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DIVORCE COURT Full Episode: Bradshaw vs Tiller
Ter'Asia wants Judge Lynn to tell the father of her two kids to put a ring on it.
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Ter'Asia wants Judge Lynn to tell the father of her two kids to put a ring on it.
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Why are people never ready for marriage, but ready for kids
@ForeverLumoz
7 жыл бұрын
Royal One Right?? Somehow they always have an idea about how "I'm not ready for the commitment of marriage". Seriously?? Marriage can be broken of by divorce if everything is lost at some point. It shouldn't be easy, but it's possible as a last resort. Kids are for ever. They'll be there until you die.
@me6ur
7 жыл бұрын
Royal One they think kids deserve seeing two people who are not even serious about each other raise them.
@deewavy7182
7 жыл бұрын
A dysfunctional culture that celebrates more baby showers to unwed mothers than weddings is black folks biggest problem in America besides racism. This gives black women a pass to wear being a single unwed mother like a badge of honor.
@fdmg
7 жыл бұрын
because biology is easy; just follow your instincts. But marriage is complicated.. not instinctual.
@fdmg
7 жыл бұрын
the woman has the child.. if anyone is getting a pass, it's the fathers... isn't it?
Judge Toler: "... a man is not a plan!" Me: "Amen!" 🙌🏽
@bp716
7 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Owens IT IS FOR ME BIIHHHH
@sisteryaya24
7 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@susannac5416
7 жыл бұрын
omg yes boiii
@angeliqueesprit9940
7 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Owens I love that! I had to take a mental note myself.
@YoungVon22293
7 жыл бұрын
cough cough** unless hes rich
im baffled!! IF HE CHEATED WHILE YOU WERE PREGNANT WITH THE FIRST CHILD ....WHY HAVE ANOTHER!! UGH
@claresamorris6731
5 жыл бұрын
Thirsty
@sharonjackson268
5 жыл бұрын
Why stay with bim? Girl bye.
@JeNn0mic0n
5 жыл бұрын
Because, like an idiot, she thinks bringing another child into the world is gonna hold him down and make him behave. If he won't even act right after the first baby, why would he change after the 2nd? If anything, having more kids makes him think he can get away with cheating or whatever else. Smfh..
@elleofhearts8471
5 жыл бұрын
@@JeNn0mic0n please stfu. you have no idea what it's like to be her. No reason to be so damn judgemental and self righteous when you've never been where shes been. Why aren't you blaming the shitty boyfriend for not leaving her because he knows hes shity and she deserves better than him?
@raqui174
5 жыл бұрын
She’s an idiot.. women that have nothing else to then run after a guy and open there legs
"Do your daughters have COLLEGE FUNDS?" Wow, she went RIGHT for the jugular. Love this woman.
Lmao what? I really don't understand how someone can have kids with someone so casually but then flinch at the thought of marrying that same person. When did things get so backwards???
@katelynn767
7 жыл бұрын
True. But she should have enforced marriage before popping out kids. Can't expect him to marry her now. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
@christinamartinez8132
7 жыл бұрын
bribri0786 + When kids started having kids.
@FreshaDenaMofo
7 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people get pregnant accidentally, you know. Not everyone plans it.
@potty7479
7 жыл бұрын
Lansana Camara -- That's a excuse that would have worked maybe 60 years ago. There are so many methods of birth control. It's impossible in most cases to say opps I "accidentally" had sex and didn't Renner that's how a baby is made. No such thing as accidentally got pregnant.
@FreshaDenaMofo
7 жыл бұрын
Potty Maybe I worded it poorly. I agree that there are obvious ways to prevent pregnancy. I was referring to the fact that said methods are not 100% preventative, and thus people can still get pregnant even when taking the right steps to avoid it.
It always kills me when I hear couples like this say they are not ready for marriage and that kind of commitment, yet they have kids together. Having kids together is just as big of a commitment as marriage. If you're not sure about them for marriage, don't have kids with them either.
@TheCarnivoreSoprano
7 жыл бұрын
MissesNova yes indeed!
@dorrettp1339
7 жыл бұрын
MissesNova the young man proved teachable...that's a good thing
@sisteryaya24
7 жыл бұрын
It seemed so. I hope so.
@YoungVon22293
7 жыл бұрын
but who says these kids were planned...couldve been slipups.
@jaredlhulum
7 жыл бұрын
well, plan not to have them; it's really that simple, trust me, i know
Gotta give that dude credit. He soaked up everything Judge Lynn Toler had to say and took it to heart and reflected. Some of these doofuses (or is the plural doofi?) just don't get it at all and lie through their teeth. I have hope for these two. They seem willing to learn and understand, not just do what they want.
