I haven’t been enjoying my singleness at all because I’ve been single my entire life. It was frustrating, but now I’m trying to enjoy it because once I get married, I’ll never get it back. I just started taking care of my body and health so I want to take care of myself spiritually too. Recently, I’ve been wanting to work on operating in the fruits of the Holy Spirit

@lilamontoya5609

Жыл бұрын

Such a good perspective I needed to hear this

people always said your partner will complete you. but when she said God's complete you, I realised how attach I am to human and not The Creator... 😔

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone is on a journey!! Don’t give up hope 🙏🏼

These young women who are single for a few years and then get married can easily tell you that embrace your singleness and how they were so content single and suddenly their husband showed up. Try telling that to people who have waited 25 years in unwanted singleness!

@joanwalcott6852

11 ай бұрын

True that it was sooo hard

Me being 21 and never even having a boyfriend before, I am on the line of having that faithful mindset and still really longing for a relationship. God is really growing in this season, I can see it now after watching this video. It’s just hard sometimes.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

It’s okay to not have okay days. You got this. Don’t give up hope 🙏🏼

@AmberDennis001

2 жыл бұрын

@@natcunningham I hope self love helps me find like you. I am scared to be a 40 year old virgin lol

@bhargavchaturvedi

Жыл бұрын

Same with me, but replace boyfriend to girlfriend 😂😂

@The_faithful_princess

Жыл бұрын

Same :/

@kevindalton2981

9 ай бұрын

30 years old and never had a girlfriend. Rather save myself for someone who genuinely loves me and only wants me. I hope I meet her one day😊

Be Kind to Yourself. Give Grace to Yourself. Be Patient to Yourself. Speakin’ to Yourself.

Love this!! I think it’s so important to be content as a single person, and to focus on our ourselves and getting closer with God. :)

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Yes amen 🥰🤍

@justineperez363

3 жыл бұрын

@@natcunningham I love you

@justineperez363

3 жыл бұрын

@@natcunningham I'm a new subscriber I want to see more of your videos I love you and I want my first love to be the last

@courtneywiley4228

2 жыл бұрын

If we were content we wouldn’t be seeking a relationship

@courtneywiley4228

Жыл бұрын

@@hamilton9651 right. I’m working so hard on being content. I’m finding it now finally and once I truly find it I don’t want anyone disturbing that. Especially someone who could potentially hurt me. How do we guard our hearts without putting up brick walls?

Thank you so much for this! I’m always moping and i would pray for a boyfriend, but a few months ago I realized that I’m not ready for a boyfriend because I need to learn to love myself and have God complete me. I’m learning to embrace my singleness and it’s been a good journey so far. God knows what he’s doing! :)

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Aw love this!! Yes, God definitely knows what he’s doing. Keep praying for your future husband! 🙏🏼

„Don‘t waste this season waiting for the next one.“ - I‘m gonna write your words on my forehead so that‘s what I see every time I look into the mirror (or I‘ll write on my mirror I guess) but your words are so wise and profound. Thank you. ❤️❤️

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha love it!! Thank you!! 🥰

I'm already 37 and still single. Sometimes I'm afraid realize that am still single at this age but what can I do. It's not the thing like I can choose any candy so easy. And for now, the hardest thing is I lost my job. But I told my self Everytime am down, am I only going to be happy and praise God if my life is going as I plan and hope? Ofcourse not. Thank you Nat for sharing, makes me feel better. Gbu

Loved this video and definitely needed this! I'm finding in my singleness that building my relationship with God is soo important! God's timing is also never wrong and we need to do the work in our single years to prepare for our husband! Sending lot's of love to everybody! 🙏🏻💞

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Yes agree 100%!! 🤍

@stevemacinnis5000

Жыл бұрын

Hey Jackie! How is it going, did you find someone? If you did, you can ignore this comment. I'm a 25-year-old single Christian man and I'm looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. I live in Canada, but in the beginning, a long-distance relationship won't be a problem for me because I'm actually waiting for marriage to have sex. I'd love to know more about you. Let me know if you're interested, and I'll give you my fake email address, and from there I can get your number if it goes well. Thanks for reading, and God bless. 🙏❤

@danielhoward861

12 күн бұрын

Did you find a husband yet?

