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@yibanathizenande8668

5 ай бұрын

I am not sure if because you are a man bhuti or what's going on, but I am not satisfied with this interview. You did Ntando dirty. Fist of all she did not say She paid Lobola for this guy but she said She paid Lobola for herself. Secondly before all your questions you say "Ntando said this, what do you say" then this guy answers, its like you called him to defend himself. You were supposed to ask him the same questions you asked Ntando about his side of events and not have him to respond on what Ntando said.

@user-oz4ex1tc3u

5 ай бұрын

Ntando volunteered information to ST & Owami. Lobhuti didn’t volunteer, so he must answer on Ntando’ claims. ST didn’t do anything wrong

@yibanathizenande8668

5 ай бұрын

He did not do anything wrong when he could not even comment on the Gender-based violence this guy justified in front of him? Please @@user-oz4ex1tc3u

@yibanathizenande8668

4 ай бұрын

Even keeping quiet when this man was busy talking about Gender-based violence? does it mean he condones it because he did not say a single comment about it when this man was going all about him beating up Ntando @@user-oz4ex1tc3u

@simie9038

4 ай бұрын

Ppl r in their feelings cause they were expecting a monster after hearing one sided story.....this guy may have faults but so is usisi. I dont think we know the whole truth...nosisi naye unama personalities amaningi. Aba divorce in peace and go their seperate ways....

Im standing with Ntando i know scammers like him

@abongilelele9615

5 ай бұрын

Sesamanyani mntase limencu eli yeka imali zomnye tyini bawo

@LazolaKayise-vm8cs

Ай бұрын

I am standing with Ntando. Mxm uyaxoka lona

@elisahkbanlondo3448

Ай бұрын

😅guys

I’ve dated a guy who was this calm and humble infront of people… and a monster behind curtains.. yey becareful

@vincentsfundo7

5 ай бұрын

Ngoba niya a provoka abafana abalungile masebeveza their dominance side kuni you paint them black kanti it takes two to tangle. Akakho umuntu who initiate any nxabano ungathasisanga nto nawe

@sparrow62210

5 ай бұрын

I concur, my ex husband was exactly like this, very calm but he was a monster who abused me emotionally and financially.Luckily got rid of the liability 😅

@proudlysa774

5 ай бұрын

My younger brother is like this guy but the level of abuse at home😢 He is toxic, a liar and what not and people believe him because kuthiwa uyathula

@proudlysa774

5 ай бұрын

@@vincentsfundo7 that's not the case, no one provoked him, ngabe uyabuza Danko

@vincentsfundo7

5 ай бұрын

@@proudlysa774 so kune output engenza input?

NTANDO WE BELIEVE YOU SIS💯💯💯💯💯❤

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

4 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏❤

@nomdakazana09

4 ай бұрын

@@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329and we loooove you so much🥹🥹🫂🫂 we are standing with you always❤️ #narcissistsmustfall🤟🏾

@zinhlencane6189

2 ай бұрын

​@@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 ❤

@CiloAnele

Ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯

@LazolaKayise-vm8cs

Ай бұрын

Nam ndime noNtando. Amen

Hands off ezimalini Zika ntando hambo funa umsebenzi njengamanye amadoda wondle izingane zakho

@MongameliTshekula

5 ай бұрын

Uyasebenza ubhuti cc

@nomvelisobovu8255

5 ай бұрын

Ayininzanga nale maliyepension it's less than a year. Ntando doesn't want to let go of Sibulele

@enatimfo638

5 ай бұрын

​@@nomvelisobovu8255njani less than a year? Ayominyaka na untando ephangela?

@user-uq2bm6yy6l

4 ай бұрын

You are projecting your life la. Ntando ilabosisi abafuna ukuba perfect enkonzweni

@zamasomimsomi-dunga554

4 ай бұрын

Yiphi bakithi imalini ipension ka12 months?

He's lying with confidence and he's so calm . at first he spoke as if he was driving his own car for hacking but now the car is Ntandos. Ladies becareful this lying men are out to milk us

Once a man lifts his hand on a woman all respect goes out the window, he's as good as an animal.

@mildredbitterbos258

22 күн бұрын

😊😊😊

This guy is manipulating the facts and he knows it. He is lying 1. He didn't lobola he doesnt consider her his wife, but her money served him as a wife. 2. The answer to what led to the divorce is I hit her because she was cheating. They met in 2011, and he says she have cheated in 2011 how could that would have led to him wanting her pension in 2023. 3. He doesn't work, he doesnt look after her in any way except that she must do things for him with her money. She was taking care of all of them with her money. 4.Suddenly, there is a 2 year old that wasn't made in the marriage, just born in the marriage, but Ntando is the crazy person. He left a pregnant woman to get married for Ntandos money that he doesn't think she is his wife. He is a toxic person. 5. He went back to his baby mama because she said something when she was angry. He hadn't divorced his wife, but somehow, in his mind, he was ok to go back to baby mama He was only in it for money, I'm sure there are many things Ntando said that are exaggerated, but this guy unamanga. Even the nyanga situation he says it was her going to nyanga and he didn't always go but he know for sure that she wasnt cut by his nyanga that he called to discussed his wifes genitals with😅 angazi guys.

