My brother pretty much diagnosed himself with ADHD. My parents were more of the "No, you need to sit down and be quiet and start respecting your teachers" mentality, and by middle school he was saying "I'm pretty sure I have ADHD." His behavior just kept getting worse, so they finally got him assessed in NINTH grade, and the doctor was like "Yeah... it's not so much a matter of IF he's ADHD, but HOW ADHD he is." Like all disorders, there's a spectrum, and evidently he was nearly falling off the chart.

@lexie8181

18 күн бұрын

Similar here except I have a relatively supportive family in getting diagnosed. I found out in uni and the doc was like you are textbook adhd surprised no one caught it before 😂

@MorningStarMidnightSun

18 күн бұрын

I’m currently 25(F), & my brother is 10 years younger. He was diagnosed (actually with Asperger’s at first…in 2011??) with ASD/ADHD/ADD at age 3, kid embodies the spectrum lol. While my mother was reading up more post-diagnosis, she was always reading me off things saying “oh you do this too!” type thing. Yet I was always too scared to ask for help with my mental health, as since I was my brother’s diagnosis-age even, my parents would chastise & scold me for “off” behaviour. They tried to control my mental health through fear, but when those techniques didn’t work on my brother, they took him into CAMHS. It wasn’t until it was culminating into full on breakdowns & I was literally screaming about topping meself at age 17 that I got my first trip there…diagnosed with OCD (often considered within the spectrum), generalised anxiety disorder, and depression (obviously, lol). At this point in my life, after years of non-contact with the folks, being allowed to live in less fear with freedom of expression & discuss with others to realise more effed up parts of my childhood; I’m pretty certain I am also on the autism spectrum, yet had been coerced into suppression so well that I had formed a “neurotypical mask” that only began to crumble towards the tail end of living under my parents, causing very severe MH symptoms & becoming a ticking timebomb of a teen. Yet it was so, so different for my brother (for which I am thankful for his access to care). The wait-time & cost of being properly diagnosed as an adult is just too much however, this is in New Zealand, so I just accept being in limbo & picking up what management techniques I can through my own research & self-psychoanalysis lol. Learning about attachment theory has helped a lot in processing the disparities between myself & my brother’s acceptance (or lack of) under our folks, as has receiving context, opinions & acceptance from extended family. I kind of went on a tangent here, sometimes we just need to express these things somewhere to make sense of the chaos, so cheers if anyone actually read this far hahah. I guess I can just relate to the teen character a lot here, though I’ve never seen this show, but I receive far more support from my mother’s sister (who lives in another country even) & girls/women seem to exist invisibly on the spectrum, often for their whole lives😔 I am so grateful for better awareness & support of ADHD/ASD/ADD, yet the (gender) hypocrisy I’ve experienced in my own home from my own parents will always run deep.

@reaverkai

17 күн бұрын

​@@MorningStarMidnightSun similar story here. My mom suspected my brother was on the spectrum since around 4yo, he was diagnosed around 16 (shitty doctors). Im 2 years younger and was diagnosed with attention deficit and se ere anxiety when I was around 8 i think, however not much changed after that diagnosis help-wise. Im now 28, got both assesments redone a couple years ago and i was falling off the charts with how far I am on those spectrums. Further back I started wondering whether Im also on the spectrum like my brother, since I started seeing and reading more about autism in women (Im afab nb,). I wish I had the certainty of knowing, but anyways yeah, I feel let down by doctors and to some extent my mom too. Tho I know she did what she could with the little information there was about the subject when we were young, i feel like sometimes she still forgets about what I struggle with and have struggled my entire life, and considers more my brothers struggles, putting his above mine and telling me to suck it up

@kettch777

17 күн бұрын

My parents were the same way. I wasn't allowed to "use it as an excuse", and it "was up to you to control it." Turns out I'm also autistic and never received any real care for either condition. Now I'm in my 40s, and, well, you can imagine how many traumatic social experiences I have in my past.

