There is no single formula darlings. Whatever doesn't work for you may work for another couple. Thanks for the entertainment Adeaze and Nelo❤

@happinesswatts

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you. It all depends from the two people what their chemistry is. If u aren't that close also it doesn't Mean you are not inlove. You still make it work. Believe.

@happinesschukwudi247

Жыл бұрын

God bless you 😂❤

@adwoaa7419

11 ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯

People are different. We have totally different jobs but I am clingy by nature and it’s not due to lack of trust or self worth or anything it’s just my nature. I found my person and we are so alike which I appreciate. We have fun even when we ain’t doing anything in particular. I don’t want separate lives and I am happy I found someone who sees life the way I do. All this to say do what works for you. I truly can’t imagine myself without my husband and we miss each other all the time despite the closeness. And yes, it’s been 10 years 😊.

@IamJayneAdams

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@JJKayBen

10 ай бұрын

Clinginess is not healthy.

I love my hubby so much and we are so fond of each other and it works perfectly well for me. It has absolutely nothing to do with trust, we are based in Japan 🇯🇵 and the life here is so lonely, clinging unto ur family, is the best way thru it all. What works for you can’t work for others.

My baby is my bestie and I intend to keep it that way. If we don’t eat together the food no go sweet, if we don’t watch a movie together I’ll sleep off after 5 minutes, I see nothing wrong in any of what you guys were talking about. Ada and Nelo, What then do you do together as husband and wife if you don’t enjoy each others company?

@Graciousl

Жыл бұрын

Don’t mind them. Adaeze is just there agreeing with everything Nelo is saying like a follow-follow..smh! I pity singles who listen to this channel

@brendadickson9583

11 ай бұрын

​@@GraciouslAs a single woman getting married soon I don't see anything wrong with their advice, I wouldn't want to be always being with my husband too I believe in us being apart sometimes.

All I see is Adaeze’s natural beauty and I just got inspired by her hairstyle which will be my next hairstyle 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 Nelo’s makeup on the other hand was just calling my name. How can one be soooo good with makeup like this🤔 Abeg we need a makeup tutorial and products list.

This is so so so important!!!! Looking at the life’s of the older women in my life one thing I have learnt is that attaching your joy and happiness to husband and children is a recipe for disaster.

Perfect video. Exactly how I like my marriage. I’m not the clingy type and don’t cling on to me too. I have my friends I roll with. See finish dey spoil things abeg. Respecting individual spaces is 100% lit👌🏽Weldone girls👏🏽

20 years in and I get you guys 100%. Our marriage is solid because we are two very separate entities that have common interests. We coexists perfectly because we don’t have to the need to leech on each other, there’s me time, his time and our time, we don have to be a couple all day. Abeggiii we are not a set of twin and we are not joined at the hips, I don’t want.

For me, this is true base on my experience with my mum and dad. They did everything together ( i mean everything) and me and my siblings watched that growing up. When my Dad died, hmm! My mum's life has never been the same( she is literally dead for 9yrs now) . I sometimes cry watching my once bubbly jovial mum slip away like that. I have learnt alot from that. I have been married for the past 7yrs with two kids and i am very happy with him but i don't want to build my life around my husband like that. Watching from Ghana... I love your channel❤

I dont like the fact that you put Patricia Bright and her husband on your video yet theyre still together

When it comes to this topic, there is no one size fit all. Some couple work together and they are fine with it. The Mighty McClure family are doing a good job of it. they are both youtubers including their kids, that is their main job. Not saying that they don't have clashes as a result of working together, but I think they are getting on well past it. So it just depends on the couple. And for not attaching yourself too much to your husband and having your own life, I agree with you ladies 101%

@happinesschukwudi247

Жыл бұрын

It’s dere opinion 😂❤ even rissa and quan and more KZread and Facebook couple too 😂❤❤

Funny enough how the reverse is the case with us military wives. When your husband is on posting and you don't see him until after 3-6months or a year and he only gets Abt 2weeks pass to spend with his family and return, Omo, in that two weeks, the whole world can stop o, I want to spend 24/7 with him. We go to the bathroom together, literally do everything together... That space is mostly not even enough to catch up.

I totally agree with your views. I need the missing, like not being in each other’s space always. Some women needs to understand that their entire life doesn’t revolve around their husbands.

It's your disclaimer at the end of every episode for me😊 . That is one unique thing about your show. Well done!

Loving the consistency ladies, boredom no dey finish me!

I love the energy you two are on. I love this video, so much truth in everything you said...

You guys are so funny! Nice one!! I definitely think that people should do what works for them. Some couples genuinely love being together all the time. I personally don’t like being with my partner 24/7. I like having my own time to do my own things and hanging out with my twin sister.

