Prachi di i want to say something. Even women who are financially independent go through so much abuse from their toxic partner (boyfriend/husband). I feel like some people are emotionally dependent thats what make them tolerate abuse. Or sometimes people who were never loved by their parents often become victim in abusive relations. Just in the recent delhi case, girl was financially independent still tolerated his partner's abuse. 🥺🥺 But yes to be financially independent is always a plus point.

@SmileWithPrachi

Жыл бұрын

Very true. A lot of this happens due to poor upbringing. Or children who grow up in abusive homes/witness abuse between parents/have invalidating families … For what has been revealed in the news articles so far, it’s likely…and we can only guess…but she probably had invalidating parents. So she never learnt to trust her own feelings.

@dibya8319

Жыл бұрын

@@SmileWithPrachi Yes prachi di. I am feeling so sad for her.

@AshishKumar-ei8ly

Жыл бұрын

@@SmileWithPrachi the girl was a moron who disown her own family for a psycho.

@bmvinod1243

Жыл бұрын

In the name of dating slut culture and ayyashi in full flow. It's better that parents make their children married around 20-22 years.

@apieceoflife2732

Жыл бұрын

Or the women who don't have parents alive.

Victim blaming is so normalized in Eastern cultures. I'm honestly sick of it. Anytime a woman is killed or abused people always say yes it must be her fault somehow she must have done something wrong as if women are treated right if they are at their parent's house or with their husbands.

@SmileWithPrachi

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately not just in the eastern culture, but everywhere. Psychologically people often do it to convince themselves that the same thing cannot happen to them.

@rationalsamrat3247

Жыл бұрын

Same thing applies for men too . A man is also blamed for choosing wrong women when she turns out to be a gold digger or a cheater .also i disagree with you i genuinely believe that people put blame on the victim to warn others of the consequences of the choices .

For the second letter I feel something off about the guy. Feels like he's one of them who can't understand a no from a woman. It seems creepy, sounds like he's never going to stop hovering around her until she takes very strong step.

@jayesh12345india

Жыл бұрын

He likes her. If he is a man, he must not step down (chahe kuch bhi ho jaye) ❤️‍🔥 Edit: Ishq di mere mitra pehchaan ki, Mitt jaave jadon zidd apnan di.

@madhurimabasak7168

Жыл бұрын

@@jayesh12345india a real man would understand a No and step back.

@sg3918

Жыл бұрын

@@madhurimabasak7168 if you look at it black and white you'd be right. though you have to step into a guys shoes to understand. 'will go slightly off the letter and jump to a marriage perspective'... quite simply if a guy is talking to or meeting desirable girls in general, it can pay well to be extremely dishonest (makes himself seem much bigger than he is especially career and finances or say align ages to show less of a gap) and somewhat forcing especially in a meeting scenario (to win over competition) than be very decent, respectful, honest etc which doesn't always stand out especially if you don't have much to show for. very sad but true. i agree with you but that's because i have principles i don't break so i'd never do it but those 'real men' will find it harder, not impossible but harder. a girl can be sought out quite easily by 'acting as if' though.

@hopeslies3364

Жыл бұрын

@@jayesh12345india What do you mean chahe kuch v ho jaye, he should not step down..?! Agar koi ladka (sahi parha) tumhare pichhe lag jaye aur pichha hi na chhode, chahe kuch v ho jaye, toh? The world doesn't revolve around the "man", you know, ki chahne se hi usko sab kuch mil jayega. Hum log aurat h, properties nhi h.

It amazes me every time how so well articulated a person you are Prachi!

Hello prachi ,, make a video for a divorced women and men on what are the factors to be consider when entering second marriage and how to choose right partner again without any confusion ? It's my kind request. thanks in advance.

Well Prachi , i agree with this whole religion haterd thingy that's going on but its also scary to note the fact that all his girlfriends were Hindus and these women maybe at some point be the targets to his atrocities .

@SmileWithPrachi

Жыл бұрын

In that case, shouldn’t we focus on his messed up mental state all the more? …instead of hating the entire religion - that makes zero sense. We cannot solve the problem by asking the wrong questions. I have a lot of Muslim friends, and Hindu friends and Christian friends…not one of them are bad people. I will forever refuse to believe that any religion is bad, it’s us. humans that are corrupting our religions and our youngsters…

@doobiedooba2001

Жыл бұрын

@@SmileWithPrachi i do agree to your point , hating on a religion is mental instability but my point is shraddha's case wasn't any normal mental sickness murder , considering the fact that he has had just hindu girlfriends makes me believe that its a case of love jihad. I too have a lot of Muslim friends and they are one of the best , i wont doubt on that either. I don't think calling this case a mental instability murder considering multiple other evidences on love jihad is justified.

