Thank you so much for hosting me Queen ❤️

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for honoring the invite ❤️🫂

@andiswamjadu1106

Ай бұрын

@@TheTeaWorld Phindile wow! I never listen to these but wow. You're wise and so well spoken.

@senyatsisolomonkgolane467

26 күн бұрын

You're amazing 👏🏽 @phindileyende

@roslynmohlago6055

8 күн бұрын

How can I get the book please??

@roslynmohlago6055

8 күн бұрын

Ooh I got it on Take a lot. I was impatient to wait for end of interview to get details 😅

I can listen to Phindile speaks the whole day. I Love her ❤

@phindileyendeauthor

Ай бұрын

I love you too ❤

Absolutely, i never went to maintenance court for my two boys , because I felt I'm not going to remind a person to take care of their child. They're 24 and 13 now, and I've been doing it alone, and now karma is dealing with them. But for those who have the energy to go to court, big ups to you.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Big ups to you my Queen, May God enlarge your territory

@Leboko80

Ай бұрын

I feel you my Sister.i did the same.

@cosmic_sunflower3864

Ай бұрын

I totally understand you.

"God was not in the foundation " heei we mess up and want God to interven when we didn’t consult him at first

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Very true my lovely Queen 👸

@pheladinare2876

Ай бұрын

So true we put ourselves in situations and then later when we are in trouble we turn and ask God why? Especially when the red flag where always there.

@mrsG488

24 күн бұрын

And there is nothing wrong about that...actually we all stumble and sometimes fall but its good to always run back to Him.❤

I looooooove women who write books! It's like bringing us into her mind, more importantly for us to give to our kids one day. It helps so much to equip them. The khula uzobona era is over, thank the Lord!

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Indeed I'm loving the authors we are hosting at the Teaworld Podcast

Yho Phindi feeling healed already as m gng through divorce thanks for sharing your story God bless you it's true God is not far from the broken heart looking beautiful healed and happy ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Sending you love and light ❤️❤️

He suffered from "breadwinner syndrome" The family will never see anything wrong with his actions as long as he provides for them!

@khethiwemethula4977

Ай бұрын

It's the case with my older brother. He can never do wrong in the eyes of my parents.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

I agree

Oh I love Phindi, I bought and read her book in 1day😀🤭. It was captivating. Will definitely buy the second book.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

She is an amazing Author 👏 🤩

My ex narc hubby was a pastor, he defied God and consulted witchdoctors in pursuit for power until my life was in danger! You can never work on a marriage alone, that is for sure!👍

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

What a profound point, you can never work on a marriage alone 😔

@phindileyendeauthor

Ай бұрын

Some of these things sound far fetched but they happen! I’m so sorry 🥺

@user-bk1zs2uf3t

Ай бұрын

Hi Queen Rummy, may you please invite her, we would love to hear her story of restoration

Look young for 42 years. Beautiful chocolate babe

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

She really looks amazing and so young 😍 ❤️

Love Phindi and I am so excited to see her on this podcast . Last week I was just recommending her to this other podcast host because I feel like her story is worth sharing. I am still hoping to see her there too ❤

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much, you will be happy to know she even has her own Podcast ❤️🫂

Wow when she said Phindile your a healer I felt it,love her so much indeed she's a healer.... I'm healed and would listen to her the whole day.

@TheTeaWorld

22 күн бұрын

Oooh Yes she is 🙏

Phindile is such a powerhouse. Enjoyed this conversation so much. Really learned a lot from her journey 🌸

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

She is a powerful brand 👏 Global brand 👌

@phindileyendeauthor

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

Yooo my girl, looks like there are many of us with your experience! While you try to make him look good to your family, he’s painting you black to his own family! When you eventually leave, you are the bad person 😢😢

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

It's really so sad💔😔

I love Ndivhu T's voice in the intro❤ you look beautiful queen Ramy❤

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

😊 thank you

So true "we know" but choose to turn a blind eye hoping things will be okay. Phindi yhoo u can talk my sister 💐👏❤️. First time i come across this channel and i love it already,we learn a lot as women surely i will also teach my friends(daughters)

@TheTeaWorld

16 күн бұрын

Thank you so much 🫂🫂❤️❤️

Bona ..,ke letsa molodi😢😢😢yhooo ausi Phindile. You hit all the spots 😞. Tjo. This conversation was packed. Tjoo shout out to my homie. I love you ❤️ mam.

@phindileyendeauthor

Ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

She is amazing 🙏😍

I love how she speaks shes well articulated...mara banna shem!!!!!

@TheTeaWorld

9 күн бұрын

💔💔💔💔

Aus Phindi you have such a grat aura.. I'm yet to watch the entire interview but let me tell you when I say, I sure will enjoy this because wow, the little clip I got to hear.. bliss

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Beautiful in and out ❤️

@phindileyendeauthor

21 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

26:18 so true sis Phindi narcissist never apologize they exactly said you made me do that

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Yes 💔😔☹️

Nxa!!!! I am so angry with narcissist type of men, always apportioning blame to the innocent people!!! Yhooooo!!!!🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

Sisters...I can relate. Nearly married 1. It rings a tone of memories n what I endured in a short space of time. Though we did not get married but he left a mark. Red flags were there but I chose 2 ignore cause I wanted to play savior....but I thañk God I overcame. The healing process took time though n taught me 2 lv myself....but it taught me that in the Christian world we've got a lot of concealed wolves in sheep skin who know exactly what 2 say...!!!

@TheTeaWorld

9 күн бұрын

😳😳😩😩

Yoh yoh yoh!!! Phindile is telling my story as it is @15:30

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

🫂

Foundation of marriage 😢😢 ohhh this is hitting me. ...that is so true ..