Nelo that make up is giving ❤❤

Great convo. I agree with adaeze men being the provider makes things easier but it’s hard in the Western world.

The two wise Ladies. Love you guys for always bringing it 💯💯💯

I did work with my husband, i was a teacher o , he talked me into the family business, girl it was a disaster! One of the worst decision of my life

I absolutely love you guys and I am highly inspired by you both. I agree with couples having individual lives separate from the marriage.

Everything you both have said here, I totally agree. I learned this from my parents and trust me it's the best way to plan a family. Marriage is really just two "whole" people coming together to become one.

"If you come for me I come for you"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it!

Individuality and personality. I think that’s sums your topic today. We have to look into the root of this ; how was one raised? What did you see your parents do with each other? How much influence did your parents have over your growth? How much as a child did you have to fight in order to create your individual self and/or person (regardless of whatever anyone else told you or taught you) we really have to go back to those beginnings… Now in adulthood, I will recommend seeking therapy and restoring your relationship with God in order to restore your person. Now as for marriage (I’m not) I observe that many of us (women especially) loose our individuality/personality when we subconsciously take our husbands as God… our loyalty is to GOD first which in return manifest in our bond with the spouse. As for men, they loose this individuality /personality when they worship women&men or things. Subconsciously dissociating themselves from their submission to God. Hence start seeing themselves as GOD (consciously or unconsciously) Great topic and thank you my aunties 😂😂❤️

I agree with you guys 1001%. Even in friendship, I don’t like being with you all the time. I loveeeeee the bloopers 😂😂😂 pls do more

I can not function properly if l am doing the same business with my husband or we are in the same office. Honestly, l will not be productive. Again, some men are insecure.

😂😂😂😂 I always enjoy watching the ending part of your videos. "Don't take our word for it"😂

My favorite online auntiessss!!!!!

Adaeze add that to your merch😂🤣“if you come for me, I’ll come for you!!!”

I live 450km away from my husband ..i hv learned to exist and be on my own until he comes i survive by doing things on my own.

Nelo’s makeup - yummmmm

I totally agree with you Both 100%, well done ❤

Jamie was neglecting his family and it was showing in videos… going to hang out with his friends while his wife prepared a birthday for him and stuff. He didn’t change his life after being married imo.

@paulinekamau9633

Жыл бұрын

Nikki forced him to be a present dad 😂

@sharoneyram5119

Жыл бұрын

I thought i was the only one who noticed that

I love this topic to the core ❤

Personally, I don’t support couples working together. But , if it works for you, then fine.

I am a master in this field. Dey your dey make I dey my dey .

I always love to watch d last part 😂u both re jst too funny🤣🤣🤣🤣space is very important, it makes u feel matured

They have dropped the bomb. Sums up my life 🙌🏾 Love is sweeter when you have your own space, can take care of yourself as well and there is a ME. Loving this discussion 💚

Hi Ada, and Nelo💚💚💚💚💚💚

It funny how these 2 women just post other people's pictures who are married to make it seem like something is wrong. SMHHHHH

With these two people, I've learnt to catch my sub and leave others own for them. In other words, I always pick what relates to me and leave the rest. ❤❤❤

what annoys me is those couple even when you want to be going out with and they ask if their hubby can come along like whyyyy, if your hubby comes how can we gist i beggggg let him stay home🤣😆😂

The end for me…it’s just God’s grace😂😂😂😂😂

See this thing you said about attaching happiness to anyone at all ehn it's a toxic trait on its own and I'm guilty

Not me coming back to watch the old videos😅 I miss you both

Just because you work together with your spouse does not mean that you have lost your independence. I have seen couples who run the same business and are great working together but still have some individualism. So what works for you may not work for another….couples should learn to do what works for them and focus on your marriage. Some couples would happily do the craziest things and it works for them but for some others, it’s a total disaster.

@julietspeace8186

Жыл бұрын

Me I cnt I find it suffocating , I love him but no way I like to do my own things 😂😂

I even beg hubby to do videos with me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 he can never be an influencer I can’t even deal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

There is no Manuel to marriage tho. People should do what works for them. And everyone should CARE more about the quality of their marriage.😊

His money is ours mine i pay only when change is left. So happy i married in late 80ties

It is the ideas you bring into reality.

These two gorgeous women 😂😂

I love me time and my hubby loves his time, then we love our time. Doesnt get better than that. I really enjoyed this though 😁😁.

I'm not married. But this is a great advise worth pursuing ❤

Don’t pause it. Omg!!! Why can I relate so much 😀🤣🤣

20:50 this part sha cracked me up... Thanks for the gist our online aunties

I want my space all the time I think it’s normal. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I function well when he travels for work sometimes…

FOR THE FIRST TIME I DISAGREE,, I REALLY DIDNT SEE THIS DAY COMING.

