DON’T KEEP THE DOOR OPEN
Don’t leave the door open even a crack. Blocking the narcissist is the path. Protecting any avenue of communication is imperative. Staying no contact and realizing the narcissist did not have your best interest at heart is the path. Don’t unblock the narcissist ever. Maintain no contact double check that there is no way they can communicate with you. You have come so far you must maintain no contact and continue to move forward. You are a beautiful bright light. You are not a supply source. Sending positive positive energy and abundance. Namaste
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You're understanding and delivery is probably the best on the Tube, you're doing good admirable work 🙂🦘
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
Thank you..💜🙏😌
Once you part ways with any given narcissist, stay gone. There truly is nothing to be gained from re-engaging. All that is going to happen is they are going to take another crack at draining your soul, energy, finances, and life. Move on and give yourself permission to be happy 😊
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
💯💯😌
@taiskitchen6152
15 күн бұрын
Yes Yes and Yes again felt like I was having a heart attack after the last time . Love yourself and let them go .
@redpilljesus
15 күн бұрын
Accurate. Mine had gotten me into a court case 4 years before. She told me it would never happen again. I forgave her. It happened again.
@SilentFigure1
15 күн бұрын
Excellent
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
👍👍👍👍
When it comes to the narc... LOCK the door & THROW AWAY ALL KEYS! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
😌💯💜
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
Add some electrified barbed wire around former entryways.⚡⚡⚡
@chazbickel4518
15 күн бұрын
😊
@chazbickel4518
15 күн бұрын
@@jhavajoe3792love the fence....can we add a few big (rescue) dogs? 😊
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
@@chazbickel4518 I love Dogs more and more. You don't see them ditching owners because the neighbor is tossing them steaks or plotting convoluted shenanigans, etc.🐈⬛
Narcs are experts at being petty. PETTY. Kings and Queens of PETTY. We have to remember they have arrested development.
People like you are helping many people find freedom! God bless you!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
😌💜🙏
Never let the narcissist you know,back into your life. You didn't know who they really were and they did their best to keep it that way. 🙏
@michaeltape8282
15 күн бұрын
Yes, the narc lives a sad existence. Living as a fake spells the narc's eventual doom.
When someone discards you, stay discarded!
About a year ago my ex narcissist texted me and said, how are you,I miss you! I texted her back and said I’m very well but most of all I’m remembering who I am! BTW thank you for telling me to get the fuck out! I’ll be forever thankful! Never heard from her again! Namasta!
Keeping the door open reveals you are willing to accept more abuse. Period. Blessings!❤❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
😌😌💜
@rachelford8852
14 күн бұрын
💯
@Prometheuspredator
14 күн бұрын
So they get get their adrenalin rush. Their fix.
@lourdesecheverria6209
13 күн бұрын
@@Prometheuspredator Yes. Like a drug addict!
Yes don’t let the Snake 🐍 in too many times and no change. Our lives mean nothing to them, so for those that still want to give more chances, we who have learned the hard way suggest you don’t. All along they’ll be playing victim and you’re going crazy and your health is compromised due to stress and the crazy train of someone who can’t regulate their own unstable emotions. Run 🏃
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
"Our lives mean nothing to them."-- That should be etched in stone.
Marking myself and my cat safe from hurricane beryl. Please pray for us ❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
💜💯💯🐱❤️
@hongtruong4576
15 күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏😻
@Duckfarmer
15 күн бұрын
Dont let Him Stray outside
@pogofish1
15 күн бұрын
My two cats were a very big motivation in my keeping it together after the final discard. I prepared my exit strategy and took them with me when I walked away. I struggled to keep a roof over my head for a while but providing their home helped keep my resolve strong.
@vickithompson2680
15 күн бұрын
@@pogofish1 ❤️
I'm here because I could not unsee what I saw. I can no longer believe in things that aren't real no matter how much it hurts.
Our energy is sacred so we must use discernment and remain prudent 🛡️
Lean stoicism its the best thing you can learn to make a barrier with toxic people.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
🧘🌊⛰️💜🙌
@lired70
15 күн бұрын
No truer words spoken. Andrew teaches it, and it works.