@twistysnacks

16 күн бұрын

​@@MorningStarMidnightSun you're female. That's why you weren't diagnosed, in a nutshell. I'm autistic and have ADHD as well, and was diagnosed with ADD when I was 16 (this was 1997 so that's what it was called back then). My parents rejected the diagnosis and I didn't learn about it until I was much older. Never diagnosed with autism, but by the time I was 16, I'd learned to mask fairly well. That's why we're rarely diagnosed - our symptoms are quite different than male symptoms, and the diagnosis for both conditions are based on boys, not girls. Basically your parents, along with everyone else in your life, just shamed you into acting right, and they did it from a young age. No such extreme expectations are placed on boys.

I like that Kelly herself is pleased by the diagnosis but they could have done a better job with the mom here who seems like she’s also ADHD. All the adults in the room treating her the same way everyone was treating her daughter before acting like bad behavior = bad motives.

@rosiebrown963

Ай бұрын

U know I made this

@ellenseltz4548

12 күн бұрын

I didn't think it showed bad motives, but bad decisions. And I thought the way she came in late and plopped down on the sister was a great illustration of "oh yeah, this is hereditary."

@honinakecheta601

9 күн бұрын

I thought her mom was just being a b*tch but maybe you have a point too

her asking about the waiting list time is kinda real, like I had to wait 2+ years for shitty cbt under nhs

And the hilarious thing about all of this is that the kid having been drugged by her mom also more than likely throws away the whole diagnosis. Because a critical part of diagnosing anyone with a mental health / developmental disorder is ruling out that the symptoms could have been caused by anything else. Like, y’know, *drugs.* Kid’s gonna have to be removed from her mother’s influence, weaned off the drugs until her system is clear, and then go through the entire diagnostic process all over again just to figure out if her ADHD is real. Or if it was just the result of her mother drugging her this whole time. And it’s going to be even harder this time around, because an ADHD diagnosis requires symptoms to have occurred since early childhood, and we have no idea when this kid’s mom started drugging her. There might not even be any uncompromised records.

It’s not always the parents fault. My daughter did well in school until about 8 years old, or 3rd grade. After that she had reading comprehension issues. She didn’t like to read anymore. I read to her before she was able to read by herself and she seemed engaged. But things were different. I attributed it to problems with her dad, as I was a single mom since she was 5, and visits with her father didn’t always go well. However, in going to parent/teacher conferences, there were issues being brought up, and reading comprehension was always a problem. There were other things brought up too, but not much was made of it. Then I found out years later, that if a teacher thinks there is a child with these kinds of issues, they are supposed to have them evaluated. And should the child have problems, that child would be enrolled in a special class to help them. At the school’s expense. So, the school encourages the teachers to NOT make it a big deal, because they don’t want to pay for it. I was so angry when I found out! So my daughter did not do well in higher school, basically just getting by. By I had no idea there was a real reason for it. Turns out she had severe ADD. Didn’t find out until after graduation. I had her see a psychiatrist for the diagnosis and she was put on medication for it. It turned her life around. In the fall after graduation, she went to college and became driven, focused, and motivated. She ended up graduating with honors. And I look back at how this could have been handled by the school in helping her in grade school, when they chose to look the other way. She’s 30 now, and happily married. Has a job she loves. And she’s very good at what she does. I don’t know if things are different now, but if they aren’t, I hope this helps someone to be more proactive in getting their child’s school to do more to help their child.

@Aliciaek

14 күн бұрын

However, in a school in New Jersey, many years ago we wondered why there were so many children who belonged to others ethnic groups (non-white) in special classes of students with different academic problems , social and psychological problems... the answer was, that they received the most more state aid, being a school with less than 400 students was not enough budget , they had to close that economic gap using the children with "problems"

@fedgirl7318

14 күн бұрын

@@Aliciaek Yes, my comment is regarding a Connecticut grade school, and it happened over 20 years ago. My daughter wasn’t diagnosed with ADD until after she graduated from high school. After talking with some folks about it at the time, is when I learned that many schools ignored these types of issues on purpose, because to report it would make the school have a special class, hire a teacher for that issue, and the school would have to pay for it. I can’t speak to how it is handled in today’s schools, but years ago, this is what happened to my daughter and me.

Our family GP & hospital paediatrician diagnosed me with ADHD in childhood. Unfortunately the health authorities decided that only boys could have it, so there was no subsidies for medication for me. Luckily for my parents, my older brother was diagnosed too, so he shared his subsidised meds with me or they wouldn't have been able to treat me at all. This was the 70s though.