When I see a movie with my husband , I’m always the one explaining 😭😭🤣🤣🤣 like sir why are you asking me all these questions, are you not watching it too?

oooomg my fav online aunties in da building, yes your niece Deborah im present Ma,,,yesssooo i cant work on the same field with my hubby (Rotimi my love) nooooo(he don't even want to work with me😂🤣, also we don't like the same things like really mann this human life eehh🤣😂🤣 another thing my husband is my HUSBAND not my bestie,,nooo its krazy how some people wont accept that.

Guys the real message is at the end🤣🤣🤣

Beautiful. Please, can you have a session where you talk about battling vaginismus as a young lady😩😩😩

😂😂😂😂😂the closing ooo!!! From 20:48 on constant reply please.

The ending 😂😂

The intro 🤣🤣🤣😂

It’s the last part for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Adaeze you too get mount 😂😂

Ada said if we come for her she will come for us😂😂😂😂n That Thank you 😂I love you ladies so much n totally agree I can't see myself being always be with my spouse, I don't even want to be the same like my husband.

This is why Aisha and odogwu fights alot 😂😂 una too get sense jare

No formula my sweet tiets. Just depends from the couple. If you marry a man that you thought is on same page with you. Then its not case for others. I cant afford tobe without my other half close. Its my confidante . Maybe just differnt for you. And we goin for 22yrs. Its most beautiful if its your soul mate thru think and thin

Nelo you’re my spirit animal. We need space abeg.

Some of ur opinions i can relate

Hahahha Nelo and Ada, let me share this with you. I’m a UIUX Designer and my husband is a Product Manager. We both are tech people. A I have a company that teach people Product Design and my husband have a company that teach Product Management. It works for us! We work remotely, we see each other, we speak the same language as per the type of Job we do. It works for us! Just listening you, I can see you both have no idea of what you are saying🤣🤣🤣🤣 (in nelo voice)

@gloryasworld...7144

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I didn't see the last line coming! 😂

@jessy_jed

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

I don’t want to be with someone that we like the same thing or have the same personality. But whatever works for couples, different people different strokes.

These two are the ultimate friends goals Ah God when?

From listening from people who have been marrying far longer than both of you. I would say, to each its own, we are all individual and what work for some would not work for others. It's not a question of normal or abnormal

Live and let live in summary. I always say, distance makes the heart fonder!!

If you come for me I come for you That got me😂

Is the ending for me 😅 points noted

I always love how they end their videos 😂😂😂

One thing that couples who work together must do is to know that the other person is not the enemy. It is not easy to accept. My husband and i work in the same industry and run our business together. He had a part time job and i did side gigs. Once any money comes in, we talk about it and plan for the family. I'd push and give up 😂 sometimes. He's the pusher. The bad thing is at times, we have no family time because we work together and prioritise work even at night with pressing deadlines. We now work in the same field but different companies 😂😂 My husband is a media man who vlogs and has been pushing me to start a vlog channel since because i was learning videography in a photo studio at some time. He always knows the angles and right way i should do things 😂😂 I'm basically my hubs best and closest friend unlike me that has many best friends. I love my space and take time out when i feel suffocated.

The thumbnail to this video comes across a bit shady. It's so easy to assume that you have personal beef with them even though the actual video is sensible. Please try to work on the overall tone of the message especially when it comes to these thumbnails.❤ Love the points made!

Aunty Nelo and Adaeze you look beautiful

Thanks for sharing

😂😂😂😂 the ending 😂😂

What of those couples channels and they are doing well,I can relate to your points

Wether I like it or not eh, after 19years in marriage, my dears eh, I agree with you people😂😂😂seriously may we have something to do that keeps us busy we will definitely understand what is being said here😂😂. Let each other breeeethe!!!

Haaaa I feel OT love train are doing well. I feel you just have to find your person and yes you don't have to like the same things.

Taking your last advice, going to buy glue to gum gum with my husband. T for Thanks 😃

I agree with you😊

Greetings aunties❤

😂😂 the end part

Lool cheers Ladies , 🥂

Love both of you friendship I love the talk I am grandma yes you guys are right, keep up the good job and the love well done

When you're going to buff...when you are going to shit...follow him 😅😂 Yall are too funny tho😂

If you spend 24/7 together what do they talk about? If you’re experiencing the same thing there’s no conversations. xx

You people should co sleep 😂😂😂, Ada and nelo let me see how you can make heaven like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I always say that I want to be someone with of different as me. I’m outgoing , I need someone who is calm.

Okay what’s that ending??🤣🤣

You see those 2 mic’s y’all have on? Please “off them” cos y’all are preaching and speaking my language lol I love you guys too too much ❤