I am married don’t intend to get married again. my husband is wondering why am I watching this video😂

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Haha! 😂❤️

@mrphantom3305

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha same here

@mrphantom3305

Жыл бұрын

No harm in fantasising a fictional situation 😂

@chandninawani1061

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@hindujavani

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Our marriage was solemnized by both hindu n christian rituals. We registered under this act. But it was in rural Tamilnadu as my husband's relatives arranged for everything. But when I went to sign, the registrar started making fuss that my parents also had to be there. They even took me separately to advice that love marriage doesn't work and i should go back to parents. My parents had taken a lot of leaves for both ceremonies and pre wedding, post wedding rituals and couldn't be there for registration. I had to show wedding pics, videos of my husband with my parents cutting cake and finally show my dad's passport proof and a call to get the registrar sign. Whew! It's difficult even if both sides are willing. That was 11 years ago!

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Oh gosh! How disappointing that the officials came to give you “personal advice” 😅

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

How did you arrive at the religious rituals you would be following in your lives and what religion your children follow?

@nikusingh191

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien He gave good advice.

@yadavmayu7

Жыл бұрын

Hello, didn't know someone went through the same trouble a me. Me and my husband are both Hindus and we got married as per Tamil rituals in temple. But guess what, I am Maharashtrian and even with the wedding card, photos and temple receipt were we got married the registrar was not satisfied. Registrar asked for both my parents to be there. Only my mom had come with me as my dad is no more, after which he asked for my dads death certificate to prove that no one objecting our marriage. This was all despite my in laws and my mother being present. 😓. But we could finally get it registered.

@MK-lh3xd

Жыл бұрын

@@yadavmayu7 that is good due diligence on the part of the registrar.

My wife and I got married under the Special Marriages Act in 1974. We belonged to the same religion and our parents were witnesses. I would have expected the process to be more user friendly given all the changes over five decades. Unfortunately, the bureaucracy still makes it so challenging. The bureaucrats should be trained to be more courteous and encouraging of couples who are idealistic in that they are willing to think and act beyond their narrow walls of religion and ostentatious weddings. We do not want zealots and busybodies interfering with most personal of life's decisions. We have a long way to go.

@user-bw8yn3zr1s

11 ай бұрын

nothing is more true

@Varun96490

7 ай бұрын

*special Marriage Act, 1954

@a-z0-9-e-w-n-s-U

6 ай бұрын

​@@Varun96490😂

@reginageorgetownuni

2 ай бұрын

Completely agreed on this

My husband and I got married in Special Marriage Act. We are both hindus but since we didn't plan on having any hindu ritual marriage, just a simple court marriage and a reception we had to opt for Special Marriage Act. We actually didnt have to go through all this hassle. We just went to a marriage registrar office one day and submitted everything and she took care of the rest. Then just one day we did the actual signing of the documents and its done. Received our marriage certificate within 1week via post.😀

@dishaahluwalia8957

Жыл бұрын

Hi, I just wanted to know what sort of certificate u got?. Mine is a print out without any letter head just signatures and with title

@sakshijadhav5798

Жыл бұрын

I guess it didn't take that long because it wasn't inter religious marriage.

@sanjay4841

Жыл бұрын

How much did the whole process cost?

@ssam7384

Жыл бұрын

If you are a woman then this is the most stupid decision of your life. You have no idea the kind of rights women have in matters of inheritance, custody and divorce under Hindu Marriage Act

@lisanyugenhascancer6332

Жыл бұрын

Hello how can I do this?

it's crazy how you look on videos and how you look without the purple hair showing and without the glasses and everything :00 AND CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hahah thank you! :) it’s a full incognito mode haha

This was very informative and equally interesting to watch! 🥰 Loved it 👍

Very informative video, done in a easy-to-understand way, without any legal terms. Loved it. And wish you a very happy married life.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

God bless both of you forever, Prayers for a happy married life.நல்லதே வரும்.

Being an advocate I can confirm you explained it very well. Also the starting part where you mentioned how different religions have different marriage laws. Yes, in India there are few fields where religious personal laws are into force like the marriage, property inheritance and some land reforms and that's why the current govt is focusing on implementing uniform civil code i.e. one law across country that will cater all religions and sectors of people to ensure uniformity in process and low red tapism and remove the requirement of personal laws wherever possible under article 44 of the constitution. A nice way to educate your audience and promote court marriages as it is the most sensible thing. Just do a court marriage and maybe if you want throw a reception for all the fams and frnds. Also congratulations :)

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

Current government is far right and it intends to insert majoritarian policies as u iform

@saumyapandey2372

10 ай бұрын

​@@gmaxi360LoL they aren't far right, if you don't know the meaning of far right search it. They're right leaning with socialist policies.

@gmaxi360

9 ай бұрын

@@saumyapandey2372 I know what I am talking about, I don't intend to learn from you

@KejriwalBhakt

8 ай бұрын

​@@gmaxi360Tell me you are stupid without telling me you are.

It is an very interesting topic and loved the way you spoke about it ❤

My mother and father got married this way. And very few people know about this special married act! Although I knew a lot about how it works I loved seeing your video! Because in movies they make registered marriages seem very simple..

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :) yes there’s a lot more to it than just showing up at court haha

@samyukthabhuvi7018

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien mam i got a msg from ur telegram and join and get lucky prize bla bla

@stephen6644

Жыл бұрын

​@@SatshyaTharien your christain???

