"And don't let this person be a damn psychopath, please" lol

Me and my high school crush had a crazy dysfunctional relationship. First of all, we never dated, but I was smitten with her. We had a double whammy neptune/mercury conjunction and our neptunes were aspecting other planets. To say my head was in the clouds would be a massive understatement. I wrote that girl love poems, sung to her, and was an all around cheeseball. Also, my Uranus was conjunct her Venus and it was love at first sight for me. We were friends, but I wanted more. I could have dated other girls, but I held out for her for most of high school while she dated other guys. It was psychological hell for me to be so into her and watch her dating other guys. I also idealized her to the point of absurdity. I thought she was this sweet, loving person, but I later found out that she made fun of me and talked about me like a dog behind my back. That cut me deep and I never really got over that (I'm 25 now).

@CosmicHomegirl

8 жыл бұрын

Ah man sorry to hear that :( that Neptune can be so blissful yet so deceptive :(

@dickpound4821

8 жыл бұрын

+PiscesMoon Goddess It's cool. I actually ran into her at the dentist the other day (She works there now) and I could tell it was very jarring for both of us. Back when I was friends with her, I didn't know much about astrology and never looked at the synastry and composite. My encounter with her actually prompted me to look at those and it was an eye opener. Our synastry was very rocky and intense, but the composite was very favorable for a long term relationship. I think if we had met later on things might have worked out, but she has a husband and kids now. So I guess i'll never know what might have been. lol

@sandrashane677

11 ай бұрын

@@dickpound4821 You deserve better. I hope you have found someone to love now.

I have SO much Scorpio in my chart. I'm a Libra with scorpio merc/mars/uranus/11th and 12th house. My Moon and Venus are in Virgo. The guy I like Pluto square my Venus. His Pluto is in Virgo. I feel like we could obsess over each other but for now I just know I obsess over him. I feel connected to him also even when we don't speak. I can just feel him. My Venus Trine his Uranus as well

This video was so incredibly accurate!!! Thank you so much ❤❤❤

love this! was an great talk with you on AstroGeeks last night..looking fwd to next week.

omg. U are the only person that has this explained the way I feel!!!

Thank you for sharing such a nice info about Pluto Neptune and Uranus. I have someone in life with her Neptune - Uranus conjunct my Sun - Mercury and Her Pluto conjunct my Venus Saturn ... I have to agree it does create that magic in relationship... Keep up uploading such information..

I just found your channel and I’m loving it, so far. ❤️

Thank you! I’ve been trying for years - a lifetime, to understand an old boyfriend & our connection-I’m married now- after seeing this video I had to check out our chart- we have a lot of Pluto & Neptune!

Great video!! Thanks for the explanation!!!

I love this video in synastry my past relationship my pluto was conjunct his venus in scorpio and wow! he was the jealous one, but the chemistry was amazing! his venus and mars is in scorpio, my venus and mars are in aspect to pluto, we are both so pluto but I love it!

I cant get over that lighting lol son!! on point hahah

Love it thank u for taking the time to explain

My Pluto is in Scorpio 🙃 his Pluto is in Sagittarius, conjuncting my Ascendant but we both are Pisces moons. We just get each other through our thoughts and eye contact, lol.

thank you!!! you decodify alot!!!

I gotta say though - I am indifferent to the whole soul mate thing... With my Neptune opposite Venus, I have a predisposition to WANTING to believe I have a twin flame or that ONE person. But I am afraid to embrace that fanatasy. That BLISS thing is so true, I blissed out when I was with my ex... I was in heaven and everything was so perfect that it's so hard to let go of that... But when that person you've idealised, doesn't live up to that.... You don't want to admit it. I do feel like I died when I finally ended that relationship. The problem with these aspects for me is that... I don't know any other way to see relationships, I CANT force myself to be happy with a "normal" grounded relationship.... I've compromised and accepted that when I meet someone like this... I have to ground the energy for it to last longer but...

