Everyone wants "more more more", but nobody is whipping out "THEIR" checkbook to cover the overage.🙄

@LLandS18

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly if you're not gonna help me pay for the dress shut your mouth and this is the dress I'm getting. I don't understand bringing a whole bunch of people to shop for a wedding dress. Especially they're going to act like these people did.

@mayarahman9995

2 жыл бұрын

Dress 2 that her mom picked???? She knew her budget and ignored it. Super disrespectful 🙄

@cleopatra658

2 жыл бұрын

Brides should go dress shopping without anyone else!

@Hamstergirl71

2 жыл бұрын

I’m taking my mom, sister and best friend but I will be making the final decision. I’m paying for the dress.

@b1k2q34

2 жыл бұрын

@@cleopatra658 I agree. It's weird to me. I'd rather let everyone just see my dress for the first time. Then they have nothing to compare it to or make me feel weird about.

I’m confused. I can’t imagine pulling a dress for my daughter that is twice her budget and then sitting there in silence as her heart breaks because she loves it but can’t afford it. It’s time to cough up the other half, Mom! Make it happen!

@zoe6353

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t even have a daughter yet, and I’d give away my entire life savings if it meant it she would feel her most beautiful for her big night!

@kitty62862

2 жыл бұрын

I’d pay for it, if I had to walk to work naked, for a year. I’d never break my daughter’s heart.

@sharonpaige1322

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like my mother over 30 years ago. SMH.

@bluemuffin8848

Жыл бұрын

@CCRider So?

@francescalegrand4520

Жыл бұрын

Mom really should cough up the extra $2000 !!!!!

Great mother, pick a dress for her daughter 2000 over budget and then not offer to pay the difference, really thoughtful and caring!!

@eileenmcdonald1599

2 жыл бұрын

Well the daughter was the idiot for spending money on a dress already then deciding she didnt like it. Maybe she should have just gotten married in hunting gear.

@iseesmith

2 жыл бұрын

@@eileenmcdonald1599 I get what you’re saying, but the reality was what it was. $2000 is plenty to spend for a nice dress. Choosing a dress that is double the budget is not helpful.

@mayaneyra1518

2 жыл бұрын

Selfish mother

@joanneevertz2295

2 жыл бұрын

@@eileenmcdonald1599 someone in the entourage is always picking dresses over budget then do not offer to help pay for it. I feel terrible for the bride when she lives the dress she can't afford.

@The_Moving_finger_writes

2 жыл бұрын

also why does she looks like a drug dealer 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If her mom isn't willing to pay the difference then I don't see why her opinion matters that much.

@MyPaperTiger

2 жыл бұрын

Not only did she have the gall to pick out a dress twice her budget and offer crickets... when the bride found a similar dress she specifically states she loves and is in her budget this witch has the guts to say it's not good enough...the absolute audacity, though...

@Varaidzo1

2 жыл бұрын

Or matters at all

@alexisvaldez8885

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly I don’t see her mom saying she’s gunna cough up the other 2K or anybody else .. like just shut up and smile lol

@moonbear5929

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. The fancier the dress, the more it's going to cost!

@eileenmcdonald1599

2 жыл бұрын

Daughter had no idea what she wanted

what the heck her mother was thinking when made her try a dress double the bride's budget without offering to pay the extra money.

@legzfalloffgirl5148

2 жыл бұрын

No kidding!! Why didn't they chip in?

@noreenclarke2809

2 жыл бұрын

Mom is a jerk

@dalemills7926

2 жыл бұрын

I know , right? Her mom was So WAY OUT OF LINE..no one saw her get her checkbook out or say anything...so unclassy

@kaelinb2438

2 жыл бұрын

Right? The least she could’ve done was offered to help pay

@bunnyslippers191

2 жыл бұрын

@@legzfalloffgirl5148 There are 6 people in that room telling the bride to buy that dress that's twice her budget. If they each chipped in $334 that would cover the cost of the dress. Whatever happened to "put your money where your mouth is?"

