Daniel has the biggest Soft Boy Energy♡ The very picture of wholesome masculinity

@evelynmaldonado9283

4 жыл бұрын

Professor JAJL I completely agree

@JuiceMade3603

4 жыл бұрын

Big agree

@Onnarashi

4 жыл бұрын

You can have whoesome masculinity without being soft. Most men have that.

I really dig the whole nontoxic masculinity thing Daniel has going on. Im so glad y'all worked things out 💛💛💛

@Onnarashi

4 жыл бұрын

There's no such thing as toxic masculinity.

@iliveonatropicalisland6086

3 жыл бұрын

@@Onnarashi pffft

@Onnarashi

3 жыл бұрын

@@iliveonatropicalisland6086 Show me I'm wrong.

“I don’t hate him right now, that’s one of my defining characteristics, is that I don’t like Daniel, but dammit he is nice.” Lmao best thing in this video. Lmao “But dammit he is nice” but that on a t-shirt and sell it. 😂

@heatherrel7978

4 жыл бұрын

I know! and that" the jerk!" part

As a therapist who specializes in working with people with DID and OSDD, I can't thank you enough for so eloquently and candidly sharing what it's like to live with DID, and what the healing process has been for you! It's so important for people to know that people with dissociative disorders can thrive - AND that that can look a lot of different ways. I'm also so grateful for the wonderful work you do in destigmatizing, educating, and simply normalizing what so many people don't realize is such a common disorder! Thanks for all you do, and props on the beautiful healing journey you are clearly continuing to follow.

You guys have clearly matured and grown so much :) what a great system, or more appropriately, family

Well done both of you! It's easier to stick with old habits/feelings than change them, so be proud of yourselves.

@gonderwoman

4 жыл бұрын

👏👏

Kit, that septum ring looks so good on you! Also your ability to admit and apologise for past bad behaviour is really awesome :)

This was so heartwarming 😭❤️ Tough girls have feelings too ❤️ I can relate to this, and I'm so happy for the both of you that you really solved some personal issues.

I have always had the utmost respect for Daniel and hearing how caring he was (and continues to be) to Kit just made me fall in love with him all over again. I'm so proud of you both for being there for each other and truly supporting and respecting one another.

I'm totally not crying right now. Me cry, why would I be doing that? *sob* dem feels though

Good on you two for having this break through and thank you Daniel for showing others how to not hold a grudge and be mad at someone when they have treated you not so well in the past and it was awesome to see the you Kit could see and change your behavior. 🌈💛🧡❤💜💚💙

Question: do you guys have a common meeting place in the new headspace like the beach was? Like,,,,a common room? Or do you just meet in each other’s rooms? Super powerful video by the way! It’s great to know they’re getting along.

@gonderwoman

4 жыл бұрын

I'm curious about this too.. although they do have the city now to roam. Ed and Oz can create anything they'd need so maybe they'll make one for them 😊

@spinachsheik3701

4 жыл бұрын

Oh, yeah...the beach circle isn't a thing anymore

@TheEntropySystem

4 жыл бұрын

We have the apartment lobby for group meetings but mostly we visit each other’s rooms or use the intercom system if we need to get messages to one another. -Wyn

@JuiceMade3603

4 жыл бұрын

The Entropy System oh cool! Thanks for replying!

@spinachsheik3701

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheEntropySystem WOAH that's so cool! -Rory

That was the sweetest story, it almost made me cry...

wow congrats to you both!! i’m wondering, has this affected anyone else in the system?

@Lystopia

4 жыл бұрын

I was asking myself the same thing tho I'm sure the answer is yes! I wanna know more 💙

This is absolutely lovely. I so relate to Kit’s tendency to deflect and not allow others to know how she’s feeling, as well as to Daniel’s anxiety. Daniel taking that leap and being there for Kit, and Kit opening up to him, both took a lot of strength and courage. I’m so proud of and happy for you both, not just as parts of the system working well together (though of course that’s a good thing), but as individuals working on yourselves.

It’s cool that you can see how their feelings differ on what a friend is. Daniel basically made it sound like they’re cordial and kit made it sound like they’re casual friends

Yay I'm so happy to hear you guys are finally on good terms! You both work so hard for the system and have great traits you bring to the table. It's nice to know you're on friendly terms with teammates and I'm glad you're working on your relationship. Here's to growth! ❤️

A dislike already? What the eff? Screw that person 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

@Gedankenwald

4 жыл бұрын

I sometimes hit the dislike button by accident scrolling through commentary section. Maybe that's what happened?