@hopeslies3364

Жыл бұрын

@@doobiedooba2001 Achcha what exactly do you guys mean by "love jihad" though? Because I thought it meant converting someone into their religion and marrying them. But in this case, it was the GIRL who wanted to get married and the guy killed her because he did NOT want to marry her, converted or not. So, how does this become a case of "love jihad"? Or is the meaning of "love jihad" never really constant and always keeps changing according to people's convenience? Arre bhai, if all his girlfriends were Hindus, could that not have happened because there are way more Hindus in our country than there are Muslims!? Muslims constitute only 14% of our population, so are you saying that a Muslim guy should spend his entire life looking for that ONE Muslim woman he can date?! There are Hindu women all around, so obviously he's going to fall in love with mostly Hindus and rarely Muslims (I'm talking about any random Muslim guy, NOT Aftab; Aftab was never "in love" with any of them). So, like Prachi di said, it's the PEOPLE, not the religion. Religion didn't make Aftab a psychopath. His own mind was his own making.

Prachi this was a wonderful video...your thoughts are always clear and practical 🌼

Thank you Prachi Di for being so helpful to grow myself as a better person unknowingly u teach me so many things about the human behaviour and forgiveness and handling any panic Situation in very Calm way ur real teacher of my life i do watch all ur videos n wait for new one ur the best Women on the internet today who is showing the better prospective of life without any negetivty if i start writing about u i might get shorter by words but ur Really a Great Soul to watch n i love u n thank you for being my best teacher💫💫💓💓💓

1:07 prachi diii... my mom starting shitting about why live in is bad when she heard this news and i asked her only one thing " amma, the other day u told me that inyour childhood you had seen 3-4 instances where the newly wed girl was burnt with kerosine when she had not brought in sufficient dowry"?? and she was quiet..... she understood

Diamond, I am looking at it from a slight different perspective. Now, every girl, when they are in their growing phase, undergoing puberty and so on, they do have certain personal issues or concerns, that they generally share only with their mother. I am hoping, your sister, did that too. Now, she is not having your mom, maybe she is not able to open up to anyone for any suggestion or concern anymore. So she is feeling that void constantly within. And you, on top of that, parenting her, is irritating her all the more maybe. It's right, she may not have to worry about papers n all, but maybe she is going through something internally too. Her rebel nature on the outside, is most probably due to some pain she is carrying inside. Is any any close trust worthy female relative you got? Like your maasi Or anyone. I'd suggest, you can approach her and ask her to speak with your sister. Someone who can be a motherly figure to her. She needs to pour her heart out. Or if you don't have one, then a therapist would be really good as Prachi suggested. Your are a wonderful brother, but would say, don't judge your sissy, it's equally difficult for both . Still, you have got a partner now, could be your sister is feeling terribly lonely inside. She needs your love, just be her best friend! I am sure she will confide in you.

Be Awake not WOKE.

I feel society should understand, what ever the reason is we're humans, each and every person deserves happiness, but being in a environment that's uncomfortable/violence/being in a toxic relationship etc reasons walkout from that there will be a way out.

Prachi don't worry about video being lengthy .. we all just love to hear things from you .. its ok if the video is getting little longer

Abusive relationship I had a class mate whose boyfriend used to control her extremely like she is prohibited to pronounce another guys name etc And used to beat her when ever she crosses those rules Disgusting She is well educated and now financially independent Still in her extremely abusive relationship When he emotionally manipulates her with breakup she used to come running to us crying and saying all situations where he hit her Then we will suggest to break up but she again gets back to him Finally once she told his boyfriend that we suggested break up and he called me and scolded me with no manners We could do nothing I am really disgusted by this Please suggest me a pov to not blame this victim(not ingeneral but this specific girl)

@madhurimabasak7168

Жыл бұрын

Cut this friend off from your life. She herself doesn't understand what's good for her and even makes her well wishers suffer in the hands of her boyfriend. Let her suffer and she'll end up like those abusive relationship cases.

Hi Prachi maam!! I am so in love with you and ur thoughts. I was waiting eagerly from morning for ur video today. Keep it up ur videos, they are so motivating and in today's routine, we all need this. Lots of love girl. Keep going 💕

@Ritik_Nandan

Жыл бұрын

Her maturity of mind amazes me the most. She is a rare gem to us, i wish i had someone so good as a relative or mentor in my own life.

@archanaaahuja1821

Жыл бұрын

@@Ritik_Nandan same here

@bmvinod1243

Жыл бұрын

In the name of dating slut culture and ayyashi in full flow. It's better that parents make their children married around 20-22 years.

