I stop calling myself tender headed and started calling my mom heavy handed. I didn't know it was possible to get my hair done without pain until anyone besides my mom did it. My mom seems to believe that she knows everything about hair because she's black despite the fact that she tried to call me wrong when I said she should comb from the tips to roots. My hair line suffered

@jenbroccoli861

7 жыл бұрын

Cymba McReynolds I def feel you girl!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

@aishadiatta1162

7 жыл бұрын

Cymba McReynolds lmao I always say that about my mom

@stacycourtright7442

5 жыл бұрын

Mine is the opposite..my mom used to do my hair and I hated I would cry and cry...until...I went to the salon. SHE WAS EVEN WORSE! She had no mercy...she would almost pull your head off of your neck. So I said momma I’m sorry that lady was even worse than you! When I say I was bad, the pain was unbearable. So my momma doing my hair don’t seem to bad rn

@bihbby739

4 жыл бұрын

Exactlyyyy....now I always get anxiety whenever she says I'm going to get braids or anything else

@stephanienwachukwu6513

4 жыл бұрын

Michaela Mbuyi me too :(

Seriously, do you do these animations yourself? If so, wow! You're talented.

I remember when I used to hide the combs that how tender headed i was

@GreenBeauty

7 жыл бұрын

I still don't like combs. Not for me

@myristicina.

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@K7nnyy

4 жыл бұрын

My sister when she did my hair she couldn't find the combs in for real i didn't take them she would be like k.... give me it so I can do your hair me:I dont have it.her:give it back or else!😡😤 *damn😤*

@lindsay16

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate

@christianchappell4193

4 жыл бұрын

I have an afro I'm cutting it so I don't have to deal with pain anymore and nappy hair I'm not letting my hair get long anymore

wow. i used to get a sore scalp if i didn't wash my hair within one week... now my head is shaved and i dont have that problem anymore.. since i wash my hair every day!

Lil Sis is very tender headed, that is why I use my fingers only when styling her hair.

I have been "tender headed " all my life. This includes prior to being exposed to chemicals in the 7th grade. The only time I can have my hair parted or braided without feeling like someone is dragging me by my hair is if I do it myself. I guess I am just sensitive.

@soontobeachannel3636

6 жыл бұрын

Michelle Jessica same when I do my hair it never hurts

@AnonymousBlackGirl

6 жыл бұрын

Yes it feels like there are razor blades at my roots.

@elizabethlewis4908

4 жыл бұрын

I am naturally tender headed. My scalp is sensitive because when I was younger I always thought I had dandruff but I always knew something wasn’t right.....I had fungus and (scaling of the scalp) dermatitis. After I stopped using chemicals and went natural it feels better but I do my own hair because even though I don’t have the scalp issues no more my scalp is always tender, maybe because I used chemicals for years. Sometimes I wash my hair and deep condition it and the next day my scalp is so tender. I’m glad I seen this comment because I’m not alone being tender headed.

Stop working on Dry hair!!! I feel so bad I see mothers raking a comb or brush through their child's dry hair and they're screaming in agony. Of course that's going to hurt and also pull out hair!! Buy an empty spray bottle, available at any beauty supply. Put some purified water in it (tap water is usually "hard" and has chemicals) and if you want you can add a little hair conditioner and shake it up. Or you can just use water. (Black women, stop being afraid of water. Hair needs water and water should be the first ingredient in your hair products!! )If you properly moisturize and seal your hair, this process should not "dry out" the hair. Spray the hair first just a light mist to soften up the hair and then apply your hair products and Comb/brush the hair. For goodness sakes. And no you don't spray the hair until it's completely saturated and needs to be towel dried because obviously brushing wet hair isn't healthy either.

@vpredestin416

6 жыл бұрын

Ebony Rodrigaze I know this comment is a year ago. But black woman are not afraid of water majority of us use it in our hair so I gonna assume that if you were black you would understand

@tsuyuasui7297

6 жыл бұрын

Ebony Rodriguez actually combing wet hair is healthy

@ailhaj

5 жыл бұрын

I lose hair when brushing dry. I lose none when I brush it wet. I'm gonna assume wet is healthier

@stephanienwachukwu6513

4 жыл бұрын

My mom made a big mistake on tap water washing my hair.

