Great explanations about human behaviour. You are a nice light into some of our kinks, putting together the male and the female version. Thanks.

Amazing detections. Never could have thought you could have explain both women and mens psychology this good, especially men, their motivations and relationship dynamics. 🙏❤

Forgive my English, I'm an 18 year old Italian boy and I'm still studying the language. In the video you brilliantly analyze the motivations of cuckolding, but I believe (if you will allow me a consideration) that this desire was originally much simpler than that. Cuckolding for me is the cousin of the threesome: you look for a different experience with your partner and you share it (consensually), with the difference that in the first case you are a spectator and in the second you are also a participant in the physical act. Sex is not just penetration, even watching (if it generates pleasure) is real sexuality. So that's how it comes about in my opinion: I want to see my woman enjoy, period. The choice of who to involve as a third party was not fundamental and obsessive, it was enough that there was attraction between her and the other (and that this was a trusted and healthy person). Then it got "worse" a lot over the years because what was a simple voyeuristic desire began to fill up (thanks to the macho culture and porn on the subject) with many and too many psychological nuances about the fact that the man involved (the bull) must necessarily and indispensably be better: more performing, more gifted, more powerful. The choice of the bull has become the main factor of the fantasy itself, whereas before it was the pleasure of the woman that was added to the pleasure of the partner who contemplates her. In fact, even the sense of the role of women has changed: now they must be completely at the mercy and dominated without frills, there is no way to lead the game; She has to get overwhelmed, she has to be fucked almost as if she is going to be destroyed. At this point, having radically changed the vision, you find yourself having to deal with why you want to put (indispensably) a bull (who maybe you don't even know) in your bed and therefore you have to fill in the why by asking yourself a thousand psychological things (when instead you just want to see a healthy fuck live): for example, the "my girlfriend is beautiful, I'm ugly, I handle his betrayals before he starts to get bored of me" or "I don't know how to do it in bed, it doesn't last that long, she deserves someone to break her in two like she deserves" or "As a child I was betrayed so many times that I had to make the betrayal erotic so as not to be overwhelmed by pain" etc. Any motivation can be right in what cuckolding has become today, but originally it was much easier than that: watch the person you love have fun as if they were with you, as if they were playing with a human sex toy. This mixture of conflicting emotions can generate a lot of conflict in the cuckold, but I invite you to rediscover the original meaning of enjoying it without considering yourself a loser, a failure, a submissive, a lack of attractiveness, a sexual useless, etc. Your beauty is created in your mind, and it shapes your perception in the material world. You're not a loser, you're not a failure, you're not a submissive, you're not a beta, you just want to watch a fuck because monogamy is so boring. Then it is obvious that there are those who find humiliation the most exciting component of cuckoldism, but it is not as indispensable as is believed today.

