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A very taboo topic but I wish more people would discuss this

@leslietisdial5753

16 күн бұрын

I think that alot of people avoid certain topics because of how uncomfortable it is. I also agree with people needing to discuss this stuff more

Seeing that Dr Syl has posted a new video always makes my day.

You put a lot of thought into communicating to those not medically trained. I learn so very much from you and I believe it helps to bring understanding and education.

What interests me is the boundary where its a disorder vs a "preference". Obviously some things are inherently criminal but most of them aren't.

@sadmermaid

14 күн бұрын

Imo, I think of it similar to alcohol, if you NEED it to get by/off, it's ruining relationships and interfering with things like work, then it's something you should probably start seeking help for. (Outside of the criminal aspects ofc)

It's important to remember that having any of these disorders is not a crime! Acting on it is. Some of these can even be ok if done with full consent between adults (voyeurisme, exhibitionist, even "non consensual" roleplay) I remember an interview with a psychiatrist on the topic of pedophilia, telling how people would not seek help out of fear of being reported, and those seeking help would often be turned away, especially by private clinics, because the risk for the therapists if something happens and they didn't report the patient is too much to bear.

@sunnyaparece3532

16 күн бұрын

It's not just a moral dilemma for the provider; where I come from at least, a mandatory reporter can be charged as well if it is found that they did not report concerns of abuse and it led to a crime being committed. I don't really know how you could make an airtight case for that, because it seems like it would just be a lot of hearsay, but either way the provider's reputation would be tarnished to some degree.

@sykoteddy

15 күн бұрын

You are completely right, but I imagine that most, if not all the people who has these urges most likely have some dark history of being sexually molested. In acting on the sexual fantasy, rather than on seeking help might develop it to be worse. Also, this could be a trauma that your brain has masked so you only feel the urge but don't know why. Unless it would become "sexy" to seek help for such problems, i don't see it ever getting solved, Also, the chance for that being global at the same time is even more unlikely.

@followtruthwhereeveritleads2

6 күн бұрын

The inherent and intrinsic chaos and unconstructiveness of it all validates the idea that life is absurd and nobody ought to be born. Life's unfairness shows its too dangerous to deal with and its best to practice antinatalism.

@sykoteddy

2 күн бұрын

@@followtruthwhereeveritleads2 I'm close to your thinking. Maybe it is a result of focusing on too much negativity, but I think it is humans intrinsic capability to ignore what they don't want to see or hear. I've contemplated many times the past few years over the impending doom the sun will send us, in the form of a extremely powerful solar storm, that will erase most life, if not all from earth. If it's something humans can survive, I bet the surviving will not be much better off than we were last time this happened.

@fallonrappaport5270

22 сағат бұрын

Pedophilia is a crime

Super fascinating! Also interesting to hear some of these labelled as "disorders" instead of "addictions". Great video mate!

@viankacruz7211

15 күн бұрын

Addiction is an excessive of something thats harmful . Disorders are abnormalities . Two different definitions .

@robinlacaden4438

4 күн бұрын

Addiction is acquired.. disorder is inborn.. wrong wiring. Please dont spread stupidity.

I think its an important topic. talking about this topics from a psychiatric point of view gives it more perspective.Very interesting. And to many this is very black and white. The fact that it comes strong negative ractions in the comments just shows its importancy(as far as to work away some shame maybe). Good work😊

I learned all about different paraphilias in my sexual psychology course at university. Pretty interesting stuff!

@midnightteapot5633

14 күн бұрын

Albert Fish was a murderer and cannibal who had multiple paraphilias some of which were undocumented in any other case, for example pushing a rose stem, with thorns, into his urethra, staring at his penis/rose for a period of time, then eating the rose petals.

Thanks, I did find that interesting. Thanks for sharing, appreciate it!

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@anthonykelly8480

15 күн бұрын

Hi Dr Syl, just discovered your channel. I don’t think there’s any real content out there of this but I have constant and persistent DP/DR - for pretty much 25 years now. Also diagnosed with what was Asperger’s when I was 48! Mixed with my wife’s Bipolar we have a house of fun! Anyway it’s audio only but would be interested in you reacting to the Doug Stanhope podcast - cliffhanger episode 1 & 2. Hard to listen to but so open and honest. The episodes are fairly old. Cheers.

