Did He Just Get Friendzoned? ⚠️💔 Catfish: The TV Show Season 9

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  • @bobbyross2552
    @bobbyross255219 күн бұрын

    I don’t blame her, you can’t expect anybody to want to be committed to someone who can’t even financially take care of themselves

  • @Maddie-fk2tx

    @Maddie-fk2tx

    19 күн бұрын

    Honestly it only seems like she just wants to be friends maybe? but that other part is definitely valid

  • @oag2167

    @oag2167

    19 күн бұрын

    Don't call someone your soulmate unless you mean it.

  • @glitterena

    @glitterena

    19 күн бұрын

    ​@@oag2167hm

  • @misnaminglove2748

    @misnaminglove2748

    19 күн бұрын

    @@oag2167some soulmates can be platonic

  • @oag2167

    @oag2167

    19 күн бұрын

    @@misnaminglove2748 They were speaking to each other romantically.

  • @dontez606
    @dontez60619 күн бұрын

    I don't blame Allison for being concerned about Sebastian's motives for being with her. There are many hobosexuals out there and she needs to think not only about herself but also her children. ❤

  • @Ontheedgeofglory

    @Ontheedgeofglory

    19 күн бұрын

    She should've told him herself online

  • @MizzKillercult

    @MizzKillercult

    19 күн бұрын

    Nah because if you can call someone your soul mate you should be able to tell them the truth as well, that's weird. I totally get everything else, but that doesn't add up. "You're my soul mate but I don't see a future with you" ... she plays games

  • @Maddie-fk2tx

    @Maddie-fk2tx

    19 күн бұрын

    @@MizzKillercultyea she was dead wrong for that and I feel like at the end of the actual epi idk maybe I was too high but I felt like she def was just making herself look good😭 like esp when she was saying bye

  • @MizzKillercult

    @MizzKillercult

    19 күн бұрын

    @Maddie-fk2tx yeah and she wasn't at all remorseful, did she even apologize for cat fishing????? I'm high right now so I don't remember myself

  • @MizzKillercult

    @MizzKillercult

    19 күн бұрын

    I mean not catfishing him, but constantly dodging him and lying to him about what she wants. Because if I think you're my soul mate I'm going to want to be with you romantically. I mean I believe soulmates can be friends, but it seems she didn't specify that it was a friend soulmate relationship situation either. She should have apologized

  • @randyluz2088
    @randyluz208819 күн бұрын

    She's more than right... I mean she has 2 children

  • @glitterena

    @glitterena

    19 күн бұрын

    *SHE not *HE she been knew she had kids

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    Did she not KNOW she had two children when she was talking about her ring size with him???

  • @BeaMode1990
    @BeaMode199019 күн бұрын

    It's Nev & Kamie talking on the side like concerned parents for me. 🤧🤧🥴🥴🥴😭

  • @ArielAngelique1

    @ArielAngelique1

    19 күн бұрын

    They're so cute 😂

  • @BeaMode1990

    @BeaMode1990

    19 күн бұрын

    @@ArielAngelique1 fr. 😩❤️

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    It looked like a scene from the 18th century, where couples could only walk together with chaperones behind them lol.

  • @tinyyanna954

    @tinyyanna954

    15 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @Couldcarelessssss

    @Couldcarelessssss

    14 күн бұрын

    There all like hiiii 😁👋🏾 knowing they were just whispering 😂😂

  • @faestreya
    @faestreya19 күн бұрын

    People pretending as if she's just money chasing are wiiiild. Wanting a partner who is stable isn't some crazy thing. Most people want someone who can hold them down, not add to their struggles.

  • @cecizilla

    @cecizilla

    19 күн бұрын

    especially when she has children on top of that!

  • @Maddie-fk2tx

    @Maddie-fk2tx

    19 күн бұрын

    she should’ve never called him her soulmate either though her having kids and wanting something stable is valid but she was dead wrong for saying that to him if she didn’t mean it especially

  • @zataishasims9732

    @zataishasims9732

    19 күн бұрын

    I agree with that

  • @oag2167

    @oag2167

    19 күн бұрын

    She wants a man who's financially stable yet she's leading on a man who is not financially stable, she makes no sense.

  • @Thegamingprofessor2024

    @Thegamingprofessor2024

    19 күн бұрын

    Facts!! Look I want somone who can handle their business.