@kerrywhite5253
6 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@taburrellable
4 жыл бұрын
I lost it at "doofi" LOLOL I just love the people that comment on these videos!!
@Simply3ddy
3 жыл бұрын
The doofi was when i lost!!! But every thing else is FACTS!!!!
@sirisaacmormont5445
3 жыл бұрын
DOOFI XD
@gailsmith836
3 жыл бұрын
Doofus 2.0
This guy looked like he really had a few epiphanies while judge Lynn was speaking to him.
@October3074
7 жыл бұрын
Mitylene Bailey hopefully so.
@mitylene_bailey
7 жыл бұрын
hope so....sometimes stuff we think is just common knowledge to us may have never come across the mind of some other folks just because they are in a different part of their journey in life. Hopefully he can turn around for the sake of his girls
@angelicelaina200
7 жыл бұрын
Right Mitylene. That's why although he sounded pretty foolish, I kind of think he deserves the benefit of a doubt.
@angelicelaina200
7 жыл бұрын
Interesting point Unicorn Cowboy.
@sisteryaya24
7 жыл бұрын
That's what I said before I even saw your comment. He was actually listening to what she had to say and taking it to heart. I hope so.
I can't imagine being 22 and having two kids, wow.
@tamianicoledoingme3007
6 жыл бұрын
He is so immature
@dwayneevans683
4 жыл бұрын
@@tamianicoledoingme3007 No he,s not immature, He quite mature, just need some real man gidance, He,s young and spending tons on money on his bling, He opionated , and nieve, But as a black man growing up you have to be tuff to survive those streets! He jus need to wise up, fighting with the police is unacceptable that could of gone south real fast!
@princesszainyy50
3 жыл бұрын
I got married at 19, but didn't have my daughter until I was 24 and then my son at 27. It was good that we waited and understood each other.. if it didnt work it would just be us seperating and no one else would suffer. When we felt the time was right, we had our 1st child..then had our 2nd and now im.expecting the third by the grace of God. And also 9 and a half years of marriage and continued on.
@aimenkhan368
3 жыл бұрын
Lol I'm 20 and am flinching at the thought
@lerrylee8711
3 жыл бұрын
@@dwayneevans683 well said 👏 👏👏
Here's good advice: Don't have a child before you get married (if you want to get married to your partner). More advice: people don't change, and ring doesn't mean anything. Last advice: Use protection if you are not ready to have children.
@islammirghani4785
7 жыл бұрын
Arbitorriku2 on point
@MsTemptation23
7 жыл бұрын
Arbitorriku2 AGREED!!! idk why women have kids with these boys and then after they have kids want to get married!! Did their parents teach or show them how it's supposed to be done. I got married first then we had our son. No cheating or lying in our marriage. Communication and trust are the best part to having a successful marriage.
@sisteryaya24
7 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that it all worked out for you but there are plenty of marriages where someone is cheating, and or lying. The divorce rate in America is around 50-60% so there is obviously no guarantee for a happily ever after even with marriage. But I do agree with you, marriage first, children afterwards is a better way to go, at least that way you may have a deeper commitment and some legal protection.
@MsTemptation23
7 жыл бұрын
YaYa thanks for the kind words. Marriage is a beautiful union and it's sad people don't keep their vows.
@tmacrooks31
7 жыл бұрын
Well said :)
Judge Lynn never disappoints me. I've been watching a lot of those type of shows. The ONLY judge that can make me emotional like this is Judge Lynn. Nobody else comes even close to her. She is an absolute gem.
@lisab6177
Жыл бұрын
I totally agree! I was just telling my self that today no offense to Star ( she is like the newest divorce court ) but she ain't got nothing on Judge Lynn Toler 💕 she's awesome 😎
"Your daughters will put up w/ what their mother puts up w/ today." My lawd 🙉. That, is a man who just had a Damascus road moment. Truly hope they do better for the babies.
@uzojenny8645
3 жыл бұрын
😁😁
@qodeshcreative
2 жыл бұрын
YESS lol! This cracked me up.
The judge is gorgeous!!
@claresamorris6731
5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Woman.Intelligent Educated Sophisticated. very Classy Now this is what You Call Diva.
@prissylips7508
5 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS doing it...