@peemaster123

3 жыл бұрын

iPastelezi detangle around two time a week, before and after shampooing

i attribute my long big thick hair to being tender headed. Whenever my mum tried to set up an appointment for me to get my hair done, I threw the WORST tantrums. So much so I've been banned from 3 salons around the area. TRUE STORY... omg, to you all laughing out there, this was pretty traumatic even for me!! Yes, I was the teen that lost her damn mind during my hair sessions. I just dealt with it by having my mum curse me as she took her time detangling my hair during wash days. And with that my hair grew unbelievably long and thick.... I wasn't creative with it, didn't do anything other than loose buns....unlike many black girls, I was not fortunate enough to have braids and corn rows styles, I guess that's one thing I truly missed out on.... but now that I'm grown, and have an idea on how to care for my hair, I can relive those days....,,, minus the beads and kiddie accessories.

@crystal-lv1dp

8 жыл бұрын

I sob getting my hair braided

@AsukaDoinHerThang

5 жыл бұрын

This was so me also , my hair was very long , thick and even though I was tendered headed my mother still kept putting my hair in too many hairstyles . She was so heavy handed and always parted my hair when it was dry . How you're going to expect me to be still and not cry the whole time ? I didn't actually stop crying until I got in the eighth grade in middle school when I was younger . That's how bad it was . Ever since then I decided to do my own hair . Now after trasitioning back to natural from relaxed and damaged hair , I can see why everything happened the way it did . I'm not gonna front though , my mom was taking care of my hair making sure it was done nice and pretty even though I suffered . Smh 😭🤣

@mersomii_xoxo

Жыл бұрын

​@@crystal-lv1dp getting my hair braided gives me a weird feeling, almost like a funny pain or something

My cousin is TENDER to the HEADED. You try to even seperate her hair in sections she yells ouch and her eyes start to water. You dentangle her hair the right way meaning starting from tip to root. She will yell ouch and start to tear up. The only way for her to not be tender headed is for her hair to be somewhat wet but wetter then damp But also drier that dripping wet. Even her hair damp and you combing or separating she'll cry. I can't even do this girls hair without her crying at least once. Man I feel bad for her I don't know what's going on in her scalp

I'm super tender headed I hated my natural hair when I was younger I've always had very thick long dry 4c hair never relaxed …

@witkneemenyon5612

7 жыл бұрын

Same!

Wow, it's so true, 4 days ago my hair was really dirty and my scalp was sooo tender! I washed them and realized a couple of days later how the tenderness was gone! I'm so glad to know what the culprit was! Thank you so much!

At 25 I am still extremely tender headed 😢

@Gladiator_in_a_Suit

6 жыл бұрын

GiGi Aquarian girl I'm 26 and I'm still tender headed don't feel bad.

@yoditgebrekidan3239

5 жыл бұрын

Same im extremely and my mom would always say i would want attention

@queenleo5578

5 жыл бұрын

The monkey king son Goku I just turned 27. And I’m still tender headed. 😭😭

@mookiboo2076

4 жыл бұрын

I’m 12😭

@black_butterfly4947

3 жыл бұрын

Same

awww thank you and keep up the good work with your channel. this is an excellent service to the natural hair community.

Every time I got my hair permed or relaxed, my scalp always had scabs. I always thought they were huge clumps of dirt that wasn't washed out because of how grimy it was. Sometimes it even felt sticky.

loved the animation

@GreenBeauty

8 жыл бұрын

Thank You :-)

@blackbutterfly233ify

6 жыл бұрын

Cindyct25 Lol me too

Thank you for such comprehensive info, and giving examples that apply to not just your own hair, shows you did your research. I only found your channel recently though this video is nearly a year old! well done!!

You are my favorite and basically the only hair youtube i watch for information now. I love that you research the science and share it with us, and the step by step break downs. It's like a mini web class for my hair. I'm happy you're back for the new season! I hope you post more videos on.... everything! Thanks again! RJ

I learn something every time I watch your videos. Thanks for the information

Amazing video, thank you for taking the time to create this...this video is very informative and was helpful for me

Extremely informative. Thank you very much!

Thank you. This was very informative.

Very informative. I'll be more mindful now if I experience scalp tenderness also when it comes to styling my niece's hair. Thanks

ur videos r always so informational thank u so much

I think the term tender headed has been misused for the longest, like in the video I think it mainly has to do w/working on dry hair. But also being rough handling hair, my momma called me tender headed but when she was raking that comb through my dry hair then putting some grease on it before styling. My aunty sometimes did my hair and did the same thing, the only person who wasn't like that was my big cousin when she would do my hair. I can't say the perm cause is applicable to me since I was natural up until I was 10(my momma stopped doing my hair then) but it makes sense.