In my narcissistic family my choices were, being hated for reasons I can't control or being hated for being no-contact. I choose no-contact because I control that. 🎯🤭👍
@michaeltape8282
15 күн бұрын
You are getting wiser...
@Anne_W64
15 күн бұрын
@@michaeltape8282 I'm getting old, it's about time, eh? 🤭
@chazbickel4518
14 күн бұрын
Good choice. Going no contact is the first thing you do to regain control. ❤
I googled. "Why is it always my fault", up popped narcissm-that was 9 years ago and was only the tip of the iceburg. Thank you for voice and all that you do. Narc's steal a lot of things-but most of all they steal your voice.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
Welcome..😌💜🙏
"The way is shut. It was made by those who are Dead, and the Dead keep it, until the time comes. The way is shut."
Best to keep the door SHUT because even open a crack, will leave the narc plenty of room to cause all kinds of havoc in your life. Also once shut, be careful of accepting a hoover. They will be sure to come back with a vengeance...like elephants, THEY DON'T FORGET! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
💯👍👍👍👍
@chazbickel4518
15 күн бұрын
😊❤
slammmed shut for life
He was blocked everywhere. He created a new email account and sent me an x-large photo of us together before my birthday. I blocked him again. It is crazy how he wanted the divorce yet still does this. If I am ever given a chance at real love, a man that actually serves God and can love, I would never let go in the first place. If you want to know the truth, I actually was willing to accept all the beatings and abuse from even the narcissists. I learned to hide the bruises. As long as he stayed, I was willing to accept everything. It was the narc that began threatening to divorce me so much that I grew to believe him, so I finally decided to grant him his wish and left. Why push someone away that you really want? Insanity.
@hongtruong4576
15 күн бұрын
I’m sorry for what you endured. When I love someone and the person hurts, I feel his pain with him. Not inflicting it. Save yourself, stay closed, get counseling with Andrew and run for the hill 🏃🏻♀➡
This time, if and when I get out, I will never return. It does never, I mean NEVER, EVER get better!
@michaeltape8282
15 күн бұрын
If you feel that way, get out ASAP. Plan, but leave.
@hongtruong4576
15 күн бұрын
Run for the hill my friend 🙏🏃🏽➡
@michelescott739
15 күн бұрын
Don't give them a clue that you want out, just plan and get out love, godbless, you can do it.xx
@Monkchip
15 күн бұрын
@@michelescott739 I appreciate your reply. It reinforces my needs. I get so angry, I go too far. I spill the beans out of anger, trying to reason(don't ask me why. I think I am programmed to try to get them to reason, but it never works).
@cb9498
14 күн бұрын
..you are worth it...always remember you are worth it , to be yourself again. Plan, stay calm, forgive yourself, & remember to breathe , You will get there, one step at a time... 16:51
It’s shut and blocked it took me awhile to find myself again,but I have and I will never let anyone treat me so poorly again ,thanks for saving me from a lifetime of misery Andrew😎
Thank you Andrew for all you do. For the others healing here, I wanted to share some healing techniques which worked for me. When you hear the narc's voice in your mind, immediately counter with "Shut up, I know you're not my voice I won't listen to you" Then counter with the positive of their negative comment. Example: "you're stupid" counter with "I am NOT stupid, because...". If you can write down these inner voices (negative interjects) even better. Also, write down the 3 worst things they did to you. When you get those wonderful memories, allow it to play in your mind, then immediately, go through that sh*t list. Pretty soon those memories will stop. I'm struggling a lot after this total mindf**k. I hope someone reading this gets some benefit from it. Finally, rest on God. Pray. It's helped me immensely. God bless you all.
Healing has been slow and challenging as every aspect of my life suffered and was in service to my soon to be narc ex husband. I didn't see that reality until I did and closed the door! These people are critters that dig, poke, deceive, abuse, manipulate, triangulate, and deplete every aspect of your life when you are committed and "in love" with someone who actually didn't really exist unfortunately. You truly experience existing in an evil fog constantly engaged in conversation with a devil! Thank you Andrew for your wisdom and validation...your passion to educate!