@ileanasantamaria2364
3 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS
@dwayneharris9182
3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@clarencejohnson5529
3 жыл бұрын
She's a real woman and beautiful with brains
Judge talking to him like thats her son, she really wants better for him. This Judge is Amazing
The guy may look stubborn, but I think he has an ear. He can listen when someone speaks, it is just that he is still young in some other issues of life. I do have hope for him. The lady loves the guy. Splitting is not an option for her. She wants to be with the guy, despite the fact that he's acting this way. I believe they will be fine together.
@kareenwatson6084
4 жыл бұрын
Agree and if they work on themselves
@dwayneevans683
4 жыл бұрын
The guy is more mature than her, He was also able to listen and take good advice, but they are bout really young. So hopefully he can mature before he get his self in serious problem, Fighting the police is definitely not a good idea, that could of end real bad for him! I think he just need a serious older mentor to guide him alone the way! to show him that he has to change his dont care attitude! As that mentality will cause him his life!
I saw a spark⚡️ There is some intelligence in that young man.
@LonginusBoyGenius
4 жыл бұрын
I saw it too! He experienced some epiphanies when the Judge was speaking to him! Hopefully he can start investing that $600+ every month instead of buying shoes! Good luck to him and her!
they're not ready. he's not a bad guy.. just hasn't matured
they still young and are definitely not ready for marriage. he can't even save money but got over 100 pairs of shoes smh. ridiculous.
@kimsleep4111
6 жыл бұрын
I would love to see her say that to a woman
@michaelwalker6256
6 жыл бұрын
504Thickbeauty: I bet ya she has changed more weave than the number of shoes he got in the same time period. She needed to have been on some birth control. These folks acting the fool.
Honestly, they're just 2 good people, nothing wrong with them at all, all what they need is to get lessons from life in order to handle any issues they might face in the future...😊 i really wish you the best, you both are amazing and you gonna make it...😊
@StefaniePointer
7 жыл бұрын
Islam Mirghani my thoughts exactly!
@monkamdominic6262
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks ,this is the most reasonable comment so far...❤ ...the world. is made up of bunch of people who don't shit.
@sisteryaya24
7 жыл бұрын
I agree, they're young and aren't fully cooked yet. Having children makes it even more complicated.
@ashanticrawford6033
7 жыл бұрын
I just posted the same thing
@mauveworld4790
6 жыл бұрын
I love this comment
judge spoke to their souls with this one🫣 the way she told both of them to boss up was awesome🥰🥰🥰 I pray they work out, well mannered and beautiful souls they were
soulja boys cousin FOR REAL
@travisporter357
7 жыл бұрын
CHIEDU .J OCHEI lol thought the same
@October3074
7 жыл бұрын
CHIEDU .J OCHEI I was trying to figure out who he reminded me of.
@OhSo805
7 жыл бұрын
CHIEDU .J OCHEI 💀💀💀💀💀💀 I kept saying to myself "This baby Soulja Boy looking kat." lol
@humixmusic4lyf
7 жыл бұрын
OMG! YAS! my exact same thoughts.
@llaming4055
7 жыл бұрын
Tell em'
Mmm.... that speech at the end 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@MartianBlues11
7 жыл бұрын
bribri0786 Judge was preaching
@angelicelaina200
7 жыл бұрын
That was deep.
@hanslesolo
7 жыл бұрын
bribri0786 she is so wise. love it
@CS-pl1re
7 жыл бұрын
Britt Brat exact. but i think this kid is not a dummie he was verry respectful too
I love you judge toler, the advice you giving them is so deep and power almost got me in tears from relationship heartache, I hope he takes the advice
@asabifatosin1150
5 жыл бұрын
Lakia Reed Yes, I was teary too.
Children shouldn't have children! Your age doesn't make you an adult, your actions decide how old you are. I've seen 50 year old children and 19 year old adults. If you're child like in thought and behavior, please don't reproduce. 😑😒
How does a 22 year old have a sneaker collection worth $10 grand? Where did he even get that money? I swear, people's priorities are trash. They can't wake up on time for work/ won't go to school, but can find hundreds of dollars to get some Jordan's and will camp outside the damn footlocker for a week just to get a pair. Folks are goofy as hell.
@asouthernwriter
7 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues - I know right. I accumulated $10k in student loans. Didn't have the extra $$$ to spend on shoes lol
@hangtyme765
7 жыл бұрын
+ASouthernWriter(JJTV) -- I clicked on your name and was just browsing your playlist. I was just wondering, are you a fan of tommy sotomayor, jesse lee Peterson, and Donald Trump? I'm just asking, and I won't have an opinion either way.
