I think sex scenes, like most things, are situational. If the show is about 30 year olds playing teenagers and the show has no plot, (Riverdale) it’s not needed. If sex or intimacy is a part of the characters development or growth I think it is meaningful to add it.

@chanelsanuwuwuw

7 ай бұрын

FR LIKE RIVERDALE ADD JUST UNNECESSARY SCENES LIKE..

@MooseMuncherss

6 ай бұрын

Arcane had a sex scene in it, but I think it was actually justified to show the two characters' relationship. I think it's also worth mentioning that the scene itself was heavily censored, inaudible, and intertwined with an unrelated scene. This is coming from an aspec person if it adds anything lol

@el-vm9cr

6 ай бұрын

@@MooseMuncherss yes! I think that scene was heavily important in the characters development and without it the relationship would have felt confusing

@janae.nae15

6 ай бұрын

RIVERDALE IS CRAZY LIKE THE SEX IS NOT NEEDED I WATCHED ALL 7 SEASONS AND ITS LIKE BRO but like shows like queen bridgingtob there is sex every 5 minutes but it’s for the plot and it’s good for the show

@st7es

6 ай бұрын

I COULDNT HAVE SAID IT BETTER

Why is it that whenever you’re watching something the second your parent comes out the show magically turns into a sex scene 😭💀

@xxkurumixx4093

5 ай бұрын

OMG FR It's so annoying istg, the whole show is fine and then of course when things are getting steamy my mom or dad has to come down stairs straight into the living room ToT the amount of times it has happened to makes me feel like something is actually rigged lmao, it's horrible.

@Elliefromup

5 ай бұрын

The walls and ceilings suddenly become interesting

@Selma-qp4qw

6 күн бұрын

I know😂

if DONE WELL, sex scenes can be crucial to certain shows/movies. i think sex is a part of intimacy that can truly bond and connect people in a relationship (obviously it’s not the only part of a relationship that matters, but it is such an intimate and personal thing that builds trust and a sense of vulnerability so it can honestly be beautiful when a show/movie portrays it as something to that effect) and no i’m not talking about random unnecessary hookups that add absolutely zero depth to the character or plot to the story.

@TweetyElf

7 ай бұрын

Yessss rwrb I feel does the sex scenes very well but some shows just do it for no reason which that is just ehh

@THEPRECIOUSLILY

6 ай бұрын

Like the fault in our stars

@MarcusSkibidi717

5 ай бұрын

Like heartstopper, I think it's something that shows their trust or something I'm not ood at explaining

@aliaaaafr

5 ай бұрын

​@@MarcusSkibidi717 so true omg

@score_sixxernet7395

13 күн бұрын

Like the bear

they truly don’t need them.

@jeepers.steepers

7 ай бұрын

Dude real people have sex😭 if you don’t wanna watch a sex scene, look up the imdb parents’ guide before you watch it. There’s plenty of things in film that are unnecessary, including sex (like shows with teenagers) but that doesn’t mean it shouldn’t exist AS A WHOLE💀 To eradicate sex scenes is another form of censorship in media, let people make what they want, and let them live with it if it’s morally wrong. -A sex repulsed asexual

@RileyBarr1313

7 ай бұрын

It’s only necessary if it effects the plot

@chryszeis

7 ай бұрын

​@@jeepers.steepers yeah, everything you said is true but op said shows don't NEED sex scenes and they really don't. They weren't saying they want to get rid of them or not watch those scenes specifically - just that they're totally pointless

@jeepers.steepers

7 ай бұрын

@@RileyBarr1313 You’re brave for arguing as someone who doesn’t know the difference between “effects” and “affects” BUT I agree! A lot of the time, sex scenes aren’t necessary. But who cares if it’s unnecessary? Content has filler and boring elements all the time, you just pick whether or not you’re okay with it. So once again, if you don’t wanna see it, don’t watch it. Sex will exist whether you want to see it or not!