I didn’t get diagnosed til 27. The struggle is real.

@neryskkiran1820

17 күн бұрын

48

@kalinka04

16 күн бұрын

36 for me

@ellisburton8733

14 күн бұрын

53 when I was diagnosed

Diazepam. That is some heavy duty shit. I can’t imagine that mom had worked out a therapeutically low dose… how could they not notice a kid who was being doped like that?

You'd think the first clue that something's amiss is that she's still in high school well into her 20s.

@Sclub8mad

11 ай бұрын

You are aware it’s a dramatised tv show right and it’s not a reality show

@_Sarby1

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@_Sarby1

11 ай бұрын

​@@Sclub8mad of course they are aware, lol they are joking about 20 year old playing teenagers instead of using actual teenage actors 😂😂

@maz2825

2 ай бұрын

​@@_Sarby1they can't use actual teen actors due to it being a full time job and the subjects of Waterloo Road wouldn't be appropriate for minors to act/do.... most films and series use adults playing teenagers because of these reasons

@_Sarby1

2 ай бұрын

​@@maz2825🤣🤣🤣🤣 its not because its a full time job so teenagers can't do it 🤣🤣 you obviously haven't seen many films from the 80s where children were used in some very disturbing films 🤣because of that finally in the 90s films and TV regulated children being in them. Children can only film for a certain number of hours a day and week, have to have a teacher/tutor or go to school for a certain number of hours and be paid a certain rate. To avoid all these things films and TV hire anyone under 30 to play a teenager because they didn't have those restrictions and they could have them filming for as many hours as they wanted like the original 90210

As a person with adhd this is all too accurate

I wonder what other secrets are in that home. I don’t watch the series but have lived a few decades.

@janel342

11 ай бұрын

Look no further than the mother: her intrusive arrival How the girls body language changed the second her mother arrived; How the mother was aggressive physically and vocally : ……..

@BelleOfAmherst

11 ай бұрын

@@janel342Absolutely! The young woman playing this role is brilliant! She has the eyes down and that visible flinch as soon as the mother comes near to her.

That look the counselor gives Debbie at 2:31 is serious business.

I was diagnosed at 53, daughter a 27.... Outside the school system there is almost no follow up. So it takes you ages to get a diagnosis and then nothing... And they never mention and cross over or co-morbidity like ADHD with anxiety or Dyslexia, r ASD depression and Dyspraxia. Or all 4 of them!!! And no neither myself or my daughter resemble that girl, so people don't even know how to spot it 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

My brother was diagnosed with ADHD quite young. Problem is, he didn’t have ADHD. He is High Functioning Autistic. All the drugs and medications that doctors had him on will have long term effects on his body and brain. Too many children are mistakenly diagnosed with ADHD because doctors don’t know enough and parents look for others to blame.

@mikochild2

5 күн бұрын

Also girls and women with adhd and autism often fly under the radar.

MOM needs to chill out and sit down and listen!

@ran1aa

Ай бұрын

She might have ADHD too..

@strawberrysundae_megan

26 күн бұрын

Possible that she also has adhd

@Judep4237

20 күн бұрын

Also looks like Mom has been dealing with this alone for 14? Years without any help. I’d be annoyed with these professionals too.

@thegreyhoundgirls536

18 күн бұрын

And sit in her OWN chair

@alittlepieceofearth

16 күн бұрын

Mom probably has ADHD too.

Her mom might have ADHD too.

@sakaiahreign3365

2 ай бұрын

Undiagnosed

@spookyspice596

Ай бұрын

Undiagnosed and untreated ADHD can get worse in adulthood, so it wouldn't surprise me.

@pantamews

Ай бұрын

​@@spookyspice596 the treatment is psychology and sometimes Medication right? Im not sure since i don't have ADHD and i want to learn about its treatments

@user-gp5cy3ut6y

Ай бұрын

@@pantamews it’s less so treatment in the sense of finding a cure and more so as a way to manage things. so therapy and psychological intervention may be needed to work through past experiences that have been worsened by having the likes of adhd, or as a way to help a person develop coping mechanisms and strengthen their ability to complete things they may struggle will more than the “average” person. medication can help a lot too by improving the likes of a person’s ability to focus, though a lot of them can also come with extensive side effects.