Dii! The initial clarity that you rendered on the Delhi case was literally much needed. You help me to process my own thoughts which further catalyse in shaping a better opinion on situations. Have always loved your videos. Just never commented much. But I genuinely want to say a big big whole-hearted thankyou, for being an amazing part of my life 🌸🌸

I shared my story in the first video you posted after your break. So many suggestions came my way. Posting a little update with the original comment if anyone's interested. A little background about me:I was raised in a household where domestic violence was a daily thing. Physical, mental, emotional abuse at the hands of my father is all I've ever known until I was 16. Then he died but my view of relationships was already twisted by that time. Communicating your feelings or even validating your own feelings was something I was never taught. I became submissive, silent, incredibly patient with all sorts of bullshit. I was s4xually abused by an uncle when I was 8 but never told anybody and would take it to the grave. But after I turned 20, I started realising I need to change. I started reading books, listening to wonderful videos, started setting boundaries, understood all kinds of manipulation and in general worked really hard to become the best version of myself that I could be without any help Original text: I (25F) met my bf(26M) in school almost 10 years ago and fell in love. After 2 years, our relationship became long distance and it still is. We've been through our fair share of ups and downs throughout these years. My problem is my bf's attitude in our fights. If he says or does something hurtful, mean or disrespectful to me and I call him out and tell him that you've hurt me, he just doesn't believe it or accept it. He just keeps on defending himself by saying it wasn't his intention or whatever comes to his mind. He's not very good with words in general but not accepting or realising his mistakes hurts me a lot. I've to scream on top of my lungs and keep on explaining how I'm hurt for hours sometimes for him to take accountability. Sometimes he would even try to turn the tables and blame me for hurting him in the process of explaining. If he thinks the issue was small, regardless of my hurt, then also he would blame me for ruining the otherwise nice conversation. Actually he's just really scared of fights in general and tries to avoid them completely before they even start and hence just keeps on defending, deflecting and sometimes even manipulating me without consciously thinking about it. (He doesn't have any childhood trauma, had a big wonderful family and friends and still is very loved) And when he repeats the same hurtful behaviour and I call him out, he panics bcz he promised he won't do it so he just projects his guilt and start blaming me and defending unnecessarily instead of genuinely apologizing without if's and but's. He's not a malicious person but he lacks self awareness at times. After every fight, he promises that he'll change but he actually doesn't change.. They just feel words without actions and I feel betrayed and lied to. This behaviour honestly frustrates me so much and sometimes even I'm at my wits end and so provoked and can't keep my calm and lash out at him and it becomes really toxic. This has been going on for a long time but in the beginning of the relationship, I was very submissive, naive and stupid so didn't raise my voice bcz I didn't know any better but now I just can't take this behaviour anymore but for my bf, it seems like I've changed and he doesn't know how to deal with the more self aware new me. New: A few days ago I had a major fight with my mother (mother and my brother are always in the same team and I'm always cornered, brother is a mama's boy and I don't share a good relationship with either of them even though I love them to pieces). It was a regular family drama, I shared everything with my bf and he admitted that what my mother did was extremely hurtful and I've asked her not to do that a million times before. You can see the pattern that my mother and bf are kinda similar in this aspect atleast. I texted him please don't get involved in this by talking to her and it's my family crisis and I'll handle it. He probably didn't read the text and talked to her and then kinda took her side. I didn't mind him talking to her bcz he didn't see the text but I told him please don't answer any of her calls you get TODAY. He got all mad and said that "Fine, I'll NEVER talk to her ever again, you happy?" And I called him out for manipulating me into feeling guilty when he's the one who broke my boundary. Things just got escalated from there. He got extremely defensive, broke every single promise and when I called him out on that, he said promises mean nothing in fights. He has anger issues. Not a bad person but would hurt you terribly in his anger and says all kinds of hurtful things which he doesn't even mean but serves the purpose of hurting in a fight. In the end, he apologizes but I'm all heartbroken and always left asking the same question, "WHY do you do this to me?" And he again gets defensive bcz he doesn't know the answer either and it's the same cycle. Later we calmed down and talked but he got angry again and said I'm always doing the drama over small things and can't keep the relationship and I never listened to him. Context - I'm always open to listening to criticism bcz I genuinely want to overcome my traumas and become better but he never gives any criticism but would come up with "You also have faults, you don't listen to me, you're not perfect, you're dramatic over small things" when I complain that I'm hurt bcz of your actions. I believe if you've problems with me then say WHEN you have them, don't keep them bottled up and then bring up your grievances with me when I'm trying to tell you that you've hurt me just to shift the focus of fight and deliberately avoid accountability. After all this went down, I couldn't take it anymore and broke up with him bcz I was extremely angry and hurt. Now I've no idea if I overreacted bcz I'm sensitive to these things bcz of my childhood and he's right or I took the right decision. Because I'm going through the worst heartbreak possible and feel all alone in this big world. Mother, brother and now my bf, I've lost every single person I love. I've no true friends either. And I'm not okay. I've nothing left in my life