@TheTeaWorld

9 күн бұрын

Very true 😍

Uma kusaqala ngathi umlethelwe uNkulunkulu i.e. love bombing stage, but as time goes (manipulation and emotional abuse) you realise that no man uGod akazi lutho ngalomuntu. 📌 Listen actively when having conversations about ones upbringing and background, don't turn a blind eye to the red flags just because of the carrot being dangled before you.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

So true 🙏😢

@xhavaritakalani8670

26 күн бұрын

The truth in this 😢

Yoooo! Sounds like a book I should have written 😂.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Get on it 😂😂😂

@pfulu

Ай бұрын

@@TheTeaWorldwhat is she manufacturing.

I am a Narcissist and I don't like when ppl talk bad about us.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Okay 👍

@masandefuzile2261

Ай бұрын

You didn't read.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Okay 😂 what do you want us to do with your statement?

@judyatoro9387

Ай бұрын

They say if devil cannot deal with you physically he sends a narcissist person 😮

@khethiwemethula4977

Ай бұрын

I don't think people talk bad about narcissistic people but people do talk about their experiences with a narc and often times it is bad. For an example, I am co-parenting with a narc and it's a nightmare, do I talk bad about narcissistic people/him, no, but I am definitely talking about my experience of having stayed in such a relationship & having a child with such a person.

Even if the man disappears all year and want kids for that December. As a mother you have no right saying no. You are denying your kids moments with their father. Let the kids ask their father that question and let him answer. That is not your place.... my opinion

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

We hear your opinion 🙏

Tjooo I'm currently in a yr marriage with a Narcissist 😢😢😢 Im going through hell😢😢😢😢😢😢

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

🫂🫂🫂🫂May it be well with you

@sheronsnethembancube2693

Ай бұрын

Girl, I am 1 month 17 days out of it. I didn't leave because I didn't have the guts but he chased me away. Days aren't the same, others are an emotional wreck others I feel fine but I trust God will carry me through

@martinamakgeta9467

Ай бұрын

You and me both. with me I saw and felt that the marriage will not work 4months into it. I'm going through the most right now and have been planning on leaving for quite some time now. I'm emotionally & mentally out of the marriage. having the worst 9month s of marriage

@phindileyendeauthor

Ай бұрын

@@sheronsnethembancube2693God will indeed carry you through.

@servantofgod4311

Ай бұрын

​@@martinamakgeta9467imagine, 9mnths in 😮Askisi chomi may God give you wisdom and strength

Urhhhh!!!! Phindile you provoked me, we need to write a book about ones self but we are scared, culturally afraid, and not used to openly allowed to talk about your marriages issues. Yhooooo!!!!! Sis Phindile 😭😭😭😭 how do we meet its for the 1st time watching this video.

@phindileyendeauthor

21 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤

Powerful

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Thank you 😊 🙏

Nice pink shoes....still sorry about ur experience

@TheTeaWorld

26 күн бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏

@phindileyendeauthor

21 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

Omg are we talking about my ex husband 😂I’m glad I left early.. one year within marriage with no kids focusing on my career 🙏🏽❤️

@TheTeaWorld

5 күн бұрын

Yooh 💔

To be honest marriages of our generation are failing because we are starting a marriage on a wrong foot. We get married without pre-marital counselling, all we want is a married tittle. If the couple involve their pastors such mess would hardly be there

@TheTeaWorld

9 күн бұрын

Very true 💔

My parents even said to me, when He hit me and I went home, driving our car, because we were far from home. Mama said: *Dont come to us come report SB driving his car* *Lihlazo eli* go home quickly dont ever come here to do this embarrassment again. And it was killing me this thing.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Tjooo💔💔💔😭😭😭so sorry

@phindileyendeauthor

21 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry 🥺

What about the marriage that was officiated by an *Umfundisi* signed together, but left somebody crying behind the scene, about him not marrying her??? *Its all lies*

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

🫂🫂❤️❤️❤️

Podcast turning into a therapy session

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏

@martinamakgeta9467

Ай бұрын

RIGHT

@khethiwemethula4977

Ай бұрын

Neh....bringing one to self, there's so much comfort in realising that one is not alone. There's hope that we will win

Tjoo sis vele dats how narcissist behave

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

💔💔

15:02 that bathong 😅😅😅

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Shocked beyond measure 😂

Phindi o tshwana le Imani wa ko Muvhango🥰

@TheTeaWorld

28 күн бұрын

Yes and too much ka this hairstyle

Qeen Rammy please how can i Phundiles books? I need them urgently

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

She will definitely respond @Phindile_yende

❤

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

❤️❤️

Queen onyaka onkge moroto😂😂😂

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Like I was shocked 😲 😂😂😂

I like vibe ladies 👌👌

@phindileyendeauthor

Ай бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

Same same

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

❤️

👌👌👌❤❤

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏

She has a beautiful voice

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

She does, check out her own KZread Channel ❤👌

@MrsD_2022

Ай бұрын

@TheTeaWorld what is the name of her utube channel?

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Phindile yende

@MrsD_2022

Ай бұрын

@@TheTeaWorld Thank you.

@phindileyendeauthor

21 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

How do I get the book

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

@phindile_yende

@phindileyendeauthor

Ай бұрын

It’s available from exclusive books, bargain books and Takealot.

😂😂😂😂😂🙈🙊🙉 not o nkga sesepa 😅.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 He really wasn't nice to her💔

Ngame ke ng?

@sebolelomashabela3512

Ай бұрын

Stingy

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Thank you sebo

@itumelengjennifer7523

Ай бұрын

Someone who is stingy

@spm9130

Ай бұрын

A miser 😮

Triggered

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

😂😂😂😂

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Ngame is a stingy person

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Yes.

❤

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️