@pantamews

Ай бұрын

@@user-gp5cy3ut6y ohh i see, tysm for helping me understand

I was diagnosed with ADHD as a teen. There was no way to know I didn’t actually have it but had a different medical issue. My doctor after college said I didn’t have it but by then my health was worse and the adhd meds possibly gave me false energy that made my medical issues worse. Nothing I could have done differently but I wish there had been.

@sophroniel

18 күн бұрын

Curious what you actually have

@blazingstar9638

18 күн бұрын

@@sophronielsame. It could be help to others, but totally understand if they don’t want to share

😂😂 "okayy.. ahhh.. right"

Back in the day (1980s) my boss told me he had had ADHD as a kid but that he literally grew out of it when he grew. He was about 6' 5" tall.

Having an official diagnosis and treatment accommodations for schooling is typically very useful

So, there is a biological component to ADHD. Someone might have explained to mom that if daughter has it, she might get herself evaluated. (Looks like she's a likely candidate.) Second, why is everyone whispering as if this is something dramatic? Getting a diagnosis, especially at as early an age as this girl is something to celebrate. It means she can get the help to learn the skills she needs to manage her life and be successful. She doesn't have to go wandering around in the dark. But mom dosing her daughter is kind of a nightmare.

I often wonder if the parent is the cause of the problem. My mom was like this and worse, and while I've never been diagnosed with adhd (never looked into it), I have a lot of anxiety and nervous tics that I attribute directly to her abuse.

@PureLove_X

17 күн бұрын

ADHD is genetic. It's likely been inherited from her to begin with.

@twistysnacks

16 күн бұрын

Or your mom suffered from the same diagnoses and didn't have it under control....

@arson_ruby2403

15 күн бұрын

@@twistysnacksit can be both. Being mentally ill doesn’t excuse abusive behavior

@Grandmaster_Dragonborn

7 күн бұрын

@@arson_ruby2403 That's right. A parent should know to get themselves help for the sake of their children.

I suffer today from side effects

The word is Enlightening

CBT agh all they throw at

Kelly Jo’s mom?!??!?? More like sister 😮

@ladybrandy91

2 ай бұрын

She had her young Tha actress is in her mid 30s in real life

Which episode is this from?

Mom is right to blame the system for failing to serve her and her daughter, but the system is only half responsible. Even if you have ADHD and even if you had a terrible education, you are still responsible for YOUR choices and actions. It sounds like the daughter has been doing her own research into managing her condition, while mom's been like, "ADHD can be cured by any narcotic you throw at it, right?"

@ericaeli3807

11 күн бұрын

Diazepam is a benzo not a narcotic

Not sure I like the implication that medication is not the way to go with ADHD. Now admittedly you don't use diazepam as a first-line treatment but the efficacy of stimulant medications is well-tested.

@mrjones2721

15 күн бұрын

Absolutely. Diazepam is not an ADHD treatment, but there are plenty of medications that are, and they’re a godsend. I wish I hadn’t had to wait until my 30’s to learn that.

@Mokiefraggle

3 күн бұрын

On the other hand, you don't want to dive straight into medication if the person's at that place in the ADHD spectrum where their behavior can be handled with adapting their routine and building good habits. It's always best to start with addressing what can be done _before_ medication, rather than just using medication like it's the only option.

the mom and the daughter look the same age-

The mom looks kind of young 🤨

@Number81ght

Ай бұрын

Youngest you can legally have a child in the UK is 16, as the age of consent is 16. This show is in Highschool/secondary school, so the oldest the girl could be is also 16. That means, the youngest that the mum could legally be is 32. Never seen the show, but I am aware that the actress for the mother is in her 30s, so it's accurate to say she would look this young.