Wishing you and your husband nothing but love and happiness. Stay blessed! I hope and pray that someday ppl who don’t have the courage to get the “inter religion”marriage done get the required coz honestly… it’s called living life only if it’s with the one you love !

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Congrats @Satshya! Wish you a happy Wedded life!💫

@SatshyaTharien

9 ай бұрын

thank you :)

Congratulations to both of you 🎉 I am actually watching this for general information, thank you for sharing the process. Pata nahi future mein jarurat hogi bhi ya nahi. 😂

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hahah thank you 😊

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

The religious demographics of our country mean that the majority community in different states is different. Any socio political Majoritarian radical group can use this notice board and the private information of inter religious couples to harrass them and this is happening irrespective of the identity of the Majoritarian group in question. I have seen people circulating pictures of these notices on Twitter, Facebook tagging extremist organizations and calling for stopping the wedding.Therefore we need to be more nuanced and make the system easier for all inter religious couples by weeding out such steps which expose consenting adults in front of radical extremist groups. Also the reason she didn't face any such harassment was because the socio political community in majority in Delhi didn't have any issue with the fact that a women of other faith was marrying into a favorable faith. All right wingers view women as transactional entity in such matters.

Wow! Surprisingly it is not this cumbersome in Bangalore ❤ it was quite smooth for me, just a few hours to file the application and another few hours to get married. Also we had a 60 day window after the 30 day’s notice. Just sharing in case anyone needs! Cheers to people who decide on having a legal marriage!! It’s simple and very very light on your pocket (we spent Rs. 100)❤️❤️😊😊

@amayakak530

Жыл бұрын

Do we get to select our date to get married ?

@amrithaashok2468

Жыл бұрын

@@amayakak530 yes absolutely! You can do it anytime between the 30-60 day window

@stephen6644

Жыл бұрын

​@@amrithaashok2468 nee araya kalayanam kayiche chekante per para??

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

That’s amazing! I’m so happy for you :)

@abhinavsingh2757

5 ай бұрын

Do the witnesses have to be local bangalore?? Or anyone will do?

Thank you so much for this video! Bless you

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😄

Happy married life mam... you are the bridge between North and South because you are teaching us south Indian words.

Hi Satshya, Thank you for this video, it is very helpful. I just wanted to clarify one thing regarding the witnesses. Not sure if I missed in the video. But do we have to take the witnesses both the time, first during the registration and then again during the day of declaration (after 30days) ? or it is only on the declaration and signature day that we have to take them with us? Thanks

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Hi hi! No just the second time, that is on the day you are registering the marriage

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Sorry, to confirm, not during application, but marriage registration (after 30 day period)

Thanks Chechi for this...i always wondered how it's done court marriage about this specific Act...i learnt something new today

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad :)

Wishing you both a Happy Married Life and thanks for this informative video.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😄

@bodaddy6771

4 ай бұрын

accept islam now or be ready @@SatshyaTharien

Love you for thisssss! I wanted an insight on this soo bad

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

🤗🤗🤗

The video just cements my decision to never get married 😂 Jokes apart, the display of private information publicly is indeed scary, and this video is indeed very informative... especially for inter-religious couples .. Also, congratulations!!

@Crazysummerdays

Жыл бұрын

There was a law passed that it’s not required to be published on a notice board but unfortunately the law is not followed and they are still doing the same old procedure.

@MystqStar

Жыл бұрын

@@Crazysummerdays well that sucks!!!

@vamsikrishna3855

Жыл бұрын

@@MystqStarwell most parents accept after some nagging if couples from different faiths. The only exception is Muslims. They still live under the rock. Unfortunately.

@dOVERanalyst

Жыл бұрын

​@@Crazysummerdays It is anywhich way published on their public website so that first wives can save their life and young girls can be saved of scams.

@rara-wg3qs

Жыл бұрын

Privacy in today's world is just an illusion... If this seems scary to you, then all the apps taking your consent to obtain personal info is like a 100x more scary

Congratulations. Wish you a very happy married life and successful career.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😄😄

@nikusingh191

Жыл бұрын

It will fail without question.

How did you guys convince your parents or how did you manage to save the ordeal of convincing your parents and others to do this smart wedding plan instead of the tradition drum-roll thing . I know it depends on persons and family types , but yeah it would be helpful If you could share some light on that too .TIA.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Since we belong to different religions, this was the only way we could’ve gotten legally married in india so we had to do it anyway hehe :) but if you’re both from the same religion and want to avoid ceremonies I guess have a conversation with parents about why you don’t want to do it and want a simple thing instead :)

@julyarvide

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien I went to india to get married and requested special marriage, despite of it the lawyer made a different process and now we are just realizing, not sure how to solve it, could you share the contact of a good lawyer please?

I had no idea it blows my mind how difficult the process is especially when your details are put out for everyone to see i wanted to suprise my partner with a court marriage but i will have to drop it for now

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Haha I don’t think you can surprise anyone with a court marriage since you will need both your documents and presence in person 😄 but it’s not too difficult a process :)

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

The religious demographics of our country mean that the majority community in different states is different. Any socio political Majoritarian radical group can use this notice board and the private information of inter religious couples to harrass them and this is happening irrespective of the identity of the Majoritarian group in question. I have seen people circulating pictures of these notices on Twitter, Facebook tagging extremist organizations and calling for stopping the wedding.Therefore we need to be more nuanced and make the system easier for all inter religious couples by weeding out such steps which expose consenting adults in front of radical extremist groups. Also the reason she didn't face any such harassment was because the socio political community in majority in Delhi didn't have any issue with the fact that a women of other faith was marrying into a favorable faith. All right wingers view women as transactional entity in such matters.