@JayyLott

7 ай бұрын

Lies

i’ve thrown up to avoid a sex scene in a movie

@mollie.sturniolo

7 ай бұрын

real

@Misiveria

7 ай бұрын

Real

@billiesversionn

7 ай бұрын

real

@SoapiiBFDI

7 ай бұрын

Fr

@icecreamI7

7 ай бұрын

real

As an addition to this topic, if you were unaware (which is understandable) there are people who are genuinely disgusted by sex or just don't want ro have it, but still want romantic relationships. I'm Asexual myself, and I don't speak for everyone, but I skip sex scenes because they just make me uncomfortable. I don't think they should be removed entirely, they just make me slightly uncomfortable as someone who does not feel the desire for a relationship involving sex. Also, I don't intend to sound mean (if I do), I just wanted to let you know since I know there are other people who feel similar to me 👍‼️

@Tullymonstet

7 ай бұрын

As someone who may not be asexual but has asexual friends, thank you for bringing this up!!

@sapphicsky

7 ай бұрын

as someone who is asexual, i'm the same way. i just can't even bear to watch it.

@Ch-tw4rx

6 ай бұрын

Very true, but when u click on the movie it does say what you’re in for

@Ch-tw4rx

6 ай бұрын

Also I know you’re not saying this, but to add on, not all asexuals feel this way. Some asexual people have sex, some don’t. Some like the idea, just not the real deal. There are all kinds of people in the spectrum, and once again I know you didn’t imply any of this wasn’t true, but just bringing up another point!

@fred-not-me

6 ай бұрын

@@Ch-tw4rx I know, and I'm not upset about that, a lot of shows have sex scenes. I just wanted to let people know that Asexual people do exist, and don't particularly like sex. It's okay to have sex scenes in shows, I just wanted to make sure people are aware that there are some people with no desire for sex 👍👍

i literally screamed they don’t 😭 I’m trynna watch tv not porn, allusion to it is fine but it’s been getting so excessive, especially in shows with teenagers

“Do shows need sex sce-“ NO.

@mollie.sturniolo

7 ай бұрын

no. no. no.

@Holynx.

7 ай бұрын

frikin kopy kat!!!!1

@Emodogbite

7 ай бұрын

`SRS THO "but it might be crucial to the plot when someone cheats or smth" JS MAKE THEM KISS???

@starzza_

7 ай бұрын

N O🔥🗣🗣

@ALIVE-666

7 ай бұрын

@@EmodogbiteTHATS NOT HOW THAT WORKS

I'm also a transgender male, and I was put into that same sort of situation by my extremely abusive household. They forced me into therapy, told my siblings against my will, and treated me worse then our dogs. When I spoke out about this behavior, they were extremely rude and it's honestly ridiculous how they acted.

@FreakyFurryCreations

6 ай бұрын

I'm really sorry you had to deal with that. Some people are so awful, huh?

@ichinihq

6 ай бұрын

Could’ve stayed a girl and had a better life no?

@jsquad2541

5 ай бұрын

That was very rude and inconsiderate.keep yo mouth shut if you have no encouraging words to say​@@ichinihq

@ichinihq

5 ай бұрын

@@jsquad2541 their decision is illogical and gullible who r you to shut me up

@sanstheskeleton1528

4 ай бұрын

@@ichinihqdo you not know how rude that is? Maybe go and try and comfort them instead of saying that the thing that they chose was wrong. So please just don’t say another thing if you’re just going to be rude and not say anything nice.

"Art can have boobs in it and it doesn't discount the quality of the art" -Benoftheweek 2023

you know it’s gonna be a good day when ben posts 💛

@AnabelGuerra-jj9dy

7 ай бұрын

REAL

@Sukii_420

7 ай бұрын

REAL

@Urfavleo21

7 ай бұрын

EXACTLY ❤❤❤

I mostly have a problem with they do it when the characters are supposedly in high school, I’m not saying teenagers don’t do it but it just comes to a point where they seem to sexualize teenagers and generalize them and there has been so many with age gaps that it’s just uncomfortable and gross

@Sam_ColbyXPLR1

Ай бұрын

Yeah like I love heartstopper but book 5 (gonna be s3) is gonna scar me for LIFE

art can have boobs in it and it doesn't discount the quality of the art - ben 2023

I’m aroace and I like a good sex scene, but there’s so many shows that have characters bone it every other episode or movies where it’s like 4 times. I believe in love too, which is why I think displaying and developing all the types of love is important.