  • @JessaLynn8
    @JessaLynn819 күн бұрын

    I think when his life is stable and he has his stuff together, she'd be more willing to move forward with a relationship

  • @AkinoSominoCookierz

    @AkinoSominoCookierz

    19 күн бұрын

    Nah thats lame. You not bout to fwm when i got stuff

  • @Maddie-fk2tx

    @Maddie-fk2tx

    19 күн бұрын

    @@AkinoSominoCookierzto be fairrrrr she does have two kids and is a single mother, it’s valid to want something stable etc but yea no the way she did him was dirty :(

  • @girlcalledmango

    @girlcalledmango

    19 күн бұрын

    ​@AkinoSominoCookierz and she wasn't going to get used when you don't got stuff.

  • @AkinoSominoCookierz

    @AkinoSominoCookierz

    19 күн бұрын

    @@girlcalledmango ppl dont care bout that

  • @Floratic

    @Floratic

    19 күн бұрын

    Leeching off a single parent is grimy. Glad she has sense.

  • @bassattack799
    @bassattack79919 күн бұрын

    He seems very kind but it's true he needs to be stable himself before pursuing her. Especially since she has kids.

  • @Nelaxzzz
    @Nelaxzzz19 күн бұрын

    I love how she didn't sugarcoat anything! She was more than clear ! And she got her priorities straight

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    She had no choice at that point, did she? She was forced into it. Almost all the catfish give it up when they're finally face-to-face with the problem they've been dodging. The problem is that she was doing ALL the sugarcoating for the last 3 years! If she had been honest with him before this point, he would've been under no illusions that he had any chance with her. I feel like she wanted the emotional connection/support from him while, - unbeknownst to him - keeping him at a distance due to his financial situation. There's nothing admirable about that. She's just as much of a leech as she was afraid he would be. He could've been pursuing something or someone else if he had known he had no future with her.

  • @Ryans_world215
    @Ryans_world21518 күн бұрын

    She said “Do you want me or Do you need me?” Realist shit I’ve heard in a while!!!🏆

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    Too bad she couldn't be that "real" with him over the last 3 years.

  • @Ryans_world215

    @Ryans_world215

    13 күн бұрын

    @@anyaw340 facts tho 😂

  • @plasmatic210.
    @plasmatic210.19 күн бұрын

    Okay, but Kamie is serving absolutely

  • @lovelivi1591

    @lovelivi1591

    18 күн бұрын

    Always!

  • @kyleighsuniquee2400

    @kyleighsuniquee2400

    16 күн бұрын

    Per usual.. she's gorgeous 🥰🥰

  • @BandlerChing
    @BandlerChing13 күн бұрын

    “Nobody falls in love faster than a man with no place to stay” is a saying for a reason. She has kids. She made the right choice here

  • @Slvttyalien
    @Slvttyalien19 күн бұрын

    I agree with her who wants a relationship with a man when they life isnt financially together

  • @t.e.m.i7364

    @t.e.m.i7364

    19 күн бұрын

    I would as long as his intentions are pure but as long as he is workin to get to dat point I’m ok dats just me tho

  • @drewrites4613

    @drewrites4613

    19 күн бұрын

    Yep and she has kids so she doesn’t have the luxury of waiting for a man to become stable. She needs a man to come into the relationship already together.

  • @ccmcgaming327

    @ccmcgaming327

    19 күн бұрын

    ​@@drewrites4613yes a single mom trying to tell somebody else they should have they life together while she's playing and leading people on. He should be happy she not that attractive and she just looking for a daddy

  • @alisjay9798

    @alisjay9798

    19 күн бұрын

    @@ccmcgaming327you can have your life together as a single mom

  • @drewrites4613

    @drewrites4613

    19 күн бұрын

    @@ccmcgaming327 Well, that’s another way to look at it. I don’t disagree. Ultimately, as a single parent you mess around and date someone who doesn’t have their stuff together and it’s just like having another kid to take care of.

  • @TGRAM7
    @TGRAM719 күн бұрын

    Yeah, I don’t think he really thought it through. Two kids is a huge responsibility to take on. You’re not just in a relationship with the mom but her children, too.

  • @k.o.b.7311

    @k.o.b.7311

    18 күн бұрын

    I would say he wanted her he pursued her on the show and tried multiple times to see her on camera I just feel she could have said what she told him in person she’s right tho

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    He's young. He has plenty of time to make it. If he loves her, he's not going to let his temporary circumstances prevent him from pursuing her. She just should've been honest about what she was looking for, and her concerns, from the beginning, and not engage in the lovey dovey talk with someone you don't see a future with. She wanted the emotional support/connection without the realness of a relationship with him.

  • @ArielAngelique1
    @ArielAngelique119 күн бұрын

    Soulmate isnt limited to relationships.... U can really have a spiritual connection with folks. I understand what she's saying... Does he need her or want her?...