@ingredi8409

4 жыл бұрын

Don't worry, the youtube algorithm doesn't count dislikes when showing their content to ther people

I'm so proud of both of you! OMG! Kit, little Gryffindor, you could have so easily attacked Daniel because you were so vulnerable, but you matured so much that you allowed him to see and accept that part of you. Daniel, little Hufflepuff, your empathy blows me away. I thank you for being the person that you are, you bring little more light and hope to this world. Lots of love on your system and hope Japan is really fun for you guys!

It's so nice to see two of my favorite people becoming friends!

Wow! Never been so early! So happy you both are friends now!!

I'M CRYING! I love you both so much!

I am sobbing you two, this is the most wholesome thing! Inner conflict sucks, I’m so so glad you guys found a common ground ❤️❤️ he’s nice goddammit haha - Cara xx

We've just discovered your channel, and we are impressed by your (plural) openness and honesty. It's important for people to realize that, just like a 3D family, a DID family will have its strained relationships and personality conflicts -- Ours does, for sure! We congratulate Kit and Daniel on their reconciliation and wish them a long and productive friendship!

It’s so awesome that you guys have grown like this

This is so sweet and so nice that both of you were able to become friends and care for one another 💕 this is actually incredibly inspiring

I might be crying but I cant be the only one touched by this

Daniel that is so nice and sweet of you. I'm glad yall are getting along now.

This video gave me goosebumps. Also shows us how much work some of our system needs. THANKS!! LOVED IT!!

I don't really like being alone either because then the only people I have to talk to are the people inside my head. At the same time some times I don't want to be around other people because of events in my past that have made it very difficult to trust anyone. On one hand there's a Persecutor alter who still scares the hell out of me. The others are fine I can deal with them. But I've been told it's not really healthy to have such close relationships with people who only exist in my head. Then again I've also recently discovered that my therapist was using outdated methods for treating Multiple Personality Disorder. I never even heard of Dissociative Identity Disorder till about three months ago now. So I don't even know if anything my therapist told to do is actually helping anymore. Everyone else seems to have great communication with their alters and while I have like 40 alters I only really have decent communication with like maybe 6 of them.

@jeanettewaverly2590

4 жыл бұрын

It takes a long time to get to know one another, and some inner family members may never make themselves known. We've been aware that we are multi for over 20 years, and we still don't know everyone "in there." We can feel their presence, but, so far, they have chosen not to come forward. We respect this as their right and let them know that we love and support them, completely and totally, just the way they are. Re: therapeutic approaches to multiplicity/DID, they are a work in progress, as the "disorder" increasingly becomes demystified and accepted as "valid." If you are not comfortable with your current T, there is an oceanfull of them out there to choose from. (We joke that there are probably even more T's on the market today than lawyers, lol.) We hope this helps.

@Hayden-rc1ru

4 жыл бұрын

I don't have DID but from what I heard on various channels, both are important. Inner communication and outside friends. I'd say that learning to know your alters is a good thing because then you can support each others. Yes, these alters are 'inside your head' but you're still sharing a brain, you need to be able to communicate and understand one another if you want to be able to grow and go through life in one common direction without anyone feeling dissatisfied and/or left out. It's the same with Singles honestly, we need to know ourselves (our own brain) to be able to be happy, the difference is that you guys' brain is split and so you have to learn to know your teammates instead. But of course, I'm no expert so take my advice with a grain of salt. If you haven't watched their channels yet, I recommend DissociaDID and Team Piñata, my advice comes from what I learned in their videos.

@RialVestro

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeanettewaverly2590 I actually left my Therapist a long time ago because when I turned 18 I dropped from my dad's insurance and we couldn't afford things like that anymore. Also it's not a problem with just a single therapist. I've recently found out that the local college is still teaching Multiple Personality Disorder so pretty much every therapist in my area has no clue what DID is because it's not even taught to them in school. Either the college needs to update their lesson plan or I have to find someone who wasn't educated by the local community college.

@jeanettewaverly2590

4 жыл бұрын

@@RialVestro Keep looking! The right T is out there somewhere. We had the good fortune to connect with a T who was also a multi and a ritual abuse survivor (as we are). And as an added bonus, she had an anthropology background, like we do! We've had other excellent Ts too, so we know they do exist. Blessings to (all of ) you on your healing journey!

