There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've found out that there's always a way to fix things. Five years ago, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to sort them out. It was a tough period, but we survived.

@user-sk7kd8vs2w

7 күн бұрын

I really get why what you're saying matters, and I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.

@user-yy9mt6kl3h

7 күн бұрын

Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

@user-sk7kd8vs2w

7 күн бұрын

Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.

@user-yy9mt6kl3h

7 күн бұрын

You definitely should

@patb-d2264

6 күн бұрын

I like the 'we' in your phrase. When both partners in a relationship are committed to a long-term relationship,they work things out-not 'he' or 'she' work things out. 'They.' 'We.' Very important!

No moaning,just pure joy to get out of abusive relationship.Thank you,,Next

@ericpowell4350

6 күн бұрын

You're literally assuming there was abuse AND these ladies were just innocent victims.

@kmedkwako

6 күн бұрын

@@ericpowell4350 if they are celebrating,,it must have been horrible situation they got outta I guess

@paulinekamau9633

6 күн бұрын

Did you mean mourning 😂😂😂

@blackups__6554

6 күн бұрын

It’s always the man’s fault ain’t it? And the kids suffer. I can marry a divorcee or a single mother. Marriage is not game that you get in when it’s good and jump out when in hard times. Any society where divorce is celebrated should be the last place u got to find a wife. As society becomes more matriarchal, the women become more promiscuous, divorce rates go up, single motherhood goes up, and the society stops progressing.

@shahrukhkhan8307

5 күн бұрын

it most definitely wasn't abusive.

'My ex husband shouted at me so I left' 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️ And now she's looking for husband number 3. Daaaaaaamn gurl!

@ThankGod2024

9 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@AfricanTravellerChannel

9 күн бұрын

This is not funny. They're married off very young...that's what happens when you yell at children...leave.

@_MuniraAli

9 күн бұрын

@@AfricanTravellerChannel Yes and no. Some are married off young but not all. As an African too we've grown up in settings where our mothers and grandmas knew how to press those buttons and thorough beatings! We didn't leave. Imagine if all women get shouted at in marriages, do we just walk out? She's looking for her 3rd husband, darling, the first two men can't be that wrong. At times we need patience and proper hidaya in our lives because divorce isn't something to be happy about all the time. What about children sired in all those marriages? The cycle will continue as long as some of these women have glorified divorce to be a norm! You also saw the woman who was divorced while pregnant and her child is now 4 weeks? There's no child support but this one got divorced because of being shouted at? Naaaaah..

@diamond4270

9 күн бұрын

@@_MuniraAli I understand "patience", every relationship should have that, did you realize how you contradicted yourself tho? Your moms and grandmas never had patience, and now you're wondering why others don't? You were a CHILD you couldn't leave, it wasn't about patience, make that very clear. No one should stay in a violent home, you used a terrible example

@_MuniraAli

8 күн бұрын

@@diamond4270 Maybe you misunderstood me. I meant while growing up under those women who resolved matters through beatings and yelling, we endured it and learnt alot too hence the strictness that they had made some people upright! I meant that if we handled that, can't someone bear some sabr? Some women in marriages really know how to yell and shout at their children and husbands. Communication is off. We've been raised differently and shouting at someone shouldn't be condoned as there are proper ways of handling issues but it shouldn't bring about divorce. Imagine she's looking for husband number 3 and she'll get him InShaAllah. What if she's shouted at again, how much marriages and divorce will someone go through to finally come to her senses? It boils down to your upbringing too.

If women are free to get divorce that means more chances to get away from domestic abuse. I think this freedom is fantastic compared to some other places where the consequences of trying to leave your husband could be dire.

@yas3895

11 күн бұрын

Yes the religion allows divorce but what’s annoying is certain countries hold their cultural ways above the religion. Specifically south Asian and a few middle eastern countries frown upon divorce and the community shames you for it. It’s how our religion ALWAYS gets such a bad name when in reality our religion promotes peace and puts woman on a high pedestal. They do the complete opposite and constantly make us look horrible. I’m an African Muslim and thank goodness my country puts religion before culture. Woman would divorce their husband because he isn’t pleasing her in the bedroom lol 😂

@pietrojenkins6901

11 күн бұрын

" in sickness and in health , for richer ,or poor , for better, for worse '' ... so you mean these vows mean nothing ?

@user-tm5em4vu7u

11 күн бұрын

Lmao I doubt anyone would marry you. Damn girl, have you seen yourself in a mirror? 😂 at least get in good shape . 😂

@Jennifer-uh8th

11 күн бұрын

@@pietrojenkins6901are you blind and stupid?