@michaeltape8282
15 күн бұрын
Yup, evil fog, like Stephen King's The Mist...
My last memory with my entire immediate family together was a Thanksgiving night. My narc mother was tossing drama around. When she couldn't get her way her heightened antics could have easily gotten us all into a car wreck. That night I had to call the police, and they held my mother for a few hours. She doesn't have my number or address, home or email. I call her every year on Christmas only. She is so delusional that she asks when she can send me a gift. She asked if we are ever going to hang out together again. I told her point blank- NO. Her reaction was "That's terrible!". The door is closed, as it would be for any common prowler.
THE SCORPION 🦂AND THE FROG 🐸 A scorpion, not knowing how to swim, asked a frog to carry it across the river. “Do I look like a fool?” said the frog. “You’d sting me if I let you on my back!” “Be logical,” said the scorpion. “If I stung you, I’d certainly drown myself.” “That’s true,” the frog acknowledged. “Climb aboard, then!” But no sooner than they were halfway across the river, the scorpion stung the frog, and they both began to thrash and drown. “Why on earth did you do that?” the frog said morosely. “Now we’re both going to die.” “I can’t help it,” said the scorpion. “It’s my nature.”
@jhavajoe3792
14 күн бұрын
Now we know better-- when the scorpion asks for a ride, yell out: "As IF!"
@wickedwisdom6088
14 күн бұрын
@@jhavajoe3792 : Bingo!!!! 🎯But I would add after yelling out "As IF!" we walk away, block, delete, and go NO CONTACT with the narcissist, all enablers, flying monkeys and people associated with them. 😉
Board it up with nontoxic solid WOOD
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
😌😌💜💯
"No. Is a complete sentence". I needed to be reminded of that & the Importance of having a Moral Compass not being distracted by the Narcissists Tyrannical Dictatorship Cult Leader Meltdowns when faced with doing the next right thing. Thanks Andrew❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
Welcome..💜😌🙏
I had to leave my sister's husband's business he runs with his brother last February. I made the mistake of telling her her husband is covert and his brother overt. I told her I wanted no contact with him, and since she's stonewalled the matter as though it's my fault and difficult. I realized I needed to go no contact with my family last week because I'm the family scapegoat empath and she isn't taking it well. Robo calls started today and I realized they have my SSN and banking info. I fear they'll leak that info next. Bless this community. I love you all. ❤ Hands down, the best channel.
@ecm958
15 күн бұрын
They need to be reported. If you can't afford a lawyer they may have sliding scale or free lawyers in your area. A local University or college with a law department may be able to help you. Good luck! ❤
@michaeltape8282
15 күн бұрын
I am now estranged from my narc family. You need to understand that there was nothing you could have done to be an authentic person AND stay in that family dynamic. You can have one OR the other. For a time, stay on channels like this. Research. You'll see. You are better off without narc influences.
@valjodi3005
15 күн бұрын
Go to your bank close down the accts to a different one. Very easy takes half hr.
