My husband is 88 and dementia started during 2020 but I recognize that the previous 8 or 9 years, his anger was so increased. Slowly during that time, anger fits over nothing. That's when I discussed with the doctor. Also, his "living in the past" with those bad memories and regrets. He is 16 years older than I am. And, I believe in 2020, the confusion with pill refills, computer challenges, paperwork of mail, long scratch on the car, almost running into someone, some irrational ludicrous thinking, etc. It destroys marital relationships.

@loftonrudolph7586

Жыл бұрын

Its so hard. My mom went through this and my father was sick for a long time. She tried everything to get him engaged in any of his beloved hobbies. She has very nice dreams about him and in them he is his handsome capable self💖

@misskitty2133

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry.

@charlesg7926

7 ай бұрын

Oh sh*t, that kind of describes me and I’m only 32. My grandma had dementia. I used to have an issue where I stayed up late at night too and I recently fixed that

My husband paid the bills I knew there was a problem when our utilities were cut off and he felt there was a conspiracy with the bills being so confusing that they were double charging us. There were so many clues before this. Thing is, his CT did not show shrinkage and the only thing he couldn’t do on the office test was remember the 3 items. Yet he couldn’t make and keep an appointment. I think detecting Alzheimer’s is very confusing at first. He was bizarre one day and so normal the next!

@ginadean5696

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing my mother did the same thing with bills 3 times, she now blames the mail service even though their mail is locked. So now she ask I mail them at the post office.

@terriharrigan891

Жыл бұрын

💯 understand what you go through. Going through it over the last few years. Despicable disease. I can’t say how many days I have cried over my mum’s dementia but “this is life “.

@Cayuse2009

Жыл бұрын

I have "good days" and bad days. Plenty of sleep seems to help.

@pcatMe

Жыл бұрын

Yes it is. That sounds a bit like loss of Executive Function. Just one, of many, part's of the brain that can be affected. They aren't all affected at once. Things such as balance problems, that didn't come along until much, much later for my hubby.

@streetcar6080

Жыл бұрын

How are you and the husband doing now? Forgetting to pay bill once or twice is normal...everyone has done that. But if you don't accept that you have forgotten after double checking...then there is an issue.

I remember my grandpa going through his shopping list after I bought the groceries. Checking each item off. Double checking the receipt, recalculating the tax. It hurt my feelings that he didn’t t trust me. I’d never borrowed a red cent from him or grandma. Later, I realized it was his insecurity. Heartbreaking.

@DementiaCareblazers

4 жыл бұрын

Many of the symptoms that we find frustrating and hurtful come from their brain not making sense and not any negative thoughts about us. But that's so hard to realize in the moment when it's happening. Sending love.

@nancyadams7761

Жыл бұрын

@@DementiaCareblazers LLP

I was caretaker for my mom....I watched an incredibly smart Surgical RN ....go to the end....its was the most painful thing I have ever gone through....God Bless any caretakers out there.....it is traumatic....I found her a place when it got to much for me...I wasnt going to wash her....she died recently....terrible....not as bad as a sudden death....because the whole illness took 4 years...we were all prepared....My doctor put me on Celexa...because of what i went through...almost PTSD symptoms...Its a terrible illness....

Wow!! i wish I had seen this video about 10 years ago. I dont think it would have changed the outcome, but it would have helped me be more confident and secure in the decisions I made. Dealing with my parents dementia was not necessarily bad, rather confusing and overwhelming. I felt so helpless and hopeless. When I accepted my Mother's situation for what it was, it became "OK". If she said she really wanted French Fries, we made it a mission to get her the best fries!! When she wanted to go to her Papa's farm......we rode around until she was satisfied he was taking care of his farm. We or "I" saw a lot of beautiful sunsets....I just stopped trying to make her see things "right". I rolled with it. True story....when my phone rang and she answered my pack of chewing gum.....I let her speak her peace and I played the person on the other end of the phone. She was alright with it, I guess but she did warn me i would be in big trouble if my "Mom" found out I was skipping school. Let them be happy in the moment they are in at that moment. I suppose Mom was teaching me lessons right up to the end. Thanks for posting this video and Peace and Comfort to everyone facing this situation.

@benparker6825

5 жыл бұрын

I would like to add, at first I was very resentful and angry that God was putting me thru this. I did come to accept/realize that someone had to be there for this phase of her life. I dont regret it at all. It was an honor even if I didnt recognize it in the moment.

@lynettec9807

5 жыл бұрын

Ben, thank you. Best comments ever. 💕

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

Oh Ben, you are a true Careblazer. Thank you for being there for your mom and for handling confusing situations with compassion even though it didn't make much sense. This world needs more of you. Thank you for sharing your input.

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Best comments ever!

@lisabenton8888

5 жыл бұрын

My mother has dementia. You're exactly right, when I accepted it, things became better. You have to go to where they are. You can't make them come to where you are, or see things "right ".. Your mother was very fortunate to have you

Thank you very much. 😊 My husband was tested - stage 5 🙏🏻 u have been instrumental in my communicating with my Frank. This has made a world of difference.