@grr4y

7 ай бұрын

shameless 😭😭

@luvliaaxx

6 ай бұрын

I'm a biromantic asexual and I totally agree with you! :)

I feel like shows such as Bridgeton do sex scenes very well because instead of just having it randomly, they have (most) of them to show intimacy and how the connection between people could get strong or be really rocky. But when shows and movies just add it to add it, and don’t to it well, then it doesn’t need to be there

@janae.nae15

6 ай бұрын

I agree and i love Bridgeton

as a film student i can confirm it is very situational and while some sex scenes really do add to the plot there are still some that are unnecessary, however a point no one mentions lmao is that it sells, that’s why it’s added a lot bc y’all watch it.. sex sells so?? but yea i agree it’s a grey area i think it isn’t bad when added to a film it can help the plot but yeah, also the weird films like 50 shades of grey i mean y’all watched it ?? back to the point it sells

This was NOT the topic I was expecting today

I cry every time a s3x scene comes on

@Misiveria

7 ай бұрын

Ms girl you look like a child 💀

@streetsweater

7 ай бұрын

Real

im asexual so i get really uncomfortable with sex scenes most of the time especially if they're frequent but sometimes i dont mind them

I’m asexual, but I usually think sex scenes are as valid as the context surrounding them - if they add to the plot and further two character’s relationship, then fair enough, but if it’s just randomly inserted for the sake of there being a sex scene, especially between characters that are supposed to be minors, then I personally think it’s unnecessary :/ I usually skip them so it’s nice when every other scene isn’t a sex one, coz sex isn’t the be all end all of a relationship (is that the saying?) Just my opinion haha

@Youareaidiot

6 ай бұрын

yeahhh i hate when they have sex scenes with people who are supposed to be teens it's gross me

It's such an uncomfortable situation i always look away

When such a scene played, I went to the kitchen for a while “to get a snack” 💀💀💀

@thatonel4421

6 ай бұрын

Same here🥲

I’m a very sex-positive person, I believe sex should be celebrated and talked about more to remove the stigma behind it, same goes for nudity: show human bodies, celebrate the different types, curves and features that make us who we are. Like Ben said, it’s interesting that people can watch ultra violent gory movies but not a natural consenting sex scene. If it’s R-rated and it makes sense to the story, I’ve got no problem with it. Where I draw the line is with shows like Euphoria, where the producers have created a show featuring teen characters in very hardcore scenes… like just make the show about college-age characters instead! Also I feel producers should do more to promote safe-sex in film/tv.

@soggycat4life

6 ай бұрын

Sex is silly

@tobyandahalf

5 ай бұрын

i like gore and horror movies because they allow me to channel my anxiety and anger into a fake scenario, i also admire the dedication put into it. however, i can't stand sex scenes because of my trauma. the only time i ever actually like anything sexual is if i'm on ao3. i think it all comes down to personal life experiences.

@1.swiftie

4 ай бұрын

@@soggycat4lifeFr 😝

i think we should really talk about how sex scenes can battle stereotypes around sex. definitely agree and think it can often give more depth to character and be really amazing if done well. it can be relatable and raw, sometimes it is essential to the plot and character development. though if they just throw one in there just because they feel like it, it is unnecessary and actually takes away from the show/movie. depends on lots of things. unrelated but i love the recent videos they've been much more interesting than tiktok drama.