The way she said "it's within my budget" to her mom in the last dress made me sad 😢

@vl9763

2 жыл бұрын

I know I was hoping they'd drop the price for her but idk I was disappointed. In my head I'm thinking, "why can't they drop the price and give her a chance like they do for some of the brides?" And then the mature side of me is saying, "well she can't always give dresses away for little to nothing." Lol

@bobbie3359

2 жыл бұрын

Heartbreaking 🥲

@Varaidzo1

2 жыл бұрын

@@vl9763 why drop the price when you can just find a dress in budget. Defeats the purpose of a dress having a set price if it can just easily be dropped

@roshieifra

2 жыл бұрын

@@vl9763 maybe it's the designer who can lower the price? And some are more willing than others...Just a guess. 🤷‍♀️

@cami5431

2 жыл бұрын

@@Varaidzo1 they drop the price for others all the time

If mom wants more bling, she can pay for it herself. That's so annoying.

@louiseparisotto3630

2 жыл бұрын

- I so agree with you! "I want, I want" is heard by everyone else.

@bonnie.f

2 жыл бұрын

@@louiseparisotto3630 Right?!? I want a lot of things. I also know that I have to pay for them.

@camillepelletier1975

2 жыл бұрын

And the dress she choose, didn't have any bling on it. 😒

@guadalupeestrada1708

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂 true..

@bunnyslippers191

2 жыл бұрын

@@camillepelletier1975 It has some bling in that sort of V shaped line on the bodice.

The daughter is more financially mature than the mother!

@catherineapioatim5728

2 жыл бұрын

So true and very mature in many levels,,, maybe learnt it from some male figure in the family,,,

@keenoled

2 жыл бұрын

@@catherineapioatim5728 Or learned it from watching her mother as a revolt, ha.

@bambi7563

2 жыл бұрын

@@catherineapioatim5728 why from a male figure? Women can be just as responsible 🙄

Shes so lucky they were able to get the dress in time like why would she not tell them the wedding was only 2 months away!! Thats very important info!!!

@josephinemiller4780

2 жыл бұрын

Normally they are asked that question. That’s on the consultant for not asking

@b_jean755

2 жыл бұрын

@@josephinemiller4780 True!

@hibaalhelal8751

2 жыл бұрын

Theres a video in say yes to the dress about a wife trying to find a wedding dress hours before the wedding

@angeliki5135

2 жыл бұрын

@@hibaalhelal8751 I need to see that video

@minioncop

2 жыл бұрын

@@angeliki5135 Yup, she was marrying off to a guy in the military. He was being deployed the next day. She had to get a dress she could leave with that same day. I'll see if I can find it

Honestly, if I were the one buying the dress, I'd go shopping by myself.

@marymiller8370

2 жыл бұрын

I did and I don’t regret it one bit

@kerrystone7375

2 жыл бұрын

Me too. Paid for my own dress and went by myself. Been married 24 years.

@garotadagavea

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@lindaliriel

2 жыл бұрын

I paid for my own dress and went with people who want me to be happy: my sister, my best friend and my MIL. My mum stayed at home.

@MsJubjubbird

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it's nice to have other opinions and voices of reason. But there is giving your opinion and then being a pain in the butt

Anyone who does this to a bride should pay 100% of the difference.

@mrst678

2 жыл бұрын

PREACH!!

@SparDanger

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100%

@molliwilson5639

2 жыл бұрын

TRUST!

@erenestawanjiru1935

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️😀😀 True 💯💯💯💯

This show in a nutshell: Entourage: “WE HATE THE DRESS” Consultant: *puts wedding veil on* Entourage: “It’s so beautiful! That’s the one!” *starts crying*

@oreotookie

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah. I don’t get it either.

@kitty62862

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve noticed that very often, adding the veil allows the entourage to really see how she’ll look on her wedding day. Some dresses are harder than others. Most of them look like red carpet dresses, till you put the veil on.

@thabsmkhize2481

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 No lies detected!

@bluu0010

2 жыл бұрын

Ah yes the show must be " say yes to the veil "

@alessaross3559

2 жыл бұрын

They didn't say hate, what are you watching?

So many couple break up over money issues. This bride is being responsible and sticking to her budget. Her mother is doing her- and her marriage- no favors by encouraging her to spend beyond her means.