I have been with a man for 20 + years and am seeing a few signs, we are not togeather but in resent time he has had a few fights with his heart. So i have come back into his life to help and just do all i can to make his life more comfortable. We were togeather for 20 years or so and best friends for about 7 anyway wanted to share. Thankx

@j.103

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it feels good just to get somethings out….bless you for helping your ex, most people wouldn’t.

I read this definition of forgetfulness vs Alzheimers: if you can't find your keys it's forgetfulness but if you can't remember what keys are for you've got dementia.

@sandriasaunders2557

4 жыл бұрын

Barbara Lyman thank goodness! 😂

@karenshaub8273

4 жыл бұрын

I had a strange episode about 17 years ago. I forgot words and couldn't remember them until I saw something that rhymed with the object. Lasted a week or so.

@melaniewalker5226

4 жыл бұрын

HappyDays I'll try to remember that, I've just been diagnosed with dementia. I love you're name Happy Days it's A brilliant name.

@johntrousdale7505

4 жыл бұрын

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@a.p5079

3 жыл бұрын

My mother was trying to do simple multiplication "2x7", kept saying confused and scared, what does 7 mean etc.. it was quite scary. Your comment is quite right. It's severe.

My dad had dementia/Alzheimer's he had it for 10 yrs until he died. It was a long goodbye as we had him at home. Very true with the signs.

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

It's often a long, difficult goodbye. Thank you for being there for your dad during that long journey.

Have just recently started watching your channel, and it is really helping me to deal with my husband's dementia a lot. Thank you!

You know, I think I have early warning signs. I don't think I'm exaggerating or imagining. I have to figure out if my behavior is just eccentric (because I have at least ONE in each of those catagories), before I go get an evaluation. My dad has stage 6 Lewy Body Dementia, and your videos have been extremely helpful to my family and I.

@leecowell8165

Жыл бұрын

Stuff is hereditary, Ruth. just saying. my spouse passed from but she had two siblings that also passed from it as well as her Mom. I'm 80 and have no symptoms but it does NOT run on either side of my family. anyhow not meaning to scare you but fwiw.

Thank you for cutting right to the chase on this list and giving us unambiguous examples.

Dr. Natali, both of my parents have dementia. I have just recently found you and your very informative videos. You have already helped me immensely! Thank you very much! I appreciate that your videos are short and to the point and easy to listen to. I am trying to watch several a day and will be sharing the information with my family members. Information is power! It helps me understand my parents better and consequently enables me to give them more effective care.

@pcatMe

Жыл бұрын

Yes it IS power. I'm on many dementia FB groups and it's so sad to see so many people so totally clueless about what's happening and ways to cope with it. Once you have knowledge, life goes so much easier with your loved one.

Thanks Natali! This is the first time that I watch your videos and that I find the Careblazers channel. It was very informative and interesting to watch! Lots of blessings and best wishes for you and everyone in the amazing KZread family!

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

Hello there! I'm so glad you found the videos! I hope they continue to help.

My dad keeps accusing me of rude behavior that didn’t come from me but from him. He’s gotten so irritable and aggressive. He also has become hyper religious and keeps accusing me that the devil is speaking for me whenever I question him.

@maryroberts8566

2 жыл бұрын

My husband reads the Bible and prays a lot but he lashes out at me everytime we get into the car.He had to give up his license but blames me and his dr. For conspiring to take them away.I had nothing to do with that and at first he agreed that he needed to stop driving but now it’s all my fault and he blames the way I was raised,He does bizarre things like closing the house up by 4oclock and closing the blinds.He puts the heat on 83 at night and burns me up.These are just a few things I deal with everyday.Please help

My dad has dementia. He never remembers to take his medication about 95% of the time. He hasn’t driven in the past year as his doctor said he can no longer drive (due to the dementia).

I've been watching your videos my mom passed a week ago and had ftd dementia. She was diagnosed 3 years ago. She will be greatly missed!

@DementiaCareblazers

3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your journey. Sending you positive thoughts.

@bellastone-le9eb

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear about your moms passing even though it was a few years ago. Sending a belated hug. ❤

My wife of 40 years says if I had dementia no one would notice since I have been showing these signs since I was 19 years old.

My husband is showing signs of dementia. I seem to be the only one who sees this. A few close friends have noticed anger , not understanding how to play card games that he has been playing for years. . No help from his doctor. When I found you on you tube, I don't feel all alone. Thank you.

@robinsk5644

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Karen for posting your comment and sharing your story. My dad passed away from dementia back in 2012. During his illness, he showed signs of anger, confusion and had many hallucinations. It was heartbreaking so I know what you are feeling. May God be with you and show you His kindness and grace. May the love of His Son Jesus surround you and embrace you warmly. Please remember, don't be afraid to call on Jesus dear friend. He is there for the hurting ones. I know from experience. Please take care.

@karenfocht885

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comments. I pray daily for all caregivers. My strength is in the Lord. I ask for His help all day every day. I know he is with me through this all day. 🙏🙏Prayers for you all and thank you for all of you. You don:t know how much you help. BLessings !

