Daughters are so beautiful and people are just crazy

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Ikr? Tom and his family belong in the asylum.

@philipcearley1992

3 ай бұрын

Children are God's gifts and Gender is a 50/50 chance, but people are the worst

@charliecorrigan-ye8dx

2 ай бұрын

I’m a girl

@charliecorrigan-ye8dx

2 ай бұрын

@@philipcearley1992not all people

@sayyymario

2 ай бұрын

Both are beautiful 🧏🏽

If the father of my child acted like that just because he and his family wanted a boy instead of a girl, I would leave town and never look back. A healthy baby is more important than the gender.

@user-xc1br1vo3d

5 күн бұрын

She do exactly what you said.

Any parent who is unable to accept their child does not deserve such a miracle

@aninaz6584

3 ай бұрын

1 min agoo?!?

@khanyazwane7419

3 ай бұрын

I agree with you

@khanyazwane7419

3 ай бұрын

He is so dumb even his wife left him

@Thespaceroocet

3 ай бұрын

​@@aninaz6584b

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Agreed!

the fact that the gender of the baby is completely up to the father just makes this even better

@shaggysbaggy4204

2 ай бұрын

Right

@shaggysbaggy4204

2 ай бұрын

Right I have 2 boys and 2 girls and I am very proud mom

@fredalearhinan6693

Ай бұрын

Men have XY Chromosome.. women only have XX female.

@flowerthecat3

Ай бұрын

Exactly, it's a girl bc he gave it another X chromosome

@user-xc1br1vo3d

5 күн бұрын

​@@shaggysbaggy4204 I wish i have two sons and two girls.

It doesn't matter what gender children we have. What matters more is that they're healthy and a gift.

@user-yz2vh3fx6u

3 ай бұрын

Amen should be thankful they could have kids

@stacysaint-ilma781

2 ай бұрын

Also a blessing.

@HappyHusky-ck6zc

2 ай бұрын

Lol

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

So true

Morals of the story: 1. All children deserved love and care regardless of gender. 2. Gratitude is more important than tradition.

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

Very true

@chuumon95

Ай бұрын

3. How about that guy’s acting was way over the top. He looked like a mad man.

He ruined his own life, all just because of some stupid family tradition

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

Some traditions can be stupid

@EthanNasurutia

Ай бұрын

@@marthagilbert3459 yeah, no kidding!

@rogueshark23

Ай бұрын

There are still some who want male heirs to carry on the family name or whatever.

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

Ай бұрын

If you want the girl to be a boy just tell her to dress like a tomboy and let her come out trans.

@chrispleasantable

27 күн бұрын

He was not only concerned about tradition, he was also concerned about his legacy

The root of the problem was how that guy was raised "Long line of men", sounds great but women are precious as well. As man, i respect women too.

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Agreed!

@tomedy_official

2 ай бұрын

He doesn't realize is that he comes from 2 long lines. His dads Ancestors and his mother's ancestors.

@cockerspanielfan56

2 ай бұрын

All sons. I’ve heard of that before. In the movie Penelope, she explained about how her family was cursed ever since her ancestor drove the witch’s daughter away and drove her to suicide. She cursed them and that the next daughter born was going to have a face of a pig. The next children that came along were all sons and Penelope was the only female child in the family that got the face of a pig.

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

This is really true

@rayleydicaron

Ай бұрын

God bless you 👏

Kaitie did the right thing breaking up with Tom

@mikebahri3866

3 ай бұрын

Right! I’m glad she did the right thing.

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Agreed

@stacysaint-ilma781

3 ай бұрын

I’m very proud.

@mikebahri3866

3 ай бұрын

He then later regretted his decision.

@mikebahri3866

3 ай бұрын

Actions speaks louder than words after all.

I can't some one would act like a baby unbelievable. I'm glad she left him.

"Our firstborn is supposed to be a boy" Bruh! I'm a girl and I'm firstborn. My mom is also firstborn and she has three brothers. My dad is the youngest of his siblings and has six older sisters.

@tomedy_official

2 ай бұрын

My sister the first born, an I accepted that all the time

@kaylawilliams2587

Ай бұрын

I am also a first born and a girl and I have a twin sister and a younger sister

@iricrescent2901

Ай бұрын

Can you imagine Tom’s brain exploding if he heard that was Katie’s family history? 😂 the level of arrogance him and his family has for being so proud of having just sons hurts my brain tbh 🤦‍♀️

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

My dad and his brother are good, and their father is the middle child of seven siblings (about 4 guys and 3 women, or something like that), and my mom is the youngest of 3 siblings, and her sister and brother are okay they just haven't gotten along since their father died.

