Mus ntseeg Vajtswv es mus nrhiav kwv tij thiab tsev neeg tshiab os.

What a sad story grandma. May God bless you in you next life.

@amazinggrace8136

3 жыл бұрын

What did God say will happen after we die on this world?

This is one of the downfalls of the Hmong tradition that needs to change. I am happy regarding the recent change for a 1 day funeral arrangement. Hopefully soon we will get to a place where the living will no longer have to suffer financially for the funeral of the dead.

Pab hlub koj heev os tus niam tais

All l heard was fight for money. These young people just want to rub theses old parents. Yes you had a bad life by the decisions you made, but you also had a lot of time to plan for your funeral. Save money, buy life insurance and write down your will or health care directive. Your son will be ok on his own.

Me niam laus aw ua cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li os, koj yeej muaj hmoo kawg li Es koj thiaj li tau ib tug me tub Los hlub koj os. Txhob tu siab of mog koj niam loj cov tub tsis txawj xav Es lawv thiaj li ua phem rau koj, tabsis koj tsis yog lawv niam Los lawv yeej npam nawb.

U should divorce in the first place instead u let them use your energy. U don't need them or depend on those evil pple. Here America...u work hard n be financially stable is best independent. U need to teach your son to be strong man n stop depend on his half sibiling. His half siblings care about your money.

Txhob tu siab os mog niam Tais lwm tiam es mam mus nqa ntawv zoo los ua neeg es los nrhia kom tau ib tug txiv nkawv hlub hlub Koj nawb mog, tsis Yog yus yug ces lawv yeej tsis hlub yus os hlub tus yus yug zoo dua nawb mog

Siab phem tshaj hmoob ces ntshe tsis muaj lawm os mloog tej zaj no na 😭

It’s America. Here you don’t need a lot of brothers. More people means more liability and more obligations! Here, as long as you’re financially stable, you’re good. Make sure you’re financially stable/comfortable, and Just worry about your own wife and kids, and that’s it. Don’t be sad, in fact fell blessed you only have yourself, and be very blessed the others don’t count u as their brother, that just means you don’t have any obligations to them, GOOD! A lot of brothers and family usually just means more liability!

@fjhfhh1433

3 жыл бұрын

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Tos niaj loj cov tub phem los niam loj yog tus qhia kom ua pheem txhob hlub niam yau thiab cov ua niam loj yeej siab pheem thiab tej me nyuam yeej siab pheem xav kom txhua yam lawv yog cov tau tag cov tub ua yog niaj loj cov kov tsi yog neeg zoo os pheem tiag tiag zoo koj tsi muaj koj cov nyiaj rau lawv tuav os lawv xav tau koh cov nyiaj thiab xav tau txhuam yam koj tus tub neb tug ua lawv li xwb txhobtus siab os koj tus tub yog tus neeg zoo nws yuav tau lub neej zoo yav tom ntej mog

The step sons already made it clear that they won't help financially at your funeral. Take their words! U and your son need to plan accordingly for your funeral now. Do not leave a cent for your step sons and do not expect one cent from them either.

Txhob ua niam yau tug kav tug zoo dua

Kj txhob chim o viv ncaus g quav dab tsi tuag tag ces kom kj tus tub hai co lus zz 6 kj kom kj mus thov ntaub thov ntawv saum thiab puj saub lo dhua neeg zz xb

Koj yuav tsum hu nws ua niam loj niag txiv no xwb mas ..

Txhob tu siab tus me niam tais laus. Cov tub tsi yog koj yug koj tsi txhob tu siab. Kav tsij hlub tus ntawm koj ib sab xwb.

Lub neej ua niam yau ce tib txoj kev xwb os

Such a sad story, best wishes to you niam tais

Sad story. Next life, you will be reborn into a prosperous, healthy and abundance family. May god continue to bless you for a long healthy life.... in this lifetime.

Cov tub nos Pheej yuav nkawv niam tiab Txiv cov nyaj no yog deg los yog neej nas.

