Don't Do This To Your Friends...
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what's up guys I am a reseller! out in jacksonville Florida . I resell shoes, toys , vhs , vintage clothes, sports jerseys, video games and all sorts of stuff that I can buy cheap and sell for a profit . I vlog about it and teach you guys thing that you can look out for as well. my main source is flea markets , pawn shops , thrift stores, yard sales , estate sale , garage sales , ect. most of my journeys take place at the Ramona flea market here in my area
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Go on your own, and if he ask you why? tell him the truth how you feel, if he's a true friend he will acknowledge it, if he's not no big lost
Ya...he is a bit selfish. He wasn't very courteous when digging through the shoes. He was slinging them all over with no regard for the sellers things on the tables. Jeesh... you're a very good guy and that was very disrespectful of him to do you like that. Friends help each other out, not become your unfriendly competition. You deserved better than that. Anyways...keep up doing what you're doing. Friends don't treat you like that. Much respect. -Amy
that guy is NOT your friend, I've been watching for a long time and he knew he was wrong taking those shoes but did it anyway and was smiling all the way through. He's been like this in other videos too. Sometimes it's best to go sourcing alone.
You handled it perfectly. Your “friend” is just fake.. if he saw you as a friend and respected you he would’ve let you keep what YOU found instead of taking it from your hands.. Doesn’t matter if he didn’t find anything.. that just means it was not his day. Not cool he stole your deal. If he was a real friend he would’ve been happy for your success instead of tryna steal it.
He is not your friend!! Stop using that word lightly. I watched him for along time and he is not your friend.
@ThriftedThreadsOutfitters
Жыл бұрын
Well said
@_yellowflips
Жыл бұрын
Say it again
@rags_to_resell
Жыл бұрын
Dude I completely agree since day one he’s been annoying tbh always tryna steal his deals
@gregkareem9824
Жыл бұрын
W
@gregkareem9824
Жыл бұрын
He's taking advantage of him
I feel for homie I’ve def been in his shoes before going to flea with my homies but never take what other found first. Unless they let me get
I just started watching your vids 3 days ago and not gonna lie ... I peeped that he seemed a little bit like he would try to snatch something out from under you. I hope that homie doesn't take it the wrong way and he can make some adjustments to his manners, cause he seems like a chill dude! It don't have to be that serious bro
You handled that way better than most. Dude literally snaked them right out your hand. Learn from it and keep going 👍🏻
Why is he even with you. He is not your friend. Back stab is correct like you said. Stay away from that guy. He is jealous of you. Really enjoy your videos. Keep it going.
I used to have “friends” that would follow me around the swap meet too once they found out I was more knowledgeable at reselling. Gotta cut them out sometimes. That was a shady move taking the shoe out of your hand then saying these are mine
@BenjiOnThaMic
Жыл бұрын
Right. When im goin pickin i go alone
Sometimes the solder must march alone. Greed will crush a friendship/partnership. At the end of the day it’s not even worth it. Killem with kindness & Keep grindin.
This is why you have to do your hustle by yourself.
I’m already teaching my son when people say “let me see your (insert anything you own)” always say no. Dude say “let me see those” and stole em from you. We all know “let me see that” means they’re about to steal it from you haha
He can still be a friend everyone has flaws, it's not nice what he did with the sneakers but it's not worth loosing the friendship over. At least you know his limits and you can set boundaries and resolve your disagreements in private.
@twitmeat3730
Жыл бұрын
that's not a friend bro, if you think that's a real friend and you have people like that close, get rid of 'em
I feel you man, i would’ve done the same thing I said my peace & fell back off the “friend” but at the end of the day im way nicer than I should be, we all would’ve supported yiu snatching it back.
Lose this guy, he's holding you back, you're better off on your own!
I have a competitor/ friend that will always give up his finds if they're for my personal and I do the same. Those people keep you in mind when you're not around.
Honestly you good, it don’t matter if you found good stuff because you found them first. You ain’t wrong in this situation, just don’t take any resellers with you. He is actually wrong for taking the shoes away from you, anyways great video.
