Counselors kindly note that people who don't understand your local language also watch this program

@sympleEminent6107

Жыл бұрын

Is better you don’t understand, even with the English they’re talking senseless 🤦‍♂️

This woman pastor chancellor need to be checked on because she is not clean with her responses chia am so shocked 😡

@Kuntukununku

Жыл бұрын

Charley dem for check am, how come dem dey see the guy wrong?

@enricbest723

Жыл бұрын

Yes I mean the two women facing each other... How can you leave the woman to blame the man over what he knew nothing about? They are probably cheating on their husbands

@Ak_pona

Жыл бұрын

The woman are even making me confused

The woman in red is lost to giving the right advice. Shocked they are all blaming the guy and to the extent of the pastor? Even if the guy made a mistake by not researching on the lady the Lady is in no good defense as long as she has been married for 3 years…oh

@morgannweke7771

Жыл бұрын

After all, you only want to know a lady better if you a considering a serious relationship.

Miss Nancy please keep that guy who analysed the issue better than the counsellor on the show always....

I simply don't understand why you will blame the man in this situation. This gentleman is a victim if anything, so why will you blame him for being deceived. Lets stop being hypocrites as women!!!

@Ms.Baidoo199

Жыл бұрын

He is definitely a victim. The lady lied, 80 percent of it is her fault. But we all know how fornication is a sin( that is if you are a Christian). Had he abstained from sex,he won't be found in this situation at all.. so we can't be obvious of his participation but yeaahhhh the lady didn't try

@conniverfrey8031

Жыл бұрын

Right. And saying he was destroying someone else's marriage is ridiculous. All accountability rests on the woman. It's weird how they're able to find ways to blame the guy and the husband, when the wife masterminded her way through all this with no remorse even at the end.

@damilareabidakun3582

Жыл бұрын

+❤❤❤❤😊

@christisgodd

Жыл бұрын

I blame him for telling people about the affair

@bismarkabittor5830

Жыл бұрын

Women will not and never accept they're wrong....they are wired to see lies as a defence mechanism...thank God you are awoken female @Achiaa

Am super surprised with the responses of the women counselors eeiii

@alphaemex4994

Жыл бұрын

These women counsellors are just stupid why are they foolishly taking side with the woman? It is disgusting

@Rimmrose

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@jenniferaboagyewaaowusu8832

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree from their view point what the woman did was OK and should be protected. Had she not been " a supposed pastor's wife" will they have said they same.?

i remember a taxi driver refused to return one of my pastors phone after he left it in his car. 10 years later, the same taxi driver walks into the church premises, requests to see the pastor and after some questions, he's allowed to see him. he fell on his knees as soon as he entered the office. to cut a long story short, this driver said his life had been a complete mess since he refused to return the phone. luckily for him, he met another man of God who told him his predicaments were as a result of the phone he refused to return. According to my pastor, he didn't even pray or utter any bad thing against the man ooo. that one was smartphone ooo so just imagine "doing" a pastor's wife. if he can find a way to apologise to the pastor, he should.

" Be careful what you tell your friend, he/she can became your adversary tomorrow."

Is there no counselor with sound mind in Ghana and why are people in the studio clapping to dumb views? I thought the man called in will even sound different and knowledgeable. The first person to blame in this case is the wife it doesn't matter whatever her reason is to do it. The guy is only wrong about telling someone who knew about the woman's marriage. It's a mutual relationship between the two mature adults. I don't understand why someone will have to blame the pastor for the wife's action. The guy didn't put the union asunder the married woman did by herself The guy in black shirt sounds more sensible than all the counselors. People were also asking dumb question. People in this studio are backwards. Even the street is ahead of these counselors.

Sincerely them for check this female counsellor, EIIII, fear Women ooo. She how she dey defend d pastor's wife. Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrh. HOW CAN YOU DEFEND THIS. AH.

Why are these counselors on the woman’s side😡

@mabeladdo

Жыл бұрын

Please help me ask again!

