I was 25 when i married my wife she was 35.. best decision i ever made. I never got along with girls my age or younger :))

Jesus Christ that sneeze scared the hell outta me

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

Omg I'm standing at the store and this made me laugh out loud so much thank you 😂

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

I'm also sorry lmao

@amit_patel654

Жыл бұрын

@@BigDaddyMoMo1 lol you're welcome and forgiven haha. I was actually listening to you in the background and that's why I got shook by it haha!

full honesty. i did not start to get my life together till my daughter born, i was 34. been a long journey since. at 58, i am still learning.

It sucks for me because im 28 with a house and job, but Im short and look 19, so all the young girls hit on me, but it gets awkward when im 28, even some 22 year old girls say im too old for them. 😂

@martin8829

Жыл бұрын

Just got to find the right one. And don’t get married if you already have a house!! Even pren up get thrown out in court. Join divorced dad groups to see what’s out there. It’s the wrong time for marriage for man

@knjazmimster495

10 ай бұрын

Had that problem, just wait for the late thirties and early forties for women in their thirties with time clock 😉😂

@aaronmicalowe

10 ай бұрын

It's like crossing a desert on foot. All the people who made it to the other side are gesturing and saying, come on, you'll make it. They forgot how difficult it was. But they also aren't wrong. Just impossible to see when you're stuck in the middle of the desert.

Bless you! 😂

Bill is my dude. Love ya Mo! Lookin good, keep up the workouts and grinding!

@BigDaddyMoMo1

11 ай бұрын

Love ya too Mark!! 🤍

Gents. Don't ever get married. Marriage is a government enforced contract. If YOU break the contract, she gets ALL YOUR STUFF. If SHE breaks the contract, she gets ALL YOUR STUFF.

Awesome video!

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

There's only 2 choices...a) Honor your commitments like a man or b) Admit your mistake and get out. Period. Nobody should need to live with a mistake forever. But marriage is also hard. The fact that because this dude is now more successful and attractive to women has more to do with him than his wife. He settled...didn't think he could do better, not he wants to level up. And it sounds like she did similar...didn't think she could do better and settled with him. Regardless, honor your F'n commitment or get out. There's NO honor, respect and anything close to resembling being a man when you devalue your word and cheat. You want another woman, great....end it with this one before starting another hedonistic, impulsive short sighted mistake. Perhaps her anger is knowing he's ready to hop anything that moves. Most men would mount anything with an orifical. It's just built into our DNA. An attractive woman will always be attractive. Marriage doesn't change that. But there's a difference between what you WANT to do, and what you DO. I want to rob a bank and be a millionaire...but I don't do it. The dude that wrote this letter is still a child...like a 4 year old boy that just found his 'dingy' and wants to play with it constantly. Time to grow up sir. Women have been saddled with children throughout history...the leftovers of men's fleeting desires. It's not a great outcome for them, but women step up and do what's needed. This dude needs to grow some seeds and start acting like a man.

@maxsparks5183

11 ай бұрын

⁠ What’s a TLDR?

I'm 32. I didn't even start to truly feel "mature" until I landed my current job at 28. I didn't have much sense of direction before that, but now I have a much better grasp on life as both a person and in my professional life. I'm not in a relationship now, but for me anything south of five years is pushing it. I wouldn't have any problems dating older women, but ideally something not too drastic. Maybe that's a bit too specific, but hopefully you catch my drift.

@Thisguy2532

11 ай бұрын

Dude I didn’t get any direction until I got my dui at 24 now I’m 27 and I have a huge difference on how I look at life, this story of a dude at 18 getting married is huge especially when your wife is 10+ yrs older than he had no idea what he was doing lmao 😂 and kids that’s crazy

His confidence comes from her so i dont know either but if he has kids you are in it.

18 married to a 30 year old raises a LOT of questions. Like when did they start dating? Is it considered grooming?

@shimsokshim2995

11 ай бұрын

My first thought was that this probably makes her a criminal, so she was/is probably one of two things: a really manipulative 30/35-year-old, or a REALLY mentally stunted individual who can't see how what she did was wrong. And yeah, let's not even get into grooming... the man still sounds like he has free will, but jesus christ is there probably a lot we don't know. And don't really want to know either.

@BubbyFerns

4 ай бұрын

They likely started dating and post probably engaging in sexual activity a couple years prior, I know, like when he was 16 and SHE WAS 28! If men can get canceled and taken to task 20-30 years after their crime....