@Natasha-xh7pf

26 күн бұрын

​@@Number81ght32/33 sounds about right. She played Michaela in Hollyoaks years ago and Michaela was my age

@MorningStarMidnightSun

18 күн бұрын

Lol daughter looks kinda old for secondary school too then, don’t you think🤨

ADHD is a term i don't fully understand. My son's teacher said that he had adhd. But when his mid term test results came she was completely surprised, because my son came first in his class. He was in 2 nd grade. Some children are hyper active at a certain stage but calm down naturally as they mature. My son is going to join college this year. So just don't jump into conclusions. 🙏

@Mokiefraggle

3 күн бұрын

ADHD is a spectrum of things, though. You can be _incredibly_ intelligent, test well, and still actually have ADHD. The name is a severe misnomer, in fact. Some kids are physically hyperactive, can't sit still long enough to focus on a task, which even into adulthood can continue to manifest as physical restlessness when asked to sit still and do a tedious thing. Some are incredibly inattentive and prone to daydreaming or distracted thoughts (this is one of the more common presentations in female ADHD cases, which is why it was so often presumed to be purely a "boys' problem," due to their greater likelihood to present visible, physical symptoms). Some suffer from executive dysfunction, and have a hard time transitioning between tasks, while some hyperfocus on singular things to the point of forgetting everything around them. Some have issues regulating their emotions, or suffer from rejection sensitivity dysphoria (basically, a thing perceived as an emotional "rejection" can send some folks with ADHD into a downward spiral of distress disproportionate to the situation). Some suffer from severe insomnia, but also have a hard time waking up once they _do_ sleep. It's not just "Oh, this kid can't sit still and do their work, so they're ADHD!" Also, plenty of people with ADHD go to college. It's not a condition that affects how intelligent you are. It's something that effects how the brain produces, processes, and responds to dopamine due to maldevelopment of the prefrontal cortex. Yes, it can be comorbid with various learning disabilities, but ADHD in itself does not have any kind of definitive proof that one is somehow less intelligent for having it. In fact, it's become increasingly evident that many children cited as "gifted" when younger are in fact merely someone with strong hyperfocus in those areas, which is often why that supposed "gifted" intellect begins to wane as they reach high school or college, where many of their previous support structures begin to fail, and due to their previous ease with the subject, they often haven't built good coping methods for when it _doesn't_ make sense anymore. You're saying "Don't just jump to conclusions," but you're the one trotting out hackneyed stereotypes and ideas that have been largely disproven. Your son going off to college doesn't mean that he doesn't have ADHD. The fact that he tested high doesn't mean he's neurotypical. That all kids can be hyperactive doesn't mean that ADHD doesn't exist or is a rushed diagnosis. You admit you don't understand ADHD, and you're showing a lot of your ignorance in trying to basically act like it doesn't exist.

@devisaba2480

2 күн бұрын

@@Mokiefraggle I said I don't understand ADHD but didn't say it doesn't exist. In many cases it is misunderstood. By the way he wasn't tested high on ADHD.Thank you for the detailed explanation. I know many people who are super intelligent and never even show symptoms, only a close diagnosis can reveal their ADHD. I said don't jump into conclusions because it happened to my son who didn't have ADHD but was misdiagnosed.

@Mokiefraggle

2 күн бұрын

@@devisaba2480 Apologies. It really does read like you're shining it off in that way that many people do, especially when someone in their life who doesn't "look like they have ADHD" is given the diagnosis. Also, I've known too many people who try and play the "It's not real/you just need to learn to behave better" game with friends and family who have ADHD or other neurodivergencies that anything that remotely touches the "Oh, everyone's just a little like that!" thing raises my hackles.

Then what happened?

Is this a drama from the UK?

@user-gj1pq5zm4l

18 күн бұрын

The accent kind of give that away.

I love the videography. The shaking of the camera sells it completely. That's how I see the world when I'm speaking to people. It needs MORE shaking so you can't see the people. A little more and I can get a headache even faster.

I mean, if anything it makes it obvious that the mom probably has ADHD acting the way she does and being impulsive etc Bad shit but rather than make the mom just look like a dick they should maybe just look at treating them both. Eh, weird scene.

@AtarahDerek

17 күн бұрын

She probably does have ADHD (it is genetic, after all), and she's right that the system failed her. But that doesn't change the fact that she is responsible for her own actions. Even if her intentions were good, medicating her daughter for undiagnosed ADHD without a prescription was dangerous and incredibly foolish, and she can easily have her daughter taken from her for it. At this point it might be safer for mom and daughter to be separated for a time while both are treated for their conditions. The girl has family she can stay with, so she won't languish in the system, and mom will have to learn some hard lessons.

the kid is fine the mom is the problem

❤ hello

There’s no way employers can cope with people with this type of condition. So, giving them qualifications that they can’t get in a normal way, just wastes time and money, and perpetrates fraud on employers and difficult behaviour on work colleagues.