@MK-lh3xd

Жыл бұрын

Even in traditional weddings invites are sent to people with the details. Wedding is not just a deal between two people, it is a social institution. Your family, relatives, friends need to know about your marriage.

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@MK-lh3xd wedding is a deal between two people in case of special marriage act marriage. In the document only the signature of the couple and two witness are present. Indian laws don't need consent of family members for wedding. Also parents don't own the individual liberty and autonomy of their adult children. Just like all adults decide the future of the nation by voting, similarly adults decide their own future by chosing whom to marry. This right isn't owned by parents or relatives.

@MK-lh3xd

Жыл бұрын

@@gmaxi360 I didn't comment on autonomy. I was reacting to people saying it is a private matter.

Thank you for this excellent video! You answered all my questions which I couldn’t find answers to when reading the rules online. Congratulations and thanks!

@SatshyaTharien

5 ай бұрын

Woohoo I’m glad, and congrats :)

Hey this video is really helpful… Thank you for making it so detailed❤

@SatshyaTharien

8 ай бұрын

🤗🤗

Still can't believe you're married! Congratulations ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 😄

How many years does one have to be in the city to get it registered there?

Thanks for sharing. Were you able to solemnize your marriage on the first day itself you went to the court or did it take multiple iterations?

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

So the first day you go to court (the office) is to apply for it - and then they tell you when you can come to solemnise the marriage - it will be mostly a month after applying

Is there any documents we are supposed to take with us on the appointment date ? as my wife is a foreigner and after the whole process of submitting the documents the SDM itself gave us the appointment by writing on our documents the date which is almost 40 days but they didn't gave us any application number or slip or anything so I am just confused like what if we go there on the appointment date and nothing gets done so can you please tell me how was your experience on the appointment day.

This is such an informative video. Kuddos to you for sharing this and the cons that you shared, how little scary it is to share your personal detail in the public domain. You are absolutely right about this and I hope this system gets more comfortable for the applicants. Bdw congratulations you❤ wishing you a very happy married life❤ all the blessings to you❤❤

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

I also got married by special marriage act. But my experience was different.. we signed a notice and and after 3 months of giving the notice we got married to a registers office.. which went very smooth..

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Oh nice - interesting that you had a 3 month window 😄

@natsmukherjee

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien I married 6 years ago so maybe the rules has changed. Or may be it varies from state to state I don't know.

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@natsmukherjee The religious demographics of our country mean that the majority community in different states is different. Any socio political Majoritarian radical group can use this notice board and the private information of inter religious couples to harrass them and this is happening irrespective of the identity of the Majoritarian group in question. I have seen people circulating pictures of these notices on Twitter, Facebook tagging extremist organizations and calling for stopping the wedding.Therefore we need to be more nuanced and make the system easier for all inter religious couples by weeding out such steps which expose consenting adults in front of radical extremist groups. Also the reason she didn't face any such harassment was because the socio political community in majority in Delhi didn't have any issue with the fact that a women of other faith was marrying into a favorable faith. All right wingers view women as transactional entity in such matters.

@nikusingh191

Жыл бұрын

Must be a mullah...

@exmuslim7241

Жыл бұрын

@@gmaxi360 Hi leftist.. Again the slaves come to defend their masters

Thank you for sharing the process and your experience.

Thank you Satshya it is very informative for me as foreigner who wish to marry in India

Congratulations ❤ The notice board display thing is so scary - similar to banns being read out in church but much more public. Q - do you think it would have been different based on the city you chose? Maybe Mangalore might have been different?

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you :) yeah I know! Atleast in church it’s among a community of people you know, but in a public space it’s quite scary 😟 regarding the second part - I don’t know, I’d like to think that all government offices are neutral & don’t make things difficult for people under the SMA. But it can be nerve wracking if one has for example, run away and trying to get married

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

The religious demographics of our country mean that the majority community in different states is different. The socio political power in the hands of for example the muslim community in srinagar would be very different from that in shimla just because of their percentage of population. Similarly the socio political power of a religious community xyz by virtue of their demography will be very different in meghalaya compared to say that in delhi because of their percentage in these states. Any socio political Majoritarian radical group can use this notice board and the private information of inter religious couples to harrass them and this is happening irrespective of the identity of the Majoritarian group in question. Therefore we need to be more nuanced and make the system easier for all inter religious couples by weeding out such steps which expose consenting adults in front of radical extremist groups. There are pictures of these notices circulated on twitter, Facebook tagging various right wing organizations calling for stopping these weddings between consenting adults. People need to speak out about this problematic step as it limits the free choice and privacy of adults.

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien well said and it was good to see you speaking out despite personally not being affected by this invasion of privacy. Also the fact that you had your parents as witness made it easier. That other man had to spend 25k because his wedding was the more "revolutionary" If I can say so. Just because of the socio political climate of the nation. Very unfortunate to see this. Hopefully this step will be eliminated sometime in future, I have seen so many pictures being circulated by radical people on social media of these notices calling for stopping the wedding between consenting adults.