@LazolaKayise-vm8cs

Ай бұрын

Thank you for your discernment. Akasazenzi umntu Sies !

@ginsu_pd

Ай бұрын

absolutely just insane

@SurprisedEucalyptusTree-jk2sd

Ай бұрын

We know guys like him

This guy is Offish i swear . Ikhona into eOFF OFF mani Lobola story ia not adding up which parent doesn't want lobola Reverse psychology This guy came prepared for uzoxoka

Ntando said she paid lobola for herself. She did not say he paid lobola for the man.

@user-os1jk3dz8u

5 ай бұрын

Exactly and she didn't say they have kids together

@leratoolifant1988

5 ай бұрын

True

@user-os1jk3dz8u

5 ай бұрын

Interviewer did her dirty

@yibanathizenande8668

5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this comment.

@thandekamgijima1871

5 ай бұрын

If kodwa I am saying I pay lobola for my self that means the will be negotiations done, kulo umtshato zazingekho so uyibhatele kuphi

Ntando never said she paid lobola for this guy. She gave the guy money to lobola her. Menemene lobhuti uyambona. Abusers will always accuse you of cheating just to justify their actions.

@mjiyakhosamukelisiwe7623

2 ай бұрын

Lie number 1

@nelzg5819

Ай бұрын

He lied from the intro

@raymondsimon8394

Ай бұрын

Ntando said she gave the money to a "dodgy uncle" - red flag. No evidence.

Awa bhuti we are not kids lhe, yes if you're married in community of property you are entitled to her pension fund HOWEVER, if you don't want it the court will never force you!

@lungelolamula7075

5 ай бұрын

Exactly! Worse when you didn't contribute R5.

@kamaveetv9457

5 ай бұрын

In community of property is out of fashion they are too young and smart to do it, the good one for these day is ANC(antiniptical contract)🙏🙏

@LM-he7eb

Ай бұрын

He must think people are uneducated & inexperienced like him. I know a business man who was married to a nurse, he opted out of taking half of her pension fund.

@nelzg5819

Ай бұрын

He is a psycho this one. The lies. Pathological liar

@nontobekobiyela2548

Ай бұрын

Imagine lying to the entire country about divorce procedure 😂 omg. He also lies about loyola he twists the term athi it's not him owaye lotsholwa instead of the truth that she paid lobola on his behalf. So he capitalises on wording. This is called word salad and it's a favorite trick of manipulators and narcissists

he came prepared in this podcast to spit lies yhoo😮 i dont believe him ngisho angaba calm😢

@ameliasmommyshazi7585

5 ай бұрын

Nam cc

@ntombikayisewendy9287

5 ай бұрын

Exactly

@Brenda-qg3eb

2 ай бұрын

Unamanga vele lo sathan

@alettaphalatsi477

Ай бұрын

be scared of these type, calm and collected, monsters in hiding

@user-vx8bq5rx2i

Ай бұрын

Inamanga lenja lena

Toxic people are always calm in most cases and they look so believable......

@user-ho1eh5xx8n

5 ай бұрын

Louder

@phumlantozini7146

5 ай бұрын

Exactly

@ndagebs6092

5 ай бұрын

So you want him to be like you women?

@Lusandav

5 ай бұрын

That’s true

@Lusandav

5 ай бұрын

Yhooo uyaxoka lobhuti ukhona Umzali ongafuni ulobola uyaxoka lo

A cheating man always accuses his woman of cheating 🤣🤣🤣🤣 eyi lobhuti

@sbongilemakhuvele4938

Ай бұрын

if a woman is cheacying leave the woman with her things, her cheating?

@yolandambotshwa1173

Ай бұрын

This one is a liar 🤥 Maan yoooh 😮

@londiweshongwe4573

8 күн бұрын

true

I don’t know what to believe but the joint meeting can give us more gist

@SandieMafongosie-co9xx

5 ай бұрын

Yes we need joint meeting

@user-ox7jb2rn1d

5 ай бұрын

Yes I agree shme

@ndagebs6092

5 ай бұрын

Only Sicelo who is talking facts

@elizabethmahlangu4680

5 ай бұрын

That's not a good idea

@dipuomangope8424

5 ай бұрын

I'm more confused now

This just confirms why the Apostle Paul warns us not to be yoked with unbelievers. I pray they both find grace and healing through Jesus Christ of Nazareth

@LadyTLifeStyleChannel

5 ай бұрын

💯 %

@tonnythando2407

5 ай бұрын

That's true

@user-uq2bm6yy6l

4 ай бұрын

Wrong judgement

@user-rn5hv5ks8c

Ай бұрын

Absolutely, when he mentioned different faiths i knew it was gonna go down quickly.