@twotonecadillac7953
15 күн бұрын
Thanks for the support ❤❤
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
Believe me- You already won just figuring out the whole scenario. You may have to adjust financially, get another employ, etc., but there is no way you can measure what a place like that can to to your health ( mentally, spiritually and physically).👍
I was married to a narcissist. He cheated (many times) and told me how wonderful, amazing, such connection he had with his new woman. They worked together. She decided to stay with her husband. I threw the narc out the day I caught him. Blocked him, his mother, siblings, nieces, nephews, ALL OF THEM. Changed his numbers in my phone to DO NOT ANSWER and BLOCKED the numbers. He emailed me some BS. I emailed back; If I wanted to interact with garbage, I would be a garbage man. Dont ever fuck with me again loser. He got the message. 😂
No contact... blocked...over. I choose to surround myself with authentic, kind, loving people..my close friends and adult children... nothing else really matters in my world...🙏💜🌟
True. Slam the door shut, lock and bolt it! We must not have anything to do with evil, voluntarily. Nothing. Thank you 🙏 God bless you ❤
Thanks Andrew! You left the pebbles for us to find our way out of that Maze! Namaste. 🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
Namaste..🙏😌🙌
@marieeakin8534
15 күн бұрын
Glad he did! 👍 Now then...Picking one up & I'm a great shot...CATCH!!! OMG..so SORRY Joe, didn't mean to hit you in the head! 🤕☕
@jennifernewton4637
15 күн бұрын
Heyyyy Jhava!!! 🙌🙌🫂😁☺️❤️💜❤️💜
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
@@jennifernewton4637 Yo Jennifer! You're your own Miracle!🙌👍
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
@@marieeakin8534 Har! Always an unexpected one from you!😅
For everyone who is fortunate enough to find Andrew’s videos - I had a narcissist mother and another narcissistic member of a hobby group. I can tell you from bitter experience with these people that Andrew is absolutely spot on - please, please listen to Andrew’s advice and follow it - go absolute NO CONTACT - a narcissist will NEVER change as it’s a deeply engrained personality flaw. It’s genuinely who they are. Thank you Andrew for everything you do.
I’ve been no contact for 60 days today and I’m starting to feel the peace I’ve deserved for so long. I have so far to go but I’m getting there, the journey of a 1000 miles starts with a single step.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
😌😌💜🙏
@deniseb3922
12 күн бұрын
Same here 2 months no contact He has tried many times to come back to try but I will never ever go back to hell with this demon.
Smart. Unbelievable how in love with themselves they are!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
💯💯😌
@imbalancedstatus8824
15 күн бұрын
Control that's all there is to it
@mjeff4106
15 күн бұрын
I've come to believe that they actually don't love themselves. It's all a facade for them! They're empty vessels.
@michaeltape8282
15 күн бұрын
They truly don't love themselves. They truly don't know themselves, and never will. Count your lucky stars that you figured it out.
@hongtruong4576
15 күн бұрын
@@mjeff4106I agreed with you, They are needy creatures, always want/ need/demand attentions. If not getting attention quick enough they play victims, they have a hissy fits. That void needs to be filled. They cannot just be. But that’s not my problem. I’m still running for the hill 💃🏻
One of the best Advice yet.. They will manipulate the Situation to their benefit leaving you feeling used....yet again 😐
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
😌😌💯
You wonderful, wonderful man. Thank you for showing me the light.,🌸
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
Welcome..🌺😊💜
You are a daily blessing ❤💯‼️📣
I'm over my narc, but I still like to watch your vids! Thank you for all your content. It's good to make sure you don't fall back into being a sucker again!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
💜💯😌🙏
@lggig534
15 күн бұрын
Definitely!
Seal them with 🦍 glue, oh Andrew, sometimes you make me lol 🤣.
@jennifernewton4637
15 күн бұрын
Hey Sherry!!! 🙌🙌😁🙏☺️🌻🌺🌸☮️🫂🫂💜❤️💜❤️
@Divinely_Guided444
15 күн бұрын
@jennifernewton4637 Hey Jenn! 🧚💜🌼🙌
Great video Andrew! Close the door on a narcissist. Open a door for the new you. Wishing everyone clarity and peace... 😊
@jhavajoe3792
15 күн бұрын
A peace and clarity for you too! 🙌👍
@chazbickel4518
14 күн бұрын
@@jhavajoe3792😊
@marieeakin8534
14 күн бұрын
Yes.👍❤👍❤👍 🌈🎀😘
@chazbickel4518
14 күн бұрын
@@jhavajoe3792 😊
@chazbickel4518
14 күн бұрын
@@marieeakin8534 😊
Andrew is so on the mark about it all. I was with my partner for 22 years. He called it to an end not realizing I wouldn't cave into his bluff - yet again. I had many people after me once I was single, but I never took any of them up on the offer because I never wanted to feel that pain again. I finally had to mute Andrew and play out his video so he'd get full credit, but at the 8 minute mark, I just could not listen to the horrors I endured for so many years. But I still feel badly for my X, I believe it's not so much that he's evil, I believe he's sick. Much easier to let go of resentment that way.