  • @LeiMillie

    @LeiMillie

    18 күн бұрын

    Thank you

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    While that's true, her texts say she meant otherwise. She didn't want him to come to Florida precisely because she knew there was a romantic pretext underlying their interactions, and she didn't want a relationship with him. But even if she meant it only in a "spiritual"sense, if you're going to use that word, you need to make clear what you mean. Everyone knows that "soulmate" in its standard form refers to a romantic relationship. Like every word, there is the primary definition, and then there are other less commonly used meanings. If someone calls you the "B word", chances are they're insulting you, not mistaking you for a female dog. Likewise, if someone calls you their "soulmate", chances are they're using it in the romantic sense, not a platonic sense. There was a lot in those texts that looked romantic - and that's only what they showed. She seemed like she wanted the emotional connection/love/adoration from him without having to actually be with him. That's why she kept talking about how she liked things the way they are; she liked the idea of him. There's nothing wrong with having standards, but she should've told him all of that a long time ago, and don't call him "soulmate" or engage in conversations about your ring size. 🙄 She 100% led him on.

  • @ccmcgaming327

    @ccmcgaming327

    13 күн бұрын

    They was talking about rings stop pretending she was right she led dude on for 3 years and you know it no man considers a chick they not with their soulmate that's a women excuse.

  • @KpTheG
    @KpTheG18 күн бұрын

    Honestly, that’s probably the best thing she could’ve done. The fact that he wanted to move in with her without ever meeting or dating in person is a huge red flag and it’s dangerous. She has young children. That’s how people end up on the news or traumatized bc creeps target single mothers and they’re desperate enough to skip the background checks and let any old person just lay up with them around their kids.

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    He never said that was the first thing they were going to do. It could've just been aspirational - a goal. He talked about just meeting her when he got to Florida, not just automatically moving in.

  • @KpTheG

    @KpTheG

    17 күн бұрын

    @@anyaw340 ok girly, keep believing that. There’s a reason why she was so apprehensive.

  • @ccmcgaming327

    @ccmcgaming327

    13 күн бұрын

    ​@@KpTheGbe cause she was a liar

  • @angellaangella8574
    @angellaangella857418 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry they drove all that way just to say "she doesn't need a 3rd child to care for" 😂😂😂

  • @aciremamalacara
    @aciremamalacara18 күн бұрын

    “do you want me or do you need me?” REAL

  • @dememurphy7859
    @dememurphy785918 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry but he looks like he would have been eating all her kids snacks and watching TV all day saying ain't no jobs out there!!!

  • @HouseJudges

    @HouseJudges

    18 күн бұрын

    If he can’t find one in LA then he doesn’t want to work

  • @randyluz2088
    @randyluz208819 күн бұрын

    And she is absolultey right! I mean, she has 2 children

  • @LeiMillie

    @LeiMillie

    18 күн бұрын

    Thank you.....

  • @melaniechristinee
    @melaniechristinee19 күн бұрын

    I agree! As a single mom I couldn’t lead someone on. He was sweet thank goodness but shebshouldnt have lead him on.

  • @Maddie-fk2tx

    @Maddie-fk2tx

    19 күн бұрын

    Yea she was dead wrong for that :/

  • @bisonchicka
    @bisonchicka18 күн бұрын

    I wish more women looked out for themselves like this and didn’t allow being taken advantage of by men in need.

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    Instead, she took advantage of him. You don't have to hurt other people to look out for yourself. If she didn't see a future with him, she should've been honest about it and not led him on for so long.

  • @kno3730

    @kno3730

    17 күн бұрын

    @@anyaw340 in three years passed what had he accomplished to show her he wants her?

  • @bisonchicka

    @bisonchicka

    17 күн бұрын

    @@anyaw340 Took advantage of him how? They just chatted. Did I miss something in the clip where she asked him for something ?

  • @laurab5849

    @laurab5849

    17 күн бұрын

    @@bisonchickaright actually she gave him $$

  • @oldchandrilan4093
    @oldchandrilan409319 күн бұрын

    Sebastian seems like a good guy, he will find the one for him when the time is right

  • @RosalynnAnne
    @RosalynnAnne19 күн бұрын

    I honestly don’t blame her. She could’ve said it earlier yeah but I can’t date a man who isn’t stable and for three years ?

  • @Maddie-fk2tx

    @Maddie-fk2tx

    19 күн бұрын

    doesn’t matter, She could’ve nipped it before but she didn’t and that’s what’s wrong she lead him on, she didn’t even seem to ever have feelings to begin w

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    She is 100% to blame. Not telling him how she truly felt while leading him on for 3 years is not minor. She didn't just suddenly find out he was financially unstable. He could've been focusing on something or someone else for all that time. Instead, she led him on and he had his hopes up for nothing. Totally unfair to him, when he was honest about his situation.

