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I married my best friend. We were friends for 2 years before we started dating and after a couple of years we married. We were married for 28 years until he died far too early.
@Miam1981
3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry for your loss xx
@rosauraalbert7546
2 жыл бұрын
To sead,my dear
Instead of reacting to a couple, can we like look at a specific celeb, for example JLO. and see what makes her charming. This can teach us a lot on what makes a woman attractive
@krystalricciardi7776
3 жыл бұрын
Great idea! Definitely will have my pen and paper out ✍🏼
“My favorite sense of humor is trying to get me to cringe at me” I felt that
@klaudiaa.7098
3 жыл бұрын
I like my sense of humour because it make me laugh 😝
“Spreading fairy dust, she’s just spreading fairy dust” It is now my goal in life to be confident enough in myself and so energetic and extroverted that I resemble that.
@brenda2198
3 жыл бұрын
Go for it! I believe in you! Spread your fairy dust all over the place!
@cassandrawaldenmaier8142
3 жыл бұрын
@@brenda2198 aww this comment made my day
@dianana7371
3 жыл бұрын
the most important thing is to be YOUR authentic self though
@Jacco0
3 жыл бұрын
@@dianana7371 I wanted to say exactly this, just be you! I'm an introvert and always tried to be more extraverted, but I'm just not. And now that I've accepted that I'm way more confident, sociable and radiant. So... just be authentic!
They both are Leo. Ben is not full of himself. He just like/love/fancy Jen and he wants to look in her eyes his best. That’s what Leo DO. He is intellectual and ambitious and this is something that Jen admires in him. Also he is good looking. Jen is literally “a girl from the neighbourhood”. Easy to talk to and happy to share her happiness with others. Let’s also not forget that she is naturally very beautiful and Leo males have a thing for good looking women. In addition she is also smart, intelligent and ambitious and to be honest it would be hard for Ben to not fall in love with her. They became friends because they both have seen/fell “a spark”. Something that drawn their both to each other. Trust me Leo’s chose who they want to be friends with. They just found their perfect match, someone who understands them without saying anything.
Loved this. I've been married to my bestfriend for 16 yrs now. I love that we have that to fall back on when things get rocky. We have a child, and 2 businesses together. It's very important to start a relationship as friends so you can really bond and grow and root that connection. much love.
@FoundSheep-AN
3 жыл бұрын
Isn’t being friends the opposite of feeling passionate and emotional about each other ? Where is being in love?
I hope Ben and JLo work out this second time around. They are older, wiser, have established careers. And they came back together almost 20 years later. He may be recovering. But it is something you will always work at. Jlo does not drink or smoke, so she is good for him. You can see the love between them. When Ben saw the opportunity that she may be available, he went for her. And because the love is still there, she went back. True love, people.
IDK why I root so much for Bennifer but I do. I want these crazy kids to work out
The way you tell stories with your hand gestures is so magical. I love it lol
Each intro gets weirder and weirder, 😂cracks me up every time😂
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
I’m bringing you down a weird spiral
@22easels
2 жыл бұрын
I CHOKED ON MY COFFEE during the intro lmaooo hahaha
@22easels
2 жыл бұрын
Loved the intro loo
I found it interesting that they are back together again after so many years! Really curious on why they first broke up and how it changed now. Hopefully (doubtfully) they can do an interview now.
@Oshunjoon
3 жыл бұрын
He cheated on her with strippers 🙈
@dilciaenid57
3 жыл бұрын
Yup.
@laaulilinalauano6817
3 жыл бұрын
Cheated on her with strippers? Nope that isn't true. He left her when he was filming daredevil his movie with Jennifer garner he fell in love with her and left jlo. 🤦♀️
@courbynebufford3550
2 жыл бұрын
He cheated with Garner on daredevil during their engagement.
Tbh I actually liked Gigli lol I know everyone hated it but I enjoyed it! And yes Jenifer is soo charming, she seems like she would be so much fun to be around. Even if it was the first time meeting her
@Nazaba09
2 жыл бұрын
I never saw it but I love ‘Jersey girl’ and met Kevin smith and told that. He wrote that movie as a tribute to his daughter so it made him SOO happy.
the amount of hand movements this video 😂😂
Ben is from Boston...he is exactly like what you would think a Boston man would be
Can you please do Gal Gadot? Now SHE is a charmer!
I think Ben is timid. He is always nice to the Anglophone and Hispanic press including paparazzi. JLo is exrovert, Ben is introvert
A deeper understanding of Jennifer Lopez charming personality I think would be a very interesting video btw I love watching all of your videos I appreciate all of the hard work and time you put into your channel
@ashleyr5482
3 жыл бұрын
Need this!!