@DivinityinLove

8 жыл бұрын

They HAVE to have a psychic connection for me to even feel interested 😞😞😞 which also means I basically CRAVE romance and sexual connection ALL THE TIME but I just don't enjoy romance & connection with anyone unless they CAN offer me psychic connection.. That's what excites and stimulates me. If I'm Bored with you, then I can't force myself to spend time with you let alone get into a relationship 😳😒😔😞 I don't want to be different - I just wish I can find a balanced way to have a naturally exciting relationship for me with psychic exploration with each other. I love myself and who I am, I just want more psychic sexual partners available in my reality, more options. I don't want my romantic options to be so limited to one or two only in my lifetime. Yes, they are special but doesn't mean I don't deserve who I want or only can have one in this lifetime.

@ekayed

6 жыл бұрын

my Neptune oppose Venus and I had same experience like you described

Very spot on. My parents have Pluto Conjunct sun by synastry, and I've got Pluto Conjunct sun by transit. And... shits gettin real.

Luckily I have a sagittarius sun which kinda balances the intensity

Awesome conclusion thank you

M3st1za Also have 7th house stellium... Had my Venus square a much much much younger person’s Pluto. As well as moon-Pluto and Neptune-moon. It was intense, obsessive and heartbreaking in my part so I ran from the relationship.

Very good analysis❤

Oh damn, I endured that gas station line of questioning scenario, the phone call busy signal scenario. It is MADDENING. It was synastry Moon Conjunct Pluto and I was the Moon person.

@CosmicHomegirl

8 жыл бұрын

Maddening indeed wow! They must've really wanted to dig into your mind and know every thought with that conjunction!

@Ericamidwife

6 жыл бұрын

i have that with someone. but im pluto.

@doubtfuldreamer

5 жыл бұрын

@@Ericamidwife and? how does it feel for you?

Neptune fog 😁 I like that one ...good one😆

My pluto (which is also in 8 house) are in aspect to my sun, mercury, venus, and mars....it seems like i attract nothing but stalkers and jealous ppl....god it's crazy! Smh

I just watched this today..Thanks :-) I met some one 3 weeks back and we hit it off very well. We got along well . She has her Sun, Venus, Jupiter & Mercury in my 8th house I have my Mars in her 8th. We have a close orbit her Venus textiles my Pluto. My Neptune is in her 5th house. My Venus in her 11 th and My Jupiter in her 7th.

Whooaaaa! My ex has only Pluto in 8th house... And right where I have my mercury Conjuct sun... This answers sooo many QUESTIONS!!! We have many Neptune/Uranus/Pluto aspects. She has also an Aries stellium in moon/mercury/Venus and I have saturn/Uranus/Neptune in FIRST house... I have my Neptune opposite my Venus and much more && I totally thought we were destined for one another and felt like no matter what -- I would regret leaving her... I kept magnetically being drawn to her... She lied right from the start & I denied ALL of my truth and ignored everything I sensed :: I blanked out into NEPTUNE fantasy! Oh god...

🙋 7th H Stellium, here too! In Gemini - sun, Venus, Mercury , north node 🤓

@petinhse11

7 жыл бұрын

Dallas Duchess t talk, talk, talk

Thank you so much for this video Homegirl. I have Pluto in my 7th house. I fuckin needed this.

I had the following with someone from my past: Pluto in eachother's first house. Scorpio Ascendant Conjunct Ascendant in Scorpio Scorpio Venus Conjunct Ascendant in Scorpio Pluto trine Mercury (exact) Pluto trine Moon Pluto trine Mars Pluto Conjunct Ascendant in Scorpio Jupiter trine Ascendant in Scorpio Neptune sextile Ascendant in Scorpio (exact) Sun sextile Pluto (exact) And even though we'll never admit it to anyone and probably not even ourselves. It was highly likely mutual obsession from day 1.

@Natalia-hf3et

2 жыл бұрын

Whoa! That is intense.