@nobodyimportant7804

15 күн бұрын

What is your opinion on CBT once every 2 weeks for 6 months? Is that therapy because it doesn't feel like it.

@mp-uy9sv

14 күн бұрын

@DrSyl Hi Dr Sly i'm from Sydney and an Ozzie like you. My question is... why is it so common in NSW / Australia that psychiatrists now are very reluctant to prescribe any form of stimulant medication be it dextroamphetamine Lisdexamfetamine methylphenidate etc.. , for ADD/ADHD patients, and they are even so bold to have blatant signs in their office waiting areas saying ... "We do not prescribe drugs of addiction and dependence in this clinic" and I have seen this regularly now in both GP practices and Psychiatrist practices and when asked "What does this sign actually mean? " they all say we do not prescribe any form of stimulant medication for ADHD etc.. or any form of opiate pain medication here at all , and only take a holistic approach here." Even though they are shown in peer-reviewed studies, to be highly effective both in the long and short term. And the positive results are seen a lot faster than literally any other form of behavioral treatment. i have seen this behavior by many..many.. doctors and it seems to me it does not matter how effective the medication "can be" to a patient, The doctors today do not want the responsibility, of managing patients on these medications, and to even mention them in passing you are instantly looked down upon and seen as a drug addict, who is seeking drugs . regardless if you have been prescribed these medications before and they were effective, it is irrelevant to a lot of doctors today they will just refuse to prescribe

Love Dr Syl and the education he gives us about mental health. But sorry the thumbnail had me 👀.

Great video, thank you Dr Syl!

thank you for posting this!

the interesting thing about the reduction of testosterone being a contributor in recidivism conflicts somewhat with a reasonably high % of mtf trans re-offenders (specifically convicted offenders not just any trans people) who are on hormones that drastically reduce free testosterone I suppose this would suggest a psychological predisposition to committing said offenses as opposed to being biochemically "spurred on" toward a fixated behavior either way I find it an interesting scope to place upon the broader set of information about paraphilic disorders leading to crime

@ellisdunegan8555

15 күн бұрын

Surprised he didn't mention autogynephilia.

@electricfishfan7159

14 күн бұрын

Agreed, was thinking the same thing. Perhaps the difference is that these “treatments” serve to perpetuate and justify their particular fixations, due to subjectively alienating them further from malehood and masculinity as viewed through a sexist lens. A lack of testosterone clearly does not stop violent inclinations and plans to offend-men with all levels of testosterone exhibit male-pattern criminality including the elderly-it only moderates the imperative impulses which can erupt into spontaneous violence. I believe a man’s firmly-held degenerate ideology will always overcome whatever you do to him chemically since we see this is broadly true in most circumstances (think about therapy, addiction treatment, youth rehab programs…).

@kassi4837

5 күн бұрын

In my opinion, it is more than reasonable to suspect there is psychological predisposition.

It's funny how shy he looks talking about this subject 🤭

People with pedophilia themed ocd are some of the lowest risk people in the general public to ever act out sexually against a child… yes people with pedophilia can be obsessive and the med thing sounds plausible. Though the last bit about purely ocd people being “not as high risk” is quite misleading, as they have a revulsion or fear response to the idea rather than attraction. There is never an attraction, only a surplus of worry about the possibility of attraction.

This was very intersting. Thank you.

Fascinating stuff. I wonder if these ppl with these disorders are actually seeking medicine to stop this behavior. Especially when they’re incarcerated 🤔 more convos are needed with this topic

Fascinating

Whoo-hoo! All the good stuff! 👍

great video .

Keep up the good work!

I'm only 3 minutes into this video and I am already experiencing *heavy* sapiophylia!

@ongie9736

3 күн бұрын

😂

Very interesting topic, Dr. Syl. My minor in college was Psychology.

Would love a more in depth video about this! It SUPER interesting!

@ongie9736

3 күн бұрын

😂

Interesting timing on this video considering yesterday’s press conference that addressed issues related to the daughter of the accused Long Island serial killer. The attorney for some of his alleged victims has linked the daughter to searches, art, blogs, books etc that depict some of the most violent, sadistic acts imaginable. These acts happen to be almost directly analogous to the exact and very specific types of crimes her father is accused of. It certainly opens up a whole bunch of questions if true

@user-lx5ff3wd6t

15 күн бұрын

*ANY VIDEOS ?*

@majav15mg

6 күн бұрын

It could just be his father primed her by talking to her about violence or threatening her with such acts, without ever mentioning he was in fact a murderer. Another interesting case of you care is that of Cary Stayner.