I been peeped that and for this reason is why I THRIFT ALONE!! I don't like going with NO ONE! I hope the ps worked because I would've left that one too. I hate it when the flea market people tell you what it's worth and blah blah... dude you got the ps3 co sole ps2 charger and a ps2 slim box...🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I would've hard passed. One thing about reselling is its like grass but know that theirs a snake 🐍 in that grass! I've been wanting to comment about him 8 video's ago🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Your boy did me dirty like that too at the romana flea market on a vintage bike sweater lol!! Slimey
"let me see those"...Then just stole them smh
First come first serve 💯 that was bull
Ayo! First time here on your channel that ain't yo friend bro don't let ppl exploit you for their own volition can't be too nice to everyone is what I'm trying to say because I've seen ppl get taken advantage of too many times watch it for the real true friends and fake friends I subbed !
Dude is NOT your friend! He’s a competitor whom I would NEVER pick with or TRUST!
Homie isn’t a friend but randy that goes to flea bro. Just friendly competition. Mans probably got some fake ones too 😂
2023 and I’m still vibing🎥📺🎥🍿
He learned or is Learning from You & Aspires to Be Iike You & It can Only Be Done From A Distance going Foward. No more Hunting together.# Never Again
I was PISS, YOU ARE A SWEET YOUNG MAN. Just keep being yourself.
@fiyabenda
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
Friends and business don't mix, I wouldn't hang with ol'boy while doing business, then you'll stay friends.
its always tricky when hunting/picking in groups. My advice is to come up with a plan in advance of who walks up to the tables first, if someone passes over something because they didn't want to look at it in detail, open the box (the PS3 backwards comp), then they had passed on that item when they moved on. If one of you gets a couple big hits, then you throw the other the next big bone...as long as the next time they do the same thing.. personally, I like picking alone or with my spouse/kids. then we all have the same objective, feed the family. and I can have all the goods....
It's ok to share there's always more to be found, fighting over stuff with friends, just don't do it...or better yet go hunting by yourself and then no need to share
You win some, you lose some. But you live, you live to fight another day.
bro so broke he snaked his ass
Pick by yourself avoid headaches
He said yeezys over our friendship 😂
That is why I don't go picking with my competition! A real friend would have helped you find the match and be happy for you.
Nah this why you hit the flees alone lmao
Sh*t was definitely o.d. Crazy . Couldn’t have been me 😭😭 courtesy of 90sbabyheat lol
I go out with friends all the time to buy things. We all in agreement that the first person to see it and call it out in the box should have it. Sometimes we might get a bit jealous because one of us got better deals that day. Though we always help each other out by talking the seller into a deal for the other person. Sometimes if one of us really wanted the item we will trade for something later or just agree to buy it at the other person purchase price. To me it seem like it was a bit of a bad day and he just wanted to walk away with one good item for himself.
This is not the first time this has happened with this friend. This is not someone you should shop with. That is it. This is your job and money for your family!
That’s why you never thrift with someone else 🤣💀 not gonna lie doe bro I feel like you always come up with good finds and he always seems to never get anything… Good videos doe bro keep it up 🔥
I guess it depends if he wanted to keep and wear them or resell, and if you wanted to keep and wear. I wouldn't mind letting a friend pick something up instead of me if they were gonna actually use it and I was gonna sell it. I usually pickup vintage GI Joe when I find it cheap for a friend that collects
@Errthangs
Жыл бұрын
The friend should have let him decide if he wanted to give them to him or not it doesn’t matter if he wanted to wear them or resell them. That’s shady and I would’ve been very upset.
Dude, finders keepers.
I started following your channel and after watching a few of your videos that he was in. He gives off a real hater vibe. That guy is NOT your Friend! Love your content tho. I just wish the pickings here in Northern California were so plentiful!
Lol bro trust no one. True colors always show. Be easy but be careful. ✌️
Your friend is greedy,you first find that shoes.
You don't need a friend like that bro. Let him fly! he is a flake!
If hes a good friend then forgive just be very careful when buying around him. He did you dirty and you were so cool about the whole thing.