@user-ro9fd9px1o

Ай бұрын

I am too a firstborn girl and my family loves me grandma always wanted a daughter and I am like that girl to her

If I were having a baby, I would be happy whether it was a boy or a girl.

@zataishasims9732

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@stacysaint-ilma781

2 ай бұрын

Genders don’t matter, they’re both were blessed.

Daughters are just as special. There are some people out here who can’t have kids. Due to my health issues I wasn’t supposed to have kids. Welp I ended up with my miracle baby. I had a daughter. As soon as he said that crap I’d be getting the divorce papers started. No one is gonna tell ms to get rid of my child 7:22

@DusktilDawn-xq8rl

3 ай бұрын

I have three miracle babies' now who have turned out to be amazing and strong young women and a strong man. I'm glad I kept my babies and didn't listen to negative people back then. I'm so proud of my children. ❤

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

Daughters are pretty good too

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

Ай бұрын

Daughters will become a hairdresser once their mothers retire from the beauty industry.

"Fathers can get everything you want." - Illumeably

@tomedy_official

2 ай бұрын

Did You mean "can't get"

jesus, that family is completely crazy.

I’m glad Katie chose her newborn baby over Tom and left him and she deserves better than him. One year later she got engaged to someone else John.

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Ditto

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

Tom is a loser

Not all families only have just girls or boys. We can have both.

My dad thought I was going to be a boy, but I was a girl instead. He didn't complain, he just started enjoying me. And how much he loves me just the way I am.

@marthagilbert3459

Ай бұрын

That's really good

5:42 "To Get Rid Of It"?! What The Heck are they talking about? All because she's having a baby girl?! That's crazy!

No matter if you wanted a boy or girl it matters that you have to love equally and fairly based on their gender

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Agreed

Damn, i get that Tom wanted a son, but he should happy regardless to be a father. Tom and his parents are just ugh, they don't deserve to be in the baby's life. Happy that Katie and the baby are happy with someone better.

@user-iy1eb1wx6o

3 ай бұрын

That's so freaking true if Tom was the baby's father the baby would surely have a bad life growing up

@tomedy_official

Ай бұрын

He could have still got a boy In the next pregnancy if he had Accepted.

@pbscraze

Ай бұрын

Well, now he threw that chance away. His own ego destroyed his own happiness and now he’ll never have a family again

This guy is a nut!!!!

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

Ай бұрын

John is better, Tom is just a complete football jerk who plays in a high school football team, who loves to date the cheerleaders in the Squad.

@csic123

19 күн бұрын

And so is his parents 😡

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

17 күн бұрын

Yes even I had a classmate who hates KPop and Kdrama and no offense how can you expect listening to BTS or blackpink everyday when some salons are playing Kpop music, Right if you don’t like Kpop music don’t come to Korea, just like the dad wanting a baby boy no one can’t get one maybe she can adopt a boy like be proud of your gender and be proud of someone else culture when you travel to a foreign country and show some respect I hope Americans can learn there lesson from watching travel Vlogs on KZread and not try to disrespect someone else culture, that is why don’t watch 90 day fiance.

ITS A GOOD DAY WHEN ILLUMEABLY UPLOADS

@musicnstuff2910

3 ай бұрын

Literally

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Yup

@musicnstuff2910

3 ай бұрын

@@lordybelance3410 I see u everywhere I swear

He was a fool for leaving her

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

Ай бұрын

Asian women deserve more respect screw the American man For being violent for wanting a baby boy? If you’re mad about having a girl well your stick with it there is nothing to do. If I was Katie I would have had a husband who is supportive about me having a girl in the house with twins in the way, Tom needs to start worrying about Boys girls are the strongest women in the world what is wrong with him. Girls run the world and we fight for our voices, that is why pick a man who would be supportive for your gender reveal, girl or a boy no matter what. If An American man doesn’t know about Asian culture then they don’t deserve to date anyone else in the world but their own women. I rather marry a European instead, They don’t rush in to a relationship fast.

Katie did the right thing

@chrispleasantable

2 ай бұрын

That’s right! Tom doesn’t deserve to be a father

A mother is willing to sacrifice herself to save her child, so why wouldn't she choose her child over you.

@jamiestrand2772

3 ай бұрын

I choose boyfriend above child

@joylynch5204

2 ай бұрын

Dead child?

@Lily_of_the_Forest

14 күн бұрын

I agree. Child comes first, at least for the first few years.