@user-uz3iu5vl9v

3 ай бұрын

It's cheating in God's eyes

❤❤❤You are just literally ((AMAZING))❤❤❤ I love the way you think loudly I always wish that i found someone who speaks freely and openly about different fietshs. I have been 8 years in femdom, searching, exploring, want to understand myself and the feeling i have that even me can not understand it yet. I learned a lot from your videos even i have a bit if a different experience. I am originally frim middle east (Muslims, Arab culture), i had these very weird feeling on my teenage that i feel so weak in front of nice respectful ladies. I never understood why (me as a strong Man..i feel very weak in front of most of ladies) . Then I started to notice that the lady who take good care of her toes and fingers just able to control me very easily. (I was very angry of myself that i am becoming weak in-front of ladies) . But then I saw a stupid muscular man hitting a lady in the street stating that she is a thief. I couldn’t control myself but i just hit him back , protected her from his stupidness and told him if she is a thief..then go to police but you can not just stand in the street and disrespect a lady that way. From that day i understood that if i have any strength…i have to use to help anyone less pounds than me and we as men we have to respect Ladies and do our best to give them a good fantastic beautiful life ((as much as we can). But in the same time we have to be aware that some bad people are there and that we have to deal with that in a wise way to avoid disrespecting the good people. But that didn’t answer all my questions regarding my weakness to ladies. Even i found a way to control myself. Anyway, after years i found out about all kind of kinks and i know that (femdom) is my main type. So i started to search for a girl online who love the same kink, as i felt that in real vanilla life (all girls & all people in general) will never like me or respect me if i was honest about my fiteshs . Online i found only people who say that they love to be mistress & goddess but actually they all love only the money comes from it and never care about any feeling. And those (money lovers), when i meet them and start to talk to them to have an approach or asking the lady (what do she love? So i can do to makes her happy) they feels uncomfortable from my questions. And then just say (kiss boot, kiss the floor…ect) ,, it was very weird…why should anyone enjoying by kissing boots?? But i use do do it as I thought thats makes her happy. But even then I found out that all of these call themselves (Goddesses) they don’t enjoy these acts at all , they think that i Enjoy. But all they care about is only money . So I stopped meeting them . But all this made me very worry of marrying. As I don’t want to marry a lady who don’t like my fetishs, i wish to marry the one who love me how i am so i can makes her happy . As if she don’t like my fetishs …she will not be happy with me…and i will feel very bad not making my lady happy 😢

Thankyou very much. Your thoughts and advice is fantastic

I totally agree that everyone has some kinks, I even wrote a Twitter post about it just today 😂 Every long term partner I had of both genders had at leas some fetishes. And I’m sure the rest (that I had a short connection) would also open up about their kinks if they had more time and felt secure to share.

@ericfreshcorn3590

10 ай бұрын

I,m A Bull Interested

@1twistedcpl6575

7 ай бұрын

@@ericfreshcorn3590 aka you want unemotional sex with other men's women 😂

@nutbag8275.

5 ай бұрын

@@ericfreshcorn3590 😂

Especially for women, sex can be a very binding thing. Men are usually able to have a lot of sexual encounters with zero emotionality, without any emotional or traumatic packages. But the situation is often different for women. Even if it is not before, then after sex, they begin to form more or less emotional bonds. Especially if their partner has well. After that, changes begin in the woman suddenly. Decreased sexuality, increased fights, unnecessary tensions... There are also women who, although rarely, experience sex without experiencing sensuality. After having sex with too many partners, pair bonding is a lie. They can't connect with anyone after that. This is the reason for the increase in the tendency of women with a large past to cheat. To sum it up... If your female partner has started sleeping with other people, that relationship is over. Only 1 in 100 relationships survives.

Really amazing points. My girlfriend responds more when we focus on her and she is the center of attention. The results are always amazing because she literally opens up sexualy and enjoys the moment. We love talking about her pleasure experiences because this allows the both of us to know what pleases her, what's interesting is she reciprocates in asking what I enjoyed. Best sex can always happen when we put the woman in a empowerment position. Men that are afraid of this view will never experience their womans full sexual potential.

It’s unnatural and trauma based. These men need real help. It’s dudes who’ve been cheated on and turn it into a coping mechanism. Naturally men should be sleeping with multiple women not the other way around.

@F_ckmeiwanttogetbanned

Жыл бұрын

İ was agreeing with You until the last sentence💀

@naserya.guy.

Жыл бұрын

@@F_ckmeiwanttogetbanned 2+

@VeinySausage

11 ай бұрын

Times have changed lol

@ArissaTinkers

9 ай бұрын

That's not biologically correct

@kmit9191

9 ай бұрын

For me it is not trauma based but a way to cope with feeling inferior. I am in a loving open relationship although I don't utilise my freedom to see others. I'm not bad in bed but my libido doesn't match that of my girl. I can see which kind of guys my gf can get into bed (handsome,athletic, muscular, big and dominant), yet she chooses me to stay. It somewhat is a weird blessing. Although I have to say that I don't like to talk about it openly as what you wrote is the norm in our society and rightfully so. Me letting other guys bang my wife every other weekend is something that degrades me and devalues my position as an absolute authority. But honestly I am fine with it as this kink turns me on more than anything else. Her being slutty, chasing after her desire,having the best sex available to her while she is still young and me being her caring partner who just wants her best is just my thing and I never want to have another kind of relationship in the future

