What are your thoughts on the differences between ENFJ and ENFP?

@louern123

Жыл бұрын

so i came here to confirm my thoughts about a colleague who wants to believe he’s ENFJ when he gives ENFP vibes so loud 😂. would you agree that ENFP men would like to believe they are ENFJ?

Absolutely agreed about ENFP s way of answering questions. Whenever i do it ,, i start with : time , geography and then the detailed story. CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING 😂

When someone I know who is in ENFP start giving me every detail and all the background story when I just asked a simple question it makes me want to blow my brains out

@somebody7070

2 ай бұрын

BAHAHAHQHQHQ I do that all the time 😂😂😂

I keep getting 50% j and 50% p... it depends on the weeb i use... so at this point i'll just asume that i am both depending on the situation lmao Thanks for the video! You are really good at explaining!!! Keep on the work!! :)

@manitabusser

2 жыл бұрын

I can related to both as well 47% j and 53% p, and I get that all the time.

@irenevieiradafonseca8752

2 жыл бұрын

me too! once i get 49% P and 51% J, so I had to study more the cognitive functions

@VolcanicLioness

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@entropy8000

2 жыл бұрын

Those percentages are just how you answered based on the questions/metrics- the cognitive functions are more clear cut and dichotomous

@thecardplayer3610

Жыл бұрын

@@manitabusser Same!!

Great explanation, but I’m having trouble to find out what type suits me better because I see coincidences in both types (ENFJ and ENFP) some things more like ENFJ and others more like ENFP. I think I have to read more about t

@RandolphTheWhite1

Жыл бұрын

Enfp's are more comfortable with their own emotions (Fi), and enfj's are more comfortable with other people's emotions (Fe). Also, enfp's have Se as their last function. Stuff like construction and hitting a nail with a hammer is difficult.

Oof, I really walk the line on this one. I test as an ENFJ, but I’ve got ADHD, so I think that’s why I have great vision, but my follow through is in fits and starts. Thanks for uploading this!

@heathertoomey7068

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto. I'm an ENFJ with ADHD, so I am like an ENFx (ENFJ/ENFP)

@shanez1215

7 ай бұрын

Ah that makes a lot more sense, since I had traits of both types and also have ADHD lol

I communicate and talk like an ENFP, have the emotional "reading" of ENFJ (hard 4 me to go "deep down") and "please" people but also are more the ENFP Type by getting manny ideas but do not finish them ore "hate" routin days, more the explore and dont know what the future has open 4 me. A really intersseting video, verry informativ thx :-)

Your explanation was really good, I have been very confused if I am an ENFP or ENFJ, and right now listening your examples, I 95% sure that I''m an ENFP with a tendency to look after for others a pretty enfp 9. Thanks a lot for bringing this content in a understable way.

In an ENFP. Even though I get ENFJ all the time in the test. I think when I talk to people I hide how I truly feel about things and that doesnt have to do with my MBTI but a deppresion. Where I stop saying what I feel and I filter it and changed it to sound intellectual. 😇😅 happy to know now. I didnt figure this out it was a chakra expert that told me. LOL not naruto. Well thanks for the video, ive had this confusion since I was 6.

ENFJ with an ENFP, and this is a truth bomb! I'm a fundraiser, so I'm constantly focused on how to motivate people to donate their resources to achieve a goal that is in alignment with the group's shared values. He's an entrepreneur, so he's much more focused on how to make his ideas a reality.

Ty. You explained it very well for me to understand better. Ty.

Thank you so much for this video. Educational and entertaining as usual!

Sincerely enamoured by your knowledge and style of explication... 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 You've got yourself a due fan...

Awesome video. I think you're as spot on as one could be. I'm an ENFP and my partner in business is an ENFJ. We work so damn well together, it's wild. We cover eachothers differences and weaknesses precisely, it seems. It's a powerful combination. I'm so full of ideas, she can relate, and better yet, hold me accountable to those ideas 🤣

@fatimahfauziii8826

Жыл бұрын

im enfp n my husband enfj. haha im the thinker, he is the one who did my idea into reality.