Personally, I didn’t really mature until 39. It’s up in the air. I had to have a lot of therapy to mature. I had a dad that cheated and I went through the hate, anger, and resentment. It’s a struggle on you in every way.

@hughfuller8416

Жыл бұрын

This is why I have no kids or wife.

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear you went through that but you should be proud of yourself for making the decision to work on yourself and heal ❤

@hughfuller8416

Жыл бұрын

@@BigDaddyMoMo1 it’s hard to feel proud when I have upbringing friends that have what I don’t have. Marriage, divorce, and kids going through the same stuff I did. It’s a weirdly complex situation, for me.

@hughfuller8416

Жыл бұрын

@jimbook3663 what I’m always told, but I feel uncomfortable as a empath. I sympathize with others, but can’t relate because I avoided the car crash. I saw it coming, but kinda sorta, had this idea of trying what I know is like a needle in a haystack.

Age doesn't necessarily correlate to maturity. When I was 16 I started banging a married 40 year old, and I married her when I was 19. Despite her being 24 years my senior I was the more mature one in that relationship. While sometimes such relationships are transactional, other times who you develope a connection to has little to do with age. Some can look past the physical to see the person behind it, some can't. I think there is a lot of value in May - December relationships. Life is about learning and growing and what it a 20 year old going to teach another 20 year old? How to roll your eyes while you sigh? Today most 20 year olds don't know which end of the broom to hold, let alone how to use it. I think it's good for someone in their 20's to be with someone in their 40's or 50's, and then when they get in their late 30's or 40's to be with someone in their 20's. It's natural for the older to guide the younger (plus matching up the energy of a 20 year old with the experience and knowledge of a 40-50 year old is a recipe for super duper extra happy bedroom time). Good luck with your dude sneezes. I assume you're trying to assert dominance?

Taking the first one that will love you is a bad idea. Homie did not think this one through. If he didn’t think the age gap would be an issue then, he should have thought it would be an issue sooner or later. Now he’s put both himself and his wife in an unfair situation.

@philliplambson9482

11 ай бұрын

Your first sentence is wrong. The rest is fine.

@maxsparks5183

11 ай бұрын

And yet men are encouraged to marry little girls 10,20,30 years younger all the time. 😖 You guys who think when your 70 and your 40 or 50 year old wife is going to be all hot for you are fooling no one but yourself and it’s unfair as hell to your younger wife.

David Chappelle Show Clayton Bigsby

Bless you

First, make sure she rubs coconut oil on her belly button when she is having the worst menstral cramps. Second, if he is that young and she is suggeting him to do things... then I agree with Momo. That is get out.

@willbrashear

Жыл бұрын

The bad part is my niece was 18 and had a kid with a 40 year old man. We don't talk about it as I get angry with the math of the eldest child's birthday and 9 month of average child birth session in humans.

ROFL dude is like; I was really insecure and in a bad place when I was younger, I found an older and more mature woman who helped develop me, boost my self-esteem, and turn me into an attractive man- should I cheat on her? She even said that she's open to him fooling around with other women as long as he communicates with her first. Dude got the golden ticket and isn't sure if he should cash in. How man men in this country would feel like they hit the proverbial jackpot if their wife continued to perform her wifely duties and be a good mother to their children all while allowing their husband to have some side bitches? That being said, it doesn't really sound like a sustainable long-term plan imo. At some point she's going to feel emotionally and physically neglected if she doesn't already. idk, the fact that he's looking to bail after she sunk all this time into developing him is kinda shitty.

10:38 Cause people in the military might not have a long future to rely on, so it's either have children now when you're young or you may have missed your chance. Especially if you could ever be called up to a front line role. You can't even get life insurance.

And when PMS stops, she has Menopause, which, in my experience, is far worse, both for the Woman and the Guy.

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

If those kids are only hers, then he should do what is best for him, BUT and it is a BIG "BUT", if those kids are his, he has to do what is best for his kids. They should not pay for his bad decisions, he should be the one to pay for those. This is why people should think straight before getting into something, because most of the times you won't be able to get out, not with clean conscience ofc, unless that person is a psicopath 😂

The majority of the time people get annoyed with their partner because they THINK there's something better for them. At that point everything bothers you. I'm sure this woman has been this way from the time he met her. The only difference is now he is more confident in himself. Just because she looks good to you doesn't mean she's good for you. Based on what was said your wife has helped you level up mentally and physically. Don't fuck around and find out.