@Arbitorriku2
7 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues You can thank society for that: brainwashing people of color to become materialist and value a pair of sneakers than their own lives
@Arbitorriku2
7 жыл бұрын
Chris Porter not just in the black community, but in ever color community.
@wandanderisha
7 жыл бұрын
No Name Regardless of his economic status... those are ridiculous things to waste your money on... this is why there is no legacy, no fortune to leave to children so they can have a better life, because instead of investing young people are spending. Ridiculous.
I really like that guy. He really listened & learned something. I feel his mom raised him right. He's going to turn out a good man with time, growing, and with this new understanding.
@Michelle-pn9xt
3 жыл бұрын
His mom??? Men have to take care of their kids too!
@lesliejohnson-nelson4003
2 жыл бұрын
@@Michelle-pn9xt exactly, that's the world today
LOL.... when the girl took out the pictures of the closet the dude was like "where you get that from"
she is so pretty...but she lacks wisdom and sense... with 2 kids she needs to grow up
@pookienempooky9339
7 жыл бұрын
M Lov It is her mama fault. She was not taught better. This would not be my daughter.
@allnaturalindigo4893
7 жыл бұрын
Pookienem Pooky it's always the mama's. always.
@camerkiddo
7 жыл бұрын
Pookienem Pooky Uh uh don't put that shit on her momma without no evidence.
@kobebryant6576
6 жыл бұрын
Most of these women don't think before they start typing!
@Michelle-pn9xt
4 жыл бұрын
He needs to grow up too. Why do some people think men never have to grow up?
These two will not be happy if they get married. It's too bad that they already have two kids, they didn't give themselves time to be adults before having kids.
@yadielcortes9197
6 жыл бұрын
cant judge a relationship on a 20 min video
@destinylong6134
6 жыл бұрын
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@blackrider4247
6 жыл бұрын
YADIEL CORTES.... 1 CORINTHIANS 7:2kjv... FLEE FORNICATION. GOD IS NOT BLESSING FORNICATING RELATIONSHIPS PERIOD
@johnbueybuey6229
6 жыл бұрын
Too young, yet they have 2 kids before marriage. Absolutely stupid...
@johnbueybuey6229
6 жыл бұрын
They are just too young and niave, where are their parents to advise them...
When the judge said "women don't know how to leave men alone" especially after concrete evidence of stuff. smh! We got to do better ladies so that they will be forced to do better by us!
@haiderawilhite5332
3 жыл бұрын
Amen !!! This comment by the judge was a standout one for as well.
@emmierain728
2 ай бұрын
So true!!!
I love judge Lynn Toler! She is inspiring!
@therealone8628
6 жыл бұрын
Rave Johnson yes she is!!!!
@claresamorris6731
5 жыл бұрын
A Beautiful Woman.
I love Judge Toler..she's going to tell you what it is, whether you like it or not. More people need to be like that. The reason people usually receive her rebuke or encouragement is because she actually cares about the people in front of her. She has boldness and confidence that we all could learn something from,
@Tom-ob8yb
2 жыл бұрын
Right on. The Judge shows her true character. Well said.
They sure are a Beautiful couple! I bet their kids are gorgeous😊
I love that guy, simple because he listened....I wish we could have more of these young couples who just need some perspective and direction...wishing them both all the best...The young lady should also listen...
@pookienempooky9339
7 жыл бұрын
I like him. I think he heard what the judge said. I think he will be okay. The person I was at 22 wasn't familiar to my 32 year old self. You change so much in 10 years. I hope the young woman works on herself and not have any more children until she gets husband.
I love judge toler word of advice. Thats why i watch her everyday. Its wonderful to see a woman with so much wisdom and knowledge.
I have watched MANY Divorce Court cases and this is the FIRST that I have seen where the man opens the gate for the lady upon exiting....
@vernaereed1810
3 жыл бұрын
Mine too....he got kudos from me for that effort alone... I hope these two can make it!
what I don't fucking understand is why people think marriage is a perpetual lockdown on your life but having kids isn't? you can get divorced from that person, be done with it and never see that person again. having kids, on the other hand, is a lifelong, forever commitment that WILL tie you to that person until the day you die. fucked up mentality.
@SuperMissy19
7 жыл бұрын
Valerie H so true they rather have kids without getting married. than getting married without having kids. which is weird because they afraid of commitment but having kids all over the place with 60 different women
@allnaturalindigo4893
7 жыл бұрын
Valerie H very well put. I will use this in my next speech
@Adgegbe50ag
6 жыл бұрын
Valerie H facts💯
@mysteriouslady3198
6 жыл бұрын
Valerie H Amen!
