Raw, vulnerable and emotional. This is the kind of videos I respect. It goes to show that men struggle mentally too but suffer in silence due to the stigma attached of being “less masculine”. I say to hell with that, let go of every tear drop and don’t feel embarrassed at all. We’re human at the end of the day. Honestly, nothing less than respect to him for coming on here and expressing himself so eloquently and that you can feel pain in his voice. Stay positive. Stay strong, you got this. 🙏🏽

My husband lost his younger brother last year. It was Christmas Eve, and he flew to Bangladesh for the funeral. It was all sudden. He had left behind 5 children, 1 of whom his wife only found out she was pregnant after his death. Life throws all sorts of challenges. Sometimes, it changes us as individuals for the better. Brings us closer to our Lord. I see it as a wake-up call. Always remember this life is a journey for us all. We are crossing a bridge to get to our final destination. Each day we wake up is a blessing. The question is, how have we lived this life in order to reap the rewards of Jannah

@kamilahdhariwal164

10 ай бұрын

Very powerful to talk about your loss, I lost my sister a year ago and the pain is a struggle for sure she left behind a 2 year old daughter 😢😢 life can be cruel, they say God has a plan x

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

I am sorry to hear about your husband younger brother may Allah make it easy for you and your whole family and grants the highest place in heaven for him. Thank you for your comment.

Gosh this was so emotional. So raw and you can hear the pain in your husbands voice. I'm happy he opened up and spoke so lovingly about his brother 😢 May Allah swt grant you and your family peace. Ameen

This is so heartwarming to watch my husband lost his younger brother to cancer nearly two years ago and being South Asian we always think men have a tough exterior but this is the real meaning and essence of emotion that you have shown , as much as you struggle you just pull through for those you love with allahs will in sha allah you get through !

This was so refreshing to watch. First time I’ve ever commented on a KZread video. It takes a lot of courage especially for men in the south Asian community to speak so openly about mental and emotional health. Your brother would be so proud of you. You really are a credit to your family and children. May allah swt reward your brother with Jannatul ferdous ameen. Also such an amazing reminder for all of us to be in a state of Dhikr just like your brother. Best wishes ❤

Hey brother never give up in the mercy of Allah. As your brother departed, he’s left a legacy in you, live by his examples, live by what he taught you. It’s a Sadaqah jaariyah in every good that he taught you, as you repeat that good. Giving up is not an option, by all means take time to grieve, but nurture yourself and get back on your game. You can do this, for every advice he gave you and you act on it, the rewards will return to him, teach them to others and he still gets rewarded, subhanaAllah. Celebrate his memories and continue to get closer to Allah, He Swt knows our struggles. Times are tough. Thank you for sharing . May Allah Swt ease your struggles, and guide you to where you need to be. You are doing great, small steps, you’ve got a plan, you’ll get to where you need to be in sha Allah. Stay blessed brother, there is khair in everything. Alhamdulillah, Allah is Kareem, may He Swt grant you sakeenah. Ameen 😊you are a great person, always so gentle and caring for your family - Allah will reward you immensely. Keep going , you have amazing qualities and confidence! 😊

Your brother sounds like he was an amazing person alhamdulillah. From what we have seen from Shelley’s videos, so are you. Enjoy your well deserved time out

Dulabhai is honestly the sweetest person Allahuma Barik🥹🥹🥹🤍

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. May Allah bless you and your family.

I think everyone who watched has chocked up and cried so emotional. I pray Allah SWT grants him Jannat Al fardous peace in the grave Ameen summa Ameen. What a great guy you lovely getting to hear from you. Sheley look after this man he's a keeper.