@NArchean

Жыл бұрын

Its same for everyone. SMA is applicable for all India.

Hi Satshya, Congratulations. I have a question, when giving the notice, it is mandatory that both parties needs to be there? My fiance is from Ireland and it might be easier if the notice can be given by me alone or if not would this be possible through a lawyer??

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hi Elizabeth! Yes both parties need to be there because they need to verify your identity in person along with your documents :) but you can still double check with a lawyer

@moumitasantra9039

Жыл бұрын

Hi...find the marraige registration ofc at your locality and rest of the formalities the register took care....ideally both parties dont need to be present when giving notice but bfr giving notice if your fiance is not Indian but a foreign citizen they hv to be living in d country for a minimum 30 days. So i guess if ur fiance is a foreign citizen he has to be present I got married in dec under the special marraige act in West Bengal....the process was not that cumbersome...my husband is a US citizen....he just needed his driver's certificate, passport, visa n birth certificate... and i needed adhar card, age proof, n also 2 passport size photograph

@Elizabeth0512

Жыл бұрын

@@moumitasantra9039 thanks alot for your response

@ss17746

Жыл бұрын

​@@Elizabeth0512 : How was your experience? I am in same situation where we both live outside India and we are Indian

@shrutichouhan6762

Жыл бұрын

​@@moumitasantra9039 Hi, can you tell me more about the process in WB? I'm planning to get married and my fiance lives in US as well

Congratulations! 💐❤️ 🎉👏

Congratulations on the Wedding!😃

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thamk you! 😄

Thanks for the informative video and congratulations to both of you 🎉 I'm planning to get married to my gf through SMA this year 🥰

@believer-fcaeth

Жыл бұрын

Which religion does she belong to

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to you 😄

@nikusingh191

Жыл бұрын

May you get a Mullah who does the Halala

@surabhimishra-xp8uw

Жыл бұрын

@@believer-fcaeth muslim😂

Would be interesting to see a video on how you handle the religious differences within your marriage. Thank you for all the marriage content 😊

@shreysom2060

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that' the main thing

@mukil371

Жыл бұрын

Hindu man can marry anyone, the people who cry love jihad when hindu girl marries or goes with non hindu men will cherish when the guy is hindu and girl is non hindu.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😄 I don’t think I’m ready to share that publicly since it involves details of someone else’s personal faith. Overall though I’d say the most important thing is to discuss everything ‘no matter how uncomfortable before you decide to get married, so you are both on the same page :)

@mukil371

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien Hindus won't have any problem when the guy is Hindu and the girl from non Hindu religion. Problem of moral policing occurs only when it's Hindu girl with non Hindu man. You definitely know this since you're a Mangalorean.

@anujpramanik1819

Жыл бұрын

@@mukil371 Is there any point to discussing this here? Do you know them personally enough to understand whether they have a problem or not? Why do people feel the need to drag politics into everything.

Hello Satshya, Is there any waiting time for the appointment at SDM office after you fill the application online or we can just directly show up there after filling application?

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hi, after filing the application online I think you can directly show up the next day or even the same day. I'm not sure if we got an appointment date (it will usually show up when you file the application) - but we went for the first SDM visit the very next day

This was great! Thank you for it.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Anytime :)

Also, the biggest difference is that this notice clause is only for inter faith couples as per the Special Marriage Act - so it is quite discouraging and dangerous for a lot of couples!!!

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Yeah! I hope that is removed soon

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

It is meant to act as a deterrent only. Very unfortunate to see this step. . The religious demographics of our country mean that the majority community in different states is different. Any socio political Majoritarian radical group can use this notice board and the private information of inter religious couples to harrass them and this is happening irrespective of the identity of the Majoritarian group in question. I have seen people circulating pictures of these notices on Twitter, Facebook tagging extremist organizations and calling for stopping the wedding.Therefore we need to be more nuanced and make the system easier for all inter religious couples by weeding out such steps which expose consenting adults in front of radical extremist groups. Also the reason she didn't face any such harassment was because the socio political community in majority in Delhi didn't have any issue with the fact that a women of other faith was marrying into a favorable faith. All right wingers view women as transactional entity in such matters.

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien great to see that despite not being personally affected by the invasion of privacy here you raised this issue

@nikusingh191

Жыл бұрын

May you get a Mullah

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@nikusingh191 abe jealous kyo ho raha hai be. Khud mehnat kar, padhai likhai kro

Any couple can get them registered under the Special Marriage Act 1954…you just need to follow certain regulations which you have stated in this video…

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

The religious demographics of our country mean that the majority community in different states is different. Any socio political Majoritarian radical group can use this notice board and the private information of inter religious couples to harrass them and this is happening irrespective of the identity of the Majoritarian group in question. I have seen people circulating pictures of these notices on Twitter, Facebook tagging extremist organizations and calling for stopping the wedding.Therefore we need to be more nuanced and make the system easier for all inter religious couples by weeding out such steps which expose consenting adults in front of radical extremist groups. Also the reason she didn't face any such harassment was because the socio political community in majority in Delhi didn't have any issue with the fact that a women of other faith was marrying into a favorable faith. All right wingers view women as transactional entity in such matters.