@dilciaenid57
3 жыл бұрын
Narcissist.
@user-eo9to7wd2t
3 жыл бұрын
@@dilciaenid57 Why do you think jlo is a narcissist
“Spit it like a mommy bird” I-🤣🤚🏻
The fact that he showed probably the worst photos of them ever at the beginning was hilarious! LOL🤣
You were on point bout Ben. Jlo is sweet & loving. He’s dark for sure. A tortured soul
I saw this interview then :) Gosh so many years, but i am glad that they came back together. They just fit somehow. :) Edit: And it is so good to see real happy people.
@watermelon_leah
Жыл бұрын
They really do suit each other and balance each other out. Arod for me he on a slay wanted to steal Jlo spot light and used her fame to grow his business. Yes Arod loved Jlo but did he loved for what he can gain or loved her for Jlo Jennifer.
You're so funnyyyy 😂😂 I lol'd several times here, I really did
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
YOU REALLY DID??!?
@marymaughan5066
3 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello ACTUALLY!
Hahaha your analysis of Ben is 100% what I was thinking when I watched the interview.
I agree meeting people through friends is the best way. It's so hard lately though for most to mingle. I think they will last, I hope so anyways! It'd be sad for both if they didn't work out. I feel bad for Jennifer Lopez's ex now as he seemed nice.
You were spot on about Jlo not being dark internally like Ben!
Gigli is not a horrible movie! It is very entertaining and interesting! Just a bad timing due to their real love relationship! The tabloids about their personal overshadowed their real talents as an actor and actress! I would love to watch that movie again!
@michele387
2 жыл бұрын
It's on Hulu now!
“He’s a great guy, I’m sure” lmao after bashing him all through the video 😂
This has to be your funniest video. You are hilarious
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
You have low standards if you think I’m funny
@foz2071
3 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello maybe, but you really had me at 'My favourite sense of humour is getting me to cringe at me'
was there ever a part 2 to this video? because I would love to see it
‘He was kind of homely’. He’s STILL homely. She looks like she’s dating her construction guy. All joking aside, I hope they make it this time.
I don't think he's full of himself. He's a New Englander. I definitely thinks he has problems but I think he's an overall "real" type of man. I think outside of Hollywood they would make a great couple. It must suck to get back with the one that got away and realize your children could have been with eachother.
@Nazaba09
2 жыл бұрын
I’m sad we will never get a bennifer baby.
You need to react to Blake Lively and Ryan Gosling
@kait7404
3 жыл бұрын
Renolds u mean
@yourstrulylene2122
2 жыл бұрын
@@kait7404 Reynolds u mean
WILL U PLEEEEAAASE react to yesterday’s episode of the bachelorette!!!!???? I NEED to know where katie and Gregs relationship went wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
the ben affleck roast i didnt know i needed lol
My brothers were in Duets with Ben & Gwyneth. Said she was nice but he was so stuck up and arrogant; above everyone. I think he falls in love with star power.
I am more curious to know why they are back together after 20 years Is there some new interview to analyze?
I like you said at 15:20 .She’s a Leo, she loves the attention that he gives her
@angelicapsh
3 жыл бұрын
they are both leo actually.
Maybe it's just me but I've always felt like Zendaya TOTALLY reminds me of JLo, especially in interviews-like voice, speech patterns, mannerisms, facial expressions... EVERYTHING. It'd be interesting to do a comparison of the two.
@evantheking6218
3 жыл бұрын
It’s just you
@kita3256
3 жыл бұрын
Just you, hun.
@Shefwitjah
3 жыл бұрын
Hell no
@thisismyinferno
3 жыл бұрын
Please dont insult Zendaya
JLO is a good hearted woman
@watermelon_leah
Жыл бұрын
Jlo aka Mrs Affleck has a huge loving heart that what the main thing that attachtived Ben to Jlo her big loving heart.
He went from a Jennifer to... a Jennifer
@FoundSheep-AN
3 жыл бұрын
And then back to the first Jennifer
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
Zinnnnggggg she’s got the jokes
'' Cancel his batman performance '' 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Jlo, Keke Palmer, and Jamie Foxx are very charming!
Can you do one or Leo & Kate?!
I wonder if he’s grown as a person
dude, analyse my love life, I don't know what the hell I'm doing wrong
@Hollyhock7
3 жыл бұрын
Try not to be a people-pleaser like your mom... it ends up being a turn off to them. And its draining to you. And work on your self-esteem... partners can only fully love you when they sense that deep worth you have for yourself. ♡
@nenitastar99
3 жыл бұрын
@Jen Agrippa both of you, would you come live with me and give me advice like... Everyday?