I loved this video! I really appreciated all of the detail and information conveyed with sensitivity and understanding, Thank you! Can you do a video on the Treatment of Sexual Masochism Disorder?

It was a VERY interesting video! Especially learning WHY the cutting of the balls was such a normal treatment once! As someone who has been around people that borders on the line to some of these things, i can definitely see the OCD part of these sexual disorders.. I think these things are way more common then we think, and i think that we do not talk enough about it in our given society! I had an ex who could almost not think about ANYTHING else but sex, it was taking over his mind, and it did affect out relationship, his relationship with his family and friends even.. It was an unhealthy obsession, but i did not know what to do or say in it, so i left before i ended out in unwilling situations.. We need to talk more about sex, healthy and unhealthy, and how to help and/or treat it. No shame should be put on anyone asking for help, ever, and help should be way more available.

Dr. Syl, would you please be so kind and make a video about masochism? or a video including masochism? I'd wanna hear your analysis on that, because I myself might be dealing with it... ...I'm not sure if I'm looking well enough, but there are not many videos here on this platform where it's properly explained. thank you in advance, have a nice day❤ ps: amazing and educational video as always, and kind of easy for us non-specialists to understand, keep up!

Hey Dr. Syl. I'm a men with many fetishs and I really appreciate the eay you describe the healthy side of it and the problematic side. BDSM and fetish are often seen as an disorder by other people. They usually think of the hard core BDSM, such as wipping. But there can be many fetishs that people have and dont even know is falls under de fetish espectrum. Liking man with beard for example, is considered fetish just like liking feet. The point you made, and should be reinforced here is that the illness should be view separate from the healthy fetish. Thank you very much to talk about this so professionally and wirhout judgmente like you do.

@goodgirlwilliams158

16 күн бұрын

I never knew liking men with beards was a fetish and I like men with beards. Thanks for saying that because I probably would have never known.

@valterjunior3184

16 күн бұрын

​@@goodgirlwilliams158It's called trichophilia in the cage of non pubic hair. Like beard, armpit and chest.

@sadmermaid

14 күн бұрын

​@@goodgirlwilliams158I think a preference v a fetish is something else really interesting. Are we as a society misusing the word fetish when we just mean strong preference for? Not trying to fight, just genuinely curious and seems like most commenters here are open minded and non judgmental, and would like to know their thoughts.

@ASLsoFine

10 күн бұрын

Yes, "fetish" certainly can be misused by laypeople to mean mere preference, sadmermaid. A beard fetish, to me, would probably mean being strongly aroused by beards alone. (Fake beards on women, cartoon characters, goats, etc. included.) Beards are a common secondary sexual characteristic of men, and liking evidence of ability to grow some facial hair is generally considered part of basic sexual attraction to men (i.e. stubble, moustache, bears, whatever.) Just like liking boobs usually isn't considered paraphilia. But a very specific attraction to specific type of beards and that alone, regardless of the person involved, well, that might move the attraction into a category of paraphilia. (Even asking somebody to put a false beard on, etc. say, or threatening to leave a partner who shaves the beard off?) I think it'd have to be highly and weirdly specific to count as a true fetishism. OTH, Feet and shoes are unisex and all ages (i.e. kids and adults both have feet.) so that's how that differs from liking beards, but given that foot binding has been part of cultures, again, as Dr. Syl says, culture can play a degree in this. So if the culture makes beards taboo even, maybe a liking for beards then would count as a fetish because it's so unusual.

@Yvonukon

4 күн бұрын

@@ASLsoFine I strongly agree with this, liking beards is not a fetish its a preference. I have it.

Great hands!

my understanding also is for it to be a disorder it must be internal rather than external things causing the distress. In other words, if you yourself are the source of the distress for wearing the opposite sex's clothing. NOT the hatred, ignorance, bigotry piled on such a person for being "different" while hurting nobody. Also...why is it most of these are heaped on men, and very very rarely on women? ( I am more focused on the expression based ones mind you, transvestic fetishism to be precise, which gets heaped on to those that are merely Gender Non Conforming, and male.)

I'm interested in learning more about this topic.