@ikeodeniyi

Жыл бұрын

The double standard is a shame, honestly 😢

Amazing host Miss Nancy. I love your show and your professionalism. Great show. Keep it up . Greetings from Canada 🇨🇦

@lartinewilliams2719

Жыл бұрын

Well him honest to come clean confessions is good for the soul

@lartinewilliams2719

Жыл бұрын

Some men did tje same things too

Some of you councilors give ridiculous summation. How could anyone blame the pastor' husband for his wife' insane promiscuity; I don't get it. A grown married woman cheats and her husband is blamed, how does that make any sense. All sort of in-the -window preposterous insinuations are given to justify a grown married woman' adultery. If she is not happy she should let the husband know or just truncate the marriage n move on without subjecting herself and her family to shame. Come on councilors or advisers, have the guts to speak the truth and stop pandering to women for such dispiccable act to help make the society a better place.

@pearlmckay7123

Жыл бұрын

Spot on. The man confessing owes no loyalty to anyone or the woman for that matter however the wife does to her husband. One could say he should have investigated fully and done his due diligence however the blame cannot be shifted on him.

@papaacob4856

Жыл бұрын

@@pearlmckay7123 Brilliant, Pearl. I respect you for being blatant honest in your summation; beauty and brain. BRILLIANT!!!

@thyword.3782

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, both of them were in for fun. If both of them were not in for marriage or lasting relationship, why should he bother to investigate the background of the lady?

@thyword.3782

Жыл бұрын

@@pearlmckay7123 why should he even bother to investigate? Their affair was not meant for marriage, the lady was not ready to introduce the guy to her family not friends. Mostly ladies take such initiative to introduce their new found boyfriend to their relatives if only they mean business with the guy. The guy did nothing wrong. If he was a bad guy, he wounldn have truncated their relationship. These counselors are not good. Pls dismiss them.

@pearlmckay7123

Жыл бұрын

@@thyword.3782 I agree with you 100%, the man in question is not at fault but he should have also made a bit of ‘effort’ in getting to know the lady better, her background etc marriage or no marriage to be on the safer side. Anaa I’m not making any sense ? For all you know this could have been planned and calculated from the woman’s side as soon she sat in that car but I guess the man just wanted to help innocently. Overall, I stand with you & the valid points raised 👍🏾

I think the man should go ahead and look for the pastor and ask for forgiveness. Maybe he has prayed certain prayers

The Second Lady huh she sounds so confused as hell. The woman should be held accountable, she was wrong and you can’t just go to people’s places without an invite🥴

why are the women talking as if the pastor's wife is some underage girl that the guy had to know her house. Doesn't she know she was married?

Confessions TV3, sometime ago, I made a point of disguising your 'confessors'. First, you stopped showing or blurring their body features. Now, you change their voices too. Great job! Thanks for listening.

I like the ''fall down flat on the floor ''😁

These two first ladies don't have a clue of what runs in a man's mind . The man was just enjoying a casual fling and that's all he cares about before he find out she was married . This woman knows she was married but wants an affair out if her marriage. She is so wrong

@michealugochukwu9052

Жыл бұрын

Great job i celebrate d of dis tv show anchor,pls i total disagree with d ladies u brought on d sho.if it was a guy dat played d role of dat woman d story would have been different.if a married man can deceive a lady for 2yrs not telling her his married irrespective of d discussion thy had don't forget wat a man can do a woman can do better.let's be sincere n make d world a better place for everyone

Women and accountability are just enemies.. I am not surprised with the first 2 women's response

@bendela5097

Жыл бұрын

i tell you bro

The second woman is really confused and doesn’t know what she’s talking about 😂

He eas enjoying the relationship and mpt really having plans for future

I believe a blame game is not what is necessary. Several variables are at work here and until we account for all of them, you cannot really make a sound pronouncement. Ladies are one secretive beings such that if she does not want u to find something out, you almost never can..... The guy perhaps asked probing questions but for all you know, the lady kept giving smart answers. The lady pastor could not control her edges and 'used' the guy to sort herself out. The real thing I would fault the guy is spilling the secret to someone who did not need to know; he could have done better. Make he just do some fasting and prayers and hope things turn around for him.