I would have walked away after my purchase so he could have the shoes lol lol
You should have let him have them and pick up all the Jordans that were there. The seller clearly split the shoe process. He gave your friend the grey container and the seller directly told you to look in the bag. You find the Yeeze first. Then he decided to stand over both the bag and container. He is not a good friend. Even the white and grey Air force ones he is taking out your hand after you find it. Not nice.
I dc what I found previously.. I’m always looking for more come ups
Yeah that's some funky shit. We all get salty sometimes when somone snags somthing in front of us but you can't be doing that shit. I don't have flea markets anywhere near me and garage sales are only for a super short time threw out the summer beacuse of weather around here. So almost all my sourcing is thrifts and I've had people try to take shit out of my cart a million times I've grabbed somthing off the shelf and had someone try to rip it out of my hand. Right as im taking it off the shelf I've had people lean infront of me and basically shoulder check me to grab somthin ona shelf in front of me. There was one time there was a small thrift that had just gotten donated like 50-75k in stuff from a guy with a shopping addiction who was in therapy and they told him to get rid of all his stuff he was hoarding. So this little thrifts bringing a shit ton of sealed expensive DVD Blue Ray box sets out and im swiping them up this guy gets mad and threw a DVD at me and said "Ok, fuck you just take them all then" the DVD he threw at me was a $40 DVD. Also at goodwill I had a PS3 guitar hero dongle and a guy was pacing around my cart and I could see him I was keepin a eye on him while grabbing a bunch of shit that just came out and he grabbed the dongle sprinted across the entire store ran up the cash register paid for it as fast as he could and by time I got up there he was just speed walking away from the register and out the door. What can you do other than remeber those times and help those experiences keep me on my toes and especially keep me on gaurd around those people next time if you run into them
@kramerjim9342
Жыл бұрын
Too long to read
yo been watching for a bit and honestly bro I'm the type that say we came together to eat together. I woulda just been like you want em? take em. but on the flip side the way he got them in the first place was helly sneaky and snakey. he said "oh snap let me see..." and then never gave them back. that's not cool at all. I'm not saying you're wrong for doing what you did, just saying if it were me I woulda just slid them to my mans because we all here to eat. I am saying he wrong for how he got them though. anyways peace and love... hope y'all able to hash it out and grow from it!
That’s why I source alone
Ooo I wasn't even there & that irked me lol... This is why I source solo. You did nothing wrong. He was in the wrong for snatching it out of your hand. If he did it once, he'll do it again.
Make that guy KZread famous
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The biggest thing is how entitled he was acting. Like he deserved it no matter what. Never offered to hook you up next time he finds something. Just crazy selfish tunnel vision on his part. He's gotta get right because he's gonna lose out on a lot more than just a pair of Yeezys acting like that.
I had a bad feeling about these dude for a while.
This why I go NEVER go with other re-sellers/game collectors
Maybe Tom was right about him
Yeah. I’m with you on this one. That was just weird
always stand for yourself don't receive no disrespect from others like that, getting the shoes off your hand and claiming that it was their's in the first place you found em. throw hands if you need to that guy needs to be smacked to reality that personality ain't going nowhere nor it's going to bring good fortune to those around him. -Philippine Thrifter
yeah bro, when I go with my buddies in the morning, like flashlight time and shit, I split up. Competition is already annoying as hell so Id do my own thing if I were you
If im in that situation, i wouldve paid for the Js and left him there, what a trash friend. It doesnt matter if you have billions and he have non, if you get it first, its yours. Leave toxic friends, youre fine alone bruh
Pick by yourself from now on.
Can’t stand guys like that 🎉you definitely handled it good 👍🏻
You found them your shoes period maybe do the market by yourself sometimes its best. Ps3 was a score btw I’ve been sniping those 4ports out too!
That PlayStation I would of left it right there, live and learn
Grind the flea market your self
Bro really thirsty for this shoes😢😮
This why i go to flea markets by my self now.. Id stop goin with homie especially if he dont bless you with good stuff.