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@Peeta-wn4hh

2 күн бұрын

LOL.😂

@friendofvinnie

Күн бұрын

@@Peeta-wn4hh 😘😘😘

This was a very interesting video! I have never heard of all the different types but most of them. It must be really hard to get people to stop doing these things because I imagine it's partly the same as with people taking drugs. The fact that what they are doing is illegal, makes it all even more rewarding when doing them. I also have hard time believing that if you are a person who enjoy the "more advanced" types, that you would like to have any sexual arousal at all since it can't match that level. I might be completely wrong, please enlighten me if you know.

More! OCD and desire how interesting!

I am glad that psychiatry acknowledges the abnormality of these disorders, not normalizing them.

Is there a GNRH agonist to counter progesterone during the refractory period? Asking for a friend.

I'd love to hear more about somnophilia, apologies if im getting the terms confused, i dont mean someone who's 'into it', more someone who does "sleepwalking romance". KZread autofilters certain words so i have to be vague, but there's people who whilst asleep either touch themselves down there, or touch their bed partner, seemingly in a rather aggressive manner, not just being sleepy and cuddling their partner, they fully are not awake and sometimes will wake up mid coitous very confused. I think its a sleep disorder but something that I'd love to hear more about. It's distressing to both parties and could be a salt possibly.

@isabelleboulay2651

23 сағат бұрын

there's also dormaphilia, who's the one being touched sexually while sleeping or unconscious

I just watched the documentary - Harmed by Prescribed Medications: the Untold Story of Pharmaceutical Companies, by the channel ‘Best Documentary’. I wonder if you would be willing to give us your thoughts on it?

Can you please explain fat fetish/feederism/feedism etc. I'm literally bagging you 🙏 I can't find anything good on this topic

@polka.dot.

16 күн бұрын

I would also like to know in general what can be done to get rid of the fetish or get it under control

@Yvonukon

4 күн бұрын

Yes, there certainly seems to be a problem with people who are feeders. Just watch 600 life etc.

This is a good talk and subject matter which needs to be more openly discussed, but it seems a much more broad subject than this video came down to, which is treatment/medication for people who are a threat to others. I imagine a lot of people, the people who are not a danger to others but that it is affecting their lives need other courses of treatment, hard to believe that medication would be a first choice of treatment for those who fit other categories? Where are the modern techniques in neuro-reprogramming and such? EMDR, breath work/meditation, psychedelic treatment, NLP.

I think taking oestrogen actually maintains bone health.

7:27 that was close there 😬 Just joking. Love your videos 😄

I can hear a slight Australian accent coming from him, every once in awhile.

I think the overriding disorder is the false importance society places on sex. I wonder why this is never discussed. All “sexual disorder” behaviors can be defined more broadly in terms of human behavior - treatment of self and others, the sexual aspect only the outlet for those human behaviors. There are no sexual disorders. There are only human disorders. This ridiculous focus on sex is why we have negative moral judgement, discrimination, and actual psychological, emotional, and physical persecution of anyone who doesn’t “fit” another’s idea of “normal” sexuality. This false sacredness is also why a person’s entire life can be destroyed by any violation of a sexual nature. Our sexual aspect is only a part of who we are. It should not be so important that our ability to be happy depends on it. THIS is the bigger disorder never discussed.

i've been told by one clinical psychiatrist the strangest sexual abnormality she's ever encountered is frigidity.

That's what it is called in Hollywood. They know about it well. Wow. New names and things so often but what can i do . Adults running around with cat ears meowing saying they identify as a cat so i don't know.

Not much discussion around plain old classical conditioning and dopamine rewards. No doubt arousal around dopamine and adrenaline is just as important to consider. What I would call thrill or treat, both produce the same arousal (dopanergic, adrenal) effects it's just the interpretation that determines dread or desire. In some cases what a "normal" person would interpret as a threat, some with people with parafilia would interpret as a thrill. The edgyness and the illegality in some cases seems to add to the thrill whilst for others, and regular folk it produces dread. Dread in others is it self would seem to be what some interpret as exiting and desirable. With regard to SSRI's some of the side effects in relation to poor quality orgasm help along with the affect of reduction in dopanine (reward) function. A reduction in thrill is felt. Given the above there is room of talking treatments and desnsitisation and ruduction in stimulus responce is doable. Habbituation and associations can be reduced and or the interpretaion of the physical effects from the stimulation can be cognatively changed so that what been maladaptively interpreted as desire is interpreted as dread. Where criminal acts occure the legal consequences and punishments do to some extent have that effect. But more need to be done along clinical lines in corrective settings to reduce recidivism.