@JJ-qd9yl

11 күн бұрын

⁠@@pietrojenkins6901 they aren’t christian are they, they don’t say those vows and divorce is allowed

We need to normalize this worldwide❤. No one should be allowed to stay in abusive relationships, be it man or woman...

@Flower-ck2bs

11 күн бұрын

It can not be normalized. The life conditions are not the same everywhere and the traditions. If you listen properly These women do not have an easy life as divorced. And even in countries where to divorce seems to be accepted the life for divorced women and children is not easy.

@gtigrl7522

10 күн бұрын

@@Flower-ck2bs It's a start for change. That's all that matters

@abeeromesele4331

10 күн бұрын

@@Flower-ck2bs the life of a abused wife isn't easy either.

@TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni

10 күн бұрын

In Mauritania it is eomen who abuse the men, ask me how I know.

@Nami-hh2xz

10 күн бұрын

​@Flower-ck2bs Not true. In Mauritania Divorced Woman are much more sought after than single women

It’s like a baby momma/ baby daddy vibe, but they marry

Mauritanian women ! More power to you❤. I giggled when the lady said she left after being yelled at😂. Yes girl, no accepting that kind of treatment and attitude. It was refreshing to watch.

@ATSdream

7 күн бұрын

😂 they are sick

@karenkane2922

5 күн бұрын

The Devil is a Deceiver, who makes everything bad looks. If am lying just take a look at the world. Marriage is secreted in the eyes of the lord God almighty.

@winniealwayo700

5 күн бұрын

@@karenkane2922 so people should stay in toxic marriages because marriages are* sacred?"

@MegaMie77

5 күн бұрын

@@winniealwayo700 who normally yells more in general? Men or women? Now you still think yelling is "toxic marriage"?

@Foodwithoutlabels

4 күн бұрын

Women have had enough😂

That’s my ancestral home and our traditional attire. Thanks for sharing this.

@afia9641

3 күн бұрын

Divorce is fine but there is a problem. Why fathers are not accountable for not supporting their children after divorce? Is there a law of joint custody? Why only mothers are responsible for children after divorce?

Darn... He couldn't have been that bad😂😂😂. Y'all too happy. Laughing with a sparkle in your eye😂

@anasmuzamil8811

10 күн бұрын

🤣

@behuman3801

10 күн бұрын

😂

@behuman3801

10 күн бұрын

Imagine him watching this video 😂

@kajilai

10 күн бұрын

@@behuman3801 y'all just petty.

@sharinaross1865

9 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Singlehood is so underrated. If marriage is not your cup of tea it is OK to stay single and concentrate on other aspects of life instead of getting married and divorcing, worse still is bringing innocent children in to that messy cycle.

This channel always delivers when it comes to off the beaten path cultural documentaries. Well done!

It’s always good to see women supporting women. 💕

@MuzorewaRatshikuni

8 күн бұрын

Not always - because women do sometimes support each other in doing the wrong thing, or at least, in doing negative things.

@kreativeforce532

6 күн бұрын

yea lets have women worldwide pay a higher tax so women can support divorcees and baby mamas welfare needs, daycare costs oh and they should fully fund early years primary school too instead of taxing men's properties and businesses.

@comedyalbums7202

3 күн бұрын

Yeah bro 🤜🤜🤜🤜🤜🤜 , women's are getting out of hand,,,, this womrns thinks that marriage is all about love but in reality it is full of hardships,, what can u expect from Illetarates​@@kreativeforce532

Divorce is never a good thing. Men and women need to be patient in a marriage. Divorce is not good for the children; it’s not something to laugh about!

@comedyalbums7202

3 күн бұрын

Bro this womens gain only half knowledge because in the quran it's clearly said that divorse is not liked by allah,,, and so if they follow sharia then why this Illiterate womens don't allow their husbands for more wifes 😮

I lives in Mauritania, to be realistic this country is not a place to get marry. Being a good man is not a guarantee for the survival of marriage in this country. The only thing that can make marriage stable here is for the husband to accept full control by the wife and her family members. Being a figurehead husband is the only thing that will make women comfortable to stay in the marriage.

This is wonderful. I never knew there were such levels of acceptance of divorce in Africa leave alone in a Muslim country. It is a process of life and there shouldn't been any shame to it and these women are showing us exactly that.

@PlasmProductions

11 күн бұрын

⭐⭐⭐

@shaanakhtarkhan5621

11 күн бұрын

At least try to hide your anti muslim bias here please Or is it a trend to try to bash islam nowadays

@Azulakayes

11 күн бұрын

@@shaanakhtarkhan5621 lol. What is wrong with you? Where did I bash Islam or write anything phobic? Maybe learn to read properly before writing such a stupid and irrational comment to me. If you are trying to troll me, then, not today SATAN.