  • @user-qe1mt3zh2d
    @user-qe1mt3zh2d18 күн бұрын

    Sometimes it's good to have phone ships. Just someone to talk to

  • @Debthouse
    @Debthouse19 күн бұрын

    Kamie, you are rocking the heck out of this '60s-inspired headband look!

  • @abbybrown7428
    @abbybrown742819 күн бұрын

    She’s so beautiful ❤ sometimes we need someone to talk not to love, I know I’m sound selfish, but that’s true…

  • @mmcbride4576
    @mmcbride457618 күн бұрын

    It is OKAY to not want a broke partner. Don't let people fool you into being pulled into someone else's stuggle.

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    Don't engage in a romantic relationship and talk about your ring size with a "broke" person you don't truly want.

  • @ccmcgaming327

    @ccmcgaming327

    13 күн бұрын

    Then why should they get to benefit when your doing good if somebody can't love you at your lowest they won't at your highest she had 3 years to tell him that and didn't

  • @mmcbride4576

    @mmcbride4576

    12 күн бұрын

    Yall.. it was an internet relationship. It couldn't have been that serious.

  • @Yourfavorite-cx6jz
    @Yourfavorite-cx6jz18 күн бұрын

    and she had kids. He shouldn’t be trying to move in anyway. an online relationship isn’t enough to fully know someone.

  • @AnnWright-jb2dw
    @AnnWright-jb2dw18 күн бұрын

    He seems to be a good man, kind and gentle.. His priority now is a full-time job, so he can bring that security and responsibility into any relationship going forward especially where kids are involved.

  • @HouseJudges

    @HouseJudges

    18 күн бұрын

    2 - 3 full-time jobs

  • @kno3730

    @kno3730

    17 күн бұрын

    @@HouseJudgesyears 14-24 is for working nonstop 💪🏽

  • @AnnWright-jb2dw

    @AnnWright-jb2dw

    17 күн бұрын

    @@kno3730 14-64 is the norm....

  • @kno3730

    @kno3730

    17 күн бұрын

    @@AnnWright-jb2dw 14-24 All work no play. Stack stack stack. 25-35 find a partner to build with. 40-50 work some more/raise a family. 60- relaaaaax. That’s how it should be. 20 years of working 20 years of building.

  • @24kRobot
    @24kRobot19 күн бұрын

    She’s right to feel that he should be in a more stable position, but it’s just too bad everyone in Hawaii was in on it!

  • @mundaneamazing

    @mundaneamazing

    19 күн бұрын

    💀 literal lol!

  • @nikkideevah
    @nikkideevah19 күн бұрын

    Yall are crazy, he said he was living with six other people working here and there as a DJ.. Its an oversaturated market in LA. Not sure who convinced him to leave his hometown for here.

  • @mundaneamazing

    @mundaneamazing

    19 күн бұрын

    A DJ?? See, I almost had sympathy for him. Thought he was hustling at a drive-thru. DJ?? Gtfoh, Bruh.

  • @lydiaboll2872

    @lydiaboll2872

    18 күн бұрын

    @@mundaneamazingWhat’s wrong with being a DJ? Calvin Harris and Benny Blanco are both highly respected and beloved DJs. Sebastian said from the start that he was a DJ so idk where you got a drive thru from.

  • @TheFallonCarrington

    @TheFallonCarrington

    18 күн бұрын

    @@lydiaboll2872perhaps they didn’t see the entire episode to know he is a struggling DJ

  • @tuu3767
    @tuu376719 күн бұрын

    She is not wrong at all

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    She's wrong for leading him on and not just telling that long before this. She's wrong for leeching off of him emotionally, while not wanting a relationship with him because she doesn't want him to be a leech financially. She wanted to have her cake and eat it to, and when it finally become real, she finally had to be truthful about her intentions.

  • @mundaneamazing
    @mundaneamazing19 күн бұрын

    Ooohhh! I was so lost until she talked to Kamie and now I get it and I'm glad she is thinking logically. I feel her. I don't want no scrubs!

  • @justsayinit100
    @justsayinit10019 күн бұрын

    I understand how she feels. But why did she lead him on? She knew he was struggling when she sent him money for food.

  • @BeautyforAshess

    @BeautyforAshess

    17 күн бұрын

    I dont think she intended to lead him on, They established an emotional connection, and she really did have feelings for him. But over time, she saw a pattern with him after the connection was established. Instead of it being a temporary thing like oh i lost my job... its oh... so you can never keep a job or?