Hey Ben! My drama is, so basically my bff of 10 years keeps leaving me and my other bff of 1 year for other friends then randomly coming back hanging with us, what’s annoying is every time she comes back she always manages to get my friend on her ‘side’ so I’m always left out when she comes back after replacing us and idk what to do

To me, I believe that s3x scenes in movies shouldn't be taken THAT seriously. Since it's natural, I think it's fine, but where I personally don't like it is when it's in shows with teens in the age range of 15-17. But of course those kind of scenes are nothing anybody should be overreacting to, me personally if one of those comes up I just skip it. Including scenes like that in shows that are heavily based on minors is just downright peculiar, and disgusting. Of course those scenes in said shows don't usually take away from the entire greatness of the show, they're mainly unnecessary in shows with all the protagonists being minors.

@raynuhhhh_

7 ай бұрын

i dont know why but the first thing that came to my mind was ginny and georgia

@hanakokunn_

4 ай бұрын

​@@raynuhhhh_bro 😭

i look forward to wednesdays bc i know ben is going to post a new podcast ep. love u ben!

i think i'm very much on the same page as you about having sex scenes in shows or movies. i think that it really depends on how necessary it is to the plot of the show, and of course is appropriate for the characters ages. as a screenplay writer and an all around movie nerd i have definitely seen some scenes that were just unneeded. and on the topic of ratings, i definitely think that if a show is rated R just because of a sex scene, they should probably change the rating, but i doubt that any of the companies will do so...i always thought that there isnt really a need to protect your kids from certain "adult" things, if we are being honest, they are going to learn someday, and if parents dont tell their kids, they will find out on there own one way or another. but all together i loved hearing what you had to say. have a great day

As an Arab person, thankfully ive never had to deal with the awkwardness of s3x scenes playing in TV shows or movies while im with my family, since theyre not normalized here 💀

@Itsme_hat

6 ай бұрын

Your so lucky 😂

@cricketandgraham8644

6 ай бұрын

a few months ago i was in my moms room and literally the loudest sex scene played?? goddamn it was awkward

@LIGHT-tq5un

6 ай бұрын

@@cricketandgraham8644 LMAO PRAYING FOR U

no ben. they don’t. thank you for a new episode ❤️❤️❤️

saying he popped an edible after that scene is so real

this podcast is the only reason why i can go to school in the cold and rain and still stay sane (even if ben is far from sane at this point)

You know it is a good day when Ben posts!

5:12 -5:22 this is one of the reasons I struggle with in trying to find movies and shows I enjoy. I love something with a complicated plot and action but then sometimes shows/movies will just add random sex scenes. For example Ginny & Georgia, I watched this show souly for the plot, all the sex was completely unnecessary and didn’t really build anything to the story. This is why I actually switched to mostly anime like bsd. Finding a show that has a completely plot and action without any sex is like finding gold in my world. 1:08 THIS IS SO REAL. As an Aro/Ace person who would like to believe in these things but can’t, I find watching sex scenes hard and uncomfortable 2:35

Yea with riverdale and stuff, it’s pretty weird. I remember being a young teen watching that and even then I was absolutely mind blown they added that in

In my opinion I think movies/shows don’t need sex scenes idc if it’s for adults they shouldn’t have it in adults get uncomfortable with that shit too

Ok ben I was at school and I checked if you posted and I saw the title and I was like "nope I'm just gonna watch this when I get home" cuz we're allowed to watch yt at school but I was not gonna watch this at school love youu

The playing with your dog during the scenes is so true 😭

I believe depending on the plot. If this character has struggled with touch and have slowly been able to overcome that to be able to have sex it could be a beautiful and significant moment but there are other situations where you can tell a director or writer just decides to write out their sick fantasies to have them be lived out. There are also just cases where idk I don’t mind seeing a sex scene. It also depends on the genre and the rating. A lot to factor in. It’s really a little more complicated when you think about it 😅

It just depends on how its done. They usually are just kinda uncomfy cuz i always feel like someones gonna see me watching it even if im in my room at 3am lowest brightness volume down, door closed everyone asleep, i always feel like im gonna be caught and then its just weird. But honestly their just ok and idrc about em

Hey ben!! Before I get into my drama I wanted to say I love your content and that your videos always brighten up my day🫶! But here’s my drama(it’s kinda long sorry) So this guy that my friend introduced me to has been bullying me and made me very insecure about my physical appearance and making fun of the size of my forehead but the other day he crossed the line and told me to “do what Kurt cobain did.” I left all the group chats I had with him and I blocked his number but now I feel insecure about my face and what he told me to do. I need so much help.