As always, your videos are professionally researched. I found my issue with sore scalp to be product buildup and needed to shampoo more frequently...

Love your educational videos and cartoon form subjects too

I don't let anyone touch my hair anymore, I had to take drugs Everytime I did my hair at a salon and on the tightest areas I used to get boils. From braids to locks and twists, I do them all myself or my sister helps. I just don't understand how people are so aggressive with their hair. I never had thin hair, it was just tension and breakage lol. I'm just so dissapointed that so many people still can't handle thick type 4 hair.

This is beautiful

I'm Still Tender Headed Terribly..

@tiffanyreese4947

6 жыл бұрын

Empress Monay your not the only one

@Urfavkittyk3t

5 жыл бұрын

U not the only one I think we just fucked for nothing we could do to get rid of the fucking pain

@thatgirl0642

3 жыл бұрын

@Nakiya Allen same 😭 it’s embarrassing

I have a really nice hairdresser, since i am tender headead, when i was a kid she always use to say, “ im really sorry, “ and she starts combing softer and in a morw relaxed way. She used to give me breaks, juice boxes and everything. I still go to her now

Thanks for another amazing and educational video. I have a tender scalp ans I notice that certain spots are more tender then others. This was very helpful

@GreenBeauty

9 жыл бұрын

Kayla Leary Thanks Kayla :-)

i love that u share. i have a question. What happens when you constantly crochet ur hair? what can u do with advance edge damage?

So informing

I have had this all my life and I'm 14 . My mother uses no chemicals and tbh she is as gentle as a lamb but nth helps

I love this

I get SUPER DUPER tender-headed when my hair growth spurts during the warm months. Just touching my hair/scalp hurts. Scalp massages help. I don't rub my scalp directly. Rather, I do a dozen 2-strand twists, then grasp each twist gently at the root and work it around in a gentle circle. This releases blood flow and sooooooths my tender scalp. Maybe this aids the growth spurts. What do you think?

When I ever take out a protective style like a crochet or braids my scalp is always tender. I never considered that it could be the prolonged time I haven’t washed it. I typically can’t go more than a week without a wash.

My hair is a mix of 3B & 3C. It’s not very kinky but my hair is thick & I’m tenderheaded. Not only kinky hair can be tenderheaded.

I'm soooooooooo glad I'm natural!.

Animation is to funny 😂😂😂, that little girl was me me running away from my aunt every morning before school.

Can you give us some background deets on the water only method please. Also touching on the scenario of wetting ones hair daily. Or every other day and how doing this will/may affect the hair in regards to hygral fatigue. TIA

Im so tender headed. ..like very I always cry even till this day.....when i just simply touch my scalp i can feel pain...... you heard right when i jut touch and conrows and blow dries girl im dead . .....im always suffering cause my hair hurt a lot....even though my hair is really long and thick aff like really thick i always wish to cut my hair cause of the pain😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

The beginning man!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

great video!! what program do u use to create your animations?

When she ran down the hallway, *I felt that shit* 😂

Yup, great video. My "tender head" turned out to be scarring alopecia; I had major inflammation of the scalp....keeping a clean scalp (shampooing more often) has been a great help. As you said, Im kind of glad that I had the sore because I never would have known otherwise.

@GreenBeauty

8 жыл бұрын

+belleandchic1 Thank You .... Yea its like a blessing in disguise. Your hair looks beautiful in your profile pic by the way :-)

@monicaemon7729

7 жыл бұрын

belleandchic1 I have a sore scalp too did you end up losing any hair?

@JustOnePageAway

7 жыл бұрын

Monica Emon yes I did. about a dime to nickel size spot that will not grow back. caught it early enough to try to slow down or stop the spreading. my doctor prescribed a foam to stop the inflammation, then I started to shampoo weekly, massage scalp daily, JBCO a few times a week and finally I avoid anything that causes tension on the scalp.

@monicaemon7729

7 жыл бұрын

Oh wow I about to go wash my hair lol.

@JustOnePageAway

7 жыл бұрын

Monica Emon lolll

perms should be illegal

@chalseywilder937

7 жыл бұрын

christine thomas right?

@justyce6047

7 жыл бұрын

christine thomas my mom forced me to get one and i had pretty natural hair

@divinee4330

7 жыл бұрын

christine thomas perms aren't bad they're a choice people make.

@JeweleryPower

6 жыл бұрын

christine thomas they really should

@JeweleryPower

6 жыл бұрын

SimplyDiVine ya but the Chemicals in them have time and time again been proven to be extremely harmful

Excellence.