@lucynanowacka84

4 жыл бұрын

Go to see another doctor. Something is no right for sure

@patrickflohe7427

2 жыл бұрын

I felt the same way when my dad was getting it, and he died back in 2014. Then again, when my wife was getting it. In both cases, nobody believe me when I voiced my thoughts and concerns. -At least not until they got so bad that it couldn’t be denied. By then, my wife had filed for a divorce against me, got a no-contact order, disposed of most of my possessions and all of my money. She’s in a nursing home now, and due to this corona crap, couldn’t have any visitors until just recently. I feel like I would like to see her, but am not sure if she would even want me to see her. Truly awful!

@j.103

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t feel alone…there are so many going through the same thing. My husband of 53 years forgot his password for an email he has had for at least 15 years…..I am after him all the time to write things down…..good luck and stay strong.

Thank you so much for all the information. It is very helpful

Thank you for these videos .They are very helpful..

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad they are helping!

I think it starts much earlier than this. My husband is 72, has T2 diabetes that is not well controlled. I’ve noticed in the last 2 years he is more anxious, he can’t quite remember where he has to go when he is driving if he hasn’t been there for 1 month. He can’t remember words or sometimes makes up a word for the one he can’t grasp. He’s become a bit of a drama queen whereas he was always calm and cool. Changes in his personality. But he can still ace a memory test.

With age comes skills other than trying to remember where you put your book and/or your grandchild a few minutes ago. I call it "Multitasking"* You may call it something else if you want to, because in fact I probably won't remember what I said or wrote just minutes ago! *Yes, I am (old) woman, hear me roar... and laugh, cough, fart, sneeze and pee all at the same time!*In fact, I should start calling myself *The Gray Wonder Women!*

I had many of the symptoms, primarily dementia, falling, and incontinence. An MRI showed I have Normal Pressure Hydrocephalus at 77 yrs. old. Now I have a shunt draining spinal fluid from my brain and am fully functioning again. This wouldn't have been discovered but one of the falls I hit my head on the pavement. That led to the MRI.

@evansoenke9026

4 жыл бұрын

Nancy Healy Wow! Glad to hear you are ok, and thanks for sharing- priceless information.

@lifeissweet9826

4 жыл бұрын

My cousins husband had a shunt put in too and it made a difference.

@kevinmskelly2359

4 жыл бұрын

Nancy, so happy you were properly diagnosed! Nurse Kathy

@patrobbins6784

4 жыл бұрын

You should make that info very very public, like Evan says, "Priceless" !! so many cases are just never checked out, just taken for granted and the victim is "Put away"!!

I've been concerned with a deterioration in my spelling skill, but it's still better than the person who did the posters/closed captioning for this.

@seabee5695

3 жыл бұрын

Same issue...

I loved the out-takes too!

My mom is 75 lost in conversations occasionally, not knowing the year. Forgetting to pay bills. Loosing her keys hourly. Responding to junk mail. Obsession with hearing a transistor radio. Definitely 100 percent forgetting her appointments. Can't remember things from a few hours before. The rest of the symptoms you outlined she isn't displaying much of yet. I am being thrusted into this. It is Alot like piloting a sail boat around the horn. You are essentially dealing with the depths of neurological functions. Of a weaker but slightly more over compensating brain has to throw at you. Such as, displaying, a symptom but perfectly masquerading it with a normal personality, and social normalness. At the moment she isn't showing the rest of those symptoms yet. My current status. This second week of July. Is, I am just trying to help get her bills current. Then take her to her neurologist this Friday. And hope she is diagnosed with something not so serious. But I have a feeling she will be diagnosed with an onset. Of, a Neuro degenerative condition. Hopefully she won't.

@ajbh5724

5 жыл бұрын

ray bon my Dads 77 and he swears all day, loses his wallet can’t remember where he put things and gets mad. He sleeps all day , doesn’t want family around or go places . He can’t do anything if he dies it’s too big deal. He asks what day ya it five times a day or repeat questions all day and next day etc it gets stressful

@patsteven8513

5 жыл бұрын

ray bon j,

About 50% of these "symptoms" apply just as well to depression.

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! In late life, depression can present just like dementia! That's why it's important to make sure people get a good evaluation to rule depression out and/or treat it if it is there.

@richardschaefer4807

5 жыл бұрын

Why is it important if there is no cure or effective treatments? I suspect everyone who lives long enough will get Alzheimers, Parkinson's or both. I think it is an aging process.

@shadrach6299

4 жыл бұрын

Richard Schaefer Thats right. Heart problems cause it too

@samsmom400

4 жыл бұрын

@@richardschaefer4807 No, it's not an aging process. When you have to go through it or a loved one, it is very important to know what is causing memory loss. Older people with a bladder infection will get confused and seem like they have dementia, but actually it's because of the infection. Sometimes very low levels of B vitamins will cause it.

@annsiggy6185

4 жыл бұрын

OMG! That is just as bad. He is not capable of being President. Everyone has been saying it. It's very noticeable.

