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Few Tipps: Your Eye Contact appears more natural if you switch between the Eyes of the other Person. So just look into the left, then the right, then the left ect. he/she will barely realize it and you can hold eyecontact 100% of the time and you dont look like starring at him/her. You can add a more sensual touch by adding the mouth to the cycle. 100% of the time eye contact is what you want if you listen to someone. If you talk youre fine with 75%. The other 25% you can look around, just make sure you dont focus something else, especially not something which is behind the person you talk to. If you look someone into the eyes and he/she breaks eye contact by looking to the ground its a sign of submission. If a Girl does this its an invitation to aproach on her. All this basic rules of body language are universal. Breaking Eye Contact by looking to the ground is always submission. Holding Eye Contact is always a sign of dominance and confidence, the difference between asian and North American/European Culture is just that Asians abuse this subcounsious body language to activly show respect, while in Europe a lack of Eye Contact is considered "too submissive", unsteady or anxious.

@Dannndyy

4 жыл бұрын

Franz Ferdinand if you look at a girl and she looks down that means “ please don’t come talk to me”. She’ll hold eye contact if she wants you to approach

@MissHannah2036

4 жыл бұрын

@@Dannndyy no it means she's uncomfortable with the stare, not necessarily uninterested. If I see a young attractive guy walking towards me in the street, I automatically look down, it seems to be innate. If a woman is uninterested, approached in a club, it is pretty obvious, she will move more towards her friends, possibly turn away from you all those body language cues.

@zizi133

3 жыл бұрын

@@Dannndyy that's not true I'm sorry. If I look down as a girl, it means I'm shy and you make me nervous

@lani7148

2 жыл бұрын

@@zizi133 I completely agree. My gave my crush a gift, but was too nervous to watch his actual reaction, but he was excited about it and said how cool it was and when I turned to face him he had a genuine smile and held his arm out for me to give him a hug. I looked him in his eyes and smiled, but I was still shy and nervous and instinctually looked down as I stepped toward him. Eventhough I was happy he was smiling at me and wanted to hug me and we always had super intense eye contact before, I was overwhelmed with emotion in a good way.

Your eyes are the windows to your soul... So I wear sun glasses.

@Martin-uj4mi

6 жыл бұрын

THESE COMMENTS!! rofl i luv it- keep it up haha

@lia-sz4vk

4 жыл бұрын

Martin Bedan I remember when ROFL was a thing 🥺🥺🥺

@SEVEN-tw4nc

4 жыл бұрын

*Screw contacts use duct tape.*

@oudlwared3756

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh my goodness

@fraser7570

3 жыл бұрын

Yea I don’t want people in my soul

Good Eye Contact Tip: It really depends on your verbal content. Example, if you're naturally a funny person, be sure to look "away" after saying something funny. Don't look at the person for a reaction & don't smile or laugh until they have smiled or laughed. The reason is simple, if you're not funny and you're looking at them for a reaction, then what you're really doing is forcing a smile or laugh.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

PCProphecy thanks for sharing your tips

In Malaysia, for the Malay,If you're listening attentively, look at the speaker with warmth in your eyes , looking while nodding means you're focus and very much appreciated. when you're sorry, looking down for a moment is a gesture of regret. rude gestures such as rolling eyes and staring, is pretty much unacceptable just like in other cultures. Btw, with a lot of advises, this is a very helpful video.

I look people in the eyes all the time and I usually see their eyes divert away.

@brandonsullivan9544

8 жыл бұрын

That's the same with me. I make eye contact anyways haha

@the-street-criminals

7 жыл бұрын

that's happens to me either when I look at the people

@Valor06

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly, it's probably because they're not as confident as you, bro.

@blowandchill3848

4 жыл бұрын

@@Valor06 yes that's what I think. Confident people look people in the eye when speaking

@nikoletacude8721

4 жыл бұрын

I actually searched for this because I always look in eye when talking no matter who I an speaking to and guys most of the times get embarrassed and shy, trying to keep the eye contact but they feel kind of awkward so now I try not to keep eye contact for long than a few seconds I just think of eye contact as respect and also to tell them"hey I am listening"

Actual tips start at 3:30 Thank me later :P

@RealMenRealStyle

8 жыл бұрын

+Sayeesh Kanala Thanks Sayeesh!