I thought I was ENFP after reading the most popular "descriptions" of the types, but when I dug into the real cognitive function side of things, I found I related much more to ENFJ. I am pretty sure of this now, and I find it very interesting how you say one of the ways this difference manifests in ENFJs is answering questions more directly, without feeling such a need to unpack the details on the spot or provide a lot of context, because that tends to be how I roll when I am first asked. For instance, my brother and I have always liked doing fictional character analysis and personal identification with them, and I was always the one who said "I think you're like so-and-so," and I was also almost always quicker to come to a conclusion than he was. He then would ask me what brought me to that conclusion, but I then found myself struggling to articulate why, I had to stop and think it over to explain, whereas he didn't come to his conclusions as quickly and didn't answer until he had already broken his opinions down very thoroughly (we are both pretty sure he is INTP, by the way XD)

You are so beautiful!!!! Thank you so so much for sharing this! 💛

I'm an ENFJ, love mobilizing groups but now to the point where I will shadow do everyone job to ensure the project is complete strictly for team moral. Personal don't like failure and really would not others to feel that if it's something I can control. However very go with the flow if hiccups happen, as long as you give 100% (110% for myself) I'm happy with the journey.

This explains in a very amazing way why I clash with extroverted feelers... I definetly prefer values and beliefs over momentary harmony, in a way...what worth is harmony if deep down it's all ...rotten? that sounded a little dramatic haha. I do have a lot to learn with FE too, like becoming more demonstrative for example.

I got FJ parents and siblings, and I'm about to make decision about my hair style. I see a problem on the rise

My first test, I scored as an ENFJ and was happy with it. My second about 9 years later, I got ENFx. But based on the secondary functions you described, I really consider myself an ENFJ. Thanks! Now to figure out if I'm more of an ENFJ-A or an ENFJ-T

@INFJinxed

2 жыл бұрын

hi there! the "A" and the "T" are not part of MBTI or the Jungian model - they are just additions created by 16personalities.com. If you want to know more about what the "T" and the "A" mean, they actually refer to a different personality model, namely the Big 5. There, one personality dimension is Neuroticism and this is related to what 16personalities calls A and T.

93% P - with ENFP. Thank you for your video

The percentages for these websites are throwing off a lot of people. The percentages are simply showing you based on the questions you answered but are not indicative of the cognitive functions. You cant really be 50/50 J or P as she explains, because they use totally different functions and manifest very differently. Most people get lost in the descriptions and can relate to most of them. Sometimes the best way to tell what type someone is, is by what their blindspot function is. ENFPs have Ti blindspot and in my experience are very illogically inconsistent by nature. They do not make decisions based off sound logic but more using Fi and Te to rationalize an Fi desire. ENFJs tend to be so determined and big picture focused that they ignore/neglect their internal sensory world and burnout from lack of self care, or miss important details that cost them (Si-blindspot). Objective personality also talks about ExxJ have imbalances with people dynamics, and ExxPs have problems with imbalance in organization and over-gathering. Hope someone finds this helpful :)

From ENFJ to ENFP. I am sure now that I'm more on ENFP. Thanks for this!

As an ENFJ 7w8 8w7 3w4 (so/sx) sometimes it's so hard to distinguish myself between the ENxx types -and even INxx types sometimes with 7's growth to 5. However I don't have Ni or Ti ignoring (5th function) nor Ti/Fi trickster. Demonstrative 4D Ne as well as auxiliary Ni fits very well. If you guys - in the comments - have problems with sorting yourself I would say look at the 8 function model and go from there, not from behaviors set in stone. Though this video explained it very well, you can be biased and your perception of self can be interpreted differently from someone in the observing position. Although you are the only one who can find your own type, so know that you guys are being truthful to yourselves in the process.

