do you like being alone?

Whether it is hanging out at home, traveling the globe, or something in between, in this third episode, we discuss our feelings around being on our own. Some of us love it, some of us loathe it...you'll have to listen to find out where we all sit on the spectrum 😉❤️
🎙️ Welcome to Milliseconds Apart, a podcast where three friends, separated by thousands of miles in real life but just milliseconds apart over the internet, chat about life, meaning, human connection, and everything else in between.
☘️ The Trio
🐼 Matt: / mattagustin
🐥 Izzy: / izzysealey
🐈‍⬛ Ruri: / ruriohama
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  • @yogi9631
    @yogi96318 ай бұрын

    Izzy Izzy your vibrancy and your smile just kills me.

  • @ruo3976
    @ruo39762 жыл бұрын

    i love this channel so much!!!!!

  • @revup4183
    @revup4183 Жыл бұрын

    I enjoy your podcasts sooo much. You three are sharing openings genuinely. Every episode is rich with meaningful facts, fun, warm friendliness and high quality of listening to each other. Sooo lovely…😍💐💯👌 Three of you are super cool. Such a wonderful friendship. First I started watching Izzy’s videos. Her videos are super great. A lot to learn about physically and mentally healthy living. I find this channel too is wonderful. It’s really nice to know Ruri also has a KZread channel. I will watch it soon. For me, Ruri’s way of thinking goes beyond commonly constructed cultural settings. It is really interesting. I noticed it distinctively in in the episode on “marriage “. Matt is very friendly and so much brotherly. A super nice personality. I’m a Buddhist monk, and first year PhD student at the University of Hong Kong. With best regards. 💐💐💐 💐💐💐

  • @ipekmd1281
    @ipekmd12812 жыл бұрын

    Really enjoyed this!! İt’s my first time watching a video on your channel and I know I’ll be here for more

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sending virtual hugs-Ruri

  • @jonysmailova2537
    @jonysmailova25372 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed your video guys !

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much love much love, Jony ❤️ -Matt

  • @andortamas395
    @andortamas3952 жыл бұрын

    I am extremely introverted not in an introverted group like you said, it's completely different, if I'm in a place where are a lot of introvert. I'm trying to change it because I often find myself being to much alone and I don't like it that much. I didn't travelled alone but I think I could do that, but I definitely would love to travel with someone because lately I hate being alone. I really enjoy your podcast, 😄 I love your vibes. ❤️

  • @spunkuro-wee1478
    @spunkuro-wee1478 Жыл бұрын

    Hey! Ho! Really enjoying this podcast ! Luv luv

  • @ngawangtsering9730
    @ngawangtsering97302 жыл бұрын

    You three are absolutely fine and hard work on career and dreamers!!! We truly appreciate and proud of you all !!! Good luck for three you !!! With lot's of blessings and wishes 🙏

  • @edtaskin4117
    @edtaskin41172 жыл бұрын

    This podcast makes me feel I’m miliseconds apart from you as well! Really enjoying your nuanced takes on the topics and of course your lovely friendship!

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    💕-Ruri

  • @iluk9038
    @iluk9038 Жыл бұрын

    I am an ambivert person like both Ruri and Izzy. However, I feel comfortable when I was alone because it gives me more freedom and no need to ask other people whether they are okay or not. I travelled neither with my friends nor by myself much so it is hard to choose which one is a better option for me. I also enjoyed travelling with my family because of having fewer responsibilities during the trip. If you asked me which type of travelling is better, it is a tough question to decide but I might go with the being together with my friends who I really have fun with and like to spend time together with them. I don't want to discover places alone and plan everything from the scratch. I would like to be in the group and choose the majority of people's decisions which can make sense. By the way, it was a good conversation that you did it. It is nice to hear different personas' in the travelling journeys. I am looking forward to listening to new recordings. Bye.

  • @gabrielnishi3060
    @gabrielnishi30602 жыл бұрын

    I love this chanell it´s helping me alot in my ^learning english journey^ thanks.

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being with us, Gabriel ❤️ -Matt

  • @Natedawg713
    @Natedawg7132 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️ -Matt

  • @sammigismar5864
    @sammigismar58642 жыл бұрын

    I like both, either being alone or surrounding by people as long as i have money

  • @equipo1557
    @equipo15572 жыл бұрын

    topics about everyday life are great , saludos desde Peru

  • @equipo1557
    @equipo15572 жыл бұрын

    love it

  • @rafadono
    @rafadono2 жыл бұрын

    Hi guys I'm enjoying your podcast a lot, keep doing it!. I consider myself as an introvert, but while working I think I talk a lot more and express myself more efficiently. During the pandemic I've barely seen my friends (in person) and I talk less to them on social media, I'm think I'm becoming more lonely than before hahaha. Greetings from Chile.