Omg!! This story is so boring and why would you take care of you old husband who doesn’t love you for 8 years!!! You deserve it. Love yourself please!!!

Tibneeg hais tias tau diamntawv pem ntuj los ua niam yau los yog phem, tsis yog.., yog tibneeg siab phem xwb

@pangher8903

3 жыл бұрын

Agree with you.

@charleschang3023

3 жыл бұрын

Eeeqw go eZf

Tsis txhob tsos2 siab raus niam loj cov mes nyuam. Hlub tus hlub yus xwb. Tsis txhob tus2 siab raus niam loj pab mes nyuam vim niam loj tus muab eiam uas phem thaum mes lawm.

Txhob tusiab mog tos koj tus niam loj cov tub siab phem los lawv niam lawv txiv siab yog dev xwb ne txawm lawv hais lus phem rau neb 2 niam tub los nws hais rov qab rau nws xwb mog niam loj cov tub dev ntxias kom koj muab koj cov nyiaj rau nws tua ces lwm hnub tsis muaj koj los lawv yeej tsis kam muab koj li nyiaj los tha koj nawb mog koj ntse kawg cov tub dev siab phem li lawm niam ntag thaum kawg tseem yog koj los tus lawv niam thiab koj tseem yog tus ev lawv hla dej tuaj rau thaib teb es lawv thiaj li tsis poob dej tuag los thaum kawg lawv tseem ua phem rau neb 2 niam tub thiab yeej yuav npam thiab yeej yuav muaj tus tsim cov tub dev no rau thaum lawv laus 1 yam li koj nawb

Kav tsij hlub tus koj yug xwb os niam tais..

Where is the love?

Hmoob mekas cas pom qhov sib txeeb nyiaj xwb lau

Lub neej ua niam yau tsis can meej tsusctsheej tus txiv thiabbniammloj no siab phem tuag lawm Los zoo.tsiscyogvkojbyug ces luag yeej tsis hlubbkoj

Qhov teeb meem ces tsam koj tsis muaj tub tsis muaj nyiaj xwb....cov muaj tub ki coob coob lo thaum kawg twb tsis muaj chaw tuag...Tuag lawm lo twb tsis muaj tub ki tha thiab

Hmong me kas ntshaw nyiaj tiag tiag li o lam los ua tus tsab tsab muaj rau peb teb chaws no qhov tseeb tiag haj yam ntshaw nyiaj o

Your dad is evil and cruel. Karma will get him back. People like that does not deserve to live. Grandma hopefully you have a better life in the next one. My heart goes out to you. It is very sad for you and your son. Love only those that treat, care, and do the same to you!

Nyob zoo os niam ntshuab teem kuv xav tau koj tus foos vim kuv hu hauv f rau koj ib lub hlis no tsis tau li kuv muaj lus xav hais nrog koj xav tau koj li foos os.

This woman owns big karma for everyone. Even she know herself that. Can’t feel sorry for her.

You make your own decisions, no one can make you do anything if you don't want to do. I felt that you try to get out but I felt that you are not trying hard enough to get out of this selfish mean people. Because you are not strong enough to go be on your own. So finish this life off before you go.

Tsis txhob k lawv xav laus koj xwb

Koj maj ruam tiag tiag li os, luag tub tsis hlub yus es tseem nco koj tus nyiam txiv siab pheem thiab os

Cas tsi muaj neeg rho Askas kom koj txiv nkoj hlo es cov neeg tso dab thiaj tsi muaj ne siat

Txhob ntshaw lub ntees loj nawb tus niam tsev uame me es thiaj tsis ua nuj nqe rau koj tus tub mog ua loj los koj yeej dawv tsis taus rovlos pab nws

Txawm koj tsis muaj ib tug tub kiag li lo yog koj muaj nyiaj txaus tham koj xwb ces tsis muaj teeb meem....koj twb muaj ib tug tub lawm txhob nyuaj siab txog ib tsev kwv coob nyob ntawm koj tu tub nruab qaum tsis muaj niam loj cov tub lo kwv tij yeej pab koj tu tub kawg...cov neeg tsab ntse li niam loj cov yeej tsis txog qhov twg li

Cas koj tus txiv thiab niam loj phem rau koj ua luaj es koj txiv hos tsis tso dab tom nkawv mas koj txiv twb keej keej ces nws kuj tso dab kom nkawv tuag mas

How dare the step son demanded u to hand over the 50k. Lol. He doesn't view u as his mom and doesn't want to be responsible for your funeral, yet expect u to hand the money to him? What a joke.