It's been a multi year journey for me. I was in a relationship for 7 years and it ended very traumatically. And I've taken about 3 years of healing as a single person. One thing I found helped me was I started going to exercise everyday and not bringing my phone. Just a dedicated chunk of time for just me. Now I've considered getting back into dating and finding a special someone, but I've noticed the damage is still there to that capacity making me wary about it. Baby steps! Love the positivity of your channel! I clicked subscribe last night!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! 🥰

I love this. I wasted so many years being discontented and I can't get them back. I am 61 and still unmarried, but I'm getting better.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Amen! God still has so much ahead of you! You’re still on this earth for a reason 🙏🏼🤍

ohh I love to hear your book recommendations!! I enjoy the way you speak. Very wise and level headed.

I'm ugly outside but I'm a good man I would never hurt a girl and I'm still single waiting to God's perfect time I want my first love to be the last and to be my wife.I don't experience having a girlfriend or to date someone I'm a man that not flirting at all because love is not trial and error. I want to prove to the world that not every man in this world can hurt a woman's heart. I'm a man of God and I'm proud to say that I'm still waiting in God's perfect time to find my soulmate 💝💝💝💝 When you say Lilyanne "A respectful man is more attractive than a pretty face with a petty attitude I'm so happy because nowadays girls focus on handsome guys and having a lot of money, they don't focus on the man that not attractive outside.If you're the girl that the outside is More important in a relationship good luck to your future husband that can't treat you right.Having a good outside looking and not having a good heart good luck to that man you date a face but you marry the personality. SORRY FOR THE BAD GRAMMAR

@freesoul1234

3 жыл бұрын

🙏

@trizawangu8752

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

@corinacodrean563

3 жыл бұрын

This is so good "you date a face but you marry the personality"👍

@justineperez363

3 жыл бұрын

@@corinacodrean563 😊😊😊😊

@tanyarenaissance8829

3 жыл бұрын

You need to shift your thoughts on thinking you are ugly. Everyone is beautiful to someone. We are attracted to souls and not looks. But we believe it is the looks we are attracted to.

This is the best singleness advice I have heard on youtube !

Thank you, Nat! This has been very helpful and love the causality of this video, it feels like a friend is talking to me!

@natcunningham

Жыл бұрын

Aw I love that!! 🤍

"Go full force into everything that you want to learn." I love that!

Loved this. Don’t ever stop posting videos!! I love your videos. God bless you Nat

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Aw thank you!!! Definitely many more to come 🥰🤍

Thank you Nat, people call me Nat as well! This content was very resonating. I agree with every point to have perspective, work on myself and have community. I’ve been doing all three things and it’s been helpful!! Watching amazing content like yours, reading books and singleness devotionals, working on my sisterhood and accountability community is great.

this helped SO much. I am currently in a season of singleness and I keep on going back to things that aren't good for me that I know is not good for me and It's been super hard. Thankful for this message.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy this encouraged you 🙏🏼

loved this! ' God is intentional' thank you so much Nat :)

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you loved it 🤍

I REALLY LOVED AND NEEDED THIS VIDEO... this was on time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ily💗

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad 🤍

Thank you so much for this. I needed to see this video today. It’s like you’re a big sis through KZread haha. I would love to hear your take on rejection and holding true to your values. So happy I found this channel. Thank you!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Aw this made my day!! You’re so sweet 🥰 I’ll definitely write that in my notes for a future video 🙌🏼

Thank you for this helpful chat - the way you present it seems to have a real warmth - like you're a friend.

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

aw thank you! That’s my goal

Such a great video. I really love being single and I know it is not time for me to be dating. I have been working on myself and just appreciating life. Thanks for sharing this video.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Aw I’m so glad 🥰

Amen! this was a really helpful/fruitful video, and I actually have had that book for two years and I have yet to finish it 😭 definitely will be getting into that this year! thank you so much for your thoughts + wisdom. God bless you!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad!! Yes, I’m about half way done and it’s helped me so much. Thank you for the encouragement 🥰

Thank you Lord, I needed to hear this! God bless you sis🤩🥰💕

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Awe makes me so happy! 🥰

This encouraged me to so much Nat, you have no idea. I wouldn't want to get ahead of myself and ruin God's plan for me because I suddenly became inpatient. His plan is pleasing and perfect. All I have to do is enjoy life as a woman of worth and woman of God❤

I love this! I am holding onto every word. I feel like I am looking into a mirror! And your testimony gives me so much hope!