Tom made a fool out of himself

@Drag0n._cr3at0r

3 ай бұрын

Fr fr

@losauntygabz

Ай бұрын

So did his parents. The gender literally depends on how the father has sex and they blamed her instead. But you don’t get to force someone to abort a baby just because it didn’t get the gender you wanted.

While it is fun to guess the baby’s gender, hoping for a boy or girl (or both if twins), at the end of the day, all that really matters is the baby is born very healthy with no kind of sickness at all

@jillians.6930

Күн бұрын

Exactly!!! When I have kids, while I’d love guessing the gender, I’d also just appreciate the joy of becoming a parent & that the baby is healthy ☺️

This is reminding me to be greatful no matter what kid I have when I become a dad

My mother had a girl as a first born. My grandma on my mom side had a boy, & my grandma on my dad side had a girl as a first born, & I had a boy as a first born. I mean what's the big deal? As long as the baby is healthy, & alive, that's all that matters

I'm glad my dad is nice,caring and understanding person to my mother. He never asked first born to be a son. Thank you papa for keeping mom n I safe.

@marimartinez647

29 күн бұрын

The gender of the baby is determined by the man's chromosomes, not the woman.

Apparently it's the father's fault it's a girl .... His chromosomes decide the gender of the baby. Having a baby girl is such a blessing ❤!!

The nerve of Tom and his parents. “We are a proud family and we only want sons” like who says that?!?! Jerks!

@milutinstankovic4638

3 ай бұрын

Not only did Tom wanted a son, but his parents wanted a grandson rather than granddaughter. Jerks!

@HaileysWorld2004

3 ай бұрын

Ikr it’s just messed up

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

Ай бұрын

They are toxic I’m glad Katie dated an Asian man, for me I won’t marry an American either. Europe is the best

That’s sad that the parent is unable to accept their child

My add on: After getting married, Katie and John loved each other and Jane for the rest of their lives. They eventually had a child, who turned out to be a boy, who they named “John Jr”. Due to everyone knowing about the nature of Tom and his family, Tom was never able to find loved again, resulting in him never having another child again. Tom and his parents were also cyber bullied by thousands of people, who said that they come from a family of monsters and animals and not men.

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

I love it!

@stacysaint-ilma781

2 ай бұрын

Tom and his parents had their karmas.

@QueenEevee1994

2 ай бұрын

Love it!!

@linnetgee8857

Ай бұрын

Look like one people in the party was recording, he might post it. All the people at party were shock and disgusted with Tom's behavior even the men. Katie say people at party were their friends and family, Tom loss friends too.

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

Ай бұрын

Hopefully they unfollowed him because he can end up being a loser in real life.

The dad is really good at the act 😁

It’s a human being regardless of the gender. Let’s say I try this theory where I wanted a girl and it’s a boy I’ll still be proud of it either way.

Nice to see new actors. And a great storyline, fascinating.😃

@ImaniAdams-love

3 ай бұрын

There's never new actors

@tomedy_official

2 ай бұрын

This actor is terrible

Never walk out on gender reveal

@robincremers

3 ай бұрын

never do a gender reveal

@stacysaint-ilma781

3 ай бұрын

@@robincremers everyone should be surprised after the baby arrives.

@robincremers

3 ай бұрын

@@stacysaint-ilma781 ofcourse but a party is unnecessary

Another great dhar mann knock-off😄👏amaizing job!😂

Having a baby is a blessing and if Tom can't see that then he doesn't deserve to have her and the baby

Out of curiosity, when Katie wouldn't let Tom be part of their daughter's life at the end, how happy were you all on a scale of one to ten?

@davidhopkins6946

3 ай бұрын

I'd say a 5. On one hand, he did come around and feel sorry, but on the other hand, he had given her an ultimatum and had hurt her too much for her to forgive him that easily. Needless to say, he learned his lesson the hard way.

@AureliaIlva

3 ай бұрын

Me 10. Of course its good that thing that he was sorry in the end, but in my opinion someone who messed up like this and more or less wanted to sentence his own baby to death, just because of its gender... Well, such a person gave up every right of calling himself/herself a parent. If he was able to be so incredibly mean, at least he should man up and carry the consequences of his actions. You cant expect to treat others like sh*t, and then just be forgiven like nothing happened. And if I was the daughter, I also wouldnt want to have such a father in my life, it would always haunt me in the back of my head.. I would want to grow up with a father who has always loved me unconditionally, and I think John proved himself to be a true father to her, more then the biological father ever did. So I think its great that he came around and finally admited his mistake. But I also think that he should just accept it if she doesn't want to give him another chance. You cant just expect to behave however you feel like and then just pretend like nothing happened, because every action has a counteraction (consequence), whether we like it or not. Now, this is my opinion, out of the experiences of my own life...I might be right, wrong, or both. But I would be very curious to hear other peoples opinions as well :)

@AureliaIlva

3 ай бұрын

But I have to say, its a complicated question. It also depends so much on the people involved in this matter

@user-hk2fc4jv2g

3 ай бұрын

He lost any right to be part of her life when he revealed his misogyny. He also needed to learn basic biology. It is the mans' sperm that determines the baby's gender.