Hi Anthony .. I love your take on Bennifer 2.0 And you are a good dating coach . Nicki ❤️
I looooove Bennifer!!
HAHAHAHA love your commentary on this video, hilarious 👌🏻
This whole time I thought I was subscribed to your channel, I guess KZread just kept showing me videos I liked!
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
Lol well did you sub now?!??!!
Love your videos!
You are the best dating coach lol !😂
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
And you’re the best Jocelyn Najera.
Part 2 pls!
My boyfriend and i were friends for 3 years first. It was always just bad timing, until 6 months ago when we started dating! I'm happy to know that this is a good sign for us lol
JLo interrupts Ben a lot and I can easily see he doesn’t like it. It embarrasses him a little he seems like the less dominant one. When she says he told her about his exes at around 9:28 he wanted to say stfu so bad
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
It’s another case of Justin and Hailey. Trust me, without her bugging him, he’d be a puddle of soup on the floor.
@Lulu-kt6gr
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I remember an interview I saw with them in their kitchen when they were engaged and she was so loud and so dominated the whole conversation and I could tell it made him uncomfortable and I just felt they weren’t going to stay together.
Thank you for the air quote emphasizing and all the extra you are
great video. do part 2!
just wanted to add, they started off as friends mainly because jlo was married at the time. They met 2 months after she got married to Cris Judd. She then went on to separate from Cris the following year, and then started dating ben a few weeks later. (i personally think there was an affair, whether it was emotional or physical).
I didn't even think, I just clicked
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
That’s called addiction you gotta get that treated.
@JoyTb12345
3 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello 😂😂🤣
Ya know, after watching this I think I’ve figured out what broke them up (as a main issue)! I bet it was his private and non-pap preferences versus her too open style and preference for being in spotlight so much, because especially back then she was really still building her name and “celebrityhood” or whatever you call it. Even that Jenny from the block video had references to paparazzi following and taking pics of them as a couple. I’ve never paid much attention to either of them so I don’t know if he’s always trying to be this private but it seems like he would because he’s not one of the people I’ve ever heard much about in entertainment news outside of his two big relationships with Jennifers lol.
I love Bennifer who knows how this last maybe the summer?🤩🤩😂
I just think jlo is attracted to the wrong guys. Jerks. It’s a pattern. Has to be.
@Nazaba09
2 жыл бұрын
She’s either in love with love, or has massively low self esteem. She’ll believe any sweet nothings whispered to Her.
You are the best DATING COUCH!!! You are!!
Lmao wtf was that intro that cracked me uppp
I will never stop dying of laughter at these videos🤣😫🤣
It's so true this thing about gender roles. I too believe that whoever is most capable and has the desire to do whatever but even more important, enjoys doing the activity, would be the person for it. Responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, making plans, working, taking care of the kids, making plans, should not be designated by gender, etc... I believe that it is not set in stone either. I think that there will be less friction in the relationship when a couple can switch these activities from time to time and it makes everything more enjoyable by breaking the monotony and putting yourself in other shoes could help to better understand your significant other and makes the couple ore versatile and successful.
Can you PLEASE react to the blow-up breakup between Greg Grippo and Katie Thurston on the Bachelorette? Would LOVE to see what you have to say!
jlo is SO charismatic!! wow i didnt know that
The "we were friends first" comment is her being diplomatic, because she was married when she first met Ben
🙋♀️ me. I’m traditional and want a Biblical type of marriage that emphasizes on unique characteristics of the male/female roles, I’m with God on this one. I think stepping outside these values is the reason why divorce rates are so high.
Would love if you'd do a video analyzing the show "Love is Blind"!
@lepetit84
2 жыл бұрын
Also, LOVED your thoughts on gender roles! They're such a construct!
Another great video 💫
My husband and I were friends first. We have 4 kids& almost 11 years of marriage now. I hated dating guys I wasn't friends with first... so uncomfortable.
She’s happy 😃 I am happy for her 🙏🤩😀
Im probably the only one who liked that movie I still like it 😂😜🔥
i wish you’d actually analyze ben more instead of just shitting on him for the laughs haha but good video
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
I did analyze him. He’s self centered and a little bit charming with great engagement with who he’s interested in.
I want a part 2!! It’s so cute!
