This whole Diddy situation is a mess. From the video incident of him and Cassie to his insincere apology and more lawsuits. What are your thoughts?

Maya Angelou said it best, “When they show you who they are, believe them the first time”. I learned, the hard way. Thank you for so eloquently speaking on this topic❤️.

That was a beating! Not an incident! Abuse needs to be addressed as it is, horrific!

@dawniedee1071

Ай бұрын

Call them demons by their names💯

@dawniedee1071

Ай бұрын

Our expectations of them folks are too high😮, the entertainment industry is the devil’s playground. Devils do what devils doooo diddy🥵

This Diddy and Cassie situation was an eye opener for me. I used to be so insecure of being a virgin and inexperienced at sex and relationships since about 19/20. I’m now 25 with my virginity still and all I can do is show gratitude to God. There’s so many women such as Cassie who wish they can go back to their innocent state before being exposed to all the BS of the world without their consent. 😭 It was just a whole reality check for me.

@E.Nicole

Ай бұрын

That’s a word. Be proud of your choice to honor God. Peace and blessings to you!

“Where there is smoke, there is fire”. I have a feeling that this video just shows a snippet of what he has actually done to people over the years.

Great insight!! Remember "2024 - All lies will be exposed" - Katt Williams.

@noziphokhumalo2963

Ай бұрын

He definitely declared that this year will be the year of truth 💯💯💯

Thank you for sharing a PSYCHOLOGIST perspective on this. His apology was trash.

His apology is bs. Karma is coming for him.❤

@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol

Ай бұрын

Absolutely! Karma and more!

@tamekadavis6641

Ай бұрын

​@@BeautifulBrwnBabyDolhe's only sorry that he got caught.

@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol

Ай бұрын

@@tamekadavis6641 Yep!

People blame Cassie for not leaving, but no one blames Diddy for staying? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Thank you sharing a counselor's prospective on this terrible behavior. He's reprehensible and a reprobate. I hope he rots in hell and take all his cronies with him. I hope those harmed by him get justice.

The truth is the light, the truth is out Diddy got caught. You are right we as woman have to be careful who we are dating. Thank you for your honesty.

The way my heart broke for Cassie when I saw the video. I don't know where Cassie found the strength to overcome this. I hope she continues to heal.

I wasn't surprised at all. It was only a matter of time before the details came out. I believe a lot more will be coming to light. 💯👀

@Kamirarenee

Ай бұрын

Agree! This is the year of truth!

Unfortunately some stay in abusive situations out of fear! 😢

Thank you for pointing out the “Donkey of the day” from breakfastfast club! It was very performative 😢

8:25 yes! there were signs of diddy’s sadism and cruelty all over that show.

He is sorry that he got caught.❤

You look great, your skin. Everyone including bodygaurds are responible. They all knew he was doing this and they said NOTHING. NOW they want to talk, too late. I am glad you covered it from your professional place😊You are so right about that Breakfast Club guy. I saw his comments.

This is why women choose the bear. And can we talk about Kelly Price’s post (and video to explain the post, which wasn’t better) about him doing the “soul work”😒😒). Did Kelly make a post to Cassie like she did to Diddy?! Dr. Nina, I’m a late 70s baby so I grew up with hiphop like you. I guess she forgot about Diddy not putting her in his “Mo’ Money, Mo’ Problems” video because he thought she was too big. Wanted her voice, but said she wasn’t “sexy” enough

He’s not sorry. 💯 I didn’t even listen to it. I’ve also been able to look in his eyes and know he’s EVIL just like R Kelly, since I was 16. Haven’t messed with him, supported him, or listened to his stuff since the 90s. When people SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM. Please. I am like EVE- I will come through and pick you up, I will fight for your life and your kids, but I’m not fighting for you when you’re going to come for me. Ladies - BELIEVE these abusers. Teach your girls to BELIEVE what they SEE before they have to FEEL. And if you’ve FELT, forgive YOU, if it’s too late for prosecution for them, find a way to forgive THEM so that you can disentangle your emotions from these men and heal. Until you’re healed, you won’t choose wisely. I’m sorry. Please please please find help and GO. Starting over is worth it (but baby some of these men will kill you/ when you sense that, RUN) RUN before you’re in that relationship. Please.