You look really nice in this Video, I love your hair, I love the lighting, you look really fresh. I don't have Cuckolding fantasies, but I have been married and Divorced a couple times, and I have had a few Women in my life, I used to be like most Christian people thinking no Sex before Marriage and no Cheating, but after having experience with a few Women I realized sometimes some Women just want some excitement in their lives. They don't really want to break up over it, they just have an Affair, and most of the time they never talk about it. It wasn't until I started talking about it on first dates, that I started getting more Honest Answers. So I usually used to agree that IF she ever had an Affair, I don't want to know anything about it, and don't do it in OUR BED, and don't make a Habit of it, and ALWAYS use Protection! Those were the Rules. Are you still in Thailand? I am hoping to come there as soon as I can, I would love to meet you. I Worship Kali, Lilith, and Naamah, and I like all my BDSM stuff to be an act of Spiritual Worship to the Goddess. I feel the Domina is like a High Priestess or also an Incarnation of the Goddess, or Possessed with the Spirit of the Goddess. I like this, because I think it adds MEANING to the Act of Sex, I feel the More MEANING we can add to our Experiences, the better they become. I Like the way you think, I have often despised the "BDSM Community" and I never wanted to be considered "Part" of it, because MY Practice is a Form of Worship, therefore I am not "Playing" I am not "Pretending" to do something. When I surrender, I lay down my Life, Body, and Soul in the Ritual. Most people in the "Community" can't quite relate to that. 😁 I know you have experienced a lot in your life, I respect you for that. If you are interested in doing a Video, I can give you an Idea; I have always wondered "What do Women THINK about when they are Pleasuring themselves or during a time when they are receiving Oral Pleasure?" Do you think they are thinking about the same things as they DO in their Kinks? Or are they thinking about Guys riding up on White Horses or is it different for a Dominant Woman and a Submissive Woman? 😁

You are so easy to look at and so easy to listen to 😍

Proud to say my mom was the one who shaped me into the man i am today😜

Amazing video, stay safe and God bless ✨💚

Women that do this have no love or desire for their husband's. Stop the nonsense

I thank you a lot for this video. I am 24 and I have been struggling with this desire to be humilliated. I hope someone like this youtube channel teaches the stepts of how a man can go away from this sexualization of cheating and objectivization of the woman being used, and also ourselves being used. The problem is even tho I know counsciously for example that there is no such thing like alpha or beta males, or that the dick size does not matter and all of that, I think I believe that uncounsciously, and even tho I don't want to believe in it, there is a part that does and I don't know how to change that. I also try to think if is there any healthy way to enjoy humilliation without looking myself as less. I am bisexual and I phantasize about having a female and male partner that use me and humilliate me. I know maybe I could find a way to transform into just a voyeur that enjoys watching the person I love enjoy sex with another person, but maybe that's not the only healthy way.

I am wow crazy about your beauty and that accent!

I would say cuckolding is ok but both the male and female has to be in a good place mentally and both parties have to be happy with the situation if not it could lead to some troubles later on down the line

@franciscoaguirreherrera5914

9 ай бұрын

Yo tengo los cuernos de acuerdo coni mujer. Ambos svordos buscará su bull..lo encontró entre sus compañeros del trabajo. Se la lleva a un hotel. Y le lavRegresa temprano la noche ...yo no veo y el ño sabe del acuerdo de ella y yo. Mi mujer del hotel me haceichas videollamadas. De losomemtos más calientes. Y es todo muy agosto los dos

@stevieR-lw4iy

9 ай бұрын

Ok 👍

@HumanBeingResisting

27 күн бұрын

With this logic, everyone should be in a good place mentally to do anything. You're admitting that this isn't something normal people should do... because it's dangerous

You're ver articulate and get straight to your point. I appreciate your non pretentiousness. I agree that this kink is overwhelmingly driven by men with inadequacy or perhaps insecurity about the longevity of their relationship without the novelty of taboo. Having said that I've desired to be seconded (maybe for those same reasons) for a long time and dabbled with it.