@cameronguinn2360

11 күн бұрын

@@shaanakhtarkhan5621 Lol can't handle criticism? How Islamic lmao.

@nathanbui7265

11 күн бұрын

​@@cameronguinn2360why do you hate people?

I'm willing to be divorced hundred times if I'm not happy with the husband so i support this women

@MuzorewaRatshikuni

8 күн бұрын

Off course you're willing. That's because you do not know how to manifest love. Perhaps you've been used to romance, but never experienced love - that's why you're willing to divorce a hundred times.

@joemol1274

7 күн бұрын

Why get married then😂😂😂

@RahulBajaj-ov3hz

7 күн бұрын

Understand their religion.. men can marry 4 at a time.. men marry and divorce like anything.. why should women suffer all the time? Wife beating is also a norm in their religion.. I know a lot of women who get beaten almost everyday😢 at least this way they're freed

@ubuntu9408

7 күн бұрын

People like you are the reason alot of men are scared of marriage

@lean8342

6 күн бұрын

@@joemol1274 don’t give up untill u found the right one lmao

All I can say is WOW 😢 ! I feel pity for the innocent children caught in between

@MuzorewaRatshikuni

8 күн бұрын

Bravo! Of the many comments here, you are one of the few who has commented on the effect on the kids.

@isabelleossey6762

6 күн бұрын

😟😟😟

@harrisre-nee3017

5 күн бұрын

Would you rather they be subjected to witnessing domestic violence in their home?

@MuzorewaRatshikuni

5 күн бұрын

@@harrisre-nee3017 Your assumption if domestic violence is too general. So, its no good to make assumptions that are not applicable to every case. The point that was made here was that if a person is not happy in their marriage, they should divorce. So that would suggestion selfish motivations on the part of the one suing for divorce - they are selfishly focused on themselves and not on the children's needs etc.

The conversation @ 15:35 was mistranslated. He said it was his wife that wanted divorce. This documentary is so biased, the women told you that they don't listen to their husband and you have the businessman in the beach telling you the women there require so much and you're saying you don't buy it!!!

@notorio526

10 күн бұрын

He was a smooth talker, anyone with sense can see that.

@piecelow2726

10 күн бұрын

Yes it was mistranslated, she wanted the divorce but he did say they speak to each other and are civil with each other. From a man's perspective, if a woman doesn't obey/listen to him, it's a bad thing. From a woman's perspective it means she gets to make her own decisions instead of obeying him like a master/slave relationship.

@rayyanshobowale7110

7 күн бұрын

İ wish this van be pinned

This can't be good. What makes a strong country are strong and stable families. If you have a weak family structure, it makes for a weak and the beginning to the end for any country.

@Istandwithreality

6 күн бұрын

You are right, the country is so weak and poor because of what you just stated.

@HomeTravelGardenInspo

5 күн бұрын

Exactly! Funny how divorce in Muslim countries is celebrated in the West, yet they are seeing the results and aftermath of single mums in the West, and are now promoting religion and marriage. This is nothing to be celebrated and it can’t be a coincidence, that’s it’s in Africa. Statistics don’t lie, so these women should be putting their children first.

@purplelove3666

4 күн бұрын

Then treat the women well and it won't be weak

@comedyalbums7202

3 күн бұрын

​​@@purplelove3666even man love wife so much they ( the wifes) will say they should deserve better

@guillermone1

2 күн бұрын

@@purplelove3666 -Its part of an ancient culture which is still alive and well today. If you don't first start to change the culture, it will be impossible to change the people.

No murder reports after a woman divorced her man because he shouted at her, this just shows that mauratanian men are mature and understanding. And these women don’t like being controlled, so sounds like Mauritania is the place for a woman who doesn’t like to be controlled😂. But it would be interesting to delve deeper into their reasons for divorce, and whether there are a lot of the divorced women that date married men there, just more insight into a life of a divorced woman there.

@arnoldmbuthia2687

3 күн бұрын

Mauritania has slavery. it was outlawed in 2007, but still widely practised.

woe to man who leaves their woman because unable to please them while pregnant. woe on them

@positivedestiny7152

4 күн бұрын

Thank you. I fould not agree better with you. You can see the pain and emotional damage in her eyes... Many men in many countries do that or go and have several other women. The truth is those men truly don't love themselves enough to understand that his mates body changes and therefore buts his little pecker ahead of him self instead of learning his mate and how her body changes even her moods(emotions). She is not a peice of dam meat or a object of mere pleasure when he desires any time.