Strong message and very disturbing to hear an allergy was at stake for you with the ex narcissist. 🙏❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
😌😌💜
@jennifernewton4637
15 күн бұрын
Hello Grateful!!! 🙌🙌🫂☺️😇🙏☮️🌺🌸💜❤️💜❤️ Yes, that IS a TRULY disturbing thought 😔
@gratefultobehere
15 күн бұрын
@@jennifernewton4637 Hi Jennifer, how have you been? Agree very much so. Sending love and hugs💖🌸🙏 🫂
Harder when co-parenting.
@Sparky-if9sn
15 күн бұрын
I’m living proof 🙏
@matthewkeim
15 күн бұрын
Amen.. shit ain't easy.. feel like I'll never stop caring about her.. just want my family back together again . But she moved on immediately and it's a pipe dream
@Denzella2154
11 күн бұрын
@@MrsBlehm exactly its a ish show
NO - is the strongest word in any language !!! Many Blessings from Germany, dear Andrew🙏💎
My ex narc was never more hot and cold than in the middle of a discard. Always trying to manipulate me emotionally so he could keep one foot in the door so he’d have “side options” when he was with his new supply. It took a few love bomb/Hoover/discard cycles over the years for me to finally put 2 and 2 together about him…
Another great video Andrew!! ❤❤❤ Thank you! Namaste 🙏 your energy to educate us all is awesome and hugely appreciated! Your are a shining beam of bright light in the murky darkness that is narcissism. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
After 10 years, I can finally comment and say I have blocked and went no-contact. It's a struggle, but it's freeing. My soul and identity don't feel like they are being sucked out of / taken away from me. I'm not a perfect person, but I am grateful I can introspect and have empathy. I'm gathering the lessons. Thank you Andrew for your vulnerablility and humility and willingness to share your story and (also), the narcissistic glossary. Will come back and post a comment in about a month. Cheers! 🎉
Thanks for all your videos Andrew! I feel like I should have studied narcissism in school since I majored in psychology, but I didn’t learn enough to recognize covert narcissism. I thought it was depression, and I couldn’t understand the reason for the manipulation and gaslighting. I feel like Jesus lead me to the truth. About a year ago, a seemingly random Dr Phil video showed up on my KZread feed. I wasn’t searching out anything like that. It was on the different types of narcissism, and suddenly I understood the whole truth. After that I watched many more videos and read books. I didn’t think I was ready to leave, but God showed me the timing last month to relocate and helped me with the exit. He had even brought friends into my life in my church who were understanding and supportive. I’m happy in my new apartment and will file the divorce paperwork soon. It was difficult to leave after nearly 12 years of marriage, but your videos and those of others also have really helped me.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
Welcome..😌💜🙏💯🙌
Thanks so much for your guidance… It’s been 7 mo. I am still missing a man in my house. Waited 36 years to remarry. Didn’t last 3 years. I’m very sad… Don’t want him back.., just sad.,,,😢
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
Welcome..💜🙏😌
Thank you so much Andrew. Truly I think you helped save my life. I'm still in the thick of healing but your videos help me so much.
I have gotten to the 3rd version. Have never heard of anyone else speak of this but it's true 😊 And...I am still experiencing the abuse daily but the education gets me through. 🙏
@camelotenglishtuition6394
15 күн бұрын
You need to get out of that relationship if you can. God bless you.
@01968
15 күн бұрын
@@camelotenglishtuition6394 I went no contact and she is having me gang stalked.