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

This makes me heart so happy! 🤍

@stevemacinnis5000

Жыл бұрын

Hey McKenna! Your first name goes really well with my last name! 😉I'm a 25-year-old single Christian man and I'm looking for marriage. If you're interested, don't worry, we'll take our time. I live in Canada, but the distance doesn't bother me because I'm waiting for marriage to have sex. I'd love to know more about you. If you didn't find your husband yet, let's chat via email. If you're interested, I'll give you mine. Sound good? God bless! 🙏❤

Please make more videos like this, this has helped so many of us! Thank you Nat

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Makes my heart so happy 🤍

hi back you beautiful soul! (read ur vid description hehe) just found ur channel thru this video & I have to thank God & you for showing up!! Love & needed this!💜

@natcunningham

Жыл бұрын

aw thank you! so glad it helped you 🫶🏼

This was SO SO helpful. Thank you for letting God speak through you❤

@natcunningham

Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad! 🤍

Ahhhhhh!!! Love it!! Preach it sister! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks sis! 🥰

This was so valuable to me thank you so much for this!! I needed it 💜

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Makes my heart very happy!! 🥰

This made me smile ; thank you so much!!! I really needed this

I just want you to know how much this has helped me today. I’m in a season of singleness and was growing weary but today I take back my power. I came from your other video about how you met your husband and thank you for being so transparent. I’m a new subscriber and you should definitely continue this series or start vlogging! 💕 Also, this is off topic but you look and sound like Vanessa hudgens! Do you get that often?

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

Aw thank you so much for this!! I’m so happy it helped you. I’m definitely planning to start a relationship series soon! Haha and yes!! I get it ALL THE TIME! 😅🤍

Thank you for the uplifting advice. Really need this right now. Thanks again 💗

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad 🥰

Best video yet 🤎 can’t wait to seee MORE XX

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you lovely! 🥰

i started thinking to unfollow or probably not scroll social media, bcoz it is easily trigerfor certain things that lead me to think that i am having not enough.

Thank you for this! I wish more married women could make these kind of videos. It’s so easy to see videos of how people prayed or manifested and then magically their husband showed up. How did they deal in between because it’s so tough. Thank you, I will watch this video often

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for the support 🙏🏼

OMG thank you so much, needed to hear this and i think i am going to hear this every morning to remember 😆

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Haha I love that!! Thank you for the encouragement 🥰

On this journey! Thank you for these amazing tips 😊

Loving the content! This resonates with me heavily ! Subscribed 🙂

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! So glad you are enjoying my channel 🥰🤍

I wish you would post more. Your perspective is so REAL.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m back!! Took a little break 🥰

22, never been that girl who dreamed about getting married/had crushes on guys. It's just recent that I realized I do want to get married but since I live in Switzerland and there's not a lot of Christian guys out here. I feel like all I can do is pray and maybe one day my husband will pop out 😂 it really is hard to enjoy singleness when my cousins/friends are all getting into relationships

Love this video! So insightful! Keep it up!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🥰🤍

This video made me realise it’s okay to have the odd lonely day, I know god completes me and I’m content with being single and the season I’m currently in. It’s all in gods timing and his will he has for my life.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, amen! 🙏🏼

@tgtg6465

3 жыл бұрын

If you believe that you will never feel lonely again once married, that’s not true. Even if you with someone or not, you will still have lonely days

@joanna6570

3 жыл бұрын

@@tgtg6465 I actually do know this. Was in a relationship for 5 years. There were times of loneliness, even when he was next to me.

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, advice, and experience! 💕

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m happy you enjoyed it 🤍🥰

Amen girl loved this! Finding completeness in God!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy! Yes, amen! 🤍🙏🏼

i really really love this video. everything is so perfect, from the way you talked and the content; and most importatly the tips! you gave me courage to do better and to trust God in everything.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Awe thank you! So happy you loved it 🥰

Your vibe is so beautiful! :)

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

thank you!

Aww, this just made my day!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad 🤗

You are so beautiful and your words are healing 💕 Thank you!