Very well explained, I'm an ENFP dating an Enfj and we are like that :)

@FPT84

Жыл бұрын

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Great! -enfp

One of the best explanations of how the cognitive functions are exhibited that I've seen on KZread! However, I think you touched too lightly on how extraverted intuition (Ne) manifests in ENFPs in a more concrete fashion like you did with introverted feeling (Fi) and extraverted thinking (Te) and vice versa for the ENFJ. Overall, still one of the best explanations.

Fe vs Fi, Ni vs Ne, Se vs Si, Te vs Ti? I def need clarification on these. Have never heard of this break down. I am an enfp. Thanks

I think J is clean. I went to r/enfj and they just were so clean and organized. I'm much more of a nester. It's cozy but a little unclean. And a little chaotic. If you look at all the J vs P counterparts, the J is always a little more structured.

@fatimahfauziii8826

Жыл бұрын

very true! my husband enfj, while me enfp. we argue a lot in terms of organizing n cleaning. 😅😅 most of the time my husband did the chores.

Yep. It's crazy how I would always dable around so much context and background stories with my ex gf she would get pissed 😂 As an ENFP of course.

I am both😂

I cannot believe I thought I was ENFJ this whole time, I was completely wrong I am ENFP

I think that I am an enfp but I'm little bit confused in enfj and enfp as I can't manage time well ,I can't save money for much time not because of my own expenditure it's because I think money is to spent for requirements and I give it to those who require instead of saving in my pocket,I also like to generate new ideas as ENFPs do and I like to lead people so tell me what really I am? Sorry I went into more details as ENFPs do .😊

You tell the difference because the ENFP has his cap on backwards and says “dude” a lot. The ENFJ is holding the clipboard and trying to get you to sign the partition lol! ENFP is cool, ENFJ isn’t always so concerned about being cool, more concerned about what is right. ENFP will talk fast, tell you about 100 different topics in an hour, and remember random facts like a pro. The ENFJ will tell you all about humanitarian stuff and the ways in which the world could be changed for the better.

@araujomix9342

Жыл бұрын

Parece que você tá falando do ENTJ e não ENFJ

I'm an ENFJ and direct. Rude sometimes, but direct. Take or leave.

@catharinamariatheresia1626

11 күн бұрын

I don’t know any ENFJ that is rude. That sounds more like an ESTP.

@KeiPyn24

11 күн бұрын

@@catharinamariatheresia1626 We exist.

@catharinamariatheresia1626

10 күн бұрын

@@KeiPyn24😂

thank you for this video i've been wondering about this, im still very confused because im kind of both at the same time and i have bipolar disorder, i think my fe is really high, but also i feel like my ne is also high, what do you think?

@araujomix9342

Жыл бұрын

TB....

@araujomix9342

Жыл бұрын

Me too

Ainda tenho dúvidas se sou Enfj ou Enfp....

neat

enfj 8w7 here. I start meet up with girl ENFP and like her very much. But I need take more informations about here and see if I want marriage with someone like that

I found this to be smurf-tastic

My walk of shame is all of the unfinished projects all over the place making me look like a hoarder in progress lol.

Do you believe that an ENFP can evolve into an ENFJ , due to life altering circumstances?

@INFJinxed

3 жыл бұрын

Not really, as type is supposed to be fixed. Now, there are some traumatic events that can shatter the construction of one’s type, but there is not a clear picture as to how that happens.

@ieatcrayons3322

2 жыл бұрын

My cousin used to be enpf But after my uncle died(her dad) she focus on her career and now her test came out as enfj

@ReiAnneD

2 жыл бұрын

I'm an ENFP for so many years but I started watching motivational stuff on YT. I started listing goals and how to attain them daily etc. Tried different methods to improve myself and now, when i retook the test I'm now labelled as an ENFJ.

@araujomix9342

Жыл бұрын

Experiência própria, quem "altera" a personalidade na verdade só tá passando por uma fase difícil na vida, essa pessoa não mudou profundamente. Ela tá infeliz

This doesn’t account for adhd I think!

@INFJinxed

Жыл бұрын

ADHD is a separate thing, yes.