Amanda is projecting. Her lack of relationship DEFINITELY impacts what she thinks of her partner's mother

Just because you're not comfortable with your own mother doesn't mean she has to be the same way

@MsMenifee2u

Ай бұрын

EXACTLY

@nahhhbruhhh

Ай бұрын

She doesn’t want her to be uncomfortable , but to know that even without your parents permission you can still be yourself.

Erin reminds me so much of Sanaa Lathan!

@lorrainewilson5234

Ай бұрын

Wow, thanks for your observation. Indeed she resembles Sanaa especially when her head is tilted

@KanezaMac

Ай бұрын

I was thinking Tamar Braxton!

@janicescott-pair97

Ай бұрын

I thought the same.

@Sho-nr4oi

Ай бұрын

I said the same

@Candicewallace444

Ай бұрын

Yes absolutely! I came here to say that. She's beautiful, and I think her personality is just amazing. They're a great couple.

Amanda is exhausting she’s aggressive to call your partner lazy and dirty and tell her parents to their face it’s your fault. Gworl..if you’re trying to foster a relationship this is the absolute wrong way to do it

Amanda is a mature, straight talker. Being raised by Grandma will do that👊🏾 They weren't ready for it 😂

I am soo glad her mother accepted full responsibility and accountabilty

Keep it real and be respectful. Amanda doesn't have a relationship with her mother. But you want to tell me Erin how she should be with her mother. Ma'am sweep around ya own door first . Fix her relationship with her mother first.

@lesley5380

Ай бұрын

Sweep around your own front door- I love this saying.

@nahhhbruhhh

Ай бұрын

The only thing she said was for amanda to respect herself and your parents shouldn’t determine your self worth

Amanda will always put a distance between Erin and her mother

Some people think Amanda is rude because some people can't tolerate that level of direct honesty. She was never disrespectful. She just didn't sugar coat or walk around the issues like folks prefer.

@shariemills2973

Ай бұрын

I agree with you !

@taraanthony6326

Ай бұрын

Completely agree

@user-ob6co4wx4u

Ай бұрын

I always have time for people like this

@lanettemcdaniels9543

Ай бұрын

I was actually surprised to see people thought she was rude. I definitely didn’t get that vibe, just direct.

@blckqueen6002

Ай бұрын

Yes I had to come back to comments because I’m like who was rude?

Amandas words are so real that people see it as rude. She is just being real and she is doing it in a respectful way. No anger...no yelling. I was cringing at some of her words but it was me being uncomfortable not Amanda being rude. Society is uncomfortable with realness

Amanda is rude and she doesnt let anyone else talk but i think its because she’s been so quiet about her issues she cant softly address anything

@Iamjeffsledge

Ай бұрын

this

This whole relationship is out of order

@pettiestofbettys

Ай бұрын

Yeah the parenta who don't accept their children are pretty trash. I would remove the relationship all together. Family or not

@Drando1989

26 күн бұрын

From its INCEPTION.

Amanda is exhausting

@Rukilawal

Ай бұрын

I thought i only felt that way

@karengauthier3791

Ай бұрын

Yes!!!! Almost insufferable!!

@cheriparisedwards3468

27 күн бұрын

She is.

I don't see a problem with a family member such as your mom or dad calling late if it's necessary

@gailsmith836

Ай бұрын

What if it’s not though?

@kylawanderlust9939

20 күн бұрын

How necessary is it to call at 3am? To the point the partner needs to bring it up (meaning it happens far too often)

I get Amanda want to be heard , she want boundaries and respect but she isn’t giving that off 🤷🏾‍♀️. Everyone has to conform to her way and feeling while she vandalizing others

@yolandiacurtis7997

Ай бұрын

facts..

@lolozum7295

Ай бұрын

Yes I agree . She doesn't have a listening ear.

Amanda’s mom is already irritating off the top. Didn’t raise her daughter but want some kinda deference around who she loves.

@gi-gijay4114

Ай бұрын

Did they cover the WHY she didn't raise her versus raising the twins?