@mishranidhi8352

Жыл бұрын

Don't be afraid of being alone. Spend some time with yourself. I know it hurts a lot after a few months of breakup but it will clear your mind. You can look back from distance and figure where exactly the problem was. Maybe he is wrong or you are wrong but you both deserve some break from this traumatic pattern. Hope you heal fast. I also had a toxic relationship and the first 1 month of breakup I thought I would rather die then be without him but as months passed I realised it was the best decision.

@anuskabhattacharyya9914

Жыл бұрын

No you did the right thing. Please don't think you over reacted. It is a reaction you should have given a long time ago. I feel so proud of you for fighting for yourself🤗🤗. Please take care and break this cycle of trauma. You'll be really happy I promise 🥰

@binapanisahoo4007

Жыл бұрын

U did right for urself...

@zioii

Жыл бұрын

Same here sis , don't worry everything will be great one day! Alot of love and prayers from me to you❤️

@adityachaudhary554

Жыл бұрын

My suggestion will totally depend upon - what type of hurtful , mean or disrespectful thing he said to you?? Is it some kind of abusive things he said to you ( gaali ) , or it is just some kind of words which you don't like to hear( example - stupid or something) .

First to view and like 😍 And it's really good to see you talking about this news, I wanted to know your pov about it.

@SmileWithPrachi

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

I m also thinking the same by seeing all those whatsapp forwards that says it happened to her b'cz she fights with her parent to live with him. I mean how the hell is even related with live-in-relationship or that boy religion. Its only a case of relationship issues and anger.

@bansivadan4463

Жыл бұрын

its not just relationship issues and anger there are many other factors as well but yes agree with the whatsapp forward part its just very cherry pick argument

@AshishKumar-ei8ly

Жыл бұрын

70% of criminals in jail are muslims only. Read the cases of interfaith marriages. in most of the cases the girl belongs to hindu faith only and ends up either converting or dieing. Just because mindless girls like you

@jyotigupta3195

Жыл бұрын

@@AshishKumar-ei8ly If you are that mindful than you should follow police investigation before commenting here that he dn't killed her b'cz she refuses to convert into islam but instead she want to get rid off her and enjoy his life as single and that girl is not ready for breakup and fight with him out of insecurity as a result he killed her in a moment of anger.

@AshishKumar-ei8ly

Жыл бұрын

@@jyotigupta3195 when did I said he wanted to change her religions?? That's the problem with librals they assume things on their own. You commented that this case has nothing to do with religion of boy and her not obeying and disowning her parents. Well, if she kept contact with her family member rather than disowning them she may somehow overcome from that toxic relationship by support of her parents, friends and brother. But she didn't even bother to meet her mother who was in her deathbed or came in her funeral. If that's women empowerment and modernity to you then, hats off to your thought process and brain.

@madhurimabasak7168

Жыл бұрын

As if no murder, suicides happen in arranged marriages 😂

Thanku prachi di for everything ❣️❣️ 😍😍

@SmileWithPrachi

Жыл бұрын

Thanks a bunch

I have same thoughts as you shared about the Delhi case , no one cares about or talk the shit when in-laws are abusive or parents are abusive, kill the women for sake of honour, murder for dowry etc and portrays itself as it is always the women who is at fault for anything happening with her . Most of the women themselves favour domestic abuse and say disgusting things about it , I have heard people saying so casually that " ab saath padi hai to nibhao " thda bhot to samjhota krna chaiye etc,etc. They so easily make women believe that whatever decision they will make themselves are always disastrous and blame women saying cuss words like jo jda modern banti hain apne aage kisi ki nhi sunti hain unke sath hi aisa hta hai. Some so called religious gurus also preach such things and propogate the ideas as bhartiya nari asi nhi hoti ase nhi krti...

Your labret piercing looks so good on you! 🥺♥️♥️ Can't keep myself from admiring that...

What to do about abusive parents? My mother is abusing me physically verbally from 2015 . After 10th I moved in with my parents. I was living with my relative from 6 years of age. I thought it would be loving and all. But it's exactly opposite. I'm tired. My career has been affected very badly. I can't say what she is doing with me. My father supports her because she earns money. She is a nurse in Scb. I do all the household work. She just cooks a curry in a day . But she will always say she is tired. So I have to do cooking n all which is okay. But after doing all the household chores she will not let me to study. Has beaten me in recent past. She beats me if within 2 secs I don't respond. I'm grown up. I don't like to get beaten up even she is my parents whoever she is. Today I was just about to go to police. But couldn't. What will happen to me if I complain? Please suggest.