@Thenormalmexican

7 ай бұрын

Wasn’t Kurt cobain a singer?

@KaylaFrederiksen.3

7 ай бұрын

@@Thenormalmexican but he also sh0t himself

@valerious_

7 ай бұрын

Ew, I’m so so so sorry that he did that. That’s a disgusting thing for someone to do and I hope that justice gets served! You are perfect just the way you are and you should not let someone who’s just jealous and nasty make you feel bad about yourself. You’re awesome, stay safe!

I think it depends on everything in the sense that it depends on everything going on, like relationships, the ages of the characters, the aim of the audience like literally everything.

bro its low key satisfying like to have your characters bond at a deeper level yk, like in slow burn plots and stuff

“this is all i can show” in the thumbnail with two minions viciously making out and the fox and rabbit from zootopia is killing me 💀

Unexpected, Unnecessary, Irrelevant.

HI BEN i have some more drama ,, ive been wanting to start a podcast for a while (because of you) so i practice on my close friends story on instagram with just over 5 people who i trust not to judge me, but today i spoke about how i didnt feel like i had friends anymore because of how isolated and replaced ive been feeling, and one of my friends got mad at me and made me argue with people JUST BECAUSE i felt replaced by him ,, hes been such a lovely friend but i dont know what to do because this isnt the first time hes belittled me for my emotions, what do i do??? also again i love ur videos sm u inspired me to try start a podcast thank you for being my comfort person

i mean, i think some shows do need that to extend the plot. but oh boy it’s weird to see around my entire family. i agree this is a canon event

0:32 TGIS IS WHY I LOVE PARENT GUIDES!!

my opinion is people need to learn that they can just skip the scene or just not watch the show or movie instead of trying to eliminate them overall in movies/shows

they do NOT need s scenes. watching it on tv lessens the mood of reality. if we're married we're probably doing enough of it at home. I would rather have a decent conversation with someone in public, and keep s scenes private and only for spouses. this gives us a break from intimacy in a marriage and gives the chance for friendships and other relationships to flourish. we often connect with people by referencing tv shows, so by not including that sort of thing in the tv shows can convey to the viewer or the person we want to connect with that we want a genuine relationship with them, and we mean then no harm.

MY DRAMA!! Hi ben! before I say my drama I just wanna say I love you and your podcast so much. Okay so I have a like 7 or 8 year old dog and I recently got a 14 week old dog (named Benita) and I thought that they should meet and become besties but turns out they don’t like eachother and they started fighting but I really want them to be friends. What do I do?

3:26 whoa ben, calm down 😂

help im mormon 😭 nah but if a sex scene ever comes on my family just skips it so i rly dont care if movies have them cuz if u want to watch then u can but if u dont want to then u dont have to

13:06 exactly, but also in ginny and georgia bc Marcus is like the "cool hot boy that every girl likes" but he is like a super hard stoner and that depicts the image that if you don't do drugs and smoke you're not cool

as an ace person i will say that i agree sexuality can be important for character growth, but at the same time, a movie about a guy in a hockey mask murdering people does not need any boobs in it

As an ace, I’ve always felt uncomfortable specifically if the sex scene was made to be too long, but usually don’t care if it was under 30 seconds and was relevant to the story

I honestly think things are way TOO sexualized nowadays. In an unhealthy way. It can go either way (productive to the movie or just filler). Also, it'd be cool if more movies respectfully explored themes regarding Asexuality.