Thank you!! It's me facing this😢

@cassiescreations9828

5 жыл бұрын

@gary jones Yeah, the patient loses the "filters" - the subconscious thing that tells them, normally, not to say out loud what is going through their mind and they say what they think quickly, without concern for anyone else's feelings. The patient can get "mean," even abusive, verbally or physically, to caregivers. My heart goes out to you during this very difficult time. If it is at all possible, take some time for yourself, hire someone to help or ask the doctor if there is any medication that might help with outbursts. Also, make sure that medications are not the culprit - does he get much worse after taking one in particular? Did it start after beginning antidepressants and or antipsychotics. Antidepressants and antipsychotics change the personality more than doctors realize! If you notice a clear change after beginning one of those be sure to discuss this with the doctor! They are experimenting with medications to see which work.

Very good, thank you.

I kept our my mom at home until the end where she passed in the hospital. I had a lady thru medicaid come at the end and help me out.

I worked with Dementia patients and their families for years and it made me so sad but angry too that families had no understanding or any help ( I’m in the UK) about Dementia as a whole. So many people still think dementia is just about forgetfulness and nothing else, they don’t understand it’s a cognitive declining disease and when their loved one can’t do things like crafts they’ve done for years, or driving progressing to not remembering how to do things like eating or walking or talking etc. considering it’s becoming such a prevalent disease in the world…and I have a theory of one cause why…every single dementia patient I’ve worked with was on Statins….I refuse to ever take them personally. I think and wish the NHS here in the UK, but all countries would educate people not just on prevention but help for families in understanding the disease and how to help themselves and their loved ones through it.

@DementiaCareblazers

2 жыл бұрын

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@jessicayaun1011

Жыл бұрын

Hi Sarah, three of my grandparents have had dementia and none of them took statins.

@marleesanders

Жыл бұрын

My mom has Alzeimers and she never took statins

@pcatMe

Жыл бұрын

Its not necessaryly the Statins but sure it could be a contributor. Vascular Dementia affects people with artery disease which goes along with high BP thus Statins. The meds. don't appear to do much but make BP numbers look better, as they don't address the underlying food related disease process. I'm with you. I'm keeping my BP low naturally.

@pcatMe

Жыл бұрын

Its not necessaryly the Statins but sure it could be a contributor. Vascular Dementia affects people with artery disease which goes along with high BP thus Statins. The meds. don't appear to do much but make BP numbers look better, as they don't address the underlying food related disease process. I'm with you. I'm keeping my BP low naturally.

Thank you for posting this (loved the cute bloopers at the end😋)

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

Haha. I have so many bloopers all the time. Thank you for watching and for your child's service!

@militarymom6690

5 жыл бұрын

Careblazers: dementia care heroes I will pass o your thanks to my son. He is definitely my American hero!

TY & love the outtakes! Much needed laughter!

@DementiaCareblazers

4 жыл бұрын

haha! I'm glad you like the outtakes! :)

Bloopers?!!! 🙉🙊LOL✋🤣🎉🥳💃Happy New Year! Sincerely, Dee

for me, I have had challenges all my life being scatter brained, but thank fully-not today and not me. God bless the family and the victim of loved one.

Helpful.

Hello, I don't normally comment on anything. However, I feel like you are a friend who has been there sitting across from me & helping me understand why my wonderful mother has become someone else. I've just joined & plan to watch much more videos. Thank you for helping me understand what is going on......it's so confusing & I can't seem to find any support groups. God Bless you & your wonderful work here on this youtube channel.

@DementiaCareblazers

6 жыл бұрын

Hi Cynthia. Thank you for your kind words. I'm happy you are part of the Careblazer family. If you want to surround yourself with others who are in similar situations as you, then consider joining the closed Facebook group. It's filled with supportive Careblazers sharing their tips, struggles and successes. You can request access right here: facebook.com/groups/dementiacareblazers/ Sending strength!

@jeansmith1388

5 жыл бұрын

Ik

I am so tired of having to explain things to my husband over and over and over and then he tells me that he can handle the situation and then I have to fix what he tells me that he can do and when I say forget it that I will take care of it that he gets mad but then I get mad that he screws it up and he wonders why I get so mad that something so simple that he still screws it up

@marshahearne5280

4 жыл бұрын

The stress placed on the care giver (me) is greater than I could have imagined. I have reached a point where I'm not sure I will survive this, he dies a little each day and he is taking me to the grave with him.

@sandyjuntunen4088

4 жыл бұрын

Are you dealing with a procrastinator or true dementia? In dementia it's like caring for a child. Remember how you have to constantly repeat things to them? Only children go forward, as dementia takes them backward. They can't understand what's happening. At first they don't even know what they're doing. Then as they realize what is happening to them it is utterly terrifying. They are helpless to stop it. Accepting it and pursuing treatment is incredibly painful. Imagine how you'd feel knowing that was your future. Try to be patient, it will help you enjoy and preserve the time you have left together. When a good calm mood comes try to discuss it, document the situation to them kindly and try to form a plan then for seeking treatment, legal issues, and what they want for their future while they can still communicate. There is nothing easy about any of it, but when it's over you'll feel better if you know you did your best and have no regrets. ❤

That is also signs of Brain Fog as well.I suffer from Depression and I had brain fog and I thought that I was losing my mind.That was in 2014.