@themoonbleu627

Жыл бұрын

Why did it end ?

Best video for me that's what people need to know , thank youu sweetie

if you have uranus and neptune in the 7th house in synastry, would it still be like the effect if our planets were aspecting each other? thank you

All the people iv dated have been intense but it could be because I have alot of scorpio in my chart and attracting them into my life. But theyve always been psychotic

I have uranus, neptune, mercury, venus, saturn conjunct in Capricorn square my Aries ascendant. and moon in Scorpio with pluto. Yikes!

Pluto from start of the video / Neptune 9:30 /

What about a person with Scorpio on their moon sign? Will they act crazy? I was with a guy for years and he was intense, possessive, obsessive, suspicious, mean, vindictive, cruel, abusive, violent, destructive and self destructive, and just crazy. But I had the hardest time separating from him. No matter what he did, I could not just walk away. Still today, I have a hard time letting go, and I forgive all the horrible things he did. I will not go back, but it's hard. And I can't understand how he had such a power over me. Craziest meanest man I ever met. But he is a Sagittarius. I have a Leo moon.

well said but for a 12th moon, Venus & mars is everything a mirage? ESP if they have neptune, pluto with me? Thanks

i really like your post. what if, however, the two people in question have a bunch of neptune squares, but they are artistic people (musicians/writers/performers)?

So odd, my Pluto is exactly conjunct this guy I know. He is obsessed with me, but I couldn't possibly care less. I do see him as a friend, but have zero interest in a love relationship, in which he tries for on the daily.

@Natalie-rm5li

7 жыл бұрын

Monique I have this same issue girl 😩😭

@FlamesAndShadows

4 жыл бұрын

Does your Lilith aspect anything of his?

Pluto, Uranus, mercury & the sun all in my first house all in VIRGO 8th house aries moon at 0° 3rd house has scorpion Neptune. born to be alone and tortured oh but i can read everybody’s minds

And I have a neptune sag in aspect to sun, mars, sun and moon in Pisces...its like a double Neptune here! Lls....ppl call me a liar...lol... phuck them.....all my dreams WILL come true...

This was interesting. What about when their north node (Rahu) sits on your ascendant? I would think that would create the feeling that the relationship is meant to be as well.

@CosmicHomegirl

6 жыл бұрын

BurgundyandBlue1111 ohhh yeah those nodes on the ASC definitely bring it! I had one once and let me tell you lol....💕💔

@doubtfuldreamer

5 жыл бұрын

@@CosmicHomegirl tell us more!

Oohhhhh girllll. I had a ♒️♏️ like this - yeah, a 16 year saga - oh yeah, btw...he’s an ex-cop turned private investigator. I’m a 12th house Sun ♐️, Rising ♐️, ♊️ moon. I’ve got Neptune, Mercury conjunct my ♐️ Ascendant. I have Neptune sextile Pluto. 🙄 Thank you❣️

My Pluto in 2nd H in opposition to his Venus in 8th. His Puto & Uranus sextile my Mars trine my Venus and in opp, to my Moon in 1st H. My Neptune in 4th In opp. to his Sun & Mars, His Neptune in 9th sextile my Venus and square my Sun & Mercury ,My Uranus in 3rd sextile his moon and trine his Mars. His Sun in Sag, Moon in Cancer. I am Cancer Sun, Leo/Moon Rising

What if a individuals sun is in my neptune and Jupiter,what does this mean

I have someone in the workplace, its weird that im attracted, to the point i need to sneak and get the name and details. i found out that we have mars trine pluto and sun square pluto. im sooo attracted. i hate it.

What about Pluto and Pluto

I have mars pluto conjunction

also I have moon Conjuct Pluto so if you get into my mind -- you WILL SEE Pluto hell hahaha . With my 8th house stellium of all my other personal planets mars/Venus and sun/merc 😜😜😜

Can mercury opposite pluto give the same effect as the conjunction?