3:25 that's wild! I had no idea that was a thing 💀

One of the kinks I can't understand. I could not stand the Idea of another man with my wife; I can't imagine sleeping with another man's wife. I know it's a popular kink, but to me, it's betrayal.... I am ok with BDSM, I love Femdom, but your channel has steered me away from kink. My wife passed 14 years ago, After 15 years of marriage. I have been alone with the memory of her since then. I'm not sure I believe women get attached more than men.

@HumanBeingResisting

27 күн бұрын

You shouldn't. I'd argue cuckolding is an end result of a coping mechanism or porn addiction. Think about it; you watch porn for so long that you need to watch another man screwing the woman to get turned on... or it's a twisted kink forged from trauma like severe bullying from females.

You have such a beautiful voice. What is your accent? Are you Greek, or something else?

10:20 some kinks are developed over time. He might not have had it when they met.

Empress!

You are such an amazing person thanks for informing about cuckolding 🥰🥰

@user-hn8ij6wh9r

Жыл бұрын

Would you be interested in phone sessions where we could ft or zoom and you tell me what to do while I do it for you? I’m not I trested in any payment but if you’d want too just lmk

@user-hn8ij6wh9r

Жыл бұрын

Who liked it?

@1twistedcpl6575

7 ай бұрын

@@user-hn8ij6wh9r so u want freebies? 😂👍

This is quite personal! For me, it's not a gay/ bi thing. It is super hot for it to be centered on goddess worship -- the importance of her pleasure, and the challenge/ competition in pleasing her. That's the main point for some. I respect that your experience which has clearly differed from this.

Btw what are your thoughts about women's misusing their legal power?

every man with this fantasy, needs to go speak to a therapist/counselor about this fantasy before eeeevvvveeeerrrr bring it up with their partner. this fantasy is not a healthy one to entertain... its like having a fantasy of having another man, drive your car... but he has no accountability nor responsibility to you or your car! whether its because of too much porn, or insecurity when it comes to performance, or a twisted sense of love you think you have for your partner. just no, go to a therapist or counselor and get to the root of that fantasy and exercise it out of your mind, there are far better fantasies to have that dont risk the connection you have to your partner or even your own manhood as a man. hope this post helps atleast one man out there.

@captainjackuniversal

12 күн бұрын

You have helped me, thank you, I will try to be my better self as a man

The first minute i saw your video i tought your are a beautiful girl but after i saw several of them i think you are a very intelligent woman.

@atm1919

9 ай бұрын

Lmao

This video made me question the relationship with my mother. Because nothing makes me fall in love more than a woman that makes me feel jealous and emasculated.

Nice colour, suit you well

@JazzybBlessed

5 ай бұрын

I agree she’s is gorgeous as heck too ❤ I respect her unbiased opinions and openness to this kind of a topic and how she treats it for what it’s is a which is a personal preference that sometimes I’m sure can be very exciting and fun, dare I say a loving, bonding experience for those few out their who are not doing it for just their partner, but for both their own personal reasons and have to spice things up or try new things together in loving way to further enjoy each other. I think people should not judge or talk about people sexual preferences because it’s everyone’s right to their own body and to do as we wish with ourselves that feels safe and healthy and good to us, so love the video thanks for giving it some different light and being so honest not candy coating the truth about these very real life situations that people do go through ! ❤❤❤❤

А я то думаю, почему у этой красивой девушки тот английский, который я почти понимаю) Подписался, чтобы получить визуальное и аудиальное наслаждение)