@melodybrown6277

3 жыл бұрын

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My doctor told me that if l Thought that l had Dementia or Alzheimer's, that l don't. People with these health conditions believe that nothing is wrong. Memory can lessen with age, that is Not a sign of having either one of these Diseases. Good to know; gives peace of mind! : )

Bull if you have any of these you have it. There are also many older people into their 70 that have great memories and are still sharp

Thank you

Five years since taking my 'demented' mother in. "Dementia" is just a broad medical definition in my opinion. By 85 she had ALL of these symptoms but then again 85 is OLD! Her last appointment with the neurologist was essentially the last. They can't do anything but prescribe Doneprizil (dosen't work) or Lorazepam (👍). By now luckily shes pretty docile and most importantly we have adapted..

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, dementia is such a broad term that covers A LOT! I'm happy to hear you and your mom have adapted.

@kevinfalcao8657

4 жыл бұрын

By 85 one in two on average will get DIMENTIA.

I have a couple of the symptoms, & my new doctor said it is just a part of getting older 🤗 sure Hope & Pray she's correct! Lol

@Ap-nv1hk

5 жыл бұрын

In hope too also. I have bad memory also but iam 29 i hope i dont have a disease. I will go to the doctor when i get insurance from my new job

@jeanettesdaughter

4 жыл бұрын

Lilly Wiggles dementia is NOT the same as forgetting where you put your keys and then remembering. Dementia is putting your keys in the freezer and leaving them there not recognizing them as keys. Dementia is making coffee but not remembering to add water, a necessary step. Dementia is starting the teakettle to boil water for tea and leaving it to burn but not knowing that you did that, possibly denying that you were ever in the kitchen. It’s turning the garden hose on to water the plants altho it just rained. It’s raking leaves in the dark, it’s eating out of the garbage, it’s forgetting to wipe your bum or wash your hands or how to use a fork, it’s a constant state of life in a fog of disconnected faces, facts and events, non sequitur after non sequitur. Does that sound like normal aging to you?

@jeanettesdaughter

4 жыл бұрын

Lilly Wiggles get a second opinion. Alzheimer’s dementia is NOT normal aging. Educate yourself.

@annettarussell-streiber2932

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeanettesdaughter 6 hope u find your family soon

@annettarussell-streiber2932

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeanettesdaughter everyone forgets jennetts where do you live ?

Got all of these since lockdown. Alexa helps me out a lot lol

Thank you, I watched it for me. I do have a few of these symptoms and it scares me

Good video, but some of these seem more advanced than early. Such a sad disease.

Many of these would also be true of a depressed person or a person who is chronically ill or in chronic pain. Going through the loss of a spouse or child.

Woah I'll take a comprehensive physical assessment from you please!

Those are more than just early warning signs.

My dad got lost while driving, so we had to take the keys away. He was 88.

A definitive diagnosis of Alzheimer's should offer the option of physician assisted suicide before having to go to a nursing home. Life may usually have meaning but everyone deserves the right to decide what conditions make it n o longer meaningful.

@juliethompson7623

4 жыл бұрын

I would agree to that also. Healthcare cost a lot of money. If you have anyting the state will take it first.

@kevinfalcao8657

4 жыл бұрын

I used to frown on this euthanasia approach before. After visiting in-laws and friends who went from partial memory loss to total confusion and loss of memory for all family members , now rest in homes alive but non functional. Society has to accept this and find a solution for us all before the progression to a vegetative state. It's going to double in 30 years. Be prepared, it might be you.

Thanks.

I have come to understand wat depression is now that my wife has dementia The end of the story is always the same, that in itself is a major factor in depression.

You know I forgot how to tie my shoes the other day but I thought maybe I'm just going into my second childhood....

My wife with dementia is 84 I am 87 the caregiver. How do you know when it is time ti get help or move to a care facility ?

AK : I am a caregiver to my wife and very much like your presentatios. I like to donate to your work and like to know how and where can I do it. Thanks.

I’m having some of these symptoms, I’m only 21.. I’ve had an mri & eeg done already. They both came back normal

@DementiaCareblazers

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear of your symptoms. There are so many things that can look like dementia- stress, depression, vitamin deficiencies. Keep working with your doctors to get to the bottom of what you are noticing. Good luck!

@grammyd8361

4 жыл бұрын

Read up on the combination of raw, unprocessed coconut oil and Moringa leaf powder. I think you will like it. It helps.

Bingo. Thx

Hearing loss can cause you to not take part in conversations and not do some activities. You should have mentioned this because hearing loss is not dementia but it makes you feel helpless and left out. They now have inexpensive hearing aids that make a big difference. There is a type of dementia caused by the thyroid no longer working. It leads to a form of dementia. When put on thyroxine, lije synthroid and cytomel, patients bounce back and are no longer "demented". There are multiple causes of dementia symptoms. Severe iron deficiency anemia will cause fatigue, forgetfulness, shakiness, lack of social activity. It's very serious. But doctors immediately say oh irs ALZ or dementia and put patients on a drug that does not work, because it's not really their brain that is causing it.