Damn, Daniel is my hero. You're such a beautiful person... Sending lots of love to both of you. ❤

I just back from my cpn appointment (little island so very little mental health care) and she noticed I have started saying "we". We started to get the did symptoms a year and a half ago so relatively new. None of us noticed I (the hostl started saying we and kinda proud of it :)

I'm not a comment reader, just a constant viewer, so a lot of people have probably mentioned this already...but I just realized why I love your music so much! It gives me happy Saved By the Bell flashbacks

I love this soooo much, best enemies to friends ever!!!

This is great to hear

THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL

This was wholesome and sweet!!

Im so happy for both of you!!!

Im so proud of you guys!! Youre doing so well!!

This video made me cry.

Good job both of you!

I'm so proud of you both! Yay for growth, together ^^

I'm glad you two are getting along better now. 💜

Good to have you on each other's team.

Love you two. Thanks for sharing your story with us. My feel-good story for Monday! ❤️

I love this relationship evolution 😭❤️

awww, love this ❤️❤️❤️

You guys are so amazing😍, I love that you were able to resolve your issues and come together 💪😀.

That was such a beautiful story 🥺

It is so amazing how you take care of each other. All the best to you!

What a sweet and beautiful story! Thank you for (as always) sharing so openly and honestly.

I feel like I just watched my kids get along for the first time lol, great video!! So happy for u guys 💕

Love this so much! Glad Daniel and Kit are closer now. Its so nice you have each others backs fully now. Sending love to everyone in the system. 🌻💛

This is so helpful to see as a very elaborate expression of what happens to every person on some level. So glad your system is experiencing a more harmonious coexistence!

I'm so happy to hear that you guys managed to resolve what was going on between you! The others must be glad and relieved that the head space will be that little more cheerful as well.

ahh i’m so happy for you two

This is amazing. I wish we had that kind of coordination. -Sebs

I’ve been subscribed for a long while now and I just wanna say I’m proud of you guys. I could always sense tension so it didn’t surprise me when you guys confirmed a distaste for each other.

Wow!! Thank you so much for sharing! I’m totally tearing up over here! It’s honestly so heartwarming and refreshing to see two people who you think “ there is no way a positive connection is going to happen” and then CLICK it works!! Thank you for being a positive start to my day!!! Now I feel like ANYTHING is possible!!! You all are the best!! ❤️

My heart can’t take this level of cuteness!

It´s so nice to see you talking about each other in this way! And I really like Daniels kind and calm nature.

You guys have evolved and grown so much. I may not know you guys but I'm proud and so excited to see how much more healing and positive change you all will go through :,)

WOOO THIS IS GREAT

I love the way in which you edited the scenes so you had both of you say the ending you are loved you are valid.

I'm glad you get along now. We like you and want you all to be friends and a great family. 🥰

i’m very glad youve managed to get to this point!! i’m happy for both of you. also, this has nothing to do with the video, but i really love a lot of the books on your book shelf!

Wait, Mistletoe intigrated with Kit? I thought she intigrated with Wyn...

@nerdyvalkyrie9230

4 жыл бұрын

@@HiR0SHi.the.D0G I didn't know that was possible!

I’m really happy for you guys to finally get along. It’s my first time commenting but i got a bit emotional myself watching. I’m not a system but i’ve been in many situations like Daniel’s and kit’s. And believe me both situations were very difficult. The need to be there for someone and the need to just get weak and cry it all out then get yourself together again.

It always makes me happy seeing people working out conflicts, and try their best to cooperate and be considerate of each other. No matter the situation, you'll always have to try to cooperate or comporomise, in order to keep things smooth and conflict-averse so bad stuff in the future won't occur. I'm happy to see you two change and how it also may have impacted the system as a whole. Keep going strong and stay level-headed and have mutuality. Also, change is a necessary tool for survival. It's in our nature, but It's hard to compromise yourself and your values to something you're not certain of that'll happen. -Hammond

this made me a bit emotional, im so glad to see you two getting along! i need to work on being nicer to others in our system yikes,, -four

It takes a lot to admit your own feelings, positive or negative. Both of you were incredibly brave and candid and that’s really great. To self reflect on you own behaviour, and accept and acknowledge it, and to try and move on from it, can be incredibly hard. I’m so happy for you both

This makes we SO happy! I was so surprised to learn that you didn't like each other because, even though you're so different I always felt you were so compatible and just assumed you were best buddies or at least close friends. And it made me sad to learn that wasn't the case. It's been incredible to see how much everyone in the system has grown in such a short amount of time and it's wonderful to see you two coming together and working through your differences! You are all so strong!

