Absolutely... Why do family and society want everyone to get married???

@beastgarenaffboys236

Жыл бұрын

Yes We have to break the rules of marriage "MARRIAGE IS NOT EVERYTHING, MARRIAGE SHOULD BE AN OPTIONAL CHOICE NOT AN ONE AND ONLY OPTION. IF YOU LIKE TO MARRY THEN YOU CAN MARRY BUT IF YOU DON'T LIKE TO MARRY THEN YOU CAN LIVE LIKE A CELIBACY"!!!!!

@SoloWanderer25

Жыл бұрын

Sadly 😥 it's a culture, here in India! But yes.. today's youth is looking marriages as an option..

@beastgarenaffboys236

Жыл бұрын

@@SoloWanderer25 I hope 🤞🍀 one day we'll get the freedom for being a celibacy

@beastgarenaffboys236

Жыл бұрын

@@SoloWanderer25 But not my parents My parents r like You must get married If u can't get married then that is illegal 😭 And I hate marriage

@SoloWanderer25

Жыл бұрын

@@beastgarenaffboys236 If anyone gets into Marriage and then leads to Child births... then my friend, it's a 20 years long project. Whether we like it or not we can't step back! That's where the problem is! Freedom is the ultimate Aim 🙌

It's not 20 years project. It's lifetime project.

@Anne_Myriam_

Жыл бұрын

He said *minimum*

@Lemon_sugar_is_crazzzyy

Жыл бұрын

And you will get nothing in return just only struggling and getting old and then die

@thejaamilineni4487

Жыл бұрын

If children will become CHAPRIS , it will be lifetime project no peace.

@rwikhabasumatary8538

10 ай бұрын

Yeah after that cycle repeat . which is not good

@RanjanRevankar1997

10 ай бұрын

For Peaceful Community it's 20+ Year Project. The reason is Men tend to have 4 - 5 Wives & their Children will be more.

Me 30 .... unmarried..... Today in this society being single is best,...

@vincentcaris9651

18 күн бұрын

Crt 100 %

I already chosen single life forever whatever I earn all money is mine so much freedom

@Mousumidas-hf2ec

Жыл бұрын

Me also

@AnandKumar-mi9fm

Жыл бұрын

I too

@mehedihasan503

Жыл бұрын

💯, Maan ki bath kehe dia.

@sakuntalamondal7472

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@aishwaryanagarajan8721

Жыл бұрын

Even i really want to be like this😭 but I'm fed up with those dumb relatives and neighbours' constant pressure ..triggering my parents 😔

I am single by my own choice ... I'm now 44 yrs

@dineshsethu9905

8 ай бұрын

ur life is happy?

@user-fq7bm6bo3z

8 ай бұрын

​@@dineshsethu9905happinez doesnt depent on being married or having childeren. I have many friends who regret having childeren and never want a relationship again.

@_BENDIGERI_MANJUNATH

8 ай бұрын

@@dineshsethu9905 Happy

@sonujain2348

8 ай бұрын

Akele kese rahoge.

@classonline91155

8 ай бұрын

​@@sonujain2348That's single power

Someone plz explain all this to indian parents🤣

@ajhimself-mr3yp

Жыл бұрын

Lol good luck with that 🤣🤣🤣

@codingiscreativity

Жыл бұрын

Indian parents some of them might have a paper degree so 99.99999% are educated fools.

@ss0498

10 ай бұрын

You cant explain something to a wall which most of indian parents will be about marriage.

@Suresh4sv

10 ай бұрын

Sir, if I didn't marry where I have to stay.. Any organizations or pen house should buy???

@ss0498

10 ай бұрын

@@Suresh4sv You have to either build or buy a thing called house/home and live in it .

Marriage should be optional ( please don't force anyone to get married )

In india there so much pressure to get married from relatives side

@SunLake-pr1di

10 ай бұрын

Don't change your mind on any pressure, marriage is hell

@jad45

9 ай бұрын

Why to listen to your relatives? Are they your thekedars? Just ignore them.

@cimmerianfable

6 ай бұрын

Tell them I'll only get married the day y'all drink p∅is∅n

@sumankaur1906

4 ай бұрын

Yes ryt

@raisa_cherry33

Ай бұрын

Here in Bangladesh too 😢

I will get married only if I choose to. I am true to myself and I will never let society put any pressure on me.

@hennaworld6336

Жыл бұрын

Do you have a job

@KARINA29534

Жыл бұрын

@@hennaworld6336 How does that matter?