  • @melissaveronica6230
    @melissaveronica623019 күн бұрын

    Now camie! Why would u say « hey friends » after the girl confessed she only likes him as a friend😅

  • @shannonh5347

    @shannonh5347

    18 күн бұрын

    Right??😂😂 it’s was a hint on what was to come 😂😂

  • @prettyperfectpagne6226

    @prettyperfectpagne6226

    13 күн бұрын

    😂😂

  • @sundance9321
    @sundance932119 күн бұрын

    Nah the way she licked her lips at the end 🤣. Homeboy didn’t get Zoed.

  • @1982LavenderMiko
    @1982LavenderMiko19 күн бұрын

    Idc nobody else say this young lady should have things crystal clear from the beginning and came to him as her authentic self because she is very pretty and she Danm sure not need any filters and she should have just kept it real with him about what she’s actually looking for from the beginning because it’s clear that she led him and it took the catfish crew to get her to admit that she’s looking for someone who is financially stable that’s the crazy part about! …but I sincerely wish them both peace and happiness!

  • @tttai8993
    @tttai899319 күн бұрын

    She should have been honest with him but shes not wrong for wanting stability. Shes a bit older and she has children. She doesnt have time to be supporting a man with no money. Shes not asking for him to be rich, just not poor!

  • @tsmooth213
    @tsmooth21319 күн бұрын

    Communication is key though right? 😂 I honestly can’t tell these days

  • @prettyperfectpagne6226
    @prettyperfectpagne622613 күн бұрын

    6:16 Kami’s so petty with the hey friends 😂😂

  • @openthenoorr
    @openthenoorr19 күн бұрын

    it feels illegal to be this early 😳

  • @selmajovanov2802

    @selmajovanov2802

    19 күн бұрын

    Same

  • @D-Will2k
    @D-Will2k19 күн бұрын

    A lot of women would friendzone me and I am ok with that. One day my true love will show up unexpectedly

  • @Kassie.r87

    @Kassie.r87

    19 күн бұрын

    You can’t always assume you would always be friend zoned!

  • @nlibby5549

    @nlibby5549

    19 күн бұрын

    People do want partners or providers. Just make sure you find the right connection and want.

  • @ccmcgaming327

    @ccmcgaming327

    19 күн бұрын

    Yes you can lol alot of times it happens just like this lies and excuses. Women are quick to dis a man for not supposedly having they life together. Men take women regardless she a single mom talking about somebody else's stability she just a want a daddy and a check​@@Kassie.r87

  • @ishy6875

    @ishy6875

    19 күн бұрын

    You're a wise man unc.

  • @desimichelle

    @desimichelle

    19 күн бұрын

    They will show up unexpectedly, just make sure you are open enough to recognize it

  • @nicole757
    @nicole75719 күн бұрын

    please look up “squatters rights” in your state before letting anyone stay with you. if they stay for more than two weeks/receive one piece of mail to your address/etc - you have to go through a legal eviction if they refuse to leave (whether they are paying rent or not).

  • @JohnBrown-id3qc
    @JohnBrown-id3qc19 күн бұрын

    I know her I grew up with her we were in church together we were in the church choir on the Usher board and everything shout out to her for doing this

  • @Thrivtshop
    @Thrivtshop18 күн бұрын

    Good job protecting yourself Allison

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    And hurting someone else by leading them on for years. She could've done this a long time ago, but she wanted the emotional connection without actually committing to him. Horrible.

  • @Thrivtshop

    @Thrivtshop

    17 күн бұрын

    @@anyaw340 that man needed somewhere to stay lol what is she to do with another dependent

  • @ibstayfly
    @ibstayfly19 күн бұрын

    She's beautiful. I honestly didn't think it was gonna be her from how everything played out I would love to see a catfish reunion. Wonder what they're all up to now

  • @HannaBooth-dc6iz
    @HannaBooth-dc6iz18 күн бұрын

    I don’t blame her. Also in reference to the leading him on stuff… sometimes I think we meet people who could be right for us, but they’re in different positions in their life. And it’s very common to want to be the person that changes someone or motivates them to do more or “better”. And I think that’s how she approached it in the beginning and maybe she didn’t see enough change to feel comfortable.

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    None of that has anything to do with her not telling him. She engaged in a romantic relationship with him without ever telling him how she truly felt about a future with him in his current state. She strung him along until he couldn't anymore. That's horrible.