My mom relaxed me at 4yo because I'm so tender headed and wouldn't let her comb. I think it might be inflammation-- I've had dandruff problems since childhood and i wash my hair twice a week

My mother relaxed my hair to make it "soft" but it still hurts when some one touches my hair and stuf i cant even put mij hair in a ponytail because it hurts

i only get sore scalp when i put my hair up in styles like buns and pineapples for multiple hours (5 to 8) is that tender headed?

The CRAZY thing is I was NEVER tendered headed!! Then a few years ago I stopped perming my hair and now I can't stand for my beautician to place her hand on top of my head!

Apparently I went to a hair stylist today who said I have tender scalp but I think she's wrong b/c no other stylist I've had in the past ever mentioned I had this.

What animation program? Blender!

There is one section of hair in my crown area that I detangle very lightly or in very small sections because it will hurt in that area.

@GreenBeauty

5 ай бұрын

Check out this video. I think it may be helpful - kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKWhxbmooauYYrg.htmlsi=PgUDMeCnv-1DLaR0

Question: I am "Tender headed" got a Sew in done on Monday. the crown of my head started hurting so bad to the point where I had to take it down. The crown of my head is still hurting it's been 6 days I don't know what to do. Do you think my crown is so Tender from the tightness of the braids or I might have a slight headache?

I’m tender headed and Hispanic. I can’t even put my hair up without it hurting like heck. Also when I try to do half up half down it makes me want to cry. Along with brushing, and sometimes braiding. Please help lol.

I'm white but yet I have this issue because of my skin is all fucked up. I have fibromyalgia which causes overactive nerves. I cry just brushing.

@Dizmznd

8 жыл бұрын

:o Have you found a method that works for you?

Aw snap. I thought I was tenderheaded, turns out it was just chemotherapy!

I swear I thought I was tender headed until my sister started doing my hair. USE MOISTURIZER bc if it's dry it will HURT!

I get tinder headed when I get braids

My niece is extremely tender headed. Tge whole time you attempt to detangle her hair (with conditioner) she literally scream and cries. I've watched her an have conclude that its partly because of the tender headed and the of part is psychological every time she see a comb I think the anxiety starts because she associates the comb with pain. When I do her hair now I leave the pony tale holder on while detangling the ends that is where her hair tangles the most her hair is very dense but the strand are very very fine and they tangle very easily. She also get tangling at the roots as well.

@GreenBeauty

9 жыл бұрын

757chaneal Thats a good technique (pony tale holder). If you don't mind some frizz, you can put her hair in small to medium twist or braids. Wash her hair while its in the twist/braids and wrap and stretch her hair in a satin scarf to reduce the frizz. You can avoid combing her hair for like two months if you stay consistent with her twist/braids.

I used to be relaxed and never was tender headed but all of a sudden (after I went natural) last year the top of my scalp started acting up hurting,!!! and falling out idk what to do None of the medications I’m taking have worked😥😭😭😭 it hurts soooooooo bad I’m getting to the point where I’ll just shave my head 😖🤧

Bruh I’m too late I’ve been tenderheaded since I was born I had to go to the hospital one time cause I got stung in the head by a bee and my head was already sensitive cause I was 2 at the time and am I the only one who sometimes if someone touches my head/hair a certain way like u feel it in your lower back cause I hate that cause I can’t do anything about it

Love ❤️ your cartoons.lol

That feeling when your mom yanks the shit outta your scalp and she knows your tender headed but smacks you to make you shut up-

Hi, I wanted to ask u your opinion with using the derma blend roller

@TracyD2

5 жыл бұрын

1ycj Yes I second this. People swear it helps grow hair. I want to try it but I’m scared.

I don't have kinky short hair but I am tender headed

Well I got my hair braided and when they used the blowout thing it hurt so bad and when they braided my hair I thought I was about to die and when I slept with my braids my head hurt so bad the next morning I was dizzy and I felt heavy I didn't like it

But my only question is how do you stop being tender-headed

@alldatzyall7356

5 жыл бұрын

I don't think you can. But I would say visit a doctor in case you more serious scalp issues.

No, not used chemicals, but only get tender scalp when I use protective styles like cornrows 😢

So migranes can lead to tender headedness? Makes sense since I'm so tender headed no matter how soft and braids are always super painful. I've been suffering migranes since I was little, just never knew what it was until middle school.