Thank you Andrew for this message and a very good reminder to close that door permanently to the narc. Gorilla glue period...People like You are helping so many of us on your channel . May God continue to bless you 🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
4 күн бұрын
Welcome..🙌🙏💯
Great advice Andrew. Keep them out of your lives. They have taken enough from everyone. Live your lives freely and for you 💪💪
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
Thank you..😌💯💜
It's the best thing to do ,don't give them any ground to manipulate again,,my son went to a gaming tournament arrived late and missed it they mess up your plans,,keep you away from anything that keeps you Happy and from friends,,pure Toxic they are,,t.y. Andrew👍💖
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
Welcome..😌💯💜
@SusanW-lc8rp
14 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤
Thanks to this Community🎉and these videos! Thank you Andrew, I am healing ❤️🩹
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
Welcome..💜🙏😌
Wow! ✨👍🏻Everything is true.. very Well explained!! ✅I tell the same to people who leave the narcist. No contact!!! Put yourself first than the healing starts! Thanks for all your good work and good info in the video’s! 🙏🏼✨💖🍀
You have saved my life.
Decorate your new freedom door with cool colors that makes you happy. Your new community is here for you.❤❤❤ 🎨 🖌 🎉
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
💜😌🙏
Thank you for your videos. Imagine getting abused and sabotaged until you have nothing. You now get to depend on the very narcissistic people. Careful guys how much you share. Close all doors.
This..💯💯💯..so much truth..so many lightbulb moments during the healing process.. I definitely have the one strike rule.. not sure I am willing to give second chances at this point..Great message..Thank you!!
They never loved you! That’s the hardest one to navigate but when you’re completely honest with yourself- after all the red flags - you knew it. I know I never felt loved because you feel love with non-narcissistic people 🌷
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
😌😌💜🙏
You are saving my sanity. My doggie Vanna White barks as I shout at the TV, "YES, Andrew!!! Yes!" Thank you, I have difficulty speaking so I'm excercising my God given ✍🏼✌🏼🐻💪🏽s. God bless you all. Namaste ☮ Seraphina
I am so thankful for your videos. I am keeping strong and don’t accept any hoovers! 3 month no contact as of today.
Narcissists are like that invasive ivy growing behind you. They’re very tenacious and hard to get rid of.
Powerful message Andrew I don't plan on letting any of them back in my peace and serenity is the most important thing to me at this moment. 🦁🌟🐛🦋
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
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It’s been 1 1/2 yrs, and I realize my second chance to choose who I want to be, without the manipulation of the Narcissist. I WAS born into a Narcissistic family. I was born into chaos. This explains a lot about my tendencies in having a short fuse. Father had a short fuse because mom is a Narcissist. Learned traits from childhood, so I did well fending off the manipulation from the ex. I now have a second chance to build from my knowledge of why. How people in my life, directed my life, manipulating me to take from me. I choose greatness. I choose peace, grace, and my faith. I choose freedom from others. I don’t want the lost lives of others who think they have power by cheating at common decency and integrity. Justifying their version of life that only suits them. I’m grateful for this second chance to choose. I’ve decided to go my own way, and not look for love. I’ll be too happy choosing and manifesting my personality from my own heart.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing..😌😌💜🙏
Good morning Andrew, my door is sealed. He will never be a part of my life again. I am free from him and there is no return.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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Healing is a process. It takes time. I know because I'm still on it after a yr already.
I can't believe how much I used to do, the majority of cooking, cleaning, diy, trash clearing. She did the minimum. And just bitched and moaned. I was trauma bonded. Remember, when you say no to them you say YES TO YOURSELF. Go no contact There is a reaso5 She is my ex wife of 20 years no. I am recovered
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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That misguiding or Miss directing thing that they do is not by accident what I have discovered is that it is a form of manipulation and a way to keep you off balance and also it seems to me that it is a form or a tactic of some sort to get or to keep you in a trauma Bond state
Thank you Andrew for convincing me to close my door and block him out of my life. After he moves out, I am going to block him on my phone and on my social media, even though he is a relative. He’s my deadbeat narcissist cousin. My family and good friends are going to block him also so he can’t get to me through them. The only person that probably won’t block him is his ex wife, who is a friend of mine, since they have a son and granddaughter in common. But she will not tell him anything about me if I ask. She knows how he is. That’s why she left him. I know he’s already out of money for this month. When he asks to borrow money again until he gets paid, which I know he will, I’m going to tell him no and then tell him I want him to move out!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
7 күн бұрын
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I got the missing you text... BLOCKED them immediately lol
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
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Thank you🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
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This excellent message ..Thank you Andrew 🌻☺️🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
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I have lost everything...other than saving my soul!....My twin..had too sever ...x......Atter fighting a lost battle...have walked away...suffering !!!!