@waves2378

Ай бұрын

One hundred million

Illumeably makes the best content ❤

Good for you kaitie

The baby was'nt born yet he gave up that right he did'nt have nothing to do with this baby his mistake he can't take back fantastic message love it

Bro it's way better then Dhar Mann ngl bro

@AkamAndArdam

3 ай бұрын

Nah Dhar Mann better cuz they copied him if u wanna know just go and look when Dhar Mann started and look when they started💀 not tryna be mean olz

@info_bits

3 ай бұрын

​@@AkamAndArdamDarr man didn't start such videos. There were way more channels. But because of production quality darr man became famous. I have seen darr man claiming copyright for videos much older than their videos. That's when I decided to quit them.

@Alina4life2010

3 ай бұрын

Trueee

it's not easy having kids so once you have a child you be grateful for what ever God gives you

I love how she calls him her “biological father) which, of course, is all he is now.😊

29 minutes‽

It's time like this that Maury is needed.

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Yup

:49-1:13 is some great acting. Extraordinary realism.

Gender reveals are fun and the dad was being unreasonable for no reason

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

I love gender reveals! 🩵🩷🩵🩷🩵🩷

I can’t believe the nerve of some people. Biology was never my favorite subject, but I’m pretty sure the gender of a baby is not something parents can control. When my mother was expecting me, I don’t know if my father wanted a particular gender, but my sisters were hoping to get a brother. But, they got a girl, which I guess wasn’t too surprising since most of our family on both our parents’ sides are female. Still, when I have kids someday, I’ll be happy regardless of their gender, and I hope my future husband will feel the same way.

@lordybelance3410

3 ай бұрын

Agreed. And how dare he blame Katie for something she cannot control! Tom needs to retake Biology.

@jjtheraccoon61

3 ай бұрын

You mean sex. Gender is a social construct. Regardless, Tom cannot control the sex of their baby. Or their gender.

It doesn't matter what gender child you have It's the child that God gives you

This is making the veins come out my neck.

How could Tom be so selfish? He got Katie to the point where she was forced raise her daughter by herself

@user-gr2zd8kw7c

3 ай бұрын

ya its not even the girl's fault. its the boys chromosome that is present in the sperms that decides the gender. not saying that its the male's fault either but these things are in no one's control, and no one should be blamed

@philipcearley1992

3 ай бұрын

People are selfish in this world

@sunflowerangeldjoan1921

Ай бұрын

Right, I would have slapped Tom in the face he is such an idiot John is the best man for Katie I’m glad he took care of her baby. Someone like Tom shouldn’t deserve to be a father but someone else who would take care of a baby and replace it with the biological dad would be a stepdad instead, Tom is replaced and John will take care her baby. I’m glad She left Tom For John instead I wrote a wattpad story because the American basket ball player was cheating on his Asian girlfriend with another woman who is his college sweetheart and used her, in the end she went to Florida and decided to leave Corey in the end and dated a german man instead who take care of her baby.

I love how he blames it on the mother when it's the father that's determines the sex of the baby. Gotta love science.😂

1:28 DIVORCE and a protective order.

Someone needs to tell this family the male determines gender and to be grateful for the life they were blessed with.

Illumeably’s videos make me smile 😊

'He's just shocked is all" THE MAN IS PRACTICALLY DROOLING AT THE MOUTH

Least he won’t have to worry about child support or anything of that matter. Cuz to me, Tom never being able to meet his daughter is punishment enough cuz now he’ll never get the chance to love his child or any child for the matter. Now he’s all alone in a big empty house

The one thing I'm most shocked about, Is that Tom didn't find a new lover after she left.

The acting is hilarious though 🤣

Moral of the story: Which you get a girl or a boy,be grateful with your child and give them some love.

She doesn’t deserve to be treated like that bc it’s God’s gift and the husband should be thankful and appreciated for his wife is doing for him and it’s a wonderful blessing and an amazing gift from God and a sweet miracle! Plus you can’t change the gender of the baby bc it’s not the husbands choice weather is he wants a boy or a girl! All it matter is that the baby is healthy and perfect that’s all it matters!!! Also keep up the good work!!!!! Have a wonderful day!! ❤❤❤❤

That father is so selfish

@cara126

3 ай бұрын

Your right

Money, money, green green money

@shaleahchase4323

3 ай бұрын

Money is all i need

@BlockieBlockster

3 ай бұрын

what 💀

Any loving father, would love their child regardless of their gender and any loving mother, would choose their child over a man like Tom.