@khaya1800

Ай бұрын

Abazwalane get desparate for marriage then the next thing they expect to change the person.😢

It's the fact that he justifies domestic violence by "she pushed me to" . Uyaxoka lobhuti you did not beat her once nxaa 😤

I wish successful women could stop dating down, and a man that you need to provide for is just not worth it man..

@sinazomakileni3938

5 ай бұрын

Agree 100%

@luando_88

5 ай бұрын

I agree with you and even the guys must not nabo

@khosiethabekhulu3497

5 ай бұрын

​@@luando_88Hai bo! Ningasoneli😅. It depends on the person u married. It is not everyone who whines about money. If uthole umuntu ongasebenzi, then you must know what is expected. As long as the couple can compliment each other with duties then it works.

@SisLinaM

5 ай бұрын

Ngase ndiku hugge sana because once you date someone who is not in your standard vele nje you will be abused mostly. Wooah

@theanonymoustrader6852

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂...so it's "dating down" now. When are you guys choosing people based on character, their love for God,how they treat you and people in general. You really think the only thing that Ntando did wrong is to date down?😂

Why would Ntando cheat on this mab when she could have just divorced him? Cos hes a loser vele. Mxim. He just wants to defend his abusiveness

This Man is so humble but behind that humbleness kuno buqoki

But she used to post the photos of her and the many children. No guy, this guy is a liar and a very evil person

@siyamthandandaliso4736

Ай бұрын

What's her social media?

The interviewer clearly didn't listen to Nando's story properly, he's asking questions differently to how Ntando told her story

@Thandeka13.

Ай бұрын

Very true he doesn't know much

@asandamtishe8577

Ай бұрын

Exactly he was supposed to watch ntandos interview questions based on that

@tlakimoreki6666

Ай бұрын

He's twisting the story to suit his narrative. Mxm

@nosiphosipungela6152

20 күн бұрын

Very poor articulation

He is lying about the pension part. No one forces you to claim for pension. She must contest it. That voicenote ye baby mama saying he married Ntando for money is clear ukuthi it's true. He must go work nawe just like Ntando and stop hustling women for money

@tlakimoreki6666

Ай бұрын

Blatant lie. He's gunning for that money. He's a blood scammer this one.

This guy by reading his body language his a psychopath period,the justifying part annoys me

@aphililenontamo7672

Ай бұрын

Unesdina nje sewumjongile akanakwanyani andazi yintoni le yabonwa nguSis Ntando kulomntu

First lie, lobola. He is lying. I don’t think Ntando’s father would say that. Also, this man is a narcissist. This “calm” behaviour is an act. There is a voice not of him where he is so rude. I’m shocked that he is humble now. Thabani, you must write down questions and ask, my brother. You can’t always be saying, “Hmm!” Also, you don’t keep quiet when someone is talking about violence be it it’s a woman or a man. Show them that you don’t condone the behaviour.

@kholosamnyande8484

5 ай бұрын

Xoki lomntu yer

@luckyntonzulu5215

5 ай бұрын

So you were part of lobolo delegation.tell us more

@nomdenimofana1647

5 ай бұрын

I agree with you Samkelisiwe

@raymondsimon8394

Ай бұрын

Ntando did say they gave the money to a "dodgy uncle - who blessed their union" go back and listen. I believe the guy

All along he was planning lies lendonda 😮😮😮

@SisLinaM

5 ай бұрын

Nangoku sana

@LazolaKayise-vm8cs

Ай бұрын

Yhoo moyike umntu 😂 rhaaa uphika yonke into hayi mani asingobabantwana.

Udina ngisho umbuka, he is a narcissist his calmness says a lot about him

@keketsonozi1126

3 ай бұрын

My husband exactly 😢 thank go slowly am getting over him

@aphililenontamo7672

Ай бұрын

Akanikisi nje umdla umjongile unezothe lobhuti

@namisazulu1372

Ай бұрын

Unesdina nje semvelo

@ntobekomdluli5951

Ай бұрын

Unesidina

@Jcel4786

Ай бұрын

Unesdina nje Nobu evil

Siyayazi lenhlobo yalobhuti,asikhohliseki....well-done Ntando ngokuphuma escefeni

@muziwandilesithole1486

5 ай бұрын

Akasayine Phela the dovorce papers. Kuphule.

@professorm7716

Ай бұрын

Manje yini lowo Ntando angasayini amaphepha coz ubhuti uyafuna ukuphuma "escefeni" lesi osishoyo?

U Bhuti is handsome. Woman woman woman we don't know what we want. A handsome man or a man who is able to cater to your needs. Financially, emotionally and spiritually. You can not change a man to become what you want. Only you can change your choices. If you decide to stay, cheating is not the answer. Change your mentality to aceppt your husband as he is OR divorce if he has cheated.

Ikhona marn into eoff ngalobhuti, ayikho into enje😩 Akaziphenduli ezinye iquestions. Well done for choosing your self Ntando.❤️ Ungabadibanisi marn bhuti you’ll be wasting your time and hurting Ntando more. Mayivalwe kanje.