@oneone637
6 жыл бұрын
Valerie H ....I agreed with you 100% being married doesn't guarantee anything.
I love Judge Tolin's advice. This young man is smart but immature and she is anxious to get married. She needs to go back to school, they both do.
@Michelle-pn9xt
4 жыл бұрын
The woman is the same age. She is also young.
@Michelle-pn9xt
3 жыл бұрын
Her last name is Toler.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@MargieM.Jamison
3 ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@andrewvasilyev3540
3 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@MargieM.Jamison
3 ай бұрын
Her name is Chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@andrewvasilyev3540
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@Melissa-ps1ye
18 күн бұрын
Keep trying, buddy don't give up! Wishing you the best
It wasn't wise to be violent with the cop but at least he was protective towards her. Wrong choice but perhaps right intention.
"I ain't giving her a ring and I'm unhappy." But, you'll have some babies?? That's crazy.
@dwayneevans683
4 жыл бұрын
Well i dont blame him, if he's unhappy and things are bad now , u can imagine wat well happen if they get married! By the way marriage is design for women not for men! Its society way of legally binding you to their corrupt system ,then turning you around, to get FUCK up your ass!
@ileanasantamaria2364
3 жыл бұрын
@@dwayneevans683 The man who got to marry the brilliant, beautiful, self-aware judge Lynn Toler didn't get screwed. He got the best deal in town. Men dismissing marriage out of hand like they know every last woman should be so lucky. Companionship, when it's good, enriches people immeasurably.
@ileanasantamaria2364
3 жыл бұрын
And the judge said "a man ain't a plan", so women could very easily give up on marriage, as very often we're the ones who end up losing out. It's not a zero sum game though, ultimately.
@dwayneevans683
3 жыл бұрын
@@ileanasantamaria2364 Yea and how do you know he got the best deal in town, she's not not all there! She herself admits her short comings! She's not 100% stable! She has her psychologists on speed dail! Furthemore you dont know what goes on behind closed doors! She cant cook and im not sure if she cleans up at all! maybe he does all that, female stuff and wears an apron! People can put on fronts in public for many years, so u cant know what really goes on behind the scenes! Furthermore you goona pick a needle out of a hay stack and post a comment ! You wanna comment on one -in a million marriages, where the women is the bread winner, what about the 999,999.00 other relationship where we men bring home and control the money! Im sure there is animosity in their Relationship, because its a man ego that dictates that he should be the PROIVIDER and bring home the Big BUCKS to take care of his family! Thats the way GOD design it to be and thats the way it should be! He might not say anything to her about it, but im sure it eats at him! And like i said before marriage was design for women not for men!
@ileanasantamaria2364
3 жыл бұрын
@@dwayneevans683 And he's without any faults, sinless and spotless? How do you know, since you don't have any more of an insider view than I do into this particular marriage, how much she has supported him and tolerated his flaws? A good marriage consists of give and take, not in a transactional sense, but in a way that, on a day when one partner is weak, be it the man or the woman, the other holds him or her up. And for every marriage you mention where the woman falls short in the ways you mention (which includes a whole lot of stereotyping, because women and men have many different interests that aren't so strictly dictated by gender - what if a man prefers to cook and a woman ends up, say, earning more?), I've seen, up close, marriages where the woman is the breadwinner and the man is getting a degree and she's supporting him. Your utterly bleak, pessimistic view is obviously informed by your own experience, and I'm sorry it's been so grim. I've seen good marriages and bad, and the only available human beings are ones with flaws. Even so, God did say it is not good for man to be alone, so here we are. Blrssings and peace to you, Sir.
Judging from what the young man said outside the courtroom compared to what he said in the courtroom I got the feeling that he was really listening to her advice. I hope he puts it into action before that beautiful young woman who loves him, leaves him.
I don't understand how teenagers will get themselves entangled with meaningless relationships 😏 get pregnant and still want to hang around with these no goods. Get a life, get a job, get your priorities straight, go to school, stay in school, get into meaningful relationships & make your own world beautiful. How hard is that ?
best line of the show? "A MAN IS NOT A PLAN." Welfare offices, social security offices and high schools ought to post that simple but powerful message in very large print on the walls to impress upon women that very notion. there ought to be a STAMP with that message causd id stamp every young womans forehead with it. its all about having OPTIONS.
@Bloombaby99
7 жыл бұрын
Walker Pantera Right! And the sad part is, the people who need welfare can't get it because of these procreate-for-profit whore moms know that babies are the way to get government money.