Interesting comment you made. “Dated someone military and they ALL had kids.” Does anyone have an idea why that’s the case as I would think if I thought I was maybe going to get killed in a war the last thing I’d want to do is leave behind a child to grow up without their parent and my spouse to have to be a single parent.

Meh, there are plenty of successful age gap relationship stories, it's just the negative one's seem to be the only one's people focus on. As long as both parties are consenting adults than it shouldn't be an issue. I've hooked up with plenty of women that were older than myself and would have no problem marrying someone older if we were compatible. That being said, at 18 I wold've happily hooked up with a hot 30 year old woman but no way in hell would I have married her. I wouldn't have married anyone at that age tbh, that was like the furthest thing from my mind.

Lots to say so I'll give props 1st to the Lady. BDMM- you force me to laugh and smile. I appreciate that. The next... its a boring tale- Dated a woman who was 5 years younger than me...(her=20)... (and I taught as a young grad at the Univ she attended in an adjacent class (=I could help her through the course but she wasn't a direct report, which I did, but also grew very fond of her sexy self... I also had to fail friends so... I didn't do Bed for Bs in class type noise) but then also dated a woman 6 years older than me (her=30s). The first, the 21 year old, knew who the hell she was, what she was going to do, and it was The Best relationship because it was 2 years of first dates and one night stands... no pressure. We knew our lives would diverge. Smartest damn woman I've ever loved. Friends to this day. The other woman after, 6 years older, also badass but train wreck, yeah, no, ended in carnage. The younger lass was so much damn older than me mentally and schooled me. The older ex... was wicked smart but had a LOT of damage she didn't address and just passed it on to mates. Bill is Tight Right. [edited because it is Saturday and Whiskey doesn't like typing correctly]

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

lmao its sunday! that whiskey is strong haha but im here for it! its the 4th of july weekend (: BTW I appreciate you! I love that you guys both were on the same page of what was expected from the relationship (regarding the 1st laydeeee). The second one though oof. You gotta go through it sometimes to learn you know lol

@McLeod2022

Жыл бұрын

@@BigDaddyMoMo1 Peace and Love darlin'... you bring good vibes into this world... and dammit.. yes... it is Sunday.. I've been off a day all week long. Th was Fri. Wed was almost Fri. Sun is almost Sat. Peace and Love Babe. You are the best smile. Out

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

@@McLeod2022 means a lot to me. Happy 4th of July 🥰

I think the legal age for marriage should be over 21, less than you still discovering who you are. 😏

just tell him to go ahead and get a life insurance policy and hold out.. sounds bad 🤷‍♂

@BigDaddyMoMo1

11 ай бұрын

🤣🤣

If he got married at 18 how old was he when they started dating?

I am 32 and my GF is turning 20, been together for almost 2 years She lied to me about her age when we first met and said she was 4 years older than she actually. By the time I found out her real age we were already dating. I am I doing the wrong thing by staying with her?😞

Yal jumping thru hoops the age gape aint the problem.

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

please elaborate. what do you think the problem is?

@aadil2o12

Жыл бұрын

@BigDaddyMoMo1 the problem is he is fighting himself. He is trying to be a "good man" that today's society says he should be but the "Modern Good Man" goes against masculinity and then we have situations like this where men are trapped. Now if he acts on his desires like this old woman acted on hers he will get fucked. Even if he does everything right this woman can still destroy him. Also most of history proves that the age gape between couples works when the man is older. Even modern women prefer older men. Teens died in wars throughout history but to marry a 18 years old modern day is creepy. Even tho an 18 yrs old modern-day is way more intelligent than most people in history period.

I would’ve counselled the guy to not marry at 18 but having done so it’s now a different story. If there wasn’t the age gap, but everything else was the same - would you really suggest that a guy who still loves his wife get a divorce because he finds other women attractive and wants to cheat? I dunno, I think the age gap thing warped this situation which is quite simple. Don’t get married at 18 - but if you do, if you love your partner try and make it work and keep it in your pants. I’m going to sound like an old man here (which I’m not, I’m in my 30s) but this is why the divorce rate is so high. First sign of an issue and the resolution is to cut and run. Don’t get me wrong, if he was unhappy and didn’t love her anymore, easy decision - end it for the good of both of you. But his only unhappiness seems to be that he can’t bang other women and that she isn’t a barrel of laughs when she is PMS’ing. If people got divorced for those reasons, there wouldn’t be heterosexual marriages…

Hi, I like your channel. Little question. I noticed you sort of speak like "Bugs Bunny" Is that on purpose or do I owe you an apology? 😬

Hi Momo.