@MongameliTshekula

5 ай бұрын

Yeyiphi angayiphendulanga ndimphendulele

@siphesandesiphesande2694

5 ай бұрын

@@MongameliTshekula uyi PA yakhe?

@seipatimatli4405

5 ай бұрын

He is mixing truth and lies lona. He took time to come forward so that he can cook the story.

@kholosamnyande8484

5 ай бұрын

Skellem

@Yolani-wh7cg

5 ай бұрын

​@@seipatimatli4405Yeyiphi indoda yesiXhosa ethanda uyophahlaza indaba zomzi wayo to the whole world?

Ntando must take this episode to court, he said he wants nothing.

@user-ox7jb2rn1d

5 ай бұрын

Yes

@ndagebs6092

5 ай бұрын

Which court😂😂😂

@cyliamotsoenengzengele

5 ай бұрын

@@ndagebs6092 divorce court, actually her lawyer.

@priority295

5 ай бұрын

Haiboo which court nyani ?

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

​@@ndagebs6092 kanti there's no court??

If she was cheating she was because he was also cheating, I don’t understand why she would be beaten for doing what he’s been doing

@nontobekobiyela2548

Ай бұрын

It's his right to cheat sisi clearly according to him Women are objects with no feeling towards betrayl. How do you even say you were fighting with a woman and wohlulwa. Omg😢

@lydiampanya9544

Ай бұрын

Exactly, yena who beat him for cheating

@nondumisosibiya7755

Ай бұрын

@@nontobekobiyela2548 honestly something is wrong with this man, and most black men are like this that’s why they be k*lling us

Cheating or betrayal should never be used as a justification for any form of violence, and that includes gender-based violence. Healthy communication, empathy, and seeking resolution through non-violent means are crucial in any marriage. Violence is an unacceptable response to relationship challenges, and promoting such behaviour contradicts the principles of mutual respect and understanding essential in a marital bond.

Most of the time, both parties contribute to a Marriage that didn't work. Bad as we believe he is...he atleast admit to some of the mistakes whereas she gave us a clean version of herself. She agreed to be married to him knowing he is broke so why is it a shock when he continued to seek financial expectation during marriage?

@mfanwenkosimathebula9736

5 ай бұрын

How do you know its a clean version except the part of marrying a financially unwell husband? Do not enter a frail of issues you do not know. This is between 2 people, neither of us commenting will ever know what is right or wrong.

@PhomoloKhan

Ай бұрын

Remember that she new and had no problem with him being broke the issue is she was used, taken advantage of by him and his wife and Ntando at first she didn’t know of this wife this was romantic scam. Take in mind that Ntando is an empathy and when you are in love you don’t go around looking for red flags because by that time all you want is to love and be supportive.

Bhut I believe you big time, i used to be Bossy to my Boy friend because he was not working. He was always asking me to calm down , i remember when he says, i am still your man, i might not have money i deserve a repect from you. Axactly our relationship was like le yalo bhut, always fighting not talking to each other for some days up until i realised that i a female and need to respect my man. I am still not 100% but i am now trying to respect my man. And njengoba usitsho bhut ndiyasebenza but andinamali we are in debt. So ukusebenza does not mean you must sell yourself kuma social media ukuthi unemali.

@fundiswambanjwa414

Ай бұрын

So much useless information mxm Ntando is not you and you not her Awnayo nemali nje upepereza into engekho

@kukhanya-xe1xh

11 күн бұрын

​@@fundiswambanjwa414well said, bonke abantu bafana naye losisi? Ai bo! She's not Ntando

He's making sense shem.... it looks like the lady is bitter that now she's separating they need to share and if the guy was the one monied she was going to want that money

@jackietherichshaun7365

3 ай бұрын

Ndiyamva nam lobhuti baninzi occ abadlala ubu victim and ke kuhlala kumanyelwa abafazi kunamadoda.

Lendoda ayinanyani. If he was really interested in his child's death, he should have asked more from the doctors and nurses that were attending to his wife as he has every right to know as a father. According to him, the wife alleged that umntwana ukhula "in the wrong tube". If he was interested to know what that means, he would have come across the term "ectopic pregnancy". Again he alleges that he has never had of a miscarriage when the pregnancy is already 5 months old. If he had bothered to ask, he would have come across "missed abortion" or "preterm delivery", whichever the case was in his wife's condition. Lastly, if he cared enough, he could have taken it upon himself to ask from the doctors and nurses what was to happen to their baby, considering that it was a stillborn, as every family deserves the right to bury their own, regardless of age. Remember, at such a time, definitely the mother was on her lowest, both physically and emotionally and he needed his support more than anything. In this particular instance he dismally failed his wife, however, if he really wants to know the truth, he can still go back to the hospital and ask all the questions he has as everything is kept on record (even though I personally don't believe him)

@motshabimorulane8023

Ай бұрын

A narcissist will make one look crazy while acting calm😢

Lendoda ilixoki what about the messages in Facebook and Ntando have the proof. Sudlala ngathi wena dyakalashe onkone