@hennaworld6336

Жыл бұрын

@@KARINA29534 because I was a teacher in a private schl... After my parents knew about my intercaste relationship they forced me to quit the job... After the quit now they are forcing me to marry a different guy... What will I do?

@saurabhsingh5263

Жыл бұрын

I want sex beacuse it is natural body needs but not marriage and kids ....

@commentshuruzero

Жыл бұрын

Yes trust yourself

"You can escape a murder, you can not escape marriage".

@thejaamilineni4487

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 correct bro ..indian parents

@PeterBrown349

8 ай бұрын

Yes you can

@parthbage1132

Ай бұрын

You can escape marriage if you don't fall under parents trap.

I am 26 now and I have been single for 9 years,people ask when will I get married but trust me i have never thought about marriage, for now I just want to travel the world

@motivate2568

Жыл бұрын

Then what about tapa tap tapa tap 🥺🥺

@xyz-vv5tg

Жыл бұрын

​@@motivate2568 you think marriage is the only way to do that?

@roger4729

Жыл бұрын

​@@motivate2568 if you have money then you do with anyone anyday 😂

@imaad2882

Жыл бұрын

​@@roger4729 l think someone has banged ur mom and sis like that hence u speaking from personal experience

@WolfyRealm

11 ай бұрын

@@roger4729 yeah no need marriage sh1t

Reasons a man scared to get married - 1. Unstable income 2. Unsecured future 3. Unemployed 4. Girls have high expectations from her life partner, nothing to return except burdens. 5. Extra marital affairs of girls. 6. Harsh Alimony and maintenance law 7. Unfavourable matrimonial laws against men. 8. False matrimonial cases against men. 9. Loosing freedom, doubling responsibilities 10. Girls have social media partners, colleagues, best friends and ex-bfs to support, but men haven’t.

@vaidehigujar21

4 ай бұрын

Improve your English Not men haven't it's men don't And who said men don't have they also have and also don't generalise all these above points for all girls and don't think that girl's life is heaven after marriage, if yours is bad then theirs is worst.

@sreekundanmuramulla8895

Ай бұрын

Sahi Bola bhai tunhe

marriage is waste of life, live in relationship is best🥰

@GarudAtma

4 ай бұрын

but a man can still come under false cases by woman if live-in going for more than 2 years than all marital false cases applies also even a whore can put case on you after 10 years if she feels like it

Exactly!!! Was never my dream to get married or have kids but people get so angry or look at you weirdly when you say that

@roxy4325

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU! it's as if they think I'm saying THEY are stupid for choosing that path. I'm only talking about MY life, do what you want with yours and let me live mine

@jgtheman84

10 ай бұрын

@@roxy4325yep a lot of people who have kids are biased and get offended by people who choose not to have them. It’s strange.

@ss0498

10 ай бұрын

Because they believe in a very rare thing called as Misery loves company.

@Gogetaover90000

7 ай бұрын

​@@jgtheman84Because they don't want to see someone staying happy

@dhyanapadi15

6 ай бұрын

But why? Why do they get angry? We are not asking them to not get married or not have kids .. we are not stopping them from doing anything .. weird people .. may be they are jealous that we get to choose a better life 😅

NOT EVERY MAN DESERVES TO BE A HUSBAND AND/OR FATHER. NOT EVERY PERSON IS MARRIAGE-MATERIAL OR PARENT-MATERIAL 👍 SUCH PERSONS MUST REMAIN SINGLE...

@shaondas8104

Жыл бұрын

how we would make our Parents understand this ?

@thedarklord5129

Жыл бұрын

Nah, such people are gonna have kids, no matter how much you people preach. I'm not gonna have kids, not like I'm not responsible enough, but because I have wasted so much life in an idle way, often being traumatised and neglected by my family. We live in darkest times.

@thedarklord5129

Жыл бұрын

​@@shaondas8104 They won't. We just have to find a way to make money independently, and then we can leave those people who would never understand us.

@thedarklord5129

Жыл бұрын

Marriage is a scam just like religions. I'm spiritual but not religious. I'm a human but I don't like to be needy for some person. This is my fate and I love it better than most people live pathetic lives.

@shaondas8104

Жыл бұрын

@@thedarklord5129 Same experience here ! It's not that we are against it , but we are just mentally exhausted to Be in such a mess which ruined half of our lives

Omg this is honey to my ears

I m 21 years with no gf.thinking about never 2 get married this is my motivation

@satan3196

Жыл бұрын

You are lucky since you are not married.

