Explaining furry to my entire family!

We did a presentation series during family Christmas, and I chose to present on the furry fandom! I wonder what I will do next year... maybe Skibidi Toilet!
0:00 hype
01:09 the fandom
09:54 my experience
14:53 questions you were too afraid to ask
18:08 QnA
31:25 i am only a furry ironically

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  • @augustusschrader6693
    @augustusschrader66935 ай бұрын

    I hate you

  • @Trizek

    @Trizek

    5 ай бұрын

    OMG bro lol

  • @BigRascal

    @BigRascal

    5 ай бұрын

    LMAOOO 💀💀💀

  • @mr_nothing.the_one_that_no9134

    @mr_nothing.the_one_that_no9134

    5 ай бұрын

    Pin of shame

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    no its okay we are lovers

  • @Trizek

    @Trizek

    5 ай бұрын

    lol@@arkbark_

  • @NoodlJake
    @NoodlJake6 ай бұрын

    Honestly, this was super cool to watch! It makes me think about how often I feel about my own family having totally no idea about furry as both a hobby but also how its a big part of my life. It's encouraging to see this. You were great at presenting it too!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    OMG THANK YOU!!!! Rewatching it, I definitely need to work on eliminating filler words like "like" and "um"; I use them WAY too much. But yeah! I am very lucky that my family was receptive and respectful. If they weren't, there is no WAY I would've ever done something like this haha. I knew going in that they'd be chill with it :3

  • @shieldgenerator7

    @shieldgenerator7

    14 күн бұрын

    when i became a brony i told my parents about it, but i didnt do a whole presentation. it takes guts to go all the way like that

  • @jacks808
    @jacks8085 ай бұрын

    So wholesome watching a family accepting someone being different

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    IKR!!!

  • @Mr_Toroshi
    @Mr_Toroshi5 ай бұрын

    Love it how your family was chill when you showed the presentation! I wish I could have done that with my family!!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    They knew about it beforehand, so it wasn't news to them, lol. But yeah my family is awesome ^^

  • @ahzidawg
    @ahzidawg6 ай бұрын

    Arka, you did such a good job presenting furries to normies! Great examples. Very educational and easy to understand the basics - i love it and your cute personality!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    THANK U AHZI!!!! And yeah; there's so much to talk about that it was hard to limit the total time to 30 minutes (15 mins presenting and 15 mins of QnA). But thank you thanksss!!!! I love rur cute personality too!!!!

  • @BowieBarks
    @BowieBarks6 ай бұрын

    This is so rad! Thank you for doing this and for sharing it with the rest of us! I think that it's really cool that you were able to share, and that your family did something like this

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    IKR!!!! Thank you so much Bowie!!! And thank you for watching; I put a lot of time and effort into it so I'm glad you enjoyed!!!!

  • @icewolfandecho5256
    @icewolfandecho52566 ай бұрын

    I wish I had a presentation when I told my family I was a furry! Can't wait to see you again at f²!!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    LOL they already knew at the time I presented... but they didn't really know what it meant! And yah!!! See u soon!!!

  • @pomegranatejuice6937
    @pomegranatejuice69375 ай бұрын

    this was so incredibly sweet! love your suit and personality!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    awww thanks!!!

  • @jfxf1390
    @jfxf13905 ай бұрын

    Wonderful presentation! This was very heartwarming to watch. I love your suit's design and your eyes are so cool! Stay safe!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    Awww, thank you!! Thats very kind of you to say that and it means a lot

  • @fryythehusky
    @fryythehusky2 ай бұрын

    This was amazing loved every minute ❤ Also HOW DID YOU DO THIS I COULD NEVER 😭

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    2 ай бұрын

    LOL it took a bit for me to get to this point. Plus my family already knew haha

  • @sofbeak
    @sofbeak5 ай бұрын

    Omg you are awesome! I’ve never seen someone give a presentation to their family about furry. Cool family! Cool Barka!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    OMG thank you so much!! thank youuu

  • @blu-mp6jb
    @blu-mp6jb5 күн бұрын

    Udhfsihiso I was watching other things and this video popped up!! I recognized u from AC :P And I js wanted to say, ur performance this year was SO creative and I loved it a lot :3 🦈

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 күн бұрын

    @@blu-mp6jb ooooh thank you!! This was my first time performing at AC and I was SUPER excited just to be on the stage!! Going from someone who used to idolize furry dancers to becoming a furry dancer myself... it's amazing!!

  • @sillysillystrudel
    @sillysillystrudel4 ай бұрын

    this was so well put together and fun to watch!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    4 ай бұрын

    thank you!!