  • @badams6894
    @badams689418 күн бұрын

    i get what she’s saying BUT… you strung him along. you could’ve been very clear about your concerns a long time ago and the whole situation would’ve never got as foggy as it did

  • @annissabarclay4976
    @annissabarclay497618 күн бұрын

    Stringing him along romantically then cutting him loose is wild

  • @lisaeveretts8082
    @lisaeveretts80828 күн бұрын

    He's had 3 years to become self sufficient & stable. If he hasn't grown up yet, he probably never will.

  • @Ontheedgeofglory
    @Ontheedgeofglory19 күн бұрын

    He deserves better then her if she couldn't tell him online then he should move on too someone else thats better then her

  • @mmcbride4576

    @mmcbride4576

    18 күн бұрын

    Moved in with someone else

  • @anyaw340
    @anyaw34017 күн бұрын

    I'm so crushed for him. There's nothing wrong with her wanting a financially stable partner, especially as someone with two children, but she had THREE YEARS to tell him that. It's giving the impression that she wanted the love/adoration/emotional connection from him (hence the reason she kept emphasizing that she liked things the way they were), but she didn't want the realness of a relationship with him. She may have been worried about him being a financial leech, but she was an emotional leech. She led him on for all that time. If you truly only view someone platonically, or you don't see a future with someone, then don't call them your "soulmate" and engage in conversations about your ring size with them. She should've been clear about him and her expectations before it ever got this point.

  • @multiple_oranges
    @multiple_oranges8 күн бұрын

    I totally get where she's coming from - obviously she is a single mum with two kids and she's got to put their needs and the stability of her family first.The "do you want me or do you need me" was spot on. What I don't get is why this wasn't communicated earlier to him. If you're telling someone 'you're my soulmate', that has a certain connotation. Yes, soulmates can be platonic, but 95% of the time when people use that word, it's in a romantic context. I think she did get overly comfortable with the level of emotional support he was giving her in a way that felt hands off.

  • @Angelchapa-e4c
    @Angelchapa-e4c19 күн бұрын

    I watched this one already I am glad it was her but she was kinda rude

  • @oOLinxyOo
    @oOLinxyOo18 күн бұрын

    I feel bad or the guy, he definitely got friend zoned and this woman should have been clear about her intentions 3 years ago so he doesn't waste his time on her!

  • @k.o.b.7311
    @k.o.b.731118 күн бұрын

    I get it he wasn’t financially stable he never was tho when you tell someone my soul mate feelings got involved just tell him the truth about what you need it wouldn’t have got so far

  • @jermdukes2007
    @jermdukes200719 күн бұрын

    She’s whack af for leading buddy on. I understand what she needs (TOTALLY get it) but she should’ve made that clear to him from the get go. Calling him her soul and mate and shit. WTF was that!?

  • @nicola_pink
    @nicola_pink18 күн бұрын

    Gosh Kami looks stunning ❤❤

  • @teegee990
    @teegee99017 күн бұрын

    She’s a good mother

  • @spcasualwatcher
    @spcasualwatcher17 күн бұрын

    Good job mom!

  • @inspiredregg3284
    @inspiredregg328417 күн бұрын

    I woulda took my broke ass right home, rejection can be a blessing........

  • @missebone
    @missebone18 күн бұрын

    There is lyrics to so many songs about leading someone on I mean I kind of get where she's coming from but you hurt that boy's feelings by leading him on thinking that you really have feelings for him and then and then you end up friends zoning him That hurts so bad and I kind of feel bad for the boy more than I feel bad for her cuz she should have been up front from the jump instead of just letting it go on this long. I mean we can agree to disagree but that's just how I feel 💯

  • @laurab5849
    @laurab584918 күн бұрын

    This man needs a real job. Any job.

  • @patrickhuggins5856
    @patrickhuggins58568 күн бұрын

    She has as emotional intelligence which is rear these days. Sidenote: Her skin is flawless 😊 what's your skincare routine girl?😂

  • @BiancaFaid86
    @BiancaFaid8618 күн бұрын

    I understand she’s concerned about if he really wants her of just needs her, but why not talk and see IRL. I think his feelings are genuine and he has a big heart and she broke it.

  • @jm8280
    @jm828017 күн бұрын

    I agree with her reasoning for friendzoning him. But at minimum she should of been able to video chat with the guy makes no sense to not do it at least a once where he can actually see who she was. But she should of told him that financially stability is very important to her and she can only see herself with a partner that is financially stable. It seems like his depression/ lack of motivation was keeping him from being stable. At minium keeping some type of stable employment is important .Even if its something entry level, its better than this intermittent DJ thing. Honestly I don't think he really DJ much in LA , because when NEV asked about it he could really give a straight answer. POF always seems to have the most questionable lack luster characters on there. But I am glad he was able to get his self together. eventually he will be in a position to meet the right one.

