EP 26: Recovering People Pleaser ft. Tripp Fontane

Samia is closing out Men’s Mental Health Month with Tripp Fontane author, poet, SpaceMaker. Join them as they dive into the depths of therapy as Tripp shares how it transformed his life, while Samia opens up about the impact of Tripp's Tedx Talk. From polyamory and relationship insights to being intentional while getting high, this episode is packed with eye-opening advice.
Other topics you can expect to hear are:
(3:47) Samia and Tripp discuss having to ask for the things they want
(9:09) Men’s sexuality questioned because they aren't interested in someone
(17:43) Samia shares how Tripp’s Tedx Talk made her feel
(24:53) How has therapy changed Tripp’s life
(33:11) When did Tripp finally become proud of himself?
(42:38) Tripp gives advice he thinks every woman should hear
(49:47) Tripp and Samia talk about ethical non monogamy and polyamory
(1:01:30) Tripp provides advice for men people pleasers
(1:07:16) You should be more intentional with your h*gh
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  • @KinkyTantrikTemptress
    @KinkyTantrikTemptress Жыл бұрын

    I like the concept of not making decisions the same day. I just told someone to "let me get back to you" vs "sure". And after just 10 minutes of thinking about it further, I'd rather not. I'm going to continue to let it marinate, but it feels good knowing whatever I decide to do will be what I truly want to do vs. people pleasing. Great episode! 👏🏾

  • @michaelcooper6953

    @michaelcooper6953

    Ай бұрын

    That is true wisdom! 👍🏾

  • @metcalfethegod
    @metcalfethegod11 ай бұрын

    I saw Tripp and I clicked instantly. That brother be dropping heavy gems and I be grateful to hear his introspective point of views. Great episode right here!!!

  • @freshdesign2026

    @freshdesign2026

    9 ай бұрын

    me too!

  • @ang3101

    @ang3101

    6 ай бұрын

    All facts 💯

  • @toppf294

    @toppf294

    4 ай бұрын

    Likewise, dude, don't miss 🎯💪🏿💯‼️

  • @thewealthbuildingplatform555

    @thewealthbuildingplatform555

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too!

  • @tricetrice2096

    @tricetrice2096

    Ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @kelvinasalters9500
    @kelvinasalters95009 ай бұрын

    God damn Tripp is so attractive and its not even in a physical type of way.

  • @sherahisrael1837

    @sherahisrael1837

    6 ай бұрын

    I say the same thing ! It’s the intellect for me. This man is smart.

  • @iAmaze87

    @iAmaze87

    2 ай бұрын

    He’s so cool calm collective and cute

  • @shaymonique192
    @shaymonique1927 ай бұрын

    JUST BECAUSE YOUR ATTRACTIVE DOESN'T MEAN IM ATTRACTIVED

  • @MarissaontheMAP
    @MarissaontheMAP Жыл бұрын

    “When you don’t ask for a lot, you don’t receive a lot” … automatic subscribe! I needed that 🙌🏽

  • @NikkiaSings

    @NikkiaSings

    6 ай бұрын

    Same 🗣️💯🗣️

  • @msqueenlyminded7579
    @msqueenlyminded75793 ай бұрын

    This lady spoke so much I couldn’t really enjoy the conversation because the guest couldn’t contribute much. Allow your guest to shine

  • @firesign4297

    @firesign4297

    Ай бұрын

    I always say...if you know EVERYTHING...🤕🤕🤕.You don't NEED A guest😔

  • @firesign4297

    @firesign4297

    Ай бұрын

    Two Ears ONE Mouth =LISTEN More.✌🏿

  • @sinverrette9803
    @sinverrette98038 ай бұрын

    Love me some Tripp... never knew he was non-monogamous...

  • @jessicagrooms2198
    @jessicagrooms2198 Жыл бұрын

    Podcast was good, but I felt like she should’ve let Tripp talk more.

  • @elizamoore4535

    @elizamoore4535

    4 ай бұрын

    For real

  • @vulturemode3464

    @vulturemode3464

    3 ай бұрын

    He’s a man that’s quick to listen and slow to speak that’s all.

  • @Rootstroubador
    @Rootstroubador6 ай бұрын

    First 20 mins of this interview 2 mins Tripp, 18 Samia. Would like to hear from the brotha more.

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina65447 ай бұрын

    ❤ I love a man that is real with himself and others

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297Ай бұрын

    He needs his OWN Podcast...If He Does NOT Already..... HE!!! ✊🏿 Already Has SOOOOO Many Followers.