I decided to go home early from work to catch up on rest. Thank you Andrew for the reminder. Self care is golden
I swear your video just hit the nail on the head, i have a childhood "friend" at the moment thats trying to get back in my life, that did nothing but cause problems in my life- i had to get rid of the narc, now that im about to drop my Kickstarter campaign for my manga, he now wants to reach out and "help" me with my business... No fucking way!
6 months was too long, my time, money, emotional well being, energy, and mental health all suffered. Now I am putting myself first. Leaching narcissist woman in a mask was the worst relationship I ever had. I feel swindled and cheated, absolutely drained.
My daughter is trauma bonded bad. She's in therapy but it's not going to work if she keeps hanging around him and talking to him. I told her everyone sees him for who is and you have to see it she didn't say anything she gets mad at me. She knows I'm right.
@lggig534
15 күн бұрын
Glad you are supporting your daughter. It’s so important! Help her save her life.
So much life changing truth packed into this 20 min video. Heed this wise advice , you deserve to have peace 😊
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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There is a saying "Shut The Door". A more emphatic version "Shut The Barn Door". But in time the reactive abuse subsides. No internal reaction when they are seen. To borrow a phrase...the narctriss has no better chance going through my open door than an elephant does passing through the eye of a needle. All in a calm thought process. Congrats. You have made it back to you.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
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@jennifernewton4637
15 күн бұрын
Hey there Brad!!! 🙌🙌😁😊🫂💜❤️💜❤️
@bradmcewen
15 күн бұрын
@@jennifernewton4637 Hello Jennifer 👋
my doors are closed and locked up tightly to the. outside the environment no narcs are allowed to enter the heart No one owns me just my dog lol
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
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Beautifully stated! Thank you for sharing. Namaste 🙏🏻🕉️🪷
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
13 күн бұрын
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Great video, Andrew! Thank you 😊
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
15 күн бұрын
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I have been nc for 8 years and I am angrier than ever. It’s like being a victim of a crime and the criminal never faces justice
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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Survivors Of Narcissistic Abuse! SONA!❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
4 күн бұрын
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Thank you Andrew your very appreciated ❤
Testify Andrew! 🙌
I really loved this video! It was spot on 💯💯💯 on every point! We love you! Peace and grace. 💜🙏💜🙏😍
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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Andrew, your videos are the best antidote to limerence and rumination. Your channel is a guiding light for those of us who have lost their way because of toxic "love". Thank you for your work.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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@covidoff
14 күн бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Amen
Brilliant work thanks so much andrew
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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Whew! I have been watching many videos. Just catching up! These videos are so powerful and an energy source for me. Thank you!
It’s so true.. she said exactly what you said.. the relationship has an expectation date… I didn’t know what that meant at the time.. I do now
There's a song by Bruno Mars about leaving the door open and and the ex narc played it for me once. I told him I hated it and he got real pissed 😂
@BA-vx7gb
15 күн бұрын
There’s a song by Bruno mars… you give them “ all you have.. . And they toss it in The Trash… They toss it in the trash !!!!!!!!!
I remember when I was a lot younger I was reading a lot of Stephen King books. One of them called "Salem`s Lot" was about vampires. I understand couple of days ago that this book is about narcissist an analogy of them. Same as all this different books and movies about blood suckers. So keep the doors and windows closed and just dont open it for them. 👍🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
14 күн бұрын
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Have not listened but back sliding thanks so much.
The narcissist that tried 😂 😏 to destroy me last year,😅had the spine to try and contact me last week. Just like that wow,I already blocked this person and yet tried to call me. Unbelievable spine on it.