  • @tabithamadril8260
    @tabithamadril826019 күн бұрын

    anyone know when season 9 gonna be on hulu?

  • @mundaneamazing

    @mundaneamazing

    19 күн бұрын

    I don't think they ever put the new seasons on Hulu. I think it's just the archived eps.

  • @tabithamadril8260

    @tabithamadril8260

    19 күн бұрын

    @@mundaneamazing i hope they do its the only way i can watch it besides whatever they put on yt😭😭

  • @brandoniswhoiam
    @brandoniswhoiam19 күн бұрын

    When did they add the “ē” to Nēv’s name?

  • @mundaneamazing

    @mundaneamazing

    19 күн бұрын

    He's rebranding since he got an earring

  • @alandrosstettina1843
    @alandrosstettina18433 күн бұрын

    Nah, she wasn't truthful and played too much.

  • @RndmMcRndmnss
    @RndmMcRndmnss19 күн бұрын

    I thought it was her. She looks normal. Another curse of fantasyland!!! Where someone says things they don't mean!!! 😳😬

  • @rak7293
    @rak72939 күн бұрын

    There’s too much shaky camera stuff. This was trendy back in the day but it’s not easy to watch

  • @Johndrea-MsDeedee
    @Johndrea-MsDeedee18 күн бұрын

    She's ❤️ Beautiful

  • @Dontknowyet80
    @Dontknowyet8019 күн бұрын

    Soon as she said “hey friends “ he shoulda known

  • @BecD1983
    @BecD198317 күн бұрын

    Good call Allison ❤

  • @butterflyroho6470
    @butterflyroho647019 күн бұрын

    He looks just like Leslie Odom.

  • @leslieterrell7300
    @leslieterrell730019 күн бұрын

    I love Cami!

  • @Beesus_DaGod
    @Beesus_DaGod18 күн бұрын

    He just need get and keep a job

  • @ratgirl669
    @ratgirl66918 күн бұрын

    😭 why does this episode make me sad

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams429515 күн бұрын

    The awkwardness...Jesus.....👀😬

  • @iMatchEnergyLikeABoss
    @iMatchEnergyLikeABoss18 күн бұрын

    Does anyone know the name of the song at the end of this episode?

  • @l0rdapophis
    @l0rdapophis12 күн бұрын

    Sis definitely isn't in the wrong here

  • @thethoughtfulone4436
    @thethoughtfulone44367 күн бұрын

    Bro, focus on yourself. You always lose money chasing females but you never lose females chasing 💰

  • @elizabethdeleon3485
    @elizabethdeleon348518 күн бұрын

    Don’t fucking talk to people if you have nothing to offer. Number mother fucking one is ‘what do I have to offer this person’ ANYONE can be good conversation and ANYONE can be cute and funny. Be responsible, be respectful and be independent. You’re only bringing others down, hurting others, and being stupid until you’re ready to actually bring something to the table. You’re just a bandaid if you’re not able to stand alone and be happy

  • @laurab5849

    @laurab5849

    18 күн бұрын

    Seriously. Man needs to get his life together. Not the time to date.

  • @anyaw340

    @anyaw340

    17 күн бұрын

    Here's another one: Don't talk to people if you're not going to be clear that all you ever want to do is talk. He did nothing wrong. He could've left her alone if he knew she didn't want a relationship with someone in his financial predicament. Instead, she strung him along until she couldn't anymore. You shouldn't leech off of someone emotionally anymore than you should leech off of them financially.

  • @brightballoon
    @brightballoon14 күн бұрын

    Even women w/ out kids need to be super careful about who you let move in, just as a lil PSA. Something called 'squatter's rights' are laws that make it so even a man crashing on your couch for 30 days has a legal, police-enforced right to remain on your couch, for free, in a rented apt! I've seen it happen, to my horror, w/ cops right there taking his side in my tiny (and technically illegal) one room apt. I was an absolute fool to let it happen, but was young and didn't know at the time how much trouble you can get into w/ letting a guy stay w/ you. 'Romance' can end up as a nightmare, so....don't let it happen to you! Male or female, doesn't matter, friendship/love status, also.

  • @jayjayvlogchannel5126
    @jayjayvlogchannel512619 күн бұрын

    Still financially you can still be with person even if broke or not it doesn’t matter about financially clearly she wants someone with money goes to show

  • @SweetBeeNatural

    @SweetBeeNatural

    19 күн бұрын

    It would be very foolish of her to allow a grown man who is financially unstable to live with her and her children. She doesn't need another dependent. If he doesn't have his life together he shouldn't be worried about shacking up, he should be worried about being a man that can stand on his own. It's not her job to carry him because she's already carrying enough.