@hassanabubakar648

3 күн бұрын

Woe to women who does not listen to their husbands

I wish they talked about why the women choose divorce if there are such dire situations afyer

@LadyMul

10 күн бұрын

The ones who’ve abandoned their children it’s obvious but am sure the reasons will be the same as everyone else in west eg infidelity, abuse, incompatibility, disputes, financial etc

@halalpolice7544

7 күн бұрын

⁠@@LadyMulinfidelity is not common in traditional Muslim societies (bc also pple are aware it has punishments even tho the governments doesn’t follow that law ) but other things are possible. Especially abandonment of children after divorce.

@karomaalta4592

5 күн бұрын

They talked about that. Men don't provide, they just leave the women to survive with the children

@TsarOfRuss

5 күн бұрын

Its the same worldwide "they aren't happy anymore" .. so they are looking for the next exciting thing

Some marriages can be hell but looking at a lady/woman that has divorced 3 times and still looking forward to another marriage, then such a lady need to work on herself.

This was an amazing glimpse into a country, a culture very far from us; THANK YOU

@abdibarri9012

7 күн бұрын

No is bad for family and morals kids grow without father is worst human If ever read phycology

@TsarOfRuss

5 күн бұрын

You bombed a country next to them.. its called LIBYA !

Do not let strangers come into your family business and spread it to the world in the wrong way. Be smart

Beautiful documentary… thanks for your work !!!

Happy Divorce! 😊🎉❤

let’s not forget that this is only a brief look into one tribe of the people of Mauritania. there are plenty of other tribes who are highly against this way of life.

@Akbgbvow

10 күн бұрын

Actually it’s 70% percent of Mauritania. The only one not following this are the tribes descended from Senegal, Mali. But the nomadic people make 70 %. Their are black and lighter nomads.

@lallatandia1117

10 күн бұрын

@@Akbgbvow again, that’s still only one tribe (berbers) even if they are the majority. Us Soninkes, Fulanis, and Wolofs still exist in the country and have different cultures from the berbers. My point is that this is just one culture in Mauritania.

@Akbgbvow

10 күн бұрын

@@lallatandia1117 and my point is that 70% is significant. I know that other tribes exist. I‘m mixed with Berbers and Wolof. The majority their is doing it and therefore u can say it’s common there

@lallatandia1117

10 күн бұрын

and that still doesn’t change that 30% of the population follows different cultures. it wouldn’t be an issue if this was just specific to berbers which again is ONE tribe 🤣. if you actually read my first comment you would see that I in fact did not say that it wasn’t common but that it was one culture out of many which is a fact. have a blessed day ☀️

@Akbgbvow

10 күн бұрын

@@lallatandia1117 well ok 😂😂 u too

Fantastic 🇲🇷docu @Underreportred World good to see you back please continue posting more content

Terrible and sad way of life. Divorce is very negatively impactful socially.

3:50 Asking for advice from a person who celebrates divorce and was probably divorced a few times.😂

Divorce is a liability, not an asset.

I enjoyed watching this so much I almost cried. Wonderful presentation. So very interesting. Excellent! A+

Their irresponsibility is in celebrating divorce. It's not solely blamed on the women, It's cultury acceptable. This is an innovation that's unlawful. They need Duas , prayers for them are Needed .

I make a vow to love you until major differences do us part.😊😊

@AfricanTravellerChannel

9 күн бұрын

Islam allows it. Don't impose your beliefs on others.

@ChadLuca

7 күн бұрын

@@AfricanTravellerChannel Islam allows what?

@halalpolice7544

7 күн бұрын

@@ChadLucaprobably she mean Islam allowed divorce as both spouse can divorce each other

The partying was fun to watch but the women with children with no support from the men who gave them children was heart wrenching😢the Mauritanians need to be serious with life, divorce is a last resort not the 1st!😂

I enjoyed this episode! It’s great to hear a positive perspective on divorce! I also appreciate learning the downsides as well.

Love this. We need to normalize leaving situations that dont serve us. ❤

@feefs2139

5 күн бұрын

Nothing is about to "serve" you. I see why so many women are unmarried or just baby mothers. The mindset is pathetic.

@gtommasino8365

3 күн бұрын

THIS is NOT normalizing leaving. Very convenient and avoidant way to look at it. These women are clearly in difficulty and the fathers have no accountability for children they have fathered.

I personally think Mauritania culture is so liberating, no stigma or shame on being divorced or not being married. Most women spend most of their life time chasing after marriage, whilst the Mauritanians run from it. I do think there’s a level of hurt and pain they go through despite the divorce celebrations, but women all over the world can learn a few things from them. That divorce doesn’t mean you are damaged goods and that your life is over, it is actually an opportunity to start a new life and be optimistic about the future and be free. This is in no way to condone divorce but to move away from the limiting stigma of divorce in our societies.