I was in tears just listening to you. Dulla bai our respect for you has grown even more. Jazzak Allah for having this heart to heart and only the strong amongst us can actually do what you've just done. Good on you for taking this gap year👍. Mental health is real and we need to take care of ourself life is short and we need to live it in the best way we can. Turning back to Allah and meditating, reflecting is what the majority of us need and we space and time for this. May Allah make all that is difficult for you easy and always keep you, our sister Shelly and the kids happy, safe and well ameen ajmaeen ya rabbal aalameen 🤲

Really good you had the courage to share your story, alot of people will relate to you and it will help them to open up and talk about their struggles. Thankyou for sharing. May Allah swt make it easy for you all and May Allah swt grant your brother the highest rank in Jannah. Ameen

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. I can say it was hard opening up ,but may Allah bless you and your family 😊

This made me cry, I sincerely pray for your family and for your parents and for your brothers family. May Allah swt bless them with sabr and reunite you all with him in Jannah! Ameen

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. I pray Allah bless you and your family.

I’ve lost my mother recently so I could tell the pain in your voice, losing a loved one never really heals and the pain every so often comes and pierce through the heart but that’s life. Your very brave brother for sharing and also very fortunate you have a beautiful family and support system. May Allah grant your brother jannatul firdaus and you sabr, ameen

@zaibthebabe

10 ай бұрын

I lost my mother 9 months ago im still grieving hav anxiety 😢😢😢i watch vlogs they keep me going..i watched your Bangladesh vlogs in jan honestly loved them tuk my mind off things 😢❤❤❤

Such a humble person, i could feel the genuine voice within this guy. Well done for sharing.

Thankyou for sharing really appreciate it. I myself lost my older brother in 2016 in his sleep and 2020 both my parents 4 months apart. Since then Ive been left traumatised and still bereaving. I can understand what brother is going through. Mashallah i love watching your videos sister and brother very authentic. Mashallah stay happy stay blessed.

@hallykay4367

10 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear this sis. I pray Allah swt comforts your heart and aids and supports you through your grief. My mum passed away at a very young age 11 years ago and I'm still feeling the pain and grief.

@rahanabegum1

10 ай бұрын

@@hallykay4367 aww mashallah sister thankyou for your kind words. Really appreciate it. May allah swt also brings peace and heals your heart. Our hearts will never heal. May Allah swt grants to all our loved ones who have passed away janathul ferdous ameen

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you sister. I will pray for your family. It is hard losing someone. I am sorry to hear what you have gone through I pray Allah grants them the highest place in heaven.

Wow brother,! wat a heart felt video. Ur brother sounds like an amazing human being who has left a beautiful legacy . Ur a brave man to come on here and share ur hardships. Turning to Allah swt is the best direction for us all. Through hardship and come ease . Keep talking and reaching out to help with ur mental health We need more Asian men like u to be courageous and speak about mental health. I pray Allah swt makes it easy for u and Yr beautiful family and may u be reunited with ur brother in jannah !

@naveedaakram2109

10 ай бұрын

I am a counsellor by the way and see how Asian men hide away and try to manage themselves but they still don't find solace.and it affects the whole family,worst cases destroys them . reach out plz and take brother as an example x

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. It was hard for me to talk about my inner feelings but I'm feeling I got something off my chest. May Allah bless you and your family.

Your brother knows and we know your a lovely humble person one day at a time patience and gratitude 🙏

The way you talk about your brother is so beautiful. It’s very clear you loved him dearly and had a lot of admiration for him, and I’m sure he felt the same way about you too. You are a good brother and a good person. Take the time you need, spend time with your family and don’t be too hard on yourself! Best of luck for your app and your future!

Hi assalamualaikum.. firstly i want to give a massive thanks to AKTHAR BHAI for speaking so openly in this vlog. I know it takes a lot of courage to say it how it is at times...however it has to be said!! In life it is never going to be a easy ride..ups and downs will remain however you are an amazing humble person and that clearly shows in the vlogs. Take care of yourself and remember allah does not burden a soul more than that he/she can bear! 😊

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you sister it has been hard for me to open up. I pray Allah bless you and your family.

I agree with you dula bhai school should start at 10 😊 You seem like such a genuine person. Shelly is lucky to have you in her life. May Allah give your brother jannah and help you through the tough times .

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. We should start a movement for school to start at 10. May Allah bless you and your family😊.