I definitely agree with you! When I saw the video it made me feel sooo sad and disgusted. I can pick up on people’s auras and for some reason I always got a weird vibe about Diddy.

And the sad thing about this situation is 75% (or more ) of women / young girls would be with this monster even after seeing the video

@cherrygibson8253

Ай бұрын

Exactly, sad but true. They will line up to be with him.

Dr. Nina…you are so on point!!

I'm 43 years old and I was around for the Biggie Smalls and Lil Kim era which I loved the music. Over the years I realized something was wrong with Diddy I kept saying to myself why is he always leaching on to young artists and never ever married any of them. I was abused as a teenager by a guy I thought I love he pushed me down to the ground like Cassie and was about to punch me by the grace of God he didn't punch me. He bite me on my cheek one time during sex his teeth marks was on the side of my face. I was young I was 17 what saved me from leaving him alone he got locked up for over 25 years this monster just came home I heard in 2020 I pray that he changed because he hated women but I was to young to realize it back then.

I certainly appreciate your view points. You were spot on. Diddy isn’t sorry. He’s the kind of sick soul that knows how to cry on que and be pretentious for pity. Thank God she made it out !🌹

People are way too comfortable abusing, and seeing Black women, be abused.

@antoinettenyuurnibe3302

Ай бұрын

Including Black people ourselves. And it's sad.

Sheeee’s is back!! ❤

@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol

Ай бұрын

Hey love!

I haven't watched this video. I'm just glad people are starting to expose abusers. I used to want to be a singer but I refuse to be used and abused just because somebody wants to make money. I have a good family but I definitely did not have what some artists have in terms of family that is so involved with them that they are protected and don't get involved with this kind of stuff. So I'm just glad it's being exposed and I'm hoping that he goes to jail or something and I'm hoping people will just stop sticking up for people just because they're rich or popular or perceived to be powerful. ❤ Thank you for your video. I always enjoy hearing your perspective

I totally agree with you. Sooo many negative things were at play for her. My heart goes out to her and I’m glad that she got out in one piece, although mentally she may still be dealing. I also agree with you on that not worth the time and breath ‘apology’. 😡😡

I was in my car, got the CNN alert and was floored. I knew he was a monster but to see that was triggering. Then I was annoyed by all the ppl saying “i believe her now”. Why did ppl need to see it to believe it?!? Just praying for Cassie.

Diddy is a clown who recruits for his circus. Abuse affects the mental state of people. Who knows what Cassie or Kim experienced? I am sure it was traumatic. Diddy is pure evil and thinks he is untouchable. I hope Cassie gets justice and the truth is revealed regarding the passing of Kim. 🙏🏽🙏🏽😩

I have not watched it yet. I’m an adult child of a mother who endured this type of trauma and US with her. It’s so true what you share. There’s so many dynamics and now as an adult I do understand it’s best to vet everyone thoroughly from afar!!

@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol

Ай бұрын

Amen! Say it louder sis!

Thanks for this video. We need to discuss it! It’s so hard out here for us women and people who can be taken advantage of physically bc we can’t compare to the male physical strength a lot of times. I can go on and on

You're right his face looks like when a little boy get caught face!

Dr. Nina, thank you so much for this video! I hope you can give commentary on even more social issues such as this in the future. This was sooooo needed!

I refused to watch the video,a lot of my family members went thru domestic violence.