Wow! Koj niam loj pab tub coob kawg tabsis lawv lub siab me li me piv tsis tau koj ib Leeg tub lub siab loj. Koj tsis yug lawv tabsis koj twb pab tu tu lawv ev ev lawv lawv thiaj dim tuaj txog Thaib Teb. Lawv txawm tsis pab koj tus tub ua koj lub ntee lis lawv yeej txawj tuag thiab mog. Koj tus tub twb pab $10,000k diam yog lawv tsis pab los tsis dua lawv mog. Ntuj nyob qis qis lawm ntuj mam rau txim xwb tau lawm. Tsis npam loj los yeej yuav npam me me vim lawv saib tsis tau koj tus ua niam. Koj twb tsis tau tuag txawm sim tuaj khoo kom koj muab koj li nyiaj rau lawv cia no mas ho ua phuj dhau qhov yuav tau lawm kaj. Niam loj cov tub mas cuab ntse kawg li yom. Hos Nej cuab kwv tij los zoo li tsi tshuam ntse pes tsawg thiab as.p

NEB OB NIAM TUB KUJ MUS LAWB DAB MAS, MUS VAM COV NTSEEG PAB NEB TXHAWB NEB LUB ZOG, TXAWM TIAS NIAM LOJ COV TUB TSIS TXAWJ HLUB NEB LOS PUAM CHAWJ, LUB NTUJ TWB POM TAS LAWM, KOJ YUAV UA LAWV NIAM YAU, KOJ LOS LAWV QHEV RIS MI NYUAM, THIAB LOS TU LAWV, NQA LAWV QUAV LAWV ZIS XWB

Kuv xav tias qhovvua niam yau thawj zaug mas vim yog lawv yuam tiam sis tus zaum ob twb tsis muaj neeg yuam ne.. hmoob lub siab yeej nqaim thiab phem heev os!!

Ntuj os teb aw cas koj txiv yug koj yuav evil txog 6 theem muab 2 tug poj niam xa mus dab teb es koj yuav tau ev daim ntawv phem yog tim koj txiv xwb .hmong ruam g txhawj lub neej thaum tseem muaj sia nyob mus txhawj lub neej thaum tuag xwb poor lady

Peb Hmong yog ib hais neeg tias 21 no tsis txawj hlub niam hlub txiv lawm vim yog kev npam kev khaum ib tias dhau ib tiam. Tus niam tsev no nws yug los khuj nws cov kev npam tag nyob rau thiam no lawm ces zoo os. Cov niam loj menyuam tsis hlub los txob tu siab. Cas hais tau zaj leej neeg no tus siab us luaj.

@pangher8903

3 жыл бұрын

Koj nim paub txog luag lub neej tiam tha Tag los es koj judge nws ua dabtsi os? Peb yug los txomnyem tau zoo tsi paub naj. Nws tub txonyem tu siab txaus lawm es txhob thuam luag os.

Koj ua niam yau tsis tau txhua los cas? Yuav ib yug kav ib tug xwb maj!

Just let you legal son do your funeral...not

@pnvang2

3 жыл бұрын

This is why I Hmong traditions can be an issues Makes me sad about depending on kwv tij all the time for such traditions that will make one hate another for life

tu me niam tsev aw lawv twb ntxub koj npaum ko es lawv pua ntshaw koj li koog hmoov os koj ruam lo koj ntse naj es koj tseem faj tej lu li ko rau pab niag tub ko thia os. ua ca sawv daw twb hai tai hmoob mekas siab nim zoo2 li no nev cov tub ko pua yog hmoob Amekas no maj ca ho muaj 1 co tib neeg hmoob Amekas siab ho phem li ko thiab no yog li ntawd ce hmoob Amekas lam hai xwb yeej tsi muaj tseeb li qhov hmoob mekas hai ntawd tia hmoob mekas siab zoo2 no.