@missmoneypenny3303

2 жыл бұрын

My mothers iron level was so low, she had to have infusions. Super scary.

@daniellamcgee4251

2 жыл бұрын

@@missmoneypenny3303 My friend and I have had iron infusions. It's not uncommon. I can imagine it would be scary to witness, but ultimately it is just a supplement being put directly into the bloodstream, where it is needed. :-)

I read an article about dementia from a doctor her husband had dementia and she start giving him cocosoil in the morning and the evening 1 dinnerspoon and the husband is getting much better now!!!

@Meanoldwoman2013

4 жыл бұрын

Stop spamming this BS.

@traditionalgirl3943

3 жыл бұрын

Coconut oil is a good, saturated fat and it has medium chain triglycerides which are good for brain health.

@specialstone9153

2 жыл бұрын

Doing veggie with fruit juicing,high powered juicer (for the hard veggie like carrots) buy juicing book. can find with formulas like Fresh Vegetable and Fruit Juicing by ND. Walker. . grind walnuts in coffee grinder (brain, nerves and heart need Omega-3) Blueberries, coconut oil. Heard also of Lion's Mane advertised via Christian channel on t.v. And stop, start dropping foods that are processed, avoid lots sugar, exercise.

Awesome video!!!! Have a Blessed Lord's Day!!!!

@DementiaCareblazers

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you! You do the same!

Tests cost a LOT of money. What is the point of formal diagnosis? No insurance pays for the long term care!

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

That is a common belief! My video tomorrow- feb. 17th talks about whether it really is necessary to get testing.

Oh goody. Got 5 out of however many there were.

@swingwizard

5 жыл бұрын

Get rid of your aluminium poisoning. That is the cause. Stomach tablets and vaccinations contain aluminium.

I'm 36. I have so many of these symptoms. Think I'll make a G.P appt.

I would like to know why some people are aggressive and some people seem more mellow. Is there anything that can be done to lower the aggression?

After my last two concussions (a day apart), I've had real problems remembering appointments and finances and problems thinking clearly and planning ... basically anything requiring executive function. iCal with it's multiple alarms has been my favorite workaround for appointments and bills. Diagramming a problem and creating a step-by-step plans is the only way I can do anything. I worry about CTE a lot as I'm having lots of problems with my brain at age 66 (7 concussions later). AND now my 89 y.o. mom with her mild dementia is moving in with us. Yuck.

I sometimes think I have dementia but there again I am remembering for both of us. Can stress give you these signs..basically short term memory but not daily. Or blanks in my mind....

@DementiaCareblazers

6 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness, Linda...stress, anxiety, lack of sleep, soooo many things can make our brains not work as well as they should. Dementia caregivers especially have a lot to manage and keep track of that it's typical for them to feel like they may be losing their own mind! If you are seriously concerned, talk to your PCP. But rest assured, you are not alone!

@cassiescreations9828

5 жыл бұрын

@@bori80 You need to see a doctor. It could be something as simple as a thyroid problem or vitamin defiencies. This video and this comment section does not have the answers you need. You are the only one that can take care of you. You know yourself better than anyone else - if something doesn't seem right, then why not seek help from a doctor soon? No one has time to see a doctor anymore but make the time to get answers and peace of mind.

@cassiescreations9828

5 жыл бұрын

@@bori80 I'm not trying to be an a-hole. I had the same symptoms in my thirties (memory loss, fatigue, etc) and it was caused by a tumor on my thyroid. I think you need to read my comment again. I said peace of mind from a "doctor's" point of view in the last part of the comment. I now certainly understand what you mean by the mood swings you state that you are having. Memory loss in the thirties can be from stress but it can be from something physical, as well. Good luck to you, as always. My heart goes out to anyone caring for someone with this disease.

I keep forgetting to finish watching this...

So many of these sound like depression also.

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely correct and that is one of the reasons going through with an initial dementia assessment is worthwhile to rule out other possible causes. Thank you for your comment. This gives me an idea for another video.

@jeanettesdaughter

4 жыл бұрын

Melinda Smith depression and anxiety can be part of the dementia not necessarily stand alone conditions but part of the disease. Sundowning for example, negative behavioral changes as the day wanes and odd insomniac behavior that may lead to depression due to lack of sleep. Poor nutrition and dehydration - generalized self neglect - may also depress the mood.

@katherineelizabethco

4 жыл бұрын

ADHD/ ADD : the symptoms you’re mentioning sound allot like attention deficiency with or without hyperactivity. I understand why one needs to be tested by an expert in the field of dementia. There are also medications for mental illness, like depression and anxiety, that cause memory problems. Dementia terrifies people.

@saundraferguson6532

4 жыл бұрын

Careblazers: dementia care heroes is to d

@lifeissweet9826

4 жыл бұрын

I am severely anemic and have no iron stores due to bleeding slowly somewhere in my body. This causes major fatigue and mental fatigue. It's not even close to being demented but makes me feel so tired I don't want to do anything social. So a blood test for someone displaying the symptoms of dementia is a must. Iron infusions will help. I am doing that. You can die from severe anemia. we are trying to find the damaged area. Too many NSAIDS can cause slow bleeding. Most of these symptoms can have multiple causes. Thyroid dementia is also so common, most nursing homes are filled with thyroid patients who need Thyroxine. Suddenly they are alert and can go back home!