@syedali1401

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@theonlylgreen1389

7 жыл бұрын

Thank You!!! lol

@freestylez3

7 жыл бұрын

You da real mvp

@alvaro93364

6 жыл бұрын

no it doesn't. the stuff before is helpful

Ever since I started to look into people's eyes more often I realized that it's normal for most people and some people won't even take off their eyes off of mine when we're talking! Sometimes I find it super uncomfortable but it's kinda cute that they do it without thinking lol

I hate eye contact for more than 5 consecutive seconds... It disturbs me and makes me think they don't blink or that their neck is stuck.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

jason200912 Haha! I see!

@CatsAreNiceMeow

7 жыл бұрын

lol

@paulinemagala9039

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Hey Antonio... I'm from India and have been following your videos for quite some time now. I too have to travel overseas on business and this is something I've noticed a lot. I think Indians are raised in a culture where we are taught to respect their elders...a respect we show by bowing to them and listening to them. Even to women, historically, men were not supposed to have long direct eye contacts... It was considered vulgar. We've come a long way since then but even today, direct eye contact is usually considered aggressive and disrespectful in our culture, period. I think when it comes to eye contact, people should consider cultural differences as one of the most important factors and adapt accordingly.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

Hardik Roy That's true!

@nathanjudd6419

Жыл бұрын

"We've come a long way"... so you're saying your culture is wrong and another is right? It's merely a change in culture.

Really amazing I used to do that But I later felt it was awkward now that I know that I can add a smile to it I got it back thanks

Antonio, you're spot on regarding cultures playing a part with eye contact. I was brought up in India and it was rude to make eye contact with elders. I live in the UK now and see the difference. I do find all your presentations helpful especially in the mens clothing area. Thanks so much.

finally i have problems with eye contact and i'm working on it daily but feels as if i'm getting better at it so i'm going to keep trying.

had a conversation with someone, the other day, who said it freaked them out that I only looked into one of her eyes and didn't alternate between each eye. wasn't a lengthy conversation... no more than a couple of minutes. what are your thoughts on looking into one eye versus alternating eyes when making eye contact?

Am Tega from Nigeria in West Africa, l really do love ur lecture on Eye contact. In culture where l hail from, children dont steer into the eyes of the adult talking to them ,this is to show a sign of respect. Good work.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

Tega Shone Great to know! :) Thanks

I really admire the tips and tricks you presented in this video. I feel like I'm showing to much affection while making eye contact when really, I am trying to have a conversation. Also, i feel like eye contact is something hard to master due to insecurities or the fear that someone will notice some type of flaw about you. If I had the most perfect teeth in the world, that would really boost up my self confidence in social skills.

@RealMenRealStyle

9 жыл бұрын

Aaron Le Thank you!

Eye contact is very important in the modern world as now it is a sign of respect

Great advice Tracy - thank you!

Hey Antonio, I appreciate your stand about being sensitive to other cultures as we become a more global community. Also, great suggestions about eye contact; I wasn't taught the importance of eye contact when I was young.

@RealMenRealStyle

9 жыл бұрын

Falcor, Defender of the Alliance Thank you sir!

Thank you very much. It's the first time I hear someone with understanding of diversity about this topic. I have seen very shy people who avoid eye contact at all cost. It does not mean they're hiding anything or lying like is though in the US. Other cultures can perceive it as deferential, or even rude, or intrusive. You are a very nice man, and your channel is awesome. Thank you for all your tips.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

Cesar Landeros You are welcome sir! Appreciate your enthusiasm :)

i'm learning so much from these comments wow. so many cultures and so many differences. thanks for this!

Thank you so much for all your videos. I have watched quite a few of them by now and I must say they have really helped me out a lot of times, especially when I first started to wear a suit, and a lot when it comes to my body language. Thank you so much Mr. Centeno

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

Tarllark You are welcome. Thank you for the kind words. I wish you the best on your style journey.

