Watching their social media stories made me despise that avoidant person. Seeing the new supply made me think they were never real. It’s like they’re pretending they never hurt you or are even hurt themselves

@n1icolas

15 күн бұрын

For me it just made me understand how shallow they really are, plus the constant approval they needed from their friends..

@Cre8Fire34

15 күн бұрын

That must have hurt. Sorry you went thru it.

@Cre8Fire34

14 күн бұрын

Most DA's don't really have friends. Their dysfunction isn't just in intimate romantic relationships: they are terrible parents, friends, and siblings. They are self-absorbed, have no bandwith to relate - and are loaners. My DA ex wasn't just a bad girlfriend after month 15 - she revealed that she is one of the worst PEOPLE I've ever met - not just a shitty partner. Her teenage kids would PREDICT her disengaging - when it would happen, and when Mom would "come back". She's made them into greedy little narcissists who lie and manipulate.

I got the breadcrumbs while she was seeing someone else. I put an end to it in January.

@Cre8Fire34

15 күн бұрын

Hope you at least called her out before you did

I am ok with breadcrumbs now I am that hopeless 😂

Or they get there friends to do the breadcrumbing for them that's something else you have to watch out for because that happened to me.. but wasn't stupid enough for their silly childish games. I basically said im leaving in two days and i really don't care because i'm not playing there games because it was them who discarded me and was cheated on in the first place. I basically said they have a new partner and don't need me plus there on tinder looking for a new man. So basically they have been unfaithful to me and there supposedly new partner too.. do they ever learn .. OMG

A covert malignant narcissist did this to me.

My ex just sent me a picture he took of me. We've been in NC for 4 mths. He said thinking of me drives him crazy..

My avodiant ex never expressed what she want , never expreesed her feelings even if I ask her what she wants and feeling . Suddenly one she ended the relationship and moved on to new perosn in juat 2days . And the new perosn was all over her social media and watching this hurted like hell. I was so devasted through this and angry which lead me to depression ,self -sabotaging and slef blaming. Because of that person who was not emotionally available i suffered for 3years and wated my precoius years also. I am heading towards my healing journey.✌️

Thank you.

Why do they turn hypercritical and disrespectful?

@CoachRyanH

15 күн бұрын

If they find “fault” in their partner, they can avoid accountability and self reflection

@sums2337

14 күн бұрын

​@@CoachRyanH Fault in the sense?

Does setting this boundary after the breadcrumb give different results then setting it as soon as they discard you?

I LOOOOVE your content! So spot on… they have a big core wound around being defective and incapable. They also have a high need for autonomy in order to feel a sense of safety. It can be really tiring to follow this push and pull dynamic, but everybody also deserves a chance. See if they show up once you set your boundaries and communicate your needs 🤍🤍🤍