  • @Mauzy0x00
    @Mauzy0x005 ай бұрын

    This was actually pretty cool. Since she asked about how you see you should have had them try it on! 😄

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    LOL that wouldve been fun! Not sure if they wouldve been interested though haha

  • @GalekC
    @GalekC5 ай бұрын

    2016 made me think "zootopia." that was pretty popular then? what made me a furry is...anime. - me watching the "one stormy night" movie in 2008: "cringe! why'd that goat guy get with that wolf man ?? sinful" - me watching one piece in 2010: "you know...maybe furries can be cool ??" - me watching & reading all of hunterxhunter in 2013, seeing it explore many facets of what it would mean to have anthro animals irl: "aww heck, guess i totally am a furry" - re-watching one stormy night in 2016 "aw shid...i am so much like mei, falling in love with some gabu-wolf man last thanksgiving...honestly, that oughta be my sona !!!!" yes, i am so gay for many wolves or other canines

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    LMAOOO the lore runs so deep!!!! and yeah I think Zootopia was very popular in 2016

  • @TigerNamedJerry
    @TigerNamedJerry6 ай бұрын

    Adobe jumpscare 7:09 Oh. My. Gosh. YOU were Elsa!? 😂😂😂

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    yess!!! hahaha were u there for floor wars at aqf? it was such a blast!!!

  • @HighJoeLang

    @HighJoeLang

    6 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ im confused sir? wut is this video about sir?

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    @@HighJoeLang this video is about the furry fandom; if u have any specific questions let me know!

  • @HighJoeLang

    @HighJoeLang

    6 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ are u a human? or animal

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    @@HighJoeLang i am animal

  • @Warrison_
    @Warrison_5 ай бұрын

    You have the biggest balls for this.

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks LOL

  • @xxsuperproductionsxx138
    @xxsuperproductionsxx1385 күн бұрын

    this is adorable!

  • @minivanmaster
    @minivanmaster6 ай бұрын

    Your family seems cool, you're brave for this

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks!!!

  • @WolfBoyBytes
    @WolfBoyBytes5 ай бұрын

    Great video Arka!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @Frogz313
    @Frogz3132 ай бұрын

    I love this, I wanna show it to my family!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you!!! Im glad you liked it haha

  • @just_justin7
    @just_justin75 ай бұрын

    Cool to see this! Especially someone also in MN. I’ve had troubles finding others in the community nearby

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    OMG! Yeah MN furs has their own website and everything (www.mnfurs.org/event-calendar/), it's pretty great. Ive been thinking about getting more involved! But yeah defo come to Furry Migration. Its a great con.

  • @just_justin7

    @just_justin7

    5 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ I’ve been wanting to go to a con but don’t know anyone to go with :/ And I’ll check out the website. Thank you!! ^_^

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    @@just_justin7 there's a discord server exactly for that purpose! If u want I can send u the link ^^

  • @just_justin7

    @just_justin7

    5 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ yes please!!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    3 ай бұрын

    @@just_justin7 My bad!! I just saw this. discord.gg/mnfurs

  • @GalekC
    @GalekC5 ай бұрын

    more community than a fandom, yeee

  • @ShadowSabrewulf
    @ShadowSabrewulf3 ай бұрын

    Very well done explanation on our fandom very well done

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    3 ай бұрын

    thank you!!

  • @madisonmustang140
    @madisonmustang1405 ай бұрын

    Hi Arka! It's Fen from Madison Furry Bowling. I enjoyed meeting you again last night! So much fun with that active German shepherd!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    Hi fen!!!! Hehehe yeah!! I love talking with you always!! Excited to make a video interviewing u at AC (or we could do it at a local meet if u wanted!)

  • @madisonmustang140

    @madisonmustang140

    5 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ Sounds good Arka probably best at a local meet as I am still undecided but thinking about Anthro. I am not really good at improptu as I tend to get tongue tied when I am put on the spot but I am willing to try. Definitely not as active as you are. You are so full of vitality! Your one amazing GS and your excitment carries over in all that you do and is infectious and draws in others around you. You definitely have an infectious personality! Great to see and a definite virtue! Keep it up! Hugs!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    @@madisonmustang140 OMG THANK YOU!!!! YOURE SO SWEET FEN

  • @madisonmustang140

    @madisonmustang140

    5 ай бұрын

    That sounds good but how do I get my email privately to you so its not posted here@@arkbark_

  • @madisonmustang140

    @madisonmustang140

    5 ай бұрын

    That sounds good Arka by writing up a list of questions that might be a good ice breaker which might lead to coming up with some of my own questions but I warn you be prepared to get your ear talked off! lol!@@arkbark_