I think Amanda is too real for most

I miss this show

Erins mom got off kinda easy. She knows if Erin was marrying a man she would've told EVERYBODY!!

I don’t care for Amanda at all. I’m sorry she really need to focus on her relationship with her mother before trying to get married

After reading the comments I tried to give Amanda the benefit of the doubt . But she’s crossing a boundary . She’s disrespectful!

Amanda was out of line. Granted, the mom probably needed to be called out, it just wasn’t her business telling the mom about her parenting skills. And speaking on Erin’s relationship with her mother being “superficial” yikes

@torry24

Ай бұрын

Well if it’s the truth it’s truth. People can’t change if they can’t face their own truth. People love to live in fantasy worlds.

@lettabugable

Ай бұрын

@@torry24 no, it’s a time and a place for everything. Not only was it not her place, but to address her mother in front of a crowd in that manner? Totally out of line.

@torry24

Ай бұрын

@@lettabugable sooo, just go on a show with a therapist to discuss issues of the relationship before marriage and not talk about the issues of the relationship? Gotcha. So what would’ve been the correct time and place ?

@lettabugable

Ай бұрын

@@torry24 my answer is in my previous reply.

@torry24

Ай бұрын

@@lettabugable oh okay..

Amanda seems so draining!!!!!

@yolandiacurtis7997

Ай бұрын

right

@clifford5560

Ай бұрын

Yessss!

@LiberianDoll2001

Ай бұрын

Erin just sits there listening

Amanda has no right trying to counsel Erin on her mother's behavior when she has no relationship with her own mother. Come on now!!!

Amanda is rude. It wasn’t her place to say any of that

@terrismith1818

Ай бұрын

I completely agree. How dare you tell me that I raised my child wrong. Inappropriate!! She was rude….the end!

@preciousuno70

24 күн бұрын

INDEED.

Love Amanda and her directness, how she calmly relays her views and objections which tend to be misconstrued as being rude

I think so far this is the best and calmest families conversation in this show.. 😊

The dynamics are challenging, but the question is, once the cameras are off, will they still have their families' blessings? I hope the best for Erin and Amanda.

Amanda is definitely projecting because of her pain from her relationship with her mother

Amanda trying to point out other people flaws and she a walking contradiction

I don't see why everyone has such a big issue w/ Amanda. She's trying to build a real relationship and she targets issues that are hindering the relationship while it seems as though others are being passive and tip toeing around the issues. She's blunt, I like that.

Erin's too damn gorgeous

Omg, I LOVE Dr. Ramani ❤ I would be so grateful to get counseling from her.

Erin not checking Amanda for her rude and disrespectful behavior is the biggest issue ! I honestly feel like they both are the problem with both there families . I can see why her mother doesn’t have a relationship they are judgmental and non-accountable

@Yourfavorite-cx6jz

Ай бұрын

Rude by doing what exactly? aI saw her being direct . She didn’t call her out her name, yell at her.. The mother didn’t like what was being said because she didn’t want to be accountable. In black households (i’m black) it common to not be allowed to voice truthful opinions to adults/parents. It’s considered talking back defending yourself and your emotions. Even her husband admitted that he picked up behind erin. cleaning wasn’t fully enforced cause they’d do it.

@msbossatlanta

Ай бұрын

@@Yourfavorite-cx6jz I’m black as well , she was rude with the things she said . She wasn’t listening but quick to cut in and assert her opinion on a relationship that wasn’t even her own to speak on . She should’ve let her work that out with her mother first on her own . I feel as though the mother was taking accountability she just wasn’t willing to be accepting . Yes her father did admit to picking up behind her but to call it dysfunction like there was something wrong that she was raised different was rude and disrespectful. She didn’t retort and says well I feel as tho dysfunction is forcing children to grow up to fast with to much responsibility or not giving them freedom . She was doing to much and it was misdirected

This was the best episode I have seen. The love the closure n acceptance….wow what a great family on both ends!❤❤

My ex fiance was very honest and my family couldn't handle it they also thought she was rude but she wasn't she was direct she shaped me to be a person that would be able to be assertive especially in work settings when my mom raised me to be her babysitter and slave I'm grateful to have met her she changed me for the best🤷🏿‍♀️ she also showed me the ways my mom would manipulate me to finace her when my siblings father was present in the home

@keylacmckemp1309

Ай бұрын

I am glad she did these great things in your life. Many of us are on the outside looking in, and you know her best. I'm glad you are stronger and healing. All the best to all of you.

