“I hate you, but you’re everything.”

Wow. As a sexual 2, I laughed, cried, and felt embarrassed/exposed while listening to you. Everything you said was spot on. I appreciate you for sharing your insight, it was helpful!

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

No doubt Ruby. It is my joy to bring the laughs and the tears (I am a 4 you know 😂) Drew

@jamiejurek700

2 жыл бұрын

Same Ruby, same 🤣

Wow. Thanks for this. Best content I’ve found about my subtypes. I knew I have been pretty unhealthy (reason I even discovered my subtype) but that moment when I realize I’ve exhibited all of the unhealthy aspects of all subtypes. Rip.

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

As long as you’re working on your shit you are in an amazing place of discovery my friend. Keep going and enjoying the ride! Drew

Thanks for this. As a Type 2 therapist, I felt very understood. Your video motivated me to make some content on Type 2s as well. Gratitude to you 🙏🏼

@drewnewkirk

11 ай бұрын

Hope it’s working out my friend

Such commanding, wonderful content! You are a true talent! Can’t wait to watch my family members types through your page! Self Prez 2 in da Huse! 🎉

@drewnewkirk

2 ай бұрын

Thanks again Casey. This means a lot! Drew

great episode

Heres a comparison of the sx 4 and sx 2 repensented in emojis. Sx 4 🤬❤️‍🔥😤🏆🥇 Sx 2 😈🤩😘🧨💃 Sx 4 has more of a angry intense energy Sx 2 has more of a desperate simp energy. -from a sx 2

@drewnewkirk

11 ай бұрын

So true!!!

Very thoughtful analysis!

@drewnewkirk

2 ай бұрын

So sorry for the delay. Thanks so much for watching! I put a hard boundary on my time in the last year so I could write a book, which I just finished the first draft 🙌🏼 Know that I always appreciate every remark/response and try to get back to each and every one. If at all interested send me your email through instagram or my email to be on my mailing list Insta - @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy OR Drew@DrewNewkirk.com Hope all is well and thanks again Drew

OMG you’re killing me. I had to take a break from you and give you a comment. The depth of your honesty has cracked my image! 😅 This is painful, how do you know so much? Thank you, now that I know you and others probably know, I’m not going to be so covert. 😮

@drewnewkirk

11 ай бұрын

I love this Karina! Keep digging for the gold my friend If you’re interested in being on my mailing list drop your email on instagram @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy or drew@drewnewkirk.com hopefully I’ll continue to create some cool stuff to share

Wow, thank you for going so deep and hitting on so many real places for the two. I have a really strange dynamic with the mother-in-law who is a social 2 and I often feel inferior to her and like she wants me to get out of the way so that she can remain the center star in her son's life. I am self-preservation 2 primarily and especially when I'm around her. I feel like I'm a sexual 2 with my husband, possessive and like I should be his number one woman not his mother. He has a hard time acknowledging that what I feel is valid and seems to side almost instantaneously with his mother when I bring up an issue (particularly regarding how we parents our toddler). It drives me bonkers and I would love to possibly talk with you about how to get out of this really weird dynamic

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

Ugh. I’ve seen this before and feel for you. It’ll take some work for sure. Reach out a drew@drewnewkirk.com and maybe I can coach you a bit. I admit, I’m not cheap but you getting the right help for this May be the best money you’ll spend 😂🤦‍♂️ Either way, don’t give up on working on this with whoever, just keep on it Drew

self-pres 2 and social 4 sound similar

@AzticAztin

Жыл бұрын

as a SO4, my inner world so SOoO different from those self-awareness lacking 2s.

Claudio Naranjo has made it clear to katherine Fauvre, Beatrice Chestnut, and others that he was misquoted regarding "Integration" and "disintegration." That there is no low vs high line of connection. But both lines of connections, or arrows, operate equally. Just as the wings do. Because everything in the Enneagram is 3s, 7s, and 9s. Please don't keep repeating this error.

I’m a sexual 2 and it’s 100% true! And INFJ. It makes sense cuz INFJs have inferior extroverted sensing. When I was younger I liked wearing cute skirts and sexy outfits. My mom described me as warm and “touchy” cuz I subconsciously use to give someone I’m talking to a warm therapeutic touch and I’m not doing that on purpose sometimes it just happens

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

It’s very effective. Thinking of dates and meeting new people, every time you get a little touch on the shoulder or knee a little electricity runs through your body. 2’s are very good at pulling people in with these subtle messages

@maggieskip1138

2 жыл бұрын

I'm also an INFJ and sexual two is my second subtype. I often feel like it is so hard to feel understood and sometimes I isolate (going to my primary subtype of self-preservation) because it feels like it takes way too much energy to feel like I'm actually in somebody's inner circle

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

@@maggieskip1138 good processing!

@jelmerskalleberg6987

Жыл бұрын

Just found out I am a Sexual 2 Always thought I was a ENFJ, but still in doubt sometimes that I’m a INFJ. I see more of a Fe - Se loop in me, indulging in food, taking critical wrong, literally feeling sensation of the extroverted world. It can also be my repression of two. But there is this feeling in me saying Ni dom, in a relaxed state I dream when I’m awake. How would a sexual 2 Ni- Ti loop operate? ENFJ can be very introverted, absorb emotions like the INFJ. When a person looks at me there is driving need to give them a experience, to give them a good feeling back. I’m still at ENFJ, with a more preference for my Ni instead of Fe.

@aliciawooz8417

Жыл бұрын

Type 2 sx(269) INFJ as well! I didn't really think I typed myself correctly until I learned I was a sx subtype...then I was like ohhhhhhh yup that tracks 😂

To be childish is to be helpless

My husband is a sexual 8 and I'm a sexual 2, both of us have glimmers of self preservation from emotional wounds. (Though I feel so strongly about withholding sex being toxic that I just don't do it, but I'll withdraw service for sure 🤷🏼‍♀️). We were talking tonight about how a lot of this and your 8 video felt like being seen and called out at the same time. Highly appreciate this!

@jamiejurek700

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like my sexual 2 leanings come from realizing that not everyone will appreciate me so I want that one reliable person who appreciates me. Keeping myself from being the "perfect partner" and maintaining who I am is the biggest struggle though.

@rowboatwilly2541

2 жыл бұрын

You don’t withdrawal service! When does that happen? 🤔😘

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

@@rowboatwilly2541 I’m guessing you’re the husband 😂 Love this interaction Have some fun guys. Make sex a chemistry experiment where you both become vulnerable and work on your shit and just let go. That requires practice

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

Love this vulnerability. I’m planning on doing a video on sex and the enneagram in the next few months and I hope it helps. This is a long game friends and you are playing it well. Trust that your hard work will pay off! You got this.

@drewnewkirk

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamiejurek700 also, I’d try waking up every day with a mantra to “take myself seriously, I’m worth it. AND! To not take myself so seriously and play.”

Irresponsible, playful, indulgent!

@ashleyching5786

Жыл бұрын

How am I experiencing your perception of me?

@ashleyching5786

Жыл бұрын

Overconcern with what should I do loses touch with who am I?

@ashleyching5786

Жыл бұрын

If vulnerable, can be pulled in easily by Sx 2!