@eileenmcdonald1599

2 жыл бұрын

If she was financially smart she would not have already bought a dress.

A mother AND a mother in law sitting there saying they want more bling but when the bride stood there, saying she can't afford it and NOT ONE OF THOSE SO CALLED MOTHERS offered to cover the rest, it broke my heart. If you're not paying for it. Keep your dumb opinions to yourself. Poor girl.

I feel like this appointment went wrong in so many ways. You shouldn’t bring family members that can’t respect your boundaries, Flo shouldn’t have let her put on the $4,000 dress (or at least tell her the price before she puts it on), and the first thing out of Liz’s mouth should have been that the wedding is in 2 months. I’m glad it all worked out though!

@s.b.7121

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. The only one that I can find an excuse for is Flo, though: I'm sure she tought that, since the mother picked the 4,000 $, she was also going to offer to pay for the difference ...

@LyricalXilence

2 жыл бұрын

I smell a rat. Usually they ask up front when the wedding is, I wonder if the mom was actually saying she will pay the difference but they cut it out.

@marthaarthur1364

Жыл бұрын

Consultant usually asks when the wedding is. All for camera again -so staged - so Lori could come in and “save the day”. Flo should’ve asked at time of introduction

I just love Flo.. she's funny and beautiful and kind and a great consultant 💕

@lucyburr5516

2 жыл бұрын

She’s my favorite

I hate it when people sulk but don't take out their wallets. If MOM loves it so much why is she not offering to help pay for the dress. It happens a lot in various episodes and sometimes someone does ask if they will help cough up, it helps to usually shut them down. I liked the episode where the bridesmaids all offered to chip in, wonder though if they really did.

@Durufle68

2 жыл бұрын

I bet they did - they seemed very genuine people

@Dedlyniteshade

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe because people should pay for there own shit

@shenquejames7598

2 жыл бұрын

Mom needs to chip in if she is pushing for a out of budget dress

@soozoo003

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dedlyniteshade maybe people shouldn’t push other people to get stuff out of their budget.

@saintshrooms9424

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dedlyniteshade damn so if I said the dress that was 5000 out of budget looks better on you would you get it then?

Lori always comes through for the brides that really touch her heart.

“I don’t think this dress is going to work for us” … uhm…not your wedding lady, and you aren’t wearing it. You had your wedding MOM and it’s not about YOU!

@vickicrisler6360

2 жыл бұрын

I had the exact same thoughts! NOT your wedding so keep your damn opinion to yourself! Oh, and stop chomping that wad of gum you have in your mouth. NOT cute!!!

@xxx-il9dv

3 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly. The mom is trying to relive her wedding through her daughtet.

Shopping for a wedding dress and you DON'T tell the sales people your wedding is in 7 weeks ?! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@IngridAlcazarOficial

2 жыл бұрын

Also the consultant should ask 🤦‍♀️

@JouJouOuiOui

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of inexperienced people don’t realise it’s not like shopping for regular dresses where there’s 2 in each size

@queerlibtardhippie9357

2 жыл бұрын

how many people know anything about formal dress shopping before their wedding... it's not the 1800s. we don't wear specially fitted ballgowns unless its for a special event. if you didn't want to go to prom or you're not rich, you arent just gonna go to these places

The second dress was on another level, hence the price tag. I felt for her with that mother. She looked so lovely in the last dress too and it's very similar.

I wish these family members and friends would remember the dress is for the bride to love, not for the family members and/or friends to love, especially if the bride is paying for it.

@seaglass22

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! "I don't think this dress is gonna work for uuuz..." You're all going to be wearing it? Jeez!

@minuitmaya

2 жыл бұрын

💯%

This consultant Flo remains my favourite. She is classy, knows the dresses.

@nillaskat1

Жыл бұрын

Mine too as well as the older lady I can't remember her name, of course the manager with the short hair is really good too

It is just ALWAYS bad news when someone suggests a dress over budget (2 x's as much - not like 10%!) w/o offering to pay the difference.

I love Flo. She is very calm and advocates for her client.

If a mom chooses a dress for her daughter to try on, she should be ready to pay for it if it’s over the budget.