Thank you for the tips! This video just makes me realize how important of eye contact is. In my country, we don't care much about eye contact so every time I gave my presentation or talking with foreigners, I still feel awkward to have eye contact and sometimes I feel like westerners have so strong eye contact that make my brain blank even though I am studying English major and the country is starting to be international haha. I think I have to keep practicing. Thanks for sharing your experience From Thailand

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

You are welcome.

Thank you for all the videos you upload! I shared this one in particular with a friend of mine because he came from Ivory Coast (where direct eye-contact is a lack of respect) to Germany, and here (i'm italian so I would say in Europe) is a sign of lack of interest, or personality. ;-) Thank you for your job, i appreciate all your videos.

Hey Antonio, hope you're doing great. I just started to watch all of your videos and I must confess i'm learning a lot and in a very positive way. I'm from Brazil and I'm working really hard improving my eye contact and other aspects of my behaviour and I already feel more comfortable when talking to people, specially women. Thanks for everything keep up the great work. Greetings from Brazil!

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

Pedro Paschoal Glad to know. Thank you!

I enjoyed your video immensely Antonio. There are many incidences of eye contact succeeding and failing everyday of my life; especially at work, what is also very important is how your eye contact is reciprocated. More Power to you.

I'm a business Ad student and this video is a real help tnx

I having difficulties on looking at people's eyes I find it so uncomfortable now.. when I was growing up looking at peoples eyes while their talking is as natural as breathing. but I notice when I grew up I feel more conscious about people when their looking at me directly in the eye. I like this video because it's explaining how important it is to look at people's eyes while having a conversation. not telling you some technique how to fake it. thanks :)

@henzota2197

4 жыл бұрын

Same this is why I researched a video like this one because I realise how much eye contact is important but at the same time so weird

I love your thoughts on this. Very respectful & honest. Thank you.

I think about eye contact a lot however, I have nerve damage in my face while I have some facial expressions they are very limited. Sometimes I am wonder if my eye contact is taken as a stare rather than a sign of respect and paying attention. I think people take me to seriously when I'm saying something humorous or lighthearted.

I live in London, UK and my field (TV/Film Production) is heavily based around networking. I have to always get on good terms with people I meet, as this could lead to me progressing and landing bigger jobs. From my experiences I would say that a firm handshake, and not hesitating in telling them what you want out of this experience, as well as stating you will do a job reliably are the most key things when given a short time frame to really sell yourself to a producer, or director or CEO.

Great video Antonio keep up the good work and one of my goals in life is to be very successful in life just like a business man yourself!

So beneficial. . It all about basic information. Most of the people all around the world still not aware of this. . Once they understand that's great. .any way great job thanks very much

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

shabeer p thank you!

great videos man, ive been watching them for the last hour.. very informative.. the 7 scarf tips was especially helpful as i just started wearing them!! thanks dude

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

You are welcome.

Same! I suddenly thought about eye contact one day and looked it up on the internet, i found conflicting ideas that it was a dominance thing, or that it was a positive attention thing. I dunno wtf is going on any more so i just do whatever i feel comfortable with but still make an effort to make a lot of eye contact. Its a weird thing isnt it. But I do like it when someone gives me a lot of EC just as long as they dont make their eyes too large or intense when they do

Thanks, appreciate it.

Glad to hear that!

@SMmusicband Glad this one's really reaching out to folks -- we enjoyed going a little bit beyond the usual clothing focus, and I think we will again!

Thank you sir!

Hello Antonio, how are you? I am from Brazil and I live here... we think exactly the way you guys think about speeches, conversations and signs of interests between man and woman. I love your speech the way you talk and the most important, I liked the content you´ve said. Congratulations!!! I would love to learn how to speak in front of a public, that scares the hell of me!!!

I shared a lot of your videos to some of my friends, And we learned so many skills. Thank you so much Sr.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

marine4Legion thank you for the support! :)

Thank you!