I have developed tenderness on my scalp because my hair dresser does not listen to me when I say I don't want tight braids. How do I get to her? I don't want to get Traction Alopecia

@kikiadams801

9 жыл бұрын

You might want to take your money and find another hair dresser who will listen to your concerns. Or you can learn to do it yourself so that you can control how tight they are.

Hi my name is Shaun I have a question I am tender heada and I just want to finger detangling my natural hair for now on is that okay​

@GreenBeauty

7 жыл бұрын

Of course, that's okay. I personal sometimes go months without combing my hair. Finger detangling especially of you keep your hair stretched is perfectly fine for our hair.

@blackqueen2451

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

Lmao that flashback to my childhood 😂😂😂

I can't believe I was first!

@jenbroccoli861

7 жыл бұрын

Tatyana Shania Lol!!!!!

Im like so tenderheaded whenever I take out my weave I wear my old hair for days and months then when its time for me to get my hair done she will always wash my hair with a comb I be throwing the WORST tantrums then when I'm finished with washing my hair she wants to use a comb and comb my hair to get the extra out but it was more than extra I looked to my right and I saw a pile of my hair that she pulled out with the comb the she blow dries it then she uses a iron and she uses the comb with the iron I always be telling her I need to go to the bathroom or I want some water then I go to the persons house to get my hair done from there I always be crying and she tells me to not cry BUT she's the one who was causing all of this to happen after all that combing 😠😠☹️☹️

Question: What if you are only tender-headed when others do your hair? is this just considered soreness or is this still a more serious issue? #Gotmeworried :-(

@GreenBeauty

7 жыл бұрын

If your tender headed only when others do your hair then I'm sure it's not a sign of anything serious. Either get someone else to do your hair or just do it yourself. I'm the same way :-)

@3rdeyetwaa

7 жыл бұрын

Whew ok. great ty

@AnonymousBlackGirl

6 жыл бұрын

Lol no it hurts when I do it myself.

The animation in the intro is hilarious

@GreenBeauty

Жыл бұрын

Lol

I'm Tender head

I’m tender headed and my mom combs my hair and I would be in pure pain! I would start crying and my mom would yell at me and scream at me....I wish I wasn’t born being tender headed

I'm mixed and this shit has hurt my entire life and there's no way to stop it 😩 I love my mixed hair cuz it nice but I hate it cuz it hurts

I am tenderheaded

Lol love the cartoon

im VERY tenderheaded

I am super tender headed..

i'm not tender headed but being tender headed sounds PAINFUL AS HELL

Yall please help me!! My beautiful 8 year old Grandaughter screams bloody murder when combing her hair. I was scared somebody would call the police on me. She has a good grase of hair and it is kinda coolie and soft. I used detanglers, mosturisers, butters but her scalp is in pain. Her Mom spanks her for the screaming and crying...I don't. Please help me help my babygirl.....

@Kulchagospel

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you guys for your tips....it really means a lot! 🤗

SKSHKAKALS THE BEGINNING ANIMATION

Im tender-headed when it comes to blow outs

Well I guess I need to wash my hair now. It's been almost 2 months of me putting it off

@dianalove60

5 жыл бұрын

Muslissa you have watch you hair 2 week or 3 week or one month... two months is over due.😱

Im extremely tender headed. Thats why i cant go to hair dressersanymore😂. People like to touch my hair and stuff being all rough and i just burst out into tears. And they say "it doesnt hurt that bad" 😑. So i let ma grandma do my hair... And im still rolling on the floor screamin.😂😭👏👏

@recklessbamba_kaymayoevans2886

6 жыл бұрын

Lorrena Leverett yessssssss

I can also be very gentle with the comb but if she feels the comb on her hair automatically she throws a fit.

what ages of kids?

@GreenBeauty

6 жыл бұрын

5 years old, almost 6

this is me af

Why aren’t there videos on tender headed ADULTS?

I hate the comes with metal

Its sad because i have this 😂

I add moisture, prepoo, everything. I still get so much pain. And heat. Redness. Classic inflammation. Next step, dermatologist. 😕

As a white female with a very tender head and a pink scalp (probably due to sensitivity), I greatly appreciate your educational standpoint and even referring others to a dermatologist if necessary. Thank you for your videos. Getting my hair cut has made me feel so isolated in my suffering, making getting haircuts expensive and traumatic. I'm very thankful that I'm not alone and that I have some explanations.

@zacharywood9416

5 жыл бұрын

donthavetime4that great hypothesis but do a quick google search that’ll tell you the actual cause which is the hair follicles not being round 😛