Despite all of his indiscretions I find him somewhat more tolerable than her
@lawandaherminstyne9646
6 жыл бұрын
Adriana Alicia I agree
@brishaberries0101
5 жыл бұрын
He's more intuitive than her, he is a thinker. She is immature and bratty. All of his concerns are very valid as to not wanting to marry her.
@Shabzana
5 жыл бұрын
What no!! she just seems like a regular girl tryna have a family with a boy who wont grow up, she knows how to speka up for herself but she wants her 'man' to pick up the pace too. even though theyre both kids!
@nubian77
3 жыл бұрын
@@Shabzana lol why can’t people see this. This common has the most sense honestly
"He has to man up" She wants him to love her out of obligation not volition. He'll be leaving her asap if that's the definition of her mindset.
I like the dude...he's not a dummy
@brishaberries0101
5 жыл бұрын
All his concerns were valid.
@michaellineberger6137
3 жыл бұрын
He sounds like a really conscious young man..
I bet the daughter's are GORGEOUS! Sigh typical 22 year olds. But they are good people. So with time one day they will wake up and realize they are not whom they use to be. Childish things grow old and having security in different aspects of life feel so liberating one wants nothing more for their family. I really hope they stay together. Being with your highschool sweetheart and growing together can be very hard, but keeping others out and the love in is the key to a successful future with one another. I believe in them and I hope they both will achieve in their future endeavors.
So wise! Judge Toller spoke so much truth!
I think they'll be ok. They just need some time to mature.
@sandrahunter5904
7 жыл бұрын
1234JANA i think you're right
@YT4Me57
6 жыл бұрын
1234JANA The babies don't have time for them to mature. The parents need to grow up now. In most other countries, age 22 IS GROWN. These two are still playing "house".
@claresamorris6731
5 жыл бұрын
And The Proper Positive Intelligent Guidance towards Life.
@roseroach8886
4 жыл бұрын
N.
Can we get judge Lynn to write all this great speeches in a book please?
The fact that he was still in his daughter's lives, and with their mother is a great start...I hope they grow deeper in love and get married when the time is right
I'm sure that these two young people heard what the judge told them. It will be fine in the future for them. I'm sure of this. God Bless you judge for your wisdom! Any child would be blessed to have a mother like you. That's why I love this show!
Marriage is work but doesn't work like pixie dust to save a relationship filled with infidelity .
The judge gave me chills with this one.
That bare minimum speech was so raw and beautiful it damn near brought me to tears.
Judge Toler read him for filth. I think it triggered something in him though to help him change for his daughters.
There's nothing really too wrong with these two, but I think they are a little too young and immature right now (I think him a little more than her) You can't be scrapping with the cops and spending $100s a month on shoes when you've got kids at home. You just can't. They need to grow up before they start doing grown folks things like having more kids. Let's hope they wrap it up/use birth control. Let's hope they get it together for the sake of those little girls that they already brought into the world. I really hope it works out for them even if they don't end up together. The judge gave them some bomb ass advice. That was straight fire at the end there! 🔥🔥🔥
@dorrettp1339
7 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues but they both seem teachable and willing to move in an upward direction
I love this lady Judge Lynn Toler. i believe she surely got to this young man. 👍👍👍
I really believe being on this court show changed his life... He's a good guy and she means well. They more than likely will work and marry. Judge Lynn is a great Counselor.
@jacquibailey7460
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, they just need some guidance...
did yall see him looking around like soulja boi 6:22 my life 😂😂😂😂
@lifewithshanareareborns7274
7 жыл бұрын
Prissy Brey bitch yes lol
@YoungVon22293
7 жыл бұрын
hey dont call out my fav rapper
@TheKeddronb
6 жыл бұрын
Prissy Brey I know u
He actually listened, didn't get defensive no matter how difficult it was to hear. I know men 2-3 times his age who cant do that. He's grown within a matter of minutes.
This was an amazing episode! I'm so glad he was able to have a reality check of that magnitude and I hope that they grow and do what's right for those babies!
This judge she ought to be in the head of UN Supreme court, the way she solving issues its terrific brilliant, her humour and shining face, is stronger enough to heals the entire world problems.
Good enough to procreate with but not marry? Blimey
@TheCarnivoreSoprano
7 жыл бұрын
HM S always
@nwate7
7 жыл бұрын
HM S why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
@devinpondexter6898
6 жыл бұрын
hey that's how she let it happen.