@priskruger314

5 күн бұрын

What's the solution then. I don't believe I meds either and I agree it's fraudulent. Neurodivergents have to work too though and earn a living just like you lucky sods unafflicted by 'adhd'. It can also be a diet issue for some.

@joem7799

5 күн бұрын

@@priskruger314 ADHD is often caused by the diet, such as various soft drinks with e211 in them, plus colourants. Also a diet of high carbs and sugar causes high energy levels such as hyperactivity. The medication for ADHD calms the person however the long term effects are not known, not researched, and it’s very possibly that being on such medication in the long term, for a few years or a decade or more, causes brain damage or cancer. Usually the people put on those drugs are young and their brains are developing. The solution is to try to control symptoms through diet. The person can control their behaviour a bit better when they are older. For example my son is an adult now but if he’s nervous about something he has to face, he drinks a certain fizzy drink with E211 in it, and it benefits him, otherwise he controls his diet to stay more placid but with children and teens, careful diet is needed. I should add that ADHD is caused by an allergy to certain E numbers in the food, as it penetrates the brain barrier in those allergic. Not everyone is allergic! Generally, l am pointing out that people with serious behavioural issues, are a burden, financially and time wise on employers yet employers are expected to carry certain people, tolerate them, and pretend they earn their wages, as directed by Governmental departments as guidance and may be compulsory that they carry a percentage of such people in the workplace. I have seen abuse of the systems in place to support people with disabilities in the work place. One female l knew had an artificial leg, and it gave her trouble from time to time, this qualified her for immunity from being sacked, fired, however she was hardly at work, but on the few occasions she turned up, she sat doodling how she hated her work, and she complained about the efficiency of other employees, and she was the person who was deficient in her job ethics and standards, yet magically she was “ respected” and “ cosseted” and got paid for 52 weeks a year, when she actually managed to work collectively but 2 months out of the year, she would be off work for 6 weeks at a time several times in a year, and that was in a company that fired their employees if they were absent from work more than twice in the year. One young man l knew was absent to sit exams, three days in one year, he got fired, for three absence periods.

This is NOT real, it is a tv drama on BBC television.

Well yeah, where did the ADHD come from? The kid got the genes from someone. I wouldn't rule out autism either. As those two combined mask one another. Anyways, the system let the mother fall through the cracks so it must also support the mother who by default has a more severe form of what the daughter has sustained, combined with the trauma of not being diagnosed at a more appropriate age like 4... So don't forget to add the CPTSD and check for Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. --- one bitter female patient with EDS, Autism, ADHD and CPTSD waiting until 40 for diagnosis, psychiatry is schizophrenic joke, run on sentence. YIKES the ending to that was f'd. Glad I decided to never had a kid. I wouldn't want to be in those shoes. @.@ Can't say I blame the mom. *Shrugs* I'm living proof you can whoop the autism out of a child... everyday. Medicated with the belt. I would have preferred the diazepam...

This happens because the young parents now, no longer spank their children when they're naughty.

@yucol5661

14 күн бұрын

Nah, my grandfather was raised with strong beatings and discipline and he and his friends were all public menaces. Old people with discipline and strict parents where crazy irresponsible and messed up too. We just like to point blame and imagine all our modern problems are unique to us and have easy solutions. It’s nice to believe that we could fix all bad behavior easily if we had the balls to hit harder, but that’s a comforting lie.

@RaptorFromWeegee

14 күн бұрын

@@yucol5661 Nah, bruh, you're wrong. If your gramps and his pals were that menacing, they probably would a been 10 times worse had they NOT been given some discipline. If physical discipline was so ineffective, then we'd still be in the stone age right now. Boomers and Xers both got physically disciplined but all the generations before them got REALLY beaten bad! But nobody ever questioned it. We're talking generations that lead the 18th century enlightenment and the scientific revolution. These people invented everything, developed industrialism, cars, TV, and landed a man on the moon. If they were so "harmed" by physical discipline they'd never have accomplished so much. These kids today need to be toughened up, they got no resiliency. Sometime, take a look at Abigail Schrier's new book, 'Bad Therapy'. Its all about how the current thinking on child rearing is programing todays children for failure.

