This really touched my heart, I’m about to start crying at work. I’m in nursing school & working overnight aiming for a soft life but I swear it’s so hard sometimes

@_Tree

Жыл бұрын

Hang in there Ms. Lady!!! You and every woman deserve it ❤️❤️❤️

Samia has a really great voice.

Lex always giving the looks 😩😍 I watched Drea lips the entire time 😂😍 and Samia’s voice is soothing asf 🥰

If you think you’re a 10 you’re a 10. Most people don’t know what pretty looks like until someone else they think is in a higher rank in society tells them. No one thought big buts was pretty mainstream until celebs started making it pretty. You are pretty sis, people are just followers

@oladeebiazazi4538

Жыл бұрын

I get what ur saying but u don’t think a 4 is ugly universally

@kayswiss

Жыл бұрын

@@oladeebiazazi4538 I don’t see ppl as number and honestly everyone looks regular unless they take the time to dress up. I just don’t prescribe to that type of thinking because it’s not conducive for anyone and causes more harm than not

I'm going through a transition in my life and to have stumbled across your podcast is a blessing in disguise, Thank you Samia for the beautiful and well thought content ❤

The collab I’ve been waiting on!! Love you all🫶🏾

All my favorites 😍 love the colab with pour minds 🍾🥂

This episode was everything! Salute to all you ladies having your best way in life❤

All my favorite podcast in one episode. Love the talk. I could hear samia voice all day so soothing and my pour mind girls always bomb

This should be a good one!! I love listening to Pour Minds and Samia is cool as hell💯💯💯💯

Both my favorite podcast hosts with another phenomenal collab! Thanks Samia, I’m loving the content… KEEP GOING BABES! 💙💎

Wow!! Beautiful episode ! I wanted it to never end. That hour felt like 30 mins. Every point WAS MADE! I love my pour girls and I love the organization and intentions of this podcast and I’m subscribing!!

I absolutely loved this episode! I loved hearing everyone’s points of view, especially on the topic of body positivity. Thank you for this! ❤

Love you ladies. All tree of y’all are beautiful and divine. Amazing conversation!

Another great episode!! The energy was everything....

Perfect collaboration ❤❤

This is gonna be great! ❤

Love this conversation! Imma fan

LOVE THIS! I just had Weight Loss Surgery and this was definitely a part of my soft life! This episode for surely HIT HOME! I LOVE WORKING AND I FEEL LIKE WORKING THE SOFT LIFE IS A JOY! BTW I lost 90 lbs naturally BUT LIKE ME GWORLS SAID I GOT ON THE TABLE!

My girls!! Love this conversation 💜

pour girls brought me here and 2 mins in i can already tell im gonna stay

My faves!!!

great episode!!! i need a pt :2

16:23 HIIIITTTTTT me ! When she said : “you’re not even soft w/ yourself” , I was readddddd! & I love that post that was read in the beginning. I’ll have to find that and do a journal entry on that.

Always a great pod…But this episode we needed! Being transparent about whatever work we did whether it’s hun or surgery is paramount in an age where social media dictates what is considered beautiful to the younger generations. Now if we could get some of these female fitness influencers to admit to steroid use then we might actually breakthrough the facade.

Such a great episode. RIP to Jacky, I already see the "love yourself ladies" posts to women getting surgery which is STUPID. just because you decide to get surgery does not correlate with how much you love yourself, it can but its not always. This was a great discussion, also love pour minds!

@NYC559LEXI

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you and will add that loving yourself can also mean not drinking alcohol regularly eating a bunch of shrimp and steak dinners, not getting enough sleep etc... the domino effect of loving your body and working out does wonders for the love yourself movement... no knives needed.

I appreciate this so much 💖💖💖🏆🏆🏆🌹🌹🌹

My thing with surgery is you don’t have to tell the world what you have done. People get surgery and think they have to announce to the world

Love you ladies😘

Love this podcast from Bangladesh.⭐

“I didn’t do nothing but get lip fillers and Botox” that’s STUFF to your face Wtf 😂😂😂😂😂

@chunk5214

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@LindseyShields88

Жыл бұрын

She’s speaking in the context of getting something surgically done to alter her face.

@BK-tj4fw

Жыл бұрын

@@LindseyShields88 fillers and Botox alter your face.

@LindseyShields88

Жыл бұрын

@@BK-tj4fw again she was speaking in the context of surgery. Botox and fillers aren’t surgical procedures.

@BK-tj4fw

Жыл бұрын

@@LindseyShields88 She said “stuff” & in my opinion putting stuff into your face definitely counts. You can disagree. But I’m not going back & forth about my comment about stranger, with a stranger.

Congratulations 🎉

I'm a new fan ...

