcademy

16 күн бұрын

@@nothing5879 I scored 20 marks more in previous attempts but failed in this attempt

@nothing5879

16 күн бұрын

@@DhariwalAcademy have you qualified in previous attempt if you score more than cutoff .. definitely you will get to know your marks after whole exam what do you think this time also same happen with you I mean if cutoff is 75 and if you are scoring 95 then how anyone can fail ...

Even I have failed 3 times. But each time I took out something from it. Now the amount of stress bearing capacity will increase that it is also becoming useful in job and real life. U are the biggest motivator sir

I left prep back in 2021 after 5 long years career gap. Got a software engg job, and had perfect conditions to resume prep. I tried but was addicted to something else, engineering. But, the question lingered. Why did I waste 5 years of my life into this? And, been following you since your attempts of gamifying upsc and love for psychology. Your words, "agar hona hota toh ho jata, it was never meant for you" will hopefully give me a closure. Thank you.

@amitjyotithakuria6889

17 күн бұрын

How did you get a job after a long 5-year gap? Can you just highlight it Sir? It will be very beneficial for us.

That feeling when, "isse zyada nahi kar sakta, isse zyada koi kuch kar hi nahi sakta!" Thank you Sir for this.

I cannot express my happiness, Sir. You are awesome👏 I've been your student from 2022 . I'll give one fully concentrated attempt the next year + live my life to the fullest😊

Such an insightful conversation. I'm literally moved by your words, sir. Thank you so much for this. Your words are actually going to stay with me.

It was really good session sir... Clearing all my doubts. I felt like i am sitting next to you and asking you questions. Same things were going on in my mind.. Thank you sir ..

This conversation need to be heard by all the aspirants it is awesome and sir has taken a very good initiative I am grateful that I am ur mentee sir

Really insightful ❤

Superb sir. Thank you so much sir 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Really insightful ❤this session was very beneficial

Literally this talk is enlightening, when I failed upsc,2022. I wanted to start such a podcast about mental clarity. Thanks 🙏

Thank u sir for honest conversation

Huge huge respect for you sir for bringing true reality to the outside world.

Really insightful , eyes opening talk and thought provoking as well. At last that momento meri advice was really fascinating. I read about it in Ichigo ichi book. I liked it so much. 🙏🏻

Very informative 😊

That's right... I have thought about it... I am appearing for UPSC. Who knows, God has sent me to become RBI governor and who knows, I may go to IMF... I may even become Prime Minister. 😂😂 I have devoted 4 years to UPSC...my situation is the same ☹️ Thank you SiR🍫

@SatnamWaheguruji100

8 күн бұрын

😂😂🎉 same bro

Very nicely explained 👏

Thankyou so much sir ❤

Thank you❤

One of the best video that will help students alot

Helped a lot

Thank you so so so much sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so much sir.

thank you sir

Dear sir Can you please mention the link of Big Five Personality test or make a seperate video on it in detail It's a struggling aspirant request.

Sir I wanted to meet with u....there are lot of similar questions..please tell

Thank u sir

Pls update english sub title below

Nice sessions sir.. Really very helpful... As my 7 attmpt though failed prelim... Though I enjoying study this exam as this multidimensional me think krna or gives broad perspective...then write answer either am Physics graduate... But still nor decided to give next atwmpt Or not.❤... Passion th but one Motivation r to do this exam is... How my study by applications (applied study as this exam about it))..... can impact life... Atleast one.. It will worth for me!!! .... Please sir guide me on this parameters what I am!!.... Though giving cgl exam this time! As mental balance 🙏🙏❤❤ pls guide me!

Sir, Plz provide English sub...

This conversation need

Nice video 👍🏻

Thumbnail is worst

@kritisinha2790

14 күн бұрын

Yes I know right , it's such a good session , thumbnail makes it seem like a competition or somthing

One word for the video is "osm"

I can totally relate to the person like 95% same delusions ..questions

I have given 5 years still unable to clear prelims

@KSIT-uq4nb

19 күн бұрын

Same yrrrr

@CountingStars333

Күн бұрын

Leave it and try something else.

The session was really beneficial

@foku486

20 күн бұрын

ye maal sirname hota hai kya

Remember that you will die and therefore remember to live 👌👌👌

Memento mori!☮

I have good sir session sir

Even i have failaed three times

Even i have failedun 3 times

sir I am from psychology background I am into this dilemma how can I ralk to you i need some career counselling

@eternalreality4346

20 күн бұрын

Can I help you?

@pratiksharma2838

20 күн бұрын

@@eternalreality4346 yeah sure, how?

@eternalreality4346

19 күн бұрын

@@pratiksharma2838 What are you struggling with?

@pratiksharma2838

19 күн бұрын

@@eternalreality4346 deciding whether I should prepare for next attempt

@pratiksharma2838

19 күн бұрын

@@eternalreality4346 I need career counselling

Ias coaching is fraud and our system is flawed. Why waste another year of life on this ? Pursue Entrepreneurship other modes. Services ke jo charm ke peeche log bhaagte wo behad fake hain.