😬😬😢😢❤ Arre dil toot gaya mera.. 1 week se aapke video dekh raha tha random.. You are super cute and lovely but abhi aap married ho... 😬😬 Good content sister.. 😢😢hueee3eeeee

I love all ur videos 💕 even tho I'm still 19 and not getting married I watched the whole video 😄 I just love the way u talk 🥰❤

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Haha aaw thank you so much! 🤗🤗

Hi..I have been married in both Hindu and Muslim cultures of marriage..can i apply for special marriage act..and is there any problem for that

@learnjee1473

Жыл бұрын

Wow great how did you convince your parents?

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Yes you can - because legally you are not considered married until you have your marriage certificate (this is applicable to all people)

@tharabhai1794

Жыл бұрын

​@@learnjee1473they never got convinced

During document submission, both partners should be available and after the procedure, does the candidate receive a marriage certificate on the same day?

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

They upload it to the govt website in 2-3 days and you can download it from there :)

Personally,i don't like court marriage but m happy for u , always keep smile.

Hi dear thank you so much for the video i wanted to know was there any cross questions asked because of different faith marriage ? And how did you deal with the lawyer ?

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hi! I didn’t employ a lawyer, but they usually don’t cross question they just help you sort your document & applications. And no, nobody asked us anything intrusive questions or did anything to make us feel uncomfortable

@snehayelandur9818

Жыл бұрын

Thank you dear ❤️

@snehayelandur9818

Жыл бұрын

Sorry another question if we were to get married with Hindu rituals and at the church is it still mandatory for 30 day waiting period ? For the court marriage

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

@@snehayelandur9818 no worries :) yes - the court marriage process is independent of whatever else ceremony/program you have. So a 30 day waiting period is mandatory

@snehayelandur9818

Жыл бұрын

@@SatshyaTharien thank you so much dear that is very helpful for us to plan out lots of love ❤️

I'm planning to do this too cause I don't want unnecessary drama coming from the relatives and also save money to buy a house or something.

Such a positive outlook. I have always wanted a very simple and minimalistic wedding. Thanks for the info

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

I would like to get married to my bf who is from a different religion. His side family is supportive but my parents are totally against it. I was thinking of marrying under SMA but the only thing I'm worried about is the notice that is sent to our address which can cause issues from my parent's side. Is there any suggestions to avoid it?

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

The notice won’t be sent to your home address, it will be sent to your district magistrate’s office where they will display it on the notice board for 30 days.

In 2015 I was a witness for a register marriage of my close friend and got a good reward of beatings by bride's dad and brothers,😂 Today they have a wonderful married life.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Haah 😂

@indrijeetkumar8364

Жыл бұрын

You should have burnt Quran and leave Islam before marrying her to console her parents that she won't be converted later on? Quran and Islam prohibit a muslim man/girl from marrying a Hindu.

Congratulations ❤️ and you resemble Kat Dennings the American actress 😅

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Haha, thank you! 😄😄

Hey your video is very informative, my partner is a foreigner however he will be coming to India for 10 days only (not more than 10days due to work) to get married but for the first registration phase can I go alone to the office and on the 2nd appearance we both will come. Is that possible?

11:44 The SDM said, "Easy!"

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Haha! 😂

What are the procedure if ur spouse is from a different national??.. I'm from uk (i dont have any relatives or adhar card in india) and my boyfriend is an indian...do we have to register the marriage in both uk and india????

@NArchean

Жыл бұрын

No, you can register it at either place.

@shruthysharma3181

Жыл бұрын

@@NArchean thankyou so much........

@satyeshtiwari

Жыл бұрын

@@shruthysharma3181 but your name is hindu name

@shruthysharma3181

Жыл бұрын

@@satyeshtiwari lol...yh I'm hindu...but i was born in uk and my parents are from srilanka..so technically I'm not an indian or have any relatives in india unfortunately😔💗

@satyeshtiwari

Жыл бұрын

@@shruthysharma3181 but Sharma is a north Indian surname and srilanka follow buddhism religion

Explained so beautifully 😊

Can i marry without informing our parents bcz we have some issue perfains to caste. Plz mam guide me

As a law student and you being a person married under special marriage act. I genuinely wanted to know about the caste of child.... If we are married under the sepcial marriage act.... And a child is born out of it... They are called as a legitimate child but how is it decided that which caste the child will be inheriting ? And will they have a right to claim reservations in a case where the mother is ST and father is general ?

@progressivelife7517

Жыл бұрын

I want to know too ?

@CometFire2010

Жыл бұрын

Not a lawyer but I've heard that child usually inherits from Father's category by default.

@mukil371

Жыл бұрын

@sathsyas kid definitely follow Hinduism, that's how it works.

@akankshshetty7710

Жыл бұрын

@@CometFire2010 exactly

@aditianupam9675

Жыл бұрын

Father's caste

what about the marriage certificate, actually iam planning to get court marriage and i am not informing my parents ,so iam sacred ,what if the marriage certificate is sent thorugh post directly to my home address

How long do you need to reside in a place to be able to apply for marriage there?

Me literally watching this video on the day of my wedding.😅

@nikusingh191

Жыл бұрын

May you get a Mullah

@blackshadow3508

Жыл бұрын

@@nikusingh191 Dude mocking others isn't a Hindu thing too, Humara Naam mat kharab kar yar tu apne Gusse me

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha 😂 congrats!!