Please react to Dakota and Jamie
Damn you did really really good in psychology for real.... you seem funny as hell but it'd probably be a lil intimidating too... cuz I feel like I'd have to put an ACT on my personality cuz of how you're analyzing is very on point!! Especially the part that no one has this or that "rule" as a couple, it's them taking different "rules"here & there or thrown at them, he & she or them, they can still keep that love in the relationship and being able to keep it growing & going stronger as time goes on, you learn a person's entire emotions on so many differnt levels (it's crazy when you really think about it lol "like damn I actually know peole that well", i start feeling smart, that was a joke to myself😂😂 ( idc what anbody else says, im funny lmao... j/k, my kind of sarcasm is me laughing at my jokes, even if they're about me🤣🤣)... anyway... experiencing different "rules" in life is kind of learning more & more what both of y'alls needs/wants/dislikes are like but also staying happy with yourself & with your partner, lover, husband/wife etc. And this kind of love can be for best friends too, those ones that you truly care about them & their well-being. The only thing missing is the sexual part, which is technically only need for the one or the other or others🤷🏼♀️ (depending on the relationship... i for reals ain't passing judgment on anybody, everyone has their own kind of life/a way of like that they're truly happy, as long as we all have mutual respect towards another person's opinions/ views/morals or perspectives on things, then i am good we will get along perfectly fine 🤗🤗. Keeping it happy, loving & healthy regardless of who does what in the relationship i guess is a shorter way of saying it... dang & i just typed all this, hell nooo lol, i ain't deleting 🤣🤣🤣lol. Wonder if you could read people that good that are purposely acting around you cuz they know you're analyzing, like know you're job is what i mean lol 😆
Luv ya Anthony!!!!!! You’re great! 💕🙏💜😘
It would be so cool if they would make you the host of the TV series the bachelor
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
Jlo is full of herself too just in a very different way to Affleck. This is them being turned on and in public. Jlo is notorious for just honing in on men like a predator almost. She KNOWS she's attractive and she uses that. That's what I've heard. And they both got some inner work to do. Like anyone else.
Would love to see you react to Nick Viall (from the Bachelor franchise) and his new gf Natalie Joy
Good video! Ben wanted J. Lo to dial it down about the exes because all his exes are FAMOUS...Gwyneth Paltrow.
Recently I talk with my friends about roles in relationship and they say "you should cook, because you are a woman( and if you don't you can't be a wife)" and I say "so what? Men have two hands so they can cook too!" And they were shocked 😂 and I thought we're in modern world 😝 nope 😜
Yes opposite attach I feel like they bring the best in each other. Arod I don’t know on the sly I think he was using Jlo and he was more in loved with the fame of dating her rather then loving her for real. So I am thankful God bought Bennifer back together.
IDK about the baby bird analogy 😄
The intro 😂 ok
Part 2, part 2
I love Ben
I used to be the biggest Affleck hater, like truly lol, but when I saw behind the scenes from his Kevin Smith movies, I understood him better. I don't know why, but it all just clicked in my head. I didn't see him a as this huge douche anymore, he's actually pretty silly, witty and self-deprecating. I can't see his doucheness anymore, even during this reaction I have no idea what you're talking about. It's so weird. Maybe it's something that comes off as stand-offish at first. I think I personally can have that same quality before people get to know me, I have been told. It's a mixture of maybe giving off a certain first impression that doesn't quite match your insides, having a specific sense of humour and being rather timid or guarded.
Imo I think they broke up cause their careers were more important and they were still establishing themselves, especially Jennifer. Gigli kinda brought them down and they recognized that and both made an amicable decision 🤷🏾♀️
Please do Matt Cornett and Sofia Wylie 🥺❤️
Can you do Prince Charles & Princess Diana ? 🤗
Arod should now knows he would've married a woman who had a love of her life ❤. Bennifer ❤. After the Yankees I was through with arod🤦♀️
What happened to the Outer banks series
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
Coming soon
Wasn't she married when they started talking?
Can you react to chase stokes and madelyn cline again?
Diggin the smashing pumpkins t. I was OBSESSED back in the day.
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
me tooooooo
@4elizabeth
3 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello 🤍
My goal in life is for Anthony to describe me as charming lol
So funny that’s Jlo really was so giggly in that interview after that interview all the other men she dated after her and Ben break up. In her interview she was not giggly like this even when she was dating Arod I never saw her get really giggly in interview she was serious and didn’t only ever said he supportive business like minded he good dad that it really there wasn’t this glowing look that I only ever saw her have with Marc and Ben. Look when God bought back Bennifer 18 years laters Jlo once again been giggly in every single one of her interview seen being with Ben her energy vibes complete different she look happy calm and at peace. Even her long time friend Roda said it to that she interview her loads of time including when Jlo was with her ex Arod but she never seen Jlo at her peace and calm ever that it a different kind of enegry. Jimmy the presenter said the same Jlo mum prayed for 20 years for Jlo to get back with Ben. Just go to show you true loved never fails so so happy for Bennifer can’t wait to see the many more memories as a couple watch there five kids get bigger and who knows have a six child together lol. ❤❤❤❤