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much love, Rafael - we’re glad that you are here ❤️ Hopefully you can get some video calls or things like that set up with friends to be a bit less lonely, my friend! -Matt

  • @khankhatai9480
    @khankhatai94802 жыл бұрын

    I want several videos with these guys. 💪

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stay tuned because many more are coming 🙃 -Matt

  • @einblutwolf5356
    @einblutwolf53562 жыл бұрын

    Really super topic. Firstly & foremost of all. Ruri gets the award for speediest sneeze mute! My ears thank You. Izzy, I thought the exact same thing... I was wondering if an impromptu Milliseconds Apart Dab was in the making & I was going to be left out! heh heh. Matt, when/if the Hype Train makes it way somewhere here in the states, drop through Indiana, I'll give You all tour of the "self proclaimed" Popcorn Capital of the World! Bring Your own spoon. (Actually, on 2nd thought scratch that, there are many more actual interesting places in Indiana). Be safe in all Your travels & much Love.

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’ll have to convince everyone to come here to the Midwest as most think it is a bunch of flyover states (though we know differently), but I’ll see what I can do! I definitely have eaten plenty of bags of popcorn in the bright red bags labeled “Popcorn Indiana” - it’s actually so so good 😋 Would love to hear your recommendations in case I want to take a little road trip to Indiana as my little sister goes to school in IN and it is a short drive from the St. Louis area ✊🏾 -Matt

  • @einblutwolf5356

    @einblutwolf5356

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MillisecondsApartSounds good, Clifty Falls State Park in the Madison, IN area in the south, central would be Nashville, IN (Brown County State Park) Actually saw halley's comet there in 1986 as a kid. 2O61 is a ways off for the next pass. Brown County though, referred to as "The Little Smokies". Farthest North would be the Michigan dunes. Well hey Matt, be safe out there and have a great rest of the week.

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you thank you for that - will check at least some of those out 😄

  • @Natedawg713
    @Natedawg7132 жыл бұрын

    I got a cousin Colorado I wanna visit but imah go alone lol so good thing y'all talking about traveling

  • @jumpship5378
    @jumpship53782 жыл бұрын

    You really do eat popcorn with a spoon,I don't know why or how I found your lovely podcast but fate is fate.holy shit youguys are the best..as someone who spends a lot of time alone,,much love and respect from a divorced father of 4 grown kids.take care and much love from NC

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh, that’s so nice to hear! Thanks so much for being with us on this journey and sending love to North Carolina ❤️ -Matt

  • @iepnguyen3150

    @iepnguyen3150

    8 ай бұрын

  • @ermondgabriel2234
    @ermondgabriel22342 жыл бұрын

    Hey that topic was fun ☺️ so surprised to know that Matt is also a Half Filipino just like me 😁 (Kumusta Kabayan ☺️) Now for my view of the topic: I was born in Japan but I grew up in the Philippines (I am an introvert / extrovert btw I switch between those when I am at work and I am alone) and as a child, I used to travel with my parents or other relatives most of the time. and during those days, can't help but envy people that travels alone.. I used to think that he / she is enjoying the travel and free to do anything he / she pleases with the pocket money. I'm jealous about those when I was a kid.. now when I got my first job when I was 24, I had to move to the UK to fill in for my brother.. when he left to go back to Japan, I thought oh boy this is going to be exciting.. I'm free I can do whatever I want cause he's not here.. I own the house now this is my Crib blah blah blah.. the first couple of years I was really having fun cause first of all I am alone, I wanted this for so long and I love UK so much that I feel like I am also British lol! but when but as time passes I realize that it was really sad.. just like what Ruri said, eating your food alone, going to bed alone, it was hard.. I realized that having money isn't gonna make you happy cause back in the day that's what I used to think.. I would get a job that would let me travel to different countries, live alone in a different country and spend most of my money on things that I like... I got all of that. I enjoy my job but when I get home every night I realize that no one is there to greet me and asked how my day was.. I was literally living with a cat.. took me 3 years to endure it.. what I did was i searched for countries that I can call home. So that if I'm there I know that I will enjoy my stay and I will be happy while working.. so aside from Japan Philippines and the UK I call Italy France and Monaco my home cause those are the countries that I really enjoy my stay when I'm there especially Monaco.. it really has a special place in my heart ☺️ and I love being there every year. All thanks to my job. Uh would you guys fancy a trip to Monaco this year? I would love to give you a tour.. (especially Ruri ❤️) the F1 grandprix is fun to watch from your hotel 😁 (Sorry for the long story anyway. Kudos to You guys especially to Matt. Mabuhay Kabayan keep up the good work 👍) Really enjoyed it 🙂