@halalpolice7544

7 күн бұрын

Tbh I think this stigma is mostly in the west world. Alhamdulilah in Muslim world especially in Africa or east Africa divorce is not stigmatised and in Islam as both spouse can divorce each other it’s the best solution in some cases.

@lizabetx483

7 күн бұрын

Mauritania is a place where slavery still exists.

@giveme24hrs72

5 күн бұрын

I feel like you didn't watch the video. They are not running from marriage, simply leaving one to try to run into another.

@thusanirabaloi9148

5 күн бұрын

I watched the entire video, I’m referring to the part of the video that says they marry young mainly due to poverty and there’s interventions to try and escape early marriage. As much as some Mauritanians parents encourage early marriage some parents are against it and send their girl child to activities that keeps the girl child away so that they enter marriage when they feel they want to and not because of societal pressures.

@thusanirabaloi9148

5 күн бұрын

I watched the entire video, I’m referring to the part of the video that says they marry young mainly due to poverty and there’s interventions to try and escape early marriage. As much as some Mauritanians parents encourage early marriage some parents are against it and send their girl child to activities that keeps the girl child away so that they enter marriage when they feel they want to and not because of societal pressures.

Its so sad😢what the innocent children are caught in due to their parents divorce.😢

Marriage is bondage. Not sure why people choose the ball and chain. It’s like a dog with a collar

@Foodwithoutlabels

4 күн бұрын

I hope alot of the young aspiring to get married know this.

This is heart breaking; the partying is just a coping style and far from joy.

""REFRESHING ATTITUDE "" AND SCAPING FROM ABUSE SO WELL DONE TO THIS WOMAN... I'M VERY PROUD FOR THEM. THEY ARE NOT STUCK WITH SHIT MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP.

I don't know about celebration but my great uncle told me that is very normal. In rural communities' women had value for their labour. So marrying a woman meant free labour and losing a woman meant loss of free labour. Divorce didn't become a problem until women only stayed home to take care of the children and it became a matter of ego rather than survival. The irony is half of the women now are breadwinners but still never claimed their leverage. Ps before you celebrate Mauritanian 'feminism' you might want to look up how they force-feed their daughters like geese for pate. When it comes to misogyny the calls often come from inside the house.

@halalpolice7544

7 күн бұрын

Damn what are you talking about? How feeding a woman who just had a child is a bad thing? We Somali also had this culture until western culture come to us and shaming body become normalised.

@sparklemotion8377

7 күн бұрын

@@halalpolice7544 what are you talking about?

Islam gives so much rights , power and strength to women …….. they can always seek divorce if they dont feel safe, not happy, not given food n money, not treated well ny her husband ……..

@AfricanTravellerChannel

9 күн бұрын

Yes

@anonymousanonymous870

7 күн бұрын

Alhamdulilah

I really like that woman celebrating divorce.❤😂

A lot of miserable loveless women in this comment section justifying malfeasant behavior because it provides context for their own misery. They have been taught to call it FREEDOM, yet they keep seeking the same "chains" to find the perfect but elusive one (a partner who literally worships them and that they can control). Pay heed to their advice at your own peril.

Divorce is positive. If people arent happy in the marriage anymore, its only a positive thing when they separate and are free to find happiness elsewhere

@MuzorewaRatshikuni

8 күн бұрын

You're delusional. If a person cannot find happiness within, they will never find it elsewhere, if by 'elsewhere', you mean another individual.

@ekg891

8 күн бұрын

@@MuzorewaRatshikuni well if they aren't happy from within then staying in the marriage is not the solution either. They should divorce, separate and find happiness. Who cares how they get that happiness in the end.

@MuzorewaRatshikuni

8 күн бұрын

@@ekg891 Your thinking is so twisted. You don't have a correct view of reality. The reason the ladies are into their third and fourth divorces is proof that divorcing is not the way to find hapiness if one is unhappy in their marriage. It's a fool's erand to go 'elsewhere' so you end up in third amd fourth marriages, etc. Finding happiness is a matter of having the life skill of how to be happy. It's about realizing that your personal happiness is not dependent on another person but on yourself alone. So those who have such a life skill can maintain happiness even when they are not getting their needs met from by their marriage partner. But you are so shallow, that speaking of deep things like this just goes over your head.