Hi Antonio. I was readin through the coments earlier. And i saw that you replied to almodt every coment. And I really like that you are comunicating with your viewers. You deserve a sub😊

@RealMenRealStyle

9 жыл бұрын

QuaD StorM thanks for the feedback - appreciate it :)

Hi. I am from South East Asia, Cambodia. I can tell that your video is very helpful for me and even for all the people. Hmm....but I still have a problem that whenever I did a presentation in class and when I tried to use the eyes contact to my classmates, It was like I forgot all the words that I was about to say when I looked into their eyes. And till now I still couldn't find the way to fix it. Hope you can tell me some more tips. I really appreciate it.

You are welcome!

I have been looking for a trustworthy channel concerning style and manners here on KZread for a while now. After watching this video I gotta say you have convinced me and I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos!

Thank you.

Love your channel. And I think eye contact is very important when dealing with any situation. I've kind of taught myself that from a young age. Even though I follow this rule to a T...I did find this video perfection. You're awesome man.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

thomasc287 thank you for the kind words

@TheMax8900 Great to hear and thank you sir for your comment sir. Curious - what part of India are you from? I found that with such a vast country you all have a wide range of culture differences as well!

Hello there! I can say I'm pretty young, I'm 14, but I understand a little of life. I'm having a little of difficult making eye contact, well, not that eye contact on this video, but thanks for the extra things, back in the question is that I have a lot of difficult making eye contact while walking, for example I heard about the love on the first sight and I don't know if you make eye contact at that person while walking, being on the beach, etc... if you don't even know that person from anywhere! Because this video teaches how to eye contact, only if you know the person, or you're meeting her! Thank you for reading this! My apologies about my english I live in Europe. By the way, you earned a subscriber, nice video. :)

You earned a subscriber .... Keep up the good work...!!

I am Magda from Poland. You have helpful tips. Eye contact is so simply that everybody forget about how to do and they stressed because someone looked at them. thank you!

Thank you so much for these videos. Well you helped me a lot. I learn more now about how to dress well, how to act in some situations and how to speak well. And i improved English language a bit :) Well im from Serbia. And here eye contact is VERY important. If you look somebody while you speaking means you re good and moral person and that you re interesting in conversation. Its very important with older people (because they re raised in religious way, in monarchist state) or with teacher and priest.

Thanks for the tips, and for your service.

great info in this video. Thanks for posting.

Great advices! One more thing to add is that never stare down towards your feet or any body part of the person you are speaking with. You may seem uninterested thus perceived as rude.

Forgive me for my bad english. I would like to thank you for the advice I have a lot of trouble having a good conversation with people in general and it helped me a lot, many "4" people complimented me on the way I look at them during conversations. Thanks

Islander, Dominican Republic: Eye contact is a sign of respect towards the people you are talking to.

thank you so much man, i like your videos

Thanks for your helpful comment!

very informative Antonio. The best video about eye teqnicues I have seen. It really reminded me ot the importance of eye contact. thank you.

Great video , i‘m from Egypt ..and here most of the people learn how to use eye contact , back in the days it wasn‘t really that important here but now it‘s very important to eye contact with people so thanks for the video it‘s really been a great help to me

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

Glad it helps.

Thanks for the info

Super informative video. Thank you.

@Grarrgle Good point - it's something each of us need to learn to perfect! On another note - with so many viewers in Ireland - I need to make a trip to the Emerald Isle!

"pay attention to culture"- i like it very much

it's really illuminating. thanks in advance and carry on

Really appreciate the way you have explained about different cultures. Usually, people fail to understand the importance of culture in one's life. Cheers!

Hey thanks for the advice, I'm a 16 year old (Minnesota) considering going into business for a career in Sales and Marketing and just being able to hear tips and ideas of how to make it and improve my skills is always something I enjoy :) great video.

@DecmanReturns Great to hear I won't have to adjust my eye contact habits in Ireland! And I have a similiar story with a girl back in college - that relationship only lasted till morning if I remember correctly. Haha!

Thanks for the video is was helpful, following you on Facebook. I agree we are interacting with other cultures more and more and it's important to know their cultures.

hey! tnx for the video. I have learned a lot on the important of eye contact even thou i was shy, but i will try to exercise it

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

Shem S D Saywrayne You are welcome :)

you have a very practical idea..... thank you sir.

These videos are excellent. I'm glad I found you on here.

Thank you Antonio. I am learning with your support !!