Salam brother. I met you once in turkey & straight away you can see how nice you are as a person.. very friendly, sweet & humble also quite funny 😅 This video was very emotional to watch but it takes a strong person to speak about mental health esp with our asian men, so well done bhai.. huge Respect👍 May Allah make it easy for you & your family & i will keep you in my duas insha Allah. Takecare of yourself bhai xx

Thank you for sharing this about yourself and what you've been through, losing a loved one is not easy, may God continue to bless you and your family. Also your encouraging words was something I needed to hear.🙏🏽

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. It was nice reading your comment. I will pray for you and your family to have a long happy life thanks.

😢alhamdulillah my brother you r stronger than u think! Masha’Allah n thank u for sharing this emotional but motivated vlog♥️ may Allah give ur brother the highest rank in jannah Ameen🤲🏽

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your support may Allah bless you and your family.

Amazing video, glad you uploaded it. 👏🙌👍

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Salaam to both of you .... I hardly comment but I always watch ... and I just want to say this video was just so raw, i wish more south Asian men would open up ... ( be allowed to express their feelings ) a man that's emotional is not deemed as not strong or masculine but in our eyes a man who has a heart ) Dhulabhia is clearly a man of emotions who's not afraid to show it and we love that May Allah ta'allah always fill your loved with Barakah ❤

Please make more videos like this bhaiya we are all here to listen and support you as well as sheley♥️

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ thanks for your support I need it.😊

So very raw, emotional & beautiful. You made me cry & i could feel your pain. Talking is one of the best things we can all do. It makes us realise just how similar we all are & the tough times we experience. We never get over a loss. We all deal with grief in our own way. We go through it, around it & every other way there is. Thankyou so much for sharing. God Bless you & your family x

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for you heart warming comment.

Salaam Brother. Honestly, so much respect for you speaking out like this on such a big platform. It definitely takes a great deal of courage to do that, and you smashed it! Keep strong and stay blessed!

Salaam brother, thank you for sharing. This made me cry, i could feel your pain. May Allah make it easy for you and bless you and your family with lots of happiness ❤

May Allah make it easy for your brother In Shaa Allah! And grant him Jannah, This was a great insight to your life which you didnt have todo. May Allah make it easy for you coz we all can see you struggling 😔! It actually had me in tears me and my wife watch these vlogs daily I didnt expect this today. Stay well my brother!

This was very heartwarming, I had a lump in my throat holding in the tears just watching this video. Very encouraging and inspiring person Masha’Allah. 🙌🏽

Salam Brother, May Allah swt grant your brother jannatul Ferdous. 🤲🏼 Ameen

Awww 😢 I pray Allah gives Bhaisaab peace and the strength to move forward and be motivated to achieve his ambitions. He seems like a very humble nice person which is rare to find in this day and age.

This was so touching and heart warming, may Allah swt make it easy for you. Love watching your family all the way from Australia!

Brother you are what we call in Bengali ‘shorol’ and in a good way. Seem very humble, hardworking, and down to earth mashallah

That was good of u to open up, we got to know u a little more. Sorry what u went through. Lifes short thats true, keep going.

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your support. May Allah bless you and your family. Life is short my sister so live it with a smile 😁

I had tears.felt the emotions. Your husband is very good person respect to u all.

Respect my brother I love watching your videos and I love watching Shelly too and good work Masha'Allah all of you and prayers for all of you and all of us too. bless you all take care

Don’t worry bhaiya your doing amazing carry on with wat ur doing and take it slowly my brother.

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you

Salam brother, may Allah s.w.t make it easy for you and your family, i pray may Allah s.w.t keep you steadfast in his religion and brings you closer, may Allah s.w.t remove any difficulties or problems or hardship you and anyone is going through, Ameen. Most beautiful advice i can give you that will truly bring barakah in life is praying all prays on time, making dua for all, dhikr aswell as astagfirullah, sending salawat, giving charity in different ways, morning and evening adkhar, and just remembering Allah s.w.t and being grateful will bring so so many blessing and goodness you will see InshAllah. Alhamdullilah

This was the realist thing I’ve seen on the internet in a whole while may Allah bless you and your family. Give you Sabr and strength. Shelley I’ve been watching you for ages now and I don’t really comment but i had to here. I’m so glad you managed to convince him to let you post it. MashAllah ❤

Omg how mad. I was watching ur video and my bro goes hold on,I know him. Ur husband is from the same area as us. What a small world. Love watching ur videos Sis 👌🏾😊

Lovely video. Needed this thank you.