@motivate2568

Жыл бұрын

Then what about tapa tap tapa tap 🥺🥺

@basudevbag7284

Жыл бұрын

@@motivate2568 marriage is not necessary for tapa tap🧔

@shadowarena3856

Жыл бұрын

@motive get girlfriend and do tapa Tap and I'f not then become rich you will get girlfriend and even if you don't get girlfriend then spend 10k-15k night and do unlimited tapa Tap.

@entertainmentlord6101

Жыл бұрын

​@@basudevbag7284 yes bro 8000 mill jati ha❤❤

I would never marry thats final no one can bend my will

@humane247

Жыл бұрын

Cool

@user-xo2vi5eu7v

Жыл бұрын

Am here too lmao

@subhadeeppradhan2591

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@divyanshdwivedi9751

Жыл бұрын

​@@JOYBOY493 to myself I will enjoy my money traveling Doing exciting stuff and more on

@SunLake-pr1di

10 ай бұрын

Me here also same😊

I'm not against marriage, I just dont get the OBSESSION of it. Like... our society everyone seems to getting married.

@roshinitoenlightenment

9 ай бұрын

Without marriage people become slut

@cimmerianfable

6 ай бұрын

Ofcourse! That's ALL they ever learnt to do and can ever do.

Being Single was always Ultimate! Im Enjoying the Single Life Experience. Its Beautiful...

Also overpopulation can lead to hunger and poverty

@beastgarenaffboys236

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯💯

@hiphopsaikrishna09

Жыл бұрын

Yes...Increased Unemployement Also😢

@ss0498

Жыл бұрын

Very true brother

@SHAPE077

Жыл бұрын

@Football Maniac exactly

@user-ko2bc7ls8t

Жыл бұрын

Overpopulation is the only reason for me being marriage less

I wish if I were not married,I would love to die single .. being single means real freedom

I decided long ago in my high school to remain single , There Im happy have ample of time to do everything i always wanted I learned to cook , and has a maid for household chores

The video my relatives need to watch🤣

@ajhimself-mr3yp

Жыл бұрын

They’ll watching it with their spouse and it’s gonna be awkward lol

@deepparekh8720

Жыл бұрын

@@ajhimself-mr3yp 😂

Many drop their projects sir 😂

I think only those people should marry who don't have any big goal in life i have a veryyyyyyy big goal in my life and it will take time more than my life span so i dont have time to get marry and raise my kids🙂

@imaad2882

Жыл бұрын

Even world's richest person has married and has kids not once but multiple times

@Lemon_sugar_is_crazzzyy

Жыл бұрын

@@imaad2882 money is not every thing and nickola tesla, galileo galeli, issac newton was unmarried because they want to do something in thier life and i have a kind of similar scientific goal

@kattarshwetabhbhakt6785

8 ай бұрын

​@@Lemon_sugar_is_crazzzyy I believe even if you don't have a goal, why get married. Just live your life as it is.

@Lemon_sugar_is_crazzzyy

8 ай бұрын

@@kattarshwetabhbhakt6785 the idea of not getting married seems tempting but without any purpose or goal it will be the worst decision as human is a social animal and you will might face brain disorder being living alone

@gauravgaji

6 ай бұрын

​@@Lemon_sugar_is_crazzzyynot really we have evolved to become solitary beings there was a time when we used to social animals not anymore we can choose to stay away from certain situations if it doesn't benifits us😊

I am 18 year's old i will never get married i don't want

@roshinitoenlightenment

9 ай бұрын

Bcoz u defing responsibility

Please show this to all Indian parents

Those who feel the compulsion .. that just comes from the comparison .. it will be same after marriage but subjects will change .. maybe into car or money. .

Finally I have found a solution to live without marriage 😌😌

My father drop it half a way and walked away...

Hail Sadhguru for saying this ❤❤❤

Sadhguru is great you showed me correct way god....... really you gave me courage

If You are Rich, then you are the one who out pressure on the Society 😂🤣

20 year project.... Completed... 😂😂

It's like if you not got married and invested that time to achieve something good in life then no one can comment on you alternatively if you struggling all alone without anyone to support then it's miserable.

People feel it's okay to tell people to get married and then tell them to have kids. This is our project to undertake not theirs. I don't agree with this societal behaviour, it's a choice.