@NehaPal-ps2pp

Жыл бұрын

Lastly I will suggest you to make ur self financially independent asap...and after all above suggestions if she doesn't change then give urself 1 month or 2 and start confronting her ..be vocal and loud and angry if she raises her hand over u .. confront her and tell her I m ot going to take this from u ..u r mother and I love u u did lot for me but enough is enough say anything do anything but now onwards don't even think about of raising hand over me if u did I will tell everyone in relatives and I will fight against you if u don't change..

@anshmittal3098

Жыл бұрын

What is your age and how much tume you think it will take to become independent Its india not usa i dont think police gonna do anything if its insanely serious natter like if she beat you death type of something The best thing you can don is to ask your relatives for help for sonetime if possible Well even If you report to police than what If they try to take half ass action it may cause you more problem like more beatings from your mother If no relatives help you the best you can do is try to be independent as fast as you can Stay safe and try to be strong in this time

@madhurimabasak7168

Жыл бұрын

You must report it to police as child abuse but you will need proof. Set a camera somewhere hidden in your room, do this when you know that there's a chance that she would attack. Record everything and don't tell anybody. After her episode, just go outside your home and directly to the police station. Everyone asks for proofs that's why without evidence your mother won't get any punishment and will abuse you even more after that. Just take the step and do it. It's your life and you deserve to live peacefully.

@anshmittal3098

Жыл бұрын

@@madhurimabasak7168 accordinv to her commen she is above 18 atleast than how can she report for child abuse Just asking because i dont know But i reaaly dont think police really hone take action or it make the situation better its best to get help from relatives

We love long videos don't worry 😅

Hi prachi I'm am a 17 years old girl and in 12th grade. 3 months ago I started dating a guy who I really liked. He is my first boyfriend .I knew that this was a very bad decision for me as our life goals and the colleges that we were aiming for were very different and there was very less chance of us being able to stay in contact after 12th grade was over. I myself know that no matter how close your relationship is with a person ,if you not present with them in the same environment ,you will drift apart.

@behe6485

Жыл бұрын

Even after knowing this I could not stop myself from liking this guy and couldn't bare the thought of him losing interest in me and having a relationship with some other girl .So I told him that I did very much like him but I was concerned about our relationship's future.

@behe6485

Жыл бұрын

At that time he told me that we don't need to continue dating after 12th and this can just be a casual thing. Now we have been dating for about 3 months. I can confidently say that I really love this guy and the thought of losing him really hurts me. This probably just sound like an immature and stupid story ,which it might be

@behe6485

Жыл бұрын

Even if we do stay together in college somehow ,I feel like my parents would never accept him(which is a very big deal breaker for me unfortunately) as we have different backgrounds and our family beliefs are so different. I probably brought this upon myself but I feel depressed every time I talk to him .This is also affecting my studies which is the biggest problem.

@behe6485

Жыл бұрын

please help

@sg3918

Жыл бұрын

@@behe6485 it's infatuation, not love. a lot of people think they are in love when they aren't. even marriage isn't love most the time. the definition of love has been lost to be honest, it is used way too loosely by people. 'casual thing' - no. at your age, i would just concentrate on studies to be honest and not get into relationships. the problem with romantic relationships is when you start to form a bond, it carries memories which drains your emotional and mental energy and affects your state especially if it doesn't work out and it's at a time when you don't need it when studies should be your priority for the best part of the next 10 years. it seems like you already see no future with him because your parents would be reluctant and there are belief issues... so then you would have to think about going against your parents to be with your 'love' and the efforts required there... i mean do you really want to be having these thoughts and conversations at this age.

again waiting for your video

Was waiting a lot for your video prachi❤️❤️❤️❤️☺️☺️☺️☺️

Love u prachi.......keep up the good work, i love watching you

@SmileWithPrachi

Жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

Diamond, i hope your sister isn't homophobic. Rest will get sorted with time

Gold, you are so sure you will never fall in love with a guy who worships you, are you emotionally unavailable for a reason? There is usually a backstory to situations like these.

@hopeslies3364

Жыл бұрын

Or maybe there isn't. She might fall in love with some other guy some other time, you never know. Just because this guy "worships" her, doesn't mean she has to fall in love with him and him only. And anyway, even the guy sounds like he cannot take a no. Which means, he's not really in love with her, but the idea of her. He thinks she'll someday fall in love with him despite whatever she might say (or think) at the moment. So, personally, I don't think any sane girl should fall in love with a guy like that anyway.

The first viewer is here! You're a real therapist prachi to me....