I personally absolutely hate when they’re in shoes or movies but I also think that if the characters have a deep bond and it contributes to their character arch (my author is showing) then yes they are probably a good idea to have. Like in The Fault in Our Stars, was it a big plot contributor and was it ever really brought up again? No. But did it make the main death sadder because the couple had a more serious relationship? Yes and that brought more emotions for the audience so yeah.

hey ben! My drama is that I might be moving to a another country in a few months, and i dont know how to feel. Me and my family will be living a better life overall if we move there, but i dont want to leave my friends. Any tips?

I’m also a film bro I think studios should stop trying to appeal to audiences because they can be holding back on important things because it has to be pg or pg13

My drama -- I was in a trio of really good friends last year, and one of the girls joined a sports team and is super distant from us now..

If they do have them, I feel like there should be an edited version. Like I love American horror story but I hate that I have to have my finger on the skip button😭😭

When I was SUPER young I knew that ads weren’t part of the video I was watching.

Ilove ben more then a lot of things i’ve been watch is yt and podcast for like 2 years 💗😭

I love heartstopper because it’s not like super rushed or anything. The only thing close to a S*x scene is in season two when Charlie got a hickey (sorry if I spoiled it if you wanna watch it)

So about the poll, I don't really care if there's sex in movies/series, but I genuinely think it's beautiful when it's done right. Also, if you see this, I really love your podcast!

@Dareelrokarylikedat

6 ай бұрын

Omggggg the way I think:

My old school taught some media literacy, but not the stuff Ben mentioned. They just taught us how to make good passwords, and you'd think we'd learn that in my current technology class, but NO. We learn how to FORMAT a FUCKING DOCUMENT. WE ALREADY KNOW HOW TO DO THAT.

I feel like they are just too often and it’s difficult to watch stuff like that with my parents 😭😭

@Kristens.Kpop.Korner

7 ай бұрын

Especially for young audiences- for younger directed shows.

@Idontknowwhattoputhere-gm7kv

7 ай бұрын

@@Kristens.Kpop.Korner dont watch shows with sex then use google to search it up

he is so real for the euphoria thing bc like im 11 and I watch euphoria(if u have a problem abt that go cry abt it) and i js cant see an adult watching teenager do drugs appealing🤷‍♀️

@itonyamovie4521

6 ай бұрын

oh yeah foreal but im 13

Im glad this is becoming a discussion.

my drama except it's on this topic: I was at my friend's house watching a movie with her familia and THERE WERE MULTIPLE SCENES IN THE MOVIE THE WERE DEFINITELY RATED R- her little brother was also watching, two years younger and he was dying. both the mom and dad of my friend were horrified but didn't turn it off 😭😭

13:17 YOU POPED A WHATTT

hey ben i love ur podcast~ drama: so the group of friends i’m with aren’t the kindest most supportive people, i have a big fat secret that i have told no one and it deflects my personality. i want to hang out with other people that have the same interests but i don’t know how to not be deceived as “weird” sorry it’s kinda long ily ben

Hey Ben! Here’s my drama. There’s this guy who’s almost 18 and I’m a minor. Recently he’s been showing in creepy ways how much he’s in love with me. He’s even started taking pictures of me when I’m not looking. Until one time I caught him and ripped the phone out of his hand and deleted the pictures. He yelled at me and was upset and so I left. What should I do next time I see him?

@Lauria-gb2hq

6 ай бұрын

Girly that’s not drama that’s a court case 😭

The answer is: uh…. Sometimes…?

i have some drama. theres this girl who slapped my friend two summers ago at a camp. i thought that once that camp was over, id never have to see her again. skip to 3 ish weeks ago, she transfers to my 30 something student school. and shes pretending to be someone else. i cant avoid her bc of how small the school is, and i dont have off campus privileges. idk what to doooo

Only if it’s Josh hutcherson 😍

@n_.c8211

7 ай бұрын

LMAOOO

@Misiveria

7 ай бұрын

I mean 😩

@streetsweater

7 ай бұрын

Real

@sakiology

7 ай бұрын

LMAOO

@Sukii_420

7 ай бұрын

CRYINGGGG

If it shows a character dynamic and development, it's okay. But if it's like that one Iron Man movie where it's just a random hookup who's never mentioned again, it's not needed.