@motivate2568

Жыл бұрын

Then what about tapa tap tapa tap 🥺🥺

@roshinitoenlightenment

9 ай бұрын

They go multiple partner

@classonline91155

8 ай бұрын

​@@motivate2568myre

@bhoddepallipuniith6916

Ай бұрын

Marriage❌hook up✅🤦🤡

I am staying single foever

Sadhguru told its not compulsory for everyone to get Married. But how to deal with Surrounding Uncle & Aunti Ji, they ask are u Married or not. So anyone please tell me how to deal these tough situations.

@Akash-ok7su

Жыл бұрын

just saying 'no' is your solution

@thememer1046

Жыл бұрын

😅😅

@deepmazumder1619

Жыл бұрын

ask those aunties and uncle that will they pay your monthly bills after your marriage for the rest of life, if not then they should not do panchayati regarding your marriage and life , trust me this works I had did this in my society also some uncle were irritating me many times regarding this marriage shit I asked them the same question and now It had been more then 2 years they don't ask the same question again.

@commentshuruzero

Жыл бұрын

Already they stuck now they will try to struck ourselves so try avoid

@thememer1046

Жыл бұрын

@@deepmazumder1619 mast plan hai😅

Sadhguru your Totally right here ❤️

I am a girl being, unmarried at 28 but many relatives and my parents, friends pressurisee for marriage they are like " ur not married

@sonujain2348

8 ай бұрын

Same here

@cimmerianfable

6 ай бұрын

Just reply "Are y'all still not dead?"

@hiphopsaikrishna09

5 ай бұрын

Stay strong

In India it is 25-30 year project 😅

@RanjanRevankar1997

5 ай бұрын

U are right. In Today's World, taking care of Children is becoming hectic. There's no guarantee that Children will take care of their Parents when they get Older.

Dont listen to even your parents, u can see how they struggled and always want to get respect in society, See it is your life,your life should not controlled by your parents after 20 ,because its your life ,dont think abt relatives and society

He is true

This man makes a lot of sense

@roshinitoenlightenment

9 ай бұрын

Not married and have multiple partner is right choice

The advice that every parent needs to understand..😢

He is living another planet 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I will. Remain single

@roshinitoenlightenment

9 ай бұрын

And had muiltiple partners

Im Indian and I have a family with a lovely man. We never married.

Please explain to our parents

11:31. All of this is one of the example from ‘The Law Of Attraction’. This means the more positive activity you committed the more good karma you will encounter in the future outcome same things with negative ones. So with high consistency transfer and invest a lot of good things only.

If you are thinking you don't want marriage people express there doubt about your virilism But our tension is mainly on three things 1) how to earn lakhs together for child school fees 2) how to bear costly medical expenses in life 3) how to buy pretentiousness things in life How to earn money for these 3

This curse ends with me

@kasprowiz3062

7 ай бұрын

💯

Good morning ! Wise words ! Thanks so much ! 🌞🌞🌞

I will share this to everyone

Don't marry, stay happie 😂

I will get married at age of 27 nly

Here Indian parents sending 20k monthly for There 30year old child (upsc aspirint) living in Delhi

Even if you want to marry, rising cost, job insecurity prevent you from taking the plunge

You are right its subjective to every other person. No opinion fits all here.

It’s crazy people still want get married.

Brain listens not hormones 😅.

@sansouza80

11 ай бұрын

😂

@WolfyRealm

11 ай бұрын

yeah stupid hormon unecessary fked it up

@robinbhandari1401

9 ай бұрын

Plenty places to take out ur hormones make gf

@tylerdurden5642

8 ай бұрын

​@@robinbhandari1401Making gf not tat easy

Child rearing: It's 60 years, minimum. Most Indians - South Asians - are African. In African culture, it's 60 years, minimum. It's only 20 years (or even less) in non-African cultures. Especially in European - and most especially Northern European - cultures, they do 20 years or less.

True

I 31 still single,, I proudly say iam Virgin 😊 but, todays generation didn't wait atleast age of 20 they want to be mingle hahahaha out of 100'/, only 10'/, virgins in the whole world,, U people want to go for married U find only used persons and second hand persons like Used Cars.. Funny thing,, Now a days only used cars have full demand other than brand new cars, that's why people also like same loll 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Hence, for this reason our elders were getting married at the age of 21-23. So will get these yes/no thoughts on marriage from age 28 and at peak 33

@LeviOver

Жыл бұрын

I don't think so... I personally know people who fall under 20-23 and seriously considering not getting married. and their parents say, wait some more time, you thoughts will change. (well see about that) I think it just depends on the person.