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

aw you’re so kind!! Thank you so much! I’m glad this helped you 🤍

I love the way you communicate, its so clear

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

See? I’m here! One of the first ones!🥰🥰

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Ahh you’re too kind!! I love it! 🥰

OMG you are just sooo me :-D I had to laugh out loud when you said "oh is he the one that I am going to marry? What if not? Then I am going to be alone again". Thank you so much for this video. I do really believe that god sent this video to me and to prepare me :) have a nice day

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Makes me so happy!🥰🙏🏼

Amen thank you so much for sharing! I'm currently enjoying my singleness😊

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I love that!! 🤍

Been on this journey for about 6 months now after my last relationship of 3 weeks ended. It's really helped grow close to God and figure myself out as a person with what I want and don't want in life. I have days where it all goes great, but days where I go back to those old mindsets which can make me feel down on myself, but I'm at the point now where if I do go back to those old mindsets I talk to God about it and then I feel more peace in life! 🙏

You're really pretty! (: After dealing with men who were emotionally unavailable, I told myself that I DESERVE to be with an emotionally available man. I'm believing it will happen! (:

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you and 10000%! Don’t settle girl! 👏🏼🤍

I'm in this season for a reason! 🥹🙏 Thank you for sharing. 🙏✨

Really good. Thank you for sharing this!

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

🤍🤍🤍

You makes sense 💯😍💭 thanks Nat 🙏🏻😘

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

This is such a beautiful video Thanks Nat

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰

Oh no, i was about to risk it all for you thinking you were recently single 😂. Guess i gotta live vicariously through my guy Will, i know he's on cloud 9. After all, he hit the jackpot! 😍

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha 🤗

Amazing video. Thank you so much for this 😊❤

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you enjoyed it 🥰

Thanks Nat so true. I feel that way sometimes i see all my friends married or in a serious relationship

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

100%

I so needed this!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

So glad this helped you 🥰

Thank you very much Nat!! God bless you

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you too! 🥰

@boluwatifepeaceolugbenro

3 жыл бұрын

@@natcunningham ❤️

It's been 9 months for me and this vid was good encouragement :) I'm enjoying my time alone but just needed a little kick!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you enjoyed this 🥰

loved this! thank youuuuuuu

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy 🥰🤍

This is encouraging. Thank you.

My bf broke up with me 3 years ago And as I'm writing this with tears in my eyes ... I miss the relationship so badly ... Singleness is definitely not the easiest thing to get through in life In this journey so many good days have passed but also so many bad days where I didn't feel motivated to live on my own ... and I think the hardest thing is to keep persistent in having faith in things that we don't see or don't know about I came to watch this video because I was having a really hard time in accepting this moment Recently I have been searching for videos around people who went from single to married and it have been helping me stay on track and remember that this bad moment in life isn't going to last forever Thank you for sharing this ... But I have learned that

@AnitaPrincewill

3 жыл бұрын

I can totally relate... Sending you a lot of hugs. 🤗 🤗 🤗 ❤️

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Aw, so so sorry for your broken heart. Break ups are not easy. Keep staying strong and don’t ever lose hope. You aren’t alone in this journey 🙏🏼

I was married once, it lasted 18 years and ive been single since (ten years). I have not been ok going this long single. Until recently God finally spoke to me on it and said to follow him. He pointed out where my sin was, why it was interfering and messing things up. But that I am to take this time to devote myself to Him, to be happy in my singleness, and that he will lead me. To what, i do not know… but honestly i feel really good. Its like the burden was removed. The sadness of feeling inferior was lifted. God is truly all you need but its not a No ladies, its a not right now, let me teach you and lead you to the man i have meant for you!! ♥️

@natcunningham

2 жыл бұрын

amen! 🫶🏼

@franceshaggitt3104

Жыл бұрын

Interesting..I'm 48. I had abusive husband and then abusive bf. No more. Do you feel better now addressed Jesus

Needed this today 💗

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Love you sis! 🤍

@stevemacinnis5000

Жыл бұрын

Hey Laura! Have you found your husband yet? I'm a 25-year-old single Christian man and I'm looking for marriage. I live in Canada, and I'm ok with a long-distance relationship at first because I'm waiting for marriage, doing marriage God's way. I'd love to know more about you! If you're interested, I'll give you a fake email that I use to protect myself against scammers, and from there I can get your number if it goes well, sound good? Thanks for taking the time to read this, and God bless you. ❤🙏

Thank you for sharing this 💕💕

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰

Loved this video!!!