1:20 nahh bros attitude is worse than the drunk people‘s attitude💀💀

Yall do So good Videos One day It will become like Dhar Mann ❤

@Krisarooooo

3 ай бұрын

They're way better than Dhar Man...

@Partypooper_entity68.

3 ай бұрын

@@Krisarooooothere videos are good but dhar man is way better and he helps people and goes to other countries

@ManuelFernandez-oz3nl

3 ай бұрын

@@Krisarooooothey copying dhar mann

Was this not a comedy video?

7:51 Katie Please Leave Tom Him Wanting You To Terminate You're Pregnancy Because The Baby Is A Girl Is Absurd 8:36

The father defines the gender, Einstein!!

If I ever get the chance to be father one day I would like my first born to be a daughter but if it turns out to be a son i would be equally happy regardless of gender ❤

It sickens me to think that there are people like this guy in real life. Babies are a gift, no matter their gender.

Anything a man can do, a woman can do too, if not better.

My outcome: Tom put himself into therapy and was a better person after weeks of sessions. The sessions helped him get over himself and he met a new girl while in therapy whom he ended up marrying. They soon became parents to a twins (a boy and girl), which Tom was very happy to have. Sometime later, Tom’s kids meet Katie’s daughter and they become good friends after Katie sees that Tom has changed for the better. Now Tom and his wife run several financially successful businesses together, but they never stop finding time to spend with their kids.

@erickbuckner4485

Ай бұрын

That might work

@alkissakoulis782

Ай бұрын

I'm sure the first kid was the girl

@benjaminroberts4315

3 күн бұрын

Not Sure

I am glad my father's health was good ❤

Pity, that Katie didn't ask Tom why he suddendly change his mind. And he didn't started to search for another girl if he wanted a boy so bad. Besides it should be a better twist: it's found out, that there was a girl in Tom's family where noboby know about it.

@linnetgee8857

Ай бұрын

Maybe guy with phone was recording at baby shower, maybe he posted Tom reaction on internet and lots of people saw and no women wanted to date a heart less sexilse.

If I had a baby girl then I'll be happy

A great story.Bravo...

The parent were worst than Tom was a child is a gift from god

BIG THANK YOU Illumeably and your amazing team for once again pulling out another absolutely awesome video as always your videos just keep getting better and better every time you post and so does the storyline's as well I really don't know how you and your amazing team come up with all these awesome videos and storyline's as well but a big Thank you for doing so and not forgetting making my nights so happy just sitting down watching all your awesome videos as well ❣️I really do appreciate everything that you have done for all of us❣️....,,, BIG THUMBS UP FOR THE ONE AND ONLY Illumeably AND YOUR AMAZING TEAM AS WELL💞....,,,🕊️💯💯👍👍👍👍👍👍....,, KEEP UP THE FANTASTIC WORK Illumeably AND YOUR AMAZING TEAM AS WELL🕊️....,,,🕊️💯💯👏👏👏👏👏👏...,,,🕊️💯🙏

@effbee3932

3 ай бұрын

First one to like

0:50 😂😂😂😂

I think I remember hearing a Reddit story about this... truth is stranger than fiction, I guess

He keeps threatening her

My mom told me my dad was mad about me being a girl at first but I would've never known it had she not told me because my dad loves me so much he has been the best dad to me and I've always been Daddy's girl closest to him always and forever 💕

Oooooh, new actor

Com on ❤do it

His character had me boiling 💯

I can’t imagine asking someone and paying them to get an abortion because the sex of a child is not what they want. It’s disgusting.

At the end of the day having a child is a blessing so if you can be happy and if you're just going to be childish then I don't think you should have a child because there's people at the end of the day who would love having a child but they can't so you should be grateful that you're having a child and you're bringing a bundle of joy / blessing into this world but that's just how I feel

Tom and his parents made their beds. Now they're gonna have to lay in them.

HE CaME FrOm A LoNG LinE oF Men.. well that just makes sense

This is like Dhar Mann video "DAD WALKS OUT On His BABY'S GENDER REVEAL(PG-13)"

The nerve of people who cause the breakup of the relationship to think they can come back is shocking. No accountability.

28 minutes

The facial expressions of Tom have me rolling 😂

It's the man's Y-chromosome that determines the sex of a child.