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤❤❤

May Allah bless you and your whole family brother. May Allah make it easy for everyone who is struggling stay strong and the best thing is praying trust me you’ll feel so much lighter and Allah will open up so many paths for you In Shaa Allah take care brother Allah Hafiz

You are a hardworking and committed son, father and husband. Allah has blessed you in more ways than you know, thank you for sharing your reality. It is well received. But whatever you treasure, do keep for yourself. Protecting yourself from the envy of others should be an important element of your daily routine as you and Sheley have chosen to be in the public eye. So make sure you recite the du'aas for protection daily).

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your support ❤

You are both fantastic people. Thank you so much for sharing your story, your experience is valuable

What a raw and genuine blog, soo unfiltered and real. Very courageous to talk about real life issues, so refreshing to hear.. May Allah make all our affairs easy for us, and give us all strength to deal with our trials.. Losing our nearest and dearest is always hard, but its a sad inevitable fact of life.. Great blog We need more like this.. Masha'allah beautiful brother inside and out..

You are amazing. Thank you for sharing this side of you. Hope you can slowly cope with the loss. He was special to you we can see. 😢

Salam bhai, may Allah make it easy for you and your family. This is life and everyone is going through this each day. Love watching your wife videos. Good luck with everything.

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you my dear sister may Allah reward you and your family.

Your real brother, thankyou for. Sharing , Allah keeps you strong, takes guts to open up. Your a good human.

my partner n I listened to this video this man talks do much sense sorry for your loss of your brother you have a really nice family it has made me think family is what matters I nearly lost my mum this year not moving on from it going to take some time out grateful for this video thanks

May Allah make it easy for you and your family..keep us in your duas. And for all the Muslims that are suffering in this duniya

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you, you all are in my duas.😊

Salaam Bhai chin up Shelly give Bhai a hug

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you I guess I need the hug😊

This is very inspiring, you are a real Birmingham brother at heart! May Allah bless you and your family always

Awww bless you brother hope your okay & sorry for your loss Your video made me cry😢very raw & emotional sadness. Hope you get stronger & enjoy your life because life is too short

My heart is broken listening to this. May Allah keep you strong and happy ameen. You got this!

Awww I pray Allah shower you with happiness in this life an hereafter in sha allah stay strong brother

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank you I will pray for you and your family . I am feeling stronger from your heart warming comment.😊

Alhumdullilah 😊😊 Allah always work things out for u 😊😊😊. We plan and Allah is best of planners ❤

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

I agree Allah is the best of planners. May Allah bless you and your family.

In my Dua’s brother. Can so relate to all you’ve said. May Allah swt grant you peace and ease. Ameen

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank may Allah bless you and your family.

A very raw, heartfelt vlog. My sincerest condolences for your loss. May Allah make it easy for you and your family. This no doubt, by reading the comments, will bring others comfort and help them with their own bereavement. Sometimes it helps to talk about it, than to bottle it up.

It needs lot if courage to discuss ups and downs in life ...may Allah subhanawataala grant jannatul firdous to ur brother .Aameen.inshaaAllah we will soon see u working with whatever pleases u....may Allah bless us all Aameen

May Allah swt grant him the highest rank in jannah inshallah.

Mash Allah Shelly your husband is a gem beautiful family. We lost my brother at 55 out the blue. Can relate beautiful family Mash Allah ❤and your sister is just hilarious another beautiful family 😊

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank may Allah bless you and your family. I am sorry to hear about your brother I will pray Allah grants him the highest place in heaven.

May allah swt makes it easy for you and your family ameen.

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank may Allah bless you and your family.