I'm not finding the video of how to get my loved one to the doctor for testing. Help please. Thank you so much.

@annettarussell-streiber2932

4 жыл бұрын

I,m 80 but still know right from wrong

I think I might be getting dementia.... But I keep forgetting to go to the doctor . When I do get to the doctor's I then forget why I went there... I have nearly all those problems for about the last 40 years... Should I be worried🤔

My Mom suffered even more because her doctors didn't advise us about her low white blood cell count, which kept dropping. By the time I put it together that she had a compromised immune system, it was too late. Please do this one thing, if you have not. Go on the web profile of your loved one and look at their medical history. It may seem daunting, like it did to me. But, if there's anything glaringly obvious it will stand out. DO NOT expect the doctors to mention these things, or the possible treatments. Also, if you have ANY APPREHENSIONS about a doctor, switch them out IMMEDIATELY. It might make all the difference. I was overwhelmed and confused about which course/s of action to take. Mom, kept losing weight and it turned out she had an affected thyroid and white blood cell production complications. There are medications that may have helped but the doctors never mentioned a peep. They just treated us like we were an inconvenience and treated my beautiful Mom like she was a dunce. She was very educated and quite knowledgeable, but her illness debilitated her cognitively. It was horrible and I wish I had requested new doctors when I first thought I should. Please go on the hospital website and login to your loved one's profile. Read over it carefully. Some of it is not easy to decipher, but there are some things that will likely jump out at you. Follow through on all of that, ask questions because the doctors for whatever reasons, will sometimes just sit on that info hoping that you won't dig it up.

I’ve had all these symptoms since I was in school

@argonize

3 жыл бұрын

Oof

@liam.4454

3 жыл бұрын

@@argonize 🥺

My mother have Vascular dementia and has it for 4 years now. I'm her caregiver. There are few symptoms that she has. Knitting and crocheting frustrates her. Before she had strokes (3), she was so well advanced on knitting and crocheting. Now, she could only do basic or beginner's skills. Following the the instructions confuses her.

@patrickhopkins3939

4 жыл бұрын

Debbi Jackson mm,mm.

@patrickflohe7427

2 жыл бұрын

A stroke alone can cause those types of problems.

I’ve got all that stuff

mum has some of these but diagnosed as dementia

My granddaughter was driving. Saw a bug and stopped the car. Jumped out without putting in park. Fell and the car ran over her leg. Now if I had done that my car keys would be taken and I'd be in the dang nursing home! 😊

@whiteknightcat

4 жыл бұрын

She must have some incredible eyesight to see a bug on the road and stop in time to avoid it.

@dedethom9

4 жыл бұрын

@@whiteknightcat funny...the bug was on the dash.. She was jumping out to get away

What is your opinion on concussive dementia. Caused by continouse head injuries. My husband 59 fell in a 4 month period over 20 times hitting head several. He has failed the memory test a 17 out of 30. Any suggestion on care? Is the care the same as aging dementia. I'm desperate for good info. Thank you to all that may have suggestions. Please only on concussion dementia please.

I’m so glad I don’t have dementia, now where did I put the keys to my horse...

@LPerry-fx2ou

4 жыл бұрын

That is so funny LOL

@petechau9616

4 жыл бұрын

So funny I forgot to laugh.

Which video title should I look for about getting a loved one to seek help? My mom refuses to be seen for a neuropsych evaluation.

I am 55 years old and I'm seriously worried about me being in the onset of dementia. My mom has it and has most likely suffered with it for many years. I have many of the symptoms listed. But I may just be paranoid. But I forget things that I would never forget and I struggle to find the right words or names. I'm almost afraid to talk to people for fear that they will think I'm nuts. I'm really scared! But my husband is not very concerned and thinks I am overly concerned and it's stress related. I feel panicked all the time. Head feels foogy. I say things that I'd never say to others and do things that are abnormal for me... I used to keep a spotless house but now I'm almost hoarding. Was wonderful at finances and saving but now over spend by leaps and bounds. I lose stuff all the time. I often go into rooms and forget what I was there for and honestly never remember afterward. Is it hormonal? I've had the change of life about 4 years ago and that's when my memory really began suffering. I repeat things over and over again. It's irritating. I talk out loud (without even realizing I'm doing) when no one is in the room just to get things off my chest and I don't have to see my sweet husbands questioning expressions. I don't recognize the real me and I feel like a stranger!

@localwalker5696

4 жыл бұрын

Menopause..don't worry I was terrible but I'm getting back to normal started at 50 on 55 now .memory better .more active No depression..

@lynnb6840

4 жыл бұрын

Check your B12 level...also get your Calcium, Vit D, and PTH (parathyroid hormone) levels checked...same blood draw ....some symptoms can be caused from problems with these imbalances

@MBT372

2 жыл бұрын

Blood pressure pills did that to me, specially when the doctor put me on Valsartan! It got scary!