Please why are you guys not giving this young man a solution instead of constant blame of his errors. This guy that slept with a pastors wive needs a solution and you guys are not giving it. For his peace, he should pray to God for forgiveness and believe he is forgiven. Move on with his life. If he goes to that woman's husband, he may end up breaking that home.

I realy enjoyed the show it was very nice and educative wished to have been part tnx

These counselors are not qualified to handle any relationship issues.

@Ms.Baidoo199

Жыл бұрын

At all

It is also good to make background checks about someone before making any move

How wish I can do voice note to say my mind now

Pastor’s wife paaa Though they are human, they should be role models

Wht is the second lady saying? She doesn't blame the lady but the guy? Such nonsense

Most women in the studio I think they are more confused than the program 🤣🤣

@sympleEminent6107

Жыл бұрын

I swear

If the tables were turned, would the counselors have acted the same way they did? Let’s reverse the roles, I want to see their reaction towards that. If it was the lady who rather gave the man a lift and the man started showering her with gifts and picks her from office, and later found out the man is married, would they have reacted the same way they did and blame the woman for not digging deeper or they would just call the man a cheat and move on?

let us go back to investigate the reason why this pastor's wife gave herself away in this manner.

That's not counselling, counsellors should not judge because the man is in pain, comfort him for now scold him later.

You people are blaming everyone except the women in question. Why should it be the husband's or the gentleman's fault, and not the woman in question. Hypocrites!!

@thyword.3782

Жыл бұрын

They are not smart in what they claim to be counselors. The lady didn't want the guy to know the secrete. Boring listening to these so-called counselors.

@achiaa7321

Жыл бұрын

@@thyword.3782 it shocks me koraa, such bad counceling.

Really I am shocked how pastors are justifying cheating 😮and why are they blaming the pastor in this situation we don’t know what’s going in their marriage so let us not assume things here it can be that the lady is naturally promiscuous 🤷‍♀️The only part you can blame the guy is he didn’t make enquiries about the lady.

Interesting story

Married people who want affairs lie, and they’re very good at it. Meanwhile, men need to return to being more discerning when a woman offers herself on a silver platter…

What's the second counselor even talking about? For the fact that the panelists seem quite silent about how the pastor's wife could bring herself into such an abomination is more questionable

@juljaltv9489

Жыл бұрын

Yes True

@juljaltv9489

Жыл бұрын

The pastor’s wife was to blame for all not the man

@tjmusah6210

Жыл бұрын

The Counselors were not prepared for this show

@juljaltv9489

Жыл бұрын

@@tjmusah6210 not at all

@Ms.Baidoo199

Жыл бұрын

​@@tjmusah6210at all

At the End of this episode I only feel that it is normal to do what has been discussed. Honestly! Let’s check those who we call counselors please 🙏

@sympleEminent6107

Жыл бұрын

Very true

All this chancellors self hiss just imagine

These counsellors should be careful what they say. It's different if I make a mistake with my sense of reasoning but it's different when it's coming from a counsellor cos many people will listen and take what you say as a counsellor so you must as much as possible minimize how you misled or misjudge cos the implications are great cos you are a person a lot of people will listen to. Let's no be confused,the lady is at fault for 80% in this case.. let's not act as if the lady couldn't have lied even if they had serious conversations. She is married, she should not have tried going the extra mile to the extent she was. If she wanted to be nice,she could be that nice to her husband. We should not find excuses for her behaviour, irrespective of the reason behind it. For the guy, had you abstained from sex completely before marriage (that's if you are a Christian and we are all know fornication is bad), you won't have found yourself in this situation. So yeah, the man has to own his participation in what happened although he was lied to.. For the counsellors, they totally deviated from the topic,they just started speculations which could be so fault,now talking about what pastors do to their wives, NOOOOOOO. You do not do that,you are counselling a specific case so you stick to that. It looked like all counsellors were trying so hard to excuse the woman for her actions and making the man look like he is all at fault. Moving forward, I think maybe the counsellors should know the confessions before hand so they don't just come and talk on top of their head. They should have sometime to be able to seek counsel themselves if they need to cos we don't know it all. But it's risky if they bring a case you have shallow knowledge about,you will mislead people.