I think they’re only necessary if they are important for the plot

The amount of times my parents would put on a 80s movie rated like PG/PG 13 and then out of no where 8 year me sees 2 people getting it on with the woman's chest fully exposed. They are just like whoops I forgot about that! But yeah, also the thing about observing every inch of the area besides the TV while THOSE scenes are on-

I think its good in romance movies but its unessarsary in horror movies

My drama! (ITS TWO SENTENCES IM SORRY-😭) So, I’ve been stuck in California for 5-6 years, but I recently moved back to my home state with my family, and I’ve just been informed that family thanksgiving that I’ve been looking forward to for a while has been postponed until Saturday (we have plans on that day) because my aunt is sick. My grandma won’t change her mind and I can’t go, Wdyt of this situation?

Hi Ben here is my drama. I just moved to high school this year and there are a bunch of new kids from different schools. They keep causing problems and getting in fights. There have been many of my friends that have gotten iss or suspension because of these new kids. Btw I love your podcast

I agree and if there in love with each other so good

8:13 GUILTY GUILTY is so real I loved euphoria I had a whole era

A good example of a sex scene being important to the plot I would say is dirty dancing. it's very intimate and it shows the vulnerability with each other and how close they've gotten, i think it was a very important scene and definitely deserves more recognition. (This is an example for anyone who doesn't get how sex scenes can be important).

i dont reslly care if theres sex in movies or shows but i think they should only really happen if it's necessary and adds something to the plot like no i dont really wanna watch some actors have fake sex for like 2 minutes

What a nice wall…. wow did we just get this carpet?!

i get flustered when I’m watching a show / movie with my boyfriend and then there’s a s3x scene especially cus we’re always snuggling when they happen😭 but I do think they add a bit of spice to shows especially when they’re in a comedic matter

I recently watched Money heist {korea} . There was a scene between 2 characters . It was done really , really well. It didn’t even feel like , bad? It just developed the plot in a great way . I feel like u said , if done well its okay.

ONE WORD: no.

HI BEN so my drama isnt really drama but it kind of is ... im turning 16 in a month and really wanted to throw a birthday party because i hate being alone on birthdays but i have nobody to invite because my current friend group is super religious and dont think that birthdays should be celebrated (i go to a religious school), and my mum keeps telling my that theres no point in having a birthday party if im such a loner... should i throw one and invite other classmates or just not have one at all and be miserable on my bday? also i love your videos so much like i was crying and saw you uploaded and then i stopped LOLL

@p1erce.theveil

7 ай бұрын

INVITE OTHERS FROM UR CLASS 100% IF THEY COME, THEN THEY COME, AND U CAN PROB MAKE MORE FRIENDS OR SMTH

ben talking about laufey randomly made me so happy since she's my favorite artist it's pronounced Lay~vay

If it fits the moment it's fine, but not if it doesn't fit the moment and it's just thrown in for no reason.

"AWOGAAA" I love ben-

Unless we are going back in time to 1950, these scenes can be relevant.

Thank you Ben. For everything I’m so glad that you popped up on my for you page because if you didn’t, I probably wouldn’t have been here right now so thank you.

not a sex scene but i was watching the bsd dead apple movie with my mom and then the scene with dazai and chuuya popped up. i wanted to die

i think shows its fine if theres sex scenes its certain situations, but shows that are marketed towards teenagers or the actors are playing teenagers its SO WEIRD like why are we watching people who are “teenagers” getting it on tf

hey ben!! my drama is my best friend of a year now has started acting kind of rude to me now. im not sure if shes joking or not, but she has been sorta fat shaming me lately.. i can really tell if I'm being dramatic or not, and idk if i should be ignoring it since shes mentally ill but idk what to do anymore