@SmileWithPrachi

Жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

Gold, I know you are getting an ego boost but that is coming at the cost of leaving that man's ego to burn into ashes. Its doing more harm than good and I also feel like you're not only holding him back from finding true reciprocated deserving love, but also yourself

This channel is the best place where all sorts of problems in life gets discussed.

Missed your videos 😭😭😭

Hyy Prachi di mujhe ek doubt hai aapke sabhi writers itni achhi english kaise jante hai? aur aapko kabhi other language me bhi letter aaya hai kya? mujhe thik se english nahi aati isilie hindi me likh raha hu.

@The_Indian_Polyglot_Official

Жыл бұрын

Letters tho Hindi aur English main ata hoga.... Kyunki sabko English ati nahi hai na... Maybe she would translate it to English ...

U r so beautiful dear sister❤

Mam i have a personal query and it is very very important.... i really can't ask here ....

To be very honest .....yes the case does have a religious angle to it ......dainik bhaskar published a report in which narco test was carried out in which aftab accepted that he did not regret killing her and does not regret even if he gets death sentence because he will apparently meet "Hoors" in jannat ......people can be blind to obvious facts to show their secularism and stuff but .....yes murders do happen on religious ground .....it may take time for "woke" and self proclaimed liberals to come around it but it is the truth which you have to accept sooner or later .....the case which happened with shraddha is a high profile case but similar case happened with my 5th standard teacher ....she was killed by her husband for not changing her religion after giving birth to his child (she got pregnant before marriage) then they got married and their daughter was born 7 months into their marriage.....and when she was 2 we got the news of our teacher being killed ........it was not a high profile case as she was poisoned to death but the relevations abuse and torcher for religious conversion came after her diary was found by police

Diamond, same sex relationships are still taboo here.... May be your sister is not able to accept it mentally and that's why she is distancing herself from you. And she had also gone through so much like you.... Give her some time.... When she will be little more mature may be she will understand your relationship and can become normal. Please don't force her for anything. Try to be friends with her as Prachi di said.

@hopeslies3364

Жыл бұрын

I don't think the same sex status is the problem here. It might be a problem with older people but the younger generation is much more accepting and supportive.

Prachi, proud of you for talking so sanely about the horrific Delhi murder. The religious angle is stupid, there are psychopaths in every religion. I wish you had spoken about the Stockholm Syndrome to make youngsters realise how they are trapped in abusive relationships

❤🙏🙏❤❤

U can’t jst ignore the religious aspect i mean look at the no of cases happened in last few yrs and the religion of that convicted person. With some existing arguments (whatever it is) it usually comes to the decisive decision that thay have taken & ultimately arguments became more horrible n we all can see the consequences

@TukulParida

Жыл бұрын

yes , they are ignoring it because they have not studied the cases closely and dont know about the peaceful communities and their flying books testimonies. Without proper research and commenting is unethical. Liberals and all is OK but the cases have become very very serious.

Sabse badhiya hai shaadi hi mat karo. Sab samasya ka root cause shaadi hi hai.

Hi Prachi, I watch all your videos and love your take on various topics, you always suggest therapy which is great. But therapy is expensive, for example, in Diamond’s case, as he is only 23, his sister is 16, idk if they can afford it. Do you know of any organizations that provide therapy for free? If yes, you may want to talk about it in one of your videos and inform people about it. Keep up the good work, lots of love

@Ritukamalsharma

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Prachi can you please make a video on how people make biased judgements based on the criminal's religion? All i see in comment section under Shraddha's case incident is "Mera Abdul aisa nahi tha" which means muslims are bad and innocent women fall for them and convince their parents and friends saying "Made Abdul aisa nahi hai" which is a sarcastic comment mocking religion

@anshmittal3098

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Listen bro indian comment section is toxic so dont take it to hurt it will only make you more fed up Its not just just religion they also comment women☕ on every vedio in which woman did someyhing dumb Which may also seem irritating to them but as o told you its just people think its just online comment which make them joke like this We can not do anything to make them understand

@FarheenKhan-xf1yk

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@@anshmittal3098 Indeed..they don't discuss facts they're more into mocking religion, races, culture, gender. We rarely see people talking logic. They're not concerned about the victim rather they're concerned about the culprit's background

@TukulParida

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Do you believe in freedom of speech and expression ?