  • @ashleyglass2177

    @ashleyglass2177

    19 күн бұрын

    @@SweetBeeNaturalcouldn’t have said it better myself. Thank you…

  • @user-mx8cg8ge1p

    @user-mx8cg8ge1p

    19 күн бұрын

    she is absolutely doing the right thing this dude is not financially right

  • @Ontheedgeofglory

    @Ontheedgeofglory

    19 күн бұрын

    Well said

  • @girlcalledmango

    @girlcalledmango

    19 күн бұрын

    Money? Or a job and able to support themselves?

  • @user-qe1mt3zh2d
    @user-qe1mt3zh2d18 күн бұрын

    Keep shit friend zone.

  • @Notifysender90
    @Notifysender9019 күн бұрын

    He’s the shortest one there and she has very right to secure her feelings emotionally financially and physically!

  • @RainDontExist

    @RainDontExist

    19 күн бұрын

    Tf that gotta do with anything

  • @Notifysender90

    @Notifysender90

    12 күн бұрын

    @@RainDontExist BITCH EVERYTHING! TF!!

  • @Notifysender90

    @Notifysender90

    12 күн бұрын

    @@RainDontExistBITCH EVERYTHING!!! TF! But like most u just read the part of me observing how short he is and ran with it MISSING the AND part in the sentence! Carry on

  • @angelowens7497
    @angelowens749718 күн бұрын

    I feel you girl. I'm not taking care of a grown man especially that's not financially stable!! That's more stress!!

  • @angieanne9377
    @angieanne937719 күн бұрын

    first! haha thanks Mtv.. love this show!

  • @wildyam474
    @wildyam47419 күн бұрын

    Understandable ans also sad. Capitalism is extremely hard to navigate, especially for black folks. Success in this type of system is in no way tied to your human value or your talents and work ethic. If we lived in a better world, she wouldn't have to take his finances into consideration as much or worry that he may be trying to use her. It's sad all the way around. #CapitalismKills

  • @rasun316

    @rasun316

    19 күн бұрын

    ...totally!

  • @montagneicloden

    @montagneicloden

    19 күн бұрын

    Right!!

  • @nikkideevah

    @nikkideevah

    19 күн бұрын

    She is taking care of two kids on her own. Why would she move a stranger into her home. Thats nothing about Capitalism its common sense. She dont know him.

  • @mundaneamazing

    @mundaneamazing

    19 күн бұрын

    Would it help you to know this man is an often out-of-work "dj"?

  • @lo.lo_marie
    @lo.lo_marie18 күн бұрын

    He might love her but is he going to be consistent? Is he going to take initiative to DO and be accountable for himself

  • @Jorvanny
    @Jorvanny17 күн бұрын

    Then watch her end up with a deadbeat for dubbing the guy who’s trying to build with her. My wife meet me with nothing and helped me build up to what I am, if she really had that connection she said she had, then she’d work it out

  • @haileynichole456
    @haileynichole45619 күн бұрын

    Wtfffff early as helll boiii

  • @t.e.m.i7364

    @t.e.m.i7364

    19 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @MsXenyy1
    @MsXenyy112 күн бұрын

    I dont blame her

  • @GaryArmstrongJr
    @GaryArmstrongJr19 күн бұрын

    Ooof 😅

  • @londonlifeexplorer3915
    @londonlifeexplorer391517 күн бұрын

    5:00 7:58

  • @thegreatestshowonearth7623
    @thegreatestshowonearth762318 күн бұрын

    Something tells me if they were together she'll be wearing the pants in that relationship because seems like one of those men who is a bit timid everything is ok baby lol she seems like the type of woman that everything he does wouldn't be good enough he gets a good job help with Bill's or whatever still isn't good enough she'll find another reason to nag and he'll still sit there saying ok baby

  • @asoldierstwocentsrawuncut9611
    @asoldierstwocentsrawuncut961117 күн бұрын

    She's dead wrong... Of course people want someone who is stable..BUT They've been talking for 3 years. Her text said otherwise..So let's not make it seem like they just now met each other (no pun intended). She knew his finances when they were talking rings. She knew his money situation when she was calling him her soulmate.. It goes to show how selfish she is. She's only concerned with herself...which is fine but don't lead people on and then fake like your the victim.

  • @kno3730

    @kno3730

    17 күн бұрын

    He didn’t get something going in three years though? 🤔🙄🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @hexadoni
    @hexadoni17 күн бұрын

    Nice of knew to dit the down and make them break up

  • @Shukrimoto1
    @Shukrimoto118 күн бұрын

    Why didn't ask her what her baby daddies did for a living?

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