Yesssss I work at a domestic violence shelter. Its very sad

This can be a very sensitive subject for women or even some men who have been on the receiving end of abuse. The more we talk about it and the more we get the word out that this behavior is wrong and WILL NOT be tolerated only then will we be able make change. I'm so disguised with this man, and as bad as I want to give him the BIS-Ness!!! 🤬😤 all I can do is pray him because he is sick!!!! And Yes speak more on these topics because our girls and young people need to hear it. Peace ❤‍🩹💯

Crazy!!! I hope and pray Cassie will be ok. Thank you for your perspective ❤

Speaking 🗣️from knowledge about celebrities…. It’s many more like him. I’ve heard accounts from many friends…and one thing I know. You gotta show them you know your worth and that their money or class cannot move your morals or standards. I’m not even surprised….it’s typical behavior for them. Some not all… he’s a real monster…. Narcissistic at a very high level.

I was/am disappointed it took the video to come out for some people to think that it actually happened. She filed a how many hundred page lawsuit? That he settled?? He looks like a liar. He moves like a liar. And only thing the tape did was show he is a liar.

Listen...I totally absolutely completely all the way agree...so terrible sad.

Thank you for this video. There are no words for this behavior.

Mic drop!! ❤❤

His apology sounded like an emotionless script! He paid her off in the settlement & the truth still came to light!

Thank you for talking facts about abusers in this way. The target isolate and destroy whomever they can. My husband emotionally and psychologically abused me to the point when I got the courage to start investigation divorce and asked him to leave the house, he went straight to the kids school and yep, kidnapped them and killed one (our 6 yo daughter Evangeline). I was left to explain to her 7 yo brother that his dad killed his sister and tried to kill him. 10 yrs on and my son isn't the same. He's a shell of a person, understandably. And his dad sits in prison being houses clothes and fed on my tax dollars. He's had no one come up and ask how could you not know, or you must have known who he really was. You tell me, a person know what's beneath a mask!!! Sick sick sick. They're sickening people. But God sees it all.

@yangelthomas

Ай бұрын

I'm very sorry that happened to you & your family....can't imagine...🫂

@TamarasTreasureTrove

Ай бұрын

🙏🏾❤️‍🩹✨

When the video dropped I was on my lunch break and I couldn’t focus on my work after

Only sorry when you caught... Only when your rep is on the ground?

Very nice video 👏👏👏

I knew he was a women beater from his past history. I know he is not sorry for what he did. He is sorry we got caught. I am praying for Cassie❤

People will definitely blame it on his childhood trauma and all of that flemsy excuses around dating/marriages abuse and DV issues.

He's needs to be in jail

I couldn't watch the video, it's too volatile. As he has 4 daughters, I know good and well he's not wanting any man doing that to them. Time always tell the truth.

The video did not shock me. Diddy gave me bad vibes when I watched his reality show with J Lo. The signs were there.

@miraclewiley7126

Ай бұрын

I’m waiting for her to tell her story

@lmanderson2012

Ай бұрын

I've been thinking about this with his Making the Band show.

And think about what women and men who are not celebrities go through because they know a lot of people don't even care.

Agree!

She favors Zandeya to me

100% agree

Hi.....I watched your breast reduction video on KZread. Can you please tell me which clinic it was .....and who was the doctor?

Breakfast Club shameful for their support of Diddy Donkeys of The Day The Breakfast Club.

Not going to lieI look at Mary J and other celebrities that were stuck to the hip with Diddy with a side eye now

I agree with everything you said. He is straight up demonic imo. Tbh, the number of exposures that have happened since the beginning of this year has really made me hesitant about bringing children into this world. People are sick out here and I almost feel like it's irresponsible to do so even though I would like to experience motherhood. Anyways I'm staying prayerful 🙏🏾

7:22 girrrrl wasn’t it half assed ? Honeeyyyyyy smh

Be back with him is braking evil

I knew with making the band and confirmed with how he treated keyshia cole. Very Ike-ish

Think about it… the tape never saw the light of day until after his houses got raided! Wonder who leaked it? Tape=Raid=Govt🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ The real question is why didn’t he destroy the tapes? You think he would sit and watch the tape like yeah, I did that! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️Anyway, Diddy and his apology can walk down them stairways to hell and burn! At the beginning of each year I chose a word for the year instead of doing resolutions. My word this year was Exposed. I told my bestie in January, God is about to Expose something’s this year! Boy did he and ain’t he! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🖤🖤🖤

I have 2 sons. I try to explain to them. The same way you don't want anyone beating up your mom. You don't beat up someone 's daughter. If she is the abusive one, take the first step in being the MAN and leave. No toxic relationship is worth staying in Man or Woman. My oldest son was stabbed in the arm. On April 1, 2023. I had to tell him let her go. Stop staying in a relationship for looks, it isn't that serious.