Thank you for sharing your story, sister

kv nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg dab neeg heev li kv niaj hnub mloog e kv cov neeg nim tia ca kv yuav nyiam koj cov neeg ua luaj li

Tus niam tsev txhob muab liam rau txoj hmoo os mog. Vim yus txoj kev ruam yus ua tsis taus niam. Koj twb tuaj nyob teb chaws no lawm koj tsis tas yuav need koj niag txiv lub npe es ho los ua qhev tu ob niag niam txiv laus thiab mas. Tus niam tsev koj tus tub tsis tas need kwv tij os nyob teb chaws no laug xuas lauv thauj yus mus rau Tom yus lub tsev laus xwb tsis tas li ntawv yog vim li cas peb hmoob pheej yuav npaj ua zoo rau thaum tuag lawm xwb mas yuav ua zoo ces kav tsij ua zoo rau thaum tseem muaj txoj sia xwb tuag lawm txawm ua zoo 2 npaum cas los tsis yog ua rau tus tuag yog ua rau cov ciaj tuaj noj thiab tuaj nyob lom zem lawm xwb . Kuv lub neej kuv tsis npaj rau thaum tuag kiag yus tuag ces tuag mus ua ab lawm xwb tsis tas yuav siv nyiaj Luam lug. Luag America luag ua 1 2 hour xwb luag twb tseem vam meej tshaj yus 2 3 puas npaug

Kuv niam koj yog kuv txoj sia koj twb yug tau kuv lo tab tsob koj lawm os kuv niam

Ruam li koj twb tsis paub ib tug ntawv luaj twm es ua cas ho xav tias koj tau daim ntawd los ua niam yau. Hmoob twb tsis muaj ntawd, cas pheej hais txog ntawd los saum ntuj los ua neej.

Tsis yog koj hmoov phem os kuv mloog mas zoo li koj nyiam ua niam yau yim raug lawv tsim koj yim nyiam koj thiaj nyob uv li ko koj yeej phim li no xwb

@tweetiebird100

3 жыл бұрын

Paj Thao Vuag cas koj yuav hais tau yooj yim ua luaj na tus sister! Koj lam mloog xwb koj tsis cuab pob ntseg mloog kom zoo. Lawv ntxias nws mus tom teb lawv khiav lawv lawm. Nws twb khiav tabsis nws tsis paub kev nws khiav rov los tsev no nev. Tsis yog nws nyiam ua niam yau vim nws kev tws mus tsis tau qhov twg vim nws yog poj niam. Tsis zoo li nyob Meskas tus niam tsev. You have no idea what she went through!

@pajthao4813

3 жыл бұрын

@@tweetiebird100 es koj nyiam ua niam yau thiab lod cas kuv hais dabtsi raug koj los cas koj ho yuav los tias kuv tsis muaj pobntseg no

Lady, forget about those idiots stepsons of your husband and the first wife just cut ties from them because they are not your children and they will not care or know your son after you pass. Your son is right, just take care of your son and yourself. As for your funeral, as long as you save enough money for it.

Stay away from these money digger

Reading the comments before listening to the stories. Nope hate these kind of stories. Not going to listen. 👋🏻

To the owner of this story, there’s no such thing as nqa daim ntawv ua niam yau. Yog lub siab phem xav thuan lwm tub neeg. You had a choice but you choose to marry a married man.

😭😭😭😭

Koj tus niam loj cov tub yog ib cov phem tiag2

Cas zaj no es dag li dag xwb los twg los tsis muaj tseeb li

@tweetiebird100

3 жыл бұрын

be happy oh really? Dag li dag xwb los? Es ua cas koj ho paub no los? Koj yog niam loj cov tub Es koj thiaj li hais li koj kaj? Nej ces kawg npam😂😂