You can't force them to love you just leave them be. There's more to life than focusing on your twin flame.

I first dated my twin flame in my late teens/early 20s, obviously we didn’t know we were TF and we had a 20 year separation! After both having toxic relationships and traumatic experiences we reunited back in 2020 and we are now in full union and have been married 6 months.

The more you focus on them the less they focus on you..twin flame runner here..

We've gone from communication to no communication. To he stop even reading the messages. Two months later and a huge amount of self work. Realizing inner peace and inner love, now we are back at he has read my last messages from 2 months ago he never read. I consider this HUGE progress. He will come forward when he's ready or he won't but I'm ok with both because I know where I need to go and I know where I need to be inside myself. This inner peace is not something you can take or talk yourself into. Believe I tried at some point 😂 you will just know it. You will have this peace deep inside your soul that everything will be fine. You have to be ready. As you achieve higher levels of being aware of what you need to work on you are raising their higher levels as well. You are one soul. What would you want for yourself? That's what you should want for them. You want yourself to be happy? Yes? You should want that for them regardless if it's with you or not. The more you heal, the more you will see them wanting to reach out. Trying to get them to talk to you is a lesson in letting go of control. Letting go of manipulating situations and people. This was my first huge lesson and it took a long time. I still have to rewire my thoughts everyday and I am now aware of when I become controlling or manipulative. It gets easier. Trust me

I'm so ready to leave the twin flame behind. Wasted my time, waiting for someone who really is attracted to people who ignore them. :) Thats what makes the twin return---when you realize you love them, but they want and need someone who ignores them, who they can use for sex, someone who cant commit to them. Thats what they need, and if you want that too, keep waiting. If you want someone who reciprocates love and warmth, who doesnt lie to you, who doesnt ignore you or ghost you, who is willing to be vulnerable---then you leave the twin flame and walk towards the people who are ready and emotionally available. First get to being emotionally available by learning to enjoy your life, build your career, friendships and hobbies. Then, you're ready to date someone else who actually cares.

If they’re not messaging you that is the message… bruh that was brutal and truthful.

I tried to make my twin talk for years, but I couldn't and I was very hurt.

I believe in symbolic twinflames, but real ones. I believe that there is one person that God continually makes you feel connected too (it doesn't matter how many weeks, months, years - even when the infatuation fades away, and you keep finding new friendships/relationships/crushes, they don't last. They leave you feeling empty. But with this person, the feelings of closeness don't go, that want to talk to them and be near them, support them and help them never falters - even when you've accepted the severity of the situation and decided to leave it alone. He could do this to show you how much love he has for you. Everything we have comes from God, everything we do (as believers) such as loving no matter what is reflected in Christ's character. He may even use the situation so He can make you understand His pointview better and how He hasn't given up on us yet. Twinflames talk about there being a masculine and a feminine that need to come together to be one and endure hardships because of how similar, yet opposite they are. They are said to be two halves of a whole. (Eve was literally made from Adam's rib) This sounds like God's idea of marriage doesn't It? Except you don't find their completeness in them, you both find It in God together because He is using your closeness so He can pull you towards Him.

How about they just aren’t that into you? 😂 I’m still old school about this.

this video helped me Stef, thank you!

Thank you !!! So helpful!

Twin Flames was a cruel joke on me. Hope others had a good experience, as it is not for the faint hearted.

What about in law of assumption which states everyone is you pushed out and that, it's limiting beliefs that state your expecting them to go through a separation period, because within the twin flame community that's what we are being taught? What if we can just work on our self concept and the concept of our twin flame (including their behavior) and be able to manifest significant changes and fast track union through manifestation and affirmation alone. Your thoughts create your reality.

I reached self love and realized separation is only an illusion back in march 2023 and my twin flame still Hasn't responded to me yet.

Thanks so much

well yes you have to know love from within

I had to learn this myself and even though i did learn it not too long ago... it is so difficult to be patient and wait. I used to only be able to go three days without pestering her, now I am able to go four days, and soon five and so on. Eventually I will be able to leave her alone completely until she is ready to reach out or move on. Progress, not perfection.

What does the twin flame sings mean? I’ve seen a lot of things connected to her, numbers, songs.. they all happen in a synchronicity of few mins..

just fine sending love to tnem from a far...

Give it up. They are right where they want to be. It's not hard.