Don't get married boys xx

I just want to mention that when you touched briefly on boys jealousy towards there fathers, you are basically talking about Oedipus Complex. The idea is that a son that grows up in a realtively healthy family environment, will grow out of this stage in childhood. The problem often becomes, especially in Latin culture, is that the boys do NOT grow out of this. often it is because of emotional incestry on the part of the mom. She overtly coddles, subconsciously manipulates, and sets the boy up for a lifetime of deep resentment, coupled with love, thus conflicted at the very core of himself. Not to mention confused. Hence, you get many overly machismo men taught not to cry and to protect like a bulldog, never admit your wrong even when everyone in the room knows you are. Yet, in actuality, they are mamas boys and often hiding in the closet about there real desires and tendencies, behind all that macho. Anyways, My God woman, you are the whole package! Your personality and your mind, WOW! I really like your videos. So intelligent. And your spirit is so feminine, soft, and beautiful, yet playful. Typically, I don't take to European women, but I must say, you are certainly something to behold. And I can say this with my literal eyes closed. Beautiful inside, you!

Yes! This is exactly what I have been thinking. Why is cuckholding so focused on men? WTF.

@franciscoaguirreherrera5914

9 ай бұрын

Será pork habemos muchos cornudos. Y dónde kiera ?.

What’s findom fetish about then? What’s the cause of it? Fast track attention? You should do an in-depth video about it.

proudly in a cuk relationship

Nice picture today. I like it. All harmonious. Colour of hair, dress, everything. Looking very beautiful, you are. Why does it vary so much given you're just about always in the same apartment?

Boy, this is a 180 from 1st. One,, probably from being young.

Women only have this desire if her husband isn't who she actually wants

@atm1919

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@1twistedcpl6575

7 ай бұрын

Oh...she wants him! He pays the bills, takes care of "man's" chores etc...and allows her to have her cake, his cake and lots of other cakes as well...while he just licks the batter bowl

@F_ckmeiwanttogetbanned

6 күн бұрын

​@@1twistedcpl6575 bullshit

Your Video is very Great for me. Can you also make a Video for Cuckolds.? Because i am a Cuckold and in my past live i was Cucked by nearly every woman which i had a relationship. Most of them told me that they suppose that i am a Cuck. In my past i ever was excited about Cuckolding but i also never accepted my inner cuckolding Drive. I know that Sounds difficult. But i also need the time to find out who i am. Today i love my inner Cuckold and i also being proud of. But i am Not sure how to explain that to an Alpha female which i could known. Can you also make a Video for Cucks?

I have a very important question for you goddess I am not asking this to you personally but I have this question for generally the community, and there can be all sorts of people in the community right, let's say there's a slave he sent all of this submissive humiliation videos and pics to his domme So now the Domme has access to all of this top secret information about him, would she try to use it against him in any way that might affect his life And let's the slave and the domme are not in contact then after a few years the slave somehow become a public figure like politician, sports person, actor, musician etc then will that mistress try to take advantage of him by that information I know it's a long question but It be great to have a through answer to understand the different sides of it. You are definitely the right domme to ask this🛐🙇‍♂️ I would like to know personal and general views. Thank you :)

@1twistedcpl6575

7 ай бұрын

First question is WHY would you set yourself up for a downfall? You've now presented a situation where you have to always look over your shoulder in fear of what's coming... That's like wearing a disguise while robbing a bank and then deliberately taking it off and looking directly into a camera as you walk out!

What u said at the very end of this video is embarrassingly 100% true i would know im a guy lol

Love this episode from Bangladesh.

My quess is childhood sexual trauma. The cuckold got abused sexually by an older mature woman when he was too young. The older woman gets married, etc, leaving him. Maybe this is his way of keeping control/love, reliving the trauma. .. just a theory??