Wonder if ,wonder what Dr Syl has any sexual quirks, or preferences.. 🤔

Anti depressants , side effects are individual to an extent One side effects that is permanent lack of sexual interest the opposite of libidinous behaviour. Clever, hormone replacement therapy lowing Testosterone with addition of female hormones 👌 .

Do women get these problems? I have seen many cases of female teachers abusing teenaged boys. Is there a treatment for this population

Most mental illnesses are existential.

Human sexuality is messy. Remeber that college course.😂

I read it as PARAPHERNALIA. LoL

Anyone who used reddit back in the early days, you saw... a lot of this. 😅

Are necrophilia and bestiality also paraphilias

are we gonna be kink shamed ? 🥺😂

It's interesting that "paedophilic disorder" is the only one that stands out from the others as being an attraction to a category of people and so seems to better fit the definition of sexual orientation. Homosexuality was likewise once considered a disorder. According to penile plethysmograph studies, ~90% of men respond sexually to young teen girls which meets your definition of paedophilic disorder. I know lots of people, myself included, who were consensually sexually active well under 18/16 and were not harmed by our experiences. So even a "paedophile" "acting on" their attraction can be harmless and therefore doesn't meet the definition of paraphilic disorder. If people are having their lives destroyed by the law for harmless consensual sex then it is the law that is disordered, not the people. I'm glad you highlighted the greyness of all this and talked about how transvestitism disorder is being phased out thanks to the transgender movement. Likewise, paedophilic disorder is being phased out by the Minor-Attracted People (MAP) community and researchers working with them.

I was glad to discover the video, yet have to highlight how bias it is. The term ‘paraphilia’ was first coined in 1903 by Friedrich Salomon Krauss and later used by Wilhelm Stekel in the 1920s. All classifications of the vlcurrent video refer to those outdated works that never include social and cultural development and obviously lack modern historical and cultural inclusion. Today, the inclusion of certain activities as paraphilias has been debated and viewed as controversial, which is not mentioned in the video. Obviously the old school approach pathologizes sexual activities that could be considered a lifestyle choice between consenting adults are presented in the video as "illness" and there was no clear distinction of illegal and absolutely normal sexual behavior that often comes down to whether the behavior causes distress or harm to oneself or others. Author of the video lacks presentation of a clear diagnostic boundaries which may pathologize consensual sexual activities. Moreover it was quiet rude and unprofessional to laugh on some of those classifications such a as fetishes where author narrows down a fetish to "shoe and sock" and mocks on it. Also, the author of the video ignores any references to cultural and historical aspects, which is an important point about the cultural significance of certain practices within LGBTQ subcultures, such as cruising, and how they may be misunderstood or misclassified. Cruising has historical roots in the LGBTQ community as a means of connecting with others in a society that was often hostile and restrictive. It’s a practice that emerged out of necessity and has become part of the culture and has nothing or little to do with voyaging, yet again authors approach can be quiet misleading. ( Fun fact, this channel and "doctor" never spoke in 3 years about LGBTQIA+ people) Those old school classifications and most importantly "medication" advice are controversial and harmful . You shall prepare way better and look wider to the subject when deciding to be "original" .

Two thoughts, I've always been fascinated by the open acceptance of various paraphilias in adult stores in Japan (much of which would be refused classification in Australia). Secondly, how on earth would we describe those who feature in the Pain Olympics series of videos? Humans are fascinating and terrifying 😂

I don't understand why the exhibitionist/flashers are so disturbing to people. Is everyone so completely ashamed of the human body that they can't handle it in all it's glory? While I have no interest in doing it, I wouldn't care if I was the "victim" of it, regardless of age and gender, so long as they kept their hands to themselves. I think people are just raised to be ashamed of themselves, even though we're all the same, over-all. I wouldn't want it happening every few minutes, but I could really use a good laugh at least once a week out of the absurdity of the situation.

@Sib666

8 күн бұрын

There’s a big difference in being an exhibitionist who likes to have sex with a consenting partner in a public place, where the actual risk of people seeing you is minimal vs intentionally flashing and even pleasing yourself ㅕin front of people who are not consenting, especially children. It’s not funny or laughable when you’re a young girl and have to walk past a creepy old man touching himself while he ogles you. Flashers rarely just flash. Exhibitionism done wrong is sexual harassment.

