Confessions of a Binge-Eating, Wellness Influencer | Jamie Hess | TEDxWilmingtonSalon

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Ever struggle with emotional eating? The battle is more universal than we like to admit… and the shame we feel around it can be immense.
In her TEDxWilmingtonSalon talk, Jamie Hess describes she found herself stuck in a cycle of compulsive overeating after the birth of her first child. Her instinct was to hide and try to “fix it herself.” What followed was a downward spiral that felt eerily familiar… similar to the battle with drug addiction she had fought in her twenties. Jamie is a wellness lifestyle expert and the co-creator of @NYCfitfam. She and her husband were named “one of the seven fittest couples on Instagram” by Women’s Health magazine and they have been featured on Dr. Oz, The Daily Burn, Refinery29, The New York Post, The Observer, MindBodyGreen, and more. Their focus is on fitness, nutrition, wellness hacks, and conscious parenting. She brings two decades of experience as a PR professional and brand strategist, with clients including W Hotels Worldwide, LinkedIn, McDonald’s, Barry’s Boot Camp and more. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @emgee2267
    @emgee226710 ай бұрын

    Having been that helper who has walked with a compulsive overeater for the past six years, I would add a third point to the reason why someone doesn't ask for help - They don't want to give up their addiction. There's always some reason why they can't do it now, it's not the right time, they aren't strong enough, they need to take a break, work is so stressful, I don't understand, etc., etc., etc.

  • @NYCFITFAM

    @NYCFITFAM

    7 ай бұрын

    Powerful and important point.

  • @user-xg3uy6hq9g

    @user-xg3uy6hq9g

    6 ай бұрын

    fear. we need new behaviors to replace the addictive behavior. As Dr. Dean Ornish states, a smoker won't give us their 24 reliable friends in each box. What's that song about "I drink alone? ""me and my Buddy-weiser". .. Also as 'Muricans we believe in the myth of self reliance so we are hesitant to ask for herp.

  • @thePositiveMOM
    @thePositiveMOM Жыл бұрын

    "The gift of desperation." Wow! So powerful. Thank you for your vulnerability and message.

  • @marylandon3652
    @marylandon36524 ай бұрын

    Jamie, I'm just seeing this now, on New Year's Eve, the transition into 2024. Your talk is so inspiring and meaningful. You are so vulnerable and willing to speak about the hard things. That's not easy, so thank you for that. I teared up during your talk. I hope your talk gets seen by many more who struggle with food, as I have for years. This can help so many. I watch/read everything I can about addiction and disordered eating, hoping to find every nugget of wisdom, every strategy, every helpful comforting thought that just might get me on the right track. I have been "on track" at times, but went through some stressful times in the last few months which set me back into old ways. Thank you for saying what you've lived, so honestly.

  • @kevinhaselhorst
    @kevinhaselhorst Жыл бұрын

    Great talk, Jamie! Suppressing compulsive thoughts with accountable actions makes total sense.

  • @Yarona1
    @Yarona1 Жыл бұрын

    Way to go Jamie!! TL Speaker Coach here. You nailed it! I felt your message loud and clear.

  • @jessicadesouza4648
    @jessicadesouza4648 Жыл бұрын

    I love that your message,your mission and vision for health includes abundance freedom and happiness Not just control in your life

  • @kingnaz4278
    @kingnaz4278 Жыл бұрын

    Powerful Presentation! Thank you! Raw Honesty + Accountability Partners = Success!

  • @amyrobbins661
    @amyrobbins661 Жыл бұрын

    Your vulnerability and honesty is so refreshing and the way you lay out how to make change is straightforward. Thanks for sharing this amazing message

  • @JoanLundenOfficial
    @JoanLundenOfficial Жыл бұрын

    You opened my eyes with this talk about the “secrets each of us hold”. Or as you so aptly put it “the secrets that hold on to us”. It is up to us to open up about these secrets and find a way to address them. Thank you for this.

  • @Recoveryisthenewblack
    @Recoveryisthenewblack Жыл бұрын

    What a POWERFUL message, my friend. These 3 simple steps are absolute GOLD! The Big Ask Method is an absolute game changer.

  • @bradleymoore7622
    @bradleymoore7622 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Jamie! What a fantastic talk! I appreciate you being vulnerable and letting us share in the wisdoms you have together!

  • @theaddictempath
    @theaddictempath Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jamie for your message. So much of my story lies in yours as well. Conquering Bulimia and various Addictions. Daily Accountability is so important, and I find that I am still very Susceptible at times to my compulsive thought processing. Thank you for bringing relatability to the struggle so many of us face.

  • @christopherbruce6247
    @christopherbruce6247 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story, perspective and insight! The world needs this!

  • @amyporterfield5525
    @amyporterfield5525 Жыл бұрын

    The honesty here was so appreciated - truly inspiring to watch!

  • @DiamondChanel1
    @DiamondChanel1 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this!! So inspiring and I was hooked in through the whole video. Good job Jamie!!

  • @eddieluisi3536
    @eddieluisi3536 Жыл бұрын

    One Team…One Dream! Love This & Love YOU! This must have been hard to do, but so very helpful to many. Blessings & Thank You!!!

  • @amythompson4813
    @amythompson48139 ай бұрын

    So overwhelmed with all the feelings! Thank you!

  • @christinaching9764
    @christinaching9764 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing.

  • @MeganQuail
    @MeganQuail Жыл бұрын

    Such an incredible message and thank you for normalizing feeling shame and needing help!

  • @robinbraysfitnessbarre9202
    @robinbraysfitnessbarre9202 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jamie. Amazing talk-chills!

  • @rscotevans4295
    @rscotevans4295 Жыл бұрын

    So powerful ~ Amazing !

  • @PerlowProductions
    @PerlowProductions Жыл бұрын

    POWERFUL and inspiring words Jamie! LOVE the action item. Scheduling that chat now.

  • @krisyoung6880
    @krisyoung6880 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! Great talk. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for inspiring so many.

  • @jrowlove7328
    @jrowlove7328 Жыл бұрын

    I can relate completely. Thank you.

  • @jenniferdrummond7994
    @jenniferdrummond7994 Жыл бұрын

    You are amazing! You did great with this!

  • @PATH2Thrive
    @PATH2Thrive Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your heart:)

  • @MeghanLinsey
    @MeghanLinsey Жыл бұрын

    Felt this 👏 thanks for sharing

  • @EastCoastKilo
    @EastCoastKilo3 ай бұрын

    That was actually incredibly relatable and helpful.

  • @anabelortiz1556
    @anabelortiz155611 ай бұрын

    FANTASTIC🎉🎉

  • @sinorysky
    @sinorysky Жыл бұрын

    Great 😊 ❤

  • @joyce7892
    @joyce78928 ай бұрын

    That was really helpful. I am ashamed about food and I get wrestled in the chocolate cookie aisle. 13:00 I like the idea of becoming the CEO of me. I'll have to figure out the biggest secret I am keeping....

  • @NYCFITFAM

    @NYCFITFAM

    7 ай бұрын

    You've got this!

  • @amyhall3617
    @amyhall3617Ай бұрын

    What if you dont have that person to ask for help from?

  • @JanicePreston-
    @JanicePreston-18 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