If women inherently know this is bad then they should not continue to do it

A lot of it depends on whether the women has a narcissistic personality. I have a history with covert narcissist women and they are very different than normal women. They love control they have no empathy or attachment and they r the only women who r a natural fit to be dominate. They generally love to have multiple men after her and I got into it for her

How often do the women end up leaving with the bull?

so beauty girl

Your like a doctor on these subjects 👍

I wish you don't start making vedio that's not your thought just because many person's like me like your thought and I've benefited alot from your thought

my wife married me because I was the nice stable boy with a high income, but during our 10 first days not to mention our years together, she lusted after the "homeless poet on a motorcycle." She had castigated the lawnmower man for being poor, and then she castigated me for being wealthy and successful, though not as wealthy as she had hoped, so she hated me. I can't wait to talk to you through your service.

@markjackman4943

Жыл бұрын

Marital Counseling and if that doesn’t work, use some of that money to rid yourself of this woman. Don’t allow her to subjugate you.

Can u please make a video on how dominant women can/should behave to their daughters and how the existence of a daughter can affect the life and the marriage with her sub husband? Thanksss ❤

@Sombod1

11 ай бұрын

That is actually a very good topic. There is not much material out there guiding non-traditional relationships when comes to romance or family.

@NewLife-qj9mx

8 ай бұрын

My advice, should you want it - keep your D/s activities private - let your daughter develope an opinion of men/father figure in a more "normal" environment while shes growing up. Submissive men is not "the norm"

@1twistedcpl6575

7 ай бұрын

@@NewLife-qj9mx agreed

@yoboyjr24

4 ай бұрын

C’est possible de discuter j’en ai besoin

We did this for years until my wife died..now im a cuck with out a wife.....

Hell no tell your wife that you want to be called cockold In the beginning is foolish you have to build trust first they have to be a foundation to return to you know nothing

@1twistedcpl6575

7 ай бұрын

So dont tell her and allow her to make her own choice in the beginning of the relationship? It's better to spring it on her after she's already invested in a relationship with you? Seems a bit...deceitful.

@tomoarihoshina8973

7 ай бұрын

@@1twistedcpl6575 to risky can she trust him. maybe for the shotrun but for more no going to work

When you are against your natural which been created inside you by the creator , you will be always fighting with your soul and you won’t have stable life. … So, be natural and have clean and clear relationship to be happy. And before that is to have good relationship with your creator. … The first thing and step is to avoid watching P0rn and avoid friends who has dirty habits and mind. … In the end men are men and women are women no matter what they have done or what they believe or what they watch. … May Allah save you and guide you to the right path.

Goddess

Yes, I think the practical need and benefit of Cuckolding is to provide the female partner a greater access and freedom of her sexuality because the sexuality of the human female is far above the capacity of the human male. Cuckolding is just one way to help supply that need for the human female.

@alla_mephistopheles

Жыл бұрын

This should be the basis of cuckolding, yes.

@shivamsson

Жыл бұрын

Fully agree and I'm male. Idk why some have a hard time embracing this

@reach275

Жыл бұрын

Far above is a stretch m8, it's mystified to an extent they aren't god

@danhattaway3513

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree.😊

@shivamsson

Жыл бұрын

@@reach275 huh?

Kneels at Your Feet, eyes lowered, listening

Do you have to be rich to serve you

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

what do you think about cuckolded pregnancy?

I think I could see why your type would be a little "weird" guy😉

Mine started with feet and mother

I think I first got into sph, but then when I was watching normal adult videos I got off on pretending to watch from the side. The sph kind of evolved into cucking.

Alla Mephistopheles? As in 'Allah' = God and 'Mephistopheles' = The Devil ? Angel and Demon all rolled into one?

@kmit9191

9 ай бұрын

Alla is a russian name

@abrogard142

9 ай бұрын

@@kmit9191 and 'mephistopheles' ?

🦬🤘

You don’t have enough knowledge to talk about the subject

@dementegg

Ай бұрын

Quiet peasant, The Queen is talking.

stop misleading women …. go have as many as men as possible .. crazy world

@Zycore1

11 ай бұрын

Nice body

Relationship killer and mentally abusive

@atm1919

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂 cry me a river

me me me me waht is in it for the guy???? 1830

I would liké to know how you came goddess

Thos is abusive.