@FarheenKhan-xf1yk

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@@TukulParida Yes i do but not to the extent of belittling others beliefs and values.

hey prachi di so i was in realtion with a guy when we were in 9th standard we broke up at that time because a guy who liked me told him to breakup otherwise he will be beaten so we broke up but at that time he told me the reason he is breakup up coz his kother was against us i bought that reason but later in 10th he dated a girl for few months and then he had a fight with that girls other bf and it ended after all this i moved to different place as my father was posted i got into another realtion as well he cheated we parted ways. even i was in relation with someone else i had good bond with my ex(9th class one) after my breakup i called him up he listened to me and told me dont worry it will be fine and it did got fine later i started to him like gaps of months in between whenever i was drunk i used to call him and same goes for him he said it clear to me that he dont have any plan to be in relation with anyone he dont ever want to get married to anyone last year his cousinbrother one of my very good friend died and it took a very bad impact on him he become more silent after his death earlier he was atleast living his life but after him he stopped living it he cant sleep at all i met him this year again in may coz of our friend wedding we both knew we have feelings for each other so it did lead to physical intimacy between us i came back things were fine but again he realised that he cant be in relation and as we were talking daily ut felt like realtion to him so again we stopped talking now this time i shifted to delhi regarding my job and i met him again but after meeting he did respond to my call once but after that there are no sign of him he didnt call back or revert to my msg and out of anger i blocked him from every place possible i am frustrated and dont know what am i suppose to do with this should i just move on or talk to him for some reason i dont have courage to ask him face to face wtf he is doing and why please help me i just want to know what i can do

@SmileWithPrachi

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This maybe hard for you to read…. He isn’t interested in a long term relationship. He has made it verbally clear. And has made it clear with his actions by not calling you etc. He is NOT interested. Accept it, and move on.

@shwetasingh4033

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@@SmileWithPrachi i got to know yesterday he said he slept with someone else m doomed

One must read it ends with us by Colleen Hoover once in a lifetime it's such a good book with strong message

Hello Prachi, you are doing good job. You are wise and mature. You are helping 80% people out there who are dumb and uneducated, who cant even solve their life problems by themselves. Baki bhai logo k liye meri advise: have balls 💪

@sg3918

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most people can't solve life problems because of their perspective of life, they are very worldly. when all you think you are is your limited body and mind having human experiences you are going to get caught up in it. human experiences are transient, they exist now at a transactional level but they wont for everyone writing here in a hundred years. family/finances/relationships/job... matters at a relative level, ultimately it does not.

@jayesh12345india

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@@sg3918 I'll take an example (Raamayna): After abduction of Sita mata, Shree Raam knew at ULTIMATE level that what he wants. He didn't ask Hanuman whether should he bring Sita back or not. But he fought all the obstacles that came in RELATIVE level (on the way) with the help & advise of Hanuman, Sages, vanar sena, etc etc. . So i think adults here who want advice on subjective matters just need some therapy.

@sg3918

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@@jayesh12345india when i speak of ultimate reality i do not mean of this world as it is commonly understood. the ultimate reality 'is what is' and all else is not. so, time and space are not real, birth and death aren't real, science isn't real either because it can only relate to the natural world, languages are just used by humans to communicate with each other, numbers are made up by humans to make sense of things and again for communication etc etc. the realities are two different planes, not even comparable. it's like how when you dream, the state of dreaming happened but we know it not to be true but when it comes to the waking world there is serious error in believing it to be very real and that's where the issues start. if this is relatable, we are on the same page.

Aaj ka video?

we can't even call love jihad as religious.... Wow yes... I get it. Love jihad is secular now

Prachi di I am in the same position like the nice guy of gold's letter. Today's video helped me to understand the matter more. Thank you di.❤️ Is there any suggestions for me? 😅

@madhurimabasak7168

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Don't persuade a woman who clearly says no, not once but a multiple times. Efforts must come from both sides for a relationship to work. Have self respect and move on.

For Gold, please check the guy's background idk why but his attitude looks shady to me.

But that girl was financially independent , 💔 bold girl l am afraid of marriage , of dating etc 😔 jab itni bold ladhki ke sath ho sakhta hein toh mein toh bahut jayada shy aur underconfident hun😔

@anshmittal3098

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Wo bold thi par stupid bhi Tinder se agar kisi stranger se miloge to aur kia expect karoga Just background check if you ever try to be in living relationship

Thanks for discussing the horrible murder case in Delhi. People are going crazy over it, they are either blaming "Love Jihad-Religion" or "Live-In Relationships". On one side, a whole religion is getting abused and on the other side the victim herself is getting abused !! We all have freedom of speech but only the opinions of some stupid people get the most attention.

@AshishKumar-ei8ly

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Just like yours.

@Ritik_Nandan

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@@AshishKumar-ei8ly Would you care to explain the meaning of your words ??

@unknown_2h

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There are actually many many cases of love jihad and it is a real thing. Also, why no media is talking about the family background of killer?