@user-ox7jb2rn1d

5 ай бұрын

Hence he took time to come to the podcast

@sinelizwichiya7635

5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@ntobekomdluli5951

Ай бұрын

Inamanga lengane weeeee

Eyi ayikho indoda enamanga njengendoda engenamali 😂😂😂😂 Ntando resign from your job and he won’t get anything. Resign before the divorce is finalised guidelines wedwa iprovident fund. You will get another job sana elsewhere. Lendoda you met him ehlala kumjondolo engena bed or even sheets and now he’s acting like an animal 😂😂😂

@MongameliTshekula

5 ай бұрын

Awazi nix wena shm ngathi ngojonga kahle you will be surprised if you can find the truth

@Ivory428

3 ай бұрын

​@@MongameliTshekula😅😅😅😅

@hlengiwemchunu6344

3 ай бұрын

She must move her money to trust fund yabantwana bakhe he won't get a cent mpya yomloyi wendoda

@ginsu_pd

Ай бұрын

always. brokies to frustrate your life

@mandyishername

Ай бұрын

@@MongameliTshekulawas he or was he not living in a shack.

Thanks Ntando for the voice notes evidence iyonke pha n ufanele um recorder umbonile ba ngutsosi

@gugulethukhoza9084

5 ай бұрын

Where can we get the recordings

@nonzukisongalo709

4 ай бұрын

Xa p00

@nelzg5819

Ай бұрын

Inyoka yebdoda

Bhuti I really judged you but now I understand yr side

@dude6752

Ай бұрын

I do understand him too.

There's divorce, there's settlement agreement. If he says he does not want the pension fund, that's a settlement agreement, the pension fund won't be touched. Nowhere it says it's a must that he gets PF.

@ncisept5900

5 ай бұрын

So true. He could've said he wants to forfeit all her assets and money

It's men like this,that will make you hate anything to do with mjolo 🤞🤮

Ndisamamele,this is very interesting .from the first 10 minutes I did not believe ubhuti lona. Kodwa noko noba umntu ulixoki kangakanani akungekhe kubelula to create such deep stories .ndisazomamela. Enkosi ST Media to bring another side of the story

@user-dv6io7wp7n

5 ай бұрын

Nam ndiyamkholelwa

@sibongisenisobekwa6649

5 ай бұрын

Same here bhuti i believe this man

@candy23451

4 ай бұрын

This is sad though coz I believe him. I listen to Ntando and I felt pain of her being rejected as her background is not good

What I know it takes 2 to "tango" I remember Ntando being asked if there's anything wrong she thinks contributed to the failure and she Saud "No" I remember raising my eyebrow. Atleast lomjita admitted to his mistakes "all of them" I don't think so. I wish them healing both and may they end this and continue with their lives.

@sibongisenisobekwa6649

5 ай бұрын

Exactly it takes 2 to tango we cant only listen one side of the story ...Mna i believe this guy

@ongezwawakeni2338

5 ай бұрын

I don't know who to believe now. I think funeke babekhona bobabili apho mamekuxoxela😫😫😫😫

@thandekamgijima1871

4 ай бұрын

We need them both please

@phindiwenovember2912

3 ай бұрын

Ntando said that she would be blocked every time he was in a new love affair and would find ways to make herself feel better somehow. The wrong thing she owned up to doing is making unilateral decisions to buy a bigger car for her and the kids without discussing with him. She also bought land in the Vaal so that there would be a home for his kids bangalwi because the father didn't have umzi awakhele bona. So yes, she made her mistakes and said so. The "husband " accused her of acting like a man.

@kingl794

Ай бұрын

Ntando was wrong for marrying this unemployed guy. That's the part part she played

gents underestimate the importance of establishing oneself before taking on the responsivity of leading a household, compound that with unemployment and it will turn you into a monster. you will not recognize the man you become. phuma from any situation that disempowers you...beating a woman can never be excused. leave and go build yourself. impilo iyaqhubeka!

@issankayi3515

Ай бұрын

Intle mntaka Jiba. Injalo xa kushokoxekile epokothweni buyaphela ububele endodeni awubinathando ngoba xa kudingeka imali ibangathi uyachukelwa. Ngcono uphume uyotheza iinkuni zokubasa umlilo ongazucima kubudlelwane obulandelayo.

Narcissists, they are very humble phambi kwabantu ungaze umkholwe

@Bestielaylay243

5 ай бұрын

True

@SoultyBoiBeats

Ай бұрын

My ex boss was like this, the dude removed alot of people the company this calm😂. As of now 5 employees resigned and he is promoted to GM, because they know how to lie perfectly

Kodwa ke uNtando akekho msulwa kuyo yonke lento, She acted as if she never cheated and uMdu was his first kodwa wamthola anabantwana, ngapha ngathi bekasindisiwe over kodwa uphuzana namaSavannah Ai boy2 bayabheda nje uNtando wazinikela kakhulu endodeni. They must Divorce!