Love this vid

I’m so glad that you two are friends now! It’s hard to have headmates who don’t get along.

Okay, but like...that Three days Grace shirt.. 😍😭

Awesome! 😊

Daniel’s T-Shirt!!!!!🤩

Curious as to,why Mistletoe integrated with Kit and not Wynne. I thought that Mistletoe integrated with Wynne.

@Fairygoblet

4 жыл бұрын

I think in one video she says that it was both.

Yay friends!!!

I love Daniel's shirt 😍

wholesome

I want a friend like Daniel.

This is adorable, "he's cool, i approve"

Love Kit's (fake) nose piercing!

Genuinely curious, and I mean no ill intent, I swear. Who all in system did Mistletoe integrate with? Just for clarification sake? Absolutely love the video, thank you so much. -Ashana

Reconseliation! It's so good to see growth in people! Cause that's what all this is and it is reassuring in an odd way. Like growth is still a thing. Oh and I have a question for Wynn: does anyone have issues falling asleep ala insomnia? I'm asking cause I noticed that people who aren't neurotypical, think that's the correct word, seem to have a trend to sleeping issues.

@TheEntropySystem

4 жыл бұрын

We have chronic nightmares which sucks but we definitely don’t have insomnia. -Wyn

@theresablack9261

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheEntropySystem well I'm sorry about the nightmares. Those are never fun from what few I've had. It least there's no insomia on the bright side?

I was about to go bed buuuuut I’ll stay up and watch this instead 😜

🖤

But DAMMIT HE'S NICE!!! 😂😭😂

In a way, I know you are each individual personalities but, being nice to another alter, is being nice to yourself-a part of a whole outside body. I do not mean to negate your having DID, but trying to understand, in my singleton framework!

I have a question about how you helped a specific harmful self coping problem that I believe Kit also used, but am not sure how to contact you - do you have an old video or post somewhere about helping alters not to self harm?

Daniel gives off strong Big Bro energy

I have a question (and please correct me if I'm wrong about any of this) - is the relationship between alters affected by the trauma one or both of them holds? From what I understand some alters find it difficult or impossible to know the others are there because the brain needs them to be separate to keep their trauma away from the others. Does this also apply to relationships between them? Could Kit and Daniel not get along because one of them holds a trauma that the brain is trying to keep from the other one? Or is it purely about their personalities once they know each other exist?

@TheEntropySystem

4 жыл бұрын

Neither Kit nor Daniel are trauma holders, but stuff like that can absolutely influence Alter relationships. -Wyn

Question: do y’all eat and/or sleep in the headspace/inner world?

@TheEntropySystem

4 жыл бұрын

Only when we want to. It can be a comfort thing for some of us. Food and sleep aren’t necessary in the inner world, tho. -Wyn

❤❤❤❤❤❤💜💙💚💛🧡

Mistletoe integrated into Kit? I thought she integrated into Wyn.

Do you guys live.on a military base?

I'm sorry, I don't mean for this to come off as accusing or anything but didn't Mistletoe integrate with Wyn and not Kit? Or did Daniel miss-speak? Just asking cuz i recently watched your system's Mistletoe integrating video. Also! While I'm here, you all seem so amazing and watching your videos has been so educational. Lots of love

@TheEntropySystem

4 жыл бұрын

We thought Mistletoe fused with me because I had so much emotional fallout afterward. However, Kit’s personality changed heavily whereas mine didn’t so we believe the fusion was actually with her. -Wyn

@blank468

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheEntropySystem Thank you for taking the time to reply/explain :) That makes a lot of sense and now that I'm rereading my comment I feel a little silly for even asking since you absolutely don't owe anyone an explanation but I am really grateful that you responded and seem to respond to so many commenters on your channel

@TheEntropySystem

4 жыл бұрын

There’s no harm in asking :)

Is Kit wearing a faux piercing or does the body actually have a pierced septum?

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