Obviously hard to tell since I'm not seeing it in person, but I was very confused by their claims that dress 3 was not as "sparkly" as dress 2, dress 2 looked like a bunch of lace with a crystal belt whereas dress 3 looked way more sparkly to me since it had crystals all over the bodice and down the front. Also, drives me crazy when family is pulling dresses that are way over budget. That being said, I respect this young woman so much for sticking to her guns (pun intended) and budget.

This show cracks me up. A bride can put on a Hefty Bag of a dress and everyone hates it, but the minute the veil goes on everyone thinks its gorgeous. Those must be some magic veils!

@marthaarthur1364

Жыл бұрын

😂

Lori was so caring and helpful. And the bride is so sweet.

Mom wants a little more sparkle but doesn't offer up a little more $.

What a lovely bride I’m glad things worked out for her

I hope the mother reads all these comments and realizes how terrible she was

I love how Lori and all the women , of course Monty, pull together and help the bride. They are so patient and kind, when I think the family should be kicked to the curb, they rise above and help the family stay in tact. Inspiring!

Am I the only one who loved the first dress? It made her figure look amazing!

@pazza4555

2 жыл бұрын

And it was a little different from many dresses. Very nice.

it's funny how a THOUSANDS of dollars worth of dress can't be "seen" until they put on a few hundred dollars worth of ---veil!!! whatever would people do without THE veil????

@pazza4555

2 жыл бұрын

And the veils are usually made of inexpensive material no less

Why didn't the bride lead with 'my wedding is in 2 months'?

@oktoberfest1980

2 жыл бұрын

It's almost like the producers of this show are trying to create drama 😉

The consultant should have asked the wedding date up front so she could guide the family to dresses that can be bought off the rack.

@eileenmcdonald1599

2 жыл бұрын

Client should be the one to be upfront with that information. She was the the one that decided to get another dress.

@pazza4555

2 жыл бұрын

I smell reality TV staging at work.

Say Yes To The Veil 😂

@pazza4555

2 жыл бұрын

😅🤣😂👰

I think flo did a great job by not letting the bride down.

Her dress is so sparkly, I can't see why her Mum said it needed bling to make it special??

@MsJubjubbird

2 жыл бұрын

the first dress was stunning on her anyway and it had no bling. Less is more sometimes

And yet another episode of “Say Yes to the Veil”. Mind you that 3rd dress is absolutely gorgeous on her. Looks perfect. But Mum. If you want to push her to double her budget, you offer to pay the balance or you agree that it’s out of her budget & tell her she’ll find something even better!

Mom's so entitled yet she's not chipping in

When the client first comes in and the consultant asks them what kind of dress they want, when the lady says anything remotely similar to "I'm not real sure", it seems like such an easy response would be to break out a catalog or photo album and show them the line-up of dresses you have to offer. I would think that would be a much better starting point than just saying "well let's see what we have" and diving right in all along hoping the customer will find something that catches their eye. I've been in both retail and commissioned sales for some time and you have to at least make an effort to narrow it down or you could spend hours going through your entire inventory......not that there's anything wrong with spending hours going through your inventory but the more time you spend on one customer the less time you have to help additional customers, make additional sales, and earn additional commissions/bonuses.

@MsJubjubbird

2 жыл бұрын

perhaps they normally would. But this is a TV show and people looking through a catalogue is much less interesting TV than people trying on pretty dresses

I got married in 1980 and since I was paying I went shopping by myself. An Emperor cut and lace appliques , I loved it.

He proposed at Bass pro shop. That's a 50 50 mix of adorable and hilarious! I love it.

@tinkeramma

2 жыл бұрын

My husband proposed with a video game. I love proposals that are right for the couple but completely bonkers for everyone else.

The third dress and the bride all jacked up is perfect.

The Bride told Flo she could only afford $2,000.00 for her dress. Why did Flo have her try on a $4,000.00 wedding dress? This really ticks me off. Bridal Consultant's should work with the Bride's budget period.

@zombiechicken7114

2 жыл бұрын

It wasnt flo, it was mum pushing then not paying the difference!

I’ve tried to set my DVR to record this version of the show but nothing is in the future. When does it start back up? This is my favorite version of the show.