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

😅

@ginsu_pd

Ай бұрын

lol 1. because you're Christian does not meet you do not drink 2. She mentioned they met later years when they were now both grown and had children. 3. o judgemental guut with bad listening skills

@belindanobukopeshe2216

23 күн бұрын

Akukho understanding ngathi they both needed couselling and deliverance.

To me this guy's story is believable. There are asoects where you see that he is just defeding himself but his story is more credible. A real born again person would never agree to be forced into those rituals. It is the wife who has series of VNs of private converstins, who does that? It is her who was begging the other woman for her husband not the other way round. In one VN she even says she accepts the other woman but not that they love each other so much. Who would broadcast such a VN?

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

Why beg the woman if she has a well to do bf?

@Yolani-wh7cg

5 ай бұрын

And the lady says all over social media that the guy is a broke dead ass. Where would he get money for izinkabi? The inconsistencies baffle.

@nosiphomzinyati7896

5 ай бұрын

If you listen kakuhle this Ntando person it's a web of lies. Because the guy is calm Kuthwa toxic bafela uba calm abantwana bethu. If uguy is toxic and abusive then umfunani untando why angamniki divorce

@FavourKG

5 ай бұрын

Don't be misled by the calmness of the guy. This is the most toxic man. Act innocent like an Angel.

@soothom34

5 ай бұрын

True how would they force her in to rituals while she's a true Christian

This guy is a liar.. He said he saw the cheating in mpumalanga and beat her there but they woke up to work. But sisi was staying in north west, him in vaal.. So they woke up from mpumalanga and ran to work after those bruses we saw from ntandos face? Wow

@thozamajojo1675

4 ай бұрын

Listening skill balulekile merm

Perfect that he has now stated that😅 he doesn't want anything, this is a biiiiigggg help for ntando. Akahambe with no money.

@khethiweduma3611

5 ай бұрын

Mzansi waited for so long for him to admit that uNtando ahambe nemali yakhe yonke, Amen hallelujah. Sibonga nokuba smart kuka Ntando for recording because he was going to win, as manipulative as he is, so toxic shame.

This man makes a lot of sense. He is putting things into perspective.

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

Things like?

@maxiwellmagagula

4 ай бұрын

The problem is that he is Male.

@gugumahlangu8237

3 ай бұрын

I believe so too this man is not even stuttering Lo Sisi her story did not add up for me im not saying she is a lair. But she is not innocent in all this either. I think the lady is brain washed...I don't know maybe it's from these churches she goes too 🤷

@blvcksnowbeatz

3 ай бұрын

@@gugumahlangu8237 exactly my view. 👌🏽👌🏽

@sbongilemakhuvele4938

Ай бұрын

@@gugumahlangu8237 wehh, wena would you not statter if you were in her shoes? all she work for gone coz of indoda, man you dont know people xem, guess you still young

We need a mutual person to come and tell us the truth.....both of them are toxic..

@dikolizaskk5847

5 ай бұрын

But people tell me do u think this couple should go back together.....they are still angry and bitter to each other

@elizalungiswabentswana3600

5 ай бұрын

Eyyy I think the should just make peace and move on

@thelazysnapper

5 ай бұрын

If you go and read how usisi responds to people on her TikToks it paints a different picture from what she claims on these podcasts. I do believe she was abused (that I’m not disputing), however, she’s also not so innocent. After her interview here on this podcast I went to her TikTok and actually watched her videos and went through the comments. I got the sense that she loves the pity she gets from people online. Even when people point that out, she becomes so rude and aggressive in her comments.

@philiswadyan6580

5 ай бұрын

@thelazysnapper atleast there is someone who noticed that. Besesoyika nothetha kba alok vele kuthwe asimsizeli uNtando. Eyokbethwa asiyqhwabel izandla wabawrong lobhuti bt ai naye usisi kuninzi okthe ukungaqondakali.

@melusibogali7203

5 ай бұрын

I agree with u Le couple very toxic

This guy is a joke she😅 whoever is dating him feel sorry for them ingcondo ayikho la

@mandyishername

5 ай бұрын

Haibo this guy has insecurities because he is broke. Indoda engenamli is very dangerous because it affects his self esteem and he tries to find ways to show his masculinity by being abusive.

@Nokuthula_14

5 ай бұрын

That's a lame excuse manengi amadoda angasebenzi who are not abusive

Yabo manje we are confused really who is talking the truth Thabani the best way is to bring them together to the show for a good clarity because everyone now is justifying him or her self atleast the guy agrees that they can came together siyacela Thabani ubalethele bobabili

The thing that makes this guy believable is that he is admitting to some of the accusations usisi made, the woman on the other hand never admitted to having any contributions to the failure of her marriage when asked.

@bonginkosizikhali6769

5 ай бұрын

Very true

@nkanetsengheisi6963

5 ай бұрын

True,usis never admitted in anything not nenye.