@cheyb2257
3 жыл бұрын
@@nwate7 your thinking is why women shouldn’t have sex with a man who isn’t her husband
Young women don’t know how to leave a man!! And the choir said amen! I ended a three year relationship in a telephone call AND I had an engagement ring When you have enough you’ve had enough..
Proud of you black man for realizing learning & taking heed of wisdom provided to you. The best things in life are free!
Judge : Get your stuff and leave him, end of story Me: Easier said than done
@islammirghani4785
7 жыл бұрын
EvelynLove Fosu-Duah right!
@ForeverLumoz
7 жыл бұрын
EvelynLove Fosu-Duah True, but necessary.
@sisteryaya24
7 жыл бұрын
I've been in her position and that's what I would do to, immediately! I waited 3 years and that was way too long.
@MsFitKitty
7 жыл бұрын
EvelynLove Fosu-Duah no it's not lol step 1: found out he's cheating step2: get clarification step3: let the person know your decision. Step4: move on
@jaredlhulum
7 жыл бұрын
it isn't, if you don't have tolerance for abuse, disrespect, and disloyalty
I'm in love with judge Lynn...😍😍😍😍😘😎
Why are they dressed like they are going to the mall? 😂
@TheCarnivoreSoprano
7 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues lol!
@uniqwiab8679
7 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues young and dumb
@jamsng
7 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues dwl you sooo bad!!
@jamsng
7 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues lol cause it look like that's his favourite place lol he got all them damn sneakers and clothes.
@allnaturalindigo4893
7 жыл бұрын
Toni-Ann Stewart and hers is Weave! why do black women love Weave so much? smdh
Judge Lynn is so wise and she is joy to watch. I hate that she is leaving and the new DC platform has changed so much.
I actually really liked this young man. Sure he's young and immature but he came across as respectful and having the potential to take Judge Toler's advice and grow. I don't think that the young lady should stay by him enabling him and waiting for that growth but I honestly wish the two of them (four, including the daughters) the absolute best.
everything Judge lynn had to say about his girls one day running into a him and accepting the bare minimum was DEAD ON!!! I think soulja boy fast forwarded into the future and saw exactly what she was describing and woke up. this was a good episode
I love her!! She tells it like it is and she would be a great motivational speaker
I also feel like he really heard the judge about his daughters!
I love how passionate Lynn gets over children.
I'm getting annoyed by the fact that we always reproach girls for not using birth control when actually both partners can use protection. Now boys believe that it is not so much their job to care about it. Both are equally responsible.
@charlesanderson1422
4 жыл бұрын
Tyler Joseph You can see where that type of hood logic has the community today.
@KemoneArmstrong
2 жыл бұрын
it's because the women end up alone with the kids.
@tylerjoseph7411
2 жыл бұрын
@@KemoneArmstrong Boys not giving birth doesnt mean they are less responsable of the kid. If you use that reason to justify why you teach girls more about birth control, you're silently telling boys that it's less of their business, which it should'nt be.
I'm surprised the judge's blood pressure isn't through the roof with talking to all these nut jobs! I applaud her🙌🏻
@edm5166
6 жыл бұрын
Ashtyn Emerson you have a beautiful smile!!
I love this episode. The look on both their faces at the end is the realization that they're not just in this for them but for the tiny humans they have created together.
#1..i bet she a leo....and #2 i LOVE the way Judge Lynn Toler not only give them a verdict but she ACTUALLY TEACHES OR “TRY” to teach them a life lesson💯🙏🏽🔥
the fact that she wants to marry a man who is so reckless with money is insane to me. This man has at least a 10 grand sneaker collection and nobody is calling him out on this.
@BWillz
6 жыл бұрын
So..I'm pretty sure she knew he loved shoes when she met him, pretty sure she was concerned about his looks, so why complain now..
Too much paperwork lolll 😂😂😂
@BWillz
6 жыл бұрын
Lol smart man
man judge Lynn is one of the best judge out there. she is so real and down to earth!
I love how honest this judge is. It's obvious how passionate she is about her job and helping others:)
Well it was clear from the beginning that these two should not get married. Sad too because of the kids. I try to tell people all the time once you have kids being an idiot is over. Hanging out when you want, getting drunk all night and passing out behind the liquor store, taking it back to the college-day thinking and having a four day weekend instead of three, to really reflect on you and what you want and feel, pop up and decide to go play pool on your last money. Gone. The earlier you get that in your head the better everything will turn out.
@stephensmith5724
7 жыл бұрын
you don't need a ring to be married when you have sex that is marriage buying a ring and getting marriage certificate is all bs man the government want you to get marrriage certifcate just to tax you.