I have lost all interest of getting married after this 😂😂

I am Indian planning to get marry to Filipino, Is it necessary for the girl to be physically present to give notice of marriage and then stay for 30 days here before marriage. I m confused because delhi govt website says, only 1 party is required for 30 days which can be me, so is my gf also require to be here for notice of marriage? plss help thanks

Congratulation sister.....👍✨✨✨ 🎉😊👏😁👏😃🎉 Congratulations!

Live in together 🙌

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Haha to each his own 😄😄

@Binu_Ramachandran

Жыл бұрын

on their personality and confidence on their relationship 👐

❤️🤌 I love the way you just shared the whole experience like a true bestie in such a great manner ❤️

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🤗🤗

The 14 year olds watching this 👁👄👁

@ankitadhar3501

2 ай бұрын

Still a good thing ...atleast they are learning something which may help in their future ...or just a general knowledge

I am married why I watch entire video just because you're simply explained

Hi Satshya, a holistic video on the entire process. It was really informative. Thanks. I have a query! Could you please let me know how to book slots to give the notice (1st appointment)? I am planning for a marriage under the Special Marriage Act and I was told by the SDM Office in New Delhi that it is automatically a system generated date after we submit our application on the e-District Delhi government website.

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Hi hi! From what I remember we went to the SDM office for the 1st time 1-2 days after submitting the application online. I don’t think you need a slot to go apply for the marriage registration but best to go within 3-4 days of submitting online application

@sudhanshukandpal

9 ай бұрын

Hi Satshya, thanks for the information. The website allows to choose the slot of any day within 10 days of submission of application.

Mam my college female friend want to marry a pig which live in farm near to college is it possible?? Through court marriage? The girl is highly educated and woke liberal group...i m from dehli girl is from kerla studying in Delhi University political science student...how can I help her?

@samuels1212

Жыл бұрын

i think she'd be more happy without your help

@mathsreasoninglove3336

Жыл бұрын

@@samuels1212 her parents are against her

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@mathsreasoninglove3336 she is an adult, no other person owns her personal liberty apart from she herself as an individual. Not even her parents.

@abhijeetkumar2204

Жыл бұрын

@@gmaxi360 same apply on your sister?

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@abhijeetkumar2204 the Indian laws are applicable on all Indian citizens including my sister. No brother or father owns the civil rights of the adult women of his family. These are factual statements.

After watching this video i feel the traditional wedding is easier😂 anyway congratulations

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

But that isn't the option for couples of different faiths where they wish to retain their original religion post wedding as well

@shiprajoshi2618

Жыл бұрын

Yes the best!

@mathsreasoninglove3336

Жыл бұрын

@@gmaxi360 you are right Nagaraju of hydrabad lost his life because of that

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@mathsreasoninglove3336 you are right, and he wasn't the only one who lsot his life to the patriarchy of society which perceives its honor to be limited to the womb of women of that particular society. And when i say society I mean caste based society or religion based society. Whether it was nagaraju, or it was arbaz mulla of belagavi, karnataka who was beheaded on railway tracks. They were victims of honor killings, just like thousands of such caste based killings that happen every year in cases of inter caste marriages. Ultimately it is the role of the society to read Indian laws and come out of caveman era mentality

@NArchean

Жыл бұрын

This is more easier, you just need an experienced and good lawyer.

Very very congratulations mama ❤🎉.. Maine bhi socha tha special marriage act ka use krunga lekin usko mana nhi paya 😅😔... Aapki marriage video dekh ke acha lga bhot ❤

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Hey! Thank you for this video. Do you or anyone know if the partner is from another state, can the SDM office visit be done by one single partner who is living in that state?

@SatshyaTharien

3 ай бұрын

You need both because your photo & fingerprints will be taken at the SDM office during the first visit

Hello, Really nice video and useful content for Court Marriage procedure. We are about to do our Court Marriage with Special Marriage Act 1984 in Delhi, but little curious about getting the exact format for Affidavit which you guys submitted to SDM. possible to share the affidavit photo by hiding your personal details over email or some place else ? Thanks

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

Wat is religion of wife

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hi, I believe I have shared the format of the affidavit in the video. In any case, all SDM office notice boards have a sample format of the affidavits as well

I wish every Indian parent would be as positive as yours for court marriages. It would save a lot of hassle, money and pressure. ❤ thanks for the video about your experience

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Hello Satshya, 2 yrs back Allahabad HC made 30 day public notice as optional did the officers made it mandatory ?

@SatshyaTharien

7 ай бұрын

Oh idk about UP but in Delhi it was mandatory

Hi, I'm going to get married in June under special marriage act. But a family friend of my fiancee said they will get it done from their office. They told they have a process with which notice need not be given. Even though my family and her family is believing in that person, I personally don't believe as I think the notice period is mandatory. He also stated that even though I register on that date, I'll get the certificate only after a month. So, is there any chance that he is trying to cheat? (reason why he can cheat that I think is he might be too close to his religion and want to put our marriage into trouble somehow as it is inter religion)

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

Don't believe in religious people specially if that person is relative of the bride. Religious people view inter faith weddings as loss for their community. Try to go to lawyers who deal with such weddings. And even if the notice is circulated by extremist groups, if both sets of parents are agreeing to the wedding then no power on earth can stop you guys. Also if the parents are not agreeing, you still can get any of your friends as witness.