Kinda sketchy but I guess it depends on how good of a friend he is. Another reseller on here took his wife and a friend to an estate sale so they could help him get stuff. Afterwards his friend decided he wanted in on the action to and they should split it two ways, not 3 ways, which is still a shat move when he was just going as a friend to help.
@OhmegadJT
Жыл бұрын
Which video was that?
I feel like you where on the wrong cuz your friend ask the seller to bring the shoes out and he was going to look thru them cuz if you where a good friend you shouldn’t trip about the other guy getting the Yeezys cuz at the end of the day you still found stuff to resell and your friend didn’t until he saw the Yeezys you gotta give back my man that’s just the way it is
The issue with your ((Friend)) depends on how good of a friend you are with him. For I go flea market hunting with real good friends and I hunt at the market with people who I only know from the market. With my real friends I'll let them slide in front for the score if I don't really need it. And sometime I'll do that with my ((market buddies)) a few months ago I came across a seller I've built a relationship with. And he had a brand new Mariokart switch still in box and offered it to me for $100. I have several switches so I let the other guy have it. Also by helping market buddies find/get deals. If they're good people they will look out for deals for you.
Free Labor, the shoe was in the truck! I bet!
He strong armed them....
Finally the thumbnail change
Question somewhat related, what would be the protocol if someone found the right shoe and another person found the other matching left shoe?
@fiyabenda
Жыл бұрын
Honestly for me if he found the left shoe and I ran into the right shoe later I just would’ve gave it to him lol. I’ve been in those kinds situations before
Dig alone. Never no friends in this business. A snakes always waiting in the grass.
That was kinda hard to watch. He definitely took them from you and you have every right to be mad. He was mad that he had the chance at the PS3 and decided not to go for it. Either way he took shoes right out of your hand. I’ve gone with reseller friends before and you get jealous of their finds but you don’t just snatch their stuff lmao.
If it’s really that big of a deal a better idea than sitting there arguing wasting time you go picking by yourself so you don’t have to be pressured like that and have someone digging right next to you
it’s a new year, it 2023. Gotta cut the grass
You handled that well because that was a trash move on your boy! That would be the last time he went with me!
I remember commenting cuddy was a snake . Lurking on yo come ups.
@writnnopinion3645
Жыл бұрын
Ayyyy there I am at the end. Bruh bruh exposed himself over a 180$ sale take it as a win .
That would be the very last time that I would be caught near that dude. This isn’t the first time he’s done some selfish stuff. Honestly, he’s beyond lame for that. No person in their right mind would side with him.
@tittfestx3
Жыл бұрын
u tripping bro im siding with him and im in my right mind. this didn't even have to be that big of a deal fiya making it bigger than it is which is wack as fuck tbh
I know a person like that. She’s very selfish and when ever I find something good and she have one shoe and I have the other she feels that I’m supposed to give her mine’s. (NOT). She says that you always find nice things, hey what can I say. That’s why I like to go by myself to the outlet.
snakes in the grass
@WERK777
5 ай бұрын
you handled it well but I wouldn't go with him no more. drop the fakes out your life bro
I bet he wants to start a KZread Channel also... # Never Again
It’s greed bruh. You say cut the grass. Sometimes cut ties too.
Dont sorround yourself with those kind of people bro. Better off alone,..
He feels frustrated at your success point bank period
This why I prefer to not go with other resellers, a friend compared to a reseller friend is different forsure 😂
Bro it's all good it's not like you didn't get anything it's ok for him to get the Yeezys you got the Jordans
fucked up if hes reselling, moments like this happen but the fact that you persisted that long and he didn't realise/care is a sign he just doesn't give a shit tbh. not someone fun to thrift with in my mind
Fake ass friend, ride solo bro love you videos!
Nah breh... you found them... How is he going to snatch it up from you like that lol
Ya bro don’t pick with that kid ever again it’s seriously a bad business decesion to do so!
called it from the start... smh🤦🏽♂️
Just walk away bro go pick somewhere else instead of fighting you could of been finding tons of stuff somewhere else