  • @chocolatedreamdoll8444
    @chocolatedreamdoll844410 ай бұрын

    Great episode! Tripp is absolutely fantastic. What a wonderful man. Samia what I've been noticing while getting into your content is you tend to over ask questions. Your questions are great but you always add your perspective or why you're asking what you're asking and you don't need to do that. Especially since sharing your perspective can persuade the person's response. I'm sure that never happened with Tripp. But I think you should just ask a question and stop right there and let the person answer.

  • @carlo.notcarlos
    @carlo.notcarlos6 ай бұрын

    "No one is entitled to listen to how u feel, that's a courtesy" "A lot of men do a lot of emotional labor that goes overlooked"

  • @brandimonique5632
    @brandimonique56326 ай бұрын

    "Rest isn't something I have to earn."

  • @user-hk5lc2tw1j
    @user-hk5lc2tw1jАй бұрын

    THIS MAN !!

  • @KinkyTantrikTemptress
    @KinkyTantrikTemptress Жыл бұрын

    I just purchased his book two days ago!! Wow! Your guest are always so aligned with my journey. I love this podcast & Sexual Essentials!!! I know it's not at all about me; it just feels like a personal gift to me every time I receive a notification.

  • @levialtidore4482

    @levialtidore4482

    7 ай бұрын

    Where did you buy this book?

  • @aquafina6544

    @aquafina6544

    7 ай бұрын

    Where did you purchase the book

  • @Shawn27ful
    @Shawn27ful9 ай бұрын

    Great interview… Tripp is a wise man!

  • @toniemontgomery2458
    @toniemontgomery245811 ай бұрын

    This episode was really enlightening. I follow Tripp and this is probably the most insightful I have experienced him.

  • @user-sz1or3or1o
    @user-sz1or3or1oАй бұрын

    This guy Tripp always dropping gems 💎

  • @tsmooVe2831
    @tsmooVe2831 Жыл бұрын

    I think 80-90% of time when a person has to think about it, the answer is no.

  • @paulking8928
    @paulking892811 ай бұрын

    Loved this episode and Samia was looking so lovely per usual. I find it important to mention that in regards the comment about not expecting your male partner to take on your emotions. Although it's notable, people that have empathy can and often will emotionally mirror your feelings out of concern for you. And one should look for that if empathy is important in your connections.

  • @holygirl001
    @holygirl001 Жыл бұрын

    This is a beautiful man. Physically for certain 😏 but his mind and emotional intelligence. My goodness. His lady is lucky.

  • @skylar6818

    @skylar6818

    Ай бұрын

    So tripp has 1 woman but sleeps with multiple people..ok can't understand life anymore

  • @angelaedwards-fn8qx
    @angelaedwards-fn8qx Жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this episode. Great points! Loved the authenticity , chill factor, laughter, and swag! I can relate to all of it!

  • @latishayork6647
    @latishayork6647 Жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this so much. It’s so nice to get a male perspective on things. Thanks for the knowledge

  • @BrittIzLegit
    @BrittIzLegit5 ай бұрын

    I love him. He always had something solid to say!

  • @Queen42890
    @Queen42890 Жыл бұрын

    Great episode babe!! Really love how you walk and live in your truth, very admirable 🫶🏽

  • @angiebae8125
    @angiebae81259 ай бұрын

    first watch of this channel love it already having the guest you do plan on watching more

  • @samanthagibbons931
    @samanthagibbons931 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful discussion 👏🏽! Made my week..I needed this!

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 Жыл бұрын

    I been getting on the Tripp wave so it’s ironic he popped up on your podcast w/ me also being on a Samia wave . So many gems dropped and love the collab and will deff look into his book . Hope y’all do a BTS or something for it to give a visual

  • @PrincessOfATL
    @PrincessOfATL16 күн бұрын

    She did however, I enjoyed her story. I take anything I can learn from. ❤❤❤

  • @Atira8176
    @Atira8176 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this discussion ❤

  • @carlo.notcarlos
    @carlo.notcarlos6 ай бұрын

    Great episode, & great insight!

  • @traitsofagem
    @traitsofagem Жыл бұрын

    I watch the show out of order and each episode provides me what I need at that time ❤️ you chose the PERFECT title for this podcast.