@Yvonukon

4 күн бұрын

I think it's because it's often done to minors. I know several friends who were victims of this in their youth. There was also a local man who used to flash himself at the school bus. As an adult I would just laugh at them but a lot of people are offended.

Like i have family who work in clinics for psychiatric patients and it has nothing to do with neuroscience (my aunts and uncles are psychartrists)

"Transvestic Disorder. You don't here much of that these days". I looked for signs of irony in your body language but couldn't find any. Transvestisisism has exploded recently so i don't understand your comment?

Second!!!

I disagree with your analysis of pedophilia disorder. You said attraction to people under age of 18 or 16. This is NOT the definition of pedophilia.. Pedophilia is the attraction to the prepubescent age of kids. Before their bodies have matured. Someone who is 15, 16, 17 etc.. their bodies , majority of them have matured and look no different to some one else body who is older. And since we are not attracted to numbers, but instead physical appearance , then a person would have no idea if a person is under 18, unless they are told. When I was in college there were girls there who were 17 to 23. I couldnt tell the difference between any of them, and I was attracted to all of them because they were attractive and had mature bodies, like any other woman. So please be careful using the term pedophilia for any person under 18, because it simply isnt true. Hebephilia and Ephebophilia are more appropriate terms. I think its irresponsible as a medical person to label such wrong names to people because it leads to people believe that someone attracted to something that is normal, like a matured female body is wrong. It also causes some of the most stringent laws and sex offenses put in place. When I was in highschool, I didnt graduate until I was 20. Started school late, failed 7th, and was in highschool an extra year. But I was 18 when I was a sophomore. When I was 17 there was a girl who was 14 and a freshman who insisted we go out. She watched me wrestle on the wrestling team. She pestered me until I finally said yes. I turned 18, and she turned 15 and we dated all the way through highshcool. I was 20 and she just turned 16 to 17. I went in the military, and came back and she became my wife. In todays world people get nuts about age, but back when I was a teen and age 20, no one cared about ages like they do today. They cared more about if their kid was with a good person. There needs to be a disorder where people become so hyper fixated on numbers it clouds their judgement and makes then emotional, irrational, and illogical people.

@followtruthwhereeveritleads2

6 күн бұрын

I agree with the first 4 sentences of your comment. P3d0phila only, by definition, applies to an attraction to somebody who HASN'T STARTED puberty. I disagree with your claim though that a person who is 15, 16, 17 is mature. They aren't, scientifically they are still going through puberty (acne, changing emotions, etc.). AND ALSO, 18, 19, and 20 year olds aren't completely mature either! I want to make that clear! Puberty doesn't end at 18!

@ddo8521

5 күн бұрын

@@followtruthwhereeveritleads2 I agree for the most part. As a society though, I think its important to not get so fixated on a special number. A lot of laws are based on the age of 18.. As if anything really magical happens at the stroke of midnight like in Cinderella. Maturity varies from person to person, mentally that is. Sure we are still maturing as we get to be 20, 21, 22.. But I find it abusrd when law makers want to try people as adults when they commit a crime at a young age. I dont like politics when it comes to lawmaking

@Yvonukon

4 күн бұрын

The media and society in general really needs to stop using the P word when the victim is quite clearly not a child/prepubescent. It's so ill-informed. There is P***philia and sexual assault on minor (under age of consent - which varies country to country) and the two should not be confused but constantly are.

You totally skipped women.

@frannyk88

15 күн бұрын

Women have a much much lower rates of paraphilias.

Why are there always only social supports in place for the predator and not the survivors of these kinds of people? Also what kinds of therapy helps? Because talk therapy isn't useful nor is EMDR. If you're always feeling like you're going to get revictimized you can't ever rest its like you're frozen in the danger state

@bronim7311

16 күн бұрын

There are a lot of variables in therapy, and because people are unique, no one size fits all. A person needs the right therapist for a start. That might mean seeking out different ones before you find a therapeutic relationship that works. I agree talk therapy only goes so far. People need actionable steps they can practice in their lives. Healing is very hard work. and needs much persistence and resilience. Those things arent so valued in today's world, so that makes acquiring those skills harder. It can take a long time and you may not be seeing results, that doesn't mean it's not working. You just have to keep going, basically, and be very very patient with yourself.