@mysticjen379

Жыл бұрын

Very well said.

@jenniferaboagyewaaowusu8832

Жыл бұрын

The "counsellors" were very myopic in their view and very disappoinyly so. How can you even try to make excuses for the woman who hid her true identity? Whatever conversations took or did not take place A. The woman was on the wrong and B. The woman was in the wrong. No one asked what faith the man was and if engaging in sex before marriage was wrong to him. All are assuming he is also "Christian".

Always I say if you don’t love someone or they’re not treating you right leave them before you can get into another relationship because she’s wrong and she has committed adultery and two mistakes don’t make right

@mysticjen379

Жыл бұрын

💯 I agree. It’s psychologically unhealthy to do anything else, in my opinion.

The lady pastor has given a shocking response. Zero accountability whatsoever.

Why are they so concerned about him telling his friend and also didn’t know her place of stay??? So in a nutshell, the woman is right. And she has reasons for cheating on her husband. I’m really pissed off with their submissions

@collinsafriyie8281

Жыл бұрын

Listen brother, Ghana is so so backwards and maybe I didn’t live in London from a young age, I would also have been like that. Focusing on him and not her nonsense lool I’m so annoyed lool

@collinsafriyie8281

Жыл бұрын

If**

I think there is another motivation being impacted onto viewer unknowingly (whether TV3 is conscious of it or not the Counselors are doing a different thing this days …. They are justifying people’s bad behavior instead of facing the facts and telling the truth from the Bible.)

@solomonwilliamarmah206

Жыл бұрын

Double standards, Women of today don't want to be accountable, they are blaming the man for this? yes, I agree he should have gotten to know her more.... but why are they justifying her immoral deeds. like how? SMH. COUNSELLORS!!!!!😂🤣

@jerrybyaboneka2457

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately the counsellor introduced vanacular in an all English program and non speakers of your language can't follow there after.

KZread for introduce voice note. I need to be at the studio

The mistake the guy did was telling his friend about what was going on between him and the lady. I don’t blame the guy for what he did, we should ask what was going on in the pastor wife house and marriage. The two ladies Counsellor don’t want to say the truth about what happened. Most marriages women are doing all these things and it’s very sad 😢

Seriously I didn’t like the comment those two ladies I don’t know if they’re married or not but you can’t blame the guy a leave the pastor’s wife

The counsellors are being judgemental and are wrongle accusing the pastor and the innocent gentleman.

They don't blame the woman? These women are a problem. Where is the critical thinking and logical thinking skills by these so-called counsellors?

The behavior of the woman in question shows that she had devilish intentions. The man can not be blamed for his moves towards the woman. There's a possibility that the husband was fully aware of what was happening and they both had a motive to achieve at the end of it.

@man-likemountain2480

Жыл бұрын

What kind of analogy is that? The guy is an idiot for disclosing the quite cool adventure

Why are the first 2 ladies blaming the guy? The guy didn't know that she was married so u should blame the lady

@papaacob4856

Жыл бұрын

You r absolutely right. I won't be surprised if those women on the panel do the same thing; cheat.

Hope you do not use same set of panelists for every show? Seeing your show for the first time. Good one.

I quite agree it's good to make a background research of anybody one is to befriend, but it's still impossible to discover everything about a person while people are is a haste to get a companion. Don't they say that love is blind? Desperate situations require desperate actions

Kwaku Adjei This is what I've been saying see they've been blaming the guy. But he was like why not let me help her out, you people will still preach about kindness but see how they are putting the blame on the guy. If I tell you I am single it will not come into mind that you sure you are single No. So, he felt something on what she was doing for her and probably he felt for it and thought wow this is my woman. Sorry to say but these counselors aren't true counselors. A counselor that put judge on his client. Nooooooooo they didn't do well. Saying this one is cheap and I'm going to chop her which i think was not his mindset. this people didn't do well they don't know how to talk. And what bore me is some of the audience. You asked if he asked to pass there before. Most of us in universities and SHS we've been dating for years and moths without knowing where each of us stay. Those two counselors (ladies) bore me pass. I even Angry if this how the show is then noooooooo they should look for quality and qualified not people assumed to be counselors

I won’t bother asking whether she’s married or not as long as I can see her anytime I want

He just needs to beg forgiveness and all will be well

The woman in orange said "you shush" and she's blaming the guy not the married woman. And she's a pastor????