  • @_Evenai
    @_Evenai5 ай бұрын

    congrats for having the confidence to do this-

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    lol thanks!! my family is super supportive so it was v easy ^^

  • @Raftzy_Fox
    @Raftzy_Fox21 күн бұрын

    It's a shame that I can't do the same with my family because I'm under 18 years old and my family wouldn't understand me at all but watching furry videos makes me feel better and you explained very well what it means to be a furry ❤

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    21 күн бұрын

    I'm glad!!! And no pressure to tell your family if they wouldn't understand; my family is more open than most haha

  • @ThatGuyThatHasSpaghetiiCode
    @ThatGuyThatHasSpaghetiiCodeАй бұрын

    You have balls of steel

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    Ай бұрын

    LOL THANKS

  • @GrandmasterShadow666
    @GrandmasterShadow6666 ай бұрын

    What's up, dawg?

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    Whats up silly goofy dude!!! How did you find this so fast haha

  • @GrandmasterShadow666

    @GrandmasterShadow666

    6 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ I turned on notification and it popped up as soon as you uploaded.

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    @@GrandmasterShadow666 DANG!!! I hope you enjoyed the video then!!! Im honored that you had notifications on for me haha

  • @HighJoeLang
    @HighJoeLang6 ай бұрын

    What

  • @wytch8369
    @wytch83695 ай бұрын

    Ignore the positive comments , hate from Thailand ❤️

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    HAHAHAHAHAHA OMG 🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks LOL

  • @brutuswolf817
    @brutuswolf817Ай бұрын

    It was derived from a science fiction convention. Back in the 70s, 90 80s watch The Documentary from ash Coyote.

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    Ай бұрын

    Yep! I actually mention Ash Coyote in the video

  • @Kieva_Storm
    @Kieva_StormКүн бұрын

    You reference Wisconsin stuff a lot, which makes me think you're from here. Your presentation was good by the way, fun and whimsical but informative. Should definitely use it for all the normies. Also, I've been a furry for 20 years now. You don't really outgrow it. You made fade out a bit, or drift out over time.

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    Күн бұрын

    @@Kieva_Storm i am from Wisconsin!! Ayay! And okay, I know a lot of people that have been in the fandom for a while slowly drift away from furry cons. I currently go to about 7 a year and I feel myself starting to want to do less, haha.

  • @Kieva_Storm

    @Kieva_Storm

    Күн бұрын

    @arkbark_ I am also a Wisconsinite. We bumped in to each other in the fursuit parade this year at AC, so that's kinda funny to me. I was around 6 year for a while, but have slowed down as I've hit my mid 30s. Still go, still love to suit, it's still very much a lifestyle for me, I just can't and don't want to go out as much anymore.

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    Күн бұрын

    @@Kieva_Storm Same!!! I think that it can get a bit expensive, and also the novelty eventually wears off. But fursuiting is always one of my favorite parts of cons! I love just being free to be however silly I want to be. I fursuit a bit out of cons, but cons are nice because they give me water and air conditioning haha.

  • @Kieva_Storm

    @Kieva_Storm

    Күн бұрын

    @@arkbark_ I've done some suiting in Milwaukee, but I also prefer con spaces. I assume you'll be at AqF this year? If so you'll probably see me there too!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    Күн бұрын

    @@Kieva_Storm noo, ill be in africa!! im missing AQF :( but I hope you have fun!! last year was a total blast!

  • @chemiflask7692
    @chemiflask76925 ай бұрын

    Yooo who is this cool person? I wanna meet 'im

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    i know who you are

  • @Whiskerflux
    @Whiskerflux5 ай бұрын

    meanwhile Im scared of anyone using my computer because of furry stuff they may find...

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    lmao, that was me 3 years ago. i have come a very long way haha

  • @Whiskerflux

    @Whiskerflux

    5 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ lol, love you know that... You know maybe that can happen to me too. And do you have any tips on the topic? im not from the US, im Ecuadorian.

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    @@Whiskerflux i mean for me, moving out of my house and going to college was a huge step. Just going to a furry con was a huge deal and really changed my life haha Idk about any cons in Ecuador, but I know there's a pretty well-attended one in Brazil... check out furry cons.com if you're interested But yeah it takes a lot of time, and taking small steps going out of your your comfort zone!

  • @Whiskerflux

    @Whiskerflux

    5 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ Thanks for the advice!

  • @lukeboyden14
    @lukeboyden142 ай бұрын

    Slay

  • @feger9066
    @feger90665 ай бұрын

    yo! cool and incredible fursuit!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    thank you!!!