I ask ppl “what type of listener do u want me to be”

also drea has the perfect blush for her skin- drea fan club whats uppp and love lex p duhhhh she fioneee

I used to work with this woman who one would perceive to be “not pretty” but to me she was a beautiful sexy foxy lady every room she walked in to she shined! and she always dressed and smelled good and she had pull from the young and old. I think it’s how you present yourself at the end of it all 🤷🏽‍♀️

i love to look at this channel could be interesting

Body positivity till homie pull-up with the three inch Killa 😂

This will be a good one. I just hate the fact that so many women are getting these surgeries to please a man! Do what makes you happy for YOU! Do it for you please! Became at the end of the day, it's your body and you have to live with it, be happy with. Tucked or not!

There is a pervasive message in media that promotes the idea that being thin, slim, or slender is the only acceptable appearance. However, if we are honest, we know this is different from the reality for most people. While it is great to strive for self-improvement, I advocate for this; it is admirable; however, it is important to avoid unrealistic beauty standards set by society. If someone wants to lose weight for health reasons or to feel good about themselves, that is fine. However, if the motivation is solely to conform to societal expectations, this can lead to a wavering self-image. It is essential to recognize the difference between personal goals and external pressures.

@lewlootpack4459

Жыл бұрын

It would be brave to frame that conversation in media that promotes lighter skinned "us" over all shades of "us"

Saying “and I’ll do it again” to getting a type of surgery that is not only unnecessary or a “need “ but have such high mortality rates, while also saying “we only have one life and you need to do what makes you happy” is so dangerous. Why? Because can we do what makes us SAFE? Can the conversation about these surgeries be more serious. Are we forgetting that surgery is no joking matter?

@Dopeee3

Жыл бұрын

if she got it done the first time 10/10 she signed documentation at the actual doctors stating the possible outcomes of getting surgery.... we grown. & plus these ladies arent doctors they're job isn't to educate on surgeries, they just sharing their experience. if they wanted to be the teachers of surgeries, I'm pretty sure they would incorporate that into their platform but they dont. its not their responsibility to educate people on surgery. do you expect to hear nicki minaj cardi b or any rapper going out of their way to educate people about it? no lol instead they make bars about it. (jokes as well.)

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My husband's bday is 4/21! My ex is a May Taurus the difference. let me just say the April Taurus is definitely better😂😂😂

Lex saying soft life originates from Nigeria is sending me. iykyk

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this will be the only time I say a dissatisfying comment because this pod is needed and entertaining but all this being proud of the ugly process that it takes for progress and feeling GREAT because you can stand on principle and self worth because you have earned your OWN coin... Why is it that the same can't be said for your BODY goals? If we can constantly build our insides to project a better future why can't you see that the strength focus and persistence of physical routine will lead to a better life overall?

I believe that if you’re asking me for advice you do just invite someone into your business. Of course be respectful but nobody is going to control my response

To be honest i say im a 8 cause i can turn to a 4 but ive been called beautiful many times but a lot of people made me feel ugly also. So i feel like to be comfortable in skin and feel confident i have to be cocky or imma feel worthless and worry about how people see me. So when people tell me im gorgeous sometimes i reply " i know😋"

Wish I watched this before the news of Jacky broke....

I just don’t feel right when I hear someone talk down about themselves in any capacity even though it’s perceived to be normal. I truly think that that there is something beautiful about everyone whether it’s external or internal. And cause people take things too far. There’s a KZread channel dedicated to “ugly people” and they “own it” that’s the most bizarre thing I’ve heard or seen. That’s not empowerment.

kandi from the housewives should be on the show

Like #800 I don’t like odd numbers 😊

It's not possible to be a society of body positivity when half the society is risking death to change what they look like. These last 20yrs have been some of the least body positive times.

super confident Ladies I love that But I definitely don’t think marriage is in the future for them

@xALEESIAx

Жыл бұрын

okay and…

I can’t tell if Drea is getting chemical peels or bleaching but my goodness

@bri8639

Жыл бұрын

she said she’s been getting chemical peels, I don’t see anything wrong 🤨

@bri8639

Жыл бұрын

and a face that’s been bleached and that’s had a chemical peel are two diff looks

@DreaAndLex

Жыл бұрын

@@bri8639I had just got a chemical peel, and thank you for clarifying that ❤️ you know they love to reach in these comments