@RealMenRealStyle

9 жыл бұрын

Freddy Ramirez Gallardo glad it helped

I'm 18 and from Romania - I am so glad I came across your videos They are so helpful and I can really just learn so many things from them because they are so easy to understand and follow. and I've just subscribed :D

Great Video! It helped me alot and also that i came to know about the mistake i had been making all the time! Now i will follow ur advice! From : Pakistan.

@RealMenRealStyle

8 жыл бұрын

+S Ahmad Faizee You're welcome!

Thank you sir - a very nice compliment and I hope to visit Bangladesh someday soon!

perfect.... this is what i have been searching since a week,, thanks for uploading love from India

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

You are welcome.

Man your presentation is very professional and the content is extremely helpful. Thanks!

Great video! I have an interview this weekend for Apple and I am kinda nervous. I always had problems with eye contact and public speaking. I would like to improve this skill for me to show people I am their and to show that I am a good person. Maybe its because everything is social online, like Facebook messaging, texting, and other social media and I am well at it. But when it comes to eye and public speaking, I have trouble at this. I never got out much when I was in school or college. I may start going to go out and find some friends to improve and feel more confident with others. So what do you think?

Love you'r videos. I like the way you explain the idea of expressing your self. It's something that everyone wants todo but at the same time we are scared to do it. Public speaking is at the top of the list of people's fears, and its great that we can go on youtube and have people like you share your ideas to help us to understand the phenomena of public specking. As you said in your vedeos practice is the key to be a better speaker. I would like to see how you practice for these videos.

@RealMenRealStyle

9 жыл бұрын

MAXIMUS Awesome! :)

Thanks for posting your videos, you're an inspiration to all, wish more people could see them and take notes ^-^

Really its very nice... I will develop this habit little bit more.... Thanks

Antonio, one of the things I trully appreciate about your videos is that you are devoted to helping men become Real Men with style. I'm brasilian, but I grew up in here in the united States of America. Although my parents thought me great values, I also had great male mentors, I learned a great deal from them. After learning and mastering this true art of attention. I have seen amazing results. I'll recommend beginning with your family first. Start with your wife, It will bring you great joy :-)

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Well, It was very helpful to me because I come from India and live in Europe. Many people have misunderstood me with my intentions because I didn't understand the eye contact rules in the west. And many times I don' even understand what they were thinking about my conversation with me. So, this series is helpful. I learnt the difference between staring and proper eye contact. Thanks.

i love your videos, its been really usefull for me all the info in this particular clip, gracias y saludos desde la Ciudad de México.

Thank you and keep the good work.

@RealMenRealStyle

8 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! :)

Thanks for sharing and wonderfully defining 'eye contact' from various cultural backgrounds! Thumbs Up!!

Greeting from Czech Republic Antonio, in my opinion, we have in Czech same view of eye contact like USA.

very cool video !!

I have been watching these videos about eye contacts only recently. I am scared to death and insecure when it comes to looking into someone's eye. I feel like they will find my thoughts of them in my eyes lol... However I do look either at the nose or the point between the eyebrows or the lips to show interest and usually it works. But I am trying to do as I learn from these vids! Thanks

@SLIM0517

3 жыл бұрын

Do good and be yourself practice constantly being a humble do things for elders guy. It’ll find you. Repeat

You are welcome

5:11 eye contract ahhaha, good video though

@RealMenRealStyle

9 жыл бұрын

Myth Kid Thanks! :)

Thank you for tips! Got a presentation coming up.

@RealMenRealStyle

10 жыл бұрын

House Music by dattrax You are welcome. Good luck on your presentation :)

Thank you--truly!! I agree 100%

hi i am from INDIA.... i always had this problem of not knowing when to have an eye contact and when not to.... i found the video very useful.... thanks a lot...... i have implemented and tried your tips.... what i found or learnt rather is, it all depends on the person with whom i communicate..... i can see myself improving...... thanks a lot........

@RealMenRealStyle

8 жыл бұрын

+Vishal Krishna You're very much welcome! :)

Thank you! Blessings

really it's very useful video i really learn from you and i'm stating to apply that and it's work i'm really appreciate your work think you