Unfortunately the counsellor is speaking in vernacular language so we could flow with the show!!

I love the lady in blue

Take note, these are busy people and the woman knowing her status will always work ahead of the man whereas the ignorant man feels it is a process hence he continued to follow her lead

I don’t know why major people think from their nose? This guy coming to share his story means a lot. The person met here is not just an adult but also married, why can’t she be responsible for her actions

Amazing how you guys except Miss Nancy are trying to defend the pastor's wife and justifying adultery, . Whether the pastor has time for her or not Adultery is adultery. The only person to blame here is the pastor 's wife. Not the pastor, not the man who slept with her Before you marry a pastor , you should know what you are involving yourself into. She has no fear of God. The so called adviser is offside. The 3 ladies in front are wrong and able to commit adultery also, the way they are justifying it. God have mercy on us

It’s pertinent to remember that a simple call would have been sufficient to express gratitude for a good deed. A heartfelt thank you after she alighted his vehicle was also sufficient. Asking for a number, scheduling a date and making it frequent we’re all signs the woman wanted something more than just that first meeting. She set the ball rolling for these events and it could go any direction. Another consideration, must two adults have sex? I thought the Christian standard was to flee fornication and or adultery. Even if they were single, does it make it okay for them to have sex? I strongly object to that. They can wait till marriage before exploring each other. The same goes for all single young people. It sounds like those in the studio accept sex as being okay if they are not married and there are even pastors amongst them. Finally, having a sexually in responsive spouse is no guarantee to see “comfort” outside the marriage. Although her marital struggles are not established by the man’s side of things, I think it should be stated clearly during courtship how both parties were to handle and manage their sexual drive and affairs. 1 Corinthians 7: 1-10 tell us sex is part of the duty couples owe each other. In conclusion, two of them were wrong in someway, but I think the woman, had a better knowledge of her marital status came with an ulterior motive. The man in the other hand was enjoying a n almost free ride, no commitments, responsibility etc. It was just good for him and the less questions he asked, the better. But, he was wrong in defiling another child of God he wasn’t married to yet. Unfortunately, in society now, it’s okay, to God it’s wrong and a sin. If we all wait for the right time and kept all of God’s commandments including fornication, we would avoid lots of problems.

All the panels comments are really disgusting,you need to condemn the Pastor's wife rather blaming the man, the Pastor's wife should have known that she is someone's wife rather have herself up.She is wolf in sheep clothing.😅😅😅

These counselors, what are they made of.

KZread should create Voice Comments.

Why are they all trying to bash the man, and not bashing the woman who is married. I’m not gonna lie I do find the mindset back in Ghana so backwards kmt

He should have gone to see the husband and genuinely apologize to him

I can’t believe these ladies on the panel! One is a pastor,s wife?

I nearly did it with a married woman but was saved by a condom I wanted to use condom and she insist we do it without a condom and I said no that was how the game ended 😦🥺

@uplift56

Жыл бұрын

She was devilish - lucky you! I almost fell with a married lady too, by her throwing herself at me; but a phone call to her saved me 😅!!

@mysticjen379

Жыл бұрын

Well done!

The first guest judgement is wrong. How old was the boy when this happened? Does a teenager have reflexes to pursue the desire to know where pastor's wife lived after telling him that she lived in a place as a teenager you can't go?

You shouldn't have told anybody but just walk away . You casted

Had to stop watching this. Either these "counsellors" are out of their minds or something is terribly wrong with our society. The first two ladies that spoke side stepped the main issue and were simply clutching at straws. It's very shameful to think people still think like this.

Typical women. They will find a way to blame the guy instead of the Pastor’s wife. Some guys will meet someone without planning any future with her. In that case the guy will not bother much about her everything.

I can't even pay attention to the show,the hostess is gorgeous.