@NinaSaula

5 ай бұрын

Very true

@nunamadlamini5675

5 ай бұрын

He admits and fabricates the story.

@pamelamhlaluka504

5 ай бұрын

He agrees to some accusations because there is proof to it. And another thing he says he says the agreement was for him to take care of himself and children but there is vn him demanding money from her for himself and for the kids

Next time Mr Thabane plan ama questions kuningi

@ncisept5900

5 ай бұрын

He annoyed me on this episode. He didn't prepare atall

Some men are toxic, and some women are toxic. I don't know who to believe, but what I wish for both of them is for the divorce to be finalized. Some people are just not good for each other, and I'm glad they parted ways before omunye abulala omunye. I wish them well, and I hope they both learn from their failed marriage and choose to be better partners in their new relationships. It's difficult to judge who's wrong and who's right after listening to both sides. Only God knows the real truth. May they find healing.

He can pretend to be humble shame as much as he likes and the fact that he doesnt answer all the questions prooves ba utoxic shame

Imagine if Ntando didn't have a proof yeses

@xolatom1420

2 ай бұрын

She can't hv a proof when she gave him money to loboba her. Brains brains

Mnxm uthi klo Ntando akho family for ukwamkela ilobola. Aphinde athi yathi ifamily ka Ntando ayiyi funi ilobola. Haysuka limene mene le abuser eli

@SindiswaQhusheka

5 ай бұрын

If ndiymamel kakuhle uthi zizinto ezatetwa nguNtando hay aziphumi kowakh umlomo

@puluxulu6510

Ай бұрын

Nami ndiyavuma limenemene vele

@puluxulu6510

Ай бұрын

I wish you can be arrested for beating Ntanto, I hope nilalela maponisa he's confessing

@yolandambotshwa1173

Ай бұрын

Limenemene eli🤦‍♂️

When you bring Ntando back, I wish that you have the way of asking her a question," does she have anything to correct from her previous statements."

@mmeme5861

5 ай бұрын

Not anything...Things...there is a lot that's contradictory

The red thing on his arm, hayi guys this guy is dangerous

The interviewer started by miss quating ntando. She said if they take her passion and get married its like she has paid him ilobolo

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏🤝😭

Thank you for bringing both sides of the story ST❤❤

I would love to know if Ntando is really saved or if she likes the church and to be called umzalwane. Second, does Ntando know what salvation means?

@mubveleli7204

5 ай бұрын

What a pathetic question 😂😂

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

Ask God He will tell u who Ntando is

@trustingnobody628

5 ай бұрын

@@mubveleli7204 It's not a pathetic question at all. Ntando knows herself better than us all. Let her answer. To say it's a pathetic question tells me that your teachers failed to tell you that no question is a foolish or pathetic question. Or rather after passing whatever standard you passed, you never read more to improve your intelligence.

@trustingnobody628

5 ай бұрын

@@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329 It's not a matter of asking God who Ntando is. Ntando must answer herself. Are you telling me that she has no ability to explain thoroughly who she is in the Lord. Listen to her ex-husband's narration dear. Then you will understand where my questions are going to.

@SisLinaM

5 ай бұрын

Hay ayikho lento uythethayo

Ntando I'm right behind you my Queen,I don't believe this man's story💯

Waze wawazi ama calculations e pension ubhuti Lapho akanayo eyakhe ethi yena.

Remembering Ntando's voice umyeni wami all most asho from iqala isho until ize iyophela " Umyeni wami" eeeei Ntando nkosi yami lapho umfana uyasho ukuthi akazi noma umshado leyanto noma cha but ke yena wibiza ngomshado okuchaza ukuthi akaze kahle kahle yonke lento ayibize ngomshado but wena you busy calling it umshado Ministries akobe niyafunda isifundo kulemishado yenu

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

Okkk

@nombusontshangase1004

4 ай бұрын

He's crazy lona yena u perfect He blames Ntando even nangoku cheat kwakhe wi🚮🚮🚮

We need uNtando's explanation ngezinto azitshoyo ngaye lobuti....we need both of them ...kunyanisiwe xa kuthiwa akekho umntu oparfec

I just see istabane when I see him.

@judyatoro9387

5 ай бұрын

Hayibo sisi

@elizabethmahlangu4680

5 ай бұрын

@@judyatoro9387 that's what I see.

@judyatoro9387

5 ай бұрын

@@elizabethmahlangu4680 what is the sign

@user-qt1qx2pw9r

5 ай бұрын

Nami

@buhlemthembu

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 bona buyavela

Ntando mntanam ungabi sabuyela kulomntu,ingcuka eyambethe ufele lwegusha pls sana lwam.