If I could just meet a man with the amount of emotional maturity, Amanda has❤️🚀

Is this show still lit 🔥 in 2024?

I don't see Amanda rudeness like others. I see direct honesty which many confuse as rudeness. I am happy her mother understood. U can believe n what u want to believe and still support ur child.

@yolandgibson1233

Ай бұрын

It go both ways

Erin is so pretty

I ABSOLUTELY ❤LOVE THIS SHOW 👍

Amanda’s grandmother did an amazing job raising her! She is emotionally intelligent and has done the healing work and she just wants the same for everyone else and that’s unconditional love!

If her mother didn’t matter to her she wouldn’t have been so emotional.. just saying

@MahaliaA

Ай бұрын

I said the exact same thing!

@salome9124

Ай бұрын

She didn’t say her mother didn’t matter to her. She said she don’t have the capacity to go through the ups abs downs and disappointments again, so therefore she wants space from her instead of closeness.

@gi-gijay4114

Ай бұрын

She is very HURT by it. It's evident. Childhood trauma is real!!

@naynaywill

Ай бұрын

Sometimes it hurts to actually say it out loud. You can try to ignore it by beating around the bush, but actually saying out loud is hurtful. Especially being a female about the mom

i love how erin’s dad took his jacket off and gave it to amanda. despite how character flaws

They look so cute together. 🌈 😍👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏿

This is Such a Reallly great one. The Whole Show.

Even if Amanda has some valid points with the parenting of her partner. It's just that she is so forceful with what she believes is facts, and that's the problem we have with a lot of lgbti folks, their beliefs can be so forceful. All of that is a process

@nahhhbruhhh

Ай бұрын

That’s insane to say lmao. People being themselves isn’t forcing anything on people lol why should they have to shrink and conform? Lol please

@lolozum7295

Ай бұрын

​@@nahhhbruhhhyou're not hearing nor understanding what is being said 😮😊

@nahhhbruhhh

29 күн бұрын

@@lolozum7295 😮😮😮☺️☺️☺️😉

I think they are bonding through trauma. Both girls relationship with their mother isn’t healthy. I wish them the best 🎉

Why am I crying! Awesome episode

This was the best episode

I liked this episode

This episode was so wholesome. And the girls are so damn beautiful.

I hope they made it. I hope Amanda gets used to shrinking for the woman she loves. I just can’t take someone being this pompous and condescending and definitely not to my family. It’s feels like Amanda is the loudest with her sexuality but the most insecure with it.

Amanda is absolutely disrespectful and rude.

@kandidkennie

Ай бұрын

Waaaay too aggressive with Ashley's mom...

@mirabella2154

Ай бұрын

@@kandidkennie Yes. I honestly think that she is trying to create a wedge between Erin and Erin's mother because she is jealous that her relationship with her own mother is practically non-existent.

@djsaveaves

Ай бұрын

She is, I think she doesn’t respect family relationships because hers are so broken.

@lrobi1614

Ай бұрын

Amber is way over the top when talking to Erin's mom. And she is disrespectful talking about her lack of cleanliness with her parents.

Amanda said having a relationship with her mother matters but you brought her into a privileged part of your life which is marriage so why don’t you do therapy with her first

Amanda is checking everybody else but her own mother & that’s where all of her frustrations are coming from,..Amanda is definitely jealous of the relationship her fiancé has with her mother!

I get Amanda approach is aggressive (need to work on) but what she is saying is the truth. She literally sticking up for both her and Erin when it comes to their mom.