@TukulParida

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you have freedom of speech , right ? Then giving "Sar Tan se juda" slogans in public places is good, right?

@Ritik_Nandan

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@@TukulParida What are you implying here ?

Hello prachi di😊! I just wanted to ask you that is it wrong for girls wanting to become housewives?

@wtf_22

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No! why would you think that? Its completely a woman's choice whether she wants to work and provide for a family or she wants to be available for her family, spend time with them, and care and nurture for the family and her kids❤ Kahin na kahin kuch to chootega hi, if you are working, down the line you'll feel ki yaar kash mai poora waqt apni family apne bacche ko depaati, ye kitni jaldi bade hogye(as my mother always feel like😀) or there is gonna be a regret ki yaar I had to leave my job , I wish i could've been able to help my husband in the household finances as well🙄 Its upto you completely that aap kis regret ko afford karsakte ho🤗.cheers!❤

@sugarcrasheraoxx7639

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@@wtf_22 wow such a beautiful reply from you❤❤ Honestly aisa answer expect nhi kia tha but thank you 😊 I am a girl who is very fond of her family and I want to be with my kids after marriage but jab bhi aisa sochti thi tab guilty feel hota tha ki as a girl mai galat kar rhi.. But I needed to hear this from someone to get clarity ❤❤❤

@wtf_22

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@@sugarcrasheraoxx7639 well thanks for appreciating. I too would probably work from home or take early retirement after 4-5 years of marriage as I too would love to be there for my kids❤ Its lovely to watch them grow right?😍 But then it depends if i could be able to do it or not kyuki time bitaane ke alava apne baccho ko luxury b to deni hoti hai, best school, best university, best healthcare best of everything. So if I forgot to add it before, I'd say even if you are like me who wants to retire early or work from home, then also, build up some fund, jisse your kids get the best of everything❤ Also, their would be pride in you ki yaar maine ab itna fund jod lia hai ki mera baccha jaha chahe padh skta hai, jo chaahe kar sakta hai❤ Rest would be your decision, and take complete pride in whatever you choose to be, Nonetheless, I toh am very proud of you to even consider becoming a housewife in this generation where being a housewife is considered a easy job! Virtual hugs to you🤗

@wtf_22

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@@sugarcrasheraoxx7639 work really hard till you get married, earn a hella lot of money, Invest/ build a fund that makes you financially independent and then retire, enjoy your life😄❤

@sg3918

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nothing wrong, it's just getting harder that's all. and if you want the luxuries too as oppose to just living simply you'd be in the slim minority. most jobs and lines of work simply do not pay enough to support a family very comfortably, only a basic standard of living. comfortably means you basically do not need to worry or think about money when purchasing the average thing.

I am from Kerala and you can do a lot more with your ideas and I really want to meet you

I agree with Prachi but I know one thing for sure Love Jihad is real. Numerous cases of Muslim boy making a Hindu girl was in love and than brutally killing her. This is real. So giving it a religious angle is acceptable. I am not saying all Muslims are bad but some of them are vicious and we find vicious people in all countries, in every religion.

@SmileWithPrachi

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The problem is that we as a country are talking too much about the problems, not about the solution. This obsession with problem is making people more angry,leading to even bigger issues. - The problem statement has been defined. For generations. Through wars, through rapes (Kathua), through murders (Shraddha). Nobody is pious or doing it for religion. These are psychotic criminals. -- Time to ask why people still want to kill others, and those who get killed…what can be done to make them less naive. There are enough answers if one studies basic human psychology, So much to be done to create stricter laws. but we wanna will talk about religion instead. Who do you think wins here? The government does (they get to divide and rule). Who do you think loses here? (The average citizen, with an average intellectual capacity, whose innocence is being used against him/her).

@FarheenKhan-xf1yk

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@@SmileWithPrachi Prachi di i have seen if muslims are asking for justice for Shraddha most of them are replying saying "tu bhi to usi religion ka hai" "tu to khush khoga" So with this logic we can abuse and judge every religion when the criminals belong from other religions . So if Aasaram and Bilkis Bano case (Gujrat riots) were Hindus does that mean Hinduism should be abused and judged?

Prachi di i have seen if muslims are asking for justice for Shraddha most of them are replying saying "tu bhi to usi religion ka hai" "tu to khush khoga" So with this logic we can abuse and judge every religion when the criminals belong from other religions . So if Aasaram and Bilkis Bano case (Gujrat riots) and other cases culprits were Hindus does that mean Hinduism should be abused and judged?

Maam it's love jihad and there are many more brutal cases that you can't even imagine. The place where i live wahan unhe paise diye jaate hai to convert a girl and usse shaadi karne par alag amount aur bacche paida karne par alag amount diya jata hai.. believe it or not