Almost every episode be like: Eww I don't like that dress, it ain't it🥱 *puts veil on and hair up* Omw, I love that dress😩❤❤

@cookiesradio1822

2 жыл бұрын

😄😄😄

@idas5231

2 жыл бұрын

Scripted Kita. (dink ek)

@SpiritDragoness

2 жыл бұрын

It is say yes to the veil.... there was an error in naming the show

@kitaswanepoel260

2 жыл бұрын

@@SpiritDragoness 😂

@bunsterj

2 жыл бұрын

Veils, little sparkly belts, and alterations can add so much to the cost of a dress.

The 1st dress was really pretty on her.

Who put her in a dress double her budget? 🤦‍♀️ I get that the fake tension is part of the show, but the sales lady whinging about the entourage not listening after she put the girl in that Situation is a bit ridiculous.

@goodlife459

2 жыл бұрын

I think her mom picked it out

@gaylahuckaby1

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe they should help pay or shut u p

I am so happy for this bride because that dress is gorgeous

The dress is so beautiful, she looks absolutely stunning, the second dress doesn't look the price and we've seen it on other brides as well.

The bride 👰‍♂️😍looks 😍so beautiful To the person reading this, even though I don't know you, I wish you all the best of what life has to offer you ❤

@lisablack9634

2 жыл бұрын

That is such a lovely thing to say to everyone. You must be a kind hearted good soul. The best to you🌹

@pazza4555

2 жыл бұрын

And you as well

If you see a dress and think/say out loud ‘She’s not gonna like it but I love it’ PUT👏IT👏BACK

For $2000 she could have customized her original gown.

@eileenmcdonald1599

2 жыл бұрын

Not on 7 weeks

" I don't really think this dress is going to work for us" well good thing it's not your wedding then Mom.

Aw the bride seems so sweet glad she found a dress she loves and stuck to what she wanted

I have never been this early to an Atlanta episode lori’s boutique is my favorite 🤩

@emmyblue30

2 жыл бұрын

Me either!

@Catiting33

2 жыл бұрын

Same here!!!

@monalisajena5795

2 жыл бұрын

Me too 🤗

So, nobody offered to pay for over budget dress, yet 5 people came with her to give opinions!!

I wouldn't take any advice from someone chewing gum in a bridal salon.

I Just love Flo, She has the best smile

Very sweet bride! Mom should have offered to pay the difference since she picked it! Glad the consultant solved the problem.

Sales personnel responsibility is to not only advice the Bride, but also to disclose the Price before dressing up the Bride ☮️ *Period* 😇

@SingingCrowie

2 жыл бұрын

Didn't she tell her the price? I think the bride still wanted to try it on because mum picked it.

The alway put the brides in this same dress! 😂 I keep seeing it on almost every episode

I have two daughters.. I can never imagine directing them into a dress other than what SHE loves…

What a sweet young woman.

So many relatives think the bride should make _them_ happy with her dress. I hear it in almost every episode. No! She should make *herself* happy because that's _her_ wedding, not theirs!

Mom there's such a thing as accessories for more bling like you want.

Note to unrealistic mother: If you're not contributing any money to the dress, then you have ZERO say. Respect your daughter's budget limitations and keep your mouth shut! I would never bring any one else with me to hunt down a wedding dress. I'll pick what I want within my financial limits and that's it. If you don't like it, don't come to the wedding. I wouldn't want you there anyway if that was your attitude. It's really that simple.

We hardly see brides funding their own dresses. Here we have one and one who knows where to draw a line. Bride 👏👏👏👏 that guy is one lucky man.

Mom says, "I don't think this one will work for us". Are they all wearing it?

You looked so beautiful!!! Great choice! Hope your wedding was as beautiful as you are!!!!! ❤❤❤❤

Sweet bride. Glad it worked out with the designer.

Wonderful choice. The mom should be thankful that her daughter is so responsible.

@eileenmcdonald1599

2 жыл бұрын

How is spending more money on another dress and not telling the staff from the start being responsible. ?

@megalopolis2015

2 жыл бұрын

@@eileenmcdonald1599 Are you just going to follow me around criticizing me, or are you going to go out there and enjoy your life? :0)

@eileenmcdonald1599

2 жыл бұрын

@@megalopolis2015 stop making stupid comments.