@Rukilawal

Ай бұрын

She doesn’t need to do that. Erin should be stick up for herself the way she knows how to

@Ginaaaa555

Ай бұрын

​@@Rukilawal Yes very true but as you saw in the video. Erin is sometimes scared to say stuff to her mom because she feel like her mom is ashamed of her

Amanda speaking for Erin I don’t like

Amanda is harder on her fiance's mother than she is on her own.

The Amanda slanda is baffling me. She had the guts and the maturity to pull all the skeletons out the closet with so much grace and patience and REALNESS. I think that realness is bothering some of y’all.

How she’s going to talk about the relationship she has with her mother and she doesn’t have a relationship with her mom at all? It seems like she’s trying to break up her relationship with her mom..

Devil is such a liar

ERIN is very beautiful ❤❤

Are these properties someone personal residences that they lease out to the show?

@deolindadee8476

Ай бұрын

It could be. I was thinking the same thing myself.

I’m confused with Amanda’s mom if Amanda says her mom relationship is nonexistent. How can that stop a whole relationship of 5 years with someone you decided to spend your life with, unfortunately Amanda trauma with her mother needs to be handle first.

My thing if she had no right to attack her Erin mom like that

Amanda Amanda, wow. Very rude and you can rub anyone the wrong way. With this attitude i can see it being very difficult for the families to have a cordial relationship

@gailsmith836

Ай бұрын

I think she was direct and I personally respected her for her refusal to listen to bs.

Amanda is scared to have a relationship her mom. her feelings were played with and dismissed ❤ now get having an issue with the time in which her gf parents calling their daughter is a little much even though if there isn’t an emergency why call that late.

How she gonna tell her how to treat her mother,when she got problems with her own mother. Talking bout she past needing a mother,she’s bitter and disrespectful asl!

This is gonna be me one day

How rude is Amanda, my word. I feel so sad for Erins mom

These people need Iyanla!

Ouppppp now miss Amanda got a sharp mouth on her

Amanda if it's such a problem y stay for 5 yes. And y would you want to marry her. Erin let her go , she's very demanding , will end up changing everything about you when she's been cool all this time. RED FLAGS ALL OVER IT

She cannot love right now. She’s too far into her self protection.

If ahe didnt think having a relationship with her mother matters, u wouldnt get emotional and cry about it. Ppl dont think it does until u see someone ur dating relationship or ur mom gets sick. U will regret it later.

I dknt care what ppl may say about others but there should never be and disrespect speaking to a parent.

The drag girl is getting on my nerves and I only watch five minutes of it

Why is she attacking the girls mother?

🌎♥️💜💙💚💛🧡❤♥️💜🌍 ♥️Gorgeously Lovely!‼️🫶🏿💚💟 🌍💚♥️💜💙💚💛🧡❤♥️🌎

I like Amanda she was honest. Erin is spoiled anddont speak her mine. She dont like conflict

What is wrong with amanda she’s giving me tae from “Tae and Lou” vibes 🤦🏽‍♀️

@kaylabryant1724

Ай бұрын

As soon as I seen her & she started talking I thought the same exact thing

@lrobi1614

Ай бұрын

I don't know who Tae is but Amanda is rudish

Amanda is disrespectful

Your mom love you but she doesn't have 2 like your lifestyle she don't have 2 explain anything 2 you

Keith, Keith, Keith...😂😂😂 Literally waiting on the sidelines for his chance ... And she never shuts it down. How she believing this man over her OWN damn man 😂😂😂😂 Revealed himself at the end like a true Marvel villian😂

@lolozum7295

Ай бұрын

Wrong episode sis 😢😊

Amanda does come off harsh but it’s obviously the truth because Erin never goes against what she says. People can’t take the real truth.

Happy pride month all ❤🌈😌

Having deadbeat parents they have truly convinced themselves what they failed at is ok & they tried their best.

Amanda mom look like Snoop Dogg!!???

@clifford5560

Ай бұрын

😂 I just spit my juice out…cause WHAT?!! and she does look like she could be his sister

Amanda needs to focus her energy for own mother and deal with those issues. With Amanda being so direct on border line rude I’m really surprised this relationship has lasted 5 years