This must of been very hard to speak your heart aloud. You are a gr8 father and husband and you are very brave to do this and im sure this has made a difference to alot of people. I can fully understsnd what your going through as iv too lost my elder brother. It was extremely hard and it has taken a long time but praying made me mentally strong enough to help others and myself. You're on the right path God is the way forward and will help you always. Thank you for sharing your feeling's.

May Allah swt bless him .. takes a lot to talk about mental health and going through grief of his brother… well done and take care

Sheley I was hoping you would come and hug your hubby he just wanted to cry. I’m Sure you gave him plenty of cuddles afterwards. Got bless him he is such a genuine guy and he loves you berry berry much. Hoping his year out will be good for him to reflect and come back stronger! 🙏🏽

Salaam, watched your videos for a while but never commented. Dhulabhai may allah make things easy for you and grant your brother the highest rank in jannat ul firdaus. I admire your bravery to speak so honest and openly whereas others supress and deal with internally. Inshallah things will get better for you and your amazing family. Lots of love to you

Lovely heartfelt vlog

This made me cry it’s good that he can sit there and talk about his brother.🤗🤗❤️

سبحان الله this made me sooo emotional, such a wonderful person, May Allah swt keep you safe and blessed may he eliminate any difficulties you face my brother, I lost my elder brother and the pain inside is unbelievable, I totally share and understand your sentiments. Such a beautiful family you have and you nailed it when you said that the videos Shelley posts ppl Find love and happiness that really radiates from her, I truly feel your family is like my own. I make duah for you all for happiness and love xxxx

My tears wouldn’t stop when I watched your video. I could hear your pain in your voice. It must have been so hard for you to talk about your brother with so much pain inside you. You had the courage to share your vulnerability to an audience you never met. You are strong in mind and soul. Well done for speaking up about your mental health. There are a lot of men who do not feel comfortable to share their vulnerability, you speaking about your difficulties will help many others. I love how you took time out for yourself. This is very important to know when you need time for yourself, then when your feeling better, you can face everything feeling stronger. It is important to stay around loved ones at these tough times. I am certain that lovely Shelley and your lovely family are there looking after you. May Allah give you and your family the strength to move on keeping happy memories of your dear brother. May Allah swt reserve a beautiful place in jannah for your brother ❤

Assalamu alaikum, I also lost my sister to Covid on the same summer holiday you lost your brother. I also went down hill like you. Alhamdulillah I am off the depression tablets but just like you I can't focus. May Allah swt grant you and your family ease and sabr. Ameen.

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

I guess we all deal with losing someone in different ways I will pray for you and your family and may Allah grant your sister the highest place in heaven. thanks for sharing I feel your pain my dear sister. Thank you.

@nasmabegum7563

10 ай бұрын

@@akhtaruzzamman5753 Ameen, jazakumullahu wa khairan. My nana left this world from covid 10 months before my sister died. She went to visit his grave in Birmingham, to her son's she said 'how peaceful this graveyard is, I wish to be buried here too and so her children who where all so young at the time refused for their mother to be buried in London. We also lost a relative in Saudi from heart attack not long after. 3 weeks after my sister died my husband sent me with his family to a wedding in Bangladesh to help my mental health. On the morning of the walima my friend texting me from London, her 18 year old son had died in his sleep from covid night before. I felt my 1st axiety attack the night after my sisters janazah. When I had returned back from the wedding came wave after wave of anxiety attacks day and night. I was drastically wasting away and losing weight so fast, until by that year Christmas I suffered a nervous breakdown and turned to the Dr, my parents, my children, my husband and manzil dua for help. Atfirst I was afraid of the stigma. Alhamdulillah my husband took me to umrah after that in ramadhan and recently this month we both returned from America. Guess what? At my inlaws in Michigan I learnt that my neice inlaw watches this channel! Masha Allah you guy's have gone world wide!