@megalopolis2015

2 жыл бұрын

@@eileenmcdonald1599 It's silly why this bothers you so much. Surely you have important things to stand your ground about. It's a new year. Do something that fulfills you.

Props to Flo - She is amazing 🌹

Some mother …ugh , how thoughtless , shame on her

What a awesome thing to see a young lady from my hometown of Eatonton Ga. I get the feel this bride is the Niece of Laura Rice and if I remember Laura’s husband is Mike. I know them from helping them clean up their remaining pieces of their house and the tornado tore it apart. Laura was a school teacher back then if my memory is right. Congratulations to the bride and groom.

Bride: my hobby is killing anything I can. 😳

Is the veil some sort of reverse cloak of invisibility ??

Completely beautiful gown she chose. I actually like it better than the first one she thought she loved. Happy for her.😊

The fact that none of them offered to help pay for that one dress that was over budget 😬😬😬😬

If her mom wants more bling and is going to grab a dress that is two times her budget, mom needs to pay the extra money.

When I shop for my wedding dress the one thing that I want to be sure about is only having one or two people with me. The many opinions and personalities would make me crazy. Those who want more could chip in and help pay for some.

So glad she found the dress she got... It was so awfully horrible of her mother to do that to her. I thought since it was over her budget her mother was going to say oh I'm going to pay the difference!!! When she said nothing my heart upset for that poor girl.

That Mom made me SO MAD about that $4k dress. Grrrrrr. Poor girl.

My husband and I are big hunters and we actually got married on opening day of hunting season in TX. We had camo coozies that said sorry to interrupt hunting season for this wedding.

@clairepalfreeman1426

2 жыл бұрын

Revolting!!! 😠😡🤬

@bossyjoyce3711

3 ай бұрын

@@clairepalfreeman1426 Until your cabinets are bare, no food at the grocery store and no $$$s to buy anything... then you'll be happy to have meat in the freezer!

@clairepalfreeman1426

3 ай бұрын

Wrong

I never saw a bride much less he entourage stand to greet the consultant ! You

@bossyjoyce3711

3 ай бұрын

It's a Southern hospitality/respect thing!

5:44 how all of them looked at the mom😂

I saw no difference between this and the other one she bought previously

Love Flow she is so serene ❤️

Dress was beautiful, perfect for her.

I'd just love to say to everyone how much I live Flo. Non specific to this episode. I just love her!

So happy for her😍

My Birthday is 5th June… good for celebrations. Congratulations on your wedding.

Family: 😡🤬😒😒😡😡 Employees: Put on veil Family: 🥰😘😘🤪😁😄

@bryysexy

2 жыл бұрын

Stop it 🤣🤣💀

Beautiful bride. Beautiful dress.

Love Flo but feel like there were slip ups in this episode on her part. Like putting dresses above the budget and checking if the dress order could be fulfilled. Imagine if they couldn’t make it in time and that poor girl would’ve had to say no to two dresses in a row that she loved

@jenettemerlini6035

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! she was off her game and almost caused 2 disasters!!

@Leona000

2 жыл бұрын

Made for TV drama

@bossyjoyce3711

3 ай бұрын

This is an edited version of the complete episode! You just get the highlights!

It’s interesting to hear people speak about how much they enjoyed killing. Plus I can’t believe these dirty bees she brought along with her being so critical yet coming up with no cash! The first dress was the best simple elegant and it looks gorgeous on her.

@kimmybee8741

2 жыл бұрын

I loved the first one. So flattering.

@BasicYTHandle

2 жыл бұрын

Sparkle and bling could have been added via jewelry - doesn't have to be ON the dress.

@laurenhiggs1477

2 жыл бұрын

Agree, I don’t understand hunting. So hurtful and unnecessary

@allisonjames2923

2 жыл бұрын

I loved the 3rd one, although they all looked gorgeous on her. And I think it’s really sad she loves killing so much she’s theming her wedding around it 😢

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

@@laurenhiggs1477 I agree and it is sad when you enjoy things like killing.

That last dress was be beautiful on her.