Dr. Emma Katz, YOU ARE A TRUE GOD SEND!! No words, just tears listening to you FINALLY EXAPLAIN, the whole TRUTH about coercive control and what my children and I hve experienced almost 17 years now. Thank you for this profound exposure and clear explaination!! Thank you Gentlemen for this much needed progrm.

Thank you for this fabulous content...I am helping as many as I can to get out safely with their children. Recently a lady came to me for help with something else and the root cause was discovered, she had 9 years of torture and had left once before. She is finally free.

Feel like your describing my 15 yr relationship. I left but now me and the kids are in a new kind of hell

I’m planning to leave my husband. Saw my shrink yesterday, seeing my lawyer today. He has a file cabinet with all the statements I need, but I’m too afraid to go in his office. How do you explain that to someone?!? I can’t leave a light on, turn the heater up, use the espresso machine, leave a door open….

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Please don't go somewhere where he can trace you. Don't go to a family members home. Go somewhere that he would never think you would go. Also, treating a grown woman like a child is wrong and you should never have to have to experience it again. I wish you the best.

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@@breeeque That is the perfect response to someone who is experiencing trauma.

09:15 Book cited: Lundy Bancroft, "WHY DOES HE DO THAT? - Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men"

Maybe it (coercive subtle control) 's just a legal terminology to describe covert narcissism with it's own three stages: Idealization, devaluation, discard, hoover, and back to idealization. Idealization starts fast and feels heavenly and intense...

We need more therapists who are educated in coercive control. Also need more therapists who believe you and are willing to stand up for you and NOT minimize what coercive controllers do!!!

Great podcast by the way.

Guys this is amazing thanks you so much 🙏🏻

But it don't just happen With relationships. It can go on In families as well With children Under care Of Different family members. Where that child doesn't actually belong to that person.

Does emma have a channel / podcast?

“Quiet up or I’ll SMACK you”… geez, thanks Psychopath.

Goodness help the women who have had a change of residency because they weren’t believed. They stop you seeing the children. Any contact is so regimented. There’s absolutely no help.

Glad I put myself into care after few years I git safebin mocenkids home but the fact I letbit happen with yhe man I acidently married due to his coercion omg

Isolation

I researched in self foumf my mum and dad. HAd similar traits as he was infidelity action to mum mad

Flowers kindness if u think I'm doing that ill keave mow when hecwas confronted now I. Sat here earing noises ect snd. Coukd b anyone knocking dare to look pos been hyoervigilant safe just no at times im ok but time just bern silly hope ppl read this and no that all will b ok the domestic abuse call lines are there ifbi. DOubt call police and ask b referd to the help teams prosecution. Is my step never donebot before use. Help lines will help.

My dad pined me down on night as so he didn't get. Caught and not to soeaknoc him coming diwn ally he bit my nose told. Jot to say anything I kearnedbkater he had rated my mums freind.