@ekg891

8 күн бұрын

@@MuzorewaRatshikuni so they should stay in miserable relationships instead? I agree that they should take some time out of being in relationships if every single one is failing. But the factors contributing to their failed marriages could also just be because men in that country aren't the best people to marry and because a lot of these ladies don't seem like they were educated so they feel the need to get married to find some financial support. Whatever the reason is, if they find themselves unhappy in the marriage, it's right to divorce. Regardless of how many times they have been married. It's better to do that than to stay in a bad situation. Your way of thinking is exactly why many of our grandmother's stayed in marriages that hurt them and made them miserable. I would have rather my grandmother remarry 4 times than to have stayed in that marriage she was in.

@MuzorewaRatshikuni

8 күн бұрын

@@ekg891 Girl, you got your knickers in a knot!!!!! You've been in a failed marriage haven't you? Or maybe a failed relationship? Judging by your thinking, you are not marriage material. You are too selfish! You expect your partner to make you happy - what a loser's mentality. Winners know how to be happy, inspite of their partners' actions or omissions. Such people are truly empowered to make a success of their relationships. A good starting point, in having a happy relationship, is understanding that the relationship is an opportunity to work on yourself, so that if you find yourself unhappy in it, what can you work, in yourself, tp bring up your level of happiness? What changes of mindset, perspective, etc are required to keep being happy. Whatever you do, if you have not yet grown up, as can be discerned from your comments, stay away from getting married. You're still a girl, not yet a woman. You still need to mature.

they think this is normal?? ending up in your old age with multiple body counts and many children with different fathers. i pray for the generation to continue like this

this is what I needed. Too funny.

In Indonesia and Malaysia I think its the same thing, a divorced women is experienced.

👍👍👍 video. Glad that there's no stigma attached to divorce and that these women throw divorce parties to move on and signify that they're ready for the next relationship and a plan to fend for themselves and children as the market for divorced women indicated. It helps that they have group support. Interesting. Thanks for sharing

Watching from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺 Thanks for sharing your vlogs. Beautiful country Mauritania 🇲🇷

In a society where divorce is glorified and celebrated instead of efforts being made to resolve issues within marriages, several disadvantages could emerge: 1) Instability for Children. 2) Erosion of Commitment. 3) Reduced Effort to Resolve Issues. 4) Economic Consequences. 5) Impact on Mental Health. 6) Social Fragmentation. 7) Negative Role Models for the Future Generations. 8) Legal System Strain. 9) Potential for Regret. 10) Undermining the Institution of Marriage.

they look so much like a perfect crossing between arabic and sub saharan coloured people. majestic!

@ApproachingPerfection

6 күн бұрын

They are not a mix actually. You see the tannish Mauritanians who have a nose bridge and don’t have wide nostrils those are amazigh, the black Mauritanians are west Africans they descend from west African slaves and migrants from Mali Senegal and other places in west Africa. The Saharan desert played a large role in separating black from non black Africa.

@MANAL83

6 күн бұрын

​@ApproachingPerfection then the amazigh people looked mixed black or East African black. They have similar facial features to Eritrean, Ethiopian, & Somali Africans who also have narrow noses with high nose bridges.

@ApproachingPerfection

6 күн бұрын

@@MANAL83 yes both east and North Africans descend from ancient natufians who originated in East Africa. West and South Africans look different because they are Niger-congo people with a different haplogroup. North and east have a haplogroup E dominant while west and South Africa and central have haplogroup L dominant.

@ApproachingPerfection

6 күн бұрын

@@MANAL83 there’s a science to phenomics it’s really fascinating

@myohmy-fb9ns

5 күн бұрын

​The Amazigh, also known as Berbers, are indeed a diverse group with a rich cultural and historical heritage. They have inhabited North Africa for thousands of years and are spread across countries such as Morocco, Algeria, Tunisia, Libya, and parts of Mali and Niger. The Amazigh identity is primarily cultural and linguistic rather than racial. The term "Amazigh" encompasses various ethnic groups who share similar cultural practices and speak dialects of the Tamazight language, though these dialects can vary significantly. This diversity is a reflection of the numerous influences and intermixing with different peoples throughout history, including Phoenicians, Romans, Arabs, and sub-Saharan Africans. In Morocco, the Amazigh population is particularly diverse, with notable groups including the Riffians in the north, the Shilha in the south, and the Central Atlas people. Despite these regional differences, there is a shared sense of Amazigh identity and a common linguistic heritage that binds these groups together. My experience as a northern Moroccan Amazigh highlights this diversity and the complex, multifaceted nature of Amazigh identity. It underscores the fact that the Amazigh are not a single, homogeneous group but a tapestry of different cultures and influences united by common linguistic and cultural threads. My grandfather was dark brown and my grandmother is very white, both amazigh.@@ApproachingPerfection

You heard what she said...Tomorrow i will put on facebook and whatsapp that am divorced, fishing for a new candidate. At 26 married 4 times and divorced 4 times and she's being praised for that. Another ignorant will try to marry her again and the cycle will repeat again.