In truth, this Councillor is being unrealistic in not understanding that almost every man including himself who runs into a lady without a ring who holds back her marriage status wouldn’t go digging into such so long as the lady never disclosed such.

I’m really pissed 😡

He obviously might have been prevented or discouraged to pay her a visit

Why his voice not altered

The truth is this can happened to any man because the lady says he lives in the church and always come to meet with the guy during break time so the guy sees it like nothing serious also if a lady can leave the church to come meet you always so the lady must have told the guy this is the only way I can go out of the church so this chancellors are not doing their jobs for real and the only way I blame the guy is when you found out she was married ,He should have found a way to go meet with his husband and tell him everything since the lady refused to come see him and he shouldn’t have told that his photographer friend.So to me the deal has been done is 8 years now he should just move on go his knees pray to go or better still see a good man of god to pray for him and everything will be fine.Our god is not a god of confusion ❤❤

@Kaytupoint

Жыл бұрын

Pray to god sorry

@bbnd5620

Жыл бұрын

Marriage does not mean love

Eei some women are something

Ghanaians and our judgmental attitude 🤦‍♂.... Can't they simply provide help and support without judging and pointing fingers ??

@championsoftheworld9356

Жыл бұрын

They failed miserably to do that.

Questions 1. On the day the woman was under the rain, where was her Car? 2. Was she strategically positioned to meet a man? 3. What is making the woman even cheat 4. How can a guy date a woman for 8months without knowing about her 5. Is it possible that he was enjoying good sex without responsibility and lost his sense 6. Why expose the woman to someone who already knows her after been told she is a Pastors wife? 7. How old is the Man? Maybe too immatured to handle situations 8.Does he really have any reason to feel that guilty? He doesn't. He is just immatured and naive. Guy, brace up and move on. You failed. You need to take responsibility

Greetings from Europe, Miss Nancy. Please your conclusion with the man with native clothes top on high heir, including the slim tall black guy with the young street girl have said it All, The man beside you got it right with his last opinion he contributed.

The woman knew what she was doing, so stop blaming the guy. Becky

Miss Nancy please can we also call in

One question we men ask is.Are you sure someone is not going to beat you or not

Third party information is worst than terrorism

You have to respect yourself as a woman so it her fault. A guy asked me out then I told him I am engaged but still insisting but I have ignored him so the woman is at fault. Becky

So what paa could make a Pastor's wife engage in such an abomination. Eei! Some women! Tueh.

@gokueyrameyram9779

Жыл бұрын

There will tell you is the Evil doing ohh 😊 ladies hmmmm God for forgiven us out sin

Are you guys really serious? You are blaming the guy and the pastor. Why try to introduce your own set of facts ? Please elevate the quality of the program by bringing serious counselling.

GRoss

The mistake he did was to tell the friend. Becky

Where was the lady coming from that night. She began bringing lunch. Then she wanted to go into his house and she went. Seems very consistent to me.

I disagree with the 2 ladies. The pastor’s wife can be a manipulative person. She can manipulate him with emotions not to go to the church. 13:33

Why is the man been bashed? Could it be it was her character and only found out? Isn't it possible she was using her maiden name? She is a married woman and should not have continue to pursue a "friendship". Why is this lady pastor making it look like its the man's fault for speaking to his friend about it? I don't think it's immaturity but him acting out of hurt and been deceived. The counsellor is not been objective in addressing the issue. The lady have known in this modern day of dot come nothing stays a secret. Whether the guy confided in his friend or "confronted" the woman she should not have gone behind her husband. The seed of evil was brewing in the woman as from the story she pursued the man who willing accepted the free offer given.

They both were enjoying it without any strings attached so there was no need for the guy the dig up any info about the woman. That woman so called pastor's wife is an evil woman/wife men need to be very careful who they get married to. Is definitely not the first guy the woman has done it with. She will do it again with someone else.

The ladies spoke so well. The guy is foolish, yes the woman in whatever way enticed him, but why would he told another person there’s no excuse for that, he is childish and foolish, if he doesn’t want any more because he realizes she somebody’s wife. He should stop and not get her into a big mess, he is not mature