If she don't get off this phone

@ladytiffany2515

Жыл бұрын

😂 she was sooo rudee

@chunk5214

Жыл бұрын

Yea I thought that was disrespectful

@GabrielleMonteg

Жыл бұрын

Who? I skipped through the video and don’t see nobody on they phone lol

@chunk5214

Жыл бұрын

@Gabrielle.lex p kept getting on her phone

Now, hold up. I’m only 13 minutes in, & yall are already speaking about how someone else is rating themselves, & if they rate themselves a 10, it gives you the right to think they are not. Let’s break this down, because this is where y’all females get this sh*t twisted. First of all, we live in a world where you are told you have to look a certain way in order to be considered beautiful. Let’s start there. There are people in this world who have been affected by things like this & already look at themselves like they ain’t sh*t because the world told them they weren’t. It doesn’t mean that those people have to believe what other insecure people say or what they deem to be the beauty standard. But what I won’t do is agree with people who think their words are facts when speaking about someone else’s appearance or what number they rate themselves. Y’all are the same females that would rate yourself a 10, but all of a sudden, if someone else that "YOU" think isn’t a 10, does that make it true? NO. The point is, what makes you think you are a 10? What gives you the right to speak about someone else who chooses to feel good about themselves & tear them down even more when they decide to do that? How is this women’s empowerment, but y’all over here thinking you can call somebody else a lower number but give yourself a 10? Everybody isn’t cute to somebody, & just because you think that person isn’t a 10 doesn’t mean it’s true. So again, what makes y’all a 10? Let’s really talk about it fr. I get so tired of women doing this sh*t & wonder why there are no real connections when it comes to female friendships. Y’all be low key thinking you look better than them, & you can’t tell me any different. It’s okay for a person to praise themselves because your opinion doesn’t matter. A 10 to you may be a 5 to someone else, & vice versa. It’s not about how somebody looks a certain way. Everyone has their own preferences for what they consider fine in their eyes. You can have your opinion, but don’t push it as if the person isn’t a 10 because you said so, & by that, you think what you are saying are facts. None of y’all are 10's, let’s be real. Y’all think that just because you got surgery & got those fix a flat 🍑 done that it makes you look better than you did before, so therefore you consider yourself a 10. Y’all sound like the red pill content when men try to go in on people's looks when they ask people how they would rate themselves. Y’all pick & choose who y’all think is fine, & then throw the ones that you don’t think are fine to the lower spectrum. Stop talking about stuff like this if you can’t speak on it & not pass it off as facts. Y’all have no problem calling Beyoncé a 10, but someone else said that she was a 7. If y’all heard that come out of somebody's mouth, y’all would look at them crazy in pure 🤢 because, in your eyes, she’s a 10. Let’s rate y’all natural looks before all the enhancements & see if you still call yourself a 10. You most likely would, & that’s the point. People are allowed to feel good about themselves, & what you think isn’t fine doesn’t mean it’s not fine to somebody else. Humble yourself. It’s always the below-average humans that think that just because they got some work done, they have a right to speak on somebody else's appearance. I’ve been around people that watch Draya & Lex, & they said that y’all were a solid 7. Does that make it true? If the answer is no, then stop speaking negatively about others who decide to love themselves at their full capacity. What y’all need to be doing is worrying about the next table you’ll get on next to fix what you don’t like about yourself, Ms. I’m a 10. Chile bye! Value doesn’t come with looks. Y’all sound superficial like fr.

Gotta post the scriptures.. just so you sisters can compare ur conflicting thoughts to The Most Highs wisdom. No shade.. all love 🙏🏿

If i gotta tell them then i dont want them in my life and their actions will cause them to remove theyself because i aint got the energy to be playing ticket master just to perform

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Ecclesiasticus 26:7-9 7 👉🏾A bad wife is like a yoke that doesn't fit. Trying to control her is like holding a scorpion. 👈🏾 8 👉🏾A drunken woman is an infuriating sight; she can't conceal her shameless behavior. 👈🏾 9 You can tell an unfaithful wife by the bold and flirting look in her eyes. None of these women are wives, so this is for the wives who are watching this.. y’all don’t read anything that isn’t written by BW or white scholars.. so if u do read this, I salute you 🫡

are these the same women from pour minds

@dezareemiller971

Жыл бұрын

Yes

Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, 👉🏾lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.”👈🏾 Women who are in agreement with these podcasts, have too much liberty.. and they destroy themselves as a result ❤

I hate temperatures checking

who does her son look like

not you tryna hide the phone. disrespectful for REAL

Why would it be body positivity for the surgery girls y'all cheating 😂

@acceptinglife6491

Жыл бұрын

😂

I honestly dont care if u have... im more concered with that gotdamn houston LaLa cuz she been checkin for years and is still in his gotdamn promos stories and mf pickets like her career aint took off yet. You i didnt even know had a connection till u told me.

1 Timothy 2:12 “But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.” They didn’t usurp authority over a man in this video.. they’re not attempting to teach righteous principles.. but still a profound scripture

@xALEESIAx

Жыл бұрын

seek help

try hards lol

Really liked and appreciated this episode. 👑🩷🙏🏾