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Kumusta, Ermond! Thanks for being here 😄 Saan po kayong lumaki sa Pilipinas? I’m actually full Filipino kasi ipinanganak ang nanay ko sa Quezon City at galing sa Cavite City ang tatay ko 🤗 That said, I’ve only spent time in the Philippines on three trips since I grew up here in the States. Also, thanks for sharing your story with us here! I especially loved the part where you said “I realized that having money isn’t gonna make you happy” - 👏🏾 to realizing that. Appreciate the offer to go to Monaco - we’re planning out where we are wanting to visit together this year so we’ll keep it in mind 😎 Much love until next time, Kabayan ❤️ -Matt

  • @ermondgabriel2234

    @ermondgabriel2234

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MillisecondsApart oh that's nice... Actually my father side is from Canada naman. I have relatives from both Toronto and Canada

  • @ermondgabriel2234

    @ermondgabriel2234

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MillisecondsApart I grew up in Marikina btw

  • @Forwhomthebelltolls666
    @Forwhomthebelltolls6662 жыл бұрын

    Likeeeee for Brazil Brazil like this podcast

  • @sadkebab
    @sadkebab2 жыл бұрын

    You guys bring a lot of inputs for thought in these podcasts and its really cool, I could meditate for hours on some takes. I think that Matt's take on identity becoming a self fullfilling profecy its one of the biggest issues I see in our generation. Identity has become such a big fetish (following the Marxist definition of commodity fetish) either we talk about national identity, character/psychology, gender, astrology, whatever and it is leading people in really strange places mentally where it is really hard at this point to find someone who thinks and behaves in a non pre-defined pattern and its really hard to have genuine, cringless interactions for me ahahaha (but maybe I am the problem here, who knows).

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for being on this journey with us ❤️ -Matt

  • @anthony.e.b
    @anthony.e.bАй бұрын

    11:36 Ruri dabbing (timestamp for me)

  • @animilaawoo6690
    @animilaawoo66902 жыл бұрын

    What was the course called that you guys did together? Thankyou

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    It was called The Part-Time KZreadr Academy ❤ -Matt

  • @animilaawoo6690

    @animilaawoo6690

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much 😸😸 keep up the good work~

  • @sadkebab
    @sadkebab2 жыл бұрын

    I am an ambivert and I never had any problem either with being alone or in company. I love travelling alone because travelling gives me like a lot of new and fresh sensory inputs and, for some reasons, it helps me bring some order to the chaotic collection of thoughts that I have in my mind. But I also love travelling with others, because having someone to talk with about what I am experiencing (expecially for food, drinks and art) makes it so much memorable and enjoyable. And also generally I get more disinhibited and I push myself beyond my confort zone more easily than when I am alone. That's why often I tend to mix both things, like few years ago I did a 500/600 Km train trip where I visited 3 different places in 3 days where I met 3 different friends who lived there and I had both the time alone while moving from one place to another and the company time while being in those places. By the way if the Hype Trio™ will ever want to come to Verona in northern Italy in your future world travel series I could suggest you a lot of cool places... expecially for food and drinks ;)

  • @nomzshine
    @nomzshine Жыл бұрын

    🖤❤

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse77329 ай бұрын

    I don't need much long debate about that

  • @saltymonke3682
    @saltymonke36822 жыл бұрын

    Ruri sneezes like my cat 🐈 lol

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahahahahah we need a video of that 🤣 -Matt

  • @saltymonke3682

    @saltymonke3682

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MillisecondsApart Will do, but don't know when, lol

  • @viovio4256
    @viovio425610 ай бұрын

    I like being alone

  • @vanellopeschwetz76
    @vanellopeschwetz762 жыл бұрын

    hi guys, it's really enjoying to watch the three of you, but in your videos Matt's voice volume compared to the yours kinda low and sometimes I couldn't hear him and have to turn on subtitles. in next viodes can you make something about it?

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that was my fault for not speaking closer to the mic 😅 We will definitely correct that for future recordings and 🤞🏾 the volume isn’t so different in the episodes we have already recorded 🙈 Thanks for pointing it out and being with us here ❤️ -Matt

  • @eliza_grint
    @eliza_grint2 жыл бұрын

    Visit Belarus together guys, it is beyond beautiful and I would like to show around my city

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    We just may take you up on that offer, Elizaveta 😉 Thanks for being with us here ❤️ -Matt

  • @yogi9631
    @yogi96318 ай бұрын

    Runi Runi Runi your seductive eyes and your calmness and gentlemess also kills me ❤❤.