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

Hello!

My moms generation were amazing...she was in her 80's and would take a long time to get dressed to go food shopping earrings and perfume... Looking at he old women today the hippie generation a lifetime of getting high they look like trash birkenstocks with slouch beanies in the summer an chopped nappy salt and pepper hair....its a race to the bottom.

blind spawts

@BigDaddyMoMo1

10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

4:42 I think you're saying this because it has no affect on you. Has no affect on me either, but I have a different view. He's in the relationship now and has to make it work. Why? Because he has kids. Yes, plural. He used the plural term. If that means sacrificing his youth then that's what he needs to do. The kids take precedence. End of. Plus, there's Pornhub and onlyfans, so he has options. 😂😂

When I was 35 I dated a 19 year old.. shit was horrible

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

18yr old guy married to a 30yr woman. Probably they were "dating" when he was at least 17. That's some pedo predator ish. Where was his parents?

your mic's suck.....love your show! lol

@BigDaddyMoMo1

11 ай бұрын

Rude. Thank you!

3/5 her age.

I didn't have the long game thoughts, and the life experience to make important adult decisions until I was 52. All the life choices I did before that, just kinda sketchy and half baked.

Big Durddy, I'm going to guess that you're 23, but no more than 28? Regardless of your age, I would ask you out if you weren't on the other side of the country.

I honestly think Bill got it right “Get Out” he jumped to conclusions but he still got it right

Her claim that people should not get married when they are 18 because they do not have the life experience yet is not based in logic. That EXCUSE has been pushed on modern women by the feminist left. "Don't get married and have kids until you are in your 30s!" That's a dumb plan for success. Nature doesn't obey the dictates of wokeness. I get the point about "maturity" but the truth is that being "immature" at 18 for both men and women is a modern artificial construction. For most of human history, if you were 18 and you didn't have your sh*t together as far as being able to take care of yourself and handle your own affairs by age 18 you were screwed. This artificial extended adolescence allowed and even encouraged by society needs to die a well-deserved death.

It's simple this chick couldn't lock down a dude her own age range so she got a kid fresh out of highschool. She is using the guy to fight off her loneliness and help her raise those kids cause I bet money those aren't his kids. And he ain't a complete victim in this either cause he is 23 no shot is he making more than her so she is mommying him and he gets sex that he didn't have to work for.

A nice rule of thumb formula for finding the lower age limit of your potential romantic partner is half your age + 7. So for example if you're 30 the lowest age your partner could be is 22. If the solution is greater than your age then that is a no go, if the solution is lower than 18 then that is a no go.

How about when sneezing you turn as far away from the mic as you can or mute/muffle the mic, so you don't almost blowout someone's eardrum...Jesus Christ.

@BigDaddyMoMo1

11 ай бұрын

It be like that sometimes

@ronpoirier2763

11 ай бұрын

@@BigDaddyMoMo1 "It be like that sometimes", sorry Sista Girl, I didn't realize you wuz down like dat.

for being such an avid fan maybe you should have picked up on the fact that it is WILFRED not William Burr. Still love ya!!

@BigDaddyMoMo1

11 ай бұрын

William Frederick Burr. I know my Bill. You better watch yourself.🥊🥊

You’d rather break up your family than try to deal? 🤦

@BigDaddyMoMo1

11 ай бұрын

Rewatch it. And try to listen to what I said this time 🤣

@MrMugen1985

11 ай бұрын

@@BigDaddyMoMo1 Home wrecker! 🤣🤣

@MrMugen1985

11 ай бұрын

@@BigDaddyMoMo1at like 5:45 you say you’d rather he leave than cheat. I did listen… ass… 😉😁

I know the culture we live in and divorce is cool yeah do it ........I don't agree

First

@BigDaddyMoMo1

Жыл бұрын

GOAT

He's going to resent her later on when he's not as young & realizes all the tail he could have smashed. Rip the bandaid off now and let that wound heal before it gets infected.