@CosmicHomegirl

5 жыл бұрын

it can give a strong plutonian influence to mercury still, yes, but not exactly the same as the conjunction :) the conjunction is much stronger

What about Jupiter opposition Uranus??

I have 7th House stellium.

Neptune conjunct Uranus synastry ????

Pluto opposite Mercury, psychic connection still?

@CosmicHomegirl

5 жыл бұрын

yes :) not as strong as a conjunction but yes

Can you please do a video on the singer the weeknd natal chart

@CosmicHomegirl

6 жыл бұрын

kimjay425 heck yeah I love him lol 🖤

@kimjay425

6 жыл бұрын

Cosmic Homegirl omg thank you i cant wait to see it 😄😄

Are you still with lada?

7th house stellium sun mars saturn in the 7th i attract narcissist

even if outer planets are retrograde, we count on those synastry?

@CosmicHomegirl

5 жыл бұрын

yes :) the retrograde does not matter in this case. The planetary interactions are still felt very strongly :)

7th house stellium with Venus, Uranus and Neptune in my 7th house. 🙄

What about pluto opposite venus? How is it different than conjunction? Is it true they say it can give one sided love affair?

@CosmicHomegirl

8 жыл бұрын

Yes the opposition is a strong energy too it can cause more conflict within the self and the relationship

@CosmicHomegirl

8 жыл бұрын

It can cause obsessive behavior mainly in the Venus person but will effect both parties in some way

@TheShaghayegh1

8 жыл бұрын

piscesmoongoddess thank u

@TheSkyhazFallen

5 жыл бұрын

@@CosmicHomegirl what if its Pluto opposite Mars, does that make a difference, does the Mars get obsessed or Pluto? Please let me know.

**chuckles** *Uranus*

Neptune 9:27

What if his Pluto conjuncts my Pluto, my Uranus conjuncts his Uranus, and his Neptune conjuncts my Neptune😂🤔

We have the same Neptune, Uranus and Pluto 😳

@rachaelmcdougall8769

2 жыл бұрын

Same

what about Neptune conjunct ascendant and/or moon ?

@CosmicHomegirl

3 жыл бұрын

Still a very psychic connection...potentially beautiful and dreamy, but also potential for deception and uncertainty too...

@themoonbleu627

3 жыл бұрын

@@CosmicHomegirl thank you for responding !

I am too crazy yea haha

Scorpio moon, venus aspected scorpio, mars aspected scorpio. mars in the eighth house. sun in the eighth house. I am fucked :(

How can two people's birth chart connect??

@CosmicHomegirl

8 жыл бұрын

Hi Rachel! You can go onto Astro.com or cafeastrology.com and make a synastry chart that layers the two charts on top of each other to see how the planetary positions of each person interact with each other :)

@rachfa6240

8 жыл бұрын

thank you :)

This guys Pluto squares my sun and Venus 🙄

my ex and i had moon square pluto double whammy

@myqueenimagivemydumassopin6841

6 жыл бұрын

Patricia Davies the split up had to been very very hurtful I bet...

LOLZ so true smh

I have all three aspecting my sun and venus lol thank god for a jupiter aspect

@CosmicHomegirl

6 жыл бұрын

Porsh Meh yoooo....true that! All of those wild card planets hitting you lol thank goodness for Jupiter!

@porshMeh

6 жыл бұрын

PiscesMoon Goddess your amazing keep up the good work i related so much to this even the heartbreaking neptune part👍

I'm dying to know...your rising and moon? you're sun in Pisces I know that.😊reason WHY is your story experience is EXACTLY like my situation that's scary accurate😰. good job👍

@CosmicHomegirl

7 жыл бұрын

Hey! My sun is in Taurus, Moon in Pisces and Rising in Scorpio ;)

@kbr3619

7 жыл бұрын

Rising Scorpio!😉👍

All I could do is watch your pretty eyes

i really like your post. what if, however, the two people in question have a bunch of neptune squares, but they are artistic people (musicians/writers/performers)?