@kellyeastin9851

2 жыл бұрын

Try MCT oil (medium chain triglycerides), there are many studies that show it helps with memory and many other concerns.

I miss my 3Children, where are you guys at now?!

list begins at 2:05

@sandragreer7556

5 жыл бұрын

Scottish Girl thanks for that heads up! You saved me some time!

@wellman8998

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@manchitas3531

5 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU

@OleensEmbroidery

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@ziblot1235

5 жыл бұрын

I don’t see anything unusual that average trials of old age cause. My testosterone has been low since I was 50. No libido, but it’s not like pretty women are parading around me. I remarried at 56. But my wife is getting older too and the dents on the car are probably her. I was a professional driver for 20 yrs. not likely I would scrape curb when I could back a tractor trailer into a 14’ hole.

Most men normally are like what you listed. For years and years and years. Are we women enabling them throughout our relationship (s) with them? Asking for.a friend

None to all the above...!! Lucky 73yom. ..! Thank you for your help. !

@DementiaCareblazers

4 жыл бұрын

Woo Hoo!

My father has started to forget things back 3 years.. but he has only forgetting issue.. otherwish he is very keen on his hobby, he is very careful on his language and he takes his bath regularly... is this the symptom of dimentia?

@lucynanowacka84

4 жыл бұрын

He should have a check. It might be Mild Cognitive Impairment.

Father has a few symptoms, but they can also be explained by severe hearing loss. Avoids social situations with noise, no longer enjoys sports, difficulty concentrating, puts off necessary but disliked chores. But

@DementiaCareblazers

5 жыл бұрын

Yup, many of those symptoms can absolutely be hearing loss as well. It's important to get hearing checked to help rule that out.

@ajbh5724

5 жыл бұрын

Marie Katherine my dads same !

I asked my doctor if I should be concerned about my memory problems and he said "nah, forget about it".

@peggyalbright850

4 жыл бұрын

Kirby Waite 😂

@lucynanowacka84

4 жыл бұрын

🤗That is So simple

@tonywright8294

3 жыл бұрын

Ha Ha forget about it 🤣🤣

@kirbywaite1586

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucynanowacka84 In that case it should appeal to you.

All very true, and quite specific, wait until you get an elderly grandiose narcissist with dementia! (I will categorically NEVER let myself go through watching and experiencing that again.) The person had a broken hip and died under anaesthetic. Every symptom here. I would add intense irritability. Over nothing. Car registration plates. Hoarding. Driving on the wrong side of the road. A type of weird conceitedness. There was always total grandiosity and an insistence of having been robbed by family members who gave her an apartment and a large investment portfolio. The victims can hide it with great cunning.

@alexmorgan3435

2 жыл бұрын

Describes perfectly my Mum. Hoarder and selfish narcisst.

Showing signs. Hope they come up with a pill like Oregon. 2 end life a proper way. I wouldn't want to be put in a home. They should make it for all states

@juliethompson7623

4 жыл бұрын

@@Peggeez Didn't know that, thanks for the update.

@patrickflohe7427

2 жыл бұрын

I totally get it about assisted suicide, but there’s a reason why that has been forbidden through history....It can be abused. Eventually, the rules will relax more, and people with bad intentions will convince somebody that you need to die.

And the treatment is?

@swingwizard

5 жыл бұрын

Get rid of the aluminium intoxication caused by vaccinations and stomach tablet. Source: Official German government sponsored research.

Why get checked out. Can’t do anything about it anyway!

I have a question can smoking pot for years bring early dementia?

All of the above, where do I start to have a loved one diagnosed?

So what happens to folks in the USA that don't have children or relatives to help out, is there a safety net ?

Can anyone help with a family business situation! My husband (75 years old) is just about deaf, has memory loss, needs to write everything down still forgets. This is very bad for customers. My son works with us but it seems that my husband does not trust his own son. How do I move my husband out of the business? HELP

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3 жыл бұрын

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My brother in his late 50s is a mental health patient( takes meds for schizophrenia) and he is much improved, leading a fairly normal life, not fully independent but doing okay. We have noticed a disruption in his memory( e.g, time of day) and deterioration in walking speed (he walks very slowly with a gait/shuffle)and sleeping for hours daytime. Also he has had trouble dressing for bedtime and has fallen over several times. A brain scan showed no signs of Parkinsons which is what we thought it may have been. We have to go back to the doctor to rule out (or in) dementia.

My poor mom is 86, and has been in assisted living for 5 years mostly due to multiple sclerosis but now after 2 heart attacks shes been diagnosed with dementia. We moved her to the dementia ward in the same facility. She has always loved knitting, crochet and sewing but now can only crochet...and get the first row started. That's all she can do. But, she is having happy delusions in which she goes out to dinner with friends. She will remember these delusions for several days and tell me about them and laugh. I'm glad she is where she is, she was not getting enough care in assisted living.

@kathypresley7973

4 жыл бұрын

The assisted living facility is trying the mainstream the dementia ward and not keep them so isolated. Also, moms assisted living friends come visit her. Her caregivers are very patient and kind. I try to visit mom several times a week. It is important to see her and listen to her.