@TheGuardianDevil4

15 күн бұрын

"there are always only social supports in place for the predator and not the survivors"? what world do you live in bro? lol

@frannyk88

15 күн бұрын

There are lots of support for people who have been sexually abused. What are you talking about?

No one likes to visit a psychartrists office place in the first place it gives off "drug dependent" zones of unpleasant vibes

Depression has been a thing you don't talk about in public unless it's someone you really trust and come on if you're paying someone to trust you it gives off inauthenticity to your audience of people kind of like Selena's "gossip session of confession" the reason these are private things is because the real truth is grotesque or ugly and not good to talk about

If you really cared about these patient's care you would let these people have more autonomy and freedom over the care they received from these "hospitals" honestly the public system is trash and i will always use personal connections and private health care over what is free

@salva_75

15 күн бұрын

What's that got to do with the video, with all due respect?

@RTPDiaries

15 күн бұрын

@salva_75 uh, I spoke to "Dr syl" in person is my source material

@RTPDiaries

15 күн бұрын

@salva_75 okay so the whole, "I'm in the psychiatrists program for learning about medicine" is just telling the audience (youtube) that he's a Junior not qualified for research or for saying anything on the topic without guidance from his supervisors (doctors). He's unfit to talk about something he doesn't know shit in. I've spoken to several professionals and I know for a fact they're just bullshitting their degrees

@RTPDiaries

15 күн бұрын

@salva_75 from the source. Don't glorify someone you don't know on the internet. Not everyone is a friend or allies of the LGBTQAI+ and you don't deserve to have people serving you like slaves. Humans are humans. Flawed by design. Maybe treating someone as human and not dehumanising people in hospitals makes better results and outcomes? Don't you think?

Paraphilias aren't inherently sexual disorders. It's horribly stigmatizing to say paraphilias are disorders.

@seraeggobutterworth5247

14 күн бұрын

The DSM’s definition of paraphilia is literally set up to include disordered behavior because it’s a _diagnostic_ manual. There’s no need to diagnose non-disorders (which is why homosexuality was removed from the list of paraphilias years ago). Are you offended by the term “disorder” being used in general, like for eating disorders, OCD, panic disorders, and so on, or is it just when the word is applied to sexual compulsion?

@frannyk88

14 күн бұрын

@@seraeggobutterworth5247 the video makes no significant distinction between disorder and non-disordered behavior. It really makes it seem like paraphilia are inherently bad.

@Ms_Handled

10 күн бұрын

I could've sworn he said there are paraphilias and paraphilia disorders. He explained the difference at the beginning. He didn't say paraphilias are bad.

You seem very uncomfortable talking about this subject, possibly some of these topics are a bit close to the bone personally? Don't worry Doc...you're only human too!

@followtruthwhereeveritleads2

6 күн бұрын

That's cowardice, being scared of something isn't going to help to fix problems.

I dont really know why you need to air these things out on the internet when these are such sensitive personal things that are just not normal day to day things "normal" people think about

@frannyk88

15 күн бұрын

If you want to live under a rock then feel free.

@RTPDiaries

15 күн бұрын

@frannyk88 stay burdensome and feel free to be miserable, no one's stopping you! Stay selfish don't take care for your parents in their old age, everyone dies in the end and we're all just human experiments. Live in a bubble and only talk to people on the internet have the most limited world view and never go to school you're really advancing society with your efforts! (Heavy sarcasm)*

@RTPDiaries

15 күн бұрын

@frannyk88 mental illness is selfish because it's all about me me me! I need to push my agenda on someone else I can't think for MYSELF so I need others to do everything for me, you need to see why that's selfish and no one will like you if you just talk about yourself all the time. Or stay mentally ill it's up to you its your life and lifestyle

@frannyk88

15 күн бұрын

Seems like you have a truly intimate and personal experience and understanding of mental illness

@RTPDiaries

15 күн бұрын

@frannyk88 I've lived with a parent of mental illness, and I know plenty of people who work in that field. The dramatised version on the internet is so blown out of proportion. There's way too much misinformed people on the internet to know that it isn't all that. Too much drama and interpretation and not enough facts. This is what Dr syl lacks in his "research"

Great video about an interesting and important topic. 👍🩷

Cross dressing actually does cause harm to others in the form of dissociation. It is a red flag for childhood sexual abuse and should not be encouraged or glorified.

Weimar Republic 2.0!