@October3074
7 жыл бұрын
johnny bravo I'm sorry but "passing out behind the liquor store" made me lol.
@ForeverLumoz
7 жыл бұрын
Stephen Smith Sadly, having sex and making babies doesn't make anyone secure in case of emergency and death. Sadly that's the truth. You might have a kid or two with someone, but if that person die and papers aren't made, then you'll loose it all. House, car, everything your name isn't on.
@jrshakinah
7 жыл бұрын
October3074 lmao it made me too and I can still do it cause I have no kids yet. Woohoo!!! Lol!
@marciareid9689
7 жыл бұрын
leave the couple alone, if they want to pop kids its their bodies. it is natural to have children..
People tend to forget how 22 is. They are young, and I think they just have to go through life to learn. You people are so evil sometimes. I hope the judge opened his eyes... hers won't open until much later I'm afraid.
@dorrettp1339
7 жыл бұрын
Krystal Roney no....they have children, so they need to remember that for better future of their children and the community, they need to grow up
@sm.6105
6 жыл бұрын
Krystal Roney they have children. They don't have room to be 22 anymore.
@dearmary9704
6 жыл бұрын
exactly! all this needing to act like 22 thing is over
@DH-rt6fl
4 жыл бұрын
the only way to grow is to live..to experience. so they will grow, alongside their children. they just need to focus on their kids and their short/long term wellbeing, and love them, and they’ll be alright
@thegoldenb7280
3 жыл бұрын
Being young isn’t an excuse when it comes to kids
He seems like he took her advice to heart. I hope so cause it was great advice. 👏👏👏👏 JUDGE TOLER IS THE REALEST.
I saw more than 30 shoes. Lets say $200 a pop thats $6000 he was blind to. But the mentality before he walked in was Im good, i deserve them.
A man is not a plan. DEEP
It takes more maturity to be a good parent than to be a good spouse. That's why it's best to practice being a good partner, and learn the fine art of compromise while both getting your needs met, before you become parents. Once you are parents, you both need to be prepared to take a back seat to your children's needs for some time.
This is why I love this judge. She just change that guy's life forever. She touched his soul with her words. That was beautiful to see, a tear came to my eye at the end.
60 seconds in . I see he has a shoe collection worth 10,000 dollars. That does not sound like the priorities of a grown man. They will not work. She just doesn't want to be known as a baby mama. It's not worth being unhappily married, as he said.
@allnaturalindigo4893
7 жыл бұрын
Andriel Long she's already baby mama, too late 4 that!
I'm very impressed by this couple especially the young man..They're young so their immaturity is evident but I can see them becoming contributing human beings down the line.
I’m so glad these two had this opportunity. I feel the judge touched this young man and her words will forever be with him. Hopefully he can man up for his girls 🧡🧡
Judge Lynn's advice was so on point! I love the fact that Josh actually listened to it and decides to treat his lady better. I hope he applies it.
I can relate A LOT to this young couple!! I see a glimpse of my husband's and my past. My husband was selfish at 20 and thought buying the latest pair of Jordan's was more important than doing what he should for our 2 children and our future! They just need to grow and they do need to learn who they are so they'll know what they want. They CAN MAKE IT!! I've been right where they are and on the other side, meet in high school, had kids early and moved in and shacked up for years and went through all the ups and downs. I LOVE my husband and I couldn't imagine my life without him but if I could do it over and met him after I knew MY WORTH! Because the worst feeling is knowing that you exsposed your babies to all your mistakes and craziness intentionally but you do because YOU don't know yourself!! I'll be praying for these 2 and their family!! They can do it and he sounds like he really did hear what they judge told him and she is already in so unless something outlandish happens she'll wait for him to see what's important. I think we as PEOPLE judge others and forget about all the mistakes we made when we were young, dumb and in "love" 💜💛💛💙
@ashh641
Жыл бұрын
God bless you all
should have thought about the ring before you got pregnant
@aaprii333
3 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Wow Judge is awesome getting her point across. She gives great advice
It always fascinates me when a woman finds out her man cheated on her, she continues to insist marrying him. Cheating should be a deal-breaker (i.e., you cheat, it's over - no marriage). But for some reason, many women do not insist on honesty, sincerity and loyalty. Judge Lynn is right - many young (and middle-aged) women don't know "how" to leave a man. I think there should be scholarly studies on this issue. It is just so amazing - sad, but amazing.
Three minutes nine seconds in and I can't take it....just dumb! I can't!
@yolandaautrey-keen7499
6 жыл бұрын
luvmifro1003. Lol