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

Hi! Congrats :) I would recommending doing any official paperwork related to your marriage yourself. Anyway you have to be physically present while submitting your application in person the first time anyway. There’s no issue with where it’s being filed (be it your fiancé’s place or yours) but if you feel strongly about it then you can get it filed from the place you stay at instead so you can be sure of what exactly is going on

After watching this video i have decided never to get married 😭

@jignavadher1586

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@arfatbagwan48

2 ай бұрын

😂

first of all, congratulations on getting married. 😃..... I was wondering if you knew the man who you stated who married a Muslim woman while being a hindu. that he spent 25k for the process by hiring the lawyer i too want the same lawyer😅

@rajendrabawa660

Жыл бұрын

Marrying Muslim isn't easy. Muslim have very different laws like Muslim girls can't marry non-muslim and blah blah things.

@moumitasantra9039

Жыл бұрын

@@rajendrabawa660 that's why you get married under special marraige act....even to be legally married under the hindu marriage act both parties have to be hindus....inter-faith marraiges cant take place under personal marraige laws n that's why the special marrage act came into existence

@GoudSabhab

Жыл бұрын

​@@moumitasantra9039 sister a girl or boy can marry any religion but Islam prohibits muslim girls especially to other religions girl's family members will consider girl is di*d but Islam allows other religion girls to marry muslim boys if girls get converted to Islam hypocrisy at its best

@moumitasantra9039

Жыл бұрын

@@GoudSabhab i am not talkinh about the cultural/spcietal aspect...i was just saying the marraige acts under which a hindu and muslim can get married without either one changing their religion....and whatever be the religion both the bride and groom needs to be of the same religion to be married under personal marraige act....and to get married under soecial marraige act you dont neccesarily need a lawyer....

@Allah_is_gay

10 ай бұрын

@@moumitasantra9039 is your spouse in USA Indian origin or a caucasian?

When we are applying through online In the place of Marriage date can we provide the date on which we need to get registered (which is after 2months) because we want to directly go and just register there is no rituals nothing (since elders are saying it as the auspicious day)

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

They will allow you to go any day to register, once the 30-day notice period is complete - so up to you, no prior booking needed :) but do note that there may be technical issues or officials may not be there so you may not necessarily be able to do it on the same date you’re looking at

Thanks for giving this all information

Polygamy is not allowed in india.?..says who?

@andy8357

Жыл бұрын

It's only allowed in Muslims marriage act.

@PhotonShower

Жыл бұрын

@@andy8357 no in hinduism also its dort of allowed .that is the police can not file a case unless the women complain.if they are ok everything is ok

@ez20mscool

Жыл бұрын

​@@PhotonShowerIt's like saying there is a law for rape, but if the victim is not complaining then it's allowed. What a logic bro. Now relate this logic to your Hindu marriage act allowing polygamy. Does it make sense now ?

@PhotonShower

Жыл бұрын

@@ez20mscool im talking about polygamy with consenting wives..have you heard about the legendary dancer raja reddy

@ez20mscool

Жыл бұрын

@@PhotonShower ohh you're soo missing the point. In your previous comment you said that in Hinduism it is allowed. But Hindu marriage act does not allow polygamy. If the wife does not complain then how would the authority know about it. If my house is burgled and if I don't file an FIR do you think police will come and help me ? So hence burglery is allowed in India if one do not complain.

Christianity says Jesus is the only way for salvation Islam says Shahada/kalma(azan,use for conversion to islam and core ideology) : la ilaha illallah muhammdur Rasulullah Meaning : There is no god worthy of worship except Allah and Muhammed is his slave and messenger This both statement are created to form a special category or tribe and thus are political..... Abrahamic religion are political ideology....... Islam is a Institution ..... Christianity is a Institution....but in Hindusim/Sanatan...you yourself are the Institution...that is you are Atman....and you should follow Dharma of your Atman.....

@tharabhai1794

Жыл бұрын

She isn't interested in conversion And don't spoil hindus image by acting like Muslims who dying for conversions Let these cheap dirty things remain with orthodox muslims and Jews ..... We humans can survive without religion Aur ha geeta padhne ke liye hindu hona jaruri nai hai

@truth0106

Жыл бұрын

@@tharabhai1794 pappu

While submitting the application online, there is no section to upload the affidavit in that case what is supposed to be done? After submitting the document online how many days does it take to receive the date to visit the court to sign/solemnized?

@SatshyaTharien

4 ай бұрын

Affidavit needs to be submitted in person to the District Magistrate. After submitting the online application I believe we went a day or two later to the DM’s office to do affidavit & document submission

Im a muslim and i married a Hindu girl through the Special Marriage Act of 1954. Its been 4 years.. Living happily along with my parents...

@blackshadow3508

Жыл бұрын

Were her parents cool w it?

@Aman-hm6cw

Жыл бұрын

G -hadi

@whatevertrends3627

Жыл бұрын

I dont have any problem with you marrying a hindu girl but bro muslims change their partners religion which very is cunning and selfish

@surabhimishra-xp8uw

Жыл бұрын

lol you must have converted her so plz sont mention hindu here

@indrijeetkumar8364

Жыл бұрын

Did you burn Quran and leave Islam before marrying her? Quran and Islam prohibit you.