@notorio526

11 күн бұрын

They get divorced because of dudes like you lol

@teeteeme5752

11 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@cocohow9195

11 күн бұрын

​@@notorio526💯

@FernandoTorrera

11 күн бұрын

Bruh she was sold off to some dude at age 12

@Sam-zr3ly

11 күн бұрын

@@notorio526 It isn't brilliant to marry, to begin with.

People just leaving each other 😂😂😂

@AfricanTravellerChannel

9 күн бұрын

Men creating baby mamas and leaving them or initiating divorce per the video. So the women celebrate it and prepare for the next husband

@TsarOfRuss

5 күн бұрын

You should see the divorce rate of Lesbians, its worse !! its like 90% ...but Gay people is like %20

Married at 12 years old OMG😢😢😢😢😢

@positivedestiny7152

4 күн бұрын

😢. I almost fell off my bed.

Thank you for this for this video

Life too short. Ladies, enjoy and dance until dawn 🎉😂❤

This video tickled my soul. I love it.

Societal infrastructure should be paramount, especially in the interests of the children. Finding out that you're divorced via social media has to be devastating, especially when the father sees no obstacle in leaving behind his own child.

I am feeling sad for the children who are not taken care of by their father . Financial support is the least they can do.

I find this both refreshing and disturbing at the same time. I've remained single for most of my adult life after divorce and resent when I have to fill out paperwork and it lists, married, single or divorced for me to check one. I'm single period. But my honesty makes me check the box for divorced that might as well be a box that says failure, as that is how divorced is viewed in the United States, especially for women. A single mother raising her children and a single man raising his are also viewed very differently. A single mother is seen as having baggage and looking for someone else to help carry it. But a single father who has custody of his children that he's raising alone is seen as some kind of a hero and given special treatment in the workplace, because, you know, he's raising his children alone. All praise to him. The exact opposite of what a single mother faces in the workplace and in society as a whole.

Teslem is very beautiful, she has her pick of the litter 💯

im glad those women are so strong overthere and assertive to get a divorce if they feel like its needed.And are able to remarry ofcourse as they are vieuwed as experienced in running a household.

Children are the one suffering the most as the need stability and scurity untill adults. And even after to seg them up for life no family uite . Sooo sooo sad .

It’s giving I’m marrying you but if you jeopardize me I’m out!

I love seeing different cultures❤️❤️❤️

It's a different culture where the only permissible way to have sex is through marriage; otherwise, getting pregnant would be complicated, whereas in Western culture, it is ok to have sex at a teenage, and girls have the option to keep it if they get pregnant. In Mauritanian, girls don't smoke bongs and have sex in the park; you have to understand it is a different culture. Amazing report, thank you

❤❤Thank you so much for showing us the survival mechanism of these brave souls. As you already know in some countries divorce happens to be a devastating loss of good reputation. It leads to generational poverty, alienation and self blame. Keep up the good work!!!

When people get divorced, it's the children who suffer the most. The vast majority of divorces are initiated by women in the West. A man would never leave obedient wife and there is nothing to be obedient wife. Traditionally, men's responsibility was to bring food on the table and women used to takecare of the house and children and that's seems to be good balance.

You're an excellent journalist

I've been divorced twice too. The second one was early this year. I am gonna tie the knot with my third one, Pakistani British. i hope he is the last one and won't take any divorce path under any circumstances.

@HeismyShepard

8 күн бұрын

Girl, slow your roll. You gotta put them through the vetting process before signing up for life in the Holy Matrimony.

@ChadLuca

7 күн бұрын

My sister, is he muslim?

@imgnrydv

7 күн бұрын

@@ChadLuca yes of course

@illustrious1

6 күн бұрын

The odds are not in your favor. If it doesn't work out can I come to your divorce party? I'll bring some good food.

@FactsUncompromized

5 күн бұрын

It will soon be third ..what made you fail twice will surely happen again.

I know this about divorce, but Im even more curious about the triangles in all the architecture

Poor women and children. The men totally forget their children

Mauritanian men: Women get more power from Sharia law. Pakistani men: Eh?!

Perhaps in patriarchal societies, like those found in some Arab cultures, divorce can be a liberating experience for women, bringing them joy. Thank you for sharing your insight from a unique perspective..