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad! 🥰

Thank you Lord for this testimony.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

🥰

Hello Nat, I am really happy that you found the man God chose for you to be your husband. I am equally happy to know that I will be remaining single for my lifetime. I would never have expected to be single for life, but do to some unexpected turns in my life singleness is now my only choice. I know it will be difficult at times, and I know that I must give up sexual intimacy, but I have no choice. God bless you in your journey!

Lovely video! I really understand what you said... and I got it when you said “do I even want to go?(...) sure, why not?”🤷🏻‍♀️😄 I felt the same way when I was dating my ex boyfriend: I felt soooo good with life itself, and with myself, that I had cero pressure to be who I was, and I didn’t need to impress anyone😏 Although I might add that sometimes I know that I have to change my perspective, or have patience, or confidence, and I kind of struggle... but I guess it’s part of life, right?

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Yes its definitely part of life! That’s why it’s so good to have good friends / community around you. 🤍

ty! i really need to work on being complete myself first which is hard

Being content while single can be hard knowing that God cares for you and that his timing is perfect when your time comes when you meet your husband / wife will be on time it’s ok to have those desires and everyday you bring them to God and say this is how I feel these are my longings it’s between you and God he understands he cares for you and you will find yourself growing in your relationship with God .

@franceshaggitt3104

Жыл бұрын

Have you met her yet

@simontemplar6128

Жыл бұрын

@@franceshaggitt3104 no not yet surrendered my life to Christ and his will for me

@franceshaggitt3104

Жыл бұрын

@@simontemplar6128 oh dear

@simontemplar6128

Жыл бұрын

@@franceshaggitt3104 when I say I have laid this desire down before the lord doesn’t mean I have closed my heart off to never meeting someone just means I am not focusing my whole life on making this happen

You're so beautiful in and out 😍😍😍

I feel that in this moment but God said wait ..Thank you for sharing

I like this! 👍

Thank you so, so much ❤

I love your vlogs! 💕 Embracing my singleness season. Hoping God will send me a Godly partner someday.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Aw thank you 🥰

I have been dating a guy for one month, and he lied to me that he is serious about me but after one month he was acting weird, he stopped calling me and replying to messages, I kept calling him, and my friends were telling me that he is ignoring me, then I decided to let him go, hope this video will help me, it's true we don't need others to complete our lives but only God does, I'm going to work on my self because I realized that I lack self-love. God bless you for this video

I feel the same! I feel like I’m going through the same experience. I’m seeing my friends and family get engaged, pregnant or married. I have been forcing my current boyfriend of 5 years to propose to me. I have been so obsessed with getting the ring. That I bought one last summer. But I returned it the next day. My emotions have been such a roller coaster. I feel desperate. Please pray for me.

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Praying 🙏🏼

Love this video 🥰 how do you not give into temptation when your single?

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

What helped me was accountability and good boundaries!!! ( nothing good happens after 11 pm haha )

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 So true!!!

Love this...thank you

There is a period of time in your life that being single can be a major advantage. It's when that time expires and you no longer want to be single that it's an issue.

Wow, eye opening 👊

I don't know if I'll ever be genuinely happy with being single.

Love ❤️ your videos

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad 🥰

Thankyou ❤

Omg you look like Vanessa hudgens

@natcunningham

3 жыл бұрын

Yes haha I get that a lot

@millennialaviation

3 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking that lol

@EsaCrisbel

3 жыл бұрын

@@millennialaviation I thought it first

This from a dude's perspective. I am not a good looking guy and most people don't like me because I'm very blunt, don't put up with anyone's crap and I spend most of my time alone doing what I want to do. I used to get depressed cuz I was in my 20's and never got close to being in a relationship. But then I started lifting weights. I then got into side hustling and making extra money. I got interested in investing. I gradually phased out social media to the point where I'm only using Messenger cuz I get crap reception. Doing all this got me to a very critical point: I DON'T CARE ANYMORE. Seriously, whether I die as a virgin as things are trajectoring or get married and have an army of kids, whatever, at the end of the day I have the same exact fate as everyone else: rotting in the ground and getting eaten by worms. None of it freaking matters. If someone makes you being single/married a big deal, then they are a toxic idiot you shouldn't be around. That's another thing I did: I stopped wasting my precious time with toxic people. Coincidentally it got me out of church.

it is jan 11 happy birthday

I needed this 30 Want a godly husband But I never meet anyone