  • @RonaldDinopol-lk6ms
    @RonaldDinopol-lk6ms7 ай бұрын

    Not rode😂ruri right 👍

  • @Natedawg713
    @Natedawg7132 жыл бұрын

    izzy has the biggest ear pods lol

  • @Jbo2000
    @Jbo20002 жыл бұрын

    I know I'm an introvert because I can feel my battery run out. It drains me when I spend too much time with my peers. I just watched Matt's Jewish wedding special. It was so weird, they must all be introverts

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha there were so so many extroverts at that wedding 🤣❤️ -Matt

  • @ikramtanyafi4601
    @ikramtanyafi46012 жыл бұрын

    😘💞💞💞

  • @hayleyhayley3376
    @hayleyhayley33762 жыл бұрын

    I never see Rudi smiling 😳 hi from Brazil 🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    You don't watch my vlogs don't you?🥲-Ruri

  • @yogi9631

    @yogi9631

    8 ай бұрын

    I watch your videos ❤❤❤. Your seductive eyes and calmness n gentleness kills me..!! Back on the subject. No one really likes to be labeled as an extrovert n introvert by another. We as humans after get offended by labels from others that don’t really know us. Actually we humans don’t like to be judged or labeled at all. Anyways you are beautiful in every way 🥰🥰🥰🥰. It would be my pleasure to cook for your everyday just to see you. ❤❤❤ Labelling n sensory: As mentioned before, no one likes to be labeled this and that, however I do “sense” a tinge of sadness in your eyes on very rare occasions but I can’t really sense that in Izzy…. Ok enough of my rant. 🌷🌷🌷for you ❤❤

  • @yoda3030
    @yoda30302 жыл бұрын

    🥚

  • @RonaldDinopol-lk6ms
    @RonaldDinopol-lk6ms7 ай бұрын

    You know me ruri you shore that,?¿???😅

  • @user-rn2zi4vz7z
    @user-rn2zi4vz7z2 ай бұрын

    Why don't you guys not keep running your channel?

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse77329 ай бұрын

    I Know where mostly people are guilty and don't wanna leave their past life

  • @romliahmadabdulnadzir1607
    @romliahmadabdulnadzir16078 ай бұрын

    在这次调查中,向专家们提出的其他问题邀请了他们对未来十年将发生的有希望的事情以及可能出现的具体应用示例的看法。到 2030 年,人类与技术的共同进化将会是什么样子?此次调查的参与者预计变化率将落在从渐进到极具影响力的范围内。一般来说,他们预计人工智能将继续以提高工作场所和其他活动的效率为目标,并且他们表示人工智能可能会嵌入到大多数人类活动中。

  • @dy139
    @dy139 Жыл бұрын

    😂 the minute they started off the show this dude couldn’t help himself not devouring an oat meal or whatever he had in the bowl 😣

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    Жыл бұрын

    HAHAHAHAHA it was popcorn 🍿🥄🤤 -Matt

  • @RonaldDinopol-lk6ms
    @RonaldDinopol-lk6ms7 ай бұрын

    You know me,? that's my important to me,😔

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse77329 ай бұрын

    bye

  • @rafaelgomez956
    @rafaelgomez956 Жыл бұрын

    Naboba medaño lohoido uno erecoperado looode nhojio Pere elseñebro mimete latego irn Gracia adiós

  • @ho-ry5uf
    @ho-ry5uf2 жыл бұрын

    Idk why but Ruri seems to be by far the weakest point in the group. Maybe because her 'self-centered' / robotic personality is not as appealing. But the others are so cool and chill to listen to.

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    No no no - no weak points here! We are like the wheels of a tricycle where the whole thing doesn’t run without each of us bringing ourselves to the equation ❤️ -Matt

  • @sirahainana

    @sirahainana

    2 жыл бұрын

    Pretty people sometimes not good at jokes & being funny I think. 🤔

  • @iamtv6129

    @iamtv6129

    10 ай бұрын

    How rude is your comment

  • @manus_maharashtryacha123
    @manus_maharashtryacha1232 жыл бұрын

    Can you please give Hindi captions on your video so my friends also can understand. please Comment from Ruri's subscriber. Love from INDIA 🇮🇳🇮🇳 जय हिंद जय भारत। 🇮🇳

  • @jackchen8367
    @jackchen83672 жыл бұрын

    what's wrong with matt this time? his voice is too low.

  • @MillisecondsApart

    @MillisecondsApart

    2 жыл бұрын

    My bad on that one 😅 Too far away from the mic - should be better in future recording! Thanks for pointing it out ❤️ -Matt