  • @marishialopez5013
    @marishialopez5013 Жыл бұрын

    This was a beautiful conversation

  • @justsayit476
    @justsayit4762 ай бұрын

    Please can you allow your guests to speak. I love to hear Tripp speak and was excited to hear him speak at length. Im afraid I gave up with the interview. I mean no disrespect, just feedback

  • @Chanelly_king
    @Chanelly_king Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️

  • @tonimarie2991
    @tonimarie2991 Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely enjoyed this episode ! Gotta love our BLACK men and the way they think and articulate themselves is a beautiful thing to hear ! Also Heavy on the depth being necessary and a focus in every space. But salute and thank you both for providing depth, perspective and all around enlightenment on the things that should be normalized from therapy, to boundaries, self discipline and overall communication. Okayy because don’t let a Robber 😂 bring any negativity your way or cause you to minimize the self work being done (the “you’re a robber” comment still has me weak) !

  • @sonnyqsoul
    @sonnyqsoul Жыл бұрын

    Cheating is unethical non monogamy. Many see any form of non-monogamy as being the same. So "ethical" is added to differentiate.

  • @elizamoore4535

    @elizamoore4535

    4 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @amirahtatianna
    @amirahtatianna Жыл бұрын

    Such beautiful spirits ❤

  • @StephanieS513
    @StephanieS5136 ай бұрын

    I love Tripp on “tonight’s conversation” he’s comes off super deep but I’m finding that when he’s in a conversation with someone who’s truly intellectual, he comes off as a little insecure and not really saying anything. It’s super interesting.

  • @dayjahomara

    @dayjahomara

    5 ай бұрын

    He’s just a calm spirit. He doesn’t try to hard.

  • @johna4433
    @johna44336 ай бұрын

    “You’re a robber”🤣🤣🤣 had me crying

  • @Saxology219
    @Saxology2199 ай бұрын

    Tripp seem like he HIGH!🤣🤣🤣

  • @gloriaray3084
    @gloriaray30848 ай бұрын

    They talking really DEEP soulful Life STUFF

  • @dairtezescott7383
    @dairtezescott73834 ай бұрын

    I think Tripp thinks Kevin Samuels shitted on women only and that's not true. This shows he didn't consume his content. This man is a tiger for those who watched Kevin's content knows what that means. And that's why his take on relationships is fluid. His by no means dumb but I do think he operates in slight ignorance considering his opinions are tied directly to his ability to not be attached to anything like the concept of love or leading a person let alone a society because he doesn't attach himself to societal standards and norms. Hence....fluid. Main objective is survival and self- preservation. He'd rather not take on the responsibility which is why interdependency is the term he used.

  • @moneytrainzae1156
    @moneytrainzae11565 ай бұрын

    You was supposed to ask him if you was a good listener.

  • @remnant7639
    @remnant76399 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry but, the host talked more than the guest, my goodness! I had to fast forward, and every time I did, she was still talking...smh.

  • @marisastubbs8021

    @marisastubbs8021

    8 ай бұрын

    Felt the exact same way. Whew.

  • @cookiethomas8069

    @cookiethomas8069

    6 ай бұрын

    I had to fast forward to..

  • @jhale87
    @jhale87 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @global1success
    @global1success6 ай бұрын

    This reminds me of UNITY, by Queen Latifa, "who you calling a B****" when women dont give men play, so yeah it goes for both genders not just females, females get called all kinds of names

  • @jordanmorrison209
    @jordanmorrison209 Жыл бұрын

    You should of kept this one going. Good conversation as always

  • @erykahjones2361
    @erykahjones2361Ай бұрын

    What does Tripp mean by he's " Fluid " ??

  • @slatt9402

    @slatt9402

    18 күн бұрын

    probably means he doesn’t try too hard to control things. Lets things take their own form. Doesn’t conform to what’s been laid out for us.

  • @kinique
    @kinique Жыл бұрын

    Columbus own. ❤️ yea Trip 😍

  • @rtj2397

    @rtj2397

    10 ай бұрын

    Oh wow, I didn’t know he was from Ohio

  • @kinique

    @kinique

    10 ай бұрын

    @@rtj2397 yes, super dope!

  • @cookiethomas8069
    @cookiethomas80696 ай бұрын

    She talked too much.. More than Tripp.. OMG

  • @yo-cn4gk
    @yo-cn4gk Жыл бұрын

    Rubbed one out to manifest! ase lol

  • @maa7332
    @maa73327 ай бұрын

    Avoid her