As you said lynching or moral policing happens only when the girl is hindu, but in your case you're a victory to them .

@pratikshatiwari7011

Жыл бұрын

She didn't mentioned Hindu or anything. Also forceful mental manipulation after marriage is quite common

@mukil371

Жыл бұрын

@@pratikshatiwari7011 Lynching is very common when hindu girls goes or marry with non hindu men, but lynching or moral policing won't happen when the guy is hindu and the girl is non hindu.

@Kathakathan11

Жыл бұрын

@@mukil371 dude where are you, so ma y Hindu girls have married in south to Christian guys, in Goa and Konkan, I have seen many’s such marriages, forget about lynching, we have drinking competition bro. Atleast in fishing community.

@Kathakathan11

Жыл бұрын

@@mukil371 if lynching is so common, give me the numbers. 😂😂😂

@mukil371

Жыл бұрын

@@Kathakathan11 just look at Sathsya's hometown very recently moral policing happened, Hindus openly put banners about love jihad etcc. This is only because hindu girls marrying outside religion it won't happen if a hindu guy marries or love non hindu girls. You guys don't hide your hypocrite faces by saying we allow hindu girls to marry anyone of their choice, in reality it's not the case.

Literally this happens in every government office all over India if we go without a broker

Do the witnesses also need to come on the first day to sdm's office??

@SatshyaTharien

Жыл бұрын

No :) first day is just the two people who are applying to get married, because they take your photo so it can be added to the notice

This is not a hate comment. But I can never imagine a marriage like this. It's just gonna be dark and cold.

@shsi5246

Жыл бұрын

Just exposes your backwardness even though you think you are in the right direction in life

@yomamasohot6411

Жыл бұрын

"This is not a hate comment" proceeds to make a hate comment.

@josephramban9281

Жыл бұрын

It's alright bro. These are all opinions. There is no right or wrong. You have every right to hold your opinion.

@Rahulnagar-rz1rw

Жыл бұрын

Haa yrr shaadi insaan ki zindagi ka yaadgaar lamha hoti hai isse acche se karna chahiye rituals ki sath toh boht accha lagta hai

Islam and Christianity are religion (Abrahamic ) Hindusim is not a religion......it is Dharma....... we should understand and respect our roots.....it would be difficult for some people.....but it is the Truth.......we should all live and die for Bharat Mata....not for Allah and Jesus....hope you understand the importance of being Indian and not being from middle east culture/religion like Islam and Christianity......

@shsi5246

Жыл бұрын

Bharat Mata is just another imagination like abraham

@truth0106

Жыл бұрын

@@shsi5246 So does any Constitution.......but Sons of Bharta Mata has defended Bharat by giving their lives whereas Son/followers of Allah/Muhammed or Jesus have expanded their territories in the name of religion and killed so many people.......India should uphold its Indic Tradition but other people do in Jerusalem or in Europe is their problem...... we know what we did in past and what they did in past.....

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@truth0106 abe jaa na yaha se. Ye jagah tere jaiso ke liye nhi hai. Jaa dihaadi, jaa apne liye dinner ka roti kama jaake. Kyu bakaiti kr tha yaha

@truth0106

Жыл бұрын

@@gmaxi360 hogaya tera gandu Nikal ab

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

@@truth0106 mai to special marriage act ka awareness spread kr rha hu, mera nhi hua ab tak. Tu jaa kahi aur mai nhi jaa rha

Do they display ur details in both cities that the bride and groom are from on the notice board.

@SatshyaTharien

10 ай бұрын

Yes!

Since it's two days, which day is considered as the actual marriage day ? Like you gonna celebrate wedding anniversary and mention in other places on wedding date ? Is it on the first time we file the application or its after 30days that's considered as the marriage day ?

@SatshyaTharien

5 ай бұрын

The wedding date on your marriage certificate is the day you sign with your witnesses (i.e. the second day) - so that’s what we consider as our anniversary :)

I just wish you both a happy and a peaceful married life

Its impossible to pull two bulls with an unequal yoke. You both should have equal beliefs on something or someone that keeps you pursuing on for life. If you both have different beliefs, both will fall. And this marriage will fail.

@gmaxi360

Жыл бұрын

Abe jaa na yahase. Everyone is a human

@ra71.

Жыл бұрын

bitchless?

@mastkalandar3200

Жыл бұрын

How about both agree to be good humans and place humanity before anything else? So sorry your own marriage failed.

@Ben.Philip.Panicker

Жыл бұрын

@activa 125 okay that's true, but you can't trust humans, you need to put your faith on someone or something of higher power.

@tharabhai1794

Жыл бұрын

​@@mastkalandar3200best idea Become athiest

Hey Satshya..really felt happy after watching this video of yours. Really got a ray of hope to marry the man I love. I am a christian and my bf is south indian hindu. I saw u had 3 types of marriage- court marriage hindu wedding and christian wedding. Can u please share ur experience on how u convinced ur parents and church for Interfaith marriage as my parents are completely against our relationship. And how do you manage mixing both the religion and culture to avoid any conflicts☺☺

Do they ask you to perform any rituals? If both are hindu but belong to different state then also special marriage act is valid?

@SatshyaTharien

5 ай бұрын

No rituals (you’re free to do your own later on) but this is a legal process so no ritual is involved. And yes even if both belong to same religion but you want to do court marriage, it is possible 👍🏽