  • @feger9066

    @feger9066

    5 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ you’re welcome! You’re amazing and incredible remember that! :D

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    @@feger9066 AAAA STOPP 😄😄😄😄wagging tail profusely haha THANK YOU!!!

  • @feger9066

    @feger9066

    5 ай бұрын

    no! youre amazing and thats a fact! :D@@arkbark_

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    @@feger9066 no YOU'RE cuter!!! 😂😂

  • @shieldgenerator7
    @shieldgenerator714 күн бұрын

    wait.... Arka? did you go to AnthrOhio 2024?

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    14 күн бұрын

    I did! oml!! did you???

  • @shieldgenerator7

    @shieldgenerator7

    14 күн бұрын

    @@arkbark_ yeah! i met you at the dance party friday night, i was wearing the plaid shirt

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    14 күн бұрын

    @@shieldgenerator7 Oh yeah!!! Wasg!! I hope you had fun at Anthrohio haha

  • @shieldgenerator7

    @shieldgenerator7

    14 күн бұрын

    @@arkbark_ i sure did! the dance party was the best part!

  • @stupid2867
    @stupid28675 ай бұрын

    If I did this I'd be disowned 💀

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    NOOOOO im srry ur famil is not tolerant :(

  • @BigRascal
    @BigRascal5 ай бұрын

    Bruh can’t relate. I’m just an 18 year old nerd who likes Halo and who is addicted to caffeine and going to the gym and am now abusing thousands of dollars worth of anabolic steroids… I also don’t like Furries (from a personal experience of being traumatized as a child by furries)

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear about that Rascal!

  • @killerflamers1358
    @killerflamers1358Ай бұрын

    Was it scary?

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    29 күн бұрын

    YESSSSS but it was super fun!!!

  • @okidokidraws
    @okidokidraws5 ай бұрын

    If I said I was a furry to my dad it'd probably be like when I told him I am Ace hes medical school side would have been like humans arn't Asexual XD

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    LMAOOOO something that's always slightly bothered me is that "furry" was originally used as an adjective. I kind of wish the fandom was called something different because it's kind of like saying "I am a tall" or "I am a stupid"

  • @felime3894
    @felime3894Күн бұрын

    I think a presentation is unnecessary... that's what the first question was really asking. Like if this isn't a thing related to your identity, and it's really just a hobby, then why do this? She was confused because any normal person with a new hobby wouldn't do all this about it... You could've just not made a big deal about it and just unshamefully exhibited being a furry and if they ask, you'd answer then, naturally. Good intentions but sometimes it's just attention-seeking

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    Күн бұрын

    In the description I noted that we were doing a passion presentation series for family Christmas. Many of my other family members also did presentations, ranging from the history of India to healthy goal-setting. I chose to record my presentation because I thought it might be helpful for people who come across my channel!

  • @augustusschrader6693
    @augustusschrader66935 ай бұрын

    😮

  • @labcat6759
    @labcat67595 ай бұрын

    bro....horrendous

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    is that caillou in your profile lmao

  • @aquatic4425
    @aquatic44255 ай бұрын

    your parents have failed you.

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    i dont understand this comment can you please explain with more clarity

  • @aquatic4425

    @aquatic4425

    5 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ smartest degenerate furry

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    ​​@@aquatic4425what's a furry??? 😂😂💯 💯

  • @aquatic4425

    @aquatic4425

    2 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ its degeneracy.

  • @aquatic4425

    @aquatic4425

    2 ай бұрын

    @@arkbark_ you haven't been taught moral standards.

  • @rose.888
    @rose.8885 ай бұрын

    Grow up. Repent in Jesus Christ name. Amen!

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your feedback Rose! I hope you have a lovely day! Amen 🙏🙏🙌🙌💯💯

  • @cyberwolf_1013

    @cyberwolf_1013

    5 ай бұрын

    Jesus doesn't condone hate and bigotry. Remember that.

  • @rose.888

    @rose.888

    5 ай бұрын

    @@cyberwolf_1013 I'm praying for you all in Jesus name. Amen. ✝️

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@rose.888Thank you so much for your well wishes! Being a furry is not about sin, it's about making people happy and supporting one another. If you have any questions or want to talk more about this, just ask! It's hard to offend me, so no need worry about that. Again thank you for your words of support; i hope you have a great day!

  • @StupidIdiotTheSecond
    @StupidIdiotTheSecond6 ай бұрын

    WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU DO THAT

  • @arkbark_

    @arkbark_

    6 ай бұрын

    The opportunity presented itself and this is something that I've wanted to do for a long time! It was kind of cathartic for me haha