This really made me tear up May Allah grant your brother Jannatul Firdous, and may Allah grant you and your whole family sabr Ameen

Brother, this video made me cry. May Allah swt bless you always. And grant your brother jannat ul firdous. Aameen 😢

I feel for you Brother, May Allah SWT relive your pain in your heart🤲 also may he give you blessing you need. Aameen😊

Loved the video and I’m glad you spoke about your brother. A lot happened after his passing and I’m sure it hit your family really hard. Shelly and Aktar both please have the intention to go Hajj. Kids are older now and have both grandparents. Go before it’s too late. :)

Bless you dulahbhai very strong for doing this vidio, May Allah swt give you piece and happiness at heart and keep you all happy and healthy In sha Allah , your brother is in our duas 🤲

Asalamaykum. Baiya. I really love apas blog. You and apa inspire me so much. Your love and respect towards your family is so sweet. Keep it up. And keep my family in your duas pls

May Allah bless him he’s a great Dad and husband 😊😊😊

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

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Brother, may Allah keep you positive and give you shifa to move plast your pain and grief. We will always pray for you to keep strong and inshaa Allah all will be well.

May Allah bless you and your family Akhtaruz, mashallah this video was very eye opening please keep staying strong

Took so much courage for you to speak about this. So heart wrenching. Honestly I wish and pray you guys are reunited in jannah ameen. As someone who works in MH I would encourage you to seek some bereavement counselling insha allah it could help you heal.

👍👏💪💪💪thankyou for sharing.

I can feel his pain 😢😢😢😢 i miss my mum..she was our backbone

May Allah swt grant ur brother the highest ranks in jannathul firdous. I also lost my big bro in 2020 then my dad a few months after

Maa shaa Allah ❤

He look just like ur daughter 😀😀 twins

All my duas are with you always from now, keep strong as Allah is with you 🙏

Dear brother may allah swt make it easy for you with the loss of your dearest eldest brother. Allah (SWT) promises His believer that “For indeed, with hardship [will be] ease” (Quran 94:5) Thanks for sharing your life diary. Nice to get to know Shellys husband. I think everyone has sadness and happiness mixed in their lives - true tests for the All mighty. Stay positive and continue to remember the Lord with every breathe. May Allah swt bless u for your efforts to share your personal issues. Allahumma barik

Well done brother for talking about everything. Allah SWT make it easy for you. I lost my son 5 years ago when he was 16 years old, still feels so raw and I find it so difficult to talk about it to anyone, I don't think I've even fully grieved yet as I feel that I need to be strong for my wife and my other 2 children. Allah SWT give me strength

@AbdulShahid79

10 ай бұрын

Btw.... You used to live around Aston? You know Sadiko?

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Salaam my brother I'm am sorry to hear about your son I will pray 🙏 that Allah reunites you with your son and your loved ones in heaven. We all have to go at some point but it hurts when someone young returns to Allah. You are a strong person my brother and being strong for your family is important may Allah reward you in this life and the hereafter. Yes I was from Aston and sadikur is a very close friend and brother to me.

@AbdulShahid79

10 ай бұрын

@@akhtaruzzamman5753 I saw Sadikur in one of the videos hence I asked. He's my taloir goror bhai.

May Allah swt bless your brother with jannah furdous.

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

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Best Ranting🎉i shd add

@nessanarun7904

10 ай бұрын

Bai do another vlog 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 waiting

May Allah bless you and your family

@akhtaruzzamman5753

10 ай бұрын

Thank may Allah bless you and your family.

We need a get to know family blog from brothers side in'sha'allah..

Nice Vlog 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩😎😎😎😎❤❤❤❤🥇🥇🥇🥇

Do you miss birmingham? And i dont blame you but its good youve taken a break and will get motivated to get back up

😢May Allah make it easy for everyone going through a hard time. Sometimes we need that break- that cut off time so we can come back with a better mind set, last thing you want is to be working and snapping at people because of what’s happening. In that sense it better to take your time. Alhumdulilah for having family support, and for those that don’t have it Allah is enough- remember that, Allah is the one that can change our situation so speak to him directly.

Its tough when your loved one dies 😢😢😢my mum died 9 months ago im struggling

I think this guy needs time and patience. I can tell hes heartbroken i lost both my parents. But losing my mother i was like him.