His youngest baby’s mother said he beat her on a podcast

I am disappointed in P. Diddy. I listened to his music growing up. I pray that he WILL TRULY Repent of his actions. Yes, he deserves to be held accountable for his ACTIONS! GOD knows the hearts of man, man only sees action. Shame on him! That poor girl....My daddy would have kicked his A--- all up and down that hallway! That towel would have came off, and he probably would have got whooped with it!! You spoke FACTS in this video🙏🏿💙 On a lighter note, I'm finally ordering the African net sponge and I need some wax strips that work. I bought a healthier version of wax strips, PARISSA from Ulta, and they don't work very well. Thank you for this video.🙏🏿👏🏿

It was definitely disappointing and can be quite embarrassing as another brown person to witness. It’s truly a DIRTY shame and he definitely should suffer consequences. No one deserves what he did to her. I have two daughters, 19 kids 21 and they have yet to experience dating but teaching them to watch the signs and have a spirit of discernment when it comes to men. We will continue to have these talks because now and days people are crazy and lots of mental issues.

I agree with everything you said in this video. Here’s what I’m trying to reconcile/understand. Many of our beloved black male so called icons have abused women and even worse! Chris Brown Biggie 2Pac R. Kelly Bill Cosby Even rapper Fabolus Dr Dre. What I don’t get is why it’s ok to still honor Dr Dre & rock our beats & still be at all the Chris Brown concerts (bc he is so sorry) BUT then ‘cancel’ others??? When can we be consistent? Btw I’m DISGUSTED with Diddy & I don’t even care if he loses it ALL for this behavior.

"Diddy" and all of the other monikers, is one person - Sean Combs. He and only he, is responsible for his actions and the effects of his actions. His money, fame and access was used to entice his victims. He knew this and no one else is to blame. The general public was deceived as were his victims. The jig is up. We now know better and will do better in whom we as a community choose to support and uphold as examples of love, excellence and leadership.

He is comfortable in doing what he has done, more than once. The energy of who he is, is floating around him, its screaming look at me. It's the energy thats hiding in plain sight. He has no patience with a lot of stuff, this causes anyone around him to Walk on eggshells permanently. Enduring this for to long can cause someone's health to decline.

I believe he’s sorry he got caught and is losing his empire

Hi queen. I like you I'm a child of 90's and the 2000's and I remember all those Diddy bad thing did to those people. And I remember hearing he had something to do with 2pac death. Anyway after hearing that about him had something his death. I trusted him and stop listening to his music. Anyway I was thinking alot of people are saying he should be punished and to prison. I not sure will work. I mean prison will only enhance the problem and he probably once he get out, who to say that he want do this again. But I do say he need help like see a counselor and take away all rights and money also house. I also think his head got to big and I guess he thought he was untouchable. And probably had ran into the right person that will whoop his ass

Of course he is sorry since he knows that the statute of limitations have expired- he should have apologize to her when he settled…the video was horrible because i think we all expected better from him

Ephesians 5:12 reads... "15Be very careful, then, how you live-not as unwise but as wise, 16making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ."

Cassie was a mean girl to Kim Porter until it became her. I don’t feel bad for her

@TamarasTreasureTrove

Ай бұрын

Mental health professional here. That’s really sad to read…esp after we watched this and have seen what happened to both of the women. He likely brainwashed Cassie into bullying Kim. It’s a mental game narcissists play. Cassie was so young and vulnerable. Hopefully you change your mind and imagine what it could’ve been like if you were in her shoes. There’s so much more that goes into the cycle of abuse than someone just being a ‘mean girl’. Smh.