This is not a disorder, it's gift and a very powerful one.

@spookyspice596

Ай бұрын

Yes, the inability to focus, the difficulty relaxing, the mood swings, the sleepless nights, the low motivation, the low self-esteem, the long periods of unemployment, the paralysis, and the non-stop racing thoughts that constantly scream over each other are SUCH a gift!

@aurora_skye

Ай бұрын

​@@spookyspice596 THIS

@Fragmented_Mask

Ай бұрын

I appreciate that some people do see their ADHD as a gift or superpower and for them it's really helpful to see it that way. That doesn't mean this is the case for everyone. It is a neurodiversity which comes with strengths, but also typically makes navigating the world very challenging. I don't see my ADHD as a gift or superpower. When I'm struggling and wishing I'd been born with a different brain, I remind myself that if that happened, I might also not have all the qualities in myself that I like. I'm working towards acceptance of the difficulties with the positives, without pretending the difficulties don't exist

@goofball2228

Ай бұрын

Not for me. Anger issues, impulsive behavior, inability to wait turns, ruined relationships, risky behaviors, near death experiences, not able to focus or relax, depression, anxiety, low self esteem, etc.

@idkwhoiamtbh726

29 күн бұрын

@@spookyspice596i luv the way u humbled them

Stop making ADHD look bad. It’s not a curse, it’s a blessing.

@crypto66

11 ай бұрын

Very much a curse in my experience. Especially if you live in a third-world sh**hole with a backwards mindset when it comes to mental healthcare--or healthcare in general, really--even from supposed industry "professionals." Although, I don't see how they're "making ADHD look bad" here. They're offering her proper treatment and the selfish "mother" is portrayed as clearly in the wrong. At least going by this clip.

@txwombat7826

11 ай бұрын

Its a curse in many ways... more negative than positive for sure.

@georgina3358

11 ай бұрын

It may not be a curse but I don't think it's a blessing

@lio1234234

11 ай бұрын

They're not making it look that way, they're getting her help that she needs, or could very much do with. However the mother portrayed here on the other hand ...

@georgiabradley1712

11 ай бұрын

Glad for you it is a blessing and whilst I don’t like stigma for me it’s a big dark cloud above me. For me it’s very debilitating so very much a curse. X

People commenting the mother also has ADHD & the daughter got it from the mother. I would like to point out that most people (all ages) diagoned with learning barriers obtained these learning barriers through some form of abuse; this could verbal and emotional abuse, a narcissistic parent or a parent with an addiction, most parents who with struggling with addiction also become narcissistic. ADHA and ADD are monstly a by product of environmental factors and not genetics, the quality of food and air could also contrabute to learning barriers.

@crptpyr

17 күн бұрын

What are you on about mate, ADHD is usually genetic, caused on occasion by things like a traumatic brain injury, or exposure to bad shit during pregnancy (we're not talking bad food and bad air, we're talking abt shit like smoking, drinking, or lead exposure) Adhd is a neurodevelopmental disorder, it occurs very early, and it has a root physical cause. Some bad parenting isn't really gonna affect that short of dropping a kid on the head

@jessweaver5713

17 күн бұрын

18 years as a specialist teaching advisor in inclusion of disabled students in mainstream education, and an autism in education training. You’re 100% incorrect.

@doonewatts7155

17 күн бұрын

Balderdash

@gemmapeter7173

17 күн бұрын

The heritability of ADHD is about 80% ( doi: 10.1007/s11920-020-1141-x ) ADHD is not caused by bad parenting though it may cause people to struggle with parenting. ADHD makes you more susceptible to addiction - Adults with ADHD have a higher prevalence of substance abuse disorder (15.2%) compared to those without ADHD (5.6%).

@anastasiabeaverhausen5467

17 күн бұрын

I’ll stick with the science thanks.

That was far too dramatic! Lol. It should have been approached with a more matter of fact, nothing to be embarrassed about approach.