Damn that place is stark

I love this documentary and ones like it that focus on unique cultures from around the world. It's what I've always wanted to do and create as a world traveler. Why do some Mauritanians in the video speak Arabic and other French? Is it just based on the region they're in or from?

@mariaa0031

10 күн бұрын

They all speak their own arabic dialect which is the official language of the country, and some also speak french due to the country being colonized by france so this language is still being used in media and by a big part of the people who are well educated.

@AfricanTravellerChannel

9 күн бұрын

In Africa it's like that. Locals are free to speak colonizers languages if they want but mostly local dialects

The educational background would never improve with this custom

Much love ladies, happiness first.

@ChadLuca

7 күн бұрын

You are a cancer

I would love to visit Mauritania

It doesn't matter which religion or nation, if the MEN are USE LESS, All the Women in that Religion or Nation will be USE LESS.

@laplusbelle7982

9 күн бұрын

Women will never be useless, they are a Direct manifestation of the Divine feminine. Nice try

Love this

@Flower-ck2bs

11 күн бұрын

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@diamond4270

10 күн бұрын

@@Flower-ck2bs ?

The foolishness in some of the comments, I feel sorry for whoever will marry some of the women commenting.

When divorce, with all its adverse effects on children gets celebrated, then that society has gone to the dogs. I can confidently affirm that this reporter's demeanor will not be the same if it was the men celebrating divorce.

@HomeTravelGardenInspo

5 күн бұрын

Western propaganda at play!

This is not a flex.

@itr1794

6 күн бұрын

It's a horrible reflection on the men why are they not working and providing for their families?? Not building the community or anything. 😂

@HomeTravelGardenInspo

5 күн бұрын

@@itr1794 So the women play no role in the divorce when this “documentary” has stated it’s WOMEN who first instigated divorce and then throw a party and celebrate it. Women and men make up a society. If women build up their sons and guide them, along with the men, being a good role model, then their society will develop and they won’t need a children’s prison. The women are showing zero accountability here and have no sympathy or concern for their children. They are already looking for their next victim on Facebook and WhatsApp. Maybe they need to put their phone away and concentrate on their children. Motherhood first, or else, don’t be bringing innocent children into this cruel world. They can afford smart phone but not contraception.

Every day I learn something new.

If your wife disobey or never listen to you! What is the option.. Ofcourse Divorce her. Period.

26 and already divorced 4 times. Lovely.

Thank you for teaching me.

Very insightful documentary from a country we hardly hear anything about.

I thought Mauritian and somalia have similar cultures. In 🇸🇴somalia, divorce is shame to men because he should solve every issue in the family. Sometimes, men moves out of the house for months until everything solved through the family then he came back to the house and wife.

@Naisa641

10 күн бұрын

Benta iska wll Inta hoyo yanyo Iyo moos suuqa lataagan aaway waxii caruurta aabo U ahaa Niman aad U badan oo Somali ah xaaskisa malinto furay caruurtiina la furay

@hopesaid5096

10 күн бұрын

@@Naisa641😂😂😂😂 beentas bay dadka ugu sheekeyan niman jiro at is moodan❤badan kood naagtana markey furan xaqeeda ma siyan

@Naisa641

10 күн бұрын

@@hopesaid5096 🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂 waan yaabay

@Abdihakin.

10 күн бұрын

Somaliada Gobolo badan baa qoyska inu burburo ceeb iyo cay raga kutahay . Hooyoyin Qudaar suqa ku gada iyago la qabo, howl Kar bay hayeen. inamadiina hada soo kacay oo caruurti ay dhaleen, Musasal film iyo tiktok oga mashqulay ma ahan.

@hopesaid5096

10 күн бұрын

@@Naisa641 farax faan beena meesha ku haya 😂😂 ceebtiissa wadankiisay ka muuqata

There is nothing to be celebrated here...the trauma on the kids. There is a deeper issue for women or even men to marry and remarry so many times without accountability and the kids affected.

😢 easily this is freelancing $ex in short term marriage while creating children on the way. 😭

@MANAL83

6 күн бұрын

Not even close. At least the women are the ones choosing to divorce in Mauritania. In the west baby momma/daddy culture has woman chasing the man & having his kids with no hope of being his wife, all while he simultaneously has relations (& babies) with other women.

Tbh it’s a religious country and they believe in celibacy till marriage so many get married early but it doesn’t always last. It’s like how most non-Muslims don’t stay with their first/second/third boyfriend forever. Sometimes people don’t find a suitable match till after a few tries. But they don’t have boyfriends they just get married straight up.

These gals party

More power to them 💪 ❤

🎉Beautiful documentary Liberating or sad. Everyone has a story, but I salute the woman of Mauritania for having self-respect. Mashallah 😂