@cosmos8560

Жыл бұрын

Yes or no from 28 to 33 is accurate

@praful608

Жыл бұрын

@@LeviOver yeah this generation parents says that but before 40 years it was not

Not getting married is very easy and getting married requires lifelong commitment. Blessed are those who got married and not everyone is fortunate to get married.

Agreed

I’m highly glad marriage is not important because if I invest my attention in manifesting that outcome then there is a higher chance the female will constantly expecting me to satisfy her by acting like a grown matured and a superhero man which is never ever going to manifest at all except for romantic relationship!

@roshinitoenlightenment

9 ай бұрын

U are irresponsible

If your father not get married than you not talking now like this 😂

@SomeshSingh.

Жыл бұрын

What about overpopulation???

@roger4729

Жыл бұрын

It's his father's problem 😂 if that's the case toh tum hilana bi choddo 🤣

@vishalpawar7368

10 ай бұрын

He didn't asked his father to get married !

@roshinitoenlightenment

9 ай бұрын

​@@SomeshSingh.country will have new tech agriculture

@Nareshb_97

9 ай бұрын

​@@roshinitoenlightenment😂😂😂

I want to marry a body pillow.

also getting married having children needn't be tied up. they can be looked at seperately.

You are successed in your life you get marry If you did not get success Then dont marry Successful people have money Unsuccessful people are poor If you are poor so dont go this harsh situation

Only Billionaire should have kids

🔥🔥🔥🔥❣️

Yes i will never ever married

My parents made my life hell by making me to marry and ask me to give birth to 2 kids

@Gauravbedii

Жыл бұрын

kyu ki aap gareeb ho or maa baap k paise se jee rhe ho nhi tho aap ki aukat nhi hai

@mohdfarzankhan991

4 ай бұрын

khud us nark nein jaa chuke hote baccho ki nark dhakelte hai

🎉🎉🎉oh ji ❤tq Ñamaste 👑

❤❤

Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Sadhaguru from the bottom of my heart...

❤

I don't want this project, not gonna marry.

Who gona tell this, to Indian parents even they are not accepting and then saying its urge of society, the society made by them 🤔 🙄 😑 😐 😒 then if it will not work, they will blame you for not obeying, specially to girls after 25 yrs they think she will be now 80 yrs old lady nd no one gona pick her

i will most likely adopt a child when i grow up since its free money when i grow up well I have to invest in them as well 💀

Ye budda pheli baar kuch sahi bola Atheist here but i agree

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

You were also married? Having a daughter?

But my parents are planning to get me married 😭

Wow

I will drop my project 😂

@positivity798

Жыл бұрын

then why u wanna marry someone else 😡😡

@vikaspatil7137

Жыл бұрын

@@positivity798 getting married doesn’t mean you need kids

@positivity798

Жыл бұрын

@@vikaspatil7137 people with mentality like you only spoil the life of women 😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬

@motivate2568

Жыл бұрын

Then what about tapa tap tapa tap 🥺🥺

@rohithffg4734

Жыл бұрын

​@@motivate2568 bro y r u asking abt tapa tap to everyone 😢😢😂😅

How many couples really like their situation. And how many truly wanted the kids. Or is just a show each one clinging onto another, faking their happiness.

Its not a20 year project it's a Lifetime project loll 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

I want to become sanyasi

No marry

See. This doesn't apply to parents/family only. My ex girlfriend comes back to me crying, says that she still wants to be with me. After 3 months, she informs me that she has finally moved on from me and is now ready for a new boyfriend/relationship. Lesson I m trying to teach here is: Anyone can turn on u at any time. (Also- It's my girlfriend's nature to be miserable. She ll stay miserable for the rest of her life. She's materialistic, narcissistic and did I say miserable? Yeah! U got the point)

👌

Death fear

If u r parents would think like u, u would Not be here now Mr SADguru !

@suoerpower8411

Ай бұрын

Not everybody in this world come to do reproduction only India already have high population if USA china Germany japan think same as you they drop down to level of india

@vincentcaris9651

18 күн бұрын

U idiots now a days r like that think practical whats going on around dont think u smart . to tell sadguru ji

Phir Bhagwaan siv ram krisna bramha ji bahot galat kiye jo unhone duniya banaiye aur marriage kiya. Marriage karke bhi duniya chalaiye ach he se bcz sikhaya Ardhanareswar roop jo pati patni ek hai. Ak dusre ko purna karte hai. A sadhu ji bhagwaan k nam karte aur unke srishti jo chalte hai vivah pavitra hai

Hey Mr sadguru why you are marriade ??