@mandlanxumalo5893

5 ай бұрын

Mtsheleni phela asayine divorce letter qha

@siyabongacebekhulu8089

3 ай бұрын

Hawwwwu mtsheleni lo cc ayo sayina ngoba umjita ufuna ukuqhubeka nempilo not with this lady....nxxx lo cc wangenza ngabuka lomjita njengo muntu omubie kanty naye unezakhe sengfisa beze bow 2 now

This is interesting tl hear both side's,we are praying for both of their healing,is okay relationship didn't work out

@siyabongacebekhulu8089

3 ай бұрын

Healing will be RyT if ntandoh sign divorce papers kuphela

Even if he wanted half her pension fund and assets, he is entitled to it if they are marrried in community of property. Women have been playing this game since time immemorial.

@mmeme5861

5 ай бұрын

I wonder how much is this pension fund...

This guy is crazy ayikho into ayivumayo and the is proof aibo akayofuna umsebenzi ayeke imali zantando azisebenzele

@mandlanxumalo5893

5 ай бұрын

Uyasho nje ukut akafune Mali into ayifunayo ukut uNtando asayine divorce letter finish and klaar

If its true that he only wants divorce and nothing from what she owns. Then he is a good man

For the fact that his proud of posting his girlfriend to shows his childishness mnx

Narcissist, he is lying.

I honestly don’t think they had a good relationship and it is better for them to be apart than together!

This whole thing was a disaster before it began. The spiritual differences was the biggest red flag. she was never in it to build with him. Its hard to digest but she never loved him and sounds like he was some rebound.

@zibanene

5 ай бұрын

True indeed

My heart wept when I first heard the voice note, and my instant thought was that she’s begging the wrong person. The one she should be begging is God because He is a God of justice whether or they are meant to be together or not I also thought the side chick was a random girl and not his baby momma, with that being said. I believe this man fully. She sounds like a woman who desperately wants to tick all society’s boxes and takes short cuts. I’ve been wickedly cheated on I know the pain but it took a lot for me to stop reacting and stay silent. God dealt with the entire situation because my tears go up to him and I also repented of the time I was dating a man who had his stable relationship. It’s a lot but we need to take accountability

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

4 ай бұрын

Wow

Xoki le sweet talker, uyakude nalento yakhe

@kholosamnyande8484

5 ай бұрын

Limene mene eli

@aphililenontamo7672

Ай бұрын

Yinja le

They definitely can't be in one space because they protection orders against each other mos.

Utitshala makatshate utitshala Umfundisi makatshate omnye Lawyer nelawyer Warden mayitshate enye Housekeeper itshate utata wegadi.....soze uve lenyufunyufu struuuu soze uxoxe futhi coz understanding ikwilevel eyi1

This guy is a man of God, ppl must stop bad mouthing good ppl.

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

Ncoooh

@PortiaMokoana

Ай бұрын

Shem

Pension fund is entitled. 😂😂He will send it back 😂😂😂😂😂this guy 😂😂😂😂

So he's admitting to the things Ntando has proof of only

Hayi am starting to question myself ngalo Ntando

@gugumahlangu8237

3 ай бұрын

Rosemary story straight difference ubhuti lived to tell the story 😲 and where did the 5 months old pregnancy disappeared to and she didn't even mention it iyoh...

@naimapeck1683

2 ай бұрын

Mna ndifuna imali le ye company... ukuba itheni? 🤔

@TshengisileNdlangamandla

Ай бұрын

This guy is lying .

Recording him was the best decision.

Hayi buthi why lying if you say you don't want pension fund you won't be forced to take it hayi buthi

Thanks st media bendilidinga elinye I side

Ohhh i loved these ppl they were so perfect together in our eyes shame maan mabohlukane if that is what they want

"Kuzothi xa kukho imali" imali kabani?

Ikhona intwe off maan ngawe Sibulele

@annitahmathebula2317

5 ай бұрын

Ikhona sisi ai wena uyanaka yazi no no 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

@nokulungagexu5988

5 ай бұрын

Yhuu hai bo

@portiamaseko4228

2 ай бұрын

I don't trust this guy at all

@aphililenontamo7672

Ай бұрын

Hayi uSibulele yilentambo ibomvu eshlahleni

She's lucky to be alive, some one else could have killed her for her pension coz clearly he hated her... Him n the gf could have done the worst..

Uvakala uthetha Sibulele ukuba uyaxoka maaarn

@sifisosithole9631

5 ай бұрын

Izindaba zabantu ababini azifuni izibuke with emotions

@aphililenontamo7672

Ай бұрын

Lixoki lenja shame uyambona nje uyiplanile 😮

He won't agree the nkabi issue kaloku anyway.

First and foremost both of them are greedy, actually itshala lamawele leli of which means its hard to solve but Ntando has got a lot of pride due to the family where she is from,the other thing is,,,Ntando is sexual active but trying to hide it with preach the guy is a mastermind using Ntandos weaknesses 🙏🙏🙏

@lungiswaNtandoLinganNgumbs329

5 ай бұрын

😅

@precioustsikwa4283

4 ай бұрын

I think they are both lying. There are 3 sides of the story.

@kamaveetv9457

4 ай бұрын

@@precioustsikwa4283 noted but Ntando don't want to be